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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. Okay, no this Saturday. Actually I

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Speaker 2: I'm just drinking with my friends. It's not that big

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's a bit tricky because how am I

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Speaker 2: Why do you need to book anything in? Why don't

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Speaker 2: we just player by year? See when something pops up.

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Speaker 2: The way you're talking is you're fifty percent of the

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Speaker 2: person you have potential to be, and you're looking for

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Speaker 2: the other fifty percent in a girlfriend, where in reality,

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Speaker 2: a relationship is one hundred percent of a person going

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Speaker 2: to another one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: Of a person. Yeah, one hundred percent. Wait a second,

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Speaker 1: these girls are very smart. Do they want us to

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Speaker 1: be naked?

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Speaker 2: Fact, that's such a good point, because I was looking,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I can't wear fucking socks.

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Speaker 1: I can't wear.

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Speaker 2: Relatable.

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Speaker 1: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Buddy,

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Speaker 1: and my partner in crime, Buddie Clark aka the Big

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Speaker 1: m Yeah that's me, maybe the Big the Big Mine.

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Speaker 2: Bigg in size that's in size, mate, that's what people say,

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Speaker 2: big in size. You are big in statue. What the

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Speaker 2: way big things did the Big MINEE? You're starting derogatory

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Speaker 2: to two weeks in a row.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's not good for our algorithm. I'm key

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Speaker 1: to be back for another episode. Yeah, a main episode.

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Speaker 1: I love recording these, Yeah, we love recording the three

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Speaker 1: of them. Yeah, we have a.

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Speaker 2: Confession, guys.

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Speaker 1: We have a full episode that we recorded earlier this

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Speaker 1: week that was supposed to be the one you guys

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Speaker 1: were hearing. But fifty seven or fifty eight minutes in,

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Speaker 1: we were literally about to do the outro and say

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Speaker 1: thanks listening, love you, blah blah blah, and our new

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Speaker 1: like tech just went like in our headphones and everything

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Speaker 2: That's what That's what we get for upgrade setups.

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Speaker 1: That's what you get if you guys are trying to

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Speaker 1: if you guys want to invest in your future, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't do it. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Exactly.

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Speaker 1: We were so devastated. It was a full episode. It

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Speaker 1: was a good episodees. We had like three more minutes later.

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Speaker 1: The audio, though, is all good. There's no video, but

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Speaker 1: the audio is all good. So it ends abruptly. So

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Speaker 1: what we're going to do is we're going to put

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Speaker 1: it on Patreon one of these days. We're good, Actually,

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Speaker 1: episode over there, go Patreon. Mate.

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Speaker 2: It's already worthy money as it is, but there's an

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Speaker 2: extra little perk. But today, Jake, I'm in the mood

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Speaker 2: to argue, yep with you? What are we arguing about today?

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Speaker 2: Saturdays are for the boys? Yeah, they for and against.

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Speaker 2: I actually don't know which one I want and why,

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Speaker 1: With you, like like I didn't, we'll see what happens.

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Speaker 1: So which one do you would you prefer to argue?

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Speaker 2: I think it'd be fun to argue for the boys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it wouldn't, but obviously it doesn't really matter. It funer, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe like logic and see whoever wins gets to make

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Speaker 1: Okay you call it in the air. Yeah, okay, I

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Speaker 1: haven't won one yet, No you haven't, and it should

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Speaker 1: be fifty to fifty. Yeah, tales ever fails with a

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Speaker 1: you can see this, what do you want? I think

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Speaker 2: Sweet, So I get to be toxic.

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Speaker 1: Who do you reckon?

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Speaker 2: It's better being toxic? You were me, you did good

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I went heavy. Yeah, I went heavy into it.

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Speaker 2: People people just like couldn't get it out of their head.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we should also pretend like we're both in relationships too, okay,

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Speaker 2: Okay get each other, you know, like you're with your

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Speaker 1: This is okay, And yes, that would actually help. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So I'm going to be like, oh, here we go, Jake,

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Speaker 1: What am I? I'm arguing, Oh, you know, Okay, no

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Speaker 2: They are are they?

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Speaker 2: It's my time to relax with my friend.

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Speaker 1: I just I find it's so hard to organize anything

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Speaker 2: That's a very very good point. So you think he's

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Speaker 2: Let's just why do you need to book anything in?

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Speaker 2: Why don't we just play it by year? See when

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Speaker 1: That's just not how life works. Go okay, because the flow.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing is why am I? Why am I not? Like?

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Speaker 2: A year, eight a minute.

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Speaker 1: If we're getting technical here, Technically speaking, we haven't booked

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Speaker 2: But it's always going to be with the boys. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't see why this is a problem. We sleep

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Speaker 2: Fuck, that was a good one. I was hated that

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Speaker 2: we really got into character then, didn't we I think

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Speaker 1: Boy? You know what? If fully is? You know what?

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Speaker 1: get a rude shock when it comes. Yeah, and push

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Speaker 2: Those guys only get any sort of attraction because of

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Speaker 1: I mean. Yeah, I see exactly where you come from.

435
00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, long ramble, but yeah, that's what happened. I've

436
00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:17,720
Speaker 1: been thinking along.

437
00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:21,040
Speaker 2: I've been thinking a lot about how like our friendship

438
00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:25,119
Speaker 2: groups falling apart, which, like face value, is very like

439
00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:28,840
Speaker 2: hard to accept. But also I've sort of looked at

440
00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,600
Speaker 2: it a little bit of a different way, and like,

441
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 2: although we don't hang out anymore, I'm part of the

442
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,119
Speaker 2: reason I don't make much of an effort to hang

443
00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,720
Speaker 2: out with certain people. Same But it's also like I

444
00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,359
Speaker 2: kind of look at it as this is the first

445
00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:40,960
Speaker 2: time we've all had the means to do what we

446
00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:43,119
Speaker 2: actually want to do in life. We have money, we

447
00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,840
Speaker 2: have like the brains, we have the mental capacity to

448
00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,120
Speaker 2: back what we want to do in life, and we're

449
00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,280
Speaker 2: all going our own journeys and we're all experienced. We're

450
00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,040
Speaker 2: growing as people in the way we want to grow,

451
00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,680
Speaker 2: whereas beforehand we've all been forced to be in the

452
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 2: same place as life, same place in life. Yeah, so

453
00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:58,640
Speaker 2: like I've been looking at as like, oh fuck, oh well,

454
00:19:58,680 --> 00:19:59,919
Speaker 2: I am losing my friends just a little bit.

455
00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 1: But like they're doing what they want to do, we're

456
00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:04,879
Speaker 1: doing what we want to do is completely.

457
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 2: Different, So it's so hard to relate to each other

458
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:08,840
Speaker 2: and like come at the end of the day or

459
00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,240
Speaker 2: on the weekend and be like i's hang out and

460
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 2: then we tolk and we don't have any of the

461
00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,040
Speaker 2: similar interests we used to anymore.

462
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 1: No, we don't really, so it's just growing. And I

463
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:17,919
Speaker 1: guess that's like the harsh reality of life is just

464
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:20,359
Speaker 1: like ah, fuck, yeah you do. I didn't think it's

465
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:22,040
Speaker 1: gonna happen in our group, Like nah, you don't think

466
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. Yeah, And the thing is there was

467
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:27,480
Speaker 1: like we're not not friends, no, and it's like nothing happened.

468
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,600
Speaker 1: There was no fight, there's no like we wouldn't avoid

469
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:32,440
Speaker 1: each other. Like when you see him at the gym,

470
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,240
Speaker 1: it's like yo, you say high, like long time I

471
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 1: see and then you have a little catch up. Then

472
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Speaker 1: I literally saw one of the gym I saying he's like, well,

473
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,120
Speaker 1: I won't see you in three months. There is anything

474
00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 1: else gonna talk, yeah, exactly about I was like, I

475
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:45,159
Speaker 1: don't know, it's really nice though, it's funny, like and

476
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 1: it's just I don't know, it's just the way we are.

477
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,960
Speaker 1: I guess, like I don't think like I think there

478
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,480
Speaker 1: would be people out there that would say the way

479
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 1: you guys are talking is really sad. But for some reason,

480
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,320
Speaker 1: is it a problem that I don't feel like it is.

481
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 2: I don't think it's a problem. I think as long

482
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 2: as you feel happy with your relationships. Although they don't

483
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,359
Speaker 2: hang out all the time, but if they did that, like,

484
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 2: it's not there's no mal intend in it. Yeah, like

485
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:11,360
Speaker 2: they didn't do it because they're like, oh fuck, let's

486
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,240
Speaker 2: make sure we can't. It would be it would be

487
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 2: funny if like now he said I can come Saturday, voice.

488
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,159
Speaker 1: Be like all right, we're not going, like actually were can,

489
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:22,080
Speaker 1: and then they went so yeah, yeah, like there was

490
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 1: just I think the difference between boy and girl groups

491
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,919
Speaker 1: is guys sort of unconsciously do it and just do

492
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:31,399
Speaker 1: whatever feels right, whereas girls would if.

493
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,560
Speaker 2: They didn't like a girl, potentially make the effort to

494
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,000
Speaker 2: not invite someone. Yeah, guys don't really do it even

495
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,360
Speaker 2: if we didn't like someone in the group, like properly

496
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 2: didn't like them, but still but they're still welcome to come.

497
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 1: Yeah. True, there's no one that I can't stand to

498
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 1: a level of like I'm literally going to avoid.

499
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'm going to change the events so they

500
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 2: can't come. Like, no guy would ever do that. They

501
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:51,679
Speaker 2: they're just com and be like, hey man, they're not

502
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:52,120
Speaker 2: talked about.

503
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. It's very weird. So have you got

504
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:59,680
Speaker 1: what about you? Man? I do my man boy problem?

505
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 1: My life is.

506
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 2: I think it's relatable because you've done it ever since

507
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 2: you started dating your girlfriend, and I think most people

508
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 2: in a relationship probably like do it. I'm going to

509
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 2: call it loving on a schedule. Is the first time

510
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,400
Speaker 2: in my relationship that I've had to love on a schedule,

511
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: and I'm learning to do so that's not a.

512
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:20,160
Speaker 1: Bad thing by any means.

513
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:21,919
Speaker 2: I'm just learning it and that it's what I'm dealing

514
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 2: with at the moment because my girlfriend got a new

515
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:28,399
Speaker 2: job and she's actually working like eight till four Monday

516
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 2: to Thursday. Yep, completely fine, completely fine, go her like,

517
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 2: I don't care about that. And then she has like

518
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 2: her own life, yeah then she has Yeah, then then

519
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 2: she has her own life, and then like and then

520
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,360
Speaker 2: we plan like things around that whereas before because our

521
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:43,240
Speaker 2: lives like we do what we want.

522
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 1: Well, yeah we can. Really the beauty of our job

523
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: is that like, when you do have a relationship, you

524
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 1: can really mold your day around there. Yeah. The tricky

525
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,680
Speaker 1: thing is, though, is if you do it a lot

526
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 1: and then you get to a point where I like,

527
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 1: I'm sick of molding my day around yours, just like wait,

528
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 1: can I even put my foot down exactly?

529
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 2: And beforehand, she had like a really early job at

530
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 2: a gym as a receptionist, so she was done by

531
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 2: eleven o'clock. Yeah, so but now she's working like full

532
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 2: days and she's tired, and then, like you said, she

533
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 2: has a full life, which I'm all for.

534
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's like it's like.

535
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 2: Learning to communicate when we're tired and make time and

536
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 2: quality time on the weekend. And it's just like I'm

537
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 2: just figuring out how I want to do that, and

538
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 2: that's what's going on in my life.

539
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: That is that's that's funny. Yeah, And it's so yeah. Well,

540
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 1: so obviously like Monday to Thursday, it's not written off

541
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,880
Speaker 1: to hang out, but you would hang out a lot

542
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: less now month from mondays Oh yeah, she's only just

543
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 1: started too, so I'm like she's got to settle and

544
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: like get so right now. It's the hardest, Yeah, she'd

545
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 1: be actually tired and stuff. I'm not I'm not complaining

546
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: like not seeing her at all anything like that, but

547
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: she's also like I don't expect to see her on

548
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: a Tuesday because she's tired, she wants She wakes up

549
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 1: the next day and goes to the gym at five

550
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:49,880
Speaker 1: am and then goes to work. Fuck man, I can't

551
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: believe she does that day.

552
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, like she's drowning and I'm proud of her, but

553
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,400
Speaker 2: like it's also just like, oh, I've good, this is different.

554
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 1: Figure out how to make this work. So you also

555
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 1: don't like it's like, yeah, you could say I'll come

556
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 1: stay at your place or whatever, but then yeah, if

557
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 1: she's getting up for five am to go to the gym,

558
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 1: because like you know, she's on the grind, then you're

559
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: up at five. And it's also tricky for our position

560
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: because our life is so multiple, we do a lot

561
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: of things. But it's also like I could do that,

562
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 1: but also also like it impacts my day, but my

563
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 1: day isn't set, like I don't have to be at

564
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,399
Speaker 1: work at eight o'clock. See, I feel for that. I

565
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:24,679
Speaker 1: think it's funny that you say that. I feel the same. Yeah,

566
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: and what I actually so for the longest time, I've

567
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 1: been really bad at like voicing, so like when I

568
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: don't know, like voicing that I really do want a routine.

569
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: As much as it's like we say the nine to

570
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 1: five sucks, it's also like the routine's great. So like

571
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 1: nine to five for us is good because it's like

572
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: we're doing it because we want to do it right

573
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: and so on. Say, I think it was Monday. I

574
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: was like, they have this thing. I still have this thing.

575
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: Even though we can work whenever we want, I still

576
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: have this thing that like Monday to Friday other work days,

577
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: and so this Monday just gone. On Sunday night, I

578
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 1: stayed at best place. We went out for dinner. It

579
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 1: was because it was the only day we could hang out.

580
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: And so I was like, oh, well I'll stay the

581
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: night because I can. Yeah. I just feel like it'd

582
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 1: be fucked if I was like, no, I don't want

583
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 1: to even though I can.

584
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can pretty much say yes to everything around

585
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 2: when we have to do our work around them, yeah, which.

586
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: And it's like good but bad. Yeah, it's a champagne problem,

587
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 1: but it's also a problem. So I basically was in

588
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 1: my head like I need to. I was like i'd

589
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 1: like to because and so the reason why I was

590
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: in mead is because this year I've given myself the

591
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: goal of just wanting to fall in love with the

592
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 1: gym again. And so I have my routine now where

593
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: every day I'll wake up, go for a fifteen minute walk,

594
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: and then I do a little bit of work from

595
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 1: like eight till nine, have breakfast, do a little bit

596
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: more from nine till like ten forty five, then go

597
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: to the gym. I find a really like going on

598
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 1: the gym at eleven, and as soon as I get

599
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: home lunch because like, I don't want to go to

600
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: the gym and have like and then I ate lunch

601
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,679
Speaker 1: straight away. And then on the days we record, as

602
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 1: soon as I'm done lunch, you come over to record

603
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: and then but other than that, I would just like

604
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: go edit or work more. And so this particular day

605
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: we weren't recording. It was just going to be like

606
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: a work day. And so on Monday, I didn't get

607
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 1: I had to drive home from Sydney. I didn't get

608
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: home until like maybe nine, but I had to go

609
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: grocery shoping because I didn't have any food and so

610
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,719
Speaker 1: I was like, Fuck, my day isn't going to get

611
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 1: started until so so late. And I was like, you

612
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 1: know what, though having the flexibility means I could do

613
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: the same routine, but it's just like everything's going to

614
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 1: be pushed back a few hours. So I did that. Basically,

615
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 1: I just as soon as I got home, I did

616
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 1: the amount of work I would want to do, and

617
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: then I ate. So I just pushed everything back just

618
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: like that little bit further and it seemed to be fine. Yeah,

619
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: it is very good.

620
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's also like setting boundaries for yourself and

621
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 2: your relationship. It was like, although I can make everything work, yeah,

622
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 2: like I don't have to.

623
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: No, it's funny, isn't it. Maybe it's probably conversation like

624
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: that we should both have with that girlfriends Like I'm

625
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: not we could bring it up like I'm not having

626
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: this conversation with you to say that you've been doing

627
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 1: something wrong. Yeah, it's that I was molding everything around

628
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: you for so long and I don't know, I don't

629
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: want to do that anymore. It doesn't sound good. Don't

630
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: think that sounds good because it's like I'll still mold

631
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,919
Speaker 1: stuff around you because I want to see you, but

632
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: at the same time it's like I'm I'm okay, not great,

633
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: but I don't know how I wouldn't say it like that.

634
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 2: I've been molding my life around you because I haven't been.

635
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: It's because I also do what I want.

636
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: I think it would be more like setting up your

637
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 2: job how you want it to look, and then telling

638
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 2: her that this is my job, although it's very flexible,

639
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 2: this is how I like to work, yeah, true, yeah,

640
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: and then saying like, this is my schedule. I know

641
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 2: what yours is because your work is set, yeah, and

642
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 2: like let's work around both of our schedules together.

643
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: Maybe that's better.

644
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 2: It's probably is better, yeah, because like you do have

645
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 2: we do have routine, exact same thing, like the way

646
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 2: I like to edit a couple of hours in the

647
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 2: morning and everything like that. And then there's also days

648
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:06,719
Speaker 2: where I'm like, oh fuck it, I'll just hang out

649
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 2: of you.

650
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: It is so like tomorrow, for instance, Beth, she has

651
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: a day off Tomorrow and then she's working all Saturday,

652
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 1: and so this week, the only day I can see

653
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 1: her is all Friday. So I was like, well, look,

654
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 1: I'll just take all Friday off it as well, because

655
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 1: I can't. Yeah, And I mean, to be honest, thinking

656
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: about like it, I'm not worried about it, I guess, and.

657
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 2: It is a very Champagne problem. But imagine, like so

658
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,479
Speaker 2: I'm like trying to love on a schedule with how

659
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 2: I was a phrased it. Imagine like two people on

660
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: two separate city That's what I Yeah, I was just

661
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 2: thinking that at least we don't have a fucking schedule.

662
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point. Actually we're really winging about

663
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: nothing because like imagine someone that worked at a cafe

664
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 1: and then someone worked at a restaurant. Yeah, and their

665
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: schedules don't line up ever, and they don't have any flexibility.

666
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: It's not like they can be like, oh, take Friday,

667
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 1: you're true. They can't just be like, yeah, you know what,

668
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: I will actually start three hours later for you. They can't.

669
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: They'll get fucking fire. Yeah, exactly. That's tough. So me,

670
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: I wonder if there's any it's probably dilemma's in the

671
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: dilemmas about that, But if anyone's going through that, I'd

672
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: love to read a dilemma, and.

673
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 2: I think there would be heaps as well, also, like balancing,

674
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 2: Like we've talked about friends, jobs, and like prioritizing time

675
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 2: with your girlfriend when your schedule's alive, Like that'd be

676
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 2: that's so relatable.

677
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: So maybe what's something to take away from that? But

678
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: everyone's going through the same problems.

679
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that your friends are if you haven't, Yeah, but

680
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 2: you're going in different ways.

681
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 1: If you haven't problems with your friendships, You're not the

682
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: only one. It's okay, it's normal, yeah if.

683
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 2: You and I think it's also normal too, because even

684
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 2: I was just thinking in the back of my head,

685
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 2: I was like, are we going to sound like we're

686
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 2: fucking winching when we have a good job.

687
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: I was like, it's okay to have a problem when

688
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: you're doing good. Yeah, to say, if you have a

689
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: champagne problem that you think is a champagne problem, it's

690
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: still a problem. Yeah, it's still problem to be a problem. Yeah.

691
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: If you're doing good and then you've got a problem,

692
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 2: it's it's still a valid problem in your life, exactly.

693
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you know, you built the life the way

694
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: you wanted it to be built. So if it's a

695
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 1: problem for you, it's a problem for you. Yeah, exactly.

696
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 2: Good takeaway. It's that time of the episode where we

697
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 2: read some of your dilemmas.

698
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: You know what to do.

699
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 2: It is at the top of the description of this

700
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 2: episode or link in bio on Instagram.

701
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: Scroll down.

702
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: It says weekly dilemmas and it's all anonymous because we

703
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 2: are idiots. That was clean off the tongue. You didn't

704
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 2: want to hear the episode, which corrupt I forgot what

705
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: to say.

706
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: Okay, dilemma.

707
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,479
Speaker 2: My boyfriend works twice a week at a daycare and

708
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: one of those shifts, a girl from school tries to

709
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 2: flirt with him.

710
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: Definitely a coworker.

711
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: A couple months ago, she managed to get his number

712
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 2: for something work related in brackets he didn't really explain

713
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 2: and has since slid into his DMS a lot now.

714
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 2: Occasionally he would mention some conversations of her to me

715
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 2: and show me texts that she has sent, and when

716
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 2: I say it's weird, it's very weird. It was blatantly

717
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 2: obvious that she was trying to flirt with him, and

718
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 2: yet for some reason, he continues to message her. There

719
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 2: was one conversation where he joked that he had her

720
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 2: number on speeddar because I have to be in a

721
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 2: low mood most of the time. When he does talk

722
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 2: to her. He seems to joke about the messages, but

723
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 2: I do let him know I'm not entirely comfortable. I

724
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 2: have told him that it's pretty obvious that this girl

725
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 2: is flirting and to block her. And he seems to

726
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 2: think that that will get him fired because the girl

727
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 2: is friendly with the boss. Am I wrong for asking

728
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 2: him to stop message her? Or is it okay since

729
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: it's a colleague. This has been very confusing for me.

730
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 2: Damn son, Oh, I think that's completely disrespectful, very disrespectful.

731
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: Like yeah, and the fact that he can't see it

732
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: with his two eyes, that's crazy. He doesn't care raing No, I.

733
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 2: Think he likes the attention.

734
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think the excuse of get out of jail

735
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 1: free card and it's not the excuse of she's friendly

736
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: with the boss and that will get you fired. Is

737
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: literally like you could fucking sue the company. The boss

738
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: wouldn't do that. I guarantee you the boss isn't worried

739
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: about if you blocked her. Not if you're a good worker,

740
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:02,719
Speaker 1: he's gonna be like, I'm not getting rid of him

741
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 1: because he blocked you. Get over it. So he's confident

742
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: that he's a good worker and worth the money that

743
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: they spend on him, and he can block it.

744
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: And I don't even think it needs to come down

745
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 2: to blocking, because maybe that scene is a little bit toxic,

746
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 2: but your boyfriend should just be like, oh, I'm sorry,

747
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 2: I'm not going to talk to anymore, leave the number

748
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 2: in the phone, and just never reply unless it's work related. Like,

749
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: I also don't think it needs to come to a

750
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 2: block to be comfortable in their relationship. But this guy's

751
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: obviously lost your trust by doing this action.

752
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was that little thing? Remember? Remember that the

753
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 1: ted talk you brought once about little things of trust?

754
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:41,479
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what was that around? Good question, man, long time.

755
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 2: That was a long time ago. Trust trust, trust, Come on.

756
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: It was like you think it was that how to

757
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: gain trust again? Feed me, feed me? And I remember

758
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: being like, there was little things that can break trust, right,

759
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: So like, let's say that you and I are dating

760
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to have a conversation with you and

761
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: you're on your phone and you realize I'm trying to

762
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: talk to you, but you're still on your phone and

763
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: you don't really hear what I say. So I'm like,

764
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: what did I say? And you say I don't know. Yeah,

765
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: So it's like little things like that are going to

766
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: make me lose trust that I can't even fucking talk

767
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 1: to you while you're on your phone, because I also

768
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 1: don't trust that you're gonna get off your phone when

769
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: I start talking, so I'm not valuable. Yeah. And it's like,

770
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: you don't you don't want to sound dramatic, but like,

771
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, that's no. I think I think that's

772
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: a really good point, just the fact that he's making

773
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 1: it seem like such a minuscule thing talking to a colleague,

774
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: and like he said, it was just the word colleague,

775
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: like like there's not a big deal when it is

776
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: a big deal. Yeah, And he's sort of invalidating your

777
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: emotions by saying that because there's this extra scenario, there's

778
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: a colleague where in reality he should be doing way better. Yeah.

779
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: I find I find it hard to give benefit of

780
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: the doubt in these situations. A like I am trying

781
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: to think here. I think Beth said to me once,

782
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what what the situation was, right, I

783
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: have a feeling we it was just like a maybe

784
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: a friend of hers or something, and or it was

785
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: like a dilemma. I can't fully remember. Maybe she listened

786
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: to an episode it was a dilemma and it was like, oh,

787
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, he said to me, he's not one hundred

788
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 1: percent sure how he's feeling right now. I don't know

789
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: if Beth is just like mega strong minded in this way,

790
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: but she was like, if you said that to me,

791
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,839
Speaker 1: I would just break up with you because if you don't, like,

792
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 1: if I know that you don't love me as much

793
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: as I love you, and like I know where my

794
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 1: value's at, Like, if you're just going to disrespect me,

795
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: then I would just break up with you, Like it's

796
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: no brainer. I think that is a very strong mindset. Yeah.

797
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people like that. No, but

798
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: when she but I also like if Beth was to

799
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: come to me and be like check, I don't know

800
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: how I'm feeling and be like, oh, well I'll make

801
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 1: this easy for you, you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah,

802
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,959
Speaker 1: I think that's why you work well together. Yeah, but yeah,

803
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: I see where you're going. I think, And like, if

804
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:56,240
Speaker 1: Beth was had this guy at her work that I

805
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: was like, I had the strongest feeling was flirting with

806
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: her and then got her number and she was like

807
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: always always texting him and then would make jokes of

808
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: like when I'm in a bad mood, She's like, this

809
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 1: is the reason why I've got James Dunber on speed dial.

810
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Yeah, I was going to say.

811
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 2: What she should do is be like to her boyfriend,

812
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 2: you've crossed the boundary here. Yeah, like you're starting to

813
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 2: lose my trust or you've lost my trust. Yeah, I'm

814
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 2: not going to give you an ulterior automotive you know

815
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 2: what to do.

816
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not going to give you an automatum. That's stupid.

817
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 1: I'm just not comfortable with this. So and then see

818
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: what he does.

819
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: Then if he's like it's just a colleague again, then

820
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: be like, fuck you, I'm putting myself first.

821
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: True, it's a hard thing to do, but I think

822
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: he should do it. Yeah.

823
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, And he's just like he's just trading you, like

824
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 2: the dirt under your shoe. He is, you voiced how

825
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:45,919
Speaker 2: you feel, and he just like keeps doing it. That's

826
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 2: like just rubbing salt in the wound.

827
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like even though he could argue all day that

828
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: technically he's not like you know, doing he's not like

829
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: cheating or anything like that that's just because he's not

830
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 1: cheating doesn't mean he's not doing the wrong thing.

831
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And I think that's relatable. Is like so

832
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,800
Speaker 2: many relationships have all these problems that it faced value

833
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: might seem miniscule, Yeah, but they're not, like because society

834
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 2: has told you that that's just always just a collie,

835
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: Like all these problems should be like just brushed under

836
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: the door mat or whatever, Like they actually do have

837
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: a lot of value, and like, yeah, I think your

838
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 2: emotions are completely valid, very valid.

839
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: Maybe you should maybe you should just start messaging it, dude,

840
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: fight fire with fire, Like your boyfriend is very clearly

841
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: like he's pushing you away. Yeah, like anyone from an

842
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: outside perspective hearing what you just your dilemma would say

843
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: that he's pushing you away, and like you're getting pushed

844
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: away even though you don't want to be pushed away.

845
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: So very like eventually, like obviously you still look at

846
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: him as like, oh, but like the guy fell in

847
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: love with which is so fair, and so eventually you're

848
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: going to realize you're being pushed away and then you're

849
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: gonna let it happen, and then you're gonna do this.

850
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: So I reckon. Yeah, you just put your foot down. Yeah,

851
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: I think put your foot down to I have one

852
00:36:56,680 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 1: from a male to do with our Boys episode. I'm

853
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,240
Speaker 1: a twenty three year old guy who's looking for a girlfriend.

854
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: I've been single since I was twenty and never had

855
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: the chance to meet someone new. I've been on and

856
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 1: off dating apps, but it probably just doesn't work for me.

857
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: Plus I don't have many friends and no social life

858
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: for whatsoever. I don't have any specific hobby or interest

859
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 1: that lead me to new people. So how can I

860
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: possibly find a girl? I want a serious relationship? Thanks?

861
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,919
Speaker 2: Ah? No, man, Okay, we can help this guy out

862
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 2: heaps so much.

863
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 1: First, my first initial thought is like, right now, is

864
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: it a good time to get a girlfriend? No? Not

865
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: at all.

866
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, the way you described like you said, I have

867
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 2: no likes, no hobbies, your mindset towards those things isn't

868
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 2: very good. Let's flip that you can get a new hobby,

869
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,280
Speaker 2: find out what you like, get your passion, find your spark,

870
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 2: become the independent king that you are, ye, and then

871
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 2: the girl will come. But if you're in this state

872
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: of I'm not going to say you're miserable, but like

873
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 2: in this state of like unknowingness, Like that's not where

874
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,919
Speaker 2: you should be going into a relationship.

875
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: From agreed, I couldn't agree more so.

876
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 2: I think you need to find your spark. And then

877
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 2: it's cliche, but like your girls and girlfriends come when

878
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 2: you least expect it.

879
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: It's weird and it's like or actually, well remember this,

880
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: you're you know, you went to therapy because you felt

881
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: like you didn't need it. And there's a very popular

882
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: saying out there that the best time to go to

883
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 1: therapy is when you feel like you don't need it. Honestly,

884
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: the best time to have a girlfriend is when you

885
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: are in love with yourself and feel like you don't

886
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: need it. Yes, and then what it will happen and

887
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 1: you're this healthy version of yourself. Like I don't want

888
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 1: to say you're not healthy, but you know, it seems

889
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: like from that small word, of the small amount of

890
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 1: words you've given us, it's like, so you don't have

891
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: a group of friends, you don't have a so you

892
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: don't have any interests, So that would kind of translate

893
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:04,879
Speaker 1: you don't probably don't really have any passions, so maybe

894
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: there's just like not much of you right now? Yeah,

895
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 1: you you want to try and build yourself.

896
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 2: Well, I think also what Jake said before, how him

897
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 2: and Beth if they said they'd lost feelings would just

898
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 2: break up with you. That's because they're a strong, independent person.

899
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 2: But if you go into a relationship with the mindset

900
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 2: I want a girlfriend or I want a boyfriend, when

901
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 2: you get in it, your mindset will be like I'll

902
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 2: do anything to make this work.

903
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's semi toxic. It's not great because it

904
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 1: just gives that other person all this power. Yeah, and

905
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: it just.

906
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 2: Gets like I was just like, Okay, I'll make everything work,

907
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: Like yeah, that's fine, Like.

908
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 1: I'm all for fighting for a relationship, yeah, yeah, yeah,

909
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: but you both need to be putting the same amount

910
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: of effort in yeah and yeah, Like the way you're

911
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: talking is kind of just like very I guess.

912
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 2: The way you're talking is you're fifty percent of the

913
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 2: person you have potential to be, and you're looking for

914
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 2: the other fifty percent in a girlfriend, where in reality,

915
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 2: a relationship is one hundred percent of a person going

916
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 2: to another one hundred percent of a person.

917
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, hundred percent.

918
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 2: So you've got time you say it was twenty three

919
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 2: or twenty three, you got mate your time problem.

920
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 1: It takes fucking six months to find yourself. Yeah. Fuck,

921
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: I mean I just say, like, doesn't have to be

922
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 1: the gym, doesn't have to be fitness or anything. I

923
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: would just say, like, unless you want it to be.

924
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: But I don't know, just I find falling in love

925
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: with It could be anything, even though like a lot

926
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: of girls don't like it. It can be gaming these girls

927
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: out there that love gaming. If you love gaming, it

928
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,720
Speaker 1: could be gaming. If you like you surely you love something.

929
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like even if you're not great at a basketball,

930
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 2: like running, like pick up anything.

931
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 1: It's it's a yeah, there's something attractive about someone that's

932
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: like just I don't know all there. It's also when

933
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,959
Speaker 1: you hit about twenty twenty two, twenty three, twenty four, it's.

934
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: Also nice to go pick up old hobbies you used

935
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 2: to like and see if you still like them.

936
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:47,959
Speaker 1: Yeah.

937
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 2: Like I had a year or two off soccer, and

938
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 2: when I came back for that first year, I really

939
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 2: enjoyed myself. Like it wasn't for the long run, but

940
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 2: I had a year I was like, oh, this is

941
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 2: still fun.

942
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:56,760
Speaker 1: You had had a couple of years off Fortnite maw.

943
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, that's it exactly.

944
00:40:59,000 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: I come.

945
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 2: But you're you go through a little phases in your life.

946
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 2: And if you used to like something and maybe you're

947
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 2: struggling for a hobby, be like, may well, I used

948
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,280
Speaker 2: to like playing chess.

949
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go back to chess. Whatever it is. Yeah,

950
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 1: I don't care anything. It could be anything. Time to

951
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: maybe laugh at our gender, yeah, which is we like

952
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: to do everything.

953
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:25,760
Speaker 2: Let's poke fun and laugh.

954
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 1: Let's poke fun and laugh. And I don't know it.

955
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it's the healthiest. Yeah, it is the

956
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: healthiest thing.

957
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 2: And actually it could help out ten percent of male

958
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 2: listeners maybe true.

959
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you never know. So this is things guys wear

960
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,760
Speaker 1: that a cringe because if anyone needs help with fashion,

961
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: it's men.

962
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 2: And so we get these on Instagram, and I was

963
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,439
Speaker 2: scrolling through them quite a lot, thank you very much.

964
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 2: There was a lot, and I was thinking to myself

965
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 2: when I was scrolling, I was like, I can't wear

966
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 2: fucking anything, That's what I was thinking. And then I

967
00:41:58,560 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 2: was also thinking.

968
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 1: I was like, wait a sec. These girls are very smart.

969
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: Do they want us to be naked? Fact, that's such

970
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: a good point. Because I was looking I was like,

971
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: I can't wear fucking socks. I can't wear the most

972
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 1: popular one. Things guys wear that a cringe skinny jeans.

973
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: There was I reckon. There was at least two thousand responses.

974
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 1: Ninety percent of them were skinny jeans.

975
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 2: Okay, that was way more than two thousand rolled. There

976
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 2: was heaps. Yeah, and I would like to say Jake

977
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 2: was a bit of a pioneer of the old baggy jeans,

978
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 2: and I wasn't too far behind.

979
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: No, no, we're on the baggy jean now.

980
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: I saw one said cargoes, but fuck you, I'm around.

981
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: No. Cargoes are good. Yeah, cargoes are good. That's what

982
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:43,320
Speaker 1: I was like. I saw a couple of people contradicting themselves.

983
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 1: It's like, let's get on the same level here, girls. Okay,

984
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: but these are the ones I pretty much agree with too. Okay, cool?

985
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 2: Oh I chose ones that I don't even really h

986
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 2: things guys wear that are cringe. Black Nike socks pulled

987
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: halfway up to their calves with white air Force ones.

988
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: Oh facts, bro, Yeah, I can be on board with

989
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: that one.

990
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: It's like their mom's got their fashion, like air Forces

991
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 2: and some socks for Christmas.

992
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Things guys wear that a cringe, the

993
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: forbidden shorts and in brackets, it says the girls know, oh, I.

994
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 2: Know exactly what they are. Cheese grater jeans. That's what

995
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 2: the ford are. Those ones with like that weird little

996
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 2: jagged pattern on them.

997
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I hate that. That's what.

998
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that's what the forbidden I hate. Yeah,

999
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 2: I hate them too, Oh my god. Things guys wear

1000
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 2: to the cringe.

1001
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: Chain necklaces, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm fully fully on

1002
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 1: board with it.

1003
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 2: Takes like a certain top of man to be able

1004
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 2: a rock a chain necklace, and most of them are.

1005
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a that's a good one. Things guys wear

1006
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: that a cringe. Crocs.

1007
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 2: They're comfortable and they're functional, very practical.

1008
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,319
Speaker 1: You can put that, put them into famall drive and

1009
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 1: you can do active.

1010
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 2: That'd be my beach shoe. It's been hot the sand,

1011
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 2: yeah flow yeah.

1012
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 1: Do you think about the practicality. You can get them

1013
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: wet and they'll be dry and no time.

1014
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 2: Exactly, mate, surely they didn't say lightning the queen crocs

1015
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 2: just cross, Yeah, yeah, exactly cross.

1016
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:14,399
Speaker 1: I got a one of a kind.

1017
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 2: Mate. Things guys wear that a cringe wearing loafers with

1018
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 2: no socks. Loafers with no socks, So your shoes these

1019
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 2: are a mule.

1020
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: I would call that a loafer. No, No, do you

1021
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 1: know what a loafer is? I thought that was a loafer. No,

1022
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: I have a pair of loafers in my closet. They're

1023
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: a proper shoe's And I know what they mean. A

1024
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: loafer is like a full leather shoe, like a fool

1025
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: like you slip it in and it's like, I took loafers,

1026
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 1: show your shoe. These are a mule. I thought that

1027
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: was what they were talking about. Well, here's the funny

1028
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: thing is things guys wear that a cringe birken stock.

1029
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 1: I'm literally wearing socks. I thought girls love that. No,

1030
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 1: apparently they're allowed to wear them, but not.

1031
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 2: I thought that were nice things guys wear that the

1032
00:44:58,160 --> 00:44:59,959
Speaker 2: cringe low sock.

1033
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: I've got ankle socks here, and why why can't I

1034
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: wear ankle socks? Boy? I posted a story one time

1035
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: Beth and I went to the gym together and we

1036
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: did a leg date, and I posted a story of me.

1037
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: I was walking down some stairs and I was struggling

1038
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:14,800
Speaker 1: because it's hard to go downstairs once you've done a

1039
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: leg day And she was filming me and I was

1040
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 1: wearing ankle socks and someone replied to my think ankle

1041
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: socks ick? Yeah? What I was like, why?

1042
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, we're not talking about those sockets. We're just

1043
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:25,959
Speaker 2: talking about ankle socks. Yeah.

1044
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 1: I don't understand either. I have to say I threw

1045
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 1: all mine now, but yeah, you know what I've literally,

1046
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,840
Speaker 1: I've not given a shit. I still have them. I

1047
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: wear them good on you. Yeah. Things guys wear that

1048
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: a cringe. Sports jerseys, I can see that. Yeah. I

1049
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 1: don't ever unless it's like a cool like vintage one.

1050
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I swear no, wait, wait a minute, wait

1051
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 2: a minute. What's with all these girls going to BTV

1052
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 2: Lost Paradise, all these festivals and they're wearing soccer jerseys?

1053
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, explain that.

1054
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to go up to her name one player

1055
00:45:59,600 --> 00:45:59,800
Speaker 2: from that.

1056
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, explain that girl, explain that they look good. Let

1057
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: us wear a jersey if we want to wear.

1058
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 2: The jersey goes a long way. I've seen them around.

1059
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just because you look hot at them. Things.

1060
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 2: Guys wear that a cringe. Speedo's Oh my god, come on,

1061
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:18,840
Speaker 2: I agree.

1062
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: Spears at the beach.

1063
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 2: No, that's a no, I remember because we had we

1064
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 2: used to row together. Yes, people didn't know that the

1065
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 2: first time. That's like the first time I rock speedos.

1066
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 2: At least you have a purpose there so you don't

1067
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 2: feel as cringe and you're with a couple of guys

1068
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 2: that are wearing speeds and you got to like put

1069
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 2: a fucking g banger up when.

1070
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 1: It is the most embarrassing thing when you're about to

1071
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: jump in the boat and they're like, okay, wet the

1072
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: seat and pull them up your ears.

1073
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:44,839
Speaker 2: Yeah weir they I really think, I know, like it's

1074
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,280
Speaker 2: in the water. Sure they can make like a system

1075
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 2: where you like roll on like a Bally system old

1076
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:53,280
Speaker 2: boats did, yeah, instead of it's all like fiberglass. Yeah weird,

1077
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 2: But I've I've got to agree with Speedoska.

1078
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: Things guys wear that a cringe. The barely their mustache,

1079
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: I think I can pass. I think mine passes zoom

1080
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 1: in on yours. So here's I've been thinking about this,

1081
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: like someone told me to die my musta because I

1082
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: have like a lot of hair there. Yeah, but it's

1083
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: just quite blonde like white ones. Yes, So I was

1084
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: at the start people were telling me to die this.

1085
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: I think I've I've waited it out long.

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00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 2: Ye, no, yours is good? Should I die in mind guys?

1087
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 1: Or just shave it off? Wait? I would wait segment

1088
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 1: in real life, segment on the pod. Shave it off diet.

1089
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good idea, but you gotta leave it

1090
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 2: on for like three minutes and ago. Maybe I should

1091
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:41,280
Speaker 2: what colors die?

1092
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: Let's get like. I don't think we could go to

1093
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: the barber shop and they do it for you.

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00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 2: That'd be kind of cool.

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00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, get someone, we get ash, Yeah, barber in Yeah,

1096
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: it's get him on the pod. I don't know if

1097
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,240
Speaker 1: they die the censer. I actually think you'd need a hairdresser.

1098
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if barber's die hair Maybe we could

1099
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: ask your head already.

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00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 2: Things guys wear that a cringe. Oversized pinky rings?

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00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: Why god? I mean I don't have a pinky ring.

1102
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 2: So I was thinking the one on your finger, if that.

1103
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: Was on your pinky, oh like a chunky Yeah if

1104
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: I had, If this was, if this only fit on

1105
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 1: my pinky, I would wear it on my pinky. I'm

1106
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 1: tell you that right now. I've got to agree.

1107
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 2: What so I don't think the pinky is a place

1108
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 2: for a ring.

1109
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:23,240
Speaker 1: I disagree.

1110
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 2: Okay, you're entitled to your opinion, man, you're entired to

1111
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 2: your opinion.

1112
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 1: Things guys wear that a cringe any designer bum bag

1113
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: unless you're in balley and it's got fake one, Like

1114
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: you're allowed to rock it because it's experience. But if

1115
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,439
Speaker 1: you're around here like just rocking and putting your phone

1116
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 1: in there and stuff. Yeah, I don't care about the

1117
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: functionality argument either. It's also not a flex. Men have pockets. Yeah,

1118
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 1: we have pockets for a reason. It's also not a

1119
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,760
Speaker 1: flex someone has like a Gucci bot. It's not a flex.

1120
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 1: It is not a by one that works. Also, if

1121
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: someone's wearing a Gucci shirt and it's the ugliest shirt ever,

1122
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: that's not a flex. Yeah. No, I don't care that

1123
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 1: you can afford a Gucci shirt. I would think it's

1124
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: better if you just knew how to dress like.

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00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 2: I think that's more valuable. Yeah, okay, this is my

1126
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 2: last one.

1127
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: Okay, I got a couple more after things guys wear

1128
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:17,720
Speaker 1: the cringe nose rings, not gonna lie. When I was younger,

1129
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 1: I wanted one.

1130
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 2: I've gone through phases why I've wanted one to.

1131
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: I am glad I never got it. Yeah, rememb when

1132
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: JJ got one, did he JJ got a nose It

1133
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: wasn't a ring, it was a nose stud. You remember that,

1134
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: I'm not JJ got a no stud, And I remember.

1135
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: Should we get them to get it back, he wouldn't

1136
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 1: do it. We'd have to pay him like money to

1137
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: do it, because we have to pay for it and

1138
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:38,959
Speaker 1: get paying money.

1139
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 2: I would love to pierce my ears, but I just

1140
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,319
Speaker 2: don't think I have the complexion for it. And I'm

1141
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 2: too long and skinny.

1142
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: I've got to be like bulky and like pierced. It

1143
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: wouldn't suit me. Yeah, and tanned. Some people can rock

1144
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,320
Speaker 1: a good pieced ibrower. But also just for some reason,

1145
00:49:52,920 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: we'd look like goths. Things guys wear that are cringe

1146
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: testosterone injections. What how's that cringe?

1147
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 2: I guess bodybuilders a cringe. Oh, I see, like I

1148
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 2: understand the where she's looking from.

1149
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Like the people who take and they look terrible.

1150
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, once I hit like thirty five, I'm

1151
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 2: going straight onto your people that take it.

1152
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 1: They are wearing a designer bump back. Oh yeah, oh yeah,

1153
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 1: and the fucking maybe they're wearing like what are they

1154
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:33,240
Speaker 1: called loafers without socks?

1155
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1156
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: Things guys wear that a cringe. Underwear with holes in them.

1157
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 2: You don't see them. Why is that your problem? They're comfortable,

1158
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 2: uneas you're expensive.

1159
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, underwear are expensive.

1160
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 2: I went the Coles had a fifty percent of sale

1161
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 2: on Bonds like two days ago, and I bought two packs.

1162
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 1: It was still like twenty.

1163
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 2: Two dollars or something. Really, I was like, Bonds, let's

1164
00:50:58,840 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 2: get in the undie business.

1165
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that there's that brand. Step one, let's make it.

1166
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,839
Speaker 1: Let's make some mondays. They're like, now, let's go upper echelon. Actually,

1167
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: let's go with this upper echelon word.

1168
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 2: Let's go premium. You don't know, whats up means like

1169
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 2: hid the highest of quality. When you say that, you

1170
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,799
Speaker 2: can say upper echelon. Yeah, so this is going off

1171
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,800
Speaker 2: a Patreon conversation if you guys don't.

1172
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: Know things guys wear that a cringe? This one, I

1173
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: kind of I might be on board with it. A

1174
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: guitar bag in public. Yeah, it's so niche. Though.

1175
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 2: I thought they might like that we plays guitar got one.

1176
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 1: It would be a funny video, like we go to

1177
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 1: get a guitar case.

1178
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 2: From like I don't know, Vinnie's or something. Yeah, some

1179
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 2: business Saint Vincent's Paul. And then go make a video

1180
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 2: of you, like just walking around and see you get

1181
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 2: any girls just like something.

1182
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 1: You know, it's a deterrent we have to see. It's

1183
00:51:56,000 --> 00:52:00,760
Speaker 1: a deterrent scientific experiment o case my last one. Things

1184
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: guys wear that are cringe an ego that is bigger

1185
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 1: than their capabilities. Very cringe. That's very good, and most

1186
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: of them don't have many capabilities, but they think they do. Hey,

1187
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 1: it's because they chain necklace.

1188
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 2: Knows bring like eyebrow thing, ego, ego facts. It's like

1189
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 2: putting on an ego.

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00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 1: You need a big ego to try and rock them.

1191
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry if we ros some people, it

1192
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 2: is what it is.

1193
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 1: Some people need to be called out. I'm not happy.

1194
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: I'll keep wearing them. I don't care. I know what

1195
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: I like. Yeah, yeah, okay, we've got something new to

1196
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: finish the episode. Guys, Very very exciting.

1197
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 2: You might have picked on that we are trying to

1198
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 2: build the best community on the internet. Yes, and with that,

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00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 2: we love talking to you guys and getting to know

1200
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 2: your voices, your opinions, your thoughts, everything like that. Yeah,

1201
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 2: So the new way to end the episode is we're

1202
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 2: going to call all you lovely listeners and ask you

1203
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 2: to sign off the episode to say something like thank

1204
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 2: you for listening, and then we'll have little combo one

1205
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 2: percent and it's going to be in the bottom of

1206
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 2: the description. So there'll be another Google doc doc and

1207
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 2: you can fill it out. Just name a number, and

1208
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 2: we'll start calling you guys next week. But to start,

1209
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 2: we thought we would start with.

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00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: I think you also put it in the Facebook group

1211
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,319
Speaker 1: Delatables bad As Unite, so if you go in there,

1212
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: you'll find a post of what he's saying, like sign

1213
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: up to there's.

1214
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 2: Already like one hundred people in there, so good. But

1215
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 2: I thought we'd start with our good friend Jack Jenkins

1216
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 2: because we talk about him quite a lot of.

1217
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: The pollaon theme with the boys episode. We'll get him

1218
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: to do the first one. He can show everyone howse done.

1219
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good thing to say. Yeah,

1220
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: he might actually don't copy him, but let's predict what

1221
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: he's going to say, like, ju to work. You just work,

1222
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: and then you'll hear like, and then you hear him

1223
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:49,919
Speaker 1: go no, that doesn't go there lead. Yeah, alright, let's

1224
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 1: go it. Who's gonna ask to side it off? Hello?

1225
00:53:56,800 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 1: Here you going? Man's happening? No, oh my god, John,

1226
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 1: she gets scared of storms that she's at your pa.

1227
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:06,839
Speaker 1: I'm not too sure. I don't want to find out.

1228
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 1: That's fair enough.

1229
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,320
Speaker 2: Well, we had a little favor for you, man. Could

1230
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 2: you sign off our episode? Say whatever you want and

1231
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 2: say like thanks for listening or something like that. Whatever

1232
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 2: comes to your mind.

1233
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:22,759
Speaker 1: Oh I sught me just think of something. All right,

1234
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 1: I think I got it. Okay, thank you everyone for

1235
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 1: tuning into another episode of The Relatables. Make sure you

1236
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 1: follow all our socials and where can they find? You

1237
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: can find me nowhere?

1238
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 2: Plug you Twitch, Plug you twitt, jo.

1239
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: Jack goo on Twitt, go on Twitch. There you go. Man,

1240
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: Thank you very much to get back into it again.

1241
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:54,319
Speaker 1: No worry. Thanks, we'll talk by you. What a legend.

1242
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:58,760
Speaker 1: That was actually good? That was good? Alright, They