WEBVTT - When Did The Conversion Rate Get You?! 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:05.360 We got get you the way morning every day, Adelaides. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:10.559 Can I very quickly tell you a little anecdote that 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:13.440 I heard the other day from a friend. Okay, So, 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:16.479 off she went to Japan, which everyone seems to be 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:18.439 going to Japan at the moment, seems to be the 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:19.360 place to holiday. 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:20.160 How's that a thing? 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:20.799 I don't know. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:25.720 I've never been to the Japan, to the Japan, to 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:30.800 the Japan. That shows you how cultured I am. You 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:32.320 must do it, though I'd love to do it. 0:00:32.960 --> 0:00:35.559 Boo, wouldn't it be cool to take the family. There's 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:37.760 not your family at the moment. You can barely leave 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:38.160 the house. 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:39.920 Really put down that sort. 0:00:42.159 --> 0:00:45.560 So anyway, Off she went to Japan on holiday, and 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:49.680 she took her sister, who was thirteen years old along 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:51.360 to dinner. And they went to this place where they 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:55.520 serve wagoo beef. Wagoo beef, your fanciest beef on the planet. 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:55.840 Right. 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:58.040 This may shock you, Joe's, but wago beef has never 0:00:58.160 --> 0:00:58.720 entered my mouth. 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:03.680 No, I'm so sure I'd like it too, though, yeah, 0:01:03.800 --> 0:01:05.880 at some point. So anyway, they do this thing where 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:07.960 they put the wago beef in like a soup and 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:09.160 away you go. 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:10.600 So she had a look at it. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:14.440 She calculated Australian dollars to yen and she was like, okay, 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:16.920 that's like fifty bucks a bowl. 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:18.240 So she's like, I'll have three. 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:19.920 Bowls, which is expensive in itself by the one. 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:22.240 Yeah, well one hundred and fifty dollars for three bowls 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:24.400 of wago And so that was that, and then they 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:28.679 brought out the bill and she's like, you've put too 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:32.319 many zeros on this bill, and they're like, absolutely not. 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:33.559 It was. 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:37.000 One thousand and five hundred dollars. 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:44.720 There's that moment where your your stomach sinkings. I mean, 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:46.959 your stomach is full of delicious wago beef, but it's 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:50.960 still seems and you're like, what do I do? I run? 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:52.680 Am I going to do a running. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:58.240 One thousand, five hundred dollars or three plates of wago beef? 0:01:58.280 --> 0:01:59.080 Can you believe that? 0:01:59.320 --> 0:01:59.880 I feel sick? 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:01.000 Been telling that story? 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:03.760 That's awful, That is scary. Yeah. 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:06.920 So the moral of the stories make sure you know 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:10.120 effectively how to convert from Australian dollars to again. 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:12.200 Cheese conversion rates can really get you. The big one 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:15.600 as well is American dolls. Oh you looking like that's affordable. Yeah, 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:16.720 it's not Australian dollars. 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:19.120 I know, because it always looks cheaper in American dollars 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:20.880 and you're like, yeah, that's so fun, and then you 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:22.440 usee the US and you. 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.760 Go, oh, come on, I'm going to work. 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:28.520 We want to know on thirteen twenty fourteen, when did 0:02:28.520 --> 0:02:30.560 the conversion rate get you? This is a bit of 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:33.520 a female online shopping thing, hazy because quite often you'll 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:35.240 see things in US dollars and you go, oh my god, 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:38.120 they're so cheap. There's always cheaper than Australian dollars, and 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:41.840 then you work out, oh no, oh, please get involved 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:43.079 in the conversation this morning. 0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:44.520 We want to hear those horror stories. 0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:46.800 Conversion rate, Yes, we'd love to hear from it. Also, 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:48.800 you get yourself on air, you're automatically go on the 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:51.480 standby list to score this that rageous Temple Day Star 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:54.959 Day spa rather package for Mother's Day. This thing is 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:56.560 valued at nearly eight hundred bucks strads. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.679 It's insane. It's an all day pampering package. 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:03.320 Good. Oh that is ridiculous. We will draw that tomorrow, 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:06.120 thirteen twenty four to ten. When did you miscalculate. When 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:08.720 did the conversion rate? Absolutely? You know what you. 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:12.120 Yeah to make it from Mono Para West. What happened 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:12.720 to maka. 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:14.800 Hi? 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:19.840 I had a few wines and my little sister came 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:21.919 up to me and really wanted a pair of air Forces. 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:23.799 I don't know what I ordered. 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:27.399 I don't know where I ordered them from. But when 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:29.840 I ordered them, they took like two months to come 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.160 and they were like over six hundred dollars. 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:38.000 Jeez, So they were genuine though, good. 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:39.440 Yeah, they were. 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:42.280 We were contact, We're trying to contact. It was so 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:45.640 COVID as well, so we were trying to contact all 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:48.160 these different companies because I got so many emails and 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:51.840 I don't know what happened and she got me good wow. 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:53.600 Do you know the other thing as well? A cut 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.920 of drinks and then jumping online shopping is so even 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:57.760 I am a victim to that. Remember that time I 0:03:57.800 --> 0:04:00.240 turned off. I revealed that I'd spent surrounded by some 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:04.960 mad Hueyes T shirts and they came in my wife's 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:06.560 like what are you doing in twenty one? 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:08.560 Thank you so much for their call to make it. 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:10.840 It always starts with I had a couple of wines 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:12.960 and jumped on the internet. 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:14.920 That's when the conversion might will really get you. 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:17.320 A girlfriend of mine who I SA were last night 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:21.080 went to order a pair of shoes for those adda das. 0:04:21.160 --> 0:04:22.200 What are the really cool ones. 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:24.440 I can't remember what type they are, but they're like 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:27.240 addedas sneakers. And she went to order them for her 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:30.400 fifteen year old for her birthday and they rocked up. 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:34.600 She ordered size four and the sizing thing at it, 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:35.120 it was that big. 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:37.599 It was like a toddler shirt, like a nice little 0:04:37.640 --> 0:04:38.400 novel t shirt. 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:43.240 Let's go to Sophia from Parallewi. Oh my gosh, you 0:04:43.279 --> 0:04:45.720 had yen problems too, Yeah. 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:47.800 I did. Hey guys, how are you going good? 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:48.560 Yeah? 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:52.720 So we'd already done a week in US Korea, so 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:55.080 I thought, I've got this down pattern. You know, I 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:58.120 don't need my phone to check out the conversion anymore. 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:01.320 So we were like, I'll start, We're all starting. So 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:02.880 I said, oh, look, there's this place here. There's like 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:05.840 nobody there. I said, let's just go there and eat there. 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:07.480 And I went and grabbed the menu and everything had 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.760 a look checked it with the hobby. I said, grab, 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:13.040 this looks right right, it's like twenty something dollars a steak, right, 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:14.880 we just have to have one inch, that's it, right, 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.000 And he's like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So we went down, 0:05:17.480 --> 0:05:19.720 we had our steak. Well, we ordered, so we ordered 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:21.800 one each and I ordered the smaller version, which was 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:24.520 about twenty bucks, and Hubby had the bigger one eighty gram, 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.920 which was twenty five dollars or something like that. That's 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:30.080 what I thought, ye, And then they brought out a 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:32.920 medallion and they started asking us if we wanted to 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:35.359 take photos, and they said, oh, this is cool, this 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:38.239 is a bit scan this place. So we took photos 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:41.480 and everything ate and then I went to pay, and 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:43.520 I didn't take notice of how much it was. I 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:46.000 just put it on the credit card, went went back 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.599 to the hotel and took the wrist feed out of 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:51.840 my pocket and I had a look and said, eighty 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:55.520 nine thousand and five hundreds. I'm thinking, I said that 0:05:55.600 --> 0:05:58.440 colma looks like it's in the wrong place. I said, like, 0:05:58.440 --> 0:05:59.880 why did it look like it's in the wrong place? 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.159 Got out my touch later and then worked it out 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:05.480 ended up being like nine hundred and seventy dollars. 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:09.359 In Oh my god, and that rageous dinner. That's not 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:10.839 a good casual dinner, I know. 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:11.440 And it was. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:12.840 And it was a two and a four year old 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:16.240 that was eating Wagoo Bee. 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:19.000 You could have fed them three dollar chicken nuggets. 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:19.919 Oh my god, I know. 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:23.400 I bought them one each because that was each person 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:25.280 had to buy one steak eat. 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:27.680 Oh, Sophia, I'm so sorry. 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:31.120 At least it's not just one person falling in the 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:31.840 wagoo trap. 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:35.680 Let's go to Sarah from Darlington. When did the conversion 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:36.600 rate get you? Sarah? 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:40.000 Oh, look, we went into a really nice place over 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:45.040 in Bali to eat underwater restaurant. Amazing, We're think and yeah, perfect. 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:47.400 That's when you know, you know, you pay a little 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:50.640 bit more so the experience as well. Little do we know. 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:52.600 We didn't really look at the drinks menu because you're 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.719 so used to bin tangs that they come around with 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.320 a cart. Hey you want some champagne, you want some gin. 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:01.560 We were like, champagne went in Bali, you know, yeah, yeah, no, 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:04.640 don't do that, don't do that. It's all important. It 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:06.480 was two hundred and fiftyers of glass. We had four 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:10.680 of them, without knowing for the wine that it did 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:13.280 our meal some box and. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:14.920 Four glasses of champagne. 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:16.560 Did you feel ill? 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:17.200 Yes? 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:21.480 I kind of started giggling hysterically, which I knew indicated 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.840 straight away. But something You're not quite right about what 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:26.600 was going on. But hey, it is what it is. 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:30.720 Don't know a wine in Balley stick to the bin 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:31.760 tang wine. 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:33.200 Good. 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.760 It's actually cheaper to do, you know, gin and vodka 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:37.440 and all the spirits in Bali than it is stiff 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:37.960 by wine. 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:40.160 Yeah, because it's because they don't make it over there. 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.640 Yeah, it was just great advice. Stick the bean tangs. 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:46.760 Yeah, hrah. Should we go to Michelle? Yes, we've got time. 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:47.320 Michelle. 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:50.200 Hello, Hi, how are you hi? 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:50.480 Hi? 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:51.760 When did the conversion might get you? 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:52.280 Michelle? 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:57.440 I was doing my online food shopping, yeah, and needed 0:07:57.800 --> 0:08:00.600 four tries sausages recipe? 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:06.840 Yeah, so for four in yeah, four zero c Yeah, 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:12.280 that's four kilos. 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:16.240 So I had sat to drop up at my door 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:20.520 and it was like forty dollars. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:18.840 Oh that's. 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:24.920 Like this family loves a bit of Next minute, Michelle 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.240 was like googling Cheriso recipes. 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:30.120 Yeah, Cherisa for the next eight weeks. 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:32.120 What about when you when you eat theresas where you 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:36.400 get those burps? Were like, and they're they're horrible. Four 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:38.400 kilo's worth. Oh my very goodness. 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:40.400 That is making me feel sick watching you do that. 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:42.360 Stay away from Michelle's family. 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:45.120 Process meat, get your intestines. 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:48.200 Can we talk food, Yes, absolutely. 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.079 More specifically Tasting Australia, which is on at the moment. 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:51.959 It's in Town Square. It's so cool. 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:55.120 Actually it's not an event, yeah, so through it. It's 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:57.920 on until Sunday and it's so much fun. It's free 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:00.840 and it's just a nice little festival that you can 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:02.680 go along to. And I went to an event last 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:06.880 night at sky City and it's called a Culinary Excursion. Okay, 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.280 you were very jealous about me going to this because 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:13.200 basically you go to the four different sort of restaurants 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:15.679 in Sky City and they gave you like a little 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:20.080 tasting sample in each. The only problem with was we 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:22.640 went to Madame Hanoi first and you had your little 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:25.000 beautiful fancy starters which I would have made, you know 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:28.440 at home, beetle leaf, green mango, tamarind and tom car 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:30.040 coconut sort of number. 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:31.440 I would have done that at home. 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:33.319 In our house. We're getting sick of that because we 0:09:33.480 --> 0:09:34.240 ate it so much. 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:38.959 What about the muse Wagoo Skewa with miso corn mashed 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:40.960 pickled chilots and chili rock sugar. 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:47.199 Me so confused with that many, So we had. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:48.840 That and then we went to the kitchen as well 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:50.959 and had some more little tasting things. And the third 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:54.960 one was itl which is the Italian. So we've already 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:57.360 had two different restaurants. And then they come out with 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:01.800 these huge pizzas and big bowl of nookie and also 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:03.120 ravioli pasta. 0:10:03.280 --> 0:10:04.360 She's filled your boots in you. 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:07.000 I rolled all the way out of Sky City home 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:09.319 like a little piggy down. 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:12.359 North Joe's carved up. Must be doing a marathon today. 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:13.360 But it's so fun. 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:15.319 And then you finish up on Sole rooftop and they 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:18.000 bring out whiskey sours and chocolate and everything. 0:10:18.000 --> 0:10:19.400 It was absolutely unbelievable. 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:21.280 But you can actually do that all year round, so 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:23.680 that's not just a tasting Australia thing, so you can go. 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:25.760 It was a little known thing that I didn't know 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:26.960 about and did it last night. 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:27.520 Was really cool. 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:30.160 That's really nice. It's just another event in South Australia. 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:32.199 You go, We're really proud of that. Oh, really cool 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:33.199 and it is quite fancy. 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:36.280 That was super super fancy, like that was sort of 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:39.920 out of my realm of culinary experiences. But I highly 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.600 recommend doing it, and I highly recommend getting around tasting 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:43.319 Australia this week. 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:44.520 And if you got nothing to do, do you know 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:46.480 the best thing as well is it schmucks my like 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:49.360 make and turn up and not feel super awkward because 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:50.920 I feel like when you go to a super fancy 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:54.000 restaurant and you're like, oh gosh, I just want to parme. 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.280 You can't get that, can you? If you go tasting Australia, 0:10:57.520 --> 0:11:00.199 whereas there's so many people sampling foods like that you've 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:01.360 never probably eaten before. 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:04.000 Yeah, you can absolutely tasting Australia. You can get whatever 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:06.040 you want, and you can do like little cooking classes 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:08.960 and cocktail classes as well, like work out how to 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.000 make cocktails by yourself and everything. 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:12.199 And they forgive you as well when they're like, well, 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:15.080 don't don't eat, don't eat that, that's a serviette, yeah 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:16.439 damn it. Yeah. 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:19.640 And also you walk in with a Guava Voga cruzer 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:21.840 and they're like, mate, would you. 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:25.880 Like a glass with that? Sir? Please vacate the premises corning. 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:28.559 The following segment is the mature audiences only and may 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:31.080 contain how to content, graphic language, and nudity. 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:33.160 Nothing you'll see it is easily offended. 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:37.199 Well, you're about to find out just how easily your father. 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:38.200 He's on the money. 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:44.600 Jody and Hazes, naught is six nothing speaking of big Salamis. 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:45.000 Go for it. 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:50.400 Thank you so much, appreciate that's a compliment, right, very good. 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:52.640 Clearly you know nothing what's going on underneath? Anyway, let's 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:56.360 move on ninety six forty. Sometimes an article pops up 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:59.920 which can be very very helpful for loving parents, and 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:02.760 this is it. If your kid catches you having sex, 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:08.840 he's how to handle it, according to the experts to tell. Finally, finally, 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:11.480 some wholesome advice coming from Jody and Hazy on over 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:13.640 nine one nine. So, being caught having sex by a 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:16.560 child is a common parental experience. So try to remain 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:19.840 calm and don't pan that it's ridiculous. 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:22.800 It's ridiculous if you are naked having sex with your 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:24.959 husband and the kids walk in, as if you're not 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:25.640 going to panic. 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.480 It's the most frantic situation that you'll ever find yourself in. 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:32.559 Avoid reacting with shame, fear, or implying the child did 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:35.800 something wrong, as this can create negative associations with sex 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:38.880 for them. That's makes sense. Prioritize checking on your child's 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:42.760 well being first, to buy yourself some time and regain composure. 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:46.280 And adjust whatever needs to be adjusted. 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.400 Oh my gosh, escort your child out calmly, adjusting your 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:53.400 approach based on their age, gently guiding toddlers asking older 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:56.520 children to wait outside, and for old children use age 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:59.480 appropriate and honest language to explain that they walked in 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:03.720 on time, between loving adults, emphasizing the need for privacy 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:04.920 and knocking. 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:06.760 It does depend on the age, doesn't it. 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:09.800 Because your five year old, our five year old, you 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.280 could sort of talk your way out of it. 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:13.480 But the thirteen year old. 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:18.760 And also the situation. It's very situation based. So the 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:21.480 photo that they've used for this particular article is his 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.480 stock standard missionary white sheets, Mum and dad underneath there. 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:28.200 That's very very wholesome, isn't it. What if the thirteen 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:31.720 year old comes in and says, what, why is dad 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:34.920 tied up? And why is he wearing a mask that's 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:38.200 made out of leather? I don't get it good? Luck. 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:39.520 Explain you way out of that one. 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:41.200 Folks, that's not going to happen in our house. 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:42.640 But this happened to us once where one of the 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:47.679 younger ones walked in and Dad explained it away by saying, oh, 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:49.319 daddy's just looking for his sock. 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:53.240 What about when your kid went to school? So I 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:54.840 walked in last night I had to tell something. Mum 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:58.400 and dad and they were playing leap frog, and it 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:01.600 must have been Daddy's turn. And he's not very good 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:05.280 at jumping, so he was trying to jump over Mum, 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.920 but he couldn't. He couldn't make it. But my dad 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:10.200 never gives up, so he kept on trying, and he 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:12.600 kept on trying, and he kept on trying. Again, good 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:18.520 on your dad, Jose. Let's talk about friendships. A very 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:23.080 very interesting statistic has just stumbled across my death. You're ready, Yes, 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:27.320 ninety one percent of people are no longer best friends 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:30.440 with someone that they once were. Ninety one percent. 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:32.640 Say that again, real slowly so, ninety one percent of 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.480 people who were best friends with someone are no longer 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:36.080 friends with them. 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:38.960 The nonger friends they've fallen out for different reasons. Okay, 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:43.800 is that surprising? Not really. So they've attributed the study 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:47.240 to natural life changes like moving, career changes, personal growth, 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:49.240 and they suggest that the loss of these friendships doesn't 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:53.960 necessarily reflect negatively, but rather than natural evolution of relationships 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:57.000 over time. This reframes the narrative from one of a 0:14:57.080 --> 0:15:01.040 failure or abandonment to one of natural agression. So human, 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:01.960 it's just a vole. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:02.760 I call bs on that. 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:06.600 Okay, a lot of friendships bust up because of failure 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:08.479 to be good to one another or abandonment. 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:09.840 Have you been in that situation? 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:10.360 Absolutely? 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:13.720 Yeah, one hundred percent. One of my bridesmaids I no 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:16.040 longer speak to. So we had a we had a 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:19.760 massive falling out. And you know, it's actually it's almost 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:21.880 like a marriage breakup when you bust up with an 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:22.720 adult best friend. 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:23.720 Stressful. 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:25.640 Yeah, it's awful. It's awful. 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:27.880 It's one of the most horrible things I've ever been 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:28.760 through in my life. 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:31.160 It's funny with you, you sort of because I'm thirty 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:33.360 nine now and you start to look back and then 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:35.560 you realize probably for blokes as well. I think bokes 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.040 just stripped off in different directions. Yeah, but also blokes 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:40.400 are good at sort of picking out relationships where you're 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:43.840 left off. But now that I think the similar situation 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:48.600 with a groomsman as well, But yeah, that's that's it does. 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:50.680 Actually it hurts, but then you don't think about it 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:53.080 as much wide arm because I've got bigger priorities now 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:54.280 and that's my wife and kids. 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:54.600 Yeah. 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:54.960 I think. 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:57.200 I think when your attention turns to your family and 0:15:57.240 --> 0:16:00.560 that's your absolute one hundred percent in life, your focus 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:03.200 and all your attention goes there, then it becomes a 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:05.320 lot less painful because I think once you've got your 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:09.000 family intact, then really that's all that matters. But yeah, 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:11.680 I do like a bust up of a friendship to 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:12.560 a marriage breakup. 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.240 It's it's horrendously painful. 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:17.480 When do you think you had the most friends? When 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:20.080 did you think you were you're most socially connected? 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:23.240 I think maybe in high school, but I did think 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:26.640 I had that in adulthood as well, and that all 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:29.120 fell apart and it was Yeah, as I said, it 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:29.720 was horrific. 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:31.960 I hated it. It's still like when I think of it, 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:32.400 I get. 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:36.840 That, oh, that all went pair of shaped, but also 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:38.960 it goes pear shaped for a reason because I don't 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:41.080 think those people are necessarily supposed to be in your 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:41.760 life anymore. 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:43.600 If that's what happens. 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.520 What do I say, if you can, if you've got 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:49.240 multiple true friends, like more than one or even one, 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:51.320 lucky and I picularly. 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:53.560 Older age, Yeah, I think that dissipates over time too. 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:56.560 Like that, what's you're saying? If you can count your 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:59.400 closest friends on one hand, then you're very, very lucky. 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:01.680 Whereas and I think you try and instill that in 0:17:01.720 --> 0:17:04.200 your kids as well. It's not the size of your circle, 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:07.280 it's the quality of the circle. So I think that's 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:09.760 a real But what's that there's you know, you have 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:12.760 friendships for a reason, a season or a lifetime, and 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:15.760 some people drift into your life for a reason and 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:18.600 they drift out again, and that's okay. But some people, 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:21.399 your people, you know, they stay with you forever. 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:22.119