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Speaker 1: It's the city and with Kate Lynki podcast.

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Speaker 2: But I want to talk about impatient dads. And I look,

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Speaker 2: I've had some great stories over the year with my

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Speaker 2: old man, but I think I'm encountering that now with

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Speaker 2: two teenage boys. But what about your dad's Were they impatient?

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Speaker 2: At times?

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Speaker 3: I just had the one dad but.

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Speaker 4: Although that is not true because I guess I had

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Speaker 4: there was another dad. Well, but he wasn't he.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he was my real dad, but he was

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Speaker 2: my adopted dad and foster dad. And you know, we

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Speaker 2: could be here all morning talking about this.

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Speaker 3: But my dad.

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Speaker 2: I think my dad's pretty patient, but he's one of

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Speaker 2: those he's very patient. He's very patient. He's very patient,

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Speaker 2: and then he is like a volcano. Can I This

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Speaker 2: is a very funny, funny video that was going around

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Speaker 2: of an Irish dad who decided there's an Irish song

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Speaker 2: that he wanted to learn on the guitar, and he

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Speaker 2: his son started filming him and he's later in life,

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Speaker 2: he would be in his sixties and unfortunately he just

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Speaker 2: couldn't get this one bit right. Ride on the guitar,

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Speaker 2: very impatient and unfortunately the it doesn't end too well.

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Speaker 2: Have a listen off film.

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Speaker 3: Fall back to.

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Speaker 5: Sean, you just broke your guitar.

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Speaker 2: I'll give it.

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Speaker 3: Who's going to this?

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Speaker 2: He goes. I mean imagine it, and not only if

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Speaker 2: he was your dad, but if he was your partner.

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Speaker 4: Just working out the real tough things in life.

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Speaker 2: With Carichie podcast.

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Speaker 4: Let's talk about social Media. I was in Campbell last

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Speaker 4: week with the Prime Minister. They announced that YouTube would

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Speaker 4: be added to the list of platforms that would come

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Speaker 4: under the Social Media Reform, which will kick into year

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Speaker 4: on the tenth of December. So many questions. The video

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Speaker 4: we posted from thirty six months the initial I have

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Speaker 4: to get kids off social media and that thirty six

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Speaker 4: crucial months between the age of thirteen and sixteen. One

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Speaker 4: video has had over two million views and the comments

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Speaker 4: you don't reckon. I've been beaten up online. But people

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Speaker 4: simply aren't understanding the purpose of what we're trying to achieve.

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Speaker 4: Now there's the big issue of the harm that social

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Speaker 4: media is doing to kids in those early teenage years,

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Speaker 4: and the other issue is your data privacy and what

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Speaker 4: you're actually sharing. So you know what's funny too, fits

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Speaker 4: I get all these calls from parents like Eddie Glenn

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Speaker 4: rang last night. I'm just on the way to tennis

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Speaker 4: with Jack. He wants to know why he can't sign

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Speaker 4: up to TikTok. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I had another friend over the weekend, Susie Goough. I'm

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Speaker 4: in the car with AlOH. He wants to know what's

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Speaker 4: wrong with YouTube and I have to explain it.

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Speaker 2: Well, it is and you know what, Like you've said,

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Speaker 2: it is when you're trying to explain to your children

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Speaker 2: about social media, they don't listen. This is the thing.

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Speaker 2: It's just something as simple as Unfortunately it's against the

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Speaker 2: law in Australia now that you can't join until you're

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Speaker 4: The amazing thing is too the people that think you're

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Speaker 4: going to need some sort of ID to prove your age,

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Speaker 4: so they think this is some sort of data collection

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Speaker 4: and scam. What we're saying is the platform will be

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Speaker 4: in charge of identifying those under sixteen or the fines

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Speaker 4: will apply, so you will not need to put data

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Speaker 4: in because you won't be able to register. That's how

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Speaker 4: it works. So for YouTube users as well, you can

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Speaker 4: use YouTube, you just can't sign up and be part

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Speaker 4: of YouTube. So you can't share your data. That's what

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Speaker 4: we're trying to avoid. So if you go onto YouTube

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Speaker 4: and you're fourteen years old, YouTube will still work exactly

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Speaker 4: the way YouTube's always worked. You can still watch it,

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Speaker 4: you just can't create an account. So if parents or

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Speaker 4: to watch for education purposes, it'll still work. It's going

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Speaker 4: to be okay. So these are the things people need

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Speaker 4: to understand what's interesting. And on the topic of bribing

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Speaker 4: your kids, one couple and are in Scotty. They've come out.

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Speaker 4: They've got three kids, Micah, Alana, and Josiah. They've said

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Speaker 2: So when does that start at the age of eighteen

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well you're right, because Josiah, who's the youngest one,

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Speaker 4: he's only thirteen. He'd get the biggest kick, wouldn't he

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Speaker 4: if he bought some blue chips around the age of thirteen.

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Speaker 4: By the time he's eighteen. Bang, you're flying. So it's

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Speaker 4: a great idea. But I would assume you'd be best

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Speaker 4: buying something solid now and letting it grow till they're

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Speaker 4: eighteen years of age. I mean, growing up, we had

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Speaker 4: deals running where if you didn't eat lollies, you got

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Speaker 2: By the end of the year, or you didn't you

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Speaker 4: That's true? And I never got paid on weekends, so

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Speaker 2: Believable. And now you've got forty eight thousand BHP shares,

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Speaker 2: which is unbelievable. And that was a good effort by you, and.

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Speaker 4: I deliberately wet my bed just to get that twenty

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Speaker 4: thirteen twenty four to ten. Do you bribe the kids?

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Speaker 4: What does it look like?

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Speaker 2: Nev's giving us a call from Mount Cola. Tell us

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Speaker 2: about your two teenagers?

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Speaker 5: Nev, Hey, you don't good. Yeah, I have two kids.

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Speaker 5: And then when my kids were a little bit younger,

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Speaker 5: I used to tell them that I would bring them

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Speaker 5: me because I love going to the footy. That's great.

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Speaker 4: You know if you just got to work out what

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Speaker 4: they're passionate about and then rewinded a bit, don't you exactly?

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Speaker 5: And that's what it's all a l just do something

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Speaker 4: Do you know what we've just introduced Because we're interested

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Speaker 4: in our house, We're interested in teamwork at the moment

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Speaker 4: because some individuals like Ted, Jack and Francesca don't like

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Speaker 4: to be team players at times nev. So now you

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Speaker 4: can earn team points which can be converted into Yochi dollars.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's great. Have you Have you learned anything as well, whip,

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Speaker 2: because we'd love for you to integrate it into work.

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Speaker 4: No, not at all, but I certainly find myself with

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: How many Yochi points, as Lisa rewarded you with. I've

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Speaker 4: Yoachi points for that. Tommy, Oh, it's a good way

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Speaker 4: to do it. A little bit of bribery. God mate,

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Speaker 4: do you know the other one we do? Francesca will

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Speaker 4: a window or the side of the cupboard and it's amazing.

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Speaker 2: Stop kicking here.

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Speaker 4: It's amazing what a little bit of chocolate could do.

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Speaker 4: Like any kid that's into here, you go, have a square.

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Speaker 4: There you go. Oh you got a bad you got

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Speaker 4: a bad head. Do you look at this? I have

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Speaker 4: a look at this, cabri It's not a doctor, but you.

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Speaker 2: Just got married and you're going through a divorce.

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Speaker 5: Here you go.

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Speaker 4: He's a little bit of chocolate, a little bit of

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Speaker 4: her glass and a half. This is the Fitty and

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Speaker 4: Whipper with Kate Richie podcast. What is the worst thing

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Speaker 4: You've been called by a kid? This has ended up

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Speaker 4: in the courts as a pretty serious side to this.

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Speaker 4: Christie was on an aeroplane with sitting next to a

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Speaker 4: Christie found herself in court because what happened was she

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Speaker 4: then decided to snatch the phone off the child and

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Speaker 4: push the child's head into the window of the aeroplane,

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Speaker 4: and they're off the Disneyland as well. So let's be happy, guys.

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Speaker 4: It's the happiest place on earth.

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Speaker 2: You can't do that.

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Speaker 5: Well.

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Speaker 4: The other thing she said was I suppose I overreacted

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Speaker 4: miss piggy. We should not call anyone miss peggy, miss

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Speaker 2: Piggle, you'd never say that to anyone. Come on, gosh,

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Speaker 2: So where were the parents? Parents were in the site?

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Speaker 4: be Grandpa peek. I get called grandpa pick a bit

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Speaker 4: Yes, do you know what I hate? There's a game

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Speaker 2: What who?

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Speaker 4: Who's justly?

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Speaker 5: And Google Hell.

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Speaker 4: Just slamming the poor big guy. Who's like, was your

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Speaker 4: email in high school? Do you know what it's like?

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Speaker 4: Do you know what it's like? You're that scene in

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Speaker 4: the movie where Leonardo DiCaprio's wrestling the bear on the

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Speaker 4: ground The Revenant. Yeah, I'm the mate. That's exactly what

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Speaker 2: Thirteen, twenty four ten. What are the kids call you that?

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Speaker 2: You're not happy with stephan Crow's ness?

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Speaker 3: For?

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Speaker 4: What have you got?

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Speaker 1: Steph? So similar to miss Piggy my brother and now

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Speaker 1: his kids call me Auntie hephanie, So he's Nick Pepper

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Speaker 5: It's not funny.

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Speaker 4: Now for anybody here that laughs, shame, shame on you,

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Speaker 4: Shame on you. Shame's laughing. I can see shame on you.

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Speaker 2: Ash Yeah, Steph, did your brother start? Did your did

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So since I was a kid, I've been hefany

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Speaker 1: and then now I'm Auntie he Steph.

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Speaker 4: Is it like my concern about getting the big guy

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Speaker 4: is that I'm not that big?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: Just does Hefanie warrant it? Is it the correct sort

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Speaker 4: of name or.

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Speaker 1: Is it I'm about fifty kilos?

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Speaker 5: He's not fair, you see what I mean?

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Speaker 4: No, everyone's a heifer.

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Speaker 2: If you're a hefer, we've got to change that. Thanks

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Speaker 2: for you, Koan Methani.

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Speaker 4: No no, no no no.

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Speaker 2: Since in Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast

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Speaker 2: walk great shows like this.

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Speaker 1: Download the Nova

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