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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not the bad guy here. I'm just

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Speaker 1: a girl that fell for a boy who lied to me.

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Speaker 2: It's so before Okay.

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Speaker 3: Okay, guys, welcome back to hear me out.

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Speaker 2: Today we have a very special guest, the Maths Queen

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Speaker 2: herself Jamie say.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, I'm so excited to have you.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy that you live in Melbourne. I feel like

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Speaker 2: we're very similar in some ways. I know, how haven't

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Speaker 2: we bumped into it?

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Speaker 3: Especially with where you work? Just people, can we talk

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Speaker 3: about the fact that you work at the Amazon? I

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Speaker 3: think it's yeah, we can. I mean it's in like

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Speaker 3: I think like six articles anyway.

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Speaker 2: Really, so Jamie works at the Amazon, which is like

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Speaker 2: such a popular club for those who.

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Speaker 3: Don't live in Melbourne. Is it annoying being sober around

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Speaker 3: like so many dunk people all the.

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Speaker 1: I mean yes, do I have a few vodka readies

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, drunk people, I'd start to hurt them like cattle.

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Speaker 3: That's all. Like this way guys coming to.

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Speaker 1: You have to serve kant to work in a nightclub.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I had no issues dinner parties. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm drunk, okay, anyone and that's everyone's like, it's funny.

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Speaker 1: You can't be intoxicated on mass Like it's a no no.

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Speaker 3: That was something I'm wondering about. You can, literally you

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Speaker 1: Every single person would always get cut off, especially my

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Speaker 3: So they cut you off, they cut you off. I

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Speaker 2: I have a high functioning So how many is there

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Speaker 3: It's how you respond, so you can hold your alcohol? Well,

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Speaker 3: fucking oh, that's something. I work in a night club.

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Speaker 1: You don't think I can do a million things whilst drinking.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely heavy machinery. She shouldn't and she wouldn't. I won't,

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Speaker 3: but she could. This is why she doesn't drive in Melbourne.

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Speaker 3: And she's an uber princess. Oh you're an ubergirl.

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Speaker 2: Like, but I just feel like, now that you're well known,

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Speaker 1: So that's why I stopped doing bottle girl work because

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Speaker 3: I'd be like a meet and greet every night.

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Speaker 1: Now, like they're not paying me enough to be out

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Speaker 1: in the crowd shaking it with bottles and we're like

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Speaker 1: humbling when you're pouring people drinks and they're like when

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Speaker 3: I've washed out. What can I say? That's fucking hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I moved into supervising, so I do spend

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Speaker 1: go Jaymie and you're like, I deal, I'll just quickly

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Speaker 3: I didn't hear them because it's like sometimes it's just

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Speaker 2: They don't understand the boundaries as much as like there's

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I had like a panic attack in bar Bambie.

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Speaker 2: The way they've even designed it, the fact I noticed

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Speaker 3: I hate you for being in their way.

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Speaker 1: You've got nowhere else to go nowhere, And as soon

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Speaker 1: I hate influencer events for that reason because I just

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Speaker 2: For you mean that the public will come because it's

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Speaker 3: The influencers themselves, Like she's been honest, she hates his world.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm I love the down to earth, humble

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Speaker 1: But then there's the other people like Jamie Jamie Jamie

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Speaker 1: Fucking yeah, because it's sometimes I feel like the walls

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Speaker 2: I remember Sam actually try a girl kiss her on

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Speaker 3: Be, Like you don't get to kiss me? Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 1: Like I meet so many amazing people that come up

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Speaker 1: That something I don't like ever being rude to people

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Speaker 3: Talk and I'm doing my job, like I'm like trying

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Speaker 2: And then there's a lot of people that don't go

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Speaker 2: And it's like there's definitely just two sides to it,

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Speaker 1: I'm an anti clout chaser person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I can't. That's good and it that's what you want. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Off math people love the blue tick dick and the

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Speaker 2: I'm a blue tick bitch, I am, but you know

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Speaker 1: And no, it's okay for you to be one, but

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Speaker 3: Blue tick bitches. Oh yeah, yeah, so like.

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Speaker 1: One, you can't date any fanboys. So all the guys

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Speaker 1: me up because they want to date Jamie. Yeah, they

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Speaker 2: But it's hard because it's like, I want to date

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Speaker 1: I want to understands it though. Otherwise it's so hard

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Speaker 1: when you date a normal, they're gonna be like a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like not a boy that takes shirtlet videos, shirtless

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Speaker 1: I don't think any man can post tiktoks and not

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Speaker 3: But I'm like I could never be like okay, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: But even if some because the thing is what I've learned,

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Speaker 1: a massive it. But when you actually think about the mindset,

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Speaker 1: why is that guy doing that? They want the attention.

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Speaker 1: That's gonna fuck up your relationship. If a man needs

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Speaker 3: Always need that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's like I'm dating you, why are you

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Speaker 3: And I can do it with some of a girl, yeah.

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Speaker 1: But also I can't even be fucked posting that many

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: It's just like pimp my tin Dolly dogs.

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Speaker 2: Jamie's basically telling you that if you're an average looking man,

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Speaker 1: Yeah more for the dog people. Doesn't work for me

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Speaker 2: And nothing do I actually think there is something appealing

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Speaker 3: I'm all looking. But that's the me.

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Speaker 1: I am the cheese sands alone. Because everyone loves dogs.

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Speaker 1: I'm the only freak that doesn't love dogs.

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Speaker 3: But I don't care.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like anyone that says I don't have a pet.

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Speaker 3: I want to lick you from your toasthir.

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Speaker 2: It is also like I can't date you because we

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Speaker 2: but I think I have been bamboozled by the dog man,

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Speaker 3: And also like I'm gonna put it out here.

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Speaker 1: When a man has a dog, you do not have

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Speaker 3: If it's a little.

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Speaker 2: Dog, get the fuck out of my face, because I

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Speaker 3: If like, because I like a bit of a big

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Speaker 3: have something with oodle I would rather do. That's kind

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Speaker 3: of you. No, I don't like little dogs already. I

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Speaker 2: I think they're domesticated rats. I think they're yuppy. They scratch.

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Speaker 3: My life started from a chuala. So let's there.

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Speaker 2: We go, well man and get a big dog or

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Speaker 2: don't get one of It's basically what we're saying. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I have a heme out for you. Oh go, So

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Speaker 2: almond milk is out and drinking a whole.

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Speaker 3: Milk is the new niche? What milk do you drink?

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Speaker 3: Oat milk? So both those satements.

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Speaker 2: I'm a whole milk girlie, and I actually feel special.

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Speaker 2: I'm like I'm one of you you.

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Speaker 3: These days, as in, you drink cows milk. I drink

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Speaker 3: cow's milk. How you? Yeah, I am exactly it is

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Speaker 3: do they sell everywhere? They do?

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Speaker 2: I drink normal Like that is a full cream latte

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Speaker 1: Oh so you just want to go against the grain.

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Speaker 1: Are you an Aquarius two or something?

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Speaker 3: I'm a Leo? Interesting?

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Speaker 1: Interesting because I like fight against conformity.

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Speaker 3: Right. No, oat milk. I love oat milk.

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Speaker 2: I feel like whole milk to milk is what vodka

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Speaker 3: Vodka is like.

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Speaker 2: The basic standard plain, and then tequila is just voka

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Speaker 2: with a funny flavor to it. Almond milk is just

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Speaker 2: like normal milk with a funny flavor to it. Like

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Speaker 2: I'd rather just drink the plain. That's why I do it.

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Speaker 2: And I don't have black dest in tolerance. I don't

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Speaker 3: Yeah I don't either.

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Speaker 1: I started I started like cutting more dairy out because

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Speaker 3: But then I'm like, this just tastes so much better

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Speaker 2: Now I'm like, yeah, look, I try not to think

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Speaker 2: I want you to really think about it that coming

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Speaker 3: Just marinate in your mind. All right. So let's get

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Speaker 2: I love doing behind the scenes, behind the scenes of

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Speaker 2: reality shows, finding out how like the inner workings actually were.

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Speaker 3: So let's get into some questions.

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Speaker 2: So for those who don't know what maps is, like,

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Speaker 3: What the show's about? What did you do? So you

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Speaker 3: marry a stranger?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's essentially the concept of it. Meeting them on

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Speaker 1: your wedding day is interesting. And what's even weirder is

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Speaker 2: They're like a fear in you of if this guy

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Speaker 3: I was actually super calm.

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Speaker 1: They thought something was wrong with me because they're like,

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Speaker 3: Shade, Why are you so calm? Because my producer has

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Speaker 1: I kept saying, I think he's Australian. Think he's gonna

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Speaker 1: before I got out the car, I thought, what if

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Speaker 3: What if?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm like, shit, what if they think I'm like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I feel like their equal level sort of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm thinking like, look, I'm funny, I'm like moderately attractive.

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Speaker 3: Hey, you are not moderately attractive. You are gorgeous.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like I met the other brides something. There's

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Speaker 2: To go like how many gorgeous people are.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm like last year's cart was not my scene

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Speaker 1: Imagine the type of men I'm dating, yeah, very different.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, shit, that's why I lost it

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Speaker 3: Working with you. I imagine the fear of what it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, And I feel it was so hard

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you see some people visibly disappointed Tim and Katie.

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Speaker 3: Tim was the one that thought he was way younger

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Speaker 1: Is, so he couldn't he couldn't he couldn't hide it, right,

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Speaker 1: And that's what caused the whole commotion because he was like,

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Speaker 2: But I think there's levels of you also need to

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Speaker 2: how dare you make this woman feel like that when

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Speaker 2: you're not a tea budy yourself me.

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Speaker 1: But no matter who was at the end of my aisle,

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Speaker 1: I was going to give them a fair goya because

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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm someone I can be like he's hot,

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Speaker 3: You can lock me in a room with anyone for

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Speaker 3: longer and you'll like, yeah, and.

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Speaker 2: You have to hope and trust that maybe, say they're

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Speaker 3: Were matched together. Let's just kid.

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Speaker 1: I'm such a personality person. I like someone with a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, not even just those two words you use there.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, she's smart.

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00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:51,280
Speaker 1: She knows that I have a useless degree.

443
00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,800
Speaker 2: You know what I actually always think though about maths

444
00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,359
Speaker 2: is say you see your husband you're not you know,

445
00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,879
Speaker 2: they're not your type, whatever, and then you go to

446
00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:01,639
Speaker 2: a in a party and you see someone else's husband

447
00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:03,680
Speaker 2: and you just go, fuck you. I wish I got

448
00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:05,600
Speaker 2: them instead. Like I feel like that would be such

449
00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:08,119
Speaker 2: a common thought process with all the people there.

450
00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:13,480
Speaker 1: I remember struggling a little bit because Dave was quieter,

451
00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:16,120
Speaker 1: but at the same time, Dave treated me so well

452
00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,919
Speaker 1: that I overlooked it. But I remember being like, I

453
00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:22,680
Speaker 1: wish I had like more of like Billy's banter in Dave,

454
00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,960
Speaker 1: because me and Billy used to so really well.

455
00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, was there any other groom that you went, fuck

456
00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:29,480
Speaker 3: I could have? I wish I had you.

457
00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,960
Speaker 1: I was pretty happy to have Dave in the experiment.

458
00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:37,520
Speaker 1: Definitely comparing everyone, but from personality perspective, I think I

459
00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,760
Speaker 1: did need someone a bit more extroverted.

460
00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:40,080
Speaker 3: Yep.

461
00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,480
Speaker 1: So like even like when I did partner swap and

462
00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:47,200
Speaker 1: I stayed with Adrian, they were such a good couple

463
00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:49,600
Speaker 1: of days, and me and Adrian were both like shit, like,

464
00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:52,000
Speaker 1: maybe we don't have as much in common with our

465
00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:53,280
Speaker 1: partners as we thought.

466
00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:53,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

467
00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:55,920
Speaker 1: I think that's when I realized, like, yeah, I think

468
00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:58,439
Speaker 1: there's things that could have been suited to other people.

469
00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, what made you want to apply?

470
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to have children, like yesterday, I've always wanted

471
00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,360
Speaker 1: to be a mom my taste in men's trash. Yeah,

472
00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:11,000
Speaker 1: so I literally thought like I always I always like

473
00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:13,800
Speaker 1: wanted to be on TV when I was younger, and

474
00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:15,600
Speaker 1: then I let that dream die and you just like

475
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,480
Speaker 1: continue your life. And I was just so I was

476
00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,080
Speaker 1: so miserable in my like office shop.

477
00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,640
Speaker 3: I was like something so off and I'm a.

478
00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,639
Speaker 1: Spiritual galie and I was literally like, guys, what the

479
00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:27,480
Speaker 1: fuck am I doing?

480
00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,680
Speaker 3: Like something's like something like I'm related to change. Yeah,

481
00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:31,640
Speaker 3: I needed a change.

482
00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:34,119
Speaker 1: And then I had this thought about maths and I

483
00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,920
Speaker 1: remember thinking like when do they even film? When do

484
00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:40,720
Speaker 1: you no idea? Googled it that was taking applications.

485
00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,400
Speaker 3: I'm like nah. And then I was like fuck it.

486
00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:44,920
Speaker 1: You were like and then I thought, I'm gonna have

487
00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:46,280
Speaker 1: it all. I'm gonna have a career, I'm gonna have

488
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:47,560
Speaker 1: a husband, have kids, like.

489
00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,399
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get all these things in one folk swoop.

490
00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,359
Speaker 1: Yeah that's I was like, because it can, it can

491
00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,159
Speaker 1: happen for people, So it kind of happened for me.

492
00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:53,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

493
00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:56,720
Speaker 2: Was there any other dating shows you were contemplating, like

494
00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:58,800
Speaker 2: The Bachelor or Love Island.

495
00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,160
Speaker 3: I'm not a Love Island person. Yeah, I also don't

496
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,560
Speaker 3: want to walk around in a bikini.

497
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,040
Speaker 1: On National I think she's the thing like no disrespect.

498
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,960
Speaker 1: But I'm not just someone who is like purely like

499
00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,639
Speaker 1: aesthetic striven. I feel like Love Island is very like

500
00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 1: aesthetic striven.

501
00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:12,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

502
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,880
Speaker 1: I definitely can like picking people based on I guess

503
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:18,439
Speaker 1: initially looks, and so she's a lot of the guys

504
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,960
Speaker 1: that come on, Yeah, they're looking at like, you know,

505
00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:22,760
Speaker 1: essentially who they want to root.

506
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:26,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think the whole like Love Island obviously, you know,

507
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 2: I've had them reach out to me a couple of times,

508
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,160
Speaker 2: but my one big stop is.

509
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,560
Speaker 3: Like, I actually can't be in a bikini on television,

510
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? Yeah, I feel like

511
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,119
Speaker 3: it would be it's so hard not to.

512
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,439
Speaker 2: Compare yourself in a setting like that when everyone's like

513
00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,879
Speaker 2: in the bikinis every single day. And yeah, I just

514
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 2: the kissing challenges, the heart rate challenges, the strip teasers.

515
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just could never go to the people

516
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:48,159
Speaker 2: that can. I wish I could, because I feel like

517
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,159
Speaker 2: an experience like that would be like once in a lifetime,

518
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, I could never do it.

519
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:57,920
Speaker 1: I think, Look, TV shows are such an incredibly unique experience,

520
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:01,040
Speaker 1: like they're raugh, but go do. But I think I'm like,

521
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm twenty nine. I don't think I was going to

522
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 1: start getting in bikinis now and go Love Island. I

523
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:06,959
Speaker 1: think I'm too old to be on Love Island too.

524
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 1: You have to be like under twenty five.

525
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 3: Really, thank god, I.

526
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 2: Feel like it's gotten younger. When I see like an eighteen.

527
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 1: Year old on there, I'm like, yeah, I see, my

528
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 1: eggs are way past their prime. Just that's I mean,

529
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 1: So for me, I'm like that would have been the

530
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,199
Speaker 1: step back because I just don't believe I would have

531
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 1: found my genuine person are on there. I don't think

532
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,159
Speaker 1: that were going to be a love island. But Maths

533
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay.

534
00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:30,159
Speaker 3: Maybe Maths is my my calling. Maths hit me up.

535
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 3: I kind of want to just like meet that one

536
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 3: person and give it a go, you know. I mean

537
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,200
Speaker 3: that's the thing I like, is they have to stay

538
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:40,240
Speaker 3: with you. It's not you. I hate it if because,

539
00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:40,960
Speaker 3: like you know, like.

540
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,880
Speaker 1: The photo lineup challenge that they do on Maths every year,

541
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,360
Speaker 1: it's like the first challenge ever.

542
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 3: I refuse to do it. I said, I don't break

543
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 3: people on their appearances.

544
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,959
Speaker 2: It's not my I think it's such an unnecessary challenge

545
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 2: that fuels arguments like I actually don't understand why, but

546
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 2: it's just stressful.

547
00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,919
Speaker 1: There's always someone's going to feel really shit, Like I

548
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 1: hated seeing like any of the girls towards the end.

549
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 2: Beca that's the person going to feel that's at the end,

550
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? I honestly think maybe

551
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,360
Speaker 2: they can be like put your top three up or something,

552
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 2: But do we need to be going like this is my.

553
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 3: Worst Yeah, no, I don't. I don't. I didn't like

554
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 3: it at all. I didn't do that. You didn't do it.

555
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 1: No, I just did them in groups of people I

556
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 1: spoke to. I'm like, I haven't spoken to these four,

557
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 1: but I've spoken to these four.

558
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 3: And what I liked about them as people.

559
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 2: And obviously Dave was at the top, and Dave only

560
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 2: did his like top five or something like that. Okay, good,

561
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 2: so he didn't rank the No, so they didn't even

562
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 2: show us because they're like losers.

563
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:37,480
Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I don't like that.

564
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 1: And yeah, I just wouldn't thrive in an environment where

565
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 1: people have to pick and choose because I'm someone people

566
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 1: realize at the end, I'm the real winner.

567
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 3: I take.

568
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: I'm like something you warm up to, like the first

569
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: inner party, everyone's like she's nuts. But then at the end,

570
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 1: probably everyone would have loved to.

571
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 3: Be like the people's princess. Everyone would have loved to

572
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 3: have had me exactly exactly.

573
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: But that's I mean, like, I'm I'm rough around the

574
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: edges on first impression, but give it a minute, then

575
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: you'll realize.

576
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,919
Speaker 2: Talk us through the application process. How long did it

577
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 2: go for and I'm like, what did you have to do?

578
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 3: Mine was suit.

579
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: My application process was super quick. I applied like a

580
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: lot of people get scouted. Well, so they say, who

581
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 1: fucking knows? I feel like most people just say I scout,

582
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: like I was scouted.

583
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 3: I feel like they've messaged so many people though to

584
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,400
Speaker 3: say they do, but so weak.

585
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 1: They have like over thirty thousand applicants, so like, obviously

586
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: they've got like an idea of I guess who they

587
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 1: want if you're reaching out so many people. And then

588
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: I think it was like less than two weeks later,

589
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 1: I had a phone call.

590
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 3: Then the next day are you so excited?

591
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: I was kind of like, okay, but I just him

592
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 1: thinking of it because I'm just like, look, let's see

593
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 1: because I actually think ages ago I got a call,

594
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 1: which it probably would have been for Aussie shore now

595
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: that I'm thinking no, no, because the way they were

596
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 1: saying it sounded like it was.

597
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 3: Going to be. Actually got a text for Ossie Shaw

598
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 3: as well. I think now that I'm thinking about it,

599
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 3: they wouldn't say what it wants. But it was a

600
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 3: dream show, a party show, party show. Yeah, imagine if

601
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 3: we were.

602
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 1: Everyone's going on but I'm like, look, I love having

603
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 1: some drinks on the weekend, but there's absolutely no chance

604
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: I can be pissed hunk every day.

605
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 3: I can't do it.

606
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 2: No, and having people feel me like if I'm drunk,

607
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 2: I don't even want to see my best friends.

608
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 3: It'll ten second video of me that night to happen.

609
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 3: To have my in the house. No, that's my big thing.

610
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 3: The Jordan's Shorehouse.

611
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 2: They always used to throw food and have food fights,

612
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 2: and I'm like, like.

613
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: I would be the biggest bitch about this disgusting, put

614
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 1: your fucking clothes back on, stop drinking by going to

615
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: fucking meditate today and nothing this Like, I just wouldn't

616
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: ud lose my mind.

617
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 3: There's a few people that can have a setting like that,

618
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 3: you know.

619
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 2: I feel like it's actually the goals on there different

620
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 2: if you've seen Ossie Shore, Yeah, these bitches are while Yeah.

621
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 2: I watched the first couple of episodes and I actually

622
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 2: didn't add for it, and they wanted to like see

623
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,199
Speaker 2: my reaction, and I'm thinking, like, oh, it's not going

624
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 2: to be that big. I'm gonna have to like fake

625
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 2: these reactions. I watch this show and I'm like, holy.

626
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 3: Fucking and horny so easy, and I'm not like that either,

627
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 3: So I don't think I firstly can't drink two days

628
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 3: in a row. I can't be in a house with mess. Food.

629
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 3: Mess especially is like my one.

630
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 2: Thing that like I can't deal with, Like if a

631
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 2: kitchens dirty, it's like, especially if it's someone else's ship

632
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 2: and I'm not someone that's constantly haunting, I feel like

633
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 2: I would end up actually being boring and like someone

634
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: that everyone's like get off.

635
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 3: No, they would vote me off that island? Do they

636
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 3: do they but just leave? Just leave your time's done.

637
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'd be better like being the like

638
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,199
Speaker 1: the boss that comes in and tells them, hey, you

639
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: got a job today, I'll do that.

640
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 3: Yeah. Did they have to do jobs on Yore?

641
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 1: And they were like the worst shops over there, like

642
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: in like fish factories and.

643
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 3: It's all just TV?

644
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: Do you think they actually needed like they would have

645
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 2: been like, let's just pick the worst fucking jobs they can.

646
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 2: They pick the worst shops for entertainment values and they hungover. Yeah,

647
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 2: let's talk a bit more about your wedding. Did you

648
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 2: get to say in any part of the wedding or

649
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 2: was it all just a surprise when you got there.

650
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 3: So the dress I tried on was the first dress.

651
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 3: The dress shows the first one you tried on. Yes, yes,

652
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 3: we got that.

653
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 1: My god, this chat like has hooked me now, which

654
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: I was really lucky because I sent them three options

655
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,160
Speaker 1: and I was lucky they picked the one I wanted.

656
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 2: So it's not even that much of a say that,

657
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: like you have three options of like dress.

658
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: Dresses still need to get approved because they see every

659
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: other bride and they want everyone to have a unique dress, right, Okay,

660
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 1: So I was lucky that one got approved, and yeah,

661
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: that's about it. You've got no idea what's going on.

662
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: They don't tell you the location. I was pissed when

663
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: I saw my flowers because they were like these purple,

664
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 1: hideous flowers. And I'm like, I'm the youngest bride in

665
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: you and you give me lady flowers, my youngest. That

666
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: was like my diva moment. I'm like, it's great, I'm

667
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: getting married in a fucking park, Like that's what's happening

668
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: right now.

669
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 3: I'm just in a park that was just the most

670
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 3: hideous flowers.

671
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like it was actually really nice ceremony, yeah,

672
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: and reception, but.

673
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have no say and how many people do

674
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 2: you get to like invite?

675
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 3: When I had eight people, so it's really small. Why

676
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 3: do I think the weddings had like fifty people? Yeah,

677
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 3: it's such an illusion.

678
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 2: What the fuck is there's like sixteen people that some

679
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 2: are less than because I remember the covid ones being like.

680
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 3: Really really little and weird. But when it was just

681
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 3: the couples, actually yeah, because you couldn't. You couldn't, you

682
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 3: couldn't have anyone, like I thought there was way more

683
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 3: when they like you see the receptions, it seems like

684
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 3: there's a lot more people. It's the biggest optical illusion.

685
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 3: That's crazy. It's like the vibes are like not as

686
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 3: high as they ever. It's more crew right.

687
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: Then there are like that's like, so we have a

688
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: million crew members because it's only one wedding filmed each

689
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 1: day because it's like an all hands on deck kind

690
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 1: of thing.

691
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 3: So there's a lot of crew.

692
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 2: That's crazy. So talk us a bit through the wedding day.

693
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: What were some of the craziest moments you think for you.

694
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 1: It was just surreal. I feel like you're happy. Yeah,

695
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 1: I was happy. I think once I saw Dave and

696
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: I was like, they've listened to what I've said. I

697
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: kept saying, necktat, necktat, hand tap, you know what.

698
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 3: I everywhere?

699
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,919
Speaker 1: You know, he was a training Like a lot of

700
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 1: things I asked for I received. So for me, I

701
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: was like, they're not making an example out of me.

702
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 1: They're not trying to stitch me up. So I was

703
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: just genuinely excited because I'm like, I'm going to give

704
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 1: this such a fair goah. So I was just pretty

705
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 1: much excited. And then like it was weird. It's like

706
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: I don't know if our families were drunk, but like

707
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: everyone was like it was like a love first Like

708
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: my mom loved his mom. Everyone's like cheering, Everyone's.

709
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: Like this, you just would have been on cloud nine. Yeah.

710
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: It was like it was the best day ever. And

711
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: I was like I've got a whole husband. And then

712
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:43,959
Speaker 1: I just slipped into a girl. I went from like

713
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: chronically single, yo, babe, babe babe, like just adopted this husband.

714
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's the way to do it. I need

715
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 2: to apply for maps because like there are some real

716
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 2: success stories that do come out of it.

717
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 3: But I feel like that's the same for almost any show.

718
00:28:58,360 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 3: There's always going to be one out of like fifty

719
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 3: that it's minimal.

720
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: But I can say, like it's really concerning the type

721
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: of people they cast on reality TV shows.

722
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, the men because they need the drama. They can't

723
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 2: pick fucking twelve perfectly normal, healthy individuals.

724
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 3: No, they too.

725
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: But also, like the most jarring thing is I thought

726
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: I was going to go on and be with a

727
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: bunch of influencer women that we're going to like love

728
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: the cloud.

729
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was the men that like the cloud.

730
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: More men loved the cloud, calling paps the photos.

731
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 2: That it was just like I feel like, yeah, the

732
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 2: couple months following Maths, it was like my whole for

733
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 2: you page was like people taking shots at each other

734
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 2: through chiktok and everything, and I'm like, it's the men.

735
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 3: It's the men.

736
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: The women were all trying to make it work, like,

737
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: don't wrote that all of us. Sure, we want the

738
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: platform that comes with it, because like, you have to

739
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 1: want both.

740
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 3: Do not go on masks.

741
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: If you just want a love story, it is not

742
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: worth it because you're going to get trolled online. You're

743
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: gonna like your mental health is gonna take an absolute beating,

744
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: and there's a good chance you won't end up with

745
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: your partner, so you need to want both. But like,

746
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: my god, we're all trying to make it work with

747
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: these men and they're like, I want airtime and you're

748
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: like you already have to get a following blue.

749
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 3: Tic no literally blue tick pictures. Goddamn?

750
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 2: How long did filming days usually run once the wedding

751
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: was done and you were living ta This is.

752
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: Like where honestly, my mind is so cooked thinking about this.

753
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: So when you come back from your honeymoons, you first

754
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: dinner party, the first few weeks are really like high

755
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: intensitve for filming because you're doing all your tasks, all

756
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: the new stuff.

757
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 3: Of living, like all the like getting used to living

758
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 3: with each other.

759
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 1: So what would happen is you always get a message

760
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:36,719
Speaker 1: to night before.

761
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 3: That's when they tell you if you've got like a dinner.

762
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: Party yep, or just you're just waking up, so they'd

763
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: be like, hey, be in bed for eight thirty am

764
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 1: wake ups or they'd be like, be makeup ready. Then

765
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: you kind of know what if you've got a task

766
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: first thing of doing wakeups. Most mornings you have wake ups,

767
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: and that's my That was my favorite.

768
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 3: Job in the world.

769
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: Really imagine someone saying, all you have to do is

770
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: be in bed, So you best believe that camera crew

771
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: was waking me up. I'm just sleeping ten hours a night,

772
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: and that's because I had.

773
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 3: No job to wake up to. My job was being

774
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 3: in bed.

775
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, it's so funny because like all

776
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: the other girls get up like that someone get ready

777
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: for full life. Yeah, because like we would get up

778
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: like five am. So she's like had to run cook breakfast,

779
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:22,479
Speaker 1: like done it all.

780
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 3: Like the camera crew is the reason I'm opening.

781
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:26,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like you know, so like all of them

782
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: will like do little touches, but like they sliways say

783
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 1: like don't my makeup, don't make up, make it look natural,

784
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: but yeah, it couldn't get more natural than me.

785
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 3: I didn't even brush my hair and teeth, like they

786
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 3: just come in.

787
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, guys, was that then, like from that

788
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: moment till like when you go to bed, you're being

789
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 2: filmed all day.

790
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: No, so that block could last for who knows, Like

791
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: I could be doing my wake ups and it could

792
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 1: just be literally like I'll start making my breakfast.

793
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 3: Me and Dave will chit chat and I'll be.

794
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: Like, cool, we'll see you in two hours, or it

795
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: could be like we're still filming, then a tough comes in,

796
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: but then they might film my task after because it's

797
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: only like a certain amount of crew, so they all rotate.

798
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 3: So you didn't have someone with you all day. No, no, no,

799
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 3: do you find it challenging?

800
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 2: There were moments where it was hard to form a

801
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: connection with a camera crew sitting there, like having those

802
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: deep conversations knowing that there's someone filming it and putting.

803
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 3: It on TV.

804
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: I must be a psychopath. You didn't even I didn't

805
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 1: care at all.

806
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

807
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: I literally if I had to sit there and talk

808
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: about like every nook and crowning of my vagina and

809
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: from the cameraman.

810
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 3: You'd be fun.

811
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 2: I don't care because I feel like I always watched

812
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: like Love Island and stuff, and it's like flirting, like

813
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 2: flirting with someone knowing it's going to be put on

814
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: national television like that to me is terrifying, And I

815
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: feel like it's similar you're trying to build a connection

816
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: or the intimacy week challenges knowing that there's like the

817
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 2: whole world is seeing that.

818
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 1: But see, I'm so glad I didn't have to kiss

819
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: Save on camera because I didn't like the idea of

820
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 1: pashing anyone on camera.

821
00:32:55,920 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought that's when bit ORKI. Yeah, but was really.

822
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: Weird because they took me to a laingderie shop for

823
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: my Intimacy Week challenge, which I asked for a letter

824
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: from Dave, and they're like, well, you guys are already

825
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: knocking boots, you may as well go to a launderie saw.

826
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,719
Speaker 1: And I was so scared to put my undies on

827
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: for the cameraman and the audio guy.

828
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 3: I know when you're talking. I watched that part like

829
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 3: this is really awkward. They're like married.

830
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 1: Men, I mean, and you're like this boudoir Like, I mean,

831
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: thank god, the body was fucking good. I looked on

832
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: that day. I was like, thank god. I'm usually a

833
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: pale bitch during the week, so I was like thank god.

834
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, that part was probably the most award. And

835
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: so they let me have my blazer on when I

836
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: showed Dave, because like.

837
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 3: Let you you're allowed to wear your blazer while you

838
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 3: get naked in lingerie on TV.

839
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, obviously everything's consented, but I was like, yeah,

840
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: I was like I kind of would prefer for have

841
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: that on because all I was thinking is.

842
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 3: Like I have to tell my dad not to watch. Yeah,

843
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 3: fuck and didn't. He wouldn't have if you asked him not.

844
00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 3: He didn't watch it into S week, No I did.

845
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 3: I'm like bad enough. My brother saw it. Oh I

846
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 3: feel like my brother would almost such a girl like

847
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 3: just skip over. No totally, I can't. We'll go you

848
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 3: you looked amazing. Thank you. I'm watching it back for you, like, yeah,

849
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 3: I look good.

850
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: I was like, thank god, because I was so Skecuse

851
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 1: I remember that week online like Karina got absolutely ripped

852
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: apart for her like little S and M kind of

853
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: scene she had going on. I was like, I'm going

854
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 1: to believe they showed that on because I didn't know

855
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: what she was doing in her apartment. Yeah, I didn't

856
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 1: know people like licking cream off each other because I'm.

857
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 3: Like, I asked for a love a love letter. Yeah

858
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 3: you have words.

859
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like, you know, you know, whips and chains

860
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: and everything like sites.

861
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 3: Was Billy's massage.

862
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: I was like, Billy looked like the most amazing husband

863
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: until that oil came out, Like but like, I'm not

864
00:34:58,400 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: being funny.

865
00:34:59,040 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 3: I don't know.

866
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 2: I know what's same because it's like I felt really

867
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 2: bad for what was her name the way Sierra.

868
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 3: I'm a fan of her.

869
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: I don't have much empathy for Sierra.

870
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 3: Not in that moment.

871
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: I was like, like, what was he trying to do?

872
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 1: Like just like make her disappear or something.

873
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 2: He's chanting secret words while it's going like I don't.

874
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: Know what he thought she was gonna do? Like was

875
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: he fearing for his life?

876
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 2: I think there would have probably when you watch a

877
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,240
Speaker 2: sense of he probably just wasn't comfortable.

878
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

879
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: But a hundred percent, but like, my gosh, she's not

880
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 1: like she's not like gonna suck your soul out.

881
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 2: Do you think there are moments where you can be like, no,

882
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 2: I'm not doing this, I'm not comfortable.

883
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 1: Oh, there's moments you do have a say, and I

884
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 1: there's there was definitely pushback on things, but I'm like no,

885
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 1: the most part, I'm like a pretty good.

886
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 3: You're like fuck it, let's just do it. Yeah.

887
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 2: How much do the producers get a say in everything

888
00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 2: that's like going on?

889
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: Produces your narrative, so you are essentially you can't make

890
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,720
Speaker 1: You're like picking the destination. They're like steering the wheel?

891
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: Should it be the opposite way around?

892
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 2: I think that's correct. Like you're like, this is what

893
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 2: we're doing, and they're like, oh, do this a little bit.

894
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like helping you take the best route.

895
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, they want it to be good TV. Yeah.

896
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 1: So the thing is like if you are saying in

897
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: your talking to camera moments, I don't like Jackie. Jackie's

898
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: doing this, this, this, this, this, then they're going to

899
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, well are you going to say something

900
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: to Jackie tonight? They're going to ask questions.

901
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 3: Likely to say something to Jackie tonight? Plea.

902
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're asking questions and they're guiding you, and they're

903
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 1: giving that encouraging said like they're trying to tell the story.

904
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all it is.

905
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 2: They're like, if you don't like Jackie, we need to

906
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 2: find a way to let the world also know that

907
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 2: like you.

908
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's otherwise it's just a waste of camera time.

909
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: If you're just like, it's not a bitch session for

910
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,760
Speaker 1: behind closed doors. You're supposed to like drew something with information?

911
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

912
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 2: Do you find it's edited and produced as much as

913
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: people think it is? Like do you find they put

914
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 2: words in your mouth like crop things you say and

915
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 2: make it sound different or is it.

916
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 3: Like that again?

917
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: I think everyone has a story. Everything you saw on

918
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: TV was everyone's story if they weren't fabricated.

919
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 3: That's how things pay. They can't make you look bad

920
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 3: if you're not acting.

921
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: Fucking matter, but they I think they do put emphasis

922
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: on certain scenes. They might again make everyone's reaction look

923
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: a bit stronger here, but again because they're trying to

924
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 1: paint that story of what happened.

925
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 3: Do you think there are people that get a villain

926
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 3: and edit.

927
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: Assholes like fuck this villain editor. I hate hearing it.

928
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: When you're a good wife husband, they can't make you

929
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: look they can't. They can't. I said to everyone, stop

930
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 1: caring what the public things. Stop caring what everyone the

931
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: dinner party thinks. Care about what your partner thinks.

932
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you're still here trying to potentially.

933
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: You and him are going good and there's no and

934
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: there's no issues. And he says she's a good wife,

935
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: and I say he's a good husband.

936
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 3: What does anyone have to pick up? You're doing your

937
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 3: thing totally.

938
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 2: I feel like the and edit it's probably not as

939
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 2: like you don't see that as much on a show

940
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 2: like that, But I feel like they definitely can typecast

941
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: people like think they're allowed and be like we're gonna

942
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: make you look like shit.

943
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: But again, like you just have to be an arsehole.

944
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,720
Speaker 1: Don't forget there's there's things that they they could make.

945
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 3: All of us look worse. To me, yeah, they definitely could.

946
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 1: Like we are talking to the wheels of the morning,

947
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: the things that are coming out of our mouths, like

948
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: I said some fucked up shit, I told Veronica to

949
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:25,399
Speaker 1: suck my dick.

950
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like that's just how I worry,

951
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 2: Like the way I like talk with my friends or

952
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 2: like I talk with people. I'm like, fuck, they could

953
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 2: really make you look bad.

954
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:36,919
Speaker 1: Oh, they could include it, But at the same time,

955
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: again when they look at like say the story for

956
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: Dave and I, the story was I was a good wife,

957
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: I had good friends. Yes, I had drama, So for

958
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 1: them trying to villify me would make no sense. Yep, No, totally,

959
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: Like they showed my job, but they showed Margarets, but

960
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: just putting random shit of me, like crashing out because

961
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm sleepy one day, but it doesn't affect my relationship

962
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: makes sense.

963
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: In people are very critical of the three experts. What

964
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 2: was your experience with them? I knew what they were

965
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,240
Speaker 2: talking about, or do you think they're just three random

966
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 2: people that are just like commenting on what's going on.

967
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 1: I do think they had some valuable imput the experts.

968
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 1: I think Daddy John is remarkable when he's on fire,

969
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: like Mariah, like, he's my kind of man, because I'm

970
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: someone who's very direct, no bullshit.

971
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 3: I loved it. I loved when he just a viscerats

972
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 3: I feel like.

973
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 2: And watching him a miserate people. Sometimes you like, as viewers,

974
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 2: you see what's going on and you just want them

975
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 2: to like avisserrate. I feel like they could have gone

976
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 2: so much harder. They look so soft this year for

977
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 2: certain things.

978
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 1: I was like, but then when I had to be

979
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 1: in the hot seat, then all of a sudden, they're like, let's.

980
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 3: Go super hard on her. Yeah.

981
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 1: I don't support online bullying, no, but I'm also so

982
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: glad alessandle copped her for what she did to me,

983
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: because that was fucking horrendous.

984
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 3: Can you tell us a little bit about what she

985
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 3: did do?

986
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 1: So when after I had retreat drama, which like when

987
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:02,280
Speaker 1: retreat drama kicked off, and this is the first time

988
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: the group was split into because Dave and I were

989
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: pretty much like in the center of everyone, like we

990
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 1: were friends with everyone. Once I was split into and

991
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: the girl drama really started with Kreana and myself in particular,

992
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: it got very out of hand. The thing is, I'm

993
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 1: so glad now, like the inter and the audience were

994
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: able to be like, what's wrong with Kreana? Why didn't

995
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: she take Jamie's side? Why do you defend Jamie? But

996
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: at the time I felt like that, I'm like, why

997
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 1: can no one.

998
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 3: See like I defend people all the.

999
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 1: Time intentions And I'm like, she's like, essentially like gas

1000
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: slighting me into believing that the version of events that

1001
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: happened didn't happen. She's trying to say, Lauren, wasn't that

1002
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: bad Jamie, you were being aggressive, And I'm like, what

1003
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: the hell? Like being misunderstood is my trigger? I have

1004
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: the best intentions, So for me, yeah, it's so frustrating

1005
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: when I'm sitting at a campfire, pretty much I have

1006
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: a grown man telling me shut the fuck up, shut

1007
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: the fuck up.

1008
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 3: But then I've got Krea saying you're being aggressive.

1009
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 2: It's like, I just think also, when you put so

1010
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 2: much time and effort to defending people, not getting that

1011
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: energy back is like so heartbreaking sometimes because you're like,

1012
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: why do I not deserve that back with after everything

1013
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 2: I've said for you. I feel like me as a person,

1014
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,360
Speaker 2: actually that happens to me quite a lot because I

1015
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 2: also I am quite loud, and yeah, my delivery is not great,

1016
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 2: but it's like, you protect the people you love and

1017
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: then having someone not give that back is really challenging.

1018
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,479
Speaker 1: It was like it was, honestly, I felt like even

1019
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 1: more challenging than what I went through with Dave. Yeah,

1020
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 1: because for me, it brought up a lot of past trauma. Yeah,

1021
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: because I've dealt with that before. I'm glad I did

1022
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 1: go through it because it was something that a lot

1023
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: of people reached out to me because of it, because

1024
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 1: it was something really relatable, and I'm glad people didn't

1025
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: feel so alone in that feeling because it is really shitty.

1026
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 3: But yeah, that threw me through a loop.

1027
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: And so then when I went to the dinner party

1028
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 1: and I'm getting cold a mean girl, and then again

1029
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: like Crane is just not understanding and still vilifying me

1030
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: and like Lauren's not even here, like I thought I

1031
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: was going to come into me, like.

1032
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 3: I'm so I'm so sorry I handled that wrong.

1033
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 1: I was so so devastated, Like after that bonfire retreat,

1034
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 1: I went into my room and I didn't leave it

1035
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,760
Speaker 1: until just before we left retreat because I couldn't stop

1036
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: crying all morning. Jackie, Adrian and Athena came and visited me.

1037
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: Ronica apologized to me, Paul apologized to me.

1038
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 3: Elliott I was hanging out.

1039
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,720
Speaker 1: With him, but like, re went apologize to me off camera,

1040
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: and I said, you're not going to do this off

1041
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 1: camera because you always have my back off camera, Like

1042
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: you need to do this on camera. And then producers said, look,

1043
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: don't speak to anyone for the next few days and

1044
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 1: sort out dinner party, and I said, I agree.

1045
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, They're like let's get all the drama on there.

1046
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,240
Speaker 1: But like I was like, I agree, I'm not having

1047
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: more people because everyone behind the behind closed doors, because

1048
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: I think people were starting to think maybe I was

1049
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 1: going to be the villain.

1050
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,399
Speaker 3: And they were like, we don't want people to see

1051
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 3: us aligning with the villain.

1052
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm just like I think that's where because

1053
00:42:56,160 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: for some reason, It's like Karina Remybe thought Lauren was

1054
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: because Elliott was the villain. Yeah, so I think we

1055
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: thought Lauren was actually not the villain, and so they

1056
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: had this soft spot for her.

1057
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,479
Speaker 3: But I'm like, you guys have got it so wrong. Yeah.

1058
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 3: So luckily the way it was all played out of

1059
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 3: the TV.

1060
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: Like thinking like, yeah, this woman's just a cunch like offense,

1061
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 1: like she's stuff she.

1062
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 2: Said about some other people. I feel like it can

1063
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 2: only really be she just.

1064
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: Had such an elitist attitude and she was just so awful.

1065
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 1: So yeah, when we went to dinner party, it went

1066
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: super out of hands. But like in that moment, I

1067
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,839
Speaker 1: don't I didn't regret anything, Like when I'm done with someone,

1068
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 1: I don't care, So I didn't care what I said

1069
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 1: to Greener. The way I talked to Ree was very different.

1070
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: When I talked to Greene, I'm like, you're not my friend,

1071
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 1: you can go fuck off. But then obviously I had

1072
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: to copy it from the experts when it was my

1073
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 1: turn to sit down because my behavior was mean and

1074
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 1: da da da, But Alessandra rode me so hard that

1075
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: I literally thought I was the mean girl. I've got

1076
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: it wrong. I felt gussy and you're like, whoah am I.

1077
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: Then I couldn't stop crying, like I had a breakdown

1078
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 1: at the commitment ceremony. I was like crying on Carena

1079
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: pretty much because they made me feel like I was

1080
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: the worst person ever.

1081
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 3: Something.

1082
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: I'm copying it more than Adrian, copying more than Pole,

1083
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: and I'm just like shit. So it wasn't until reunion

1084
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: they actually played what happened at the retreat and the

1085
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 1: experts apologized to me.

1086
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 3: Thank fuck, that would have been so validated. It was

1087
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 3: so vindicating.

1088
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: I wish I actually played that, but it was unreal

1089
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: to see the audience's response and for everyone to rally

1090
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: around me online because so lost it that I felt

1091
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 1: like the worst person ever. And I was like, thank god,

1092
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,840
Speaker 1: I knew I wasn't insane, Like I knew this woman

1093
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: was in the wrong, Like I knew my feelings were valid,

1094
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: like sure my like I didn't handle myself well, but.

1095
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:51,959
Speaker 3: Like I'm sorry, I'm just a game all the time,

1096
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 3: Like I will pop someone with my words, like it happens,

1097
00:44:55,800 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 3: it happens. How long do the dinner parties tend to last?

1098
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 2: Because I feel like there's so much packed into those

1099
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 2: that episode.

1100
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 3: How long are you sitting there? I didn't have a

1101
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 3: phone on me to really know, you don't even know.

1102
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: So usually you get you do your in the apartment,

1103
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: you know, when you're talking to your man's you're like hey, like,

1104
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I wonder what's going with this couple. This couple,

1105
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: this couple that could be filmed at ten in the morning.

1106
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 3: Oh shit, okay, so like really early.

1107
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: But then they leave you for hours, Like you kind

1108
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: of have your food what not, You have a cheeky

1109
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: dart on the balcony.

1110
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,399
Speaker 3: What if you want to do in that time? Up

1111
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 3: to you?

1112
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, usually we like run out and get a muscle,

1113
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: chef meals ye speak, and just try to eat as

1114
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: much as you can before and then you try and

1115
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 1: eat before the dinner party because you won't eat for

1116
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 1: fucking ages. Oh really yeah, ages, Like, so you try

1117
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: to eat as much as you can and like grab

1118
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: a bunch of stuff like snacks, sprink.

1119
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 3: God with the dinner parties being like as long as

1120
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 3: they were.

1121
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:54,359
Speaker 2: If I'd gotten cut off in the first like hour,

1122
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 2: I'd be sitting there like actually fucking die, like I

1123
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:57,760
Speaker 2: don't want.

1124
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 3: To be here. It would take like you'd have to

1125
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 3: be like really really really really drunk to have them.

1126
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 3: Would they cut people off regularly?

1127
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, all the time. Again, they just can't have you

1128
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: intoxicate on TV. So if you're showing any signs, they're gonna.

1129
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 3: Cut you off. YEA.

1130
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: Cars usually start they it's one couple of time, will

1131
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: go they start aging. Yeah, I think around like three

1132
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: o'clock they'd start.

1133
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 3: Oh, like it's like a whole school day.

1134
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you get then I remember like arriving like,

1135
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, they fielm me come out of the car,

1136
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: You kiss your man, and you're gonna walk into the

1137
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,799
Speaker 1: cockpit part No, you walk into a tent.

1138
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 3: A tent, what do you mean?

1139
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: They have like little tents inside the studio and you're

1140
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 1: all in a separate tent and you're all in separate

1141
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: ones next to each other. The worst is if you

1142
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 1: are not speaking to your husband and you sit in

1143
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: a tent by yourself, because you could be in that

1144
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: tenth for four hours before you go into it with

1145
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: no party, with no phone.

1146
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 3: Do they give you like a deck of cards or something?

1147
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 3: They actually do. They've got like old coloring in books.

1148
00:46:59,160 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 3: Oh my god. The next.

1149
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: I used to bring a sadoku, Dave or a game boy.

1150
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so you can bring like something like.

1151
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: And then see drinks sometimes, but that's when yeah, Dave

1152
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: did get cut off.

1153
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 3: It's too drunk because he's been drinking in the tent.

1154
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah a k a ape cheeky drink. Yeah. Yeah. It's

1155
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 3: like just like because you can't vape e. It's like

1156
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 3: you're not allowed to talk to the people in the tent,

1157
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 3: but you can't, but you would you like pull it down.

1158
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 1: Someone came because there's like it's like being in prison

1159
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 1: because there's like there's all these like crew members, Like

1160
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 1: it's so interesting, like but then you got like little

1161
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: like packets of shapes and stuff like.

1162
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 3: To eat, like and you're like scoffing these shapes.

1163
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so funny, and like two chairs.

1164
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 3: And then when they start like pulling people to enter, you.

1165
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 1: Like oh yeah, and there's yeah, you're like thank God.

1166
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 1: And then but then you'll be waiting on the other

1167
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: side of the door. Pop for another ten fifteen minutes

1168
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 1: will actually let you in.

1169
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 3: God.

1170
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 2: I feel like that needs to be workshopped because that's

1171
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 2: a process.

1172
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: It is a process. But like I'm it's all about

1173
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: the view on. The viewer has no idea. It's so seamless.

1174
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 1: But then when they go okay, dinner serves, you get

1175
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: a walks and then stop. Everyone goes back to the

1176
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 1: tent and you do your voxy so you're talking to

1177
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 1: camera and you have to go through every single person.

1178
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: So when there's full house, that can take hours.

1179
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 2: Before you even get dinner. So they go dinner is served,

1180
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 2: and then it can be like.

1181
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's usually it's still usually still light out

1182
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: when they say dinner serve, so it's I think it's

1183
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: still about like six seven, yeah, and.

1184
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 3: Then we actually go on sinner.

1185
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: It's nighttime, so I reckon we go into about dinner

1186
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 1: maybe around eight nine. But the first dinner party, I know,

1187
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: we finish dinner, we did our voxy because you do

1188
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: voxes after your dinner party as well, and then we left.

1189
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: That was about two thirty, and I remember I am

1190
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: I am shit Fuzy someone from the old cast, because Dave,

1191
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: you speak to a few people from the old cast

1192
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, that's pretty early because sometimes basically

1193
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: when it was light out.

1194
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 3: So you're like pulling all nighters. Yeah, people are hungry

1195
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 3: people tie.

1196
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: We were so fucking wild. We started smashing out every

1197
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,919
Speaker 1: dinner party with Lee before midnight. They would actually cut

1198
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 1: us off, but no, no, we're done, and like we're

1199
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 1: not finished.

1200
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 3: Yet, like I still have shit to say. Yeah, we

1201
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 3: just we were like we've got shipped to say.

1202
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 1: We got really comfortable because we actually all got busted

1203
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: hanging out off camera and that's a big no no.

1204
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 3: Because they need what you're gonna say. They need that film.

1205
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,879
Speaker 1: And we had the entire cast with Daily Mail, which

1206
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 1: is another big no no. And we got our asses

1207
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: handed to us, and I remember they were like, you

1208
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 1: better fucking bring it this dinner party. There was the

1209
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: second dinner party, and so we got so comfortable. Australia

1210
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: was soon sit down. Hey I heard this, I let's

1211
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: just get this out. So and so then we just

1212
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: started smashing it out like yeah, it was just like

1213
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: straight in.

1214
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 2: No lube quote by Jamie. Obviously, I didn't want to

1215
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 2: get too much into Dave because I'm like, that's not

1216
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,719
Speaker 2: your whole math story, do you know what I mean?

1217
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,919
Speaker 2: But what's your relationship like with Dave? Dave and I

1218
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 2: had no contact.

1219
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 3: I respected gum, It's.

1220
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 1: Not I wanted to say friends with him, and I

1221
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: think he did too. That was like kind of important.

1222
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like it hurts so much it gets complicated.

1223
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: It definitely gets complicated. Yeah, I remember, like when it

1224
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: first was airing, was very easy to be friends, Like,

1225
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: oh my god.

1226
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 3: You see all those nights.

1227
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, like we are like the best couple ever, Like, oh,

1228
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: I love this.

1229
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 3: How funny was this episode?

1230
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 1: You know, Dave's someone who loves being loved. He loved

1231
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: being the Golden boy, and.

1232
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 3: You would have been such a good wife to him

1233
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 3: and just made him feel.

1234
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: Like, yes, the public was loving Dave and so he

1235
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: was my mum's favorite.

1236
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, he felt amazing.

1237
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: And then when our relationship turned, I feel like he

1238
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 1: almost blamed me.

1239
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 2: I think it was just frustrating for everyone to watch

1240
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 2: because what you said I think was so true is

1241
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 2: when were you going to let me know that you

1242
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 2: weren't feeling the same feelings? Like would we have just

1243
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 2: continued on forever? But I didn't say something he was

1244
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 2: that was like even frustrating as a viewer. I'm like,

1245
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 2: is there a reason why you never felt like you

1246
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 2: could say it?

1247
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was just coasting through I think. Then that's

1248
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 1: what was really hard for me, and what frustrates me

1249
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: so much is people in the audience going, you can't

1250
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: make him fall in love with you.

1251
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 3: You can't.

1252
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, no one has asked him. Sit down, Rebecca, Like,

1253
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: that's not all I said.

1254
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 3: I said, I.

1255
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: Don't care if you don't find me attractive. If you're

1256
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: not in just tell me, Just tell me. People were

1257
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 1: so confused in the audience, like saying I was begging

1258
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: him to be in love with me. No, I just

1259
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 1: want to just want to answer. I'm like, don't sell

1260
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: me a dream, build a future with me. If you're

1261
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: not into me, I just need to know. And then

1262
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,359
Speaker 1: I said, I haven't told him off camera. If you're

1263
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: into me, just tell me off camera, and we like,

1264
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 1: we can figure it out if you don't want it

1265
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 1: to be a public fair.

1266
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 2: But I feel like it's so challenging as well for

1267
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 2: you to be the one that's in pain and all

1268
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 2: this stuff, yet you're the one that has to literally

1269
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 2: pull it out.

1270
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 3: Of this match.

1271
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's what was so frustrating with the Dave

1272
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: cult followers that were like villifying me in the process.

1273
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm just a girl that fell for a

1274
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: boy who lied to me.

1275
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 3: Before.

1276
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:08,799
Speaker 1: Okay, So like I'm like, I'm not the bad guy here.

1277
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: I'm literally I'm doing the most for Dave. I like,

1278
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: I literally stuck around and made him look better, even

1279
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 1: though it was chilling me being there because I'm like

1280
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 1: every day I'm like, he's not into me.

1281
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 3: He's not into me.

1282
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 1: He's not into me, but he's like feeding me these

1283
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: lies and everyone's going, Jane, but he's saying he cares

1284
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 1: about you. You know you're going to look like So yeah,

1285
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: when it did air and the public started turning on him,

1286
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: it's like he blamed me, But I'm like, this is

1287
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 1: what you actually, I'm like, forget about the public. Now

1288
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: that you've seen what you put me through, do you

1289
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: like have empathy? Like the first the dinner party where

1290
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: it all went really like sour for us, like he did,

1291
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,799
Speaker 1: I said to him because I saw it beforehand, and

1292
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: I was like, I hope to God you called me

1293
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: tonight and apologize for what you put me through because

1294
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 1: that was so hard to watch back.

1295
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 3: And he did.

1296
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 1: He apologized, but then all of a sudden, in his

1297
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: like press, he just started like blaming Adrian like shifting blame.

1298
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,800
Speaker 1: It's yeah, hard to speak to Jamie.

1299
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,919
Speaker 3: Like taking accountability is so fuckingtant. Yeah.

1300
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:10,879
Speaker 1: I feel like he read the comments section of people

1301
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: that didn't like me and try to pick those as

1302
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: like reasons. Yeah right, and I'm like, I didn't let

1303
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: you speak, Like, dude, we were on a couch and

1304
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:19,799
Speaker 1: I'm going.

1305
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 3: And you're like.

1306
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: They literally posted it on Instagram. The Math's account posts

1307
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 1: on Instagram. The science is definitely didn't let you speak.

1308
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 1: I was begging for you to say anything.

1309
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:34,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're.

1310
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: Permanent fucking smoker. I'm like, bro, and that's that's.

1311
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 3: Why I give me something, give me anything, say out loud.

1312
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 3: I'm not. It just wasn't on his bingo car that

1313
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 3: I was going to figure out.

1314
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: Who was lying had not come up with this response yet.

1315
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's just it was actually really I even got

1316
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,320
Speaker 2: emotional watching that part of it because that's kind of

1317
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 2: when I started watching, and it's like I just hate

1318
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 2: that he just didn't tell you and it made you

1319
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 2: actually ask him directly, because like I've had that and

1320
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 2: it's like you're not here anymore with me, and then

1321
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 2: it's like you're almost the one that's having to do

1322
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 2: it when it's like I'm the one hurting.

1323
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 3: You should be telling me, you're making me ask.

1324
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 1: That's what the annoying thing was, because the thing is

1325
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 1: like I came in very assertive, but at the same

1326
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 1: time I was riddled with anxiety, knowing full well I'm

1327
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:25,320
Speaker 1: about to be heartbroken and humiliated and everyone but I

1328
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: might tell me an answer, and people like again, like

1329
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: the fuck wits of the world, no one I cared to,

1330
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 1: like no associate with, feel like.

1331
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, she's not letting sick. Oh she's being aggressive.

1332
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 3: But I'm like, I'm.

1333
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: Freaking out, hurting and freaking out, and I'm looking at

1334
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: someone and this is my part is the scariest thing

1335
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 1: I've ever gone through my life. Is when you look

1336
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 1: at someone who is your safe space, who you think

1337
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 1: you know so well, who you're like, Okay, this is

1338
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: the most like, yep, everything is guaranteed, we're gonna like

1339
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: end up together. To looking at someone who looks like

1340
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 1: they hate you, like who are you don't know who

1341
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:05,839
Speaker 1: they are? Like you feel so unsafe. It is the

1342
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 1: scariest feeling in the world. I looked at him and

1343
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: it's like his eyes had changed, and I remember going, Dave,

1344
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: it's you and me, like, look who you're right now?

1345
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 3: Who are you? Where are you?

1346
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: Like I couldn't find him in the person sitting in.

1347
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 3: Front of me. You just wanted to like scream and

1348
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 3: hit him and be like are you going?

1349
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: Because everyone saw the husband I had, which was like

1350
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: this soft man who was so right or die for

1351
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: me and champion me. Like he like we left and

1352
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: we were all fine. I came back and he was like,

1353
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 1: it's like did my ex pay you to be here?

1354
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 3: Like what the fuck is happening right now? Yeah?

1355
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: I felt like the ultimate revenge, Like he literally hated

1356
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: me when I came back.

1357
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 2: Well, I think no contact is good. Good riddens, wish

1358
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:53,360
Speaker 2: him the best onto more. I actually think my viewers

1359
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 2: would listeners would kill me if I didn't ask. You're

1360
00:55:56,719 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 2: not saying, Elliott, no, no, well you ever so okay?

1361
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: So like I am one hundred percent of authentic bitch.

1362
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,279
Speaker 1: I did not do a publicity stuff. No, I don't

1363
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: don't think like when like Elliot and I actually got

1364
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: along quite well during filming, but obviously you're not gonna

1365
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:13,879
Speaker 1: like spend that much time with someone else's husbands, you're

1366
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: focusing on your own husband. But once the show was airing,

1367
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 1: we got each other's contact details and me and him like,

1368
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 1: we just don't stop talking, like we'll be on the

1369
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:22,240
Speaker 1: phone forty minutes.

1370
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 3: Like again, super platonic. So it's all just platonic.

1371
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:28,320
Speaker 1: When we saw each other in Sydney, I was single

1372
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 1: for the first time because I didn't date anyone during

1373
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: Master or anyone.

1374
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 3: I want to know.

1375
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: I was with Dave and like he was obviously single.

1376
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 1: Was like, and then we'll just.

1377
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 3: Like we're flirters.

1378
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: We were like throw relationship out of each other, had

1379
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 1: a little makeout. He said he should come to Gold Coast,

1380
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: so I did stay with him in Gold Coast a

1381
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 1: little bit. But unfortunately, when I'm like I'm gonna come

1382
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 1: to Gold Coast, everyone fucking knew about it. We were

1383
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 1: followed by peraps. We didn't say any of this up.

1384
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: We never made a single dollar off this relationship that

1385
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: was brewing, and it was just I think it kind

1386
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: of ruined it because like before we even had a

1387
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 1: chance to really think about it, it was like the

1388
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 1: whole Internet was like you need me together, and it

1389
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 1: kind of romanticized it more for me because I'm like, shit,

1390
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: like should.

1391
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 3: Think we're so good together? Like shit, are we good together?

1392
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 1: And the thing is like he's like my best friend,

1393
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: Like I speak to him like every day we again

1394
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 1: we choose to be in each other's lives.

1395
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 3: But he's not my person. Yeah, I'm not his person.

1396
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 2: I can have him as a person that's like a

1397
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 2: friendship person, you.

1398
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 3: Know, Yeah, I find your person.

1399
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: I think we were open to it one stage, trying

1400
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: to explore it, but like every time we'd clash. Is

1401
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: when it's something more, when we're just friends, it so works,

1402
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,200
Speaker 1: but when it's something more, it doesn't work.

1403
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your dating life in like post maps? Have

1404
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 3: you found it easier? Harder? You find you're getting a

1405
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 3: lot of dms.

1406
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 1: No, this is the tragic thing. So the only person

1407
00:57:57,200 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 1: I really have like dated has been earlier. Right, So

1408
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: it's like really grim but I did.

1409
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 3: Just it happens. You're learning you've been through a traumatic

1410
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 3: time too.

1411
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing. I going onto maths. Like I

1412
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 1: remember like Dave and I were both like, oh, we

1413
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: haven't slept with anyone for like a year because I said,

1414
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: like I want to be intentional with who I sleep

1415
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 1: with and I'm serious and so like, yes, I haven't

1416
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: really spread my seed, but I did just have a

1417
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 1: euro summer romance.

1418
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 3: Okay, great, and that was like amazing.

1419
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 1: That was like on a real and made me really

1420
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 1: devo to come back hod.

1421
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 3: Okay, well that's alright.

1422
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 2: I feel like you kind of broke the seal there

1423
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 2: and now you can spread your seed, yeah, I around Melbourne.

1424
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 2: So watch out, guys, Jamie spreading our seed around Melbourne.

1425
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 2: Get ready to catch it. All right, guys, thank you

1426
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 2: so much, Jamie. That was so much fun. I love

1427
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 2: hearing about all that stuff. We appreciate you and we

1428
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 2: love you the People's princess.

1429
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 3: Yay, all right guys. Bye,