1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: It fits in with Big One last night first dinner 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: party on Maps. Now, Anthony rocked up by himself, so 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: did Selene. Anthony's a pro wrestler, and Anthony wanted to 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: pull Selene aside. 5 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: And get her at half Nelson. 6 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 3: No, he didn't at all. It's no sue flex. 7 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: But he wanted to just say sorry because he walked 8 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 1: away from. 9 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 3: The honeymoon with one day to go, and this was 10 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 3: his apology. 11 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: I left the honeymoon and it felt like you didn't 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: have that chance to speak. 13 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 2: And I understand that, and I'm sorry for that. I 14 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 2: didn't mean for it to fall apart there. I'm sorry 15 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 2: they did. 16 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: He probably would have said sorry about five times. And 17 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: then Selene went on the camera a couple of minutes 18 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: later and said. 19 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 4: This, he didn't say he's sorry. That's the problem. Like 20 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 4: maybe he did say. I just didn't hear that. 21 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 2: Selective hearing, Selene joins us. 22 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: Now welcome Tolene, Selene. 23 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,279 Speaker 2: We heard a lot of sorry from Big Anthony. 24 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I can clearly hear. 25 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 2: That now, he didn't hear it at the time, Selene. 26 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: Look, I understand, and you can be honest here. As 27 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: soon as you saw Anthony he wasn't for you, was 28 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 1: he like there was fair? 29 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 3: There was no attraction at all. 30 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 4: Look when I first saw Anthony, absolutely no, it wasn't 31 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 4: like that. It was for me about personality and I 32 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 4: wanted to get to know him. So I didn't make 33 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 4: a judgment, you know, from seeing him. But we did connect. 34 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 4: We had you know, children and stuff like that, so 35 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 4: there was aspects that we disconnected. I want to know him. 36 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 37 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: So the biggest thing for me, though, Selene, is that 38 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: you know, like even when he was taking and I look, 39 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, chivalry. I think he's dying a 40 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: little bit with men. But you know, he was helping 41 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: you with your suitcases and stuff like that, and you 42 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: were getting quite upset because you wanted to do it yourself. 43 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: I mean, stuff like that needs to happen more in relationships. 44 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 3: But you didn't want that. 45 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I totally appreciated that. It's not a problem. 46 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 4: I just said I wasn't used to it. I didn't 47 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 4: mind it at all, but it was just kind of 48 00:01:58,600 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 4: like when I was doing he would grab it off 49 00:01:59,920 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 4: my hand, which I thought, yes, he was being nice, 50 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 4: but I was happy to do it by myself as well. 51 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 4: I was more than happy and appreciative of the things 52 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 4: that he was doing. It was just to me, not 53 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 4: consistent and a lot of things. Was in front of 54 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:13,079 Speaker 4: a lot of people as well. 55 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, Selene, I'm going to be brutally honest here. I 56 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 5: think I know why you're single because you're not You're 57 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 5: not ready to open up to let love in. You're 58 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 5: not letting love in now. It's similar to not hearing 59 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 5: the sorries right. You're choosing and making decisions without giving 60 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 5: something a chance. And I need you to refresh that 61 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 5: heart of yours and be open to letting someone in 62 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 5: because you deserve. 63 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:39,799 Speaker 2: To be loved. 64 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what. To be honest, at the beginning, 65 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 4: I was, I just it was. It became very forceful, 66 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 4: very quickly. 67 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 2: Look up with one of the other guys. 68 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 3: Oh no, that is not what maths is all about. 69 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 3: But who do you. 70 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: Have your eye on? 71 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 4: Sel No, No, not like that. I definitely did want 72 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 4: to get to know him. 73 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 2: It's just it. 74 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it definitely just was very forceful. I said no 75 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 4: a couple of times things and he just kept playing 76 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 4: on it. And unfortunately me then going into protective mode 77 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 4: has made me look like a. 78 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 2: Bit That's what I'm saying. 79 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: Well, but see, okay, so are you upset with the 80 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: way that you were edited last night? 81 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 4: Look, I just think they're, you know, the viewers going 82 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 4: to understand they've seen one percent of everything that you 83 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 4: know has gone has happened. That's one percent of everything. 84 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 4: So I think people were just going to remember that. 85 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 3: Selene, have you did you watch the show in previous years? 86 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 4: Not recent? I did watch it I think three years ago. 87 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 3: See, I don't understand. 88 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: I don't understand this right, because you know what, we 89 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: have a majority of the people that go on maps 90 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: that go, oh no, I've never really watched it before 91 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: or I haven't seen it for age. 92 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: It's important, it's important, So you know what. 93 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: It is very important because this is the thing. This 94 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: is that your life that they're talking about here. The 95 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: number one thing I do want to talk about, and 96 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: is a lot of couples do this. They rock up 97 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: to these dinner parties, sing like by themselves individually, right, 98 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: and what they do and it's all I know that 99 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: the producer do this on purpose. They send you in 100 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: personne and then you go and bag him and it 101 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: looks like you're throwing him under a bus before he 102 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: even gets there to explain himself. And it doesn't look 103 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: good for. 104 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 2: You at all. 105 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 4: No, it's definitely a double decker bus that I threw 106 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 4: him under. 107 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: Not nice, had a white on it. 108 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 4: Nice, But it was more like, you know, people were 109 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 4: asking me what happened, and I don't think it's a 110 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 4: bad thing to say what happened. And unfortunately I did 111 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 4: try to have these conversations with Anthony prior to the 112 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 4: dinner party, and I actually sat next to him, if 113 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 4: you if you actually, I don't know if you've seen, 114 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 4: but I sit next to him at the dinner party 115 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 4: before we go on to the table, and I try 116 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 4: to talk to him and I get brushed off. So 117 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 4: I'd love to tell when it got to the end 118 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 4: of the night and I was, you know, maybe a 119 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 4: bottle of wine in Unfortunately, at that point I didn't 120 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 4: want to listen. And yes, I could have drew a 121 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 4: line in the sand. 122 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 5: So then can ask a personal question at any stage. 123 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 5: Because we saw very early on that Anthony, we saw 124 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 5: the sort of the father side of Anthony where he 125 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 5: cares for his daughter, and then very quickly it snapped 126 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 5: to him in a ring with a pair of underpants 127 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 5: on pretending to wrestle. Has Anthony put those special speeder 128 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 5: or underpants on? 129 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: Have you seen the wrestling outfit? 130 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 4: I haven't seen in person. No, I did not see 131 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 4: it in person enough up until that point. 132 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: Right, Well, that's worth hanging around for it, reckon, Selene. 133 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: This is the other big one as well, Like, I mean, 134 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: do you Anthony was matched with you on the show? 135 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 1: But is there someone that was more your type? Was 136 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: there another guy on there that was more what you 137 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 1: were looking for? 138 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 4: Look, and I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna, you know, 139 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 4: steal someone else's husband. Definitely not. I think I did 140 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 4: get along with some of the guys that I would 141 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 4: say it's on a friendly level. I definitely didn't see 142 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 4: anything romantic, purely because they have other. 143 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: You know, there is wife I could see you with 144 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: Andrew or No, No, that's not she's She's not going 145 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: to even go down that right. Hey, Hey, Selene, do 146 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: we are you worried after watching last night and you 147 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 1: know what's coming up? Are you worried about how you're 148 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: going to be portrayed in the future. 149 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 4: Well, I was actually a bit shocked to watch how 150 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 4: trade so far? No to be honest, I'm not. It's 151 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 4: just it's just good for people to know that there 152 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 4: is more to it. You know, this is one percent 153 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:16,559 Speaker 4: of real life. 154 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,559 Speaker 2: So Selena's Anthony a good kisser? 155 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: Well? 156 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 5: Yes, you shut every shuttered, every window, and here with how. 157 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 2: Your voice went. What do you not like kissing the beard? 158 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 4: No? No, no, definitely, I don't have any expectations. 159 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:35,559 Speaker 2: What is is he heavy on the tongue or something? 160 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 3: Oh? Whoa? This is personal? 161 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? 162 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 2: Out of ten out of ten, like, what would you 163 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 2: give him as a kisser? 164 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:42,919 Speaker 4: It's personal? 165 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's under five. 166 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: All right, Well, Selene, this is all right, this is 167 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: going to head up now. He apologized you didn't want 168 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: to listen. You said we're going to talk later. But 169 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 1: obviously please tell us that. 170 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 3: You get back with Anthony and you try again. 171 00:06:58,400 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 4: You're gonna have to wait and see. 172 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 5: I think Manny goes on, mate, plenty goes on. 173 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 4: Just remember though, like relationships have their ups and downs. 174 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,600 Speaker 4: It's definitely you know, we don't we don't get put 175 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 4: up to judgment in real life. But you know, let's 176 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 4: let's see how unfold wild. 177 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: Is there any the dinner parties get more feral down 178 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: the track. 179 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 4: Selone, I think the dinner party is the moment when 180 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 4: everyone does come together. You know, you're you're stuck with 181 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 4: your partner for such a long time, you don't see 182 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 4: anyone else, So of course when you come together, there's 183 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 4: going to be a little you know, feel in the fire. 184 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,239 Speaker 2: Wouldn't surprise me if there's a group session, but this lot. 185 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: Wow, Well now, Selene, we've been trying to get the 186 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: big the big American on as well, Andrew the motivational speaker, 187 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: but he's refusing to talk. 188 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 3: I don't think after his words. 189 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: To Holly, a motivational creeper, she wasn't very good in 190 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: the bedroom. I think he's gone underground. We can't get that. 191 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: You don't have his numbers, Saloone. 192 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 5: Do you? 193 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 3: Yeah? 194 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 2: No, I do not, Okay, and he's not there with 195 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 2: you now, could you put him on? 196 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 3: No, he's not there. 197 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, you know we got kids in in different states, 198 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 4: so you know we're. 199 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, world distance, Seline. 200 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: We appreciate your time married at First Sight back tonight 201 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: seven thirty on Channel nine. 202 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,239 Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on the show. 203 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 2: Thanks guys, it fits and Whipper