1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: With Kate Richie podcast. 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 2: It is Fitzy you remember with Kate Richie it's your 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 2: Thursday podcasts and today we're talking weddings. But there's always 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 2: when you look back on your wedding, you regret obviously 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,319 Speaker 2: the marriage, but you also there's moments where you go, 6 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: how did that person get an. 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:18,959 Speaker 1: Invite to my wedding? 8 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 3: Why did I invite that person? 9 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 2: Honestly I've hated them for years or you haven't spoken 10 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:29,159 Speaker 2: to them since? Yeah, yeah, I've got one bride is 11 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: getting absolutely smashed on the internet for what she thought 12 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 2: about her groom's request for someone to be at the wedding. 13 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 1: You're going to hear that all in the podcast. 14 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 2: This is the Fitzian Whipper with Cape Richie Podcast. 15 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 3: Dom Dollar Ossie talent, what a great man? Do you 16 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: know what is in the lineup for Coach Ella also 17 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 3: nominated for a Grammy and I've got great news who 18 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 3: joins us? 19 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 4: Now? 20 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 3: How are you buddy? 21 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:51,639 Speaker 5: Good? 22 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: How are you buddy? 23 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: You've always kept your feet grounded, That's what we love 24 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: about you. And when you talk about your family and 25 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 2: mates that have grown up with Dom, I mean when 26 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: you're performing at the Formula one in Las Vegas. You 27 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 2: know with Calvin Harrison. Do you have mates from high 28 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 2: school going dom any chance on get tickets to this 29 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 2: one and tag along all the time? 30 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 6: Or isn't that the best thing about it? You get 31 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 6: to give your mates from school to entourage. 32 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 2: Have you We talked about Leonardo DiCaprio sometimes how he 33 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 2: just rings mates out of the blue and goes this weekend, 34 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: jump on a plane, meet me in Vegas? 35 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: Have you done that with mates before? 36 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 7: Dom? 37 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 6: I actually met Leonardo DiCaprio at a party recently, and 38 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 6: I was started drunk. Yeah, let's say drunk. Yeah, And 39 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 6: I actually thought I was imagining him, But I wasn't 40 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 6: imagining him those mushrooms. 41 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 8: I've had those dreams as well. 42 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 3: No, that's different. Don was actually meeting him in person. 43 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 3: What did you say to him? If you meet Leo, 44 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 3: what's the conversation? 45 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 6: Well? I nearly called him Jack, you did? I just 46 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 6: stopped myself. Nice bloke, absolutely lovely, Yeah, yeah, legend of 47 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 6: a bloke. 48 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 2: Well, there's a lot of celebrities that come to your 49 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 2: gigs that absolutely adore you. When you're on stage, you 50 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 2: command the crowd. One man that everyone is talking about, 51 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 2: who's a big fan of yours is Travis Kelsey. He's 52 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 2: just one his third super Bowl as well. Has he 53 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: been to quite a few of your gigs before? 54 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 5: Dom? 55 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's. 56 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 7: Been the heaps. 57 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 6: He and I used to hang out a fair bit, 58 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 6: especially before he met before he met Taylor. But he's 59 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 6: a huge house music fan. So he's a big boy. 60 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 6: Like I'm six one, he towers over me. 61 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 7: He'd at least be like. 62 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 3: On his shoulders, Dom. 63 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, That's what I'm saying, Like he's 64 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 6: that big, he can carry me. 65 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 8: Well, you'd rather at that than the other way around? 66 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 4: Would you? 67 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: Do you want Travis on his shoulders? 68 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 7: I have a compressed spine. 69 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 3: I reckon what's he like as a bloke because we 70 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 3: I mean, all we've seen really is Super Bowl celebration 71 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 3: where it looks like he's tipped a few in and 72 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 3: he's screaming into a microphone. But is there a quiet 73 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 3: side that we haven't seen? Travis kelcey? 74 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 7: You know what he is. 75 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 6: He's an honorary osy with an American accent. That's the 76 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 6: way that I can describe. He's just like he's just alaric. 77 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 6: He's just like just up for a laugh, I think Tom. 78 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 2: Congratulations man, it's been so good to see the rise 79 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 2: of your career and the big thing as well. 80 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 7: Dom. 81 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: You're playing a couple of shows in the Domain in November. 82 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 2: If you haven't got your tickets yet, headed untitled group 83 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 2: dot com dot au and tickets to Dom Dollars' second 84 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 2: Sydney show have nearly sold out, So getting quick. You're 85 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 2: not just playing clubs anymore, You're playing these huge shows 86 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 2: with twenty thirty thousand people. Congratulations, mate, thank you so 87 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 2: much for coming on the show. 88 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 7: Thank you guys, appreciate it. 89 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 6: I'll chat to you soon. 90 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: Thanks Tom. 91 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 2: The Fit and with Kate Whichie podcast Who did you 92 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 2: Waste an invite? 93 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 6: On? 94 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: At your wedding? And we all do this. You look 95 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: back at. 96 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: Farday's and go, how the hell did they get an invite? 97 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 2: Like we hardly knew them, I haven't spoken to them 98 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 2: for the last ten years. But there's also people that 99 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 2: sort of on the day might have a few too 100 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 2: many drinks, take advantage of your full alcohol list that 101 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: you have there and make a fool of themselves where 102 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 2: you disgusted with their behavior at your wedding. Thirteen twenty 103 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 2: four ten. A furious bride to be is getting absolutely 104 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 2: when a lambastard on the internet at the moment because 105 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 2: she's saying that her groom wanted to invite a friend 106 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 2: and have a seat at the table. 107 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: The thing is the friend hasn't been with them for 108 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: the last six years, right. 109 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 2: So this was to reserve a spot at a wedding 110 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 2: for a friend who passed away six years ago. 111 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:48,559 Speaker 1: She says. 112 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: While I understand the significance of honoring loved ones who 113 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 2: have passed, the idea of dedicating a slot on our 114 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 2: already very tight guest list to someone who won't physically 115 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: be there just didn't sit right with me. 116 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 3: I mean mentioned it in the speeches. I think to 117 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 3: have a spare seat, there is probably a distraction on 118 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 3: the dark or a. 119 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 8: Little candle in the corner. You know, you don't have 120 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 8: to pay no per for that person. Are you paying 121 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:10,679 Speaker 8: for their dinner? 122 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:11,679 Speaker 3: Who's going to eat his steak? 123 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: That's the thing. What is it's about one hundred and 124 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 1: fifty bucks ahead these. 125 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 3: Chicken on the beef? I suppose it's yours. You know, 126 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 3: we had made of mind. We had an awkward one 127 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 3: where he recently got a girlfriend and new girlfriend. So 128 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 3: he said, would you mind if I bring her along? 129 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 3: And I had to say, well, I don't know how 130 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 3: to say this, mate, but you haven't had a lot 131 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 3: of luck, have you. How long is this one going 132 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 3: to be around for? 133 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 9: Oh? 134 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 8: So you're saying, I do mind? I don't think she 135 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 8: would be able to pray? 136 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: Was it hell man? 137 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 4: No? 138 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 3: It wasn't Mountain, No, it wasn't the dazzler either did 139 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 3: at last? It wasn't smack Daddy. No, it wasn't trash, 140 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 3: it wasn't It wasn't the. 141 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 1: Wide sus the one you. 142 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 6: Like? 143 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 3: What it didn't work like? And I could tell at 144 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 3: the wedding her she was what's that word? How do 145 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 3: you describe her? A bit of a pest just all 146 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 3: over him? And he just wasn't into it, And I said, 147 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 3: may where'd you bring her? Anyway, let's not worry about that. 148 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 3: It's about my day. So that kind of finished after 149 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 3: the wedding. 150 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: So it is, it's a lot of money. 151 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 3: Joe wasted a seat? 152 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: Can we get to Joe? In frenchis for us? Who 153 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 2: did you waste a wedding invite on? 154 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: Joe? 155 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 10: So I wasted my wedding invite on my mother in law, 156 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 10: who never approved of the wedding to begin with, and 157 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 10: she came. She complained the whole time. She didn't eat 158 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 10: or brink anything, didn't talk to anyone, sat outside and 159 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 10: smoke the whole time. 160 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 3: What a selfish mole. 161 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: Joe, Joe, don't come? Can I bring up Come? Can 162 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: I bring up my pop Stan? He was exactly the same. 163 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 2: It was his second wedding to Beatrice and be just 164 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: She just darted for four hours out the back of 165 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 2: Pop's house. And there was this moment where I remember 166 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 2: this distinctly as a kid. I looked over and Pop 167 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 2: was on a chair, on a dining chair k and 168 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 2: he had his hand on his head, going what have 169 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: I done? 170 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 3: Or no? 171 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: He was over on the day of his wedding. That's 172 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: supposed to be the happiest day of your lie. 173 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 3: Who was that tobacco covered human drag your back in pluse? 174 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 8: I think the mother in law needs to stay at home. 175 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 8: If you don't approve, stay at home. Don't come and 176 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 8: try and control everyone with your attitude and your manipulation. 177 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: Well said Coate Allison in Borkham Hills. Who did you 178 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 2: waste the wedding invite on my sister in law. 179 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 11: Who decided to give birth the morning of our wedding. 180 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 8: Selfish times, he's more selfish the sister in law or 181 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 8: the baby. 182 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 3: The baby stopped talking to the malicon. 183 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: So Alison, did the fact did the in laws have 184 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 2: to leave at some stage? 185 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: It could be positive in a way. 186 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 5: Well, the next. 187 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 11: Morning it was there was a location wedding and my mother, 188 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 11: because it was my brother who had the baby, was 189 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 11: my mother who did not stay for the breakfast that 190 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 11: she chose to put on for my out of town 191 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 11: guests because she wanted to go and see the baby. 192 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 11: So I got to be there that the whole weekend 193 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 11: wasn't about me. 194 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: Alison, can I ask. 195 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 3: Did you announce the engagement before your brother announced his pregnancy? 196 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 5: Yes? 197 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: I think I shouldn't have. 198 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 2: Been doing it going first, right, Timmy Paddington? Who did 199 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 2: you waste an invite on? 200 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: Tim? 201 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 12: I wasted my one on a photographer actually because it 202 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 12: was it was a friend of a friend and as 203 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 12: you do so, rather than five thousand, I said I 204 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 12: could get it for five hundred. My wife, don't worry, 205 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 12: he's going to be top notch. And he got extremely drunk, 206 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 12: and the only job he had to do was to 207 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 12: take the main photo, and he mistakenly put my aunt 208 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 12: and uncle next to me rather than my mother and 209 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 12: fama photo. And then I didn't know think what was 210 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 12: going on until it was too late. And then afterwards 211 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 12: he just came back casually said, oh, if you get 212 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 12: photos your mom and dad, and so I went across 213 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 12: and he cut out the faces and tried to photoshop. 214 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 3: We had a stunk over a photographer too. 215 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 12: They bore and a half thousand those, so you can't 216 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 12: go wrong. 217 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: The real winter. 218 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 6: Never heard anybody to me, this is the fits and 219 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 6: with Kate Richie podcast, this is exciting. 220 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 3: We're getting into book club. 221 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 8: We are getting into book club, but we're also getting 222 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 8: into a bit of wellness. And I know, Whipper you 223 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 8: always talk about you're always well, bringing stories to the 224 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 8: table about how you'd like to achieve wellness. Maybe even are. 225 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 3: You rubbing your chest because this means something wellness. 226 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 8: This means something to me. It's kind of like because 227 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 8: I think that the feeling of wellness kind of comes 228 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 8: comes from here, It doesn't come from your head. Now 229 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 8: you don't have to, you know, drink your own bodily 230 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 8: fluids go on a particular. 231 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 2: Die stop doing this, start ye, stop doing that? 232 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 8: I mean, and so early in the morning. How gross? 233 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 7: No I did. 234 00:09:58,040 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 8: I wanted to tell you about this book that I've 235 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 8: been listening to on Audible. It's called How to Train 236 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 8: Your Mind by Chris Bailey, and I haven't thought much 237 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 8: of meditation in the past. End of last year, I 238 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 8: did do a meditation course, went away for the weekend, 239 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 8: and then never did anything about it. But I'm back 240 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 8: on the Chris Bailey train, and he's written the book. 241 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 8: He also narrates it. He's got the most soothing voice, 242 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:29,359 Speaker 8: and it's this candid take on productivity and the benefits 243 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 8: of meditation and what I will say. When you talk 244 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,319 Speaker 8: about meditation and how you're going to fit it into 245 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 8: your day, you think, well, how on earth am I 246 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 8: going to do that? But it train your brain or 247 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 8: train your mind features guided meditations that are designed to 248 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 8: fit around a very busy schedule. I feel very strongly 249 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 8: about this. So if you do want to be part 250 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 8: of my book club, call now. 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Rub you while you're doing that. 256 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 8: I know you're not listening, but at least listened to Audible. 257 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 8: Listen to listen to. 258 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 2: The My whole life revolves around mental fitness now and 259 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 2: keeping yourself happy. 260 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 261 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 8: You've worked with Whipper for what I mean. I'm surprised 262 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 8: you haven't got on board yet. 263 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 2: It's really hard fits in Whipper with Richie podcast. 264 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: Graham in Penruth. What do you want to talk about 265 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: this morning, Gregray? 266 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 13: Oh good, I guys. I just want to tell you 267 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 13: how much of a shaker I had yesterday. 268 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 3: I let it out. 269 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 13: I had heard for. 270 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 4: The grape Vine that Taylor Swiss is going to be 271 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 4: out at Sydney Zoo. So I grabbed my daughter, put 272 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 4: her in the car, and we're driving out there Hope 273 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 4: and I could we could get a glimpse of us. 274 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,199 Speaker 4: And I thought, oh, I've got to go and get 275 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 4: some fuel, So pull into the servo and I proceeded 276 00:11:58,440 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 4: to fill my diesel. 277 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 13: You we've unleaded. 278 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're drunk on Swift, won't you. Now 279 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 3: You've got no idea how long you had the car, Graham. 280 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 4: I've had it probably three or four months. But the 281 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 4: thing is I feel my wife's come and my my 282 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 4: wife never puts special in the car. 283 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 13: I feel her car. And that's premium on letters and 284 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 13: US Diesel. And you know I just had a brain 285 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 13: fade and Taylor Swift, tell you what. 286 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: Engine costing you a fortune? Graham? 287 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 2: You know you can't even well, you can't get tickets, 288 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 2: you can't get merchandise. 289 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: You now filled up your freaking car with premium mon letter. 290 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 2: Graham, this is you're not even going to get to 291 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 2: see you know what you are? 292 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: You are in the running, young man. So we could 293 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: be calling you back with tickets, Tom if. 294 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 3: We got a new card giver as well. 295 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 6: Cross. 296 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 1: How much does it cost to fix what you do? 297 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 4: Tell you what? No, I'll tell you what. I just 298 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 4: want to tell you that I want to put a 299 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 4: shout out to the wrong Fuel Rescue and feel it's 300 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 4: a wrong fuel rescue. 301 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 13: Mate. 302 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was stuck on the side of the road. 303 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 4: They come out, they drained the tank. This is even 304 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 4: after I drove it. They drove it, drained the tank, 305 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 4: they flushed the lines, they filled it back. 306 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 13: Up with diesel. 307 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 4: So it was it wasn't as much as a new engine, 308 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 4: but it was a sting in the back pocket for sure. 309 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 3: Well you must take comfort. And there's a company called 310 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 3: Wrong Fuel Rescue. There's enough doing it services. 311 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 2: It's it's basic yet effective. Isn't a very very effective 312 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:37,199 Speaker 2: fuel rescue? 313 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 1: Let's go to Chazoorn. 314 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 2: I think it's the first time we've ever had a cha. 315 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:45,439 Speaker 5: Hi. How are you guys? 316 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 3: Did we say that correctly? Did we pronounce that correctly? 317 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 5: You actually did it quite well? 318 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 3: Again, that's really thank you best I had very early. 319 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 3: So we accept that. What do you want to talk about? 320 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:00,559 Speaker 7: You? 321 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 5: Well, so you're I was talking to Produce and he's like, 322 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 5: what are you doing on the weekend? I said, I 323 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 5: really want to go to say this because you don't 324 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 5: want to know what my weekend job is. And he said, 325 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 5: what's all the guys about your weekend job? 326 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: What is it? 327 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,199 Speaker 5: And I said, well, I'm a bouncer, but I needed 328 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 5: to guess where I am a bouncer? 329 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: Where at can we ask us on can you tell 330 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: us where you're a bouncer? 331 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 5: At because I think that's what makes the story funny, 332 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 5: is I'm a bouncer at church of the weekend and 333 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 5: I am like the doorbaget. 334 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 3: Have you ever had to do anything oh. 335 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 5: Far out after this stuff every I have actually started 336 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 5: going to church now with gloves, you know, like medical 337 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 5: plastic gloves. I often have to keep like streakers out. 338 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 5: We've had squeakers come down the study. 339 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: What are you talking about to disrupt the service? 340 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 5: They interrupt the service. You can't make the stuff up. 341 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 5: I've come up with my own rules, like no one 342 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 5: is allowed that carries guests on their shoulder or a 343 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 5: musical instrument of their own, because they were the trouble makers. 344 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 5: We've obviously got the basics, like you know, not visible 345 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 5: alcohol on premises and you have to eat clothes. But yeah, I. 346 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 2: Was going to say, chisol do you have a lot 347 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 2: of people that are party all night and coming in 348 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 2: They come all the way through into the morning. 349 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 5: Absolutely, It's almost like a destination church now because people 350 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 5: are like, oh, let's can't try and get in at 351 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 5: that place because the praise South African on the door. 352 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 5: Let's try and get faster. I was just thinking far 353 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 5: it would be much nicer to be with Taylor. 354 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 3: I didn't know the churches were open twenty four seven. 355 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 5: No, we're not. We're not twenty for them. I'm only 356 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 5: there when the church is actually open. 357 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 3: You went to a church l one time, didn't you fit? 358 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 3: So you found yourself in a church quietly, did not? 359 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: What are you talking about, mate? Yes, we're very religious. 360 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: Family were there with a girl. 361 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 3: I'm great background of the church on the old. 362 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 2: Places that it's beautiful. You're in the running for Taylor Swift. 363 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 2: Congratulations Zali and Cockrow. 364 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: What do you want to talk about? 365 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 4: Zari? 366 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 9: So I want to give props to my amazing partner. 367 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 9: He's seen how much I want tickets and I was 368 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 9: giving you guys call every day. It's like up to 369 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 9: a thousand calls to try and get his advance. And 370 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 9: on Valentine's he decided to provide me with some taiesfors tickets. 371 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 9: I was so excited, like over the bloody mood. They're 372 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 9: taking pictures because I was just going to tell our 373 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 9: family and friends. And I looked at the ticket numbers 374 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 9: and then the exact same ticket numbers and my heart 375 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 9: just like dropped and I was like, oh no, and 376 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 9: then I reached out to ticket tech and both tickets 377 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 9: are scammed. 378 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 3: Oh you kidding, right, So you realize the tickets were 379 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 3: the same tickets, and you realized it was just a 380 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 3: print off. That is a disaster, Zali. What are you 381 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 3: going to do besides call this radio show and. 382 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 9: Beg I've been trying to call every night, so my 383 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 9: partner gives up his phone every night trying to get 384 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 9: every one because yeah, it's just like, you're so high 385 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 9: in the sky and there's nothing. 386 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 3: Tommy, what have we got for Czarly, do you want 387 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 3: a surprise her with something? 388 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 14: It's the Fitz, Whipper and Kate Merchant Park featuring Speed, 389 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 14: the Double Chin gin and with a beach tower, and 390 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 14: she's in the running. 391 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 2: Gazarly, Congratulations, you're in the running for Taylor Swift tickets. 392 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:32,440 Speaker 7: This is the. 393 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: Fitz and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast. We're on. 394 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 15: It's time for sixty second starts Ritchie time still standing now. 395 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: Byrons up this morning from mascot. 396 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 2: He doesn't really give us stuff about the four hundred 397 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 2: dollars cash. 398 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 1: I think he wants the Taylor Swift tickets. You're there, Byron. 399 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 13: He definitely don't. 400 00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 1: Any feeling really good, very very. 401 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 10: Nervous, well, very nervous. 402 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 2: You never know, Byron, the four hundred dollars might you 403 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 2: might be able to snag a ticket last minute with 404 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 2: that money. 405 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 1: But you've got to beat Kate. You've got to have 406 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 1: You've got to have the power. At the end of 407 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: sixty seconds, you are going first. 408 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 2: You are our guest Byron. So here we go. Your 409 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 2: sixty second starts. 410 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: Now. How many rings are there in the Olympic logo? Byron? 411 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 6: Five? 412 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 1: Yes? Name a famous Mark? 413 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:30,880 Speaker 12: A famous Mark, Mark Wahlberg? 414 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 1: Correct? Lisbon is the capital city of which country? 415 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 13: Our Portugal? 416 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 7: Yes? 417 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: Fine Line is the twenty nineteen album from which male 418 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: popster Hall Correct. 419 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 2: In two thousand and nine, Octo Mum gave birth to? 420 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 2: How many kids at once? 421 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 6: Got? Eight? 422 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 14: Yes? 423 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,479 Speaker 2: In a cross team lacrosse team? How many players are 424 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 2: on the field at one time? 425 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 6: Nine? 426 00:18:56,800 --> 00:19:00,159 Speaker 2: No six Kate, the Grinch and the Cat and had 427 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 2: it written by who doctor Zeus? 428 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 1: Correct? What year was Taylor Swiftbourne? 429 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 7: Nine? 430 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 2: Correct? Who hosts Australian Survivor. 431 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 1: That guy Lapalia? Correct? 432 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:16,360 Speaker 2: Did Holden cease operations in twenty fifteen or twenty twenty. 433 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 1: Twenty fifteen No. 434 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 2: Twenty twenty Byron, Meela Kunis and Ashton Kutcha first minutes 435 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 2: of teen Ages. 436 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 11: Yeah Byron. 437 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: Four hundred. 438 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 9: Oh, thank god, Oh my god, thank you God. 439 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 10: Oh my god. 440 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 9: I nervous for a second time. 441 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 3: Four hundred in the Skyrocket and in the running for 442 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 3: the Taylor Swift tickets. Congratulations perfect today. 443 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 13: Thank you so much, guys, Thank. 444 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 9: You the City and with a with Kate Hitchie podcast Divorce. 445 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:51,120 Speaker 2: Wait, so, so let's talk about this because you know, 446 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 2: with the statistic of fifty percent of our marriage is 447 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 2: in in divorce, I think we've heard for a long time. 448 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 2: Cru Yeah, yeah, that was for quite a while, but 449 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:05,199 Speaker 2: jumps has not dramatically, but there was a divorce lawyer, 450 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 2: and divorce lawyers I. 451 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: Think are very busy at the moment, especially after the pandemic. 452 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 3: A friend of mine has become famous because you know 453 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 3: what happens. Couples break up, they know that she's the 454 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 3: best in the business, and each party races to get 455 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 3: to her first. That's what it's turned into. 456 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:25,880 Speaker 2: Do you know what I've heard as well is that 457 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 2: apparently some people when they're going through a divorce or 458 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 2: they're breaking up in a marriage. They will get three 459 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 2: divorce lawyers and ring them and say, look, I'm thinking 460 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,640 Speaker 2: about using you. So then it takes three divorce lawyers 461 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 2: out of the running. 462 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 3: Oh so they can't find ano lawyer. 463 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 2: No, because you can't, because then you can't compete, you 464 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 2: can't get your push. Well, I'm sorry this is a 465 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 2: conflict of interest, but your other partner is considering using me. 466 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: Right, Okay, but have listened to the why at. 467 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 2: Least divorce lawyer explains it. Really, we need to think 468 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 2: about this a little bit more. Have a listen to this. 469 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 15: If you break it down, fundamentally, fifty six percent of 470 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 15: marriages end in divorce. 471 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 7: That's the ones that end in divorce. 472 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 15: So what percentage stay together for the kids or because 473 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 15: they don't want to. 474 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 7: Give away half their shit? Another ten percent? 475 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 15: That's conservative conservative, But let's say let's say twenty percent. 476 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 15: Do you now have a technology that fails seventy six 477 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 15: percent of the time. 478 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 7: That's insane. That's insane. 479 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 15: That's more likely than not seventy six per if I 480 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 15: told you there's a seventy six percent chance when you 481 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 15: walk out the door today you can get hit in 482 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 15: the head. 483 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 7: With a bowling ball. You would not go out, or 484 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 7: you'd wear a helmet. For sure. 485 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 15: It's literally fits the legal definition of negligence. 486 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 7: It's a negligent behavior. 487 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 15: Marriage is an inherently negligent activity. 488 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 7: It's like owning a lion, like the likelihood of someone 489 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 7: getting hurt. 490 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 15: Seriously, And I would say something, I've been doing this 491 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 15: for over twenty years, and I still get misty eyed 492 00:21:58,800 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 15: at weddings. 493 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 7: I still really there's. 494 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 15: Something in me that goes like, you know, maybe it'll 495 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 15: work out for these too. 496 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 6: He's good. I like you. 497 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 3: It's scary to think about when you put it like that. 498 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 3: And there's a lot of people you write that are 499 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 3: married but they're not happy and they just stay together 500 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,399 Speaker 3: because it's routine and it's easy. And he's right, people 501 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 3: don't want to lose half half their money. 502 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:22,439 Speaker 1: Well, it's. 503 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 2: He then goes on to explain that you don't need 504 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 2: to get married. This is the thing and it's the 505 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 2: ceremony that everybody you know dreams of. 506 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 1: And I think for me it was more do you 507 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 1: know what? 508 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 2: It was celebrating my love for BJ, but it was 509 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:43,640 Speaker 2: also for me it was just having your family and 510 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 2: your closest friends and having one big party. 511 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 3: Say, and kicking the footy with thngs on adelaide over. 512 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 1: Yes, that's what it was like. 513 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 2: It was when you think about it now, if if 514 00:22:56,560 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 2: the tradition of getting married, I mean every it feels 515 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 2: like once you're in a relationship for a few years, 516 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,360 Speaker 2: you then start getting pressure from family members, So when 517 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 2: are you going to do it? 518 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 3: I mean it made sense back in the day. Like 519 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 3: if we go back centuries, right, and you go, okay, 520 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 3: you need to create the best environment to bring up 521 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 3: a child. So you go traditional mother and father, and 522 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 3: we bring up a child because it's warm, it's safe, 523 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 3: and we've got two people to raise this thing. That's 524 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 3: hard work and we can give shared advice on how 525 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 3: to do that. So that makes sense. But back then, 526 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 3: the life expectancy was about forty eight years old if 527 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 3: we go back two hundred years or three hundred, five 528 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 3: hundred years, so you wouldn't live for very long. 529 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 1: Everyone was dying at forty eight. 530 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 3: I get married around the age of fifteen, that was 531 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 3: sort of the thing to do, and by twenty you're 532 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 3: an established family and then you hit your late thirties 533 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 3: and it's a better a tie. Now I'm on my 534 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 3: way out the door in about eight years. 535 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 1: So it's fascinating. 536 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 2: Do we really need the tradition and the ceremony of 537 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: getting married when you love somebody so much? 538 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:09,719 Speaker 1: Why do you need to do it? 539 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,400 Speaker 2: Because you know, let's just say that you found your 540 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 2: life partner and you both agreed, let's not get married. 541 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 2: If you do have complications and things change, it's not 542 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 2: a perfect well people grow apart the pressure that you 543 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 2: don't if you're not married to then say to your family, 544 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: oh we broke up, instead of saying, oh, we're getting 545 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 2: a divorce. 546 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,640 Speaker 1: The reaction is so different. 547 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 3: One's legal, isn't it. I mean it's you're right, And 548 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 3: as a lot of people say, it's just a piece 549 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 3: of paper. And it's not like the wedding industry has 550 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 3: been ripping people off for years. I mean they never 551 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 3: put their price up when they see a w in 552 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 3: front of it. There's no way known. It's all fair 553 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 3: and reasonable. It's the same price for a Bucks party 554 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:54,199 Speaker 3: as it is for a wedding. Exactly angry about the 555 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 3: cost of it, but if sixty seven or nudging up 556 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 3: to seventy six percent, and when there's four lads in 557 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 3: the room, here you know Ldamon boys, Who's on the 558 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 3: way out the door? 559 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 1: Three of us? Three of us are going, Who's. 560 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 3: In the dog blot? Sits in Whipper with Kate Ritchie 561 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 3: is a Nova podcast to walk great shows like this. 562 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 3: Download the Nova Player via the App Store or Google 563 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 3: Playing the Nova Player