1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Fitzi and Whipper podcast. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 2: It was hot in the couch on the mass couch 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 2: last night, the commitment ceremony, Dan and Sandy. Everyone's been 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 2: talking about this relationship and it was time for Dan 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: to make a decision. Did he want to stay or 6 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 2: did he want to leave? This is what happened. 7 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 3: So I think the best thing for me to do. 8 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: Is leave. 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: The beach in the ocean is calling me, and I 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: have to go home. 11 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: The beach in the ocean is calling a half man, 12 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 2: half dolphin. Well, one lady that I had to put 13 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 2: up with Dan for six weeks is Sandy, and she 14 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 2: joins us. 15 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 4: Now welcome Sandy, Hey dove, Good morning Sandy. 16 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 3: First things first, I think you're beautiful and I think 17 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 3: you did a great job on the show. 18 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 1: Oh thank you. 19 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 3: How is your relationship with your family. 20 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: Good since I came back? You know, my parents loved 21 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: me at the end of the day, and they thought 22 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: I wasn't in a good place for you know, things 23 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: are good now. I don't know what's happened by well, 24 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: otherwise everything is good, Sandy. 25 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 2: Can I I'm going to get real serious here, and 26 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 2: this is what really disappointed me after what you went 27 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 2: through for six weeks with that guy. I looked at 28 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: the experts and I went, well, hang on, hang on, wait, 29 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 2: you were the guy. You are the ones that paired 30 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 2: Sandy up with this guy. You come from a conservative 31 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 2: background with your culture as well, your parents didn't want 32 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 2: to be involved, and they hook you up with a 33 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 2: womanizer who's been married twice from the Gold Coast. Now 34 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 2: Mel Shilling, one of the experts then said this to 35 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 2: you at the end. 36 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 5: Of it, and we can appreciate the position you're in, 37 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 5: you know, within your family, your community, and I guess 38 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 5: how much is a stake for you coming into this 39 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 5: process and the three of us are so disappointed for you. 40 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 4: Do you know? 41 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: I don't know if I can believe any of that, Sandy, 42 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: because you'll think you were obviously not paired up with 43 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: the right person. 44 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: I mean saying that though when I first met Dan, 45 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: Dan showed me a very different side of Dan, so 46 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised if that's what they saw. I agree, like, 47 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,799 Speaker 1: when you meet Dan, you don't know, you know, when 48 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: you meet Hi, you're not going to think he's a 49 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: woman eyes and this and that, So I guess that's 50 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: what he presented to them as well, because. 51 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 3: He's an actor. You know what's interesting, Sandy to think now, 52 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 3: after everything that's happened, do you feel like you could 53 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 3: have predicted what's happened that he's now in a relationship 54 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 3: with the girl that had the big breasts at the wedding. 55 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: No, we'll got didn't see that coming. The more I 56 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 1: got to know Dan, and now what I know was Dan. Well, yes, 57 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: but yeah, back then it was. 58 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 3: Offensive how it was made out on the show that 59 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 3: basically in a hundred different ways he was trying to 60 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 3: say to you, you're lazy and you're a slob pretty much. 61 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really disappointing. He looked, Sandy, We're going to 62 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 2: be honest with you. We just got in contact with 63 00:02:55,800 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 2: Dan and for everyone listening, we're going to play next. 64 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 2: We got him. You wouldn't believe it, said he just 65 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 2: got back from the beach. But we asked him some 66 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 2: hard hitting questions and you're going to hear it all next. 67 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 2: But we did ask him if he regretted going on 68 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 2: the show, Sandy, and this is what he had to say. 69 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 6: Yeah, Hey, Lison, I think given the matching that Sandy 70 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 6: and I were. It wasn't the best. 71 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 3: It's not it's not fair. 72 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 2: He also so he regretted going on the show. Do 73 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 2: you regret going on the show? 74 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 4: Sandy? 75 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: No, I don't because I was authentic to myself. I 76 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: think Dan regrets it because he didn't get to portray 77 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: himself in the way he was hoping. He's been exposed, 78 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: you know, he's been exposed. Yeah, the mask came off. 79 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, if you go 80 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: there for the right reasons, you shouldn't have any regret. 81 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: You'll learned something, And I've learned something from the experience, 82 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: how to sniff it up someone like man a lot quicker. Yeah, 83 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: but yeah, I just yeah, I'm not surprised that he 84 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: regrets it. 85 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 3: Sandy, have you found love since? 86 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 6: No, not yet. 87 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: Now, how has the attention been? How have you found it, Sandy, 88 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 2: being on the show and just people recognizing you in 89 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 2: the streets, How have you. 90 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 4: Found that. 91 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 6: It's different? 92 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: I mean everyone's been really nice. The response has been great, 93 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: and you know, I love like when someone like I 94 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: could really relate to this and that or your story 95 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: and that feels good because that was you know, part 96 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: of it is trying to change things a little bit, 97 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 1: especially within my community and culture, and just making decisions 98 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: for this of putting yourself out there. 99 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: He also he wanted to leave you a message, Sandy, 100 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 2: do you want to hear this message from Dan? 101 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 6: Sure? 102 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 4: Okay? This is what he had to say. 103 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 6: Andy, I'm really sorry at the way that I showed 104 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 6: up at times inside the experiment. I shot up in 105 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 6: ways that we're out of character for me, in ways 106 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 6: that I'm very disappointed in. You know, we went through 107 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 6: quite a journey. We had some amazing times, and there 108 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 6: are times that I had treasure forever. I wish you 109 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 6: all the best. There's a guy out there that is 110 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 6: much much better suited to you than what I will 111 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 6: ever be. You're going to love that person. That person 112 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 6: is going to love you back, and unfortunately it just 113 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 6: wasn't me. 114 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 4: Is that hard to listen to? Sandy? 115 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: And he's great, It's true, I do do it. Someone 116 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 1: that loved him that I loved back. It was never 117 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: I don't think the issue was that we were Yeah, 118 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 1: sure we were mismatched, because it doesn't work like if 119 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: you're there for the wrong reasons. Of course we're mismatched, 120 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: but it's not even about that anymore. It's more, you know, 121 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 1: the way he showed up, the way he started to 122 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: treat me, all that sort of stuff. It doesn't take 123 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 1: away from that. 124 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 3: So, Sandy, what about that moment where he said, I 125 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 3: see you, I hear you, I feel you. 126 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 4: I reckon. 127 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:40,600 Speaker 6: I've had a lot of those quotes from Dan. 128 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 3: I reckon. Dan's a couple of self help causes of 129 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 3: your business. 130 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 2: Course, just quickly, and we need to ask him as well, Sandy, 131 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 2: I need to ask you this. He's currently seeing a 132 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: woman that was at your wedding, So did you ask 133 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 2: him questions about did you know who she was. 134 00:05:59,240 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 3: Here? 135 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: There was a lot of girls at the wedding, a 136 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: few of them he had told me about. They we're 137 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 1: all friends of you. 138 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 4: Yep. 139 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: To be honest, I didn't really remember Sam much like 140 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: I think back now, I'm like, oh yeah, I was 141 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: just I thought everyone was really friendly and nice watching 142 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: the wedding. I didn't realize half the comments that were 143 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: being said. But yeah, look more I'm knowing about Dan. 144 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: It's not surprising. 145 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 3: Yeah. 146 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 2: Okay, well Andy, you handled yourself so well, so we 147 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 2: appreciate your time. 148 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 4: I know it's hard for you but thank you so 149 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 4: much for coming on the show. 150 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: Thank you. 151 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 3: It was thanks Sandy. 152 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: And that chat that we have with Dan, we caught 153 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 2: him a bit off guard. But you need to hear this. 154 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 3: Well. We weren't meant to have his phone number, were we. 155 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 2: Because you know what, he is in a relationship at 156 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 2: the moment with a guest that was at his wedding. Yeah, 157 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 2: we needed to ask him about that. We're going to 158 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 2: play that chat that we had with Dan for you 159 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 2: next before we go. We just spoke to Sandy from Maths. 160 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 2: But we have come across Dan's number. Now Dan's not 161 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 2: doing any interviews, so do you get it? Tom I 162 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: can't say I know. 163 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 4: Tommy's to hang out with Dan quiet in the day, you. 164 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 3: Guys used to do beach runs so much ocean time. 165 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 3: We had a lot of six hour runs just all day, 166 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 3: a lot of June work out of the outdoor gym. 167 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 4: Let's see if you'll pick up do you anything to 168 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 4: be back from the beach. 169 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: Let's give him a call. 170 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: Hello, Dan, It's. 171 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,679 Speaker 4: Fitzy and Whipper from Nova made. How are you son? 172 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 4: Oh good dang, what a roller coasion and the beach? 173 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 4: Are you? 174 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 6: I actually just got back. 175 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 3: Oh, you've kicked off Monday early again, mate? 176 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 6: Well made I kick off every day that way? 177 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 4: Well, we saw that on the show. Dan, you go 178 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 4: out for six hours? 179 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 6: Mate? That was an absolute stitch up. I get up 180 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 6: early in the morning. I usually hit the beach and 181 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 6: I go for a bit of a run and a 182 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 6: bit of gym. Being in Sydney in the city, I 183 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 6: went for a run, went for a gym. There were 184 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 6: some days that I went to the beach. Dandy knew 185 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 6: about that. I've got text message exchanges between us both 186 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 6: that through that. I don't know why she was setting 187 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 6: me up and and lying and pretending that she didn't 188 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 6: know where I was. 189 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 2: We sure, Dan, let's be on it. Let's be on 190 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 2: a straight up. You were never into Sandy from the start, 191 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 2: were you? 192 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 6: Listen? Sandy and I absolutely had our differences, and they 193 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 6: were very much They very much started from the wedding. 194 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 2: Can I hold you up there, because when we talk 195 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 2: about the wedding, you're now seeing one of the wedding 196 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 2: guests that was at the wedding. 197 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 3: Dan, Sure, so, woman with the big breast, So how. 198 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 4: Did you know her? Dan? How did you know her? 199 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 6: Samantha Samantha and I were just friends, and we've been 200 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 6: friends for a couple of years now. 201 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 2: So did you You invited her to the wedding, right, 202 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 2: and then you went out with her when you finished 203 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 2: the experiment? 204 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 6: Well, the I left the experiment in September last year, 205 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 6: and Samantha and I got together for the very first 206 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 6: time mid January this year. So, you know, you tell me, 207 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 6: if you're dating someone for six weeks, how long should 208 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 6: you leave it before you move on to somebody else? 209 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,199 Speaker 3: Time is precious? Can I ask? Dan? Because the show 210 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 3: made you look like a bit of an animal. You 211 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 3: look a bit cruel towards Sandy, let's be honest, and 212 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 3: some of the looks at the table and all of 213 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 3: this sort of stuff, trying to work out whether there 214 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 3: was another side to Sandy because we saw some text 215 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 3: exchange where she was using a certain words see Your 216 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 3: Next Tuesday, which I found rather jarring. 217 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 6: I really don't want to speak still towards Sandy. You know, 218 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 6: I think the pressures of the experiment bring out the 219 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 6: best and the worst in people. And obviously there's an 220 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 6: edit that goes on as well that everyone speaks about. 221 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 6: You know, it's a bit odd though, when I'm staying 222 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 6: stuff like, you know, you're being abrasive, you're speaking over 223 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 6: the top of me, you're raising your voice, and that 224 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 6: we're not seeing any of that from Sandy or whatsoever. 225 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 6: So that looks very confusing from the audiences. All I 226 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 6: would say is use some common sense and join the 227 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 6: dot and you know you'll come to your own conclusion. 228 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 5: Dan. 229 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 2: I don't think you tried, though, mate, And I know 230 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 2: that they can edit these things up. 231 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 4: But if you're out some days, I know it's. 232 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 2: Not every day you're out for six hours, but you're out, 233 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:57,839 Speaker 2: you're out, going for a swim, going to the gym, 234 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 2: I can understand. But you know, perhaps you were talking 235 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 2: to other people, you weren't spending any time with Sandy 236 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 2: at all. 237 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 4: I feel like you were. 238 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 6: You can we just can I just correct the timeline 239 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 6: on that. If we have a look at the entire 240 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 6: six weeks that I was on the show, it was 241 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 6: that last week where that was brought up. For the 242 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 6: previous weeks beforehand, I was inside the experiment, inside the apartment. 243 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 6: I was there with Sandy doing all of the tasks 244 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 6: and that kind of thing. It was only when Sandy 245 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 6: came to me with a secret arrangement that She's like, 246 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 6: I'm not your person, Dad, You're not my person. I've 247 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 6: given up too much to be here. Let's just set 248 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 6: up a secret arrangement to get through to the end 249 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 6: because I've given up too much to be here. That 250 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 6: I agreed to that, and at that point in time, 251 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, cool, Well, in non filming times, I'm 252 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 6: going to do what Dan loves doing, bet, which is 253 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 6: go took at the exam, hang out in the outdoors 254 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 6: and that kind of thing. And that's the difference you were. 255 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 2: That's more than okay, you went out with the boys, 256 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 2: though you said that you were going to catch up 257 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 2: with someone else or with you with your kid, and then. 258 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 4: You're out there the butt the look, the butt dial. 259 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 2: We understand butt dial famous, But you know, Dan, I 260 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 2: think that you were paired. 261 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 4: And when when I. 262 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 2: See the experts, I get really upset because they said 263 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 2: to Sandy last night, we didn't want it to end 264 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 2: like this. 265 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, they put up a beautiful. 266 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 2: Conservative girl coming from a family who didn't want her 267 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 2: to go on the show, and she they've sam They've 268 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 2: set her up with a guy who's been married twice. 269 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: You make you're still living your single life, you love ladies, 270 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: you're a womanizer. It was never going to work. 271 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think there's a lot of responsibility that the 272 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 6: experts need to take in this as well. I think 273 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 6: it's not fair. It was a deliberate mismatch. I became 274 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 6: very I came to the experiment for the right reasons 275 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 6: until I worked out that where we'll mismatched for all 276 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 6: of the wrong reasons for drama and to entertainment. And 277 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 6: I think that was very, very disappointing, because Dan, you're 278 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 6: not for me, but particularly for Sandy, who had given 279 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 6: up so much and gone against her family and gone 280 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 6: against her community and put so much on the line. 281 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 6: And I think that was extremely unfair. 282 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 4: But Dan, this is what they do. 283 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 2: Though, Dan, you've seen the show for this is what 284 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 2: I don't understand about maths. Contestants don't say that they've 285 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 2: made that mistake, because you must have known in the 286 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 2: back of your mind that they're going to do this 287 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 2: to you. 288 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 6: Mate, I don't watch TV. I don't watch it. I 289 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 6: actually got approached for the show. 290 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 4: Mate. 291 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,959 Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to speak to Sandy today on the show. 292 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: You one more opportunity but you probably haven't spoken of 293 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 2: us since the couch. But what what? What? 294 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 4: What do you want to say to Sandy? 295 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 6: I want to say to Sandy. Listen, I'm Sandy. I'm 296 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 6: really sorry at the way that I showed up at 297 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 6: times inside the experiment. It definitely I shot up in 298 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 6: ways that we're out of character for me, in ways 299 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 6: that I'm very disappointed in. You know, we went through 300 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 6: quite a journey. We had some amazing times, and there 301 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 6: are times that I treasure forever. I wish you all 302 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 6: the best. There's a guy out there that is much 303 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 6: much better suited to you than what I will ever be, 304 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 6: and you're going to love that person. That person is 305 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 6: going to love you back. And unfortunately it just wasn't me. 306 00:12:57,600 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 4: Do you regret going on the show? 307 00:12:59,120 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 2: Dan? 308 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 6: Uh? Yeah? Hey, listen, I think I'm given the matching 309 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 6: that Sandy and I where it wasn't the best. 310 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 3: It's not fair. It's not fair, not being stitched up, 311 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 3: being stitched up by the coaches, stitched up by the edit. 312 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 4: Just are you in love at the moment? 313 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 2: Dan? 314 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 6: I am in a really really great place. I have 315 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 6: an amazing relationship that I'm developing. 316 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 3: And have you said love where you're. 317 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 6: Getting getting getting along with our with our lives. 318 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well mate, we appreciate your time. Buddy, 319 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 2: thanks for coming on. 320 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 3: All right, thanks legendste that's pretty Will you work out 321 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 3: with him again tomorrow coming. I'm second guessing that ocean's calling. Yeah, 322 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 3: always is that on the the ocean calling. 323 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 2: I just the the excuse of I don't watch television. 324 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 2: There's a lot of people that do this when they 325 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 2: go on reality TV and say, I don't watch television, 326 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 2: so I don't know what the show is about. 327 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 4: Give me a break that when I don't. When you 328 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 4: auditioned for a show, you've got to do. 329 00:13:58,960 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 2: Some research, don't you. 330 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 3: Of course he knows what. 331 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: The show everybody, I mean, Maps has been an experiment 332 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 2: that everyone has spoken about for years and years about 333 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 2: these people ruining their lives. 334 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 3: You know, the type of character Dan is. I think 335 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 3: he has got exactly what he wanted out of this show. 336 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 3: Profile a girlfriend with big bosoms. 337 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 4: Oh no, no, but no he didn't. He didn't have 338 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 4: to go on the show to get that. 339 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 3: He did. 340 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 4: No, he did. 341 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 3: He did? Why because obviously he wasn't working for him 342 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 3: outside of the experiment. 343 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 2: Are you saying that girl wouldn't have gone out with 344 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 2: him unless he was on the show. 345 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 3: That's why she was on the show as well. That's 346 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 3: the kind of guy he is. Unfortunately, he needed to 347 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 3: left his profile to point that it was actually interesting 348 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 3: to go out with him without married. At first sight, 349 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 3: Dan would not have those big bosoms. 350 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 2: Do you know what, Tom, This show affects me a 351 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 2: lot more than I like you. Like you. 352 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 3: Let it get to you, don't you, mate? Really do 353 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 3: get I start yelling, you're deaf. 354 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 4: I had a good conversation with my wife last night. 355 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 2: I didn't go down to well well when I said 356 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 2: to her that I've auditioned for twenty twenty four. I said, 357 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 2: I need to go on there and shake things up. 358 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 2: I reckon, they'll give me a really good go. I reckon, 359 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 2: I'll look after me in the edit. And I reckon, 360 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 2: I might be the first person that goes on there 361 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 2: and finds luck. 362 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 3: You'd be the next Cammon Jewels. Foresure, good luck with him. 363 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 2: Man. 364 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:19,359 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Fitzi and Whipper podcast.