1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: It's as Weather is Chy podcast talking to the podcast guys. 2 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 2: Want to kick it off with a bit of a 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 2: serious note today because I want to talk about art, Kate, 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: I want to talk about a lady by the name 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: of Marina Abramovich. She did the thing where she sat down. 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you more, but she sat down 7 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 2: and looked into the eyes of many, many people. And 8 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: the power of eye contact contact is huge. If you 9 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 2: could see an old flame for one more time and 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: look into their eyes, would you do it? 11 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 3: Are you asking me all the people. 12 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 2: I'm asking whether we should do it? 13 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 3: You and I? 14 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, just remember that one night we're in Adelaide, I 15 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 2: think for a festival. 16 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 3: What are you even talking about about it already? This 17 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 3: is how well you know what. You tend to block 18 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 3: out things that are traumatic. But despite that comment, Kate, 19 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 3: it didn't happen. No, and please don't start rumors like that. 20 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 3: I'm happy to talk unt with you, okay. I think 21 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: it's hilarious that you don't have. 22 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 2: Any old flames that you'd like to have eye contact with. 23 00:00:59,120 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 3: Absolutely not. 24 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: No, what's his name? 25 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 4: He said? 26 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 5: There? 27 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 3: They can't wait till you talk about the city. 28 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: And Whipper with Kate Ritchie podcast. 29 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: You want to talk about cash? Cash none here except 30 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 2: for this couple of Chopper. 31 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 4: Neverore Bathos has walked into the room. 32 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 2: Do I know what Brandon medicare read? 33 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 6: Can I give you a story about how popular that 34 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 6: movie is the first time the Arctic Monkeys come to Australia. 35 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 6: They love chop of the movie so much that Matt 36 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 6: held is the drummer with gaffer tape put on his 37 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 6: drum kit Neville Bloody Bartle. 38 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 2: Did he really how good is that? Cash? None? No 39 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 2: cash here? Tell him Nick cash man. 40 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 4: And then he just shuts. 41 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 2: Him in the leg. I bet you can't get from 42 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: here to the door without getting me some cash. Let's 43 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: move on to this guy talking about cash. One couple 44 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 2: have spent eight hundred and ninety five thousand dollars buying 45 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 2: the tennis court next to their house that came up 46 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 2: for sale just so their golden retriever had somewhere to play. 47 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 2: This is a ja I mean, if you look at 48 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 2: New York, no one owns a house in New York. 49 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: They're all con they're all apartments, and they all have dogs. 50 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 4: Where do the dogs we in? Pooh? That's what I 51 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 4: want to know. Do they have a little fake grass 52 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 4: on balconies and stuff? 53 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 2: How do they do it? They must have been like 54 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 2: kiddie little stations like for cats, you would assume. But 55 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 2: the dogs are always out on the streets in the 56 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 2: Central Park. These people have said, hey, dog, pel on 57 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 2: the baseline, peol on the net, pooh, anywhere you want. 58 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 2: You've got the whole tennis court to yourself. 59 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 6: New York when you walk the streets of New York 60 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 6: as well, there's an aroma on the streets. Oh that 61 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 6: is horrific. Oh you can see the steam coming up 62 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 6: from underneath here, you can. 63 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 4: That's the roads. 64 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 2: That's the subway though, isn't it? Isn't that call it 65 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 2: the tube or the subway over there? 66 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 6: I always thought it was done to Tello or Michaelangelo 67 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 6: down there. 68 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 2: Splinter. I went to a I went to New York 69 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 2: one Christmas, right all right? They said, oh, we're going 70 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 2: to go to New York for Christmas. This will be awesome. 71 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 2: It was freezing like a blizzard, like a Tommy. You 72 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 2: were there. We couldn't actually move. At one stage we 73 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 2: were helping push cars down the streets of New York 74 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 2: because they were caught out in the amount of snow 75 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 2: that was falling. Don't get me wrong. Great time, worst 76 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 2: accommodation in New York possible. In Chinatown they were doing 77 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: we got a great deal on a room. Didn't do 78 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 2: our research. They were renovating the front area, so the 79 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 2: hallway you'd walk down was covered in bags of cement 80 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 2: and broken tile while they dug it up. So you 81 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: just heard jackhammers during the day. But at nighttime there 82 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: were rats everywhere. So you would walk in no light 83 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: and you would feel a rat go across your foot. 84 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 2: You were flicking. You were flicking rats off your feet 85 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: as you made your way up the stairs to your room. 86 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 2: That's what it was like. I'll never figure. It was 87 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: a terrible apartment and it was more disgusting. I don't 88 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 2: know if this was a joke. Without a word of 89 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: a lie. In the bedroom that I was staying in, 90 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 2: someone had left an adult toy under the pillow. 91 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 4: As if someone had left it mate. Well, someone had 92 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 4: left this. 93 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 2: Adult toy, which I assume had been used. I mean 94 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: it wasn't in the box. 95 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 4: It is New York. 96 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 6: Could it could cheer you up and spit you out 97 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 6: very easily, But it is. 98 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 4: It's the greatest place on earth. 99 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 6: I reckon for sport, for what's going on, restaurants, for culture. 100 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 4: It's amazing. But I couldn't do a winter there. 101 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 2: No, Oh my god. You know what's even worse fit 102 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: is a winter on a blow up mattress, especially when 103 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 2: you've flown over a girl, Especially when you've flown over 104 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,559 Speaker 2: a girl, Tom that you don't know that well, stop 105 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 2: making up stores at your on a blow up? Why 106 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 2: don't you come and stay with me in New York? Wow? 107 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 2: Sat romantic? Where are we the four seasons on the 108 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 2: floor of some dirty apartment on a blow up matt. 109 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 6: But you know what, I see that as love, Tom, 110 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 6: You know what that's You're going to extra links there, 111 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 6: and I think that's amazing. 112 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 2: It was a good boys trip, Tom in this guy 113 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: the little bit of a guess turning up at dinner, this. 114 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 4: Guy over here? 115 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 2: What happened to her Wednesday? Today? She stayed for how long? 116 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 4: Leave Tom alone? He's had enough. 117 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 2: That mattress nearly flew out the window. 118 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 4: Okay, Mate took itself back to a great deals in 119 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 4: cheeky getaways. What if dot com has just the place. 120 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: I winter hideaways? Great, but bring on spring. 121 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 3: Jump on the what if app to book hotels, apartments, 122 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 3: holiday rentals and more. 123 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 4: What if It's Aussie for travel my favorite topic. 124 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 2: Love guys Now attached on this story the other day 125 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: and I kind of danced around it with not a 126 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 2: lot of information. I wanted to revisit and sort of 127 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 2: fill in some gaps I may have left in the 128 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 2: story that I was telling. It's about the artist Marina 129 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: Abramovich and her man U lay I think his name is. 130 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 2: I think that's how. 131 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 4: Pronounce it, The oil of you Life. 132 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 2: Yes, that's right. He made that just after he did 133 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,559 Speaker 2: Doctor Luin's Private Formula and a couple of the other ones. 134 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 4: It's got beautiful stuff for skin, beautiful skill out it out. 135 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 2: So they were sort of an active couple in the 136 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 2: art scene, and they were dating for a solid twelve years. 137 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 2: Fits I was telling this story about when they broke 138 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 2: up for the last time. As part of an art piece, 139 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: they decided to walk the Wall of China, the Great 140 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 2: Wall of China, and meet in the middle to say 141 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 2: goodbye one last time. 142 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 3: It's very dramatic, it is. 143 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: And you were so well, how long does that take? 144 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: How far big is the Great Wall Child. 145 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 3: Well, it shouldn't matter how long it takes if it's 146 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 3: an important in life like that. 147 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 4: Well, seeing text messages so ficient enough, that's. 148 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: Not art, mate, I'm so sorry, ilmatic. I'll stop that 149 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 2: big heart of yours right there, Ryan James, because that 150 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 2: is not art. It was called the Lovers. 151 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 7: Have a listen The Lovers, in which Marina and Ula 152 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 7: walked the Great Wall of China was an epic. The 153 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 7: three months process of walking towards each other very simple, 154 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 7: really paid down, and extraordinary in its clarity. 155 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 3: This was the last of their relation works, and of 156 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 3: course the way the Great Wall Walk ended was with 157 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 3: their splitting up. 158 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 2: It was quite beautiful because she carried a flag, a 159 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: big blue flag, and he carried a big red flag 160 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 2: as they treked three months, three months till they met 161 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 2: in the middle somewhere. Wouldn't you want to do more 162 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 2: once you actually met in the middle, if you've. 163 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 3: Made the decision, I mean, what was that? The three 164 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 3: month walk, contemplation and the bill. 165 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a consideration of how far they'd each come 166 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 2: as individuals and then meeting one last final time in 167 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 2: the middle. 168 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 3: Wow, you've bought into this? 169 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and it was beautiful. 170 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 3: You did show me a bit of it. 171 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 4: The unfortunately had to call the way back to Kidney car. 172 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 3: One of them no ubers on the wall. 173 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 2: Should have parked closer to the center point, unfortunately, and 174 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 2: you wouldn't believe the parking, finding it bloody, throw the 175 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 2: roof the finger burn towed. Anyway, you got his car 176 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 2: back at the end. Let's move on to the next 177 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 2: part because this is the more interesting part. And we 178 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 2: were watching this footage the other day. If you can 179 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 2: bring it up on the screen. She did a thing 180 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,719 Speaker 2: called the Artist in Present. So the idea was that 181 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 2: Marina sat in a museum and then she invited everybody 182 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 2: to come and sit in front of her. You got 183 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 2: a minute, You got a minute to look at her, 184 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 2: and they gazed into each other's eyes. Whoever you were, 185 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 2: no matter where, no matter what where you were from, 186 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 2: you could do this. What was interesting. I think this 187 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 2: is beautifully described because it said it was utterly public 188 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 2: but intensely private, and they're talking about the intensity of 189 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 2: looking into somebody's. 190 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 3: Eyes as if no one else is there. 191 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 2: I think a show on the ABC did a similar 192 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: thing not long ago. When you sit down with an 193 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 2: X and look into their eyes to see what happens, 194 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 2: and the story goes that these guys hadn't seen each 195 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 2: other for around ten years. He sits down. What's beautiful 196 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 2: about the moment is that when there's a new person 197 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 2: sitting in the chair, she will shut her eyes and 198 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: then lift her head and open. 199 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 4: Her eyes, so like a reset. 200 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 2: So she sees him sitting in the chair and bursts 201 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 2: into tears. 202 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 3: Slowly, though not in a dramatic not in a dramatic, emotional. 203 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 2: Heartfelt yeah, realizing the moment of what they farewelled, what 204 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 2: they went through, flood of emotion. 205 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 4: God, he's and now it's a bit serious, isn't he? 206 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: Well, this is the thing. You sat there and kept 207 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 2: eye contact with Marina for that one minute. What was interesting? 208 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: Afterwards she reaches across the table, breaks all the rules 209 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 2: and they hold hands. But the saddest part is he 210 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 2: then gets up, his minute is done, and he walks 211 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 2: away and leaves the museum. She's left there for the 212 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 2: next person to look into their eyes? 213 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 4: Is that it? 214 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 2: That is? It? 215 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:16,679 Speaker 3: Was this set up? 216 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 2: I mean I don't have that, Richie. He then does 217 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:25,359 Speaker 2: to be set up. Ule died He didn't he did. 218 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 3: When what what what? 219 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 4: What? Got hit by a bus on the way. 220 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 2: And not on the same days walking back to give 221 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 2: his skin. He was pretty heavy on the gasp. He 222 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 2: fell off the wall going back to get his car. No, 223 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:39,719 Speaker 2: he was pretty heavy on the gaspers And I think 224 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 2: he got lung cancer and died. He's so emotional and 225 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 2: so no. 226 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 3: It proves that you don't need words to communicate. 227 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 2: So true. I mean, for the sake of radio. But 228 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 2: I'm kind of running out of words at the moment. 229 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 2: It's story, but. 230 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 5: Few. 231 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 6: It's a bigger few to her, though, isn't it, Because 232 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 6: it's basically he's gone to the effort to rock up. 233 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 6: She's crying her eyes out, going, oh my gosh, you're back. 234 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 6: And then he leaves and just goes, this is what 235 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 6: you could have had. You didn't have to scale the 236 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 6: old Great Wall of China. 237 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 4: You stuff this. You just didn't have to hook up 238 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 4: with Brian, you idiot. 239 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 2: Apparently he had a bit of a thing for the 240 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 2: lead is why they actually separated. Really, but then she 241 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 2: started getting it on with one of his mates. I'm 242 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 2: not making that up. 243 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 3: You are making it. 244 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 2: I'm not making that up. 245 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,599 Speaker 3: Look at her like head in her hands as he 246 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 3: walks away, he leaves the room. She's regrouping because she's 247 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 3: going to have another person to stare. 248 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 2: Into a minute, not another guy that she's anyway, Here's 249 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 2: what I want to do, Here's what I want. 250 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 4: To tell you. Oh, you finally got it? 251 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 2: Why do you want to see your old flame one 252 00:11:59,000 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 2: more time? 253 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: Like? 254 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 2: What is it? What is is it? 255 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 3: The power of the something burning inside of you? 256 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 2: Is there power justin looking into each other's eyes to 257 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 2: recognize what you went through? Is their unanswered questions? 258 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 3: Are you allowed to talk to them? So we're not 259 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 3: doing this kind of art? 260 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 2: You're allowed to talk to them? Version of I think 261 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: most people leave a relationship with not getting a chance 262 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 2: to share their side of the story, maybe or wondering 263 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 2: why someone else reacted in that, what. 264 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,199 Speaker 3: Decisions they made. I also do think, though, that if 265 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 3: you have spent a period of time apart and you 266 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 3: have processed a lot of why you aren't together anymore, 267 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 3: things can are allowed to remain unanswered. You don't need 268 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 3: all the answers. And I think sometimes one of our 269 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 3: downfalls is looking to the person who you're not with 270 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 3: anymore for the answers, because guess what, guys, the answer 271 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 3: is within you. 272 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 2: Oh that's really deep and sort of ruined your boner. 273 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 3: No one, no one. The reason why you broke up 274 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 3: with someone is probably because they couldn't answer certain things 275 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 3: for you. And then, if you like, seriously move forward. 276 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 2: Don't you want to say, though, Hey, did you see 277 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 2: your life with me? Did you see us as a 278 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 2: sixty year old couple? Your headspace? 279 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 4: There, that's you, whipper. 280 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 6: You've always been like that, and that's why you had 281 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 6: such close relationships with your first partners. 282 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 4: And you talk about this. You could never let them go, 283 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 4: like I couldn't think of anything worse. 284 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 3: You're looking for closure. 285 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,959 Speaker 2: Moving from lover to friendship is what fits is talking about. 286 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 2: As I'm mates with X's like some of them. 287 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 3: Yes, but you found it hard man. 288 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 4: You were in love with some of them. 289 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 2: Oh well, the heavier ones are not close with absolutely 290 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 2: not because. 291 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 3: It was too much and problematic, too. 292 00:13:56,880 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 2: Much to then maintain a normal friendship. Yeah. In relationships, 293 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 2: can we talk to Emma and clavally? Hi guy, I 294 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 2: am thank you thanks for calling on what is a 295 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 2: bit of a heavier topic. Love to know why you'd 296 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 2: want to see your old flame just one more time. 297 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 8: I'd like to see the guy that I lost my 298 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 8: virginity to actually when I was young, and I'd like 299 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 8: to look into his eyes, and I'd like to ask 300 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 8: him why he was so mean to me? 301 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 4: Right? Closure on that, Emma, do you think was their 302 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 4: love there in your eyes? And I know you probably 303 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 4: would have been young, but was their love in your eyes? 304 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 9: I think so? 305 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 8: Yes, I think so, but I couldn't. He was just mean, 306 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 8: and I just I think i'd like to ask ask him, 307 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 8: you know, did he actually really love me? Or was 308 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 8: he just kind of using me? I've always thought that 309 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 8: this is a great topic guy, by. 310 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: The way, because it's also your wonder too. Does that 311 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 2: person like if we shared something special? Right like Emma's talking, 312 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 2: does that person ever think about me? 313 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 3: I know, yeah, I know I do agree with that. 314 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 3: I think you can think those things. 315 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 2: And Emma probably wants to know if that guy also 316 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 2: regrets how we behaved back then? 317 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 4: Am I right? 318 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: Am? 319 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 9: Yes? 320 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 8: Absolutely, I mean I'm over it obviously, But am I 321 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 8: really calling you guys well decades later exactly? 322 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 3: You know what though, Emma, going back to what I 323 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 3: was saying before, I mean, I know there's probably things 324 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 3: you've had to deal with with being having someone be 325 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 3: so mean to you that you've shared something so special with, 326 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 3: or it's such a big milestone in your life. But 327 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 3: there is a point where you have to think, you 328 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 3: know what, it doesn't it doesn't really matter. It doesn't 329 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 3: it doesn't matter anymore. It was just part of it. 330 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 8: Maybe I should get some therapy on it. Now that 331 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 8: I've wrung you, I feel like I've opened up some scar. 332 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 2: No, that's good, it's good to talk about. But don't 333 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 2: you think also the way I look at it too, 334 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 2: if you've shared something special with somebody, then I'm always 335 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 2: going to be there for that person, don't you think? 336 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 3: Not always? 337 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 4: You've been here, they have a family, now you've moved. 338 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 2: I'm not offering anything that will interrupt for family life. 339 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 2: Can I say if I was ever needed to be 340 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 2: called on, I would always go to an extra length. 341 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 4: But why would they call on you when they have 342 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 4: other important people in their lives. 343 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 2: That's irrelevant. The point is you're talking about sharing something special, 344 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 2: and therefore I think there's a respect that is existing 345 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 2: from what you did share. 346 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 3: I think if there has been a positive end experience 347 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 3: to the relationship, I think sometimes some relationships you just 348 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 3: need to get as far away from us as possible. 349 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 3: Those ones exist and they are not They're never going 350 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 3: to help you. It fits you. 351 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 1: And with with Kate Bridge podcast. 352 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 3: I've got a bit of entertainment news for you guys. 353 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 3: Kid Lroy was going to attend that Malaysian music festival 354 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 3: only I think we spoke about on Monday that the 355 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 3: Malaysian government pulled after Matt Healley from the nineteen seventy 356 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 3: five took to the stage and de sized the government 357 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 3: their gay laws. And then to you know, the kicker 358 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,479 Speaker 3: was he crossed to the other side of the stage 359 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 3: and kissed his male counterpart or you know, yeah, one 360 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: of the band members, and he said, right, I'm sure 361 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 3: we're going to be banned here. And not only have 362 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 3: they banned him, but they pulled the festival all together. 363 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 3: Kid l Roy, Now are we still calling him kid 364 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 3: LaRoy or was he called l ROI? Okay, he flew in, 365 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 3: didn't know what had been canceled, and so I guess 366 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 3: he'd gone all that way, and rather than let everybody down, 367 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 3: he did put on an impromptu a concert in the 368 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 3: hotel lobby. We've got a little bit of it here. 369 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 2: Awesome. That's pretty awesome, isn't it? In the lobby? 370 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I guess so it was planning his jet 371 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,959 Speaker 3: skiing and having a drink and entertaining the crowd. 372 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 2: What's good. 373 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 6: You're on a work trip and you had to get 374 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 6: up early for work the next day and you're in 375 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 6: the room next door. 376 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 4: That would have been awesome. 377 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 3: Did I ever tell you the story about how I 378 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 3: left the hotel lobby after being on the panel. Being 379 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,199 Speaker 3: on the panel for Miss World in China? 380 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 2: Did you win? 381 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 7: No? 382 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,639 Speaker 3: I didn't. I was sitting next to Viv Richard's w 383 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 3: He was being very complimentary about some of the young ladies, 384 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 3: little young ladies that it wasn't interested to me. I 385 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 3: had too many clothes on. Anyway, my girlfriend and I 386 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 3: had to get to bed because we're flying back to 387 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 3: Sydney the next day. And we went to bed, heard 388 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 3: some noise in the lobby and guess who did an 389 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 3: imprompt you performance that night? For like six of us 390 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 3: It could have been eight of us at Julie and 391 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 3: I had state Line or Richie? 392 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 2: No? 393 00:18:56,800 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 3: Why on the piano in the hotel lobby. 394 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 4: Finally, Lionel and Kate Rich together. 395 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,439 Speaker 3: We just look like brother and sister. 396 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:06,919 Speaker 4: Don't be. 397 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 9: Anyway. 398 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 3: Kid LaRoy, that's that's always a real. 399 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 2: Was that we saw the kid LaRoy a USA back 400 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:17,640 Speaker 2: in jan He's performed live on stage. She was there 401 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 2: with his girlfriend who. 402 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 4: Turned Did he do an acoustic of that? 403 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a good boy. Britney spears. 404 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 2: Is she in trouble? 405 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 10: Is she? 406 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 1: Well? 407 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 3: I don't think she's in trouble. She has averted crisis. Maybe. 408 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 3: Of course she's got a new memoir coming out, The 409 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 3: Woman in Me. I think it's called but it has 410 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 3: been delayed by about a month so far because of 411 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 3: the attorneys of Justin Timberlake and Colin Farrell, who she 412 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 3: was linked to. I think she had a relationship with 413 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 3: Justin Timberlake for a few years. Of course, they went 414 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 3: to those music awards dressed in denn of Brilliant Lover, 415 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 3: and then she was photographed with Colin Farrell back in 416 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,679 Speaker 3: two thousand and three or something, and I guess no 417 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:04,120 Speaker 3: one ever really knew what went on between them. There 418 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:08,920 Speaker 3: were a few paragraphs within the book that have had 419 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 3: to be removed because the lawyers. Of course, I guess 420 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 3: when you're doing a memoir. I mean, you've got to sell. 421 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: It on stories tell everything. 422 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's going to be a bit of a tell 423 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 3: or I'll imagine her family feature quite heavily. But of 424 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 3: course her love life has garnered a lot of interest 425 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,880 Speaker 3: over the years. But the lawyers have kind of come 426 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 3: out and said it really for it to go to 427 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,239 Speaker 3: print and to not face litigation, you're going to have 428 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 3: to get the old sharpie get rid of. 429 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 4: It is to do that. 430 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 6: When they do write a memoir, do they have to 431 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 6: get everyone's permission? 432 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 4: Because I thought, because I. 433 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 6: Would think bedroom anticks or something like that, or habits, 434 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:47,360 Speaker 6: you would be able to put in there. 435 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,360 Speaker 4: Kate, Well, yeahs sue for that. 436 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 3: Well, I think it all comes down to defamation. So 437 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 3: I guess your story is your story, and you just 438 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 3: have to decide whether you're walking a very fine line. 439 00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 2: Between because your reality might be different. 440 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,360 Speaker 3: To say, what else, everybody's truth is different. 441 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 2: Is there the chapter where they talk about that MTV 442 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 2: Awards and the denim where they go back to the 443 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 2: hotel room. I think this is what it was. She 444 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 2: took off his denim pants. He had denim underpants on sand. 445 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 3: That's what he's most most worried about. Look, I don't know. 446 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 3: I'm sure it will hit the stands and I will 447 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 3: probably have a little read of it. We know about 448 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 3: the strikes in the US, lots of I think it 449 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 3: was the writers that struck first, and they strike first, 450 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 3: and then it was the actors. Now, Dwayne Johnson, the 451 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,439 Speaker 3: Rock has come out. He's not short of a penny, 452 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 3: and he has donated quite a lot of money that 453 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 3: the total has remained confidential, but he donated it a 454 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 3: record setting donation to the sag Aftra Foundation. So it's 455 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 3: like emergency financial assistance for people who aren't working. And 456 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 3: just his quote is in such a time as this, 457 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 3: I'm here, I'm not going anywhere. Whatever you need me 458 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,400 Speaker 3: to do. I mean that You've got to be careful 459 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 3: throwing that around because then they're going to ask you 460 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 3: to do stuff. 461 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 2: You'll end up on cameo and what you trying to. 462 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,959 Speaker 3: Do encourage other people to donate as well. 463 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 6: Right, But where does that money go? Is this like 464 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,400 Speaker 6: a legal defense or does it go to all the writers? 465 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 6: Kate does, We'll go to them. 466 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:26,679 Speaker 3: I think it's an income support program. Okay, So I 467 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 3: mean who knows, I don't know. How they divide it 468 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 3: up or how you can apply for it. But it 469 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 3: is to support people who would be just flat out 470 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 3: out of work. 471 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 2: It said that, it was. It said it was a 472 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 2: seven figure sum. So I quite like that, because if 473 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 2: you're the rock, you can go well somewhere between one 474 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 2: million dollars and one million and one. 475 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 1: With Kate Richie podcast. 476 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 4: Do you guys consider yourselves good salespeople? 477 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:54,120 Speaker 8: Oh? 478 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,239 Speaker 2: God, if I'm passionate about it, I reckon I can 479 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 2: get something over the line. 480 00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, see, I don't. 481 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 6: I Actually I did have a job as a salesman 482 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 6: for a printing company. 483 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,479 Speaker 10: So my role was to go around to business as 484 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 10: Kate and I'll go, oh, you know, is it anything 485 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 10: you want to advertise at the moment? Have you've got 486 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 10: a sale coming up? I can get something some flies. 487 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 6: Printing for you. And I was really bad at it. 488 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 6: I was you know where I struggled. I struggled up 489 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 6: with a follow up call because I felt embarrassed. I've 490 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 6: already spoken to these people. I don't want to I 491 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 6: don't want to give them another call. And my boss 492 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 6: would go, mate, you've just got to get onto them. 493 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 4: Come on, give it a couple of weeks nayl M 494 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 4: call back and get onto them, and I'd be so 495 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 4: embarrassed ringing them. 496 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,679 Speaker 2: Bad, isn't it? Do you know what? I saw a 497 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 2: thing on TikTok pop up the other day talking about 498 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 2: why Australians are so bad at the sales technique is 499 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 2: because their inflection at the end of a sentence often 500 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 2: goes up instead of down. Americans go down, we go up. 501 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,199 Speaker 2: That was the issue. So they would say, hey, you 502 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 2: want to buy this car instead of Hey you want 503 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 2: to buy this car. I see, Yeah, it's a difference. 504 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 2: To me. There there's a gravitas, Yes, there is. There is. 505 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 2: And if you lower the voice and you end your 506 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 2: sentence on a lower inflection, then that is your number 507 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 2: one sales Sechniqueeah. 508 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 3: I'm easily swayed though. I think that if I had 509 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 3: to sell anything, I would say, for example, a box 510 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 3: set of encyclopedias, you know in the old days where 511 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,120 Speaker 3: they come to your door and try and sell them. 512 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:25,119 Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm I'm the elder and I 513 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 3: would I'd say, yes exactly. We had the fucking wagonles 514 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 3: a white set, and I know that as soon as 515 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 3: I would start the hard sales pitch. They would say 516 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 3: to me, you know what, we don't need encyclopedias, And 517 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 3: instantly I'm so easily swayed. I would say, of course, 518 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 3: of course you don't. I'm so sorry. I've become apologetic. 519 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 3: You know you know your house better than I do. 520 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry for wasting your time embarrassed just as 521 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,399 Speaker 3: you were saying, fits, I'll. 522 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 2: Buy three sets of it, please, I buy three just 523 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 2: to make. 524 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 6: Can I just say I was quite proud of myself 525 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 6: because I he pulled it off the other day. Okay, 526 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 6: so this is it's not a good situation because I 527 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 6: had a car crash and it wasn't it wasn't full on. 528 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:10,919 Speaker 4: So we've come around a corner. There's a car in 529 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 4: front of me. 530 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 6: And as we're coming around the corner Darling Street in Boomin, 531 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 6: I said to Huey, will come back from footy training. 532 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 4: I said to Huey, I pointed over to the right. 533 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 6: I said, we've got to go. We've got to go 534 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,639 Speaker 6: to that Mexican restaurant again. That's a really good Mexican restaurant. 535 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 6: As I'm pointing to it, the guy in front of me, Kate, 536 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 6: has put on his brakes to reverse into a car 537 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 6: park that's on Darling Street. I had no idea. This 538 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 6: is another thing as well. Technology is unbelievable. The car, 539 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,680 Speaker 6: the Mitsubishi Outland out that I've got the car stopped 540 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 6: the car before I did. 541 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 3: Car. 542 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 6: It's slams so I didn't even put on the brake kate. 543 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 6: The car has locked up and I could feel I 544 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 6: could I could hear something that I've hit him right 545 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,439 Speaker 6: got out of the car and there's a big bus 546 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 6: behind us, and then I thought, I know we're in 547 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:08,440 Speaker 6: a fair bit of trouble here. 548 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:10,480 Speaker 4: There could be some damage. 549 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 6: Luckily, I've just kissed this guy's car, but I've taken 550 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 6: a bit of paint off and there's a scratch there. 551 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 6: So my car is exactly the same, a little bit 552 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:23,879 Speaker 6: of paint and a couple of scratches. Then there's this moment, 553 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 6: you know, where you've got to try to sell because 554 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 6: I don't want to go down the insurance road. 555 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 4: I don't want to give details. You know how long 556 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 4: it takes. It takes you. 557 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 6: Months before you can get in and you go to 558 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,200 Speaker 6: a panel beater and see what you need to get done. 559 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 4: Then you've got to pay excess. 560 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 2: How did you get through it? 561 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 6: So I said to the guy, pull over on the 562 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 6: side of the road. And there was this moment where 563 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 6: I thought myself, think back to your selling days. 564 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 4: You you got to get this over. 565 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 3: My imagine, it's it's stationary. 566 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 6: So what I did, Kate, I grabbed his shoulder first, 567 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,919 Speaker 6: and I looked r and I just I looked at 568 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 6: him in the eye and I said, first of all, mate, 569 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 6: I want to say, I'm so sorry. 570 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 4: That was my fault. I shouldn't have done that. And 571 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 4: are you okay as your nick or right, no whiplash 572 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 4: or anything like that. 573 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 6: Are you okay? And he was like, yeah, no, I'm fine, 574 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 6: I'm fine. I said, well, let's go and inspect the 575 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 6: damage together, and I'm going there was I sort of pause, 576 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,199 Speaker 6: and I went, ah, there's not much there. There's not 577 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 6: much there, and he goes, all there is. He said, 578 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,239 Speaker 6: there's a couple of scratches here, and you bit of 579 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 6: your paints on my paint. And I went yeah, and 580 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:31,399 Speaker 6: I went, you know what, You're right, give me your details. 581 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 6: And I said, well, it's going to probably take a while, 582 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 6: but I said, give me your details. 583 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 4: So I've done a bit of reverse on him. I guy, 584 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 4: you know, I've just completely stuffed this. It's my fault. 585 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:41,880 Speaker 3: You're on the front foot, and you're a good guy, 586 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 3: and you've taken responsibility. 587 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 2: You've held his shoulder too. 588 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 4: Well. 589 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, mate, you're trying to coerce him. 590 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 6: I've started walking to the car. I said, I'll go 591 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 6: get my wallet. Mate, I'm such an idiot. And as 592 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 6: I've gone to open the door, he said, you know what, mate, 593 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 6: don't worry about it. I love how you apologize. Thank 594 00:27:59,960 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 6: you very much. It's it's gonna you're right excess. It's 595 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,159 Speaker 6: going to take too long. We're going to have to 596 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 6: pay more for insurance. And aren't you sure? 597 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 4: We looked at each other, thumbs up, and off we went. 598 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 2: How good is that? Did it cross your mind that 599 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 2: he might have a car ambassadorship roll like you and 600 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 2: the dealership would just clean it up anyway, so it 601 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 2: really didn't matter. It was it an ensure job because 602 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:24,159 Speaker 2: he didn't pay for the car anymore. 603 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 4: That's that's I would have probably just got a new car. 604 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:26,719 Speaker 2: Anyway. 605 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 3: I thought you were going to say you were running 606 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,400 Speaker 3: back to the car, and you just sped off down 607 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 3: Darling Street to sit at the next pedestrian crossing? 608 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,240 Speaker 2: Who else any other shoulders I can hold to get 609 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:36,959 Speaker 2: out of trouble? 610 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 4: No one here? 611 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 3: We cry? 612 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 2: Well cry. 613 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: If you're listening to the Fitzy and Wipper with Kate 614 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: Richie podcast, where's Katechie's car? 615 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 2: It's novers Impressor for Kate Richie's impress the biggest. 616 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 4: Celebrity that's been in the Impressor. Who's the biggest name? 617 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 4: You'd you don't thought it does impress me? 618 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 2: Stacking the Impressor at the moment, Tommy, were mad the 619 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: announcement yesterday, we're going to fifty inch TV. We've got 620 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 2: two tickets to see fitting sent Yeah, you said we 621 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 2: were putting something else in the boot today. 622 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, what do you guys want to say to it? 623 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 2: What you got. 624 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 4: Five thousand dollars? 625 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 11: I thought you. 626 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 6: I thought you were going to say the Sally fleint 627 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 6: Chaffin cards, which I was going to throw in there. 628 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 3: Well, maybe we asked people what they would prefer. 629 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, five hard, cold cash, Tommy, you. 630 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 3: Bet I didn't know about that. That's fantastic. It's going 631 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 3: to be an envelope in the glove box. 632 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, very dodgy like, Oh my god, get car lowered, 633 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 2: to get the windows tinted, to get a spoiler on 634 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 2: my corn. 635 00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 3: I know what you're saying. 636 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 6: The only time that you'd find five thousand dollars in 637 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 6: a car is probably someone who's dropping off a couple 638 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 6: of things around. 639 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 3: Doing something dodgy. All right, I want to get into 640 00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 3: listening to how people are going to impress me this morning. 641 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 3: First up, we have Paul from Windsor. Good morning, Paul. 642 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 11: Hey, how are you there going? 643 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? 644 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 3: We're really good. How are you going to impress me? 645 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 11: I can giant punkin massive punkin a great one a 646 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 11: few years ago that won the Royal Easter Show. It 647 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 11: was only about one hundred and thirty kilo. No way 648 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 11: then I've done Since that, I've grown a Wappers massive. 649 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 3: One even bigger than that. 650 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 2: Yep. 651 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 11: Last year I grew a Massy one, but unfortunately flooded 652 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 11: and it fight it off down the river. 653 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 3: And you're out at Windsor, are you yeah? 654 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 2: Yep? 655 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 3: Yep? 656 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 4: How heavy are they Paul? How heavy do they get? 657 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 11: You can get them? I think the record in Austra 658 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 11: is up to seven hundred and something kio what kind 659 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 11: of pop joint Atlantic brands and one you grow at. 660 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 4: Them. 661 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 11: Yeah, they're not they're not that tasty, but I think 662 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 11: they send them off to the elephants, so they're good 663 00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 11: for making punkin soup. 664 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 2: Out of soup day, Paul. What's interesting too, I think 665 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 2: you just trim all the other pumpkins that start to grow. 666 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 2: But they were quite a hell of a lot of water, 667 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 2: is that right, Paul? Not a flood, a flas flood. 668 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 2: It'll float off down the river. All right? 669 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 3: Who we got next? Michael from five dop Okay. 670 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 12: We really need a car bad story. I was driving 671 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 12: down in Melbourne and hit a wom back got stuck 672 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:23,440 Speaker 12: in Golden for a day. 673 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 3: There's them been wrung with goldbur and I was born 674 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 3: at Golden based Hospital. It's quite life down there. Gets cold. 675 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 12: Because this happened at midnight, so you got to spend 676 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 12: the night. Old day could get a combination because of holidays. 677 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 4: What damage does a wombat due to the car? 678 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 12: Mike wrote it off. 679 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 2: I had to be like hitting a bollard, wouldn't it me? Correct? 680 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 12: At one hundred and ten K's yeah, enjoyable. 681 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,760 Speaker 3: Well, it doesn't really impress me that you hit a wombat, 682 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 3: but I do like that you're honest and you're just 683 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 3: telling me you need a car, Brook in black Town. 684 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 13: Well, I don't have any spasional tailor, but this will 685 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 13: be my first car. Imagine if I would be able 686 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 13: to say, Kate Richard's car is my first. 687 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 9: Car with because of living and two kids, you know, 688 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 9: it would be amazing to be able to have. 689 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 13: My first car. 690 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: Brook. 691 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 2: You've got two kids in your twenty one you've been busy. 692 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, very very busy. 693 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 3: Well, I do know that you can get the car 694 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 3: seats in the back of the presser. You'd be able 695 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 3: to get to in the back there. So stay on 696 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 3: the line, Brook, and we're going to Mini in Blaxland. 697 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 12: Hey, Keith, are you very well? 698 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 3: Minnie? You can impress me this morning? Sorry, what are 699 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 3: you going to impress me this morning? 700 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 13: I certainly am. 701 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 8: We all know how much with a lot of food, 702 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 8: and I'm thinking that I could out eat him in 703 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 8: a cheap competition. 704 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 3: Out eat in a while. 705 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 2: Yet to make sure you've got your words in the 706 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 2: right order. 707 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 4: Any food, any particular food, Mini. 708 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 11: Well, I'm thinking cheese boers because I love a cheese. 709 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 13: But I wants to pick the. 710 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 2: Eat me purpose. Yeah, good, Well, do you want to 711 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 2: see that? 712 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 13: Definitely? 713 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 3: I want nothing more than watching Mini out you, out you. 714 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. 715 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,640 Speaker 3: Can we please put men in the draw because she's 716 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,840 Speaker 3: made me, She's made me love you. But I'm also 717 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 3: loving people being honest this morning that they just need cars. 718 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 3: And I know I'm going a bit crazy, but can 719 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 3: we put Brooke, Michael and Paul in the drawer? 720 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,320 Speaker 2: The giant pumpkin? Well done, everyone's in nue. 721 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 6: You're all in the running for the Impression five thousand 722 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 6: dollars cash. There's a fifty inch television in there as well. 723 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,479 Speaker 6: There's the Sally Fletcher fan cards. 724 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,920 Speaker 3: Know we're undecided. You know what Mum messaged me when 725 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 3: you heard me on the air earlier, saying I have 726 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,600 Speaker 3: a full set of Sally Fletcher fan cards from the 727 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,800 Speaker 3: black and white versions in nineteen eighty nine right right 728 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 3: through to when I left in two thousand and seven, 729 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,480 Speaker 3: and Mom, Mum. My phone lights up and Mom says, 730 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 3: you won't be giving them away if they're your only set. 731 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,839 Speaker 3: If they're your only set, your set, I said, Mum, 732 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 3: I have hundreds. 733 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,480 Speaker 4: Of heem me now, Darling, is she a hoardy your mum? 734 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 3: No, she just likes to keep some things. 735 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 1: That's it's no fitzim Whipper with Kate Richie. 736 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 2: Hey, that's a secret podcast password. If you want to 737 00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 2: get your hands on stacks of great prizes, just head 738 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 2: over to our Instagram stories at FITZI Whipper Kate and 739 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 2: enter this password. Today's password is. 740 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 1: Reak up the Citzium Whipper with Kate Ritchie podcast. 741 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,400 Speaker 2: It is one of the chances, one of the chances. 742 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 2: Welcome guys Hiding and Richmond. Let's get into it. What's 743 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 2: your what are the chances story? 744 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:03,359 Speaker 13: Okay finding? 745 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:04,320 Speaker 4: How are you strong? 746 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 2: Heidi? 747 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,319 Speaker 13: One of the chances is that I was pregnant with 748 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 13: my first child and our friends were pregnant with their 749 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:15,799 Speaker 13: first child. They come out to her house to say 750 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:19,919 Speaker 13: that we're also pregnant, and then we had them were 751 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 13: pregnant together, and then she went into labor on the 752 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 13: Monday night. I went into labor on the Tuesday night, 753 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,800 Speaker 13: and then we both had them together on the Wednesday. 754 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,280 Speaker 13: And they turned eighteen this year. 755 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:33,440 Speaker 4: And lovely, like. 756 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 6: I mean period in your life to go through that together. 757 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 6: Are the kids actually friends? 758 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:39,880 Speaker 2: They are? 759 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 13: They are really good friends. 760 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 2: Did you as a couple, like, did you go away 761 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 2: camping on a trip, like, did you set a time 762 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,040 Speaker 2: and or there was a chance that you know you 763 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,400 Speaker 2: were doing it at the same time as your friends. 764 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:55,839 Speaker 13: It was Christmas New Year's time, so. 765 00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 6: I was doing it, you like, I mean, that's just dirty. 766 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 6: That's where immediately goes Tarlene's giving us a call from 767 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 6: kilin our first Tarlanne, what are the chances? 768 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 2: What have you got for us? 769 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 4: Darline? 770 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 14: Well, another story connecting to kids. I've always liked the 771 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 14: name Aurora. I had a customer and I saw, yeah, 772 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 14: and her name was Aurora, and I really loved the name. 773 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,239 Speaker 14: And then I was pregnant with my second daughter. I 774 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:28,880 Speaker 14: knew it was a girl, and I said, oh, what 775 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 14: are we going to call her? And then I thought 776 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 14: of Aurora, and I thought a little bit heavy for 777 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 14: a child. I think let's google this and see what 778 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 14: the alternatives are. So I googled and I came up 779 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,280 Speaker 14: with the name Aurelia. And then I asked my husband 780 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 14: and he said, oh, yeah. 781 00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 11: Great name. 782 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 12: I love that name. 783 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:46,320 Speaker 13: Let's call her Aurelia. 784 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,759 Speaker 14: And then we announced it after she was born, because 785 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 14: you know, we just kissed it quiet. And then my 786 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 14: dad said, oh wow, what a coincidence. I came out 787 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,280 Speaker 14: on a ships in the nineteen sixties called. 788 00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 13: Aurelia s after so something that was just meant to be. 789 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:08,400 Speaker 2: I think, because if your dad had said, oh, I 790 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 2: was caught me old Southern Aurora, then that would have 791 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 2: been or yeah. 792 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 4: If there's a little ruby that comes out for Ruby Princess. 793 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,319 Speaker 2: You don't want to bring up Ruby Princess, or name 794 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 2: you kid after the COVID Ship of Love when Lane 795 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 2: cove what's your story? 796 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 9: Hey, guys. Also in the kids category, my brothers and 797 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 9: I were adopted quite a few years ago when we 798 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 9: were teenagers. Our dad helped us find our real parents. 799 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 9: We lived on the Central Coast at the time. My 800 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 9: real mother lived up Newcastle Way and he arranged for 801 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 9: us to meet, which we did. She brought one of 802 00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,120 Speaker 9: my sisters with her, who lived up in let's just 803 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 9: say central. 804 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 11: Western New South Wales. 805 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 9: My boyfriend at the time his family also lived up 806 00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,160 Speaker 9: that way. So the next time we went up there 807 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 9: and I said to my boyfriend's cousin, oh, I believe 808 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 9: you know my real sister, you know, And he said, yeah, yeah, 809 00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 9: I do know her. And later on he pulled my 810 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,399 Speaker 9: boyfriend aside and said, can you tell Wendy to keep 811 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 9: her mouth shut? Because I was banging her the same 812 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 9: time I was engaged to my wife. 813 00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 2: A lot of moving parts for a strong houselow, a 814 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:22,359 Speaker 2: lot of parts involved, and a great ending, Wendy, I'm 815 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 2: slightly confused. 816 00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 3: I think this is where we sing. It's a small. 817 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 2: Wendy, I'm confused to the actual makeup of where we ended. 818 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 2: What would the headline to that story read, Yeah, so 819 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 2: my banged my something my sister. 820 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 9: So my real sister was banging my boyfriend's cousin. He 821 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 9: was married, but well he wasn't married at the time 822 00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,479 Speaker 9: they were engaged. But they're now and we're now married. 823 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 2: As okay, high in a small town. 824 00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 13: Did so? 825 00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:59,760 Speaker 9: I didn't know my sister? 826 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:05,719 Speaker 6: Oh, great story, and Will told Wendy world, I'm Keilly 827 00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 6: in black hair and what are the chances? 828 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:12,360 Speaker 13: Hi, guys, morning morning. My mom and dad were on 829 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:12,960 Speaker 13: a trip of. 830 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:17,719 Speaker 5: A lifetime traveling around out back Australia when they were 831 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,360 Speaker 5: out the back of burke and rolled their car and 832 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,919 Speaker 5: they were trapped. My mom kicked the windscreen out, got 833 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,760 Speaker 5: out to hear a car coming, and. 834 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 13: A car pulled over to help them. And it happened 835 00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,160 Speaker 13: to be one of my mum's work colleague. 836 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 2: From knowing. 837 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,759 Speaker 6: You are hitting like in the middle of nowhere, in 838 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 6: the middle of Australia, you knew the person because if 839 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,280 Speaker 6: they didn't rock up, they could have been out there. 840 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 4: For hours and hours killed. They were the next car 841 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 4: for hours. 842 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 14: Yeah, and my mom was like bleeding and my dad 843 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:49,240 Speaker 14: was trapped. 844 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 2: So it was like, yeah, and then you had this 845 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 2: moment of why is Susan from accounts here? 846 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 14: Yeah. 847 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,359 Speaker 13: My mom was very confused when it happened. She was like, 848 00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 13: what was She. 849 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 2: Thought she hit her head so hard, But I thought 850 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:02,399 Speaker 2: people from work were turning up. 851 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 4: I thought I thought you were going to go down 852 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:06,760 Speaker 4: like a Bradley. 853 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:11,960 Speaker 6: Murdock, like a wolf creek there. That's someone help. That 854 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:15,319 Speaker 6: is an amazing story. You're tough for you this morning, Kate. 855 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:16,440 Speaker 6: You need to find a winner. 856 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean yeah, We've got a Wendy's delivery about 857 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,799 Speaker 2: the family and how close the family was, how knowing 858 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 2: was quite the price. 859 00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,160 Speaker 6: You've got a family past to Sydney's. You can give 860 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,560 Speaker 6: a couple of way if you want. We got some 861 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 6: great stories this morning. 862 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 3: What do you want to do Kate Richie, Well, I 863 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 3: actually liked Tarlene's story about the ship, and I mean 864 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 3: just for delivery. I can learn a lot from you, 865 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,279 Speaker 3: you know, telling a story on the radio. Wendy, You're 866 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,000 Speaker 3: off to Sydney Zoo as well. 867 00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,880 Speaker 2: Well you both had a win. Congratulations. 868 00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,360 Speaker 1: Guys's Wiper with Kate Richie is a Nova podcast. For 869 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,320 Speaker 1: more great comedy shows like this, head to Nova podcast 870 00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:57,400 Speaker 1: dot com. DoD Are you