1 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Britney Saunders and welcome to Big Business, the 2 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: place where business is far from boring. And today I'm 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: recording on gaddigal Land. Now I somehow manage to build 4 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: an empire from the garage underneath my house, and I'm 5 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: here to share it all with you, from the winds, 6 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: the mistakes, the challenging times and the funny moments in between. So, 7 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: whether you're in business already, perhaps you're not in the 8 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: game at all, Maybe you're just looking for some inspo, 9 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: or you simply just want to hear the teeth, this 10 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: is the podcast for you. Coming up on today's episode, 11 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: I'm talking a little bit about my personal life, and 12 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: in particular it's a bit niche, but I'm talking about 13 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: getting my will done. Now. This is something that I 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: have thought about a lot over the last few years, 15 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: and this is something that I've spoken about with my 16 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: partner AJ and it's been one of those things where 17 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: I'm like, shit, we're like building all these businesses and 18 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 1: all this stuff is happening, I should probably get a will. 19 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: It's just one of those things that's been on the 20 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,319 Speaker 1: back of the to do list, but we've actioned it 21 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: and the wills are getting made as we speak, and 22 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: it's got me thinking about my business in like a bigger, 23 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: long term perspective. So I'm just gonna share some tea 24 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: with you, some insights and how this whole process has 25 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: been and what it's got me thinking about for the 26 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 1: future of fate. So, without further ado, let's just get 27 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: straight down to business. When I discovered wills, you'd always 28 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: like see them at the post office, you know, those 29 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: little will kits, Like you can quite literally just go 30 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 1: to the post office, like Australia post and there's little 31 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: wielkits and you can just make them up there at 32 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 1: the bloody post office. 33 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 2: Xander is looking shocked. You didn't know that. 34 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: I have never ever seen a will kit at the 35 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 3: post off. Well, maybe I'm not paying enough attention. 36 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: You know. I mean you go to the point I 37 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 2: could just. 38 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 4: Make it at the desk. 39 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: Well, I think, yeah, you fill it out and then 40 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if you just give it to the 41 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: post office. I don't know, don't quote me, but yeah, 42 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: you can get a will kit at the post office. 43 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 4: I am gagged. 44 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: Well, they did passports, so it kind of goes hand 45 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: in hand, like dying. 46 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 4: And flaring, like, let's get your fare as in order. 47 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 4: Let's go to the post office. 48 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 2: You can get them at the post office, like a 49 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 2: little basic one. Wow, But I'm not doing that. I'm 50 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 2: doing the whole shebang. 51 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 3: Well, I've got a lot to leave behind for my cats, 52 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 3: so maybe I will have to go down to the 53 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 3: post office. 54 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 1: I feel like doing your will is something that like 55 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: everyone thinks about in their life. And you always hear 56 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,679 Speaker 1: people say like life is so sure, you know, and 57 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: I fully fucking agree, like no one is promised tomorrow. 58 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: And by the way, trigger warning if anyone is upset 59 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: by talking about death or they find it's scary to 60 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: talk about, That's what I'm going to be talking about 61 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 1: in two day's episode. 62 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: So I just thought I would give you a heads 63 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 2: up about that. 64 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: But having my will done is one of those things 65 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: like for ages now, Like I want to say, even 66 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: maybe since before Fate started, like when I was an influencer, 67 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: I always. 68 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 2: Used to think shit like I should just get a 69 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 2: will made. 70 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: I think it's one of those things that none of 71 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: us ever really think about because you think, oh, like 72 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: I don't need it right now, you know, Like I'm young, 73 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm unstoppable, like you know, nothing's ever going to happen 74 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: to me, Like we just kind of all think, oh 75 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: that nothing's ever going to happen to me. I'm going 76 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: to be fine, Like you think of getting a will 77 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: done for when you're old and dying, but the reality 78 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: of it is like no one is ever promised tomorrow. 79 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: And I actually spoke about this on my story a 80 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: few weeks back, and a few people replied. 81 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: To my story. 82 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what roles they were in, but they said, 83 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: like I'm a so and so, Like I don't know 84 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: if they work in law or whatever, but they said, like, 85 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: thank you for touching on this, because this is actually 86 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: really important and a lot of us don't prioritize having 87 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: a will done. And I'll talk about it a little 88 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: bit more in this episode. But when it comes to 89 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: your will, it's not just about like the things that 90 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: you're going to leave behind, because I've spoken of friends 91 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: are like, oh, I'm not going to get one done 92 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: because I got fucking nothing to leave behind anyway, you know, And. 93 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 2: I'm sure that's like the mentality of most people. 94 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: But when it comes to your will and things that 95 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: I've been setting up it's also got to do with 96 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: like if something was to happen to you and you 97 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: couldn't make decisions anymore. So it's not even about like 98 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: you will isn't just about I'm gonna leave this to 99 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: my nan and this to my sister and blah blah 100 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. 101 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 2: It's about who's gonna. 102 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: Be responsible if something bad happens to you next week 103 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: and you are alive but can't make any decisions for yourself, 104 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 1: and like you don't have to have anything to leave 105 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: behind to have that part of your will set up. 106 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: It's more just about you and your health. 107 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 2: So let's get into it. 108 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: AJ and I have been floating the idea for so long, 109 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 1: I guess just for life in general, but also because 110 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, holy shit, like we've built something now, and 111 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: like if something happens, what's gonna happen with the business? 112 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: Our solicitor they also do wills, and so I'm like, 113 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: we need to just get in touch with the solicitor, 114 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: like they literally do wills, like we just and we 115 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: talked to them all the time. So I sent him 116 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: the email a few months back and just said, look, 117 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: AJ and I would like to get our wheels done 118 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: and there's the most random thing to email about, Hello, 119 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: I would like to get the thing made in case 120 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: I fucking die. 121 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 2: Like it's just so grim, but it's actually reality. 122 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: And one of the most sobering things was when I 123 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: went so aj and I went in to see him, 124 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 1: because you don't just like go and get it written, 125 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: like you've got to have like meetings about it, like 126 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: especially for us because we've got like all these businesses 127 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: and stuff. It's not like just feeling about the fucking 128 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: post office and off you go. And when we sat 129 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: down with him, like he's a funny guy, but he's like, okay, 130 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 1: so you're definitely going to die, like that was his 131 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: first thing, And it was sobering because I'm like I 132 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: always say, like I'm very realistic about death and dying, 133 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: Like I know some people don't like to talk about 134 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 1: it or like it makes them anxious or whatever, Whereas 135 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: I've always been like, we're all going to fucking die 136 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: one day, Like I know I'm gonna bloody die. 137 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 2: I'm not You're not gonna die. 138 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 3: I can't imagine it and I can't see it well 139 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 3: without me, So I will be alive forever. 140 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: Okay, you heard he fa Xander's here for the forever. 141 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 1: But that was the first thing that our solicitors said 142 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: to me. And then what I found interesting was that 143 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: because I think the only time that we learn about 144 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: wills or we see them is like in movies or 145 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: like you hear stories, and it's like, I'm going to 146 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 1: leave my estate to my son, and I'm going to 147 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 1: leave the cattle to you know. 148 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 2: Like that's what I think of when I think of wills. 149 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: And so I was going in there to see our 150 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,799 Speaker 1: solicitor thinking that I was going to have to say, well, 151 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 1: I'm leaving this to this person and that to that person. 152 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 1: But what I learned is like, you don't have to 153 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: do that. And I've even heard rumors or like whispers 154 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: that because you know, things can get so messy when 155 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: people die, which is really sad, especially people who have 156 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: stuff to leave behind, like money or real estate or 157 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: whatever it is. And I've even heard things like you've 158 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: got to make sure even if you have someone in 159 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: your life that you don't want to give them anything, 160 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 1: give them a little bit, because then they can't like 161 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 1: come after. 162 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 2: Have you heard that, Like just little things like that, 163 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 2: I've heard. 164 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 4: That I've cut them out now if that's the case, 165 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 4: I mean. 166 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 1: I don't talk about my personal life really all that 167 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: much online, but there's people in my life, in my 168 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: personal life, well in my family that I wouldn't want 169 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: to get a thing. 170 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: I know that's fucked, but that's the reality. And the 171 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 2: scary reality as. 172 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: Well, is like you've got to think about these situations 173 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: when you're getting your will done. But like my thought was, 174 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: I would hate for something to happen to me, and 175 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: just imagining the shit show that would then happen between 176 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: AJ and my family over my business, you know, like 177 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: it's just wild to think. So then I went to 178 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: him and I was like, look, there's some people in 179 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: my family that I wouldn't want to give them anything, 180 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: But do we give them something to stop them from 181 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: coming after AJ? Because I would want him to get 182 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: into a massive legal battle over fate with certain family members. 183 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: And my solicitor was like, you don't have to give 184 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: people anything if you don't want and I was like, oh, 185 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: like I didn't know that. Like again, in my mind, 186 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: I thought you've got to leave someone at least like 187 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: a thousand dollars. That was just something like I don't 188 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: know if I've seen to Be movies or heard it, 189 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. The cool thing about it, I guess 190 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: is it's not as complicated as I thought. I thought 191 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: it was gonna have to be like looking at everything 192 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: that we have and saying, this person gets this, this 193 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: person gets that, and you can very well do that 194 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: if you want, and I could have, but I just 195 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: kept it playing and simple. 196 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 2: AJ gets fucking everything. AJ gets everything. 197 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: And that's also like scary to think that that's what 198 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm putting on my will. Like the hard thing is 199 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 1: like when you're in a long term relationship, you see 200 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: that as you're forever. 201 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 2: You know, but then again, like shit happens in life? 202 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 4: Do you get everything if anything happens to age? 203 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's that's both of our wills. Is AJ 204 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: gets everything of mine and I get everything of his 205 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: because everything is ours anyway. And that's what I've put 206 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 1: on my will is AJ gets absolutely everything. There's no 207 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 1: other person that gets anything, like you can make it 208 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: as simple as that, which I was like, wow, like here, 209 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: I was like thinking I would have had to have categorized, 210 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: and He's like, you can if you want to. 211 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 2: But that just becomes fucking messy. So we just kept 212 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 2: it really simple like that. 213 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 4: In terms of, say, if something was to happen to 214 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 4: the both of you. 215 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 2: Yes, so that's my next My next point us such 216 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 2: a good producer you are, you're thinking ahead. 217 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 218 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 3: Then my thought process though, is what would happen to 219 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 3: the business and who how does that pass on? 220 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 2: Yes? So, and this is the scary thing. 221 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 1: That we also spoke about with him, which I'd never 222 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: really thought about either, like because you just never think. 223 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: But he said, let's say, for example, you and AJ 224 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: are in a car crash, and he had to paint 225 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: all certain scenarios so like, there's you could both be 226 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 1: in a car crash and both die. Then I need 227 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: to have other people on that will that don't necessarily 228 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,680 Speaker 1: get anything, but they I have to work with lawyers 229 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: and solicitors to figure out what is going to go 230 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: on with the business. The other scenario is if AJ 231 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: and I are like both in a car crash and 232 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 1: like I die, but he doesn't, Like, there's all these 233 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: potential scenarios and it was so confronting to like think about, 234 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 1: Like it didn't feel real to have this meeting, but 235 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: it kind of just made you realize like how important 236 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: it is to have this kind of stuff in place if, 237 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 1: like for any reason, something like that was ever going 238 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: to happen. 239 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 3: Did it kind of before we get onto the question 240 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 3: I asked, did it kind of make you feel like 241 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 3: you were actually more ill prepared than you actually were? 242 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 4: Because that's how That's what. 243 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 3: I'm getting a bit from this at the moment, is 244 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 3: that once, now that you've done it, you're kind of like, Okay, 245 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 3: I actually feel a bit calm, and I wasn't as. 246 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 4: Actually prepared for the future as I thought I was. 247 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's really important to get something like 248 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: this setup and to think about life in this kind 249 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: of way, especially with us like where opening all these stores, 250 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: and like with each store, I'm signing a new five 251 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: year lease, and like the crazy thing to think is, 252 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: let's say, for example, tomorrow AJ and I unfortunately died 253 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: in a car crash. 254 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 2: The landlords don't give a fuck that you've died. The 255 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 2: lease still exists, the lease still has to be paid. 256 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 2: Like they don't go, oh, that's okay, they died, We'll 257 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 2: just end it there. 258 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: That lease is there, that contract is there. And I've 259 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: never thought about this before. When I'm signing these five 260 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: year leases and going where I open up here paramatlah 261 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I don't think, holy fuck, if we 262 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 1: die one day, like who's going to fucking run it? 263 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: Because landlords don't care if you die, it doesn't just 264 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: get wiped off. Oh yeah, it's fine. The business is void. 265 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: And that's just another thing that's opened my eyes. Doing 266 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 1: my will is like holy shit, Like if something happened 267 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: to me and AJ like, what is going to happen 268 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: because we've got sixty plus staff, seven fucking commercial leases 269 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: or whatever it is. Just because the owners die, it 270 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that, like it all. 271 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 2: Just goes away. 272 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: And I kept making jokes like when we were going 273 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: through all this, I was like, thank funk, I won't 274 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: be here for all this. I would like, He's like, 275 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: thank God, because I'd hate to see like the shit 276 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: show that would happen. I'm no lawyer, so I don't 277 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: want to say all the things, but the things that 278 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: I've had to allocate, I guess is. 279 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: Obviously the will and then enduring powers of attorney and 280 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 2: let me just like he was explaining it all. 281 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: To me, So an enduring power of attorney authorizes someone 282 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: to make legal and financial decisions for you when you're 283 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: not able to yourself. So I've had to put someone 284 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: as my enduring power of attorney. So AJ is that 285 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: if I die, but then if both of us die, 286 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 1: someone else is that. It's my friend, like of over 287 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: ten years, And so I had to call my friend 288 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 1: and say, hey, like, I know this is wild, but 289 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: I'm putting you on my will as this person. 290 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 3: What happens to the business who then has to work 291 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 3: with solicitors to decide? And is there a person in 292 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 3: charge in the company if that scenario was to happen. 293 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 2: So it's none of my staff. Wow, I'm not putting 294 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: my staff on my fucking will. 295 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 3: Well no, well yeah no, But in terms of like 296 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 3: the in terms of like the hierarchy, like does someone 297 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:35,959 Speaker 3: have to step up within the business that's already. 298 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: There to run so everyone would stay in their positions 299 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: as is. And then I've got my friend that I've 300 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: been friends with for over ten years who's also in business, 301 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: Like I've told him about this, and I'm like, I 302 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: know this is just the worst case scenario. Like I 303 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: hope that we have this conversation and we never have 304 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: to actually think about it, and I asked him, like, 305 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 1: are you would you be okay with this? 306 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 2: And look, I. 307 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,080 Speaker 1: Don't want to get all the terminology wrong, but I'm i' 308 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: pretty sure he is the enduring power of attorney. 309 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 2: Like there's a few other ones. 310 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: So what else is there enduring? Yeah, so then there's 311 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: an enduring guardian and advanced care directives, but we'll get 312 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: to that a little later. So the enduring power of 313 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 1: attorney is someone that I dedicate and it's if AJ 314 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 1: and I both die at the same time, the business 315 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: has to keep going. It doesn't mean that it's going 316 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: to go forever and ever, but that person will come 317 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: in as the enduring power of attorney. And then I've 318 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: written in my will that that person is going to 319 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: get paid a lot of money, like so they're going 320 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: to get paid a salary through the company, like really big. 321 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 1: And you can say like, no, they're not going to 322 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: get paid anything. They just have to do it and help. 323 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 1: And then that person would then work with lawyers, solicitors, this, 324 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: that and. 325 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 3: The other and have you put in there like what 326 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 3: you would like, like what your intentions are to happen 327 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 3: to the business once no go on it's purely. 328 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 4: Up to them. 329 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: No, So I am going to be writing all of that, okay, 330 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: And so what I am what I have to do now, 331 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: which I need to get started on, is I have 332 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 1: to And this is just crazy, isn't it. So I 333 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 1: have to make a book that tells that person how 334 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: I do everything. 335 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 4: Wow, that's intense. 336 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: So everything from this is who we bank with, This 337 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: is our bank account details, this is our bank account manager. 338 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 2: This is our suppliers. 339 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 4: Like if they wanted to sell the business, could they? 340 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: I haven't got that far into it yet because we're 341 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 1: just like in this process now, okay, but I think 342 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to get to all that where I can 343 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: kind of make wishes or whatever of what is going 344 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: to happen kind of thing. 345 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 3: Now and a sorry I'm thinking I'm spitballing here, your spy. 346 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 4: I'm really into it. 347 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 3: Say if within the yeah, I mean in the next 348 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 3: ten twenty years, if you brought in a partner for 349 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 3: that business, that will would have to change. Yeah. 350 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 2: And this is the thing. 351 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: And like I said before, like I'm going to be 352 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: making up this will now and it could very well change. 353 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: And like I had the same thought like not that 354 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 1: you want to have these thoughts. But again, like I 355 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: was just thinking realistically, like I've put Aj on my 356 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: will gets absolutely everything. And then like I thought, God 357 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: forbid anything would ever happen to mine in AJ's relationship, 358 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 1: But like you know, things happen in people's lives, Like 359 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: what if something happened to mine in AJ's relationship down 360 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: the track, then then who would I put on there? 361 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: Like you know, if we were to ever go our 362 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: separate ways, and I don't have any family, Like, there's 363 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: no one that I would put on my wheel. 364 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 4: They could be in this room. They could, but you 365 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 4: never know. 366 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 2: You want it to be you. 367 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 4: You never know who it could be. You want it. 368 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 4: I didn't say, are you saying that you're the only 369 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 4: other person in this room that we know of? 370 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: It's the ghost on the chair over there, but it was. 371 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: It's just been a really eye opening thing. And so 372 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: then the other thing that I've had to do is 373 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: an enduring guardian and advanced care directive. And again you 374 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: can go and look all this stuff up if you want, 375 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 1: because I'm no solicitor. 376 00:16:57,880 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 2: I don't know he was talking to me, and it's like, 377 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 2: wasn't in English? 378 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: Basically like in enduring guardian and advanced care directives. So 379 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 1: a guardian AJ is my guardian if I have an 380 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:12,640 Speaker 1: accident and I can't make any decisions for myself anymore, 381 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: so he is the one, Like You've got to appoint 382 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: someone to make your medical decisions for you, and then 383 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: I'm his if something happens to him, or maybe his 384 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,159 Speaker 1: mum is actually like we put his mum on his 385 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: or his brothers. 386 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 2: I can't fucking remember. 387 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: But then if both of us like get in an 388 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: accident and can't make medical decisions for ourself, then like 389 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: I've put someone else that I know to be that 390 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 1: person to make my medical decisions for me. If AJ 391 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: isn't there for whatever reason? 392 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 2: What else? The other thing that I did, And again. 393 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 1: I don't know the exact words for it, but there's 394 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: another thing that I've already done and agreed to, which 395 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 1: is so scary to talk about. But let's say I'm 396 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: in the worst case scenario. I'm in a really bad 397 00:17:56,560 --> 00:18:02,959 Speaker 1: accident and the doctor's know that I'm going to die eventually. 398 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 4: But you're still alive and conscious. 399 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm not, like you know, if I'm in 400 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: a really bad way, I've got a thing in there 401 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 1: now that says like if two professors, like two separate professors, 402 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 1: say that I am deferent. 403 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 2: I don't know, professor, I don't know what a surgeon, 404 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. Okay, again, I don't know what I'm 405 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 2: talking about. But there's a thing in there now. 406 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 1: And it was another really important thing for us to 407 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 1: look at, and it's important thing for like everyone to 408 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:35,679 Speaker 1: look at because now it says like, if I'm in 409 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 1: a certain way and I Am definitely not going to 410 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 1: come back and it's just going to be like a 411 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,639 Speaker 1: slow death kind of thing and there's nothing that that 412 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 1: they can do to save me or whatever, that if 413 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: two professors or whatever they are say yes, she's not 414 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: coming back, that they won't resuscitate or like they will 415 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: turn off the life support kind of thing. And this 416 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 1: was like, holy fuck when we were talking about this, 417 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: just to think about that, because my solicitor said that 418 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: you would be surprised like the amount of people that 419 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,919 Speaker 1: get into a scenario like that and they don't have 420 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,959 Speaker 1: their will made so they don't have that do not 421 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:17,199 Speaker 1: resuscitate thing. Yeah, okay, and then the partner has to 422 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: make that decision. You know, when you hear about like 423 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 1: life support being switched off and whatever. He said, you 424 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:26,119 Speaker 1: would be surprised at how many people then feel like 425 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: they were responsible for their partner's death when they chose 426 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: to turn off the life support even though it was 427 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: confirmed that they're definitely not going to come back. 428 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 2: So then my solicitor said, he's just seen people go. 429 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: This is all my fault, Like I chose to turn 430 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 1: off the life support even though that was like the 431 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 1: only option. Whereas now I've made that decision for myself. Yeah, 432 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: so then AJ's never going to find himself in that 433 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 1: scenario because I have said, and so you have that 434 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:54,640 Speaker 1: piece of paper with you in hospital. 435 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 4: It's fucking wild, it is. 436 00:19:56,560 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 3: I'm kind of like having a little bit of a meltdown. 437 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: When I walked out too, I was like, anyway, thank 438 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 1: you by I'm like, oh my god, Like these are all, 439 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 1: you know, worst case scenarios that you never want to 440 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 1: imagine or think about. But I think, especially like being 441 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: in my position and being in business, like you've got 442 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 1: to think about this kind of stuff because yeah, if 443 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 1: I do die and if AJ dies, like what is 444 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:22,400 Speaker 1: going to happen to everything? 445 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 2: How is anyone going to keep the business running. 446 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 1: Who's going to be that person that comes in and goes, 447 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:28,919 Speaker 1: all right, I'm going to work with these lawyers to 448 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 1: figure out how long we're going to keep this thing 449 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 1: going for or if we're going to slowly shut it down, 450 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 1: or if there's going to be redundancies, like just all 451 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 1: this stuff. But even then, like I spoke about this 452 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 1: on my story briefly and people were messaging me, who 453 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,959 Speaker 1: must work with with wills or whatever? And this is 454 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 1: so important for you to talk about because no one 455 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,719 Speaker 1: talks about it, but we need to even just for 456 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,199 Speaker 1: that like do not resuscitate thing. And again I'm not 457 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 1: good with the terminology, but just like having those little 458 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,199 Speaker 1: things or like if you are in an accident and 459 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: can't make any decisions for yourself, having that person a 460 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 1: point that's going to be the one to make those 461 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: medical decisions for you. 462 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, especially with the business as well, Like I couldn't imagine, 463 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 3: you know, God forbid, something happened to you both and 464 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 3: then hypothetically you're brought into this scenario and you have 465 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 3: no idea how to run a business. 466 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like isn't that that's crazy to think about? 467 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 2: That's crazy. 468 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 1: But like my solicitor said, you've got electricity bills for 469 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: each of your store. These all need to keep being paid, 470 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: like they don't care, Like the rent at Miranda still 471 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: needs to keep getting paid. 472 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:38,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, imagine if nothing was set in place like. 473 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 2: What like, it just all fucking goes to absolutely. 474 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, like who has to step up? That's crazy. 475 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 1: So I've got to put that person there, yeah, to 476 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 1: come in and all outside people come in and help, 477 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 1: like it's not just like everyone's running around and the 478 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 1: building's on fire. But yeah, you need to have those 479 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 1: people appointed on your will if that does ever happen, 480 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,879 Speaker 1: and it's a person for each possible scenario. And I 481 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 1: think I found this the most difficult because of. 482 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,160 Speaker 2: My family situation. Yeah, and it kind of just made 483 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 2: me go fuck, like, you know, like I don't. 484 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: Have anyone in my own family that could step in 485 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 1: and help in that way. 486 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 2: So it was a bit like of a moment for me. 487 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's just one of those things that we've 488 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,119 Speaker 1: done and we've got the drafts now and then we 489 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: need to get them all approved and whatever. But it 490 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,439 Speaker 1: just makes you think, like life is fucking short, and 491 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need these documents at some point in one 492 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 1: way or another, and if you have a business out there, 493 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 1: or even if you don't, like look into getting your 494 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 1: will done because none of us can avoid death, like 495 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 1: we're all gonna die, and people dying is devastating. So 496 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: I know this is so grim of an episode. I 497 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 1: know it's a sobering topic to talk about, but it's 498 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:56,679 Speaker 1: just really important. And what I took away from getting 499 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: my will made and speaking with my solicitor is if 500 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 1: for any reason, you're going to pass away before you're 501 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: old and gray, you want your friends and family or partner, 502 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: you want them to be as set up as possible 503 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 1: so that like they don't have to make any of 504 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: these big decisions kind of thing, like not even when 505 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: it comes to your business. But also just like you're 506 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 1: the medical side as well. So that's what I took 507 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 1: away from it, is that it's just really important to 508 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: do to set yourself up so that your friends and 509 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 1: family and whoever kind of have some of it sorted 510 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 1: when you die. So that's my grim episode of the day. 511 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 4: What's the tip of the week? 512 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,199 Speaker 1: Now, tip of the week, let's just flip it on 513 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 1: its head and go something really positive. 514 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 4: Live every day like it I was going to say, 515 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 4: you know. 516 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 2: What, life is short. 517 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: My solicitor has told me that I'm definitely going to die, 518 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 1: which means all of you are too. And I know 519 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: it's fucked but and I feel like I've always had 520 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: this mindset like that's why I just do whatever the fuck. 521 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 1: That's why I'm just full of confidence. That's why I 522 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: make all my business decisions because I just believe in 523 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 1: myself and I know that, Like this moment, now, this 524 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 1: is the only moment, This is the only moment. 525 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 2: This is it. This is your moment, Sander, this is 526 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:22,400 Speaker 2: everyone's moment. 527 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 1: Who's listening, don't wait around to start living your life 528 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 1: because this is it. Yeah, Sander is having a meltdown. 529 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: That's all for today's episode, Folks. Sorry if this is 530 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,160 Speaker 1: left you feeling a certain type of way, That's how 531 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,239 Speaker 1: I felt when I walked out of the office with 532 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: a solicitor. 533 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,679 Speaker 2: But hey, we're here to talk about the realities of 534 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 2: life and business on Big Business and it is what 535 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 2: it is. 536 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 1: So make sure to always chase after your dreams as 537 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:50,919 Speaker 1: if they owe you money. And I feel like I 538 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,360 Speaker 1: can't even end this episode normally because it's been so emotional. 539 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 1: The vibes are weird in this room. There's a ghost 540 00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: sitting on that chair over there. 541 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 4: Jason's out of either who's Jason, He's the. 542 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 1: Ghost, Okay, Jason the ghost. Anyway, thanks for listening everyone. 543 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 1: Sorry if this has made you feel weird, but go 544 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 1: and get your wheel done.