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Speaker 1: It is the city with her with Kate Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I want to talk about when you stuff up the paperwork.

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Speaker 2: This is an unbelievable story. Nigeria is national champion in

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Speaker 2: the women's one hundred meters sprint for the Philly is

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Speaker 2: her name. It is with great regret that I've just

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Speaker 2: been told I will not be competing in the one

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Speaker 2: hundred meters at the Olympic Games because her country's track

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Speaker 2: federation didn't enter her into the field in time.

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Speaker 3: You talk, you've had four years in one job. You've

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Speaker 3: had four years and one job filling the paperwork.

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Speaker 4: Let me get this right.

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Speaker 2: She's still competing in the two hundred and the four

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Speaker 2: by one hundred, but her pet event is the one hundred.

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Speaker 4: She's the national champion.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you know what. The runner up, the

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Speaker 3: second to her, has paid the authorities not to fill

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Speaker 3: it incorrectly. She becomes the hot favorite for.

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Speaker 5: Them, a big accusation Nigeria's.

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Speaker 2: Nigeria's Sports Minister, John Eno said he's been in contact

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Speaker 2: with officials and he said you will not be hearing

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Speaker 2: from them ever again.

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Speaker 4: They've gone missing.

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Speaker 3: Maddy.

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Speaker 4: Hello, hey there, how are you doing good?

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Speaker 3: You've be banned from something have you made because do

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Speaker 3: the paperwork.

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Speaker 6: It's not an Olympics story. But when my eldest daughter

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Speaker 6: was at primary school, you know, about eight years ago,

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Speaker 6: she was due, so she went to after school care.

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Speaker 6: You know, they get to her so you can stay

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Speaker 6: at work for a bit longer. They stay in after

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Speaker 6: to re enroll her after the school holidays, and I

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Speaker 6: thought it would be like bell Care and they would

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Speaker 6: just keep taking my money. And for the first couple

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Speaker 6: of days, I dropped her down there and they were like, oh, hello,

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Speaker 6: you're here, and we're like yeah, yeah, just drop her off.

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Speaker 6: And after a few days they finally said, you didn't

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Speaker 6: fill out the form. We haven't got a space for

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Speaker 6: your child here. She can't come. They wouldn't let her

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Speaker 6: come back. And it was just the one job my

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Speaker 6: wife had given me, and they wouldn't let her go,

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Speaker 6: and so I had to stay home from work for

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Speaker 6: weeks so we could find her in another after school

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Speaker 6: care that was like a twenty minute drive away. You

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Speaker 6: joined one of those WhatsApp mum's groups, you know, to

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Speaker 6: ask for some advice from all the other mums, and

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Speaker 6: you should find out through that.

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Speaker 3: Oh you're a disaster man.

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Speaker 5: Hilarious. Not only did you not do the job, you

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Speaker 5: tried to keep it from your wife.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you lied to her, You misled your child,

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Speaker 3: and then you lied to your workplace.

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Speaker 6: I thought it would be the dad on the mother's

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Speaker 6: group for our years.

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Speaker 5: How bad.

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Speaker 7: It's tough and paperwork is so boring and I don't

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Speaker 7: know if you've learnt your partner's signature and it comes

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Speaker 7: in handy sometimes, especially for my prenup.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever signed as BJO.

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 3: I would never do that? Have you ever signed give

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Speaker 3: us a look at a sweetheart? That's sorry, too hard?

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Speaker 4: My headphones aren't working.

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Speaker 5: What that's a legal Never? I've never thought, actually haven't.

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Speaker 5: I have never. I've never needed anyone else's signature.

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Speaker 4: Caravan park or something you would have.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, mister Steward.

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Speaker 3: You never wrote a sick note in your diary and

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Speaker 3: signed it as your mum.

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Speaker 5: I never had to write a sick note because I

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Speaker 5: was working from when I was eight years old. So

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Speaker 5: when I wanted to leave school, I just went to

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Speaker 5: the office and said to the ladies, I'm off to work. Wow,

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Speaker 5: And they said cape bye.

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Speaker 4: Kate, there's got to be a dark side to you

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Speaker 4: that we don't know. I can't be that prim and.

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Speaker 3: Can't be darker than the one we do know.

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Speaker 5: I don't have a dark side. I do have a

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Speaker 5: dark side. It's amazing.

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Speaker 8: This is the Fitz and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 3: Remember trink for you right now, guys. She joins us

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Speaker 3: right now, Carleve and Oga you're there.

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Speaker 5: Hih wow, that's really I mean, you can't mistake it

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Speaker 5: for anything, can?

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Speaker 3: You were so exciting?

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Speaker 4: Kylie?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to have a track of how many

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Speaker 2: interviews you done over your career?

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Speaker 4: Around about in an estimate?

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Speaker 9: Oh my no, no, I mean that's been the tail

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Speaker 9: on the donkey, isn't it. I have no idea.

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Speaker 5: No, And what's the question? Do you have a guest?

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Speaker 9: What would you calculate over thirty thirty seven years?

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Speaker 2: I would say, I reckon you would have done around

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Speaker 2: about five thousand interviews?

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Speaker 5: How many a year? Like one hundred? Maybe any more?

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Speaker 9: I mean, let's factor in the early Neighbors days, they

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Speaker 9: just we had to do a lot.

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Speaker 8: Then.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, do you the initiation do you remember talking to

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Speaker 5: TV week about what Charlene was up to and her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and my other memory of TV week, like the

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Speaker 1: very strong memory of TV week was in when you

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Speaker 1: were doing the shoots and you'd be you know, we

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Speaker 1: were got, you know, so young and kind of flawless

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Speaker 1: and green, but also we kind of knew what we

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Speaker 1: were doing, but it would be smile, bigger, smile, bigger, happier.

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Speaker 1: We're like, I can't get any happier?

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Speaker 3: Is this my mouth? Can we talk about the success

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Speaker 3: of pad because it was just massive and to have

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Speaker 3: a on a global scale, to have everybody loving that

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Speaker 3: song when you won the Grammy, you must have had

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Speaker 3: a moment of I just want to do this forever,

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Speaker 3: like I'm just I'm not going to stop. What's next?

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Speaker 3: I'm hungry for more because this is the best feeling

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Speaker 9: Yeah, pretty much, that was That was pretty much.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: I mean we would have spoken when Padam first came out, Yes,

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Speaker 9: and it was all this kind.

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Speaker 1: Of what is PADAM mean?

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Speaker 4: What is this?

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Speaker 9: I mean, I don't think I certainly never imagined that

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Speaker 9: it would do all the things it did. And I mean,

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Speaker 9: it changed so much to me, and it did give

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Speaker 9: that one thing to really feel rejuvenated, and you can

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Speaker 9: refresh your catalog and really it's really good to have

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Speaker 9: suddenly kind of I'm pulling out a phrase from my

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Speaker 9: from my first car. Twin carbs and extractors. I still

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Speaker 9: don't know what they mean, but they make you.

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Speaker 3: Go about fast. Charlette was a mechanic, you know, the

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Speaker 9: I nearly I think I nearly blew my car up.

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Speaker 9: My dad was mortified, and I was playing a mechanic.

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Speaker 9: I you know, I forgot about gas and order. I

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Speaker 9: think got home and my dad's and was you know,

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Speaker 2: In the song my Imi, you said that you're a Gemini.

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Speaker 2: Was your first car a gym?

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Speaker 4: All?

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Speaker 5: The whole was y, I reckon.

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Speaker 3: Really, I think.

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Speaker 9: There was a one twenty y cap. Do you know

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Speaker 9: what what twelve hundred or one twenty y We've we've

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Speaker 9: father and my brother, they can do this stuff. And

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Speaker 9: I think she was taken to pieces, which is really sad.

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Speaker 2: Did you do Maynie's with your friends? Did you go

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Speaker 9: I probably took it to like lawn something like that. Mostly,

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Speaker 9: mostly I was banging it to the neighbor's set back

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Speaker 4: Missus Mangle's front lawn.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that would have been good. Do you remember any moments?

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Speaker 5: I think I was more.

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Speaker 9: I was more panicked about the handbrake park on awesome God,

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Speaker 9: so not that the handbrake start. I could say, when

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Speaker 9: you're you know you're at the traffic light on the pill.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember any moments of sort of kissing the

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Speaker 3: beautiful Jason Donovan in the.

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Speaker 9: Car so I wouldn't reveal such things you just did

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Speaker 9: because he didn't deny it. Yeah, well maybe I did.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I did that.

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Speaker 5: I could talk.

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Speaker 4: You are a superstar. We know how busy you are.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for coming on the show, Kylie.

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Speaker 5: Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: I hope to see you in person real soon.

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Speaker 4: KLi.

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Speaker 8: This is the Fitzi and Whipper with Cape Ritchie Podcast.

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Speaker 4: I just go to text from my mom.

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Speaker 8: Yes, because I'm a textboat, an expert a TEXTI write

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Speaker 8: my reply.

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Speaker 5: Again, guys, this is actually I'm going to put it

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Speaker 3: Go on.

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Speaker 5: This could be my highlight of the week.

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Speaker 3: Wow, write my reply.

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Speaker 4: Geez, you get a boring on you put a bit

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Speaker 4: of measure on me talk.

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Speaker 5: I mean within the studio. Actually, no, in life.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, here we go. Ben is thirty and Cassie

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Speaker 3: is thirty two. They've been in a relationship for three

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Speaker 3: years over that time.

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Speaker 5: No, I've turned thirty both of us three years.

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Speaker 4: You're thinking about marriage after three years, aren't you?

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Speaker 10: Well?

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Speaker 5: What about those people that date for like ten years,

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Speaker 5: never get married, new relationship engaged in twelve months?

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Speaker 3: So true?

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Speaker 5: I mean, what a kick in the guts, isn't it?

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Speaker 3: That does happen all it does?

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Speaker 5: Which I guess that proves that that person.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't right the one over that time. Ben has Ben

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Speaker 3: stacked on fifteen kilos. He's recently quit his gym membership

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Speaker 3: because he wasn't getting results. That Jim's letting me down.

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Speaker 3: It's your bold, Jim.

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Speaker 5: Don't blame.

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Speaker 4: How long did it take you to write this reply?

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about? How does he reply to

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Speaker 3: this message from Cassie? So this is what Cassie has

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Speaker 3: written to him.

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Speaker 5: No, I've got a bad feeling.

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Speaker 3: Hey, honey, I've booked a doctor's appointment for you for Thursday.

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Speaker 3: Tell her that you're struggling with your weight and you

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Speaker 3: want ozen pic. I think you'll be much happier and

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Speaker 3: satisfied in all departments if you drop the relationship. Wait,

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Speaker 3: I know I will be. I love you.

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Speaker 4: Do you really quite direct, isn't it? Well?

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Speaker 3: You've been together for three years. You're not betting around

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Speaker 3: the bush. Besides, what's for dinner?

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Speaker 4: Gosh, it's a bit full on. I like it.

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Speaker 5: I like the directness.

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Speaker 3: Me too, Me too.

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Speaker 5: I'm getting a good vibe about their relationship.

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Speaker 3: Openness.

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Speaker 5: Yeah about that? You know what. I love you. I

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Speaker 3: Why is there concrete in these boots? Do you know

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Speaker 3: what guys don't like? What guys don't like being told

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Speaker 3: Don't always need it because every time you tell me

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Speaker 4: To do, you love it.

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Speaker 3: No, it's as if you're suggesting to me that I

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Speaker 5: No, I need I need to step in here. That's

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Speaker 5: So that's when you read a loving message like that.

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Speaker 5: That's what you're hearing. But that's in your head. That

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Speaker 3: Well, you're treating him like he's an idiot because if

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Speaker 4: It is very full on.

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Speaker 2: I've booked it for you, and I suggest that you

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Speaker 3: Like you're not even married and you don't have control

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Speaker 5: That's what this is about.

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Speaker 5: This is about you feeling as though you don't have

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Speaker 2: Can I suggest that the directness is leading to him

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Speaker 5: Men feeling completely suffocated.

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Speaker 3: Your spot on.

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Speaker 5: A single one in the room laughs out.

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Speaker 3: Loud, Yeah, because you know what, do you know what

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 5: What do they do?

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Speaker 3: They get to a boiling point, and they get to

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Speaker 5: That his girlfriend she's going to make him cheat.

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you this, I'll tell you this pushing him

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Speaker 5: With a Whichie podcast on listening to the radio and

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Speaker 3: Just life, explaining our life works.

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Speaker 5: Being forced to cheat by a pushy partner. That's what

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Speaker 3: Definitely not piggy behavior. It's just a difference of opinion

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Speaker 5: We've opened the lines. We want to we want to

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Speaker 3: Of controlling women. Okay, controlling women.

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Speaker 5: Brendan and Camden, you there, Yeah, what are your thoughts?

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Speaker 10: I agree with u K. I think I like the

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Speaker 10: I've failed on my own to stick to the gym

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Speaker 5: Thank you, Brendan.

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Speaker 10: I think if you have that mentality, the only way

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Speaker 2: And then would you get rid of it? Would you

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Speaker 4: And gay?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know what, I've done this on my own.

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Speaker 2: I didn't need you pushing me into it. I'm going

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Speaker 10: Brendan, Well, but then what if you find someone who

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Speaker 10: isn't open and honestly?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, liar, I love your attitude, Brendan. You're very I

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Speaker 4: But stay on the line. Brendan will get your details

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Speaker 4: and pass them on the cake. Let's go to Caroline

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Speaker 11: Look, I don't think it matters what you do in

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Speaker 3: He had someone cheat on you herb be Caroline.

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Speaker 4: Ah, Yeah, what happened there?

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Speaker 11: Kaz So after sixteen years of married, ye never thought, never,

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Speaker 11: never disagreed with him, never said no, never like he

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Speaker 5: Oh my, that what came to him?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, he just accidentally booked a hotel room cash

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Speaker 5: And you think, do you think it was the first

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Speaker 11: First time I found out? Absolutely not the first time.

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Speaker 3: Do you think it was going on for this sort

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Speaker 3: of let's call it ten of the sixteen years.

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Speaker 11: Probably?

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Speaker 2: Oh, Caroline, if you don't serve him, Caroline, please tell

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Speaker 2: me you found love, since I have and.

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Speaker 11: The guy is absolutely gorgeous.

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Speaker 5: That's nice. Everything turns out well, Caroline.

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Speaker 3: Usually sometimes hanging that cape, Caroline, can I ask? Also,

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Speaker 3: did the person that he was cheating with in the

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Speaker 3: hotel room did you know her?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 11: I didn't know her, But she was married with two

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Speaker 4: A ruining lives, ruining lives, Carol. Christians are like that, Carol.

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Speaker 5: Did you hear that Christian lady on.

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Speaker 3: The weird one.

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Speaker 4: Let's go to Ben now in Monterey?

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Speaker 2: It says, big Ben here, Now, Benny, whose side are

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Speaker 2: you on here with this argument?

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Speaker 10: I'm on the boy's side.

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Speaker 1: The gay community love hard nosed, pushy, controlling girl because

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Speaker 10: Recruited onto my team.

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Speaker 4: Fantastic pushy women.

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Speaker 3: Pushy women turn men gay.

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Speaker 10: Absolutely recruitment.

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Speaker 5: I'm your post girl.

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Speaker 3: Kate's working every day for you, mate, beings like a

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Speaker 4: He's going, We've got more recruits coming in. Guys. You

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Speaker 4: be to keep it up. Pushing women. That's amazing, Ben.

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Speaker 2: So have you actually been with men who have actually

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Speaker 11: Absolutely, They've definitely helped me up my conversion rate.

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Speaker 3: You are hilarious that It's great, Kate Ritchie, You're doing

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Speaker 3: so much good work for Ben. He really appreciates it.

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to do all the gay community. All

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Speaker 3: the guys out there, they thank you. They collectively thank

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Speaker 5: Next year, pushy pushy women.

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Speaker 9: Un this is the fits in with Her with Kate

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Speaker 3: I made a commitment last well, at the end of

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Speaker 4: Start or is this because you don't do that here?

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Speaker 3: I'm not judgmental at all. I just do you know

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Speaker 5: Is this entertaining you? Are you sure you want to

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Speaker 3: It was a really strong lisp.

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Speaker 5: And to speak, you don't need to do it. You

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Speaker 5: don't need to do it. You can just say that

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Speaker 3: It's hard to say lisp without saying lisp, isn't he's

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Speaker 5: Why are you doing I really don't like you right now?

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Speaker 5: And you're making me feel awkward because there's people listening hating.

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Speaker 3: On you feel awkward.

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Speaker 5: There's people in the car that have a lift.

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Speaker 2: Then made you feel awkward because I how And I'm.

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Speaker 3: Trying not to judge because this is a judge free

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so what.

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Speaker 5: Did you do? Did you make when he started talking?

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Speaker 5: Did you make eye contact with Lisa?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 5: And did you giggle?

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Speaker 3: No? Because I wanted someone to acknowledge that I was

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Speaker 3: So we sit down and oh, this is you still

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Speaker 5: Were you laughing at someone in front of your children?

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Speaker 5: Because that is very poor parenting.

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Speaker 3: This is no, he's the failure. I'm not bad one

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Speaker 4: He said it right, so that the seven can get

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Speaker 3: And I said, well, let's talk about it. And we'd

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Speaker 5: The guy.

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Speaker 4: He couldn't.

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Speaker 3: So we were talking about how, you know, I had

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Speaker 3: he talks about that and he's music. No, Joe Biden,

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Speaker 5: That's not what I thought you were going to say.

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Speaker 5: I know, fits, can you? And I just say to

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Speaker 3: Of what did you write down? Sancho bell I can't

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Speaker 3: spell Sanchoi beal? But how good is it?

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Speaker 5: I love? And how magnificent is duck? I nearly hit

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Speaker 5: a duck the other day, and I did say to

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Speaker 4: Up in a pan.

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Speaker 3: Have you thought I was saying the wrong thing?

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Speaker 8: Fits in with her with cap Rinchie podcast.

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Speaker 5: Do you think it's okay to name your child with

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Speaker 5: your new partner after an ex? And that's what this

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Speaker 5: woman has done, and the husband has only just realized.

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Speaker 5: And this is when you know, the child's three years

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Speaker 5: old by now, so you know, well, that's what I think.

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Speaker 5: And I think the fact that it's been hidden is

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Speaker 5: actually what is the most upsetting. So they've had, you know,

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Speaker 5: they've had a son, and they've called their son Robert,

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Speaker 5: and it's all lovely and it's full of joy, and they're,

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Speaker 5: you know, seeing old friends and they're introducing the child

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Speaker 5: And then the girl friend or the friend of the

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Speaker 5: woman has said, and so, what's the child's name? And

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Speaker 5: she's said, it's Robert. And it's the look on the

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Speaker 5: friend's face, which is and she says out loud, oh,

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Speaker 5: you mean like Robert, like your ex boyfriend Robert. And

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Speaker 5: the husband's standing there and this is news to him.

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Speaker 5: He never knew there was an ex boyfriend called Robert.

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Speaker 5: And the way it was delivered in the shock, I

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Speaker 5: think we know that Robert wasn't just.

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Speaker 3: A fleeing was serious.

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Speaker 5: I think Robert was like the love the first yeah,

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Speaker 5: first love of her life kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: Why would you want to think about Robert every time

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Speaker 2: that you say your child's name though?

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Speaker 4: Did you think you do though?

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Speaker 5: Or do you just like the name?

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Speaker 3: Move on? Like? I really like the name Lily, and

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Speaker 3: so did Lisa.

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Speaker 5: Do you have a girlfriend?

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Speaker 3: I had an ex called Lily and beautiful Lily. No,

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Speaker 3: you can bring up Lily. She's fantastic. She's married now

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Speaker 3: with three kids, and she's very happy and she's a wonderful,

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Speaker 3: wonderful person.

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Speaker 4: We did Lisa like the name as well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we both like Lisa and Lily were around the

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Speaker 2: same time.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter about.

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Speaker 5: Time, but Lily's a great name.

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Speaker 3: I have to say, yeah, And we spoke about it

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Speaker 3: and then she said, oh, but it was one of

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Speaker 3: your accidents. It doesn't matter. That doesn't matter at all.

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Speaker 3: Let's celebrate the fact that she was a great person

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Speaker 3: and it's a good name. You know, does it really matter?

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Speaker 5: Do you think that Lisa would have thought about it

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Speaker 5: every time that shelled her daughter Lily?

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Speaker 3: Like Paul Robert, who's sitting at home, you know, broken

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Speaker 3: hearted as well, wondering whether he'll get his girlfriend back

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Speaker 3: you know, in your situation.

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Speaker 5: What are you talking?

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Speaker 3: Oh you mean the story story.

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Speaker 5: I thought I'd revealed something personal. Even my sister, My

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Speaker 5: sister Rebecca, who is two and a half years younger

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Speaker 5: than I am, she called her her first child Eler

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Speaker 5: and she was even nervous to say. She asked me

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Speaker 5: whether it was okay to call her daughter Eler, like,

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Speaker 5: because I have a friend called Iland.

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Speaker 4: I'll give me a pray that. But you do, you

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Speaker 4: do have to come on bad? Do you feel about it?

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Speaker 2: Some people are really picky with names, though, aren't they

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Speaker 2: usually mother?

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Speaker 4: That was like the.

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Speaker 2: Guy over in the guy over in England who called

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Speaker 2: his daughter Lnizra Lenizra, which is a beautiful name, and

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Speaker 2: his wife loved it. But she found out three years

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Speaker 2: later exactly the same that Leanezra backwards is Arsenal his

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Speaker 2: favorite football too.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she wasn't happy with that one.

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