WEBVTT -  She started strength training at 70 – and changed millions of women's lives

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<v Speaker 1>Why is it so hard to get real answers about

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<v Speaker 2>Out the show notes for more.

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<v Speaker 1>In the work that I do, many of the ladies

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<v Speaker 1>that come to me are over sixty years old. You

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<v Speaker 1>know they're really focused on their health, but they're often

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<v Speaker 1>also carrying some significant health challenges as well. For many,

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<v Speaker 1>changing their exercise and then nutrition habits can feel really hard.

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<v Speaker 1>It can feel really daunting and there's no super clear

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<v Speaker 1>path for them to follow. So many often say to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's too late. I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 1>stick with my weekly walks. You know I am too

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<v Speaker 1>And then they insert issue here, I am too old,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm too injured, I'm too nervous, I'm not interested, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>too confused to try new things like strength training, for example.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was about this time, after getting quite a

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<v Speaker 1>few of these repeated patterns of ladies coming to me,

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<v Speaker 1>that I stumbled upon an Instagram page the most inspiring

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<v Speaker 1>woman who started her health journey not when she was sixty,

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<v Speaker 1>but when she was seventy, and she completely turned her

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<v Speaker 1>life for She is so inspiring that since then, in

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much all of the workshops that I run and

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<v Speaker 1>all of the ladies that I meet and work with,

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<v Speaker 1>I always say to them, you have to follow the

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram page.

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<v Speaker 2>Train with Joan.

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<v Speaker 1>You have got to get in Joan's community, because if

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<v Speaker 1>she can do it, you can too. This is Healthy

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<v Speaker 1>Heir with Amelia Phillips, and today's episode is going to

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<v Speaker 1>challenge what you thought you knew about aging, strength and

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<v Speaker 1>what the human body is capable of.

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<v Speaker 2>Particularly later in life.

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<v Speaker 1>My guests today are Joan McDonald and her daughter Michelle McDonald,

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<v Speaker 1>the duo who created Train with Joan, a fitness platform

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<v Speaker 1>and inspiring Instagram page with over two point three million followers.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so inspiring.

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<v Speaker 1>All focused around helping women of all ages, but particularly

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<v Speaker 1>older women, fall in love with strength training and really

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<v Speaker 1>reimagine new versions of themselves. Joan has such an incredible story.

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<v Speaker 1>She began her health and fitness transformation at the age

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<v Speaker 1>of seventy after years of struggling with her weight, low energy,

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<v Speaker 1>declining mobility, and multiple medication.

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<v Speaker 2>Fast forward to.

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<v Speaker 1>Today and she has inspired millions of people around the

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<v Speaker 1>world by proving that it's never too late to build strength,

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<v Speaker 1>to reclaim your health, and to completely redefine what aging

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<v Speaker 1>looks like.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just love this.

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<v Speaker 1>So then we have the equally inspiring Michelle, Joon's daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>a women's fitness coach, a bodybuilder and transformation specialist who

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<v Speaker 1>has played a pivotal role in helping guide Jones's incredible

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<v Speaker 1>health journey. Michelle has spent years helping women strength, improved

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<v Speaker 1>body composition, and challenge the limiting beliefs around aging. So

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<v Speaker 1>together they have become one of the most inspiring mother

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<v Speaker 1>daughter voices in healthy aging and strength training worldwide. So

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<v Speaker 1>today we're talking about how we can take the leap

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<v Speaker 1>into not just strength training, but also to really reframe

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<v Speaker 1>this new season of life, to stop seeing aging as

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<v Speaker 1>a decline but rather see it as a possibility. So,

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<v Speaker 1>whether you're at a similar age to Joan, or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you have a loved one who is, today's episode is

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Joan, Michelle, welcome to Healthy Her.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much for invading us familiar.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks for having us.

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<v Speaker 2>I am so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>You can probably hear it in my voice as I

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<v Speaker 1>chatted through my intro, because you have so many fans

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<v Speaker 1>here in Australia.

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<v Speaker 2>Where are you both beaming in from today?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm San Miguel Violande in my sick.

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<v Speaker 1>Well done, Joe, and you're there to Michelle, Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we lived together.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I love it, lived to eat together, trade together.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could live with my mom as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually spent a week with her last week and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just so special. But look, Joan, take us

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<v Speaker 1>back to the moment everything changed. What was happening in

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<v Speaker 1>your life and your health around that age seventy, that

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<v Speaker 1>really made you decide something has to change.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I was what I always say is I was

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<v Speaker 5>sick and tired of being sick and tired. Yeah, my

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<v Speaker 5>health was not the best. I was on the medications.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't want to be on them. I had gone

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<v Speaker 5>to the doctor, and because my blood pressure was so wonky,

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<v Speaker 5>she wanted to upgrade them, like multiply the pills that.

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<v Speaker 3>I was taking.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyway, I said, no, I don't want more. I want

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<v Speaker 5>to get off. So what can we do? And anyway,

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<v Speaker 5>Michelle was coming, her and her husband were coming to

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<v Speaker 5>be with us before they moved down to Mexico, and

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<v Speaker 5>she saw the state I was in, huffing and puffing

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<v Speaker 5>up the stairs, and she just laid it on me.

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<v Speaker 3>It was very pivotal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what do you mean, laid it on Michelle? What

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<v Speaker 1>is laying it on me? Is this the like the

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<v Speaker 1>come to Jesus talk?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? It was. It was the come to Jesus talk.

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<v Speaker 4>It was I call it my Friday Friday.

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<v Speaker 6>Night lights coaching talk with my mother.

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<v Speaker 4>I gave her, I gave her the truth I liked.

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<v Speaker 6>I like to say it's kind of like like Tony Robbins,

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<v Speaker 6>I pulled on science brevity, humor, everything, almost faith, Christianity,

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<v Speaker 6>our relationship, everything I possibly could.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I was leaving and.

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<v Speaker 6>It really hit me that her health had really deteriorated,

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<v Speaker 6>and it was make or break, right, So I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean the health business. And Mom was two hundred pounds.

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<v Speaker 6>Waste was thirty nine inches. She's seventy You know that

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<v Speaker 6>a waste circumference for a female. She's five foot three.

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<v Speaker 6>Once we get above thirty four inches, now we escalate

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<v Speaker 6>into that higher risk category for increased morbidity. Right, And

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<v Speaker 6>I was leaving and be frank, my dad's passed away.

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<v Speaker 6>But they did not have this thriving relationship. They were

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<v Speaker 6>surviving together, but not thriving. But he loved candies and

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<v Speaker 6>chocolates and chips and all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Just the outcome looked really poor.

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<v Speaker 6>I had a transformation group starting, and I said, Mom,

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<v Speaker 6>I'll put you to this transformation group.

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<v Speaker 4>You know it works.

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<v Speaker 6>You know I'm great at what I do. It'll work

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<v Speaker 6>for you, but you've got to show up. And I

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<v Speaker 6>said literally, and we laughed about it. Now because she

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<v Speaker 6>was sick recently and I had to take care of

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<v Speaker 6>her in the hospital. But at the time, I said Listen,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not going to come to that nursing home and

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<v Speaker 6>change your diapers because you've let yourself deteriorate. Because the

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<v Speaker 6>version of you, the woman right in front of me

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<v Speaker 6>right now, she is still capable of changing the course

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<v Speaker 6>of her future.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, but you got to do it now.

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<v Speaker 6>And so it was really like, of course, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I would have helped her, but I can tell her that,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, you got to do this now because I

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<v Speaker 6>knew that the mom that I loved was not going

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<v Speaker 6>to be my mom. If I was going to a

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<v Speaker 6>nursing home to take care of her, she would be

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<v Speaker 6>so depressed, she would be so frustrated and angry, and

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<v Speaker 6>there'd be no going back by that time, right, it's

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<v Speaker 6>too far gone.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's with the speech. It was a tough ball.

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<v Speaker 6>And then I and then afterwards when she showed up

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<v Speaker 6>to to get in shape, I said to my husband,

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<v Speaker 6>because I already onboarded these gals, we were already started.

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<v Speaker 6>And Mom didn't even have a cell phone, like, she

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<v Speaker 6>didn't have a smartphone. So there's this enormous tech obstacle.

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<v Speaker 6>And I said, what have I done? I said, how

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<v Speaker 6>am I going to do it? How am I going

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<v Speaker 6>to do it, Like, there are the hurdles that you

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<v Speaker 6>can't even imagine, or maybe you can't. How do you

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<v Speaker 6>get a seventy year old to learn how to use

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<v Speaker 6>a smartphone?

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<v Speaker 4>Remember her passwords? Remember how to find the app?

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<v Speaker 6>Where I doing the coachry? How are we going to

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<v Speaker 6>do that piece while I'm in Mexico?

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<v Speaker 3>It was wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Joan thinking back to that moment and that very serious conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your initial reaction and feeling when your daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>who you loved so much and who clearly loves you

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<v Speaker 1>so much, is having such a confronting conversation Because for

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<v Speaker 1>some people, when there is that confrontation, for some people,

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<v Speaker 1>the natural reaction is to actually push back and say

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<v Speaker 1>stuff you.

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<v Speaker 2>But what was your reaction and feeling?

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, I told you I'll think about it, But it

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<v Speaker 5>didn't take much to think about it, because I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>if I don't do this now, then am I going

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<v Speaker 5>to be able to do it? Because I'd sooner take

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<v Speaker 5>her up on that challenge than end up. Like she

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<v Speaker 5>said the next morning, I was in the car before

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<v Speaker 5>she was. I just knew I had to I had

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<v Speaker 5>to try. It was a challenge to me to be

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<v Speaker 5>able to even try it because I had no tech

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<v Speaker 5>skills whatsoever, and we did not have a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>the stuff that we have now. It was on a PDF.

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<v Speaker 5>I had to print it out and do it that way.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a very difficult challenge, I'll tell you. And

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<v Speaker 5>I was just three months away from my seventy first

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<v Speaker 5>birthday when I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, talk me through the first six to twelve months, Joan,

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<v Speaker 1>your experience when I'm assuming you had to go into

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<v Speaker 1>a gym and pick up weights, is that what you

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<v Speaker 1>were doing initially? We took me through that first six

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<v Speaker 1>months and what that experience was like for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, Michelle JJ took me to my Jim. I had

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<v Speaker 5>a gym membership, but I wasn't using it the way

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<v Speaker 5>that I needed to be using it. And they saw

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<v Speaker 5>me do it, trying to do the exercises and like

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<v Speaker 5>I was doing it with everything, And I expect that

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<v Speaker 5>anyone that follows me will do it with intent as

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<v Speaker 5>well well, because you have to. You can't just fly

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<v Speaker 5>through it. It's hard, very hard for everyone, and you

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<v Speaker 5>can't be soft on yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>You's got to be hard on yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>And the first six months that was how long my

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<v Speaker 5>course was for I did so much changing and I

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<v Speaker 5>said to Michelle, I don't want to lose a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of weight.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to get skinny.

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<v Speaker 5>I want something on my body to fight with if

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<v Speaker 5>anything happens, you know, like you get sick or something.

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<v Speaker 5>You know how older people they get sick and then

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<v Speaker 5>they're already skinny and they're just fade awight to nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you realize that that it's not about

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<v Speaker 1>shrinking and getting skinnier, because that does lead to fraul.

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<v Speaker 2>To you, even with.

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<v Speaker 1>Your inexperienced and inexperience and lack of education, you recognize

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<v Speaker 1>that you wanted to feel strong.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fantastic.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I wanted to I wanted to see what Michelle

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<v Speaker 5>was seeing with her clients, like they were just so beautiful. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>the transformation following her protocol was amazing, and I wanted

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<v Speaker 5>that for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me, was Michelle with you every day in the

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<v Speaker 1>gym or once she'd kind of given you the beginnings

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<v Speaker 1>and taught you the basics movement patterns. Were you then

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<v Speaker 1>on your own or was she with you every single day?

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<v Speaker 5>No, we were thousands of miles apart because she was

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<v Speaker 5>moving to Mexico and I was still in Ontario, and

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<v Speaker 5>like I said, it was was PDFs and trying to

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<v Speaker 5>teach me something. Her invitation was come to Mexico for

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<v Speaker 5>a couple of weeks at least so we can get

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<v Speaker 5>you started. And that's what I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I went. I went to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 5>The heat was overwhelming for me because we were in

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<v Speaker 5>tou Loom and summertime tou loom is suffocating. It is,

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<v Speaker 5>but we got through it. We got through it.

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle, thinking about my beautiful listeners who are either in

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<v Speaker 1>Joan's situation and inexperienced and wanting to start, or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a loved one in your situation strongly encouraging. What's the

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<v Speaker 1>best approach when someone doesn't know the basic lifting patterns

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't have a Michelle as a daughter that

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<v Speaker 1>can initially teach them. What would your advice be for

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<v Speaker 1>getting started in strength training?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we do have an app Cultrain with Joan.

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<v Speaker 6>I would say do the app if your beginner, because

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<v Speaker 6>Joan demonstrates. I do some of the exercises too, but

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<v Speaker 6>it's predominantly my mom. She demonstrates everything, and of course

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<v Speaker 6>a culture. There are so many apps out there now

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<v Speaker 6>they're very affordable. I think having what I call a

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<v Speaker 6>performance criterion, so an actual example of how something should

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<v Speaker 6>be done that you're looking at with reference.

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<v Speaker 4>Most of us learn very visually, and then having a

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<v Speaker 4>plan to follow.

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<v Speaker 6>I do recommend, you know, I of course I'm going

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<v Speaker 6>to say just get started. Of course I'm going to

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<v Speaker 6>say start with walking. But it would be dishonest of

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<v Speaker 6>me to say that's how Mom achieved her results, and

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<v Speaker 6>it's not how Mom achieved her results. Joe followed the

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<v Speaker 6>protocols that a twenty year old would have to follow

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<v Speaker 6>to get in shape. She followed the protocols that a

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<v Speaker 6>thirty year old man would have to follow to get

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<v Speaker 6>in shape. When we say get in shape, we say

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<v Speaker 6>loose body, fat, gay muscle, game muscle. Beyond just getting

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<v Speaker 6>out of a chair or not using a walker, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>talking about gaining enough muscle to have true agency. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>Mom is helping us lift things out of the car,

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<v Speaker 6>heavy grocery bags, I don't know, probably twenty pounds each,

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<v Speaker 6>and she's walking up two flights of stairs.

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<v Speaker 4>So that and not huffing and puffing.

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<v Speaker 6>So that's what I mean by agency, like staying impactful,

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<v Speaker 6>able to contribute meaningfully, and she wants to go travel.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't have to worry that she's not going to

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<v Speaker 6>be able to take care of herself. If she falls down,

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<v Speaker 6>she's going to be able to push herself back up

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<v Speaker 6>again and lift her suitcase up, all of the things

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<v Speaker 6>that a forty or thirty year old like hopefully.

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<v Speaker 4>They take for granted.

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<v Speaker 6>So that's you know, like she had to do regular

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<v Speaker 6>resistance training and get stronger, you know, in a measurable way,

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<v Speaker 6>in a materially measurable way. So she started off with

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<v Speaker 6>doing I think there's a video of her doing these again.

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<v Speaker 6>She was two hundred pounds and she's in this big,

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<v Speaker 6>baggy black good Life t shirt and she's struggling.

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<v Speaker 4>She was really good at creating tension from the get go.

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<v Speaker 6>But if you zoom in and you look at the machine,

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<v Speaker 6>you can see that it's that one skinny little plate.

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<v Speaker 6>That's all she was able to do. And then in

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<v Speaker 6>five months she's lifting I think twenty pound dumbbells or whatever,

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<v Speaker 6>right like, and doubles are much harder than a machine.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I love about your Instagram page is

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<v Speaker 1>that you keep going back to old videos and images

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself, Joan, And so you can see this.

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<v Speaker 2>Change, you know, gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can see this woman in a seventies that

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<v Speaker 1>just looks like anybody's regular you know, mom or grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>And then this transformation where you've got guns of steel

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<v Speaker 1>and your waist has just gone. And I think, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's one thing to see a thirty year old transform

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<v Speaker 1>their health, but to see you do it and so visually.

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys put the videos together in such an

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<v Speaker 1>empowering way. Joan, how did that feel for you, Like

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<v Speaker 1>from the beginning stages when everything felt hard, unfamiliar, What

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<v Speaker 1>am I doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I doing this correctly? Is that weight?

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<v Speaker 1>It hurts all of that to then the glimmers of

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<v Speaker 1>results starting to show through. Talk me through the shift

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<v Speaker 1>from hard to when you go, oh, actually it's working.

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<v Speaker 2>And how that experience felt for you?

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<v Speaker 5>That actually worked within the first three months, because I

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<v Speaker 5>could see the difference in my clothing, like the measurements.

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<v Speaker 3>Michelle had us take measurements all the time. Every week.

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<v Speaker 3>We had to put a new photo.

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<v Speaker 5>In with our original photo, and you can see the

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<v Speaker 5>differences in the body shape. But seeing my clothes get

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<v Speaker 5>so baggy that I had to give them away and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm eating more than I did. I'm going it doesn't

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<v Speaker 5>make any sense, but it's working. So it's got to

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<v Speaker 5>be a good thing. Like whatever Michelle did, she fell

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<v Speaker 5>on something that or organized something that was really workable,

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<v Speaker 5>doable for anyone. If it can do it for me,

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<v Speaker 5>it can do it for anybody else. If you put

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<v Speaker 5>the intent in, you keep.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming back to that, which I think is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>is such an important point. What about nutritionally, Joan, what

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<v Speaker 1>were some of the biggest changes that you made to

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<v Speaker 1>your diet.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I had to stop snacking, which was kind of

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<v Speaker 5>hard for me. I actually had to have more protein

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<v Speaker 5>than what I was eating vegetables and fruit. I had

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<v Speaker 5>no real problem, but it was what it was was

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<v Speaker 5>I was made to eat it just like it, but

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<v Speaker 5>I've had to eat it. And sticking to that protein,

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<v Speaker 5>the proper carbs, the proper fats, good fats, made a

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<v Speaker 5>big difference.

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<v Speaker 3>And of course with the exercises.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was only doing like maybe ten to fifteen

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<v Speaker 5>minutes of cardio as a warm up when I was

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<v Speaker 5>doing my workouts.

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<v Speaker 2>What the rest was strength training?

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<v Speaker 5>The rest was strength training. Yeah, and it made a

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<v Speaker 5>big difference. At the beginning, I was doing five days

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<v Speaker 5>and I was doing one day.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like a yoga.

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<v Speaker 5>Yoga, Yeah, yoga movements. And when I started learning yoga,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going Anyone says anyone's doing yoga's a pansy is nuts.

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<v Speaker 5>They don't understand how much you use your body. It's

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<v Speaker 5>just amazing, like what they do, how they cantort their body.

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<v Speaker 3>And that wow, like it's not easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you notice an improvement in your flexibility and mobility

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<v Speaker 1>when you started doing yoga?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I'm not really as flexible as I would like

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<v Speaker 5>to be, but I think it's just the way my

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<v Speaker 5>body's built.

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<v Speaker 6>Says the woman who'd practiced for two weeks because my

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<v Speaker 6>other clients were doing a split challenge. And then she

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<v Speaker 6>surprises us in two weeks by dropping to the floor

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<v Speaker 6>in her bikini at seventy.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever eight at the time of day or so, in

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<v Speaker 4>a full splits and I'm like, what the heck. I

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<v Speaker 4>grabbed Mike. I'm like, we gotta get a camera.

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<v Speaker 6>We've got to get like this is insane that her

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<v Speaker 6>body's been able to be so responsive and get her

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<v Speaker 6>pliability back.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that amazing?

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<v Speaker 4>It is amazing. Well, you're a teacher as well, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was like, wow, this is.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Michelle, she was looking at that amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you get up now?

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<v Speaker 6>One of the backing because I think the food's so

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<v Speaker 6>important the coaching us.

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<v Speaker 1>Add it right, Yes, I wanted to ask you about

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<v Speaker 1>the food talk us through what you're thinking is behind

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<v Speaker 1>Joan's food choices.

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<v Speaker 6>Again, I come from a bodybuilding background, meaning that I

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<v Speaker 6>don't have special, magic secret protocols. These are very normal

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<v Speaker 6>protocols that almost anybody that's doing a physic competition follows. Right,

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<v Speaker 6>you eat multiple meals, so you have multiple protein dosings

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<v Speaker 6>if you want to be you know, technical, especially because

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<v Speaker 6>you want to get that loosing threshold per meal. And

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<v Speaker 6>then you know, I think a lot of times people

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<v Speaker 6>forget that women I have smaller bodies, and so we

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<v Speaker 6>want to make sure that each protein serving is going

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<v Speaker 6>to help give them that anabolic response, because even if

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<v Speaker 6>it's only helping like a small percentage, but you do

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<v Speaker 6>something like that consistently every day, multiple times a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that muscle protein synthesis triggering.

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<v Speaker 6>Exactly versus lipogenesis, which like we're really good at that,

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<v Speaker 6>but we want to get really good at creating muscle

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<v Speaker 6>issues So I think that the biggest change was for

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<v Speaker 6>most people is thinking about it at least that worked

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<v Speaker 6>with me or any of the like I said, like

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<v Speaker 6>a proper physique coach is shifting from you know, breakfast, lunch, dinner,

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<v Speaker 6>and snacks. And as we get older, what we really

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<v Speaker 6>see the pattern I call it the executive lifestyle. Right,

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<v Speaker 6>you skip breakfast or you have a coffee or something

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<v Speaker 6>like that, and then you have like a big lunch

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<v Speaker 6>at a big dinner and then maybe some late night snacking.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, it's kind of like this if.

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<v Speaker 6>That executives are doing all over the world. My dad

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<v Speaker 6>he'd never eat breakfast, but he'd have this big late

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<v Speaker 6>lunch with the guys and then a big dinner, and

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<v Speaker 6>he just packed on a lot of visceral body fat.

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<v Speaker 6>So for Mom and my clients, it's learning to think

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<v Speaker 6>of food as number one. Can this help me towards

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<v Speaker 6>Can these meals help me towards my goals versus just

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<v Speaker 6>eating sort of pleasure or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>Can this actually give this meal help me towards my goals?

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<v Speaker 4>Thinking of getting protein with every meal?

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<v Speaker 6>Right, So Mom mentioned that, so it start not we're

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<v Speaker 6>not obsessiment protein, but we're starting to think, gosh, like

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<v Speaker 6>am I getting any protein in that meal? Or is

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<v Speaker 6>it mostly fat or is it mostly carbs? Like where

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<v Speaker 6>is the protein coming from? SOS starting to think more

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<v Speaker 6>about like where's the protein coming from, making sure it's

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<v Speaker 6>in the meal. Mom talked about vegetables. So we're big

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<v Speaker 6>on the micro nutrients. We say, just eat the colors

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<v Speaker 6>of the rain and hit your twenty five grams of

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<v Speaker 6>fiber per meal. So I have my clients track their

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<v Speaker 6>fiber per meal. Or the worst case, if you're just

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<v Speaker 6>starting out, that's too much, think about some high fiber fruits.

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<v Speaker 4>Those are going to be your.

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<v Speaker 6>Grains, your legomes, your nuts and seeds, and some of

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<v Speaker 6>your legumes and fruits, especially in your seeded fruits.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, and I'm sure your clients know all about that.

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<v Speaker 6>So eat the others comes with the rebol get your

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<v Speaker 6>fiber in, and spread the protein out throat the day.

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<v Speaker 6>And so we're really reducing these you know ups, these

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<v Speaker 6>wild ups and down, these overfeeding and then you're going

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<v Speaker 6>high bocaloric like no calories for large.

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<v Speaker 4>Periods of time.

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<v Speaker 6>Then you're angry and you go and eat everything or

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<v Speaker 6>you have bowl of penis, and we're stepping away from that,

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<v Speaker 6>and we're starting to get very routine and very balanced

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<v Speaker 6>and very systematics. It's like James Clear atomic habits, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Michelle.

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<v Speaker 1>For someone listening to that wise advice, I can imagine

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<v Speaker 1>that the pushback might be, but when I eat multiple meals,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to over eat.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you help your.

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<v Speaker 1>Clients stick within their range? Are they tracking? Are they

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<v Speaker 1>you know, weighing their food and tracking their macros? How

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<v Speaker 1>do you work And I know you've got your bodybuilders,

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<v Speaker 1>which are a particular cohort, but then you also work

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<v Speaker 1>with lifestyle, with everyday people like us.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you help us keep that.

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<v Speaker 1>Caloric intake at an appropriate deficit when or not not

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<v Speaker 1>a deficit? Potentially when we live in such an abundant

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<v Speaker 1>lifestyle and world.

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<v Speaker 6>I think Number one, I'd like to say, they're they're

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<v Speaker 6>this initial friction as there is was learning anything new.

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<v Speaker 4>But when you're.

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<v Speaker 6>Why, it's stronger than that stubbornness or that friction.

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<v Speaker 4>You'll find a way, right, You'll find a way. I coach.

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<v Speaker 4>I love coaching on passion. I'm an educator, right.

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<v Speaker 6>I like to say at TWW that's what we call

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<v Speaker 6>the Wonder Woman where educators not dictators. So I don't

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<v Speaker 6>like when people say trust the process or I mean

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<v Speaker 6>we joke about it, right, But I'm like, no, I

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<v Speaker 6>want you to understand the process because I need you

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<v Speaker 6>to understand why we're doing stuff in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 4>We just teach you.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, if I get somebody that's never done it before,

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<v Speaker 6>which was my mom, which was all of my clients.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, people didn't do macros back then the way

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<v Speaker 6>they do now. For the first decade of my coaching,

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<v Speaker 6>I had to literally sit down with a client so

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<v Speaker 6>say Embelia said, oh my god, I love your results,

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<v Speaker 6>Can you please coach me? And I would do an

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<v Speaker 6>intake and sure enough, you've never really tracked before. Almost

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<v Speaker 6>everyone thinks they're eating twenty five hundred calories. Nobody that

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<v Speaker 6>I started with, it's eating twenty five hundred caties.

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<v Speaker 2>They're eating more, they're eating less.

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<v Speaker 4>Less on a day to day basis. I'll be honest.

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<v Speaker 6>Most people are at a magical like in my avatar,

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<v Speaker 6>which is the thirty five plus, it's like this magical

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<v Speaker 6>fifteen hundred. If the person's two hundred pounds, if the

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<v Speaker 6>person's one hundred pounds, they're all kind of around twelve

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<v Speaker 6>hundred and fifteen hundred cats wild and they've accumulated.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of body fat.

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<v Speaker 6>So we just sit down, we figure out their their macros.

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<v Speaker 6>I create a meal plan for them. I might do

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<v Speaker 6>a starter meal plan. In the old days, I'd say, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>what are your favorite four proteins, your favorite four vegetables,

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<v Speaker 6>your favorite But I would make this said, let's I'll.

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<v Speaker 4>Create a simple meal plan to get you started.

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<v Speaker 6>And then here's this app, and we use the app

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<v Speaker 6>called my macros and you can and we don't track.

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<v Speaker 4>We plan.

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<v Speaker 6>So if there's a word that for me is like

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<v Speaker 6>a trigger word, it's track because I talk about food

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<v Speaker 6>in financial terms and it's like, here's your budget, and

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<v Speaker 6>if you want to win at this game, you decide

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<v Speaker 6>what you want to spend your money on, and you

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<v Speaker 6>plan in advance.

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<v Speaker 4>You even plan.

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<v Speaker 6>I eat chocolate every day multiple times. I don't drink

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<v Speaker 6>a lot of alcohol, but I might have a glass

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<v Speaker 6>of champagne. I might do it, and I plan for

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<v Speaker 6>it so there's no surprises. Just like you would budget

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<v Speaker 6>and plan to go on a holiday or go have

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<v Speaker 6>a nice dinner. Right, you budget, you don't spend the

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<v Speaker 6>money and then track it afterwards to say that I

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<v Speaker 6>stay in the targets. And a lot of people do that,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm like, that's very stressful and it doesn't actually

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<v Speaker 6>help your body to be optimized.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'll add one last thing, Amelia.

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<v Speaker 6>I talk about the teeth a lot, right, So when

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<v Speaker 6>we put braces on, you can radically change someone's bridge.

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<v Speaker 6>You can change their teeth, how they fit together. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>you can put.

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<v Speaker 4>On elastics and bring the jaw for it.

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<v Speaker 6>There's so much that we can do, but it's very systematized.

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<v Speaker 6>We don't like crank the bands one day and then

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<v Speaker 6>then we reduce the tension the other day.

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<v Speaker 4>We very progressively and very strategically.

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<v Speaker 6>We you know, a good orthodonist they know what they're doing,

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<v Speaker 6>like how to change the bridge, when to put the

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<v Speaker 6>elastics on, in all of this, and a good coach

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<v Speaker 6>knows how to do that too, and then the client

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<v Speaker 6>follows through. They work with the collaborate with the coach,

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<v Speaker 6>and they work together to get.

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<v Speaker 4>An optimal result. You can do it.

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<v Speaker 6>On your own, but remember data is your friend. So

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<v Speaker 6>we want to stop guessing and like I think this

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<v Speaker 6>is what I had, and actually create your own meal

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<v Speaker 6>plan and follow that and get some consistent feedback. Is

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<v Speaker 6>this enough of a deficit? Is this enough protein or food?

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<v Speaker 6>Am I getting great workouts in?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 6>I hope that kind of helps with the food bit

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<v Speaker 6>and how we do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so interesting and especially having you know Joan as

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<v Speaker 1>such a public and real life success story. Joan, how

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<v Speaker 1>has building muscle and fitness and health. How has all

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<v Speaker 1>of this changed your life beyond just the physical transformation,

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<v Speaker 1>the clothes fitting better, maybe emotionally, mentally, socially, what's shifted

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<v Speaker 1>for you?

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<v Speaker 3>I would say just about everything, especially at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 5>I was really happy that everything came out the way

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<v Speaker 5>we were planning, you know, like working towards it. The

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<v Speaker 5>most weight came off at the beginning, and every year

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<v Speaker 5>after that my body seemed to change. And that's what

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<v Speaker 5>we want for our clients. Now that is for a

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<v Speaker 5>limited time. This is going to be part of your

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<v Speaker 5>lifestyle for the rest of your life. Be happy with

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<v Speaker 5>what you're doing, because if you're not happy with what

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<v Speaker 5>you're doing, you're going to stop for sure. And I

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<v Speaker 5>love the change, and I love the fact that I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't have to I was in maintenance for I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know how many years, Michelle five years, pretty much, and

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<v Speaker 5>I wasn't losing a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Of weight, but my body was changed.

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<v Speaker 5>And that is something that at the beginning, after the

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<v Speaker 5>first year and going if I can get this different

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<v Speaker 5>in one year, what am I going to look like

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<v Speaker 5>if I keep at it. So it was more like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, you're curious about what is potentially an outcome

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<v Speaker 5>or what is going to happen as we get along.

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<v Speaker 5>Even through all the things that have happened to me,

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<v Speaker 5>operations and accidents and all the rest of it, I

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<v Speaker 5>come back strong again a lot faster than I would

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<v Speaker 5>have ever done before. I probably would have succumbed to

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of the things that happened to me if

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<v Speaker 5>I hadn't been going through this transformation. It's just life

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<v Speaker 5>changing to be stronger as you get older.

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<v Speaker 1>If you think back to ten years ago and the

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<v Speaker 1>come to Jesus talk that Michelle had with you, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>had you done nothing and said thank you, I'll think

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and then done nothing and Michelle moved away,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just kept going, who would we be talking

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<v Speaker 1>to today?

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<v Speaker 3>Would be talking to me today? I know that you

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't have been Really that makes me.

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<v Speaker 2>That makes me really emotional. That's incredible.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, not the way I was going.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, Michelle, how does that make you? I'm literally cry.

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<v Speaker 6>That is so I don't think she would have made

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<v Speaker 6>it through COVID with her OBC. I don't, and she

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<v Speaker 6>has underlying lung issues. She had hypertension. Those are all

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<v Speaker 6>tied to severe increase likelihood of dying from complications with COVID, right,

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<v Speaker 6>so I don't think she would have.

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<v Speaker 1>Made it now, oh Jo, I mean the number of

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<v Speaker 1>daughters that would be listening to this, just wishing that

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<v Speaker 1>they could sprinkle the Michelle magic on their moms and

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<v Speaker 1>do that. What a difference a decade makes.

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<v Speaker 6>It's so hard, right like it's And I've had so

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<v Speaker 6>many gals come up to me and say, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, how do you do it?

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<v Speaker 3>My mom?

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<v Speaker 4>I wish we had that relationship. I wish I could.

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<v Speaker 4>Either they've lost their mom or they're going to lose

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<v Speaker 4>their mom.

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<v Speaker 6>It's often let them other daughters, and I have no

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<v Speaker 6>easy answer. You know, I was at the pinnacle of

0:32:14.560 --> 0:32:19.760
<v Speaker 6>my career as a coach, with almost a decade of

0:32:19.960 --> 0:32:23.440
<v Speaker 6>experience in a competitive field as well as feeling there's coaching.

0:32:23.480 --> 0:32:25.480
<v Speaker 6>You learn how to coach, right, which is not just

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<v Speaker 6>the broccoli and chicken, but how to get through and

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<v Speaker 6>have impact. And you know, and it's hard with family.

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<v Speaker 6>We all know that. But if anyone's listening now, I

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<v Speaker 6>think Mom said it out a couple of interviews.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, if your daughter is or son is trying.

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<v Speaker 6>To talk to you about taking care of your health,

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<v Speaker 6>listen to them. It is not the time to be stubborn.

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<v Speaker 6>You got to just listen and just try. And it's

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<v Speaker 6>you start where you are, but you will build from there.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's the key.

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<v Speaker 1>Mom.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you want to add anything to that, because I'd

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<v Speaker 4>love that to hit the people listening. You can change,

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 4>and we were not.

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<v Speaker 6>Able to change my father and he passed away and

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<v Speaker 6>he could have changed.

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<v Speaker 3>He could have, but he didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>So I had two people's hit family.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've got the same dynamic with my mom and dad.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, up until the age of about sixty, they

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<v Speaker 1>were the same. They looked they kind of behaved and

0:33:23.040 --> 0:33:25.880
<v Speaker 1>looked the same. And then when they divorced, and I

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<v Speaker 1>could not get through to my dad and he's still

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<v Speaker 1>with us, but he's eighty five, terrible quality of life,

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<v Speaker 1>type two diabetic, won't do any of the basic things.

0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:37.120
<v Speaker 1>And my mom's playing tennis twice a week, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>complete polar opposites.

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<v Speaker 3>I get two different sides of the coin.

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<v Speaker 5>I get some daughters who have and sons who have

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<v Speaker 5>been at their parents to better their life. And they've

0:33:50.440 --> 0:33:53.760
<v Speaker 5>accepted that challenge. And then I have others that will see.

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't matter what I do. They don't want.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, my mom does not wander, my dad doesn't want.

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<v Speaker 5>They just think through two old it's passed their time

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<v Speaker 5>and they don't want to be bothered blah blah blah

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 5>blah learning news stuff. Well, you have a choice, like

0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 5>Michelle's always been telling me, You've got two choices. You

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:12.719
<v Speaker 5>can either do something about it or ignore it and

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:16.479
<v Speaker 5>suffer the consequences. I chose to do something about it

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:20.680
<v Speaker 5>with her help, and my husband chose elseways, and he's

0:34:20.719 --> 0:34:23.399
<v Speaker 5>now gone. So if you can do it, and I've

0:34:23.440 --> 0:34:27.000
<v Speaker 5>seen they've shown me pictures of their parents when before

0:34:27.040 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 5>they started and after, and it's just soul.

0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 3>It just makes me cry every time I see something

0:34:33.239 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 3>like that. It's up to you. You're the only one.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not life changing. I mean, what you've gone through

0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:42.880
<v Speaker 1>is life saving. Yes, means so much to all the

0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:46.359
<v Speaker 1>loved ones around you. Michelle, you founded and now run

0:34:46.400 --> 0:34:49.839
<v Speaker 1>an online coaching business called The Wonder Women, and your

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:53.280
<v Speaker 1>mom has been one of your many amazing success stories.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's no surprise that you both then created the

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<v Speaker 1>app Train with Joan, and I imagine because so many

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:04.239
<v Speaker 1>people wanted the amazing results that Joan got with you. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>i'd love to know your thoughts on online coaching in

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<v Speaker 1>general for women and how women are marketed to the

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<v Speaker 1>pros and the cons.

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<v Speaker 3>Love for your thoughts, oh, Michell, I could fill you

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<v Speaker 3>and to.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you for that. I appreciate that Amelia a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm very mission driven and when I created The Wonder Woman,

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<v Speaker 6>it was because I had I've been coaching since twenty twelve.

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<v Speaker 6>I started The Wonder Woman actually during COVID in twenty

0:35:30.480 --> 0:35:33.520
<v Speaker 6>twenty because I had a huge line up. There was

0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:36.799
<v Speaker 6>nobody on my coaching and certainly not to who I

0:35:36.920 --> 0:35:39.440
<v Speaker 6>was coaching, which was you know, it was really a

0:35:39.480 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 6>thirty five plus because I was in my forties at

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:43.880
<v Speaker 6>the time and now there's a ton and me. You

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:49.720
<v Speaker 6>can't turn a corner without another online female menopause, you know, coach,

0:35:50.440 --> 0:35:53.600
<v Speaker 6>and as I said, offline coaching is a profession. I

0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:57.200
<v Speaker 6>take it seriously. I think the spar was really high

0:35:57.239 --> 0:36:00.040
<v Speaker 6>with my coaching brand. I'll admit I did try to

0:36:00.040 --> 0:36:03.759
<v Speaker 6>scale the coaches and get you know, a more significant

0:36:03.840 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 6>number of coaches, and I'm just the quality the standards

0:36:08.320 --> 0:36:11.000
<v Speaker 6>is too important to me, and it becomes too hard

0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:13.719
<v Speaker 6>to manage those standards as you start to scale. So

0:36:13.760 --> 0:36:16.759
<v Speaker 6>I have pulled back on that and this decided to

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 6>stay small. I've got five unbelievable coaches and I'm not

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:24.000
<v Speaker 6>in any rush to bring more onboard.

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<v Speaker 4>And the reason for that is because of the standards.

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<v Speaker 6>So I think anyone that is a great coach that

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<v Speaker 6>wants to create a coaching team, it's hard to scale.

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<v Speaker 6>So I would say, you know, looking for either an

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<v Speaker 6>individual coach who has a wide range of clients, different

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<v Speaker 6>body types, different ages, that have these very kind of

0:36:46.440 --> 0:36:49.760
<v Speaker 6>cookie cutter outcomes, not cookie cutter coaching, but their outcomes

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<v Speaker 6>are very like It's like.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, they have these the similar outcomes. They are building muscle,

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<v Speaker 4>they're getting.

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<v Speaker 6>Strong in all of these things, and that they've been

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<v Speaker 6>working with this coach for a long time.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So I like to say it's easy.

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<v Speaker 6>Anyone could lose body fat and gain a little bit

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<v Speaker 6>of muscle in the first six months.

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<v Speaker 4>But a sign of a great coach is somebody.

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<v Speaker 6>Who's had the same clients for a long time and

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<v Speaker 6>the client's continuing to make progress and they're evolving, so

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<v Speaker 6>and then you should be able to actually talk to

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<v Speaker 6>some clients, right, So I always tell my people like

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<v Speaker 6>if somebody has I'm so proud to tag my clients,

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<v Speaker 6>and they're proud for me to tag them.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, just be you know, be careful.

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<v Speaker 6>If a coach only has images with a you know,

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<v Speaker 6>no names, you can't contact the people.

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<v Speaker 4>They've got a circle over the face.

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<v Speaker 6>Social media and AI now it's forget about it, right,

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<v Speaker 6>everything's fake. Every so much is fake and it is

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<v Speaker 6>almost impossible to legislate against that. My mom's image is

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<v Speaker 6>used to sell all kinds of drugs and it is

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<v Speaker 6>like playing whack.

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<v Speaker 3>Them all serious.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, so it's just we're you just want to

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<v Speaker 4>be careful of that.

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<v Speaker 6>We've even got videos now of people that look like

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<v Speaker 6>a real transfer. It's so compelling. But you'll see like

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<v Speaker 6>this thing in the background that that's the tell right,

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<v Speaker 6>Like wait a minute, this person just like gained and

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<v Speaker 6>lost one hundred pounds, but there's like the same glass

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<v Speaker 6>in the background.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, it's AI generated.

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<v Speaker 6>It's very clever, and I know don't want to say

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<v Speaker 6>that you can't believe everything on the Internet, But there's

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<v Speaker 6>some simple things that you should You should be able

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<v Speaker 6>to talk to people and like what is it like,

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:25.080
<v Speaker 6>do they get back to the person, do they educate you?

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<v Speaker 6>Are they compassionate? Like it's a sustainable and talk to

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<v Speaker 6>a variety of people. So I would just say that

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<v Speaker 6>about online coaching. I think there are some great online

0:38:35.880 --> 0:38:38.959
<v Speaker 6>coaches out there. I think it's easy to spot them.

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<v Speaker 6>I think there's a lot of very average and even

0:38:42.160 --> 0:38:45.720
<v Speaker 6>sub par coaches out there. It's easy in the virtual

0:38:45.760 --> 0:38:47.720
<v Speaker 6>world to play that game, and.

0:38:47.640 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 4>So it's very much buyer but where.

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:51.360
<v Speaker 6>And it's not just coaching, it's with doctors, it's with

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<v Speaker 6>everything in.

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:55.080
<v Speaker 4>The world these days. Right, there's a billion of us,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's easy.

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<v Speaker 6>To kind of like slither and get by and excellent

0:38:59.160 --> 0:39:01.799
<v Speaker 6>looks a certain way, So just look for that excellence.

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<v Speaker 4>You'd say anything different there because you also work.

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<v Speaker 1>With women, right, Yeah, No, I one hundred percent agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you. But I think in your particular case, you

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<v Speaker 1>have just so many incredible transformation stories, Joan of course

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<v Speaker 1>being the most famous, but so many others as well,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that's always such a telltale sign. And

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<v Speaker 1>also that you've worked with all different ages as well.

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<v Speaker 6>Ages races, people that have one hundred pounds, people that

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<v Speaker 6>need to gain weight. I work with some people that

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<v Speaker 6>we need to gain weight. They're so frail, they're so tiny,

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<v Speaker 6>so five 't four ninety five pounds? We need to

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<v Speaker 6>actually you know, maybe they come from a yoga background

0:39:38.239 --> 0:39:38.560
<v Speaker 6>or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, absolutely, Well look, ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>Finally, I would love a parting tip from each of you.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you thinking of my beautiful listeners, if each

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<v Speaker 1>of you could give women one piece of advice for

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<v Speaker 1>someone who is nervous to really step into the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>step into a new way of training, maybe strength training

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<v Speaker 1>for example. What would that potting piece of advice be?

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<v Speaker 3>Who do you want to speak first?

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't you go?

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<v Speaker 6>Joan?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So the thing is, I know there's a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of people as you get older, would be really timid

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<v Speaker 5>of going to a gym, and especially of my generation

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<v Speaker 5>because we didn't. We had gyms, but they were mainly

0:40:21.760 --> 0:40:24.680
<v Speaker 5>for men or women that really ballsy.

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<v Speaker 3>Excuse my language.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's it's very intimidating. You think people are really

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<v Speaker 5>watching you and judging you, but they're not.

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<v Speaker 3>They're so intent.

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<v Speaker 5>I would say ninety percent of the people at least

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<v Speaker 5>are so intent on changing themselves or doing their what

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:45.279
<v Speaker 5>they're doing, then to be watching you. And if you

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<v Speaker 5>ever get a compliment or someone talking to you at

0:40:47.960 --> 0:40:49.760
<v Speaker 5>a gym, it's because you've.

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<v Speaker 3>Made an impression. Really, you've made an impression.

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<v Speaker 5>So if you really really want to change, you got

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<v Speaker 5>to think, I have to change.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to change my mind.

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<v Speaker 5>I have to change what I'm doing because I want

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<v Speaker 5>my life back. You've got to really want your life back,

0:41:06.400 --> 0:41:08.319
<v Speaker 5>because this is a good time to do it. You

0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:11.440
<v Speaker 5>don't have any kids around anymore, you don't have anything

0:41:11.640 --> 0:41:14.920
<v Speaker 5>or anybody really demanding something from you. Go out and

0:41:14.960 --> 0:41:17.520
<v Speaker 5>get it for yourself. It's about time you spend all

0:41:17.600 --> 0:41:19.160
<v Speaker 5>your life dealing.

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<v Speaker 3>With other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Focus on your intent.

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<v Speaker 3>Focus on you intention and consistency.

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<v Speaker 2>Michelle Potting tip from you.

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<v Speaker 6>I'd probably piggyback on that, And I think the mindset's

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<v Speaker 6>the most important thing.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think Mom kind of touched on that.

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<v Speaker 6>You've got to allow yourself to truly love and believe

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<v Speaker 6>in yourself, and that's huge.

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<v Speaker 4>Nobody's going to save you. No one's getting out of

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<v Speaker 4>this alive.

0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:49.840
<v Speaker 6>And you absolutely have the power to make small, tiny

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<v Speaker 6>changes and then do it every single day and just

0:41:53.040 --> 0:41:54.919
<v Speaker 6>try to get a little bit better. And that has

0:41:54.960 --> 0:41:58.080
<v Speaker 6>to come from a place ultimately of self love. You've

0:41:58.120 --> 0:42:01.160
<v Speaker 6>got to think you're worth it if you do that work,

0:42:01.200 --> 0:42:04.439
<v Speaker 6>If you actually meditate on this idea that no one's

0:42:04.480 --> 0:42:06.160
<v Speaker 6>going to save you and you've got to do it,

0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:09.000
<v Speaker 6>and you love yourself enough to do the work, you'll

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<v Speaker 6>find a way to make those small changes, and you'll

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<v Speaker 6>make better choices and you'll be successful.

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<v Speaker 4>So it starts with a mindset.

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle and Joan McDonald, thank you both so much for

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<v Speaker 1>your time today.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks for having us on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, thank you very much to Amelia.

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