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<v Speaker 1>Apod Shake Production. Welcome back to another episode of Am

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<v Speaker 1>I A Bad Mom? Podcast? Something funny happened that I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to bring up before we get into today's topic,

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<v Speaker 1>because we were at your house for a photo shoot

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<v Speaker 1>that you and Sam were doing. And so what happened

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<v Speaker 1>is you had gone off with the videographer to do

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of filming and I was setting up the

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<v Speaker 1>next shot. Okay, this is great, and your two girls

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<v Speaker 1>were at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you were with the girls.

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<v Speaker 1>So I said to Elsie, I was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>have like a spray and white because where we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to have the shot, there was a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>bird poo on the deck and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not going to look great. I'll just clean it off.

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<v Speaker 1>And Elsie looked at me and she went, oh, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>here go and passed me a spraym wipe. She went

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<v Speaker 1>what do you need it for? And I went, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just going to clean off some birdpool off the

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<v Speaker 1>back deck. And she looked at me with the funniest

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<v Speaker 1>face and when did Mom ask you to do that?

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<v Speaker 1>And it was almost like I could see her little

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<v Speaker 1>brain ticking over. It was like Mums invited her friend

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<v Speaker 1>over and asked her to clean the birdpool off the deck.

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<v Speaker 2>She probably was like, I can't believe my mum's asked

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<v Speaker 2>you to clean bird pool off our decks. So embarrassing

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<v Speaker 2>she asked you to.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, Kay, It's almost almost like I could almost feel

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<v Speaker 1>that she felt embarrassed. She was like, sorry, sorry that

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<v Speaker 1>your mom's got you cleaning. Am I a bad mum

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<v Speaker 1>for not educating them? In general, I feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>have touched on this subject many, many years ago, and

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm revisiting it all these years on because I

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<v Speaker 1>had a conversation. This was around Easter. So we're chatting

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<v Speaker 1>about Easter and what Easter means, and I'm no expert.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know how much I can contribute to this.

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<v Speaker 1>There are certain things that I know we do around Easter.

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<v Speaker 1>For example, on Good Friday we eat fish. I'm unsure

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<v Speaker 1>completely about why, but I think it's something to do

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<v Speaker 1>with red meat and Jesus and so out of respect,

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<v Speaker 1>we have fish on a Friday. On Good Friday, I

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<v Speaker 1>was having this conversation with the girls and Amelia turned

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<v Speaker 1>around and she went, I've been going to a ca

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<v Speaker 1>Flick school for twelve years and I don't know the

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<v Speaker 1>difference between God and Jesus.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you're like this, okay, so how's religion?

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<v Speaker 1>And she goes and who's Mary? And how does Mary fit?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, Yes, you've been going

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<v Speaker 1>to a calic school for twelve years. And also you've

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<v Speaker 1>been doing religion almost every day, especially in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the amount of religion they do, like I have

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<v Speaker 1>definitely questioned whether they should have been doing more math,

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<v Speaker 1>Like how is religion so frequent? I know, but also

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<v Speaker 1>how are you not knowing that stuff? Like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I've got a bit of an excuse. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go to a religious school. I went to a state school. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm like, okay, there's my excuse for not, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being fully educated on it. You've got no excuse. She'd

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<v Speaker 1>been going to that school for twelve years.

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<v Speaker 2>What is she doing during the religion like sessions that

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<v Speaker 2>they go to every day?

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<v Speaker 1>But they also online shopping putting stuff on deepop so

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<v Speaker 1>they were allowed at school to listen to their music

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<v Speaker 1>like they work with Spotify playing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I do know that because Gracie has pushed the

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<v Speaker 2>envelope of that a few times and going I need

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<v Speaker 2>my own account, and I was like, no, well I

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<v Speaker 2>pay for the family account so that we can all

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<v Speaker 2>use the family account. No, well, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>be classified as kid. I sorry class family, I said, sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm you twelve weird. But at the same time she

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<v Speaker 2>does the same thing. So it must be like a

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<v Speaker 2>high school thing. Yeah, but we just not have Spotify, right,

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't have Spotify. No, so we didn't have streaming,

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<v Speaker 2>so when people like people knew that when we were

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<v Speaker 2>listening to music at school, teachers would know because we'd

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<v Speaker 2>have like, you know, the ear pieces in and chords everywhere,

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<v Speaker 2>and your discman was skipping and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't feel like you were allowed just only discom in

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<v Speaker 1>a class. I didn't remember, not in class.

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<v Speaker 2>No. I remember being on a bus and like if

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<v Speaker 2>we were to and from like stuff, we were allowed

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<v Speaker 2>to use it on a bus, but then it'd be like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>not allowed to bring anything with you, like camps and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff like that. Kids these days don't understand. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>have enough appreciation.

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<v Speaker 1>No. I think this is also going back to what

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<v Speaker 1>we always talk about in that we don't allow them

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<v Speaker 1>to be bored like you're supposed to be bored in math.

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<v Speaker 1>Aren't you're supposed.

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<v Speaker 2>To be when your brain is actually going to explore

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<v Speaker 2>that idea of maths.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for me, that constant music playing is the need

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<v Speaker 1>for something to be constantly happening. Yeah, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how well you study with music. I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>could concentrate with music playing in my ears.

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<v Speaker 2>But I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is the weird part.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to throw my brother under the bus here.

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<v Speaker 2>So Luke, you know, he works for himself. He has

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<v Speaker 2>his own business. He has like days where he goes.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't want to be at my desk. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to just go into a cafe. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>sit and have a delicious coffee. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a lot of cafe time, I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, And he sits there and like tap tap tap tap,

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<v Speaker 2>taps away on his laptop and at the same time

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<v Speaker 2>has his air pods in. And I questioned him numerous

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<v Speaker 2>times and was like, but how do you have music

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<v Speaker 2>going while you're doing this, because in my head I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going that's all too much. He has something on Spotify

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<v Speaker 2>called Cafe Background Noises. It's a fucking playlist that just

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<v Speaker 2>has noise in the background.

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<v Speaker 1>The sound of the actual cafe a fake cafe. This

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<v Speaker 1>is a real cafe.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's sitting in a real cafe with real people

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<v Speaker 2>with real noises, but has his air pods in on

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<v Speaker 2>a Spotify playlist of cafe background noise, because he said,

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<v Speaker 2>what happens is too many people come around him, like

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<v Speaker 2>sitting next to him, in around him when he's working away.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, I start to just listen to their conversations

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<v Speaker 2>and try and be like, oh gosh, oh I could

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<v Speaker 2>problem solve that. That would be easily done by this

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<v Speaker 2>and this and this, and so he said, I get

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<v Speaker 2>so sidetracked with everyone else's conversations, but I still want

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<v Speaker 2>the cafe noise. So I put my AirPods in and

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<v Speaker 2>have a cafe noise background playlist. Oh, it just sounds

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<v Speaker 2>so fucked up to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, why do you just go home and

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<v Speaker 1>sit in the Star office then and listen to anyone's conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So maybe we could get some cafe background noise

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<v Speaker 2>for our children and that would help them study a

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<v Speaker 2>bit more and.

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<v Speaker 1>Learn about the ground noises and they can sit in

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<v Speaker 1>a real classroom with a classroom playlist on listen to

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<v Speaker 1>a fake classroom whilst in a real classroom.

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<v Speaker 2>You see how messeduff it sounds. Yeah, but that might

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<v Speaker 2>help them focus on religion.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was like being my office like sorry, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still blown away. I'm blown away by this because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like being in an office and listening to an

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<v Speaker 1>office sound effects playlist. Yes, being in a real office

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<v Speaker 1>with real office noises listening to a fake office.

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<v Speaker 2>See, I told you, I said this. I had the

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<v Speaker 2>same conversation to He was like, you just don't understand

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<v Speaker 2>till you tried it. Okay, So I tried it. I

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<v Speaker 2>was still like, in my head, I still felt weird

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<v Speaker 2>as shit because I'm looking and there's people around me,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just have like this background like clunk clunk

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<v Speaker 2>clunkin like just noise of like a cafe, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>watching people. But all it does is drown out your conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>But that would have me also a little bit on edge.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll tell you why, because I feel like if

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<v Speaker 1>you can't hear the real sounds of what's going on, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you could be in a dangerous situation. Imagine if someone

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<v Speaker 1>came in, like armed or something. Imagine if something happened

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<v Speaker 1>like or the fire alarm goes off or something something happens,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're in your own little world, listening to your

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<v Speaker 1>own make belief cafe. You're not knowing about the chaos

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<v Speaker 1>that's happening in your own cafe because you can't hear it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I hope that, yeah, I was gonna say, I

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<v Speaker 2>hope that your eyes would come up and look around

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<v Speaker 2>and go, wow, that man's got a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I feel like i'd be honest.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, those kids are running out of here. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>there's a fire. The positive is that in this playlist

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<v Speaker 2>of cafe noise while sitting in a real cafe, there's

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<v Speaker 2>no kids noises, like you know sometimes when you go

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<v Speaker 2>into a cafe and you're like, whoa, those kids are wild, wild,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to get anything done here.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not adding that to that place, not in that playlist.

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<v Speaker 2>So you could put them in, put your noise canceling on,

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<v Speaker 2>still see the kids having a full meltdown, but not

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<v Speaker 2>hear them.

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<v Speaker 1>La la la la la. Yeah yeah yeah yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's a positive. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But going back to religion, I just need to know

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<v Speaker 2>did you round out like or give them a quick

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<v Speaker 2>summary of your detailed knowledge of.

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<v Speaker 1>No no of religion, and it's just reminded me of

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<v Speaker 1>something that because we've touched on similar conversations in the past,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just reminds me of the time that we

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<v Speaker 1>went to a fancy dress party and I was describing

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<v Speaker 1>to you because Jay dressed up as Jesus, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was describing the costume to you, and then all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, my la grand and You're looking so confused,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, well, did he have like a white

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<v Speaker 1>beard and like, and I was like, you're not thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of Jesus, You're thinking of center.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never done one single subject of religion. I've never

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<v Speaker 2>been to Sunday school. I barely step into a church

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<v Speaker 2>unless it's for a particular event of my friend's child.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need to be religious person or someone that

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<v Speaker 1>has done religious education at school to know the difference

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<v Speaker 1>between Santa and Jesus. Everybody knows what Jesus looks like,

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<v Speaker 1>do they