1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Lossie. It is good to have you back. 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 2: It's good to be back. I did leave quite quickly 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 2: last week because we got a really awful phone call. Sorry, 4 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 2: on Tuesday, we got a really awful phone call that 5 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 2: no one ever wants to get and no one should 6 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: ever get, and that was that one of our best 7 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 2: friends had gone missing. And so we took off on 8 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 2: Tuesday up to Byron Bay and one of our great, 9 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 2: great friends, Jay, who has been one of my fiance 10 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: Paul's best friends for the last twenty years, went for 11 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 2: a surf on Tuesday and never came back and he 12 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: surfboard washed up on the beach, but he hasn't returned 13 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 2: to us yet. So we spent last week up there 14 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 2: with out with some of our friends and the police 15 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: and to rescue and everyone that could possibly get their 16 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 2: hands on deck trying to find him, and unfortunately, unfortunately 17 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 2: he hasn't been found. But yeah, we spent the week 18 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 2: walking the beaches and the nights walking the beaches trying 19 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 2: to find him, and it's been a really tough week. 20 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: He was a friend who is one of the just 21 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 2: the best people you could ever meet in your life. 22 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 2: He's a police officer, and we are so lucky to 23 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 2: have him as a friend, and so we knew if 24 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 2: the shoe was on the other foot, he wouldn't give 25 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: up looking for us, and we don't really want to 26 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 2: give up looking for him either. But at this point, 27 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 2: we don't know where, we don't know, we don't know 28 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: what's happened. It's how he's had a surfing accident. 29 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: Well, the am we don't cry on the phone together, 30 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: yestaffter that how's PAULI doing? 31 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: He's okay. It's been an awful week for for all 32 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 2: of Jay's family and friends. And I think it's I 33 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: don't know when when you you lose someone you love, 34 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: you sort of just in a bit of a bit 35 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 2: of a bubble for a bit, I think, And and 36 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 2: when you don't know where it is, it's sort of 37 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 2: harder to move on to that next stage of understanding 38 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: as well. So it has been a really big week 39 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: for a lot of our friends and family and Jay's 40 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 2: friends and family. And I'm so grateful you guys just 41 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 2: picked up for me here and let me go and 42 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: we got to have time together up there. But God, 43 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 2: it's just such a reminder that life is just so so. 44 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: Appreciated and I was saying that last night. I just 45 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: thinks can just change? 46 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: The sea is just such a dark and can be 47 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 2: a dark and lonely place, can it come? And it's 48 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 2: just he was a surfer, he loved surfing, and and 49 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: you know he was out hopefully catching a really good wave. 50 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 2: But we were lucky that we we actually spoke to 51 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 2: Jade on the night before and you know, we had 52 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: Chad and you know, it's always we always tell our 53 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:29,959 Speaker 2: friends when we hang up on the phone, love you mate, 54 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: And so I'm so glad that we got to tell 55 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: him that. But it is just such a reminder to 56 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 2: just just love your friends and tell them that you 57 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 2: love them. And because you really just don't know when 58 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 2: the last time you might see someone is. And this 59 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 2: has been a real and sobering reminder of that. It's 60 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 2: been yeah, horrendous, hideous week. 61 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: Like I said, you on the phone last night, don't 62 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: yourself this week. You and Paul then take care of 63 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: yourself if you just need to take time out from 64 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: the show here and there by all means just go 65 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: thank you because I know you're still living it, yeah, 66 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: and where we're here for you, but always thank you. 67 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 2: But yes, just a reminder to everybody to tell the 68 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 2: people that you love that you love them at every 69 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 2: opportunity you get.