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Speaker 1: interesting one. Welcome to the podcast. What to do and

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Speaker 2: Don't go back there, don't just just don't understand the separation.

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Speaker 3: You're done.

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Speaker 1: You're done. But what about if there are children and

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Speaker 1: you have to co parent? Like, what are you still

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Speaker 2: That's tricky?

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Speaker 1: Should you still holiday together? Who does it confuse the kids?

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Speaker 4: It's a big question. Yeah, I went on a Kentucky

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Speaker 2: Is a stupid move if they weren't your kids either.

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Speaker 5: Because we both looked up with the tour guide.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, that was tour guide and it.

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Speaker 4: Was stupid, you know, to bring the two kids with

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Speaker 5: I mean kids and Kentucky tours.

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Speaker 4: It just they don't meet, No, they don't, especially when

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Speaker 1: Real awkward on the bus. That's what we're talking about today.

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Speaker 1: I mean, let's not unpack it too much here, let's

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Speaker 1: do it in the podcast.

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Speaker 6: This is the FITZI and Whipper with Cape Richie podcast.

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Speaker 4: The amount of app ideas that are out there and startups,

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Speaker 5: Have a crack. But well, I mean one of them.

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Speaker 5: It's very very minimum.

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Speaker 7: Dad rang the other day and he said, mane, I've

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Speaker 2: I've got the best idea for an app. Oh, John,

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Speaker 7: It's an app and you go to it, click on

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Speaker 8: It enables you to order a look alike of yourself

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Speaker 1: Well done to all the parents out there who are

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Speaker 6: This is the Fitzi and Whipper with Cape Richie podcast.

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Speaker 5: It's time for sixty second start.

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Speaker 6: Keep Richie time still standing now save from the Kia

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Speaker 4: Eight andred dollars up for grants. We're getting into ridiculous

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Speaker 4: They would say, can she be knocked off by Jessica

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Speaker 7: Morning jessef you how strong Kate Richie has been recently?

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Speaker 11: Oh my gosh, she's on fire been extraordinary creations.

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Speaker 7: Do you know what it's in honor to sit here

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Speaker 1: Just stand amazing.

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Speaker 4: Thanks Jess, you're in the running for a key of

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Speaker 4: But the eight hundred dollars could be yours if you

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Speaker 5: Now. How many kids does in Shearon have? Jess two?

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Speaker 5: Who is correct?

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Speaker 4: Yes, Chic and Venus are brands of what Jessica Raiser.

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Speaker 5: Raises is correct?

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Speaker 4: Where will the Everest horse Race take place this week?

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Speaker 11: In Royal ran Wick?

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Speaker 5: No, Melbourne doesn't over to Kate. Kate.

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Speaker 4: Double two double zero Brother refers to the postcode of

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Speaker 5: That's Bankstown.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Which famous fashion show returned this week after a

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Speaker 5: Victoria's secret. Yep, what comes first? Thunder or lightning?

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Speaker 2: If you stumble, you will kill Yeah.

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Speaker 5: But that's just chance, isn't it. You stuff?

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Speaker 1: Well played, Jessica. You were making me extremely nervous.

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Speaker 5: I think you're solid.

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Speaker 7: Oh just how frustrating in your own hometown of Sydney.

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Speaker 2: That happens, doesn't matter running the bin.

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Speaker 1: Don't torment yourself throughout the day like I would.

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Speaker 11: Thank you?

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Speaker 7: Oh defictd She sounds a pair of explorer socks maybe

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Speaker 5: Coming in mind.

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Speaker 1: Someone put a pair on my desk on the other

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Speaker 5: Premium dining and Entertainment.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 11: I'm actually I'm onto my last finishing up breast cancer treatment.

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Speaker 11: Actually I'm off my third last radiation over yeah, finish

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Speaker 1: Yeah you can, Jessica, Well done.

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Speaker 3: That's you, guys, every day.

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Speaker 2: Enjoy, enjoy, jess Well done, jess You took you took

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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Speaker 1: What I just said is that she played. You know what.

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Speaker 1: I shut up, you guys, I rod tickets. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: And I'm going to worry about that all day. God,

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Speaker 11: This is the fits in with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 4: We're not actually knocking out another wall because we're open

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Speaker 1: There are no walls.

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Speaker 7: It means I'm kind of sharing a little bit behind

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Speaker 1: Do you on the back or need to say you're

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Speaker 8: So I'm going through my parents like bookshelfs, looking for

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Speaker 5: That's an eleven year old.

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Speaker 2: It's like Parma, such a book with different was it

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Speaker 5: I think it must have been a wedding gift or

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Speaker 8: It was a very nice It was like illustrations and

454
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Speaker 8: I don't care stuff like that.

455
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Speaker 7: I'm trying to sell with the book when I know

456
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Speaker 7: that really you're just I wonderful. It was week by week,

457
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Speaker 7: almost like an advent calendar.

458
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Speaker 5: Did you ever confront your parents about it? This is

459
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Speaker 5: probably the first time they know that I know.

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Speaker 2: Was the tab sort of?

461
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Speaker 7: Was there a tab towards the end of the book

462
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Speaker 7: was almost like the skip pages.

463
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Speaker 2: They didn't want to do like.

464
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Speaker 5: There was just those like what don't you do?

465
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Speaker 8: It was like a study book, like a biology book,

466
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Speaker 8: where you like pin tab like important parts of the

467
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Speaker 8: book to study for revice, revice.

468
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Speaker 5: Or just do you know what you do?

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Speaker 1: Maybe your mum And I hate even talking about your

470
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Speaker 1: mouf like that. Maybe I won't say your mum. I'll

471
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Speaker 1: just say maybe. It's a book hook. It's a book

472
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Speaker 1: that if you're not happy with that kind of area,

473
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Speaker 1: it's a good way of opening the conversation by just

474
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Speaker 1: putting a little tab or a tick or a highlight

475
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Speaker 1: and leaving it on the bedroom side table. So it's

476
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Speaker 1: it's a subtle hint.

477
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Speaker 2: We've got some feedback coming through.

478
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Speaker 5: I've just got a message from my dad. Guys, no joke,

479
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Speaker 5: thanks Ollie, much appreciated.

480
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Speaker 1: So I want to know, actually, Dad, if you're listening,

481
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Speaker 1: who got the most out of the book.

482
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Speaker 4: Can we give your old manicle? Can we please just

483
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Speaker 4: have a chat to it. We'll try Dad's name, Julian.

484
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Speaker 2: Lovely name, how many pages did you get? How many?

485
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Speaker 2: Chap doesn't how much? And Julian what page were you

486
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Speaker 2: on when you conceive Dolly?

487
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Speaker 5: No, we don't need to know.

488
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Speaker 1: Are you a little ef baby.

489
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Speaker 7: Yeah, awesome, I love that. That's so exciting to think that.

490
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Speaker 7: And here's what I want to do. What did you

491
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Speaker 7: discover about your parents?

492
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Speaker 2: Like?

493
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Speaker 7: How did you how did you find out too much?

494
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Speaker 7: What was that moment where you went, oh my gosh,

495
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Speaker 7: mom and dad?

496
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Speaker 1: And it doesn't have to be to that doesn't.

497
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Speaker 7: Most likely would be best to Okay, best call of

498
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Speaker 7: winstickers to Sydney Zoo, just like it can cross check

499
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Speaker 7: what the lines are up.

500
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Speaker 1: To you and me nothing but mammal.

501
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Speaker 5: Amanda from Ranwick. What did you find out about your parents? Amanda?

502
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Speaker 11: My mum had that book as well, and there domin

503
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Speaker 11: eighties kids, So I grew up and it was on

504
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 11: sort of like the coboard of the top shelf. But

505
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Speaker 11: looking back, I think it was used as it was

506
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Speaker 11: meant to sort of be found by my sister and

507
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Speaker 11: myself as our sex education. They didn't have to do

508
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Speaker 11: the talk to you because it.

509
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Speaker 2: Wasn't really planted there deliberate.

510
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Speaker 11: Yeah, and it wasn't really graphic. It was sort of

511
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Speaker 11: like last drawing. So there were these sketches I remember,

512
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Speaker 11: being black and white sketches of last drawing.

513
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Speaker 1: So it is funny how those stick in your head?

514
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: They do burnt into your brain. You can see two bodies, line.

515
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Speaker 2: Know, and it's so confusing about what the book it is?

516
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Speaker 4: Where do babies come from? With the stalk? That was

517
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 4: a huge one for kids in the eighties and the nineties. Yep,

518
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Speaker 4: that's where you sort of I mean you'd always have

519
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Speaker 4: a chuckle when you'd see a nude man in a drawing.

520
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean sometimes you have a little chunkle

521
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Speaker 1: when you see a nude man in real life.

522
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Speaker 7: Sometimes it doesn't matter if you're if you're the age

523
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Speaker 7: of fifteen or the age of forty six.

524
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Speaker 5: On my road, Oh you funny thing, look at you rowing.

525
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Speaker 4: Growing in Carrajong. What did you and your best mate

526
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Speaker 4: find about your parents?

527
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Speaker 13: I was my best mate's parents, who are having a

528
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Speaker 13: sleep over there about stick to us and we must

529
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Speaker 13: have been little buggers or something. And she hit the

530
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Speaker 13: PlayStation control of my trying to find them all through

531
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Speaker 13: the house and we went up into his parents' bedroom

532
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Speaker 13: and opened a drawer and found a full draw of toys,

533
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Speaker 13: I mean, an assortment. And he didn't know. So two

534
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Speaker 13: of us came downstairs sword fighting and carrying on with him.

535
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Speaker 13: In front of him, and of course he's never lifted down.

536
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Speaker 7: Of course, now, no one wants to lose a sword

537
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Speaker 7: fight with one of those.

538
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Speaker 13: Pretty big ones. They were sort of almost both Star

539
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Speaker 13: Wars sword fighting.

540
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Speaker 7: One lightsabers Wow, gosh okay, and the drawer was shut

541
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Speaker 7: and no one was to have a reference.

542
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Speaker 2: It will play with it again.

543
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Speaker 13: No, that he never lift it down still comes up.

544
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Speaker 13: His mum was the coolest mom back then when we

545
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Speaker 13: were putting.

546
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Speaker 12: Your old kidden coolest when when you rowan, when you

547
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Speaker 12: get to an age, when you start working out what's

548
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Speaker 12: going on, and you start a mature and you get

549
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Speaker 12: older and older and you still mates, do you still.

550
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Speaker 5: Rib him and go back and go.

551
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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. There were some of those toys in

552
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Speaker 4: there that were a bit full on.

553
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Speaker 13: Oh constantly his wedding was giving him a wink to

554
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Speaker 13: his Mama'd old in and.

555
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Speaker 7: There's a lesson in that. See, I told you to

556
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Speaker 7: move them from under the couch, Tommy, like you should

557
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 7: definitely put them somewhere.

558
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Speaker 5: That's absolutely on me.

559
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Speaker 2: If that's what it is, I just assumed.

560
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Speaker 5: I'm so sorry everyone involved.

561
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Speaker 7: We move on.

562
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Speaker 2: I want to introduces just to verify and probably defend

563
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Speaker 2: their reputation. This morning, Miriam and Julian.

564
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Speaker 1: Hello him, Miriam, Welcome to the show. Have we got

565
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Speaker 1: you both together? Where where are you?

566
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Speaker 5: Oh they've cut out.

567
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Speaker 2: Don't tell me.

568
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Speaker 4: Julie and Mary, are you there? Just take one step

569
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Speaker 4: to the left. We need to talk to you.

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Speaker 11: Can you hear it now? Yeah?

571
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Speaker 5: You to the show.

572
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Speaker 7: Is this the first time that you've heard and realized

573
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Speaker 7: that Olie found this book?

574
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Speaker 2: Sure?

575
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Speaker 13: Is?

576
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 3: As we're driving into the city, suddenly we hear his

577
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 3: voice on the radio and yeah, slightly awkward.

578
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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, thumbs up to you. I mean,

579
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Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's wonderful. But what I

580
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: do want to know is who bought the book, who

581
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Speaker 1: who gifted it to?

582
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Speaker 4: Who it was?

583
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 3: Actually it was actually Julian's mom.

584
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 5: Who was who was putting the post it notes in there?

585
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: Miriam?

586
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 5: Was it do you? What were you two doing it?

587
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 5: Or was or was it then in law?

588
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 11: I can't recall.

589
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 3: Actually put Julian on.

590
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Speaker 5: Where's Julian?

591
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Speaker 2: Come on, Julian. Julian very quiet to this point.

592
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Speaker 7: Julian Julian, Yeah, Julian, did you I mean, obviously you

593
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Speaker 7: were the tab guy did you space it out? I mean,

594
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Speaker 7: did they represent sort of weak activities or monthly.

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Speaker 13: It was a long time ago, guys.

596
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Speaker 1: But they're being highly respectful and they know that Ollie's

597
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 1: awkwardly sweating here beside me.

598
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,719
Speaker 2: We're all adults now, we understand these things.

599
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Speaker 7: And do you I mean, because Julien it was from

600
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Speaker 7: your mother, is this now tradition for you to pass

601
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Speaker 7: the book on?

602
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Speaker 3: I was just I was just thinking Christmas is coming up.

603
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Speaker 2: The tree.

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Speaker 5: It's a new copy.

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Speaker 4: Miriam and Julian, can we say on behalf of our

606
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 4: show that you have raised such an amazing young man.

607
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 4: Your son is such a valued member of our team.

608
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Speaker 4: We just didn't know that their family was so sick.

609
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 2: We love him.

610
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Speaker 1: You'llie to turn out as well as you.

611
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Speaker 8: I just also found out that I wasn't ivy as well,

612
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Speaker 8: so maybe I was conceived one of those pages.

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Speaker 5: Okay, there you learned something new.

614
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Speaker 2: Have it to three how to make it?

615
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 7: Olie nor Julian, thank you for coming on the show,

616
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 7: and remember to pass that on at Christmas time.

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Speaker 2: Thanks guys, we look up, We look after you. Mate.

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Speaker 7: They could have got they could have got thanks buddy.

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Speaker 7: All right, So Tommy.

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Speaker 4: Tolly, Can I just say this show has changed so

621
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Speaker 4: much five years ago that that could have gone anywhere.

622
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Speaker 5: Tom that break Well, I'm quite proud of where we've gone.

623
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Speaker 2: I mean we've ticked off toys, we've ticked up thumbs.

624
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Speaker 5: Give yourself a big pat on the back.

625
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's page that's page seven.

626
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Speaker 1: It's in the beginning.

627
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 5: Yes, and everyone every everyone wrong.

628
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Speaker 2: Zoo family.

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Speaker 1: You can go to the zoo with your mum and dad.

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Speaker 2: Olie over. We can walk around not making eye contact.

631
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Speaker 11: This is the fitting and with Kate Richie podcast.

632
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Speaker 4: You know, my wife is a thrifty shopper. She doesn't

633
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 4: mind a here and there. And my mother and I

634
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 4: and my mother, my mother and my wife have become

635
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Speaker 4: very very close.

636
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Speaker 2: They do.

637
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 4: It's a great hobby and it's a great They like

638
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 4: to buy stuff from op shops and then.

639
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 5: Go to Little Market's Kate and On sell. It does

640
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 5: vintage clothing.

641
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Speaker 2: Don't they.

642
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 5: They love it.

643
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 4: They have a shed, they have a commercial shed together

644
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Speaker 4: that they store all their stuff in and they and

645
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Speaker 4: they get together every day cade and they sort out

646
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Speaker 4: the shed. It's all in alphabetical order and there's and

647
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Speaker 4: you know the best thing about it. They love getting

648
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 4: friends around. Oh you're looking for a jacket this week

649
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Speaker 4: and to go.

650
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Speaker 5: Out, and why don't you come around to the shed?

651
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Speaker 4: Step into my ship, run out, So Mike, come, I

652
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Speaker 4: have a look at miss Shed. She's she's so patient

653
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Speaker 4: when she goes to an op shop. For me, when

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Speaker 4: you go into shop, I'm in and out. What you

655
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Speaker 4: don't want to be there for too long? But my

656
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 4: wife can spend hours in an op shop. And there's

657
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Speaker 4: a couple of things that she's sort of that she's

658
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Speaker 4: found that that are quite questionable that I've had to

659
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Speaker 4: pull her up on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how she got it?

661
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: Choices, fashion choices.

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Speaker 4: No, the boys are just about to start cricket season.

663
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Speaker 4: Mums come home. Lenny's under twelves this year and mums

664
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Speaker 4: come home and oh, look, Lenny, I found you a

665
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Speaker 4: box that you can wear a cricket.

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Speaker 5: I got it from the op shop because.

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Speaker 1: You can't buy a secondhand box, can you? If I

668
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Speaker 1: know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 7: I mean traditionally, when you wear a box, you have

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Speaker 7: two pairs of underpants on, do you No?

671
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Speaker 2: Some people do.

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Speaker 7: I used to, because you sit one on top and

673
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Speaker 7: then one on underneath. No, it's not directly onto your tax.

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Speaker 1: But you don't strap the box on.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's you. You don't need two pairs

676
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Speaker 4: of undies to wear a box. It goes underneath your undies,

677
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 4: which some people do.

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Speaker 5: What you put the plastic on your will?

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Speaker 2: Does it get sweaty?

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Speaker 4: Yeah it does. But you wear gloves they get sweaty

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Speaker 4: as well. You wear pads on your legs, they get

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Speaker 4: it sweaty as well.

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Speaker 2: Sweaty.

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Speaker 7: Do you know what can happen and this is happening

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Speaker 7: in professional cricket where you're professional professional profession You'll get

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Speaker 7: hit in the box right right in the tackle. It'll

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Speaker 7: split the box and then the box closes with a

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Speaker 7: bit of skin in it.

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Speaker 5: Well yeah, and you do.

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Speaker 1: The old trampoline injuries you'd get Is that right? Brings

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Speaker 1: a bit like so the trampoline injury, but with the box.

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Speaker 5: But there was a it was a gray Nickels as well.

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Speaker 5: It's a good brand.

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Speaker 4: There was a moment where she passed it to Lenny

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Speaker 4: and she was so proud that she'd found this because

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Speaker 4: there were certain things. He needs a dipad, he needs

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Speaker 4: a new pair of gloves. She goes, look, we don't

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Speaker 4: have to worry about it.

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Speaker 5: I got you a box.

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Speaker 4: She hands it to him, and my son was standing

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Speaker 4: there with a gray Nickels box in his hand, and

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Speaker 4: I just looked at him, and you realized that someone

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Speaker 4: else has worn that.

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Speaker 2: It's just it's like secondhand ndies. You just wouldn't do it,

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Speaker 2: would you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you can donate undies. I don't think

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Speaker 1: even like that. You know, when you donate things to St.

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Speaker 7: Vincent, if you run the box through the dishwasher, you

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Speaker 7: can get, you can get. And yeah, I think your

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Speaker 7: second hand grundies you warn them boxer shots, Yes you.

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Speaker 5: Know they're not Yeah, the Tom Tommy they're not. They're

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Speaker 5: synthetic in the green lantern that.

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Speaker 4: But you also had those special Summernats boxer shorts. It

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Speaker 4: came with the burnouts included very good.

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Speaker 5: I realized what you were doing there.

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Speaker 7: It's brilliant execution character.

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Speaker 2: Silk.

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Speaker 1: That's discuss what you don't want secondhand like.

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Speaker 7: Silk boxer shorts. Not only were they graphics silk.

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Speaker 1: Can I just say, if you go into Moyer and

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Speaker 1: you buy a pair of boxer shorts with a cartoon

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Speaker 1: character printed on, I guarantee one thousand dollars that they

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Speaker 1: are not silk. They are one hundred percent polyesta.

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Speaker 2: I don't care about the material. It could be microfiber

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Speaker 2: for all you care.

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Speaker 1: Kate, Yeah, you should care about the material because it's

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Speaker 1: the difference between sweaty and not.

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Speaker 4: They take days in India to make with silk, and

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Speaker 4: it takes they grow the worm. They get the purple

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Speaker 4: silk for the phantom, and then the green silk for

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Speaker 4: the green lantern.

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Speaker 5: It's one of my pet hates.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know there are other things in the

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Speaker 1: world to be upset about, but when people say, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's a lovely oh, and it was a beautiful silk shirt,

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Speaker 1: it's not silk, mate, It's not It's not silk silk.

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Speaker 1: It's offended that you old polyester silk.

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Speaker 7: You're still on fabrics, aren't You're still not worried about

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Speaker 7: the graphic image of what it looks like for a

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Speaker 7: guy who's just swinging in the silk. There were tracksuit

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Speaker 7: pants where it looks like no one's like, you don't

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Speaker 7: have underpants on.

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Speaker 5: It's just quite like that.

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Speaker 1: That's hilarious. Are you, like, do you realize that I

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00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 1: can see all outline with that like and you're out.

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Speaker 5: Of the house.

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Speaker 7: Well, it's like when you some girls have active wear on.

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Speaker 7: My mum calls it a wendy.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you know what it makes a w I

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Speaker 1: saw in the holidays camel toes are back in.

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Speaker 7: You know you can buy the am Alto mold in

752
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Speaker 7: case you don't have the look that you want because they.

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Speaker 5: Are very different.

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Speaker 2: Kate.

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Speaker 1: Just sorry, fits, Kate, You were just not that I

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Speaker 1: look like some some like there are different There are

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Speaker 1: different outlines.

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Speaker 2: People are different. Is different?

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Speaker 5: What what different letters? Kate? Then than the dumber? Is

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Speaker 5: there another letter?

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Speaker 2: Will be a flat? You could be a V.

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Speaker 1: You don't want an M, that's for sure the most knuckle. No,

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Speaker 1: the M is it that's hanging out the other way?

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Speaker 5: Isn't what a pillow.

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Speaker 2: Came from? Kate? We sit back and po just watched

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Speaker 2: the whole thing on podcast.

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Speaker 5: Which letter are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm heading out for a smoke?

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