1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: We're discussing themes today that could be very triggering to 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: some people. If you need to chat to someone, Lifeline 3 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 1: are always available. On thirteen eleven fourteen, ad a Lady ad. 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:13,319 Speaker 2: Lady ad A Lady ad Lady filtered. Hello, Hello, it's 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 2: your best sies Hayley and Lauren. We like talking over 6 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: each other. We are ad Lady Unfiltered. We are the 7 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 2: creators of Adelady Holloway say Hey, Lossy Media and we 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 2: do everything together except Bae, what a day? What a 9 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 2: week you had? Holidays last week? I've missed you, I reckon, 10 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: I didn't speak to you for three days and I 11 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 2: was getting really antsy. I know, I was like, I 12 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 2: haven't spoken to Lauren, I haven't spoken to my mom 13 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 2: and dad. I went down to Poor Elliott, which is 14 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 2: like one of my favorite places in South Australia. I 15 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 2: try to mix it up and I try to try 16 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 2: these new regions, but Port Elliott is just like has 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 2: my heart. And it was the nicest week. We literally 18 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: just walked. It's like three time time a day, snapped, 19 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: like how to see Yester in the afternoon and ate 20 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: and it was like the greatest five days ever. I 21 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: was trying to play it cool. I was like, oh, 22 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 2: I'm not going to call you. 23 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:10,919 Speaker 1: I didn't even miss you, Like I'm fine, like whatever, 24 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: you know, like kind of like treated me and keeping key. 25 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 2: I get a little bit offended though, when you don't 26 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 2: check it on me. Well, I don't want to check 27 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 2: it on me because I don't want to interrupt family time. 28 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: But you're my family. Oh it's really nice, but I did. 29 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 2: I feel completely clean, like my brain has I've had 30 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: at the bottom meet in the last week. It's nice. Oh, 31 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 2: it's great. What were we talking about. I don't know 32 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 2: how's work. I don't know my password. I've been not 33 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 2: for a week. 34 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: It's probably like this is not Aily Peerson. I can 35 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: guess your password. Oh, we've got a massive show coming up. 36 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: We are going to recap the last few weeks. I 37 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: spoke about an email on a podcast a couple of 38 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: weeks ago, and it's just been wild. It's been a 39 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: roller coaster Pierson. 40 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: We did not expect that to blow up. In fact, 41 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 2: I'm not surprised. Did I love that our community got 42 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 2: behind you, and it's like all of Adelaide were like, 43 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: no FU to all the haters. 44 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's been really good. We're gonna talk about 45 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: that and we're gonna get woo woo. 46 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, like woo woo, yeah if you like. Like I'm 47 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 2: not a big fan of horoscopes, but today i am. 48 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you something that is so bang 49 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: on it'll make you your jaw on the ground. You'll 50 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: be like, what the hell what are you talking about? 51 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: You love horoscopes and you love psychic No, I don't. 52 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: I hate it when someone goes, oh, you're a scorpio. 53 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 2: You like this? No, I don't care about that at all, 54 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: but today I do. Yeah, maybe it's changing, Maybe I'm evolving. 55 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 2: I don't know who you are anymore. Dumb JACKIEO. She 56 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 2: loves the stud she loves the stars. All right, tell 57 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,119 Speaker 2: me take me through a little bit of the week. 58 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, my member of the week. The way I'm 59 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: drinking my coffee. Okay, little member of the week. This 60 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 2: actually is a little throwback to We were talking about 61 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: a couple of weeks ago about having fourteen year olds 62 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: and my morbid brain of you know, getting sad of 63 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 2: watching your kids having to grow up? Right, this popped 64 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: up on my Instagram. This made me literally my lip 65 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 2: was quivering, and I felt so sad. If you have children, 66 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 2: think of this when I read, when I read this 67 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,119 Speaker 2: out to you, think of You're a beautiful little girl 68 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 2: right now. Okay, Sophia, and I saw this on Instagram today. 69 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: It's suddenly dawned on me that I will never get 70 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 2: to see you elderly. One day you'll be eighty and 71 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 2: your hair will be white. Your hands will hold decades 72 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 2: of morning and night. Your life will be a white sorry, 73 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: can't read dyslexia emotion. Your life will be wide with 74 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 2: the years you have grown. But that is a chapter. 75 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 2: I won't ever know. Why, God, that is the most horrific. 76 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 2: Mems are supposed to be funny. It's a meme, babe, 77 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 2: not a meme. It's a meme. It's amazing, heng On, 78 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: can we just ask the room meme or mem No, 79 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: that's a memory. This is a This is a meme? 80 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 2: Like is that what you mean? Like a meme? This 81 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: is our men of the week. That's okay, you can. 82 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,239 Speaker 1: That is actually the most horrific thing you've ever said. 83 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: We're gonna die and then our kids are going to 84 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 1: be left there. 85 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 2: They're going to be by themselves. But they're going to 86 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 2: be old men and old women by themselves. That is 87 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: the most heartbreaking thing. I don't cope with this stuff at. 88 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: All, No, you know me, I don't cope with anything, 89 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: especially at the moment. 90 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 2: I cry all the time at. 91 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: Thinking about things that haven't even happened, that aren't going 92 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: to happen for a really long time. But I'm so emotional. 93 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: I know, I know You've got a lot going on 94 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 2: in that little brain right now. I know, but I do. 95 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 2: I do think. 96 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: I do put it down to pregnancy hormones, because normally 97 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: I could be quite vague and like sunshine lollipops. 98 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 2: Do you know with you this happened last pregnancy. I reckon, 99 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 2: you're very emotional now, but when you have the baby 100 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: you turn into fears Lauren again. So you'll be fine 101 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: in a few months. Yeah, I promise you will get 102 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 2: through this. You're just in that stage where you're like, 103 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm having another baby. The house is 104 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 2: feeling too small, like there's so much change, Sofia is 105 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 2: gonna start school. 106 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 1: I'm feeling really stressed. I'm like, literally, yesterday we went 107 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: and looked at a house, and then we're looking here 108 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: and then we're like, we need this, we need all 109 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: these things. We need car seats and prems, and like 110 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: I haven't thought about anything. And then suddenly it's like, 111 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: I have a couple of months to organize my whole life, 112 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: but I probably don't need to move house just because 113 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: I've got a smaller baby coming in. Nobody had I 114 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: worried that the nursery might not be big enough or sufficient. 115 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 2: Remember, all they need for the first six months is 116 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 2: literally a cot or bascinator. That's all they need. I 117 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 2: know that. And your boob or formula whatever you're gonna 118 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 2: do it. What are you gonna do? I hope to breastfeed. 119 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 2: You couldn't do it last time, because you know last 120 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: time Sophia was on formula for the first Well, no, 121 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: I did both, and then I got mystatus and then 122 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 2: I was out at three. Can I just say, can 123 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 2: we just rewind a bit, say I hope to breastfeed. 124 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 2: We promised on this show that we would be open 125 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 2: and honest about everything. You don't like breastfeeding. I fucking 126 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 2: hate breastfeeding. I lie, I hope to breastfeed. I have 127 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 2: no intention of breastfeeding. Wait, I hope to do it. 128 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: Because it's just something that when I couldn't do it, 129 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: I felt so shit that I couldn't do it. My 130 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: boobs weren't working. I hope to do it for a bit, 131 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: especially at the beginning, but like every part of me, 132 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 1: especially when I got mastitis, I was mostache is the 133 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: worst thing I've ever done. So I'm still triggered by 134 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 1: that pain and the fever and the wanting to call 135 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: it an ambulance. And then I was like, maybe that's 136 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 1: slightly dramatic, but that's what I do. 137 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 2: If you've ever had ma statis, you know what it's like. 138 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 2: The thought even now I don't like anything touching my boobs. 139 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: Jimmy knows that I can't because the thought of having 140 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: that severe internal ache of like knives going through your 141 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 2: nipple is the worst feeling in the world. 142 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 1: And when they say you just got to feed through it, yeah, no, 143 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 1: it's bleeding. 144 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 2: Okay on this, I can tell you this. Okay, this 145 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 2: is a side story. If you've ever had mastitis, just 146 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 2: try This is what I did. I had a physio 147 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 2: come to my house. It was so bad. This was 148 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 2: my first fourth round of mastitis with our feet. This 149 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: is why I only breastfed in for like four months. 150 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 2: You had four rounds of worst mestitis. Yeah, so not 151 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 2: with Austin, but with our fie. So I laid down 152 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 2: on my bed in my bedroom. She put towels all 153 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 2: around me. She massaged my boob like it was a mound, 154 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 2: like she was kneading dough. And I can't tell you. 155 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 2: The pain was like someone was putting a knife through 156 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: my through my boob. I know it's not do keep kneading, 157 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 2: and you need the visual for this, so hopefully this 158 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 2: is a video. You're needing the boob like this. And 159 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, the duck opened up and 160 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 2: a fountain like the Trevy fountain. It was like really 161 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 2: milk all over my room, and it was the most 162 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 2: glorious feeling in the whole world. 163 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 3: I was just like, oh, oh my gosh, that's what 164 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 3: That's how they fixed it. 165 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 166 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: I never forget going out one day and I looked 167 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: down and I did the old wive's tail of the 168 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: cabbage leaf, and I had a full cabbage leaf sitting above. 169 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 2: My tank top. 170 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: And so I was talking to someone and they were 171 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 1: trying to ignore that I had to like. 172 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 2: Cabbage bat I think it works though it actually did help. 173 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 2: Apparently it's supposed to suck it out. Yeah, the pain. 174 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: If you can breastfeed, great, but don't never put that 175 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 2: pressure on yourself. And also if your baby is a 176 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 2: little bit underweight, like you do you obviously, but I 177 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 2: always up topped up with formula because I didn't want 178 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 2: an underweight baby because it's scary. 179 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: That's a stress I did. I did, I did formula. 180 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: I tried to feed as much as I could and 181 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 1: then I stopped. And then for me, all the way 182 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: you like knock them out. It's literally like giving them 183 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 1: a drug before bed and they're like. 184 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 2: Oh god, yeah, formula poos as well. I remember I'm 185 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 2: going to be changing that. Yeah. Do you know what's 186 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 2: weird is that you know, you change nappies of your 187 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 2: own children, and it's you don't even think twice about it, 188 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 2: like it's not gross because it's just your child. It's 189 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 2: an extension of you. Sophia is the only other child 190 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 2: that I've changed nappy of that I'm like, no problem, nah, 191 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 2: And I changed out. Remember we took that photo and 192 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,680 Speaker 2: he shouted my hands and it was so funny. But 193 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 2: he was smiling when he was shitting in your hands 194 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 2: so nice. We are so off track. What were we 195 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 2: talking about. I don't know. We're going back to the 196 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 2: emails of you talking about wait. Weight. 197 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: The last couple of weeks have been wild, so on 198 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: a podcast a few weeks ago, we talked about weight loss, 199 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,439 Speaker 1: my weight journey, getting to where I'm now, and an 200 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: email that I received from a lovely lady who said, 201 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: you are so fat, I can't watch your show, and 202 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: from that we kind of we spoke about this. Oh God, 203 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: I get emotional just thinking about it. It's just been 204 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: such a crazy week, the amount of people that have 205 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: reached out, even going out. Yes, I was at the 206 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: supermarket and this guy was just like, you keep doing 207 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: you like it has resonated with a lot of people 208 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: because I feel like a lot of people have either 209 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,719 Speaker 1: felt this, been through it, or have had these horrific 210 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 1: things said about them. 211 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you called her out, and I hope she 212 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 2: saw that video and all the comments of people just 213 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 2: getting behind you slamming her. 214 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: But you know what, it's so interesting me when you 215 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: talk about these things, i e. Putting yourself out there. 216 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: It is a really nerve wracking thing. Every part of 217 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 1: me wanted to just get this email that was so 218 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: mean and just like. 219 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 2: Bury it if they were spoken about it. And also 220 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 2: it's so relatable. So unfortunately in our industry, being in 221 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 2: the media, people think that they can bring women down. 222 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 2: I don't. I'm assuming it happens to men too, but 223 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 2: probably not. People always comment on something about what we 224 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 2: look like generally, I don't think they do that with men. 225 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: No, and I do you know what I know? Julia 226 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: Gillard is a prime example. I saw her speak one 227 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: day and the first question she got as the Australian 228 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: Prime Minister. 229 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 2: Was day one, what are you wearing? Yeah, where's the 230 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 2: jacket from? Where's your jacket from? Who cares what my jacket? Youacking? 231 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 2: Kevin rad or Tony Abbott got that question. I'm the 232 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: Prime Minister of Australia. 233 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: Yes, talk about my policies, not about my jacket. So 234 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: I do feel like the narrative is very different between 235 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: the female and male. And this email has sparked a 236 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: lot of comments like I kind of didn't know. 237 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:52,319 Speaker 2: How to take it all in. 238 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: You know, when people are being really nice, sometimes you're like, 239 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: am I worthy of all this niceness? 240 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:57,959 Speaker 2: Like and not? 241 00:11:58,080 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: I had to soak it in. I just had to 242 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: see there and go. People have taken the time to 243 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: write these comments, and a lot of them. I sat 244 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: in bed reading crying, laughing. Some people were quite funny. 245 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 2: She'd Adelaide commented, Have you got their comment? Yeah, she had, Adelaide. 246 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 2: I always I'd love to know who she'd had later. 247 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 2: I've always been so nice to us. 248 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: I love them. Well, it's now just Adelaide things. They said, 249 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 1: love the podcast, you're on TV, hopefully making bank. They're 250 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: not so fuck them so true. 251 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,199 Speaker 2: Thank you. But do you know what we've learned from 252 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 2: this though? Is I mean we've given the mayor. We 253 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 2: always go, don't write back, don't give them any air. 254 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,199 Speaker 2: But we've given the mayor and all of a sudden, 255 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 2: all these people are getting behind you. But when we 256 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 2: get comments like this, let's just delete, report and move on. Yeah. 257 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 2: So we got a bunch of our female friends in 258 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 2: the media. We messaged them and said, just checking, have 259 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 2: you got any comments that have been said about you 260 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 2: that you would like to share because they were all 261 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 2: jumping on after hearing you talk about it on a podcast. Yeah, 262 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 2: and oh my god, we're having to beep out some 263 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 2: words because it is so disgusting what some of these 264 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 2: people have said. 265 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: Okay, let's start with Stacy Lee, five double A radio announcer. 266 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 2: Stacy Lee, you think, take a hard look at yourself 267 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 2: and grow the up. All right. This is Tyran Brumfit, 268 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 2: the twenty twenty three Australian of the Year. You are fat, you. 269 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 3: Are unhealthy, and you are a bad role model for 270 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 3: your children. 271 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: Okay, this is Rosanna Mangarelli, Channel seven news anchor. 272 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 2: Someone once said to me they couldn't watch me because 273 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 2: when I smiled, my nose looked like an anchor. They 274 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 2: also said, with a surname like Manjarelli, I'd never make 275 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 2: it in the media. All right, Let's go to Lessandra Fraser. 276 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 2: Her and his sister won the block and they are 277 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 2: the founders of Alive. 278 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 3: So somebody damned me saying that I had put on 279 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 3: a lot of ways since the show had finished, and 280 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,439 Speaker 3: that's how they could now I tell a Lisa and 281 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 3: I apart. 282 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: Kate Collins, former Chattel nine news anchor and host of 283 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: Hallo I Sa. 284 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 2: Kate Collins was okay till she opened her mouth. All right, 285 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 2: let's go to Lisa Fraser. She is the other twin 286 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 2: they won the block also the founder of Alive. 287 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 3: I remember someone dming me saying that, Alisa, your face 288 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 3: looks like the Christmas Grinch. 289 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 2: All right, let's go to Jody Oddie No. Over nine 290 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 2: one nine breakfast announcer. Some guy called Frido and I'm 291 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: fairly certain that wasn't his real name, told me that 292 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 2: I was. 293 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 3: A stupid kid and I should go and myself. 294 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 2: Okay, just let those little bits of audio just sit 295 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 2: with you for a second. Did your stomach feel a 296 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 2: bit sick? 297 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: The thought that ed one can say that about another 298 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: human being is mind blowing. 299 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. Can I say, from the trolls point of view, 300 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 2: if this is you, what you don't see when you 301 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 2: write this stuff online is you don't see that after 302 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 2: you say this, these women, we're zipping ourselves up, we're 303 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 2: putting on makeup and a smile, and we're straight away 304 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 2: presenting the news or we're doing a radio show. You 305 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 2: don't see us calling our moms and our dads crying, 306 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 2: saying we're not worthy. People hate us. I don't think 307 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 2: I can do this job. You don't see us trying 308 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 2: to hide these messages on social media because we don't 309 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 2: want our kids to read it about ourselves. You don't 310 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 2: see any of that stuff. You don't see us going 311 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 2: to the doctors and going I think I need anxiety medication. 312 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 2: I just I'm not happy right now. I'm really anxious. 313 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 2: That's the power of what your words can do to us. 314 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 2: And I'd love to say that it doesn't affect us, 315 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 2: that it's water off a duct's back, but it's not. 316 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: This does hurt, and it makes you make changes in 317 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: your life, like for me with the you're so fat, 318 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to be on the telly anymore. 319 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 2: I can't watch you. 320 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: It makes you reevaluate life. The one comment, that one 321 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: negative comment, and that takes me to Charlotte Dawson. In 322 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 1: twenty twelve, Charlotte Dawson she was getting so severely bullied 323 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 1: online by trolls that she went to a Current Affair 324 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 1: and they did a story and they followed her around 325 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: and they went to the different trolls. So the people 326 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: that said these horrific things about her, they went to 327 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: their houses and guess. 328 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 2: She knocked on the door. 329 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: She knocked on the door, and guess what the trolls 330 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: were like, Oh, I didn't. 331 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 2: I didn't didn't think you'd read it. Oh so I 332 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 2: didn't really might mean it? Then why did it? 333 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: And she took her life, which is the most horrific 334 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: part of the story. Yeah, she was so bullied, severely bullied. 335 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 2: She took her own life. These are successful women doing 336 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 2: their best, putting themselves out there every day. And when 337 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 2: people say, oh, you're in the media, it's free for all. 338 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:04,360 Speaker 2: We can say what we think because that's the job 339 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 2: you've chosen. No, we're all just human beings. We're made 340 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 2: up of blood and water like everybody else. So what 341 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 2: gives you the right to say that. We have parents, 342 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:16,479 Speaker 2: our dads. Our dads have read stuff about us, and 343 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 2: they would go to jail for us. I don't trust 344 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 2: our parents. I hide that stuff from my dad because 345 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 2: he would knock on their door. Our dads a psycho, 346 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 2: they are I had one. I don't think I ever 347 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 2: told my mom and dad this because this would upset 348 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 2: them so much. And my kids they said this was 349 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:37,199 Speaker 2: like I reckon in twenty thirteen and I was on 350 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 2: radio and some dickhead wrote on the Facebook page, doesn't 351 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 2: Hailey just have one of those faces you want to 352 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 2: punch and I've never forgotten it. I'm like, is it? 353 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 2: Do I have one of those faces you want to 354 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 2: punch you? You don't. 355 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: Oh, And this is the thing. Our dads are so protective. 356 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:57,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you might end up with a horse head 357 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: in your bed after Pappadino a d are finished with you. 358 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's part of the mafia. I would watch out Vedino. 359 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 2: He really isn't guy. Yeah, I wish he was sometimes. 360 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:12,239 Speaker 2: So what we want you to listen to and what 361 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 2: we want you to do if you are one of 362 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 2: these people, just think before you can think these things. 363 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 2: We all have opinions, we all judge people. That's a 364 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 2: normal human trait, and. 365 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: You don't have to like everyone. No, might be watching 366 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: the TV and go, I don't like that girl. I 367 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: don't like her voice, I don't like her hair. 368 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,919 Speaker 2: That's okay, keep it to yourself. If you don't like 369 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 2: our opinions on something, I'm fine for you to get 370 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,959 Speaker 2: out there and say that, because that's it's freedom of speech. 371 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 2: That's fine. Don't have a go at the way we look, 372 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,679 Speaker 2: or our last name, or things that will tell us 373 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:43,199 Speaker 2: to go and kill ourselves. That's not your right to 374 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 2: do that. 375 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 1: Especially with women in the media. Our job is to 376 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: have these opinions. Like Stacy Lee on five Double A. 377 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,919 Speaker 1: Her job is to talk politics, and everyone knows that 378 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: in politics, fifty percent of people are going to like you. Yeah, 379 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 1: fifty percent are going to hate you. So for her 380 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 1: to get those comments, she's just doing her job, your 381 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: liberal labor one nation, whatever you are. She's doing her 382 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: job like any guy would be doing and reporting on 383 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 1: the different news channels. 384 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 2: Who are you to say these things about Stacy Lea. 385 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 2: She's just doing her job. 386 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 1: She's doing a tough job and doing that radio yes, 387 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: and doing her job. 388 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 2: Well. Yeah, And that's the thing. My husband and your 389 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 2: partner would be the same. Jimmy and Burjo. If anything 390 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: is written about us, they're like, don't read it, it's bullshit, 391 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 2: they're just trolls. Don't But we do and we try 392 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 2: not to. And I've definitely got better with age, but 393 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 2: I still I still do look at these comments and hurt. 394 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:43,159 Speaker 1: Do you know what I think it is as well? 395 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 1: It always depends on where you're sitting in your life. 396 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 1: So if you're in a really happy and content space, 397 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 1: you can see these messages and perhaps let them go. 398 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: But it just takes for there to be one slight 399 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: crack and it can bring you down and you will 400 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: forget the one hundred good and you will remember the 401 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 1: one bad. That's just how we are programmed. And these 402 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 1: people that are writing these messages, imagine, think if someone 403 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,360 Speaker 1: wrote this to your child. What would you do if 404 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 1: someone said you're a effing this and you should go 405 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: give to your child, or. 406 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 2: You have a nose like a anchor to your child, 407 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 2: and that most of them do. I don't know if 408 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 2: you've done this, if you've seen something bad written about yourself. 409 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 2: I will look at their Facebook page and I go 410 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:31,719 Speaker 2: to all their photos and I see their kids, and 411 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 2: I want to write to them. Imagine if I said 412 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 2: this to your child, because they are family, but they 413 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 2: literally will write it and they won't think anything of 414 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 2: it anymore. 415 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 1: They just send it and let it go. When I 416 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 1: got that message about your so fat, I tried to 417 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: find this. 418 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 2: Woman so many I went every like. 419 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 1: I used to be a producer. I was your producer. 420 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 1: I am at you, not write producer because I think 421 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 1: it was a fake account, so it must be someone 422 00:20:56,480 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 1: that has developed it. There was no trace of her online, 423 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: so that also means she has gone to the effort 424 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 1: to get a fake name, a fake profile, set up 425 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: this social media to troll me, to send me a 426 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 1: fake email. 427 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 2: Do you know what we're going to do. We will 428 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,199 Speaker 2: block and delete you, but before we do that, we 429 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,160 Speaker 2: will call you out and we will say your name. 430 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:20,959 Speaker 2: And that's what our job in media is to do. 431 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 2: We're just doing our jobs. Yeah, and we're doing our jobs. 432 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,719 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, Please don't let it get to you. All 433 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,199 Speaker 1: those beautiful women that send us those videos, thank you. 434 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,199 Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing that. Some are recent, like Stacy 435 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 1: Lee's was only a couple of weeks ago. Some have 436 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: been years ago and they've stuck with the people. So 437 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 1: thank you for sharing those comments. 438 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 2: Do you feel better after sharing what that lady said 439 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 2: about you? Do you feel better with the reaction that 440 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 2: you've had? I do. It's a massive weight. 441 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: It was something that you know, I'd just be sitting 442 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,719 Speaker 1: there so this I've carried this for two years, like 443 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 1: I would just be sitting there and it would literally 444 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 1: pop into my brain out of nowhere. I'm sitting at 445 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,119 Speaker 1: my desk and it would pop into my brain. I 446 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: know that sounds weird, but you know, when there's so 447 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,959 Speaker 1: many thoughts in your brain and you will remember that 448 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: one negg. 449 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 2: And you could have a million nice comments, but you 450 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 2: just remember the one negative. Yeah, And I'm so glad 451 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 2: I shared it. 452 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: And I just want to say thank you to everyone 453 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: who's taken the time to write, because do you know 454 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: what the messed up thing is? So many people have 455 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: had this happen to them. I'm not alone, so it's 456 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: made me feel like I'm not alone in this crazy world. 457 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 2: Well done on sharing that. I know that was a 458 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: massive thing. I know when you first saw that, you 459 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 2: didn't even want me to see it, so no, I 460 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 2: was embarrassed. Love your babe, Love your babe. All right, 461 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,119 Speaker 2: Haley Pearson. Let's get woo woo. All right, let's just 462 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 2: get all the dream catches out and the incense putting 463 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:46,640 Speaker 2: that on around the room. 464 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 1: Mate burn some time so I can get rid of 465 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 1: all the spirits in our house. 466 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 2: Oh I love that. Okay, So we are getting a 467 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:56,719 Speaker 2: little bit woo woo. We are woo woo. We come 468 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 2: from woo woo family, so wooy. Yeah. But at the 469 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 2: same time, I am a bit skeptic about certain things 470 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: after experiences that I've had, But I do want to 471 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 2: bring up something. I'm not a big horoscope girl. Like 472 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 2: I've never really cared about horoscopes, and I've never really 473 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 2: got it when someone goes, oh, yeah, you're a Scorpio, 474 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 2: you should be with the Sagittarius or whatever. I've never 475 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 2: I've gone like, whatever, who cares? You've just born on 476 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 2: that date, doesn't make But I like to. 477 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 1: Read them and then if it speaks to me, then 478 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: I'm a. 479 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 2: True aries a hundred. 480 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,239 Speaker 1: But I've got nothing in there about me. I go, oh, 481 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: I don't like horoscope. 482 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 2: So that is so true. That's the same with psychics. 483 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 2: So with horoscopes. There's this thing that popped up on 484 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 2: my Instagram, and it's the heels that we will die 485 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 2: on according to your horoscope. So heels that we die on, 486 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 2: I guess is the things that we care about so 487 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 2: much that you're willing to fight for them till to 488 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 2: the end. Right. So I looked up mine, I'm a 489 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 2: Scorpio November twelve, and you are March twenty one. You 490 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:55,120 Speaker 2: are Aries, yeah, And I was like, oh, got us, 491 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: Like literally it is so us. Okay, read me yours, 492 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 2: go okay, this is the hill that I will die on. 493 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:08,160 Speaker 2: You you will cut someone off so clean they will 494 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 2: not even know what happened. You do not do second chances. 495 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 2: One betrayal and the door is closed and locked, and 496 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,880 Speaker 2: you already moved on in your heart before they finish apologizing. 497 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 2: Your loyalty before that door closes is unmatched. You will 498 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 2: go to war for the people that you love. That 499 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 2: is someone does wrong by me. I am curtains. I 500 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 2: am so. That is you in a nutshell. I don't 501 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 2: know why, it's actually very real, but I it's happened 502 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 2: a couple of times in the last couple of years. 503 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,360 Speaker 2: I feel like when I become friends with someone, they 504 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 2: have all of me. I will fight for you until 505 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 2: the death. But if you question my morals, or if 506 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 2: you do something that really upsets me, you are cut 507 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 2: off clean. I don't even I will not message you. 508 00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 2: You are gone from my whole world. I will see 509 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 2: you out in public in the wild, and I'll be lovely, 510 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 2: I'll be nice, but I will never forgive it. I 511 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 2: will never forget. That is you in a nutshell. Yeah, 512 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 2: and it has taken so personally. It has happened a 513 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 2: couple of times where people have questioned your loyalty. 514 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and anyone questioning your loyalty when you know you're 515 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 1: a very loyal person. You're very honest, you give everything. 516 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 1: You're not a liar, you're not a cheat, You're nothing 517 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 1: like that. So someone questioning and trying to turn something around, 518 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 1: you're out. 519 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Isn't that so? I mean, that's 520 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 2: probably a bad thing to do that. I just cut 521 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:44,880 Speaker 2: people off, But scorpios, we've got claws. I can't believe 522 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 2: I've never been cut off in ten years. I mean, oh, 523 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,479 Speaker 2: you've never done wrong by me though, You've never questioned 524 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,199 Speaker 2: my loyalty, and I'd never question your loyalty. All right, 525 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 2: you want to hear yours? Yeah? Go, this is aries. 526 00:25:56,240 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 2: You will feel what everyone feels in the room. I'm 527 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 2: so sorry. Is that again? Sorry? My friend fears and 528 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,959 Speaker 2: is just learning to read. Okay, go again, Okay, go, 529 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:15,919 Speaker 2: we're leaving this. No, this is go. You will feel 530 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 2: what everyone else in the room is feeling before they 531 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 2: even know they are feeling it. You have been the 532 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 2: one people come to since you were way too young 533 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 2: to carry it, the one who knows, the one who 534 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 2: walks in and can tell something is off before a 535 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 2: single word is said. You absorb everything and then wonder 536 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 2: why you are so exhausted all the time. That is 537 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 2: me in a nutshell. You take on everyone else's stresses 538 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 2: and you hold it in your little heart and you 539 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 2: walk around like one big stress ball. 540 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 1: I know with my family, I do it all the 541 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 1: time because I'm the only girl. So I need to 542 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,440 Speaker 1: make sure everyone is okay at all times, and everyone's 543 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: getting along and like the sh the sphere is spinning 544 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 1: and everyone's seeing each other the sphere. Yeah, like the 545 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: world sphere, yes, spear yeah, not like my dad calls sofia, 546 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 1: whereas my brother's just like they're just being idiots, like, 547 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 1: tell him to fuck off. 548 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 2: He can be black and white. It's your role in 549 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 2: the family. 550 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, is mum and dad okay? Are they talking to 551 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: the brothers? Have we caught up recently? 552 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 2: You know? You know what though, it's also okay to 553 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 2: not be okay. It's family. Families have arguments, but you 554 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 2: you really sit with that and stew don't you. Yeah. 555 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 1: I'm not good with confrontations. So even with friends, I'm 556 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: the one that always has to bring everyone together. And 557 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,359 Speaker 1: at a party, I have to make sure that everyone's 558 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: talking to each other. 559 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 2: Everyone's okay. 560 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 1: And I might not be directly involved with, you know, 561 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,439 Speaker 1: a falling out or a fight, but I feel it 562 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 1: probably more than. 563 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 2: The people because I hate angst. Yes, and you don't 564 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 2: want anyone to be sad either, so you'll put your 565 00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,919 Speaker 2: sadness aside to make sure that somebody else is feeling happy. 566 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,920 Speaker 1: I would rather be sad that you be sad. I 567 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 1: would rather shield you from sadness. 568 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 2: I feel like you need to do one of those 569 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 2: detox things where you go to Thailand and you just 570 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 2: like sit and you kneel down and you do this 571 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 2: like exorcism, where you just raw and you need to 572 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 2: get all that stress out of you, like a real 573 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 2: primal scream. I've actually seen them on Instagram. Yeah have 574 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 2: you said it? But they but they work. Apparently you 575 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 2: feel so much lighter afterwards. It's like a rebirth. 576 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: Whoa, I actually think you do it right. 577 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I sound like simper and you sound like, well, 578 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 2: nothing came out of you. Then try and get it out, 579 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 2: Go get it out. 580 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: No, you know where I suffer when I'm stressed and 581 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 1: feel it in my belly, I have to run. 582 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 2: To the toilet. 583 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,719 Speaker 1: I can have a fight and I have to go 584 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 1: straight to the toilet. I feel it in my guts. 585 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 2: Do you know what I've noticed? Actually, now that you're 586 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 2: happy where you are in your life, you are shitting 587 00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 2: much less than you normally do. Yeah. In the last 588 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 2: couple of years, you've been so bad. Your guts have 589 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 2: been so awful. Like I'm talking IBS times one hundred. Yeah, 590 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 2: but that's because you were holding stress. And it's true. 591 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,720 Speaker 2: You know when they say, trust your gut if something's 592 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 2: not right, do you feel any tummy? You and I 593 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 2: the worst of this. 594 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: This is how we started and run our business. Yeah, 595 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: if we get a bad gut feeling about someone, we 596 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 1: don't want to work with them. And it's very hard 597 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: to say, well, we just got a bad gut feeling, 598 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: so we're not going to do this because they think 599 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 1: you are actually crazy, but it's worked for us ten years. 600 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, always trust your gut. So that's horoscopes, which leads 601 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 2: us into another woo woo topic that Lauren and I 602 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 2: love talking about and that my friends is psychics. I 603 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 2: love psychic I've been contacted recently by someone who wants 604 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 2: to read me, and I'm a bit skeptical because we have, 605 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 2: like both of us grew up believing right lies. I 606 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 2: do believe that there are people who can speak to 607 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,720 Speaker 2: the dead, like as a medium, and I do believe 608 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 2: there are people that can see the future dead people 609 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 2: in a way I see death, I see dead people. 610 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 2: But I also think there are a lot of bullshit 611 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 2: artists out there who ruin it for those people that 612 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 2: are actually good at it. Yeah, they prey on. 613 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: Like people that they can sense that they're needing something, 614 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,479 Speaker 1: and they can read people and kind of give them 615 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: what they want. 616 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is this is this is the negative 617 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 2: side of it. You walk into a room, you're thirty 618 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 2: seven years old, So I'm the psychic, right, I'll know 619 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 2: that your grandparents there's a fair chance they're not alive anymore, 620 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 2: and there's a fair chance that maybe it was a 621 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 2: cancer or a heart attack or whatever. And they dance 622 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 2: around topics until one thing sticks, and it takes one 623 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,040 Speaker 2: thing that they say that you go, oh my god, 624 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 2: that spot on and you leave that appointment going, oh 625 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 2: they knew everything about Oh my gosh, that's exactly what 626 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 2: I do. I know, because there can be a million 627 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,640 Speaker 2: things that they say that are wrong, but they say 628 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 2: one thing and you hold onto that, which is which 629 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 2: is kind of sad because it's almost like they're praying 630 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 2: on the vulnerable. 631 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,239 Speaker 1: But then last year when we were in Rome, I 632 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 1: saw a psychic in front of this like ginormous cathedral 633 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 1: and he said, next year is going to be your year. 634 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 1: And I was like, will I have a baby? And 635 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 1: he smiled. He goes, if you want your baby, you 636 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 1: will have your baby. 637 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 2: But also, I mean, it's a fifty fifty presents chance. 638 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 1: But I should know I had the baby because the 639 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 1: psychic said I was Italy in. 640 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 2: The psychic said I was gonna have a baby. Okay. 641 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 2: So so we saw the same psychic a few years ago. 642 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,720 Speaker 2: I've seen some people that were so spot on, and 643 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 2: my mum has seen some people as well that were 644 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 2: just like nailed what was actually going to happen to 645 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 2: my brother before it happened? Like I need to know 646 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 2: this woman's we can't remember her name, but she she 647 00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 2: basically said that my brother, who is no longer with us, 648 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 2: he died of addiction. She said he was a square 649 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 2: peg in a round hole and he was actually never 650 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 2: meant to be here. He wasn't made for this earth, 651 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 2: and which made sense of everything. She didn't know anything 652 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 2: about Ryan's past, and it made sense of everything why 653 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 2: he couldn't make friends and why he just never felt 654 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 2: like he fit in in this world. So some of 655 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 2: them are amazing. But I saw one after Ryan had died, 656 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 2: and I thought, Okay, surely the biggest thing in my life, 657 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 2: the one thing that I've lost, will come up with 658 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 2: a psychic if they know what they're talking about. Right. 659 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:39,719 Speaker 2: So you walk in and you don't want to give 660 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 2: them too much information because you want them to know 661 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 2: and to tell you and for that person to be 662 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 2: there for you, right. And Ryan was gay, like he 663 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 2: was gay when the day was born, the day he died, right, 664 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 2: hello Ryan, And so I would think if if you know, 665 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 2: if you were a and he was here here, you 666 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 2: would have a sense of that. But she started, first 667 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 2: of all, spent forty five minutes talking about my grandparents 668 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 2: that have died, and I'm like, of course they're dead, 669 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 2: because I'm older. I don't care about that right now, 670 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 2: I want this person to come through. And then she asked, 671 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 2: so who are you because you could tell she wasn't 672 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 2: nothing but sticking. Who are you here to talk about? 673 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I've lost my brother. And then so 674 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 2: she thought didn't know anything about him, and she started saying, oh, yes, 675 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: he's here. He was a ladies man, wasn't he. I'm 676 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 2: like he liked dressing up in ladies clothes, yes, but 677 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 2: he was not a lady's man. He had a lot 678 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 2: of ladies friends, but he did not like the ladies. 679 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 2: And at that point I was like, you've lost me. Like, 680 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 2: surely if you were a psychic and you knew your stuff, 681 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 2: he would come through. 682 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 1: But there have been some times where they have said 683 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 1: legit amazing things. Do you remember we were in that 684 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,760 Speaker 1: We went to Melbourne together and we were like walking 685 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: around these alleys and we got a coffee and it 686 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: was just like fifteen minutes psyching readings, and we like 687 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,400 Speaker 1: went down to this dungeon. It was like Harry Potter 688 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: was like, we went through this fake brick wall and 689 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 1: all of a sudden we're in a dungeon. 690 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 2: And do you remember what was said to you? Nuh? 691 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 2: Do you remember what was said to me? No? I 692 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 2: don't remember anything about that day. 693 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: Oh, it was so funny in our little Harry Potter dungeon. 694 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 1: This lady goes, you will be with a man named Michael. Yes, 695 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 1: Michael is your guy, and I'm so sorry, Burgo. He 696 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 1: doesn't even have Michael as the middle name. It's Ryan 697 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,320 Speaker 1: Daniel Burgess. There is no Michael there. But she said, 698 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,720 Speaker 1: Michael is your guy. This is when I was single. 699 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,879 Speaker 1: So from then on, for about two years, I would 700 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 1: be drunk on a dance floor going Michael, Michael, anyone, 701 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 1: what's your name? It's Tom You're not my Michael. So 702 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 1: fixated on Michael. 703 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 2: Tell everybody what happened when we were at the Trevy 704 00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 2: Fountain in Rome together and we met that and she 705 00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 2: told you about her son. 706 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,399 Speaker 1: So firstly, there was this older couple trying to take 707 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 1: a selfie in Italy. I clearly look quite Italian and 708 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 1: I said to them can I help you take a photo? 709 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: And they went no, thanks, quite aggressively. 710 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 2: I was like, all right, rude. 711 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 1: Five minutes later, they're still struggling to take this selfie. 712 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,839 Speaker 1: It was like watching your parents on an iPad tech 713 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: photo And I was like, can I help you take 714 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: a selfie? And they looked at me and I went, wait, 715 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: did you not let me take a photo before? Because 716 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 1: you thought I was Italian? And going to steal your 717 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 1: phone like a gypsy, and they said yes, anyway, we 718 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 1: loved me being a gypsy. I took their photo. We 719 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 1: started talking and she was like you are lovely, and 720 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: like where are you from? 721 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,280 Speaker 2: She's like New York. I'm like, oh, I love New York. 722 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 2: I was like, you don't happen to have any sons? Doos? 723 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 2: She goes, I do actually? And I was like, what's 724 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 2: his name? Michael? And she goes, it is How did 725 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 2: you know? 726 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,319 Speaker 1: And my knees went weak because I was like, this 727 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:56,320 Speaker 1: is our wedding story? 728 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 2: Did I? This is it? This is it? He's a banker. 729 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be on a pro yet in New York. 730 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,840 Speaker 2: Michael is my man. And then she showed me a 731 00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 2: photo and he was like Marilyn Manson. 732 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: He had tattoos all over his face and fleshies and 733 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: like bolts through his nose. And I went, that's not 734 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: my Michael. 735 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:19,359 Speaker 2: But I wonder if Michael will come back into your 736 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 2: life at some point. So you're holding onto that because 737 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,120 Speaker 2: you want to believe it, right, you may believe it. 738 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 2: Name my child Michael? Have it? Or is that weird? 739 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 2: We're having a girl? So have you ever seen a 740 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 2: psychic where they have nailed it. 741 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: There's been a few incidences and this sounds very up myself, 742 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 1: but about Oh. 743 00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:44,239 Speaker 2: I know what we're gonna say to you. Yeah, because 744 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:45,760 Speaker 2: I got myself storytell. 745 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,760 Speaker 1: It's okay, we're gonna be very We're not normally up ourselves. 746 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 1: But it was about twenty years ago. I was seventeen. 747 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:53,799 Speaker 1: It was way longer than twenty years ago, but we'll 748 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,919 Speaker 1: stick to that. And this lady said, one day you'll 749 00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,800 Speaker 1: walk the streets and people will know your name. And 750 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: I was like, that's weird, so gross, it's so wake 751 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,399 Speaker 1: up yourself, myself, that's so fou. 752 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 2: I had one say to me when I was about nineteen, 753 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:12,080 Speaker 2: your name will be in lights. Oh that is so 754 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 2: so greas, so gross? 755 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 1: Is that? 756 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:14,560 Speaker 2: Okay? 757 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 1: Can we delete that, Eddie? Can we buy a billboard 758 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 1: just to make sure that Haley? I know you've been 759 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 1: on millions, But. 760 00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 2: That is weird though when you think about it. Oh, 761 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,399 Speaker 2: we did end up in the media. We weren't when 762 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,359 Speaker 2: we went to see these psychics and then we ended 763 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,440 Speaker 2: up there. Yeah, but is that because we marched in 764 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 2: with feather bowlers and high heels and tap shoos and 765 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 2: going one day we're going to be famous as wear 766 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 2: so gross again. Yuck. Don't hate us for that. No, 767 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,279 Speaker 2: that is gross. That is not us. It's not let 768 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 2: me look at us. 769 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,840 Speaker 1: Look, I'm sitting here on the couch with sweaty palms, 770 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 1: sweaty feet, on my couch, hanging out with you. 771 00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 2: This is just like you are we wearing very expensive earrings. 772 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:52,320 Speaker 2: Do you know what I just remembered. 773 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 1: When I was fifteen, I saw a psychic and she said, 774 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 1: you've got a little girl above your shoulder, and I 775 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 1: remember getting gooseby, and from that moment, I always thought 776 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 1: in my head that Sofia, that's Sofia, my little girl. 777 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a little girl called Sophia. And then 778 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 1: at thirty I think I was just thirty, she said, 779 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 1: you will have a baby, you will have. 780 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 2: A little girl. 781 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,920 Speaker 1: And then at thirty two, I had a little girl 782 00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,919 Speaker 1: and we ended up calling her Sophia, and. 783 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,800 Speaker 2: Then having another little girl. I know it was not 784 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,320 Speaker 2: the other little girl sitting on his shoulder. 785 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,879 Speaker 1: I don't know, but Sofia keeps joking that we're gonna 786 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 1: call the other girl Sofia with a pH because I 787 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: can't think of it age She's like, well, you know, 788 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 1: you can call me f because she's Sofia, and then 789 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,280 Speaker 1: the other one can be P. I'm like Sofia and Sofia, 790 00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 1: all right, Sophia, I'll just just leave the baby. 791 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,279 Speaker 2: It's a beautiful name. I don't think you can get 792 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 2: better than the name Sofia. It's the most stunning Italian name. 793 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 2: How do you get better than Sofia? I don't know. 794 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,520 Speaker 2: I love it, But now that just dawned on me 795 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:49,640 Speaker 2: that I did. 796 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:49,960 Speaker 3: So. 797 00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:52,520 Speaker 2: I was seeing psychics of fifteen, so I was two. 798 00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 2: So I think there are some really good psychics out there, 799 00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,760 Speaker 2: like there are, but you've got to find the good ones. 800 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 2: And if you're not a very good psychic, you would 801 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 2: know it, you know, deep down, maybe you're gone try 802 00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 2: a different career, get another job, just try something else. 803 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:13,280 Speaker 2: Just get a podcast, talk about fun things like this. Yeah, anyway, 804 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,160 Speaker 2: it's been a wild episode today. We've gone deep and 805 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 2: then we've gone full Woo boo. 806 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,359 Speaker 1: I love Woo and I love that you come from 807 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 1: a woo woo family. Your parents have always meditated their 808 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 1: spiritual My mum has always been like I've always caught 809 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 1: her a classy hippie because she doesn't look like a hippie. 810 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 2: Nah, she's cool. I love your mom. 811 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 1: But she's just always like trying new things and learning 812 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,319 Speaker 1: about her health and this journey and always seeing random people. 813 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 1: And I'll get to her house and she's like, this 814 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,239 Speaker 1: is just my friend. She's a psychic, and I'm like, oh, hi, Geraldine, 815 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:44,759 Speaker 1: how are you. 816 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 2: She's also a ghost. She also travels what is it 817 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 2: astro travel travels. Oh, that's a whole other episode. Okay, 818 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,800 Speaker 2: On that note, have a beautiful week. So we've spoken 819 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 2: for so long and I don't know what we even 820 00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 2: spoke about today, but I feel up. 821 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 1: Mustadus mustadis celebrate to us, have a great weight. 822 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 2: Love you bye.