WEBVTT - DJ TIGERLILY IS BECOMING A MUMMA!

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing style.

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<v Speaker 1>Were a boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's

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<v Speaker 1>in a trash bin.

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<v Speaker 2>He's non recyclable, catching her mut I love being love.

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<v Speaker 3>I love love.

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<v Speaker 1>On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we are

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<v Speaker 1>excited to welcome DJ Tiger Lily to the studio to

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<v Speaker 1>chat all things music, djaying, pregnancy, and how she met

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<v Speaker 1>the one.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll ask her all about her favorite DJ gigs, what

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<v Speaker 2>she thinks is the worst song request, and which celebrities

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<v Speaker 2>have waowed her and who has disappointed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also curious to hear how she plans to balance

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<v Speaker 1>her music career and being a mum. Stay tuned. Where's

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<v Speaker 1>Your Head At is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups,

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<v Speaker 3>At vice, and much more. Well.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome to the studio, Welcome to it for me, Dara,

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<v Speaker 4>Nice to see.

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<v Speaker 1>You, guys, Nice to finally meet you. We followed each

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<v Speaker 1>other on socials for a while, so I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I got to know you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's really nice to just meet everyone in person,

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<v Speaker 4>I suppose after following online for so long.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, established before we think we're at an event together

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<v Speaker 2>once upon a time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, potentially. I mean she has DJ all over the country,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm assuming she's been out.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of.

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<v Speaker 4>More. But like I said, I'm going to say definitely

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<v Speaker 4>we've met before.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't remember much from that night.

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<v Speaker 1>So also we have to start by thinking, congratulations, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you you are. How how far along are you?

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<v Speaker 4>I've only got seven weeks to go, so like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>about to pop. Wow, you look incredible, thanks, incredible feeling

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<v Speaker 4>SHITZI but you know you just hot at the moment

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<v Speaker 4>in Sydney, as you know, and like being what I

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<v Speaker 4>think I've maybe put on like seven or eight kilograms heavier. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot to lug around when you think about it.

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<v Speaker 4>It is walking up these stairs into this studio. We

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<v Speaker 4>live in a three story house. I avoid leaving the

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<v Speaker 4>middle level because like I just can't. I just pack

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<v Speaker 4>everything into a box and like try and do minimal

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<v Speaker 4>trips up and down because like it's rough that is around. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's what I tell you. They say that, and then

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<v Speaker 4>you have like your second baby and you've got like

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<v Speaker 4>a toddler and a bag and a pram and the baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry this is your second, No, this.

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<v Speaker 4>Is my first. The first one. They're like, don't carry anything,

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<v Speaker 4>you've got a toddlers. Yeah, you're maybe child. Gotta do

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<v Speaker 4>what you're gotta do. So yeah, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well let's start from the start, because obviously you are

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<v Speaker 1>probably the biggest female DJ that we have in Australia.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say, thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, how did you get into this?

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<v Speaker 4>So I've been doing it now for almost thirteen years,

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<v Speaker 4>which is crazy it shows my age. But I did

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<v Speaker 4>start right out of high school. I did a competition

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<v Speaker 4>called Your Shot, and I don't know if you guys

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<v Speaker 4>have heard of it. It's in like Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane

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<v Speaker 4>and now Perth as well. And what they do is

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<v Speaker 4>they get like one hundred or so young kids who

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<v Speaker 4>want to learn how to DJ and give them like

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<v Speaker 4>a six week intensive course. And so I did that

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<v Speaker 4>when I was yeah, straight out of high school. I

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<v Speaker 4>thought I wanted to be a DJ while also studying

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<v Speaker 4>to be a dentist lola, and absolutely loved it and

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<v Speaker 4>ended up coming second in that competition. So thanks, so

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<v Speaker 4>got a residency at like a nightclub in Sydney. It

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<v Speaker 4>used to be called Soho.

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<v Speaker 3>So who what?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Some friends their DJ name is Jemalini. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>they really DJ much anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're the real.

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<v Speaker 4>Way, yes, because I love the boys absolutely, But it

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<v Speaker 4>is funny, like it's not always the winner. It's kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like the Australian idol effect, right, always the winner

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<v Speaker 4>to do like the long standing career and there have

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<v Speaker 4>been lots of other people in my cohort of your

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<v Speaker 4>shot and then like other years that have maybe not

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<v Speaker 4>even placed, that have done really well. So yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's pretty cool. It's a great competition.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's like yeah, oh wow. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you guys want to join a career.

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<v Speaker 1>Path changed I J.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I'm pretty good with.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone thinks they can DJ. Everyone probably can DJ to

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<v Speaker 4>DJ well, I think it is. But DJ is pretty easy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you find that like a lot of people try

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<v Speaker 2>to do it and they get like a DJ.

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<v Speaker 3>I know a lot of my mates have and it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Just they have one and they just think they know

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<v Speaker 2>what they're doing at a party and then the.

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<v Speaker 1>Mixer just goes terribly wrong and you're like we talk.

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<v Speaker 4>About it like in the industry, like the people that

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<v Speaker 4>think their DJ is their personality trait. So like it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm a runner, I'm a swimmer, or I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a DJ, are you or like just at house parties.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was like the person was on the ground

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<v Speaker 2>and they'd be like, is anybody on a nurse Like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a DJ?

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<v Speaker 4>So long?

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<v Speaker 1>When did you realize that this could be like a

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<v Speaker 1>career path when we be like, you know, let's leave

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<v Speaker 1>the dentistry in the past and let's do this full time.

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<v Speaker 4>So I did one year of dentistry and then change

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<v Speaker 4>to media and communications. I did that. Did you love it?

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<v Speaker 1>I love it?

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<v Speaker 4>A useful degree, but then also like not super useful

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<v Speaker 4>for me. I suppose, Yeah, I don't know, you can

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<v Speaker 4>it wasn't too bad. It was better than dentistry anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>Who thought like I was going to become a dentist,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I think I was really dreaming. After I finished

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<v Speaker 4>my degree, I had like the decision of was I

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<v Speaker 4>going to go and get a job or was I

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<v Speaker 4>going to just keep DJing? And I was working so

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<v Speaker 4>much at that point, like I don't know, like four

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<v Speaker 4>or five gigs a week, like way more than I

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<v Speaker 4>do now, wow, And I was just like, stuff that,

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<v Speaker 4>let's give it a go. So while all my friends

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<v Speaker 4>went off to you know, apply for jobs at different

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<v Speaker 4>law firms or hospitals or finance places, I was like, yeah, cool,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just going to startup my business.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, why not. Good on you for like really

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<v Speaker 1>like giving it a crack and like having the courage

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<v Speaker 1>to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>It was looking back, there were lots of crazy things

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<v Speaker 4>that I did. I was so confident and had so

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<v Speaker 4>much self belief.

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<v Speaker 3>You need that.

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<v Speaker 4>And I thank my younger self because I think as

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<v Speaker 4>you get older, you definitely start to second guess yourself

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit more. So I'm very grateful for my

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>See, this is another example the power of manifestation.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, what would you find as your biggest hurdle or

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<v Speaker 2>the biggest challenge being a female because it's.

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<v Speaker 1>A male dominated industry for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it definitely is. I think that's changed as time

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<v Speaker 4>has gone on. So I think at the beginning it

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<v Speaker 4>was people not taking you seriously.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of female DJs now, isn't there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Yeah, there are quite a few, and it's becoming

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<v Speaker 4>more and more and more, which is awesome. I think

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<v Speaker 4>it was people didn't take you seriously, and because there

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<v Speaker 4>were a few DJs who probably like just we was

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<v Speaker 4>standing there and not really doing anything like with the decks,

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<v Speaker 4>that they probably gave us a bad rep for the

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<v Speaker 4>ones of us that actually like did mix properly. So

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<v Speaker 4>I think that was being taken seriously was the hardest

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<v Speaker 4>thing at the start, and then now in the last

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<v Speaker 4>few years, it's been navigating what it looks like wanting

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<v Speaker 4>to become a mum and wanting to like settle down

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<v Speaker 4>but then also have a career because pre COVID I

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<v Speaker 4>was traveling heaps overseas and you know, it's really difficult

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<v Speaker 4>to maintain that and then also have like a family

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<v Speaker 4>life too. So that's been something interesting to knownavigate and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm still kind of navigating that at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was about to say, how are you navigating that,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, you do have such a huge career

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<v Speaker 1>as a DJ, what does that kind of look like.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's meant that, like I've definitely taken a step

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<v Speaker 4>back from the international stuff, which I'm not too mad

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<v Speaker 4>about because it is really hard. I like, pretty lonely

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<v Speaker 4>and a bit depressing, even though it looks awesome on

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<v Speaker 4>social media media.

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<v Speaker 3>Behind it if people don't realize.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so it's just meant like, you know, being in

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<v Speaker 4>Australia a lot more, which is fine. I love touring here.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like pretty fun and pretty easy. And then I've

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<v Speaker 4>got my last show next Thursday, and then I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to take a bit of a break for let's say

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<v Speaker 4>six months or so, like from the touring side of things. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>but obviously not paid.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you have your own business.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So yeah, that's kind of what it is hopefully

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<v Speaker 4>going to look like. But I also don't really know.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna just be playing everything by year.

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<v Speaker 2>So you said you've done international gigs, what would be

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<v Speaker 2>your favorite or like, biggest international gig I've done Overseas.

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<v Speaker 4>The biggest was a festival in Malaysia which was like

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<v Speaker 4>thirty thousand people, which was pretty nerve wracking. I remember

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<v Speaker 4>looking out of the crowd being like, can I swear? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>don't fucking press the wrong button, bitch. You have pressures

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<v Speaker 4>so much writing on this QQ yes and Q takes

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<v Speaker 4>it back to the start of the song, So like,

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<v Speaker 4>don't don't press that was the one button. Anything else

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<v Speaker 4>I could kind of get away with. But if I

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<v Speaker 4>press Q, I would have been stuff. Didn't PRESSQ.

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<v Speaker 3>My way around to DJ.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that don't even pretend. I'm just.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew this is going to happen, Like I could

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<v Speaker 4>feel it in my bone. You That's what I was

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<v Speaker 4>actually going to say. Okay, So I went to a boat.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a cruise It was like a cruise boat

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<v Speaker 1>party kind of thing. It's the ship. Did you play

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<v Speaker 1>on that?

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<v Speaker 4>I did? Many times.

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<v Speaker 1>I went on it's the ship.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, what that is so random?

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<v Speaker 1>It was so random. Yes, we're fun. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>Singapore to Thailand.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was on that boat.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't tell you what.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe three years in a row. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 4>probably on it at a similar time.

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<v Speaker 1>That was like one of the coolest I was me

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<v Speaker 1>and that did the bridge climb last night and.

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<v Speaker 4>We saw like a cruise ship like leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>The port and I was like a boat like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was a party boat and that was like

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<v Speaker 1>not I mean, you were kind of getting around it

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, But how was that?

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<v Speaker 3>Look?

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<v Speaker 4>It was fun.

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<v Speaker 3>How many people are on this boat.

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<v Speaker 4>I know a thousands around.

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<v Speaker 3>The same age A party, yeah and one.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you do the American one?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I did the American one as well when I was

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<v Speaker 4>like twenty four. It was awesome. Now being thirty, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I now not really my thing. Actually, we were talking

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<v Speaker 4>about doing an Asian run at the end of this

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<v Speaker 4>year and they're like, oh, I do you want to do?

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<v Speaker 4>It's the ship But I was like, not really with

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<v Speaker 4>the baby, yeah, but all off, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you party heats when you did the DJing then,

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<v Speaker 2>like would you can stay out or would you go

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<v Speaker 2>there just for work or would you go like party

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<v Speaker 2>on afterwards?

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<v Speaker 4>In the first like eighteen to twenty four, of course absolutely.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I had just one too many things where

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<v Speaker 4>I really stuffed up or made a fool myself, or

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<v Speaker 4>drank too much or did something so idiotic, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I just remember one day being like I've got to

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<v Speaker 4>cut this away. Actually maybe I was like twenty three

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<v Speaker 4>when I kind of cut it away. And you know

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<v Speaker 4>what's the craziest thing. I found that almost instantaneously my

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<v Speaker 4>career trajectory like went like this after like kind of

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<v Speaker 4>cutting away the alcoholic Yeah. Yeah. We always say this

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<v Speaker 4>alcohol is just like so poisonous, such a suppressing, especially.

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<v Speaker 1>In Australian culture like binge. Drinking is just so huge.

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<v Speaker 2>So hard though, like everything you go to it's like drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I don't think I hang out with my mates

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<v Speaker 2>and it's not revolving around alcohol.

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<v Speaker 4>It's been really interesting being pregnant, like because you actually, well,

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<v Speaker 4>I suppose I could drink. I've tried a few SIPs

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<v Speaker 4>of like wine and champagne and it tastes like nail

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<v Speaker 4>polish remover to me. Like my taste buds of obviously change,

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<v Speaker 4>so like I'm just not even trying.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to drink male polish remover anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>But like it does really change an event for sure

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<v Speaker 4>or experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I rely heavily on alcohol, like you know, to

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<v Speaker 2>break that.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly I do too. I genuinely do as well. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 4>like we've got lots of We've got three weddings in

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<v Speaker 4>the next seven weeks, which is crazy, and I know,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like free samp like they're my favorite thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I love to just sit on the champagne all day

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<v Speaker 4>and get boozy and then be on the dance floor.

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<v Speaker 4>And it is hard it's for sure, Like I take

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<v Speaker 4>my hat off to people that are sober by choice

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<v Speaker 4>full time.

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<v Speaker 1>You must have met so many celebrities doing what you do.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously you're DJing before after whatever. Have you ever met

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<v Speaker 1>a rude celebrity.

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<v Speaker 4>I have met a rude one. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 4>say who it is, but I'll give you some hints.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she was.

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<v Speaker 4>Very hot and cold, and she has done the super

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<v Speaker 4>Bowl performance. I was going to go up and have

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<v Speaker 4>a photo with her because she back then this is

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<v Speaker 4>maybe it was a long time ago. Maybe I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>eight years ago, seven years ago. I was obsessed, like,

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<v Speaker 4>loved everything about her music career aesthetic, still do, but

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<v Speaker 4>was just like this was when she was doing like

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<v Speaker 4>you know, her big touring and stuff as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, yeah, well the story we need to reevaluate if

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<v Speaker 1>we still love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm assuming. I was like cool, you know. Anyway, I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to get a photo with this celeb and I

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<v Speaker 4>was really too nervous, which is unlike me because usually

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<v Speaker 4>I'm pretty forthcoming. I was like, you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>too nervous. I'm just going to leave it. One of

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<v Speaker 4>my friends went to get a photo and this celeb

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<v Speaker 4>said absolutely not and left the party. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>after someone coming up to her and speaking to her

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<v Speaker 4>and asking for a photo. Absolutely security guards around and

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<v Speaker 4>things like that, and she was like not fuck this

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<v Speaker 4>and left And I'm so glad it wasn't me because

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<v Speaker 4>I would have been mortified a very long time to come.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're off, No, I still love her, probably just

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<v Speaker 4>having a shit day. Yeah, we all do, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you do never know, but yeah, I was really unimpressed

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<v Speaker 4>because you always just hope that they're going to be

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<v Speaker 4>really down to earth. Yeah, and that's always case.

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<v Speaker 1>What do they say, you never meet your celebrity crush

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<v Speaker 1>or something, Yeah, never meet your rid of because you

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<v Speaker 1>never know how they're going to be.

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<v Speaker 4>But like I reckon. In the DJ world, it's different

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<v Speaker 4>because like most DJs are super nerdy and so they're

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<v Speaker 4>just like nerdy guys and girls who kind of hang

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<v Speaker 4>in their bedroom, you know, writing music and mixing and

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<v Speaker 4>stuff like that. So they're less about like the fame

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<v Speaker 4>and the glamour and everything. So everyone's really down to earth.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's the biggest name that you've like played with or

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<v Speaker 2>like environment, like like physically a little bit about a

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<v Speaker 2>gig like play a DJ set with.

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<v Speaker 4>Lots of them. Yeah, yeah, lots of them. I used

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<v Speaker 4>to support Tiesta a lot on like all his victory

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<v Speaker 4>back in Vegas a lot, which was really fun back

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<v Speaker 4>in the fun party days. Not so much anymore. And

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<v Speaker 4>then same with like all the other big guys like

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<v Speaker 4>you know, David Gerda, Martin Garrick's.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's awesome, and they're all.

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<v Speaker 4>Very nice and down to earth, which is epic, Like

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<v Speaker 4>they're all really sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of like famous, I don't know if you could

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<v Speaker 1>really classify this one, but you can tell me. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>Paris Hilton has become a DJ. What do you think

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<v Speaker 1>of that?

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<v Speaker 4>I actually don't know. Was she good?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? She was fine? It was that a lot if

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<v Speaker 3>she was fine? I mean I was pretty pier.

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<v Speaker 2>Buster Rhymes was rapping and he's like, say goodbye to

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<v Speaker 2>Paris Hilton and say hello to DJ Paris Hilton, And

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<v Speaker 2>then she came out and started playing. Was that this

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<v Speaker 2>after show fashion?

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<v Speaker 3>Make him alive? That's pretty cool?

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<v Speaker 4>Cool? I don't know actually, to be honest, like I've

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<v Speaker 4>never seen a play. People hate on her, and because

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<v Speaker 4>it's International Women's Day, let's just pretend that she's amazing

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<v Speaker 4>and she does it all.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, Amen, I don't know, Like I.

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<v Speaker 4>Would hate to say she isn't doing it if she is,

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<v Speaker 4>because like I used to get that and I'd be

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<v Speaker 4>so frustrated, Like I swear I'm actually mixing. It's not

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<v Speaker 4>that difficult. So I kind of think she used to

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<v Speaker 4>date Afrojack, which I think is how she kind of

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<v Speaker 4>got into the GG. When you do gigs, obviously you

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<v Speaker 4>would get a rider, is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>What's on your rider at the moment? Nothing, water, coconut water, all.

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<v Speaker 1>The healthy stuff. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Usually it's like a couple bottles of champagne, a couple

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<v Speaker 4>bottles of vodka, a heap of Seltzers coffee, cowls, chewing gum,

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<v Speaker 4>else shoeing gum is a good one. Ear plugs for

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<v Speaker 4>all my guests. So, like when I play, I wear

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<v Speaker 4>ear plugs because like don't want to go deaf. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>But when friends and like say I work with like

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<v Speaker 4>photographers and videographers at every gig they rock up, none

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<v Speaker 4>of them have ear plugs. And it's like my pet hate,

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<v Speaker 4>like don't fucking fuck your ears. Yeah, seriously, put some

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<v Speaker 4>ear plugs in, Like some cheapackets of beer plugs and

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<v Speaker 4>then that's kind of it. Nothing too exciting, but like

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<v Speaker 4>the essentials.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, yeah, my fyance. He was the lead singer in

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<v Speaker 1>a band when he was younger, and he has a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of hearing loss in one of his ears.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, that the sious because're obviously right whe the

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<v Speaker 2>speakers are well like a.

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<v Speaker 4>Lot of DJs now, I would say most professionals wear

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<v Speaker 4>ear plugs, which is fantastic, but a lot of amateurs don't,

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<v Speaker 4>and even a lot of professionals will wear them in

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<v Speaker 4>the club and then take them out to play. And

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<v Speaker 4>like the booth monitors are right next to you, and

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<v Speaker 4>they are so big and they are so loud, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's even something I've been conscious with with a baby,

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<v Speaker 4>like not that there's any proof around it, but like

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<v Speaker 4>just turning it down making it less loud, yeah, just

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<v Speaker 4>because it is so loud.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so loud. Okay, Well, we are going to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about you kind of navigating being a mom. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to hear all about your pregnancy. Next.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to welcome us back? Then?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, welcome back everyone from our We had to take

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<v Speaker 4>some time out of the room.

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<v Speaker 1>That was hard.

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<v Speaker 4>Our asses were slipping off the lounge.

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<v Speaker 2>I was saying that my laptop was slipping off my knee.

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<v Speaker 4>My feet were slipping in my crops and they have

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<v Speaker 4>holes in them.

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<v Speaker 3>So, like, do you want to describe our crocs to everyone?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, both, we've both got really cute limited edition crocs.

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<v Speaker 3>We do.

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<v Speaker 1>I should have all mine. I almost did, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was like you told me I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I said to wear them you got don't.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would have been matchedly.

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<v Speaker 4>You've got the platform once too, Yeah, exactly, those they're

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<v Speaker 4>so cute. I've got like some cute little decals. I've

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<v Speaker 4>got like DJ t L. I've got like a lightning

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<v Speaker 4>strike and a little disco ball. So the baby's nickname

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<v Speaker 4>is Minni Disco. Oh, it's so cute, disco ball on it.

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<v Speaker 4>The disco ball is my personal favorite me.

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<v Speaker 3>Too, sticking out pretty far. Yeah, it's a.

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<v Speaker 4>Beautiful ability, but like I haven't seemed to knock it

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<v Speaker 4>off yet. It's like the baby bomb. Yeah it is

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<v Speaker 4>DJ disco.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well you know what, I actually assumed that's why

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<v Speaker 2>it was called that.

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<v Speaker 4>Really it actually wasn't. I should dress up as a

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<v Speaker 4>disco ball in this last seven weeks because like.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be very definitely.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, she's like a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>My brainding managers like, no, does Mini Disco have a

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<v Speaker 1>name yet? But you've decided on.

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<v Speaker 4>So we don't know if it's a boy or a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so you're having a surprise.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. My poor husband, he's so devo.

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<v Speaker 3>He's just like he wants to.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, he wants to know.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to do a gender reveal?

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<v Speaker 1>Huge, that's gonna be the birthing suite.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but you didn't be obstetrician being like it's a whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to have one of those parties and

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<v Speaker 2>at least like pink or blue fireworks.

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<v Speaker 1>Smoke not me, not definitely not me.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fair. Look, my husband works construction, and he always

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<v Speaker 4>said would be really funny to have like one of

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<v Speaker 4>their company's trucks like pump out like smoke from them,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, the trucks have those little.

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<v Speaker 1>Hit a golf all.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm just like, but like, does anyone really care

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<v Speaker 4>about the gender? Baby? Amazing? So good? We might do

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<v Speaker 4>one post baby went once we found out to share

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<v Speaker 4>with Instagram. I really wanted to do one at a festival,

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<v Speaker 4>like there was meant to be a festival coming up

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<v Speaker 4>this weekend actually, but it had ended up not being

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<v Speaker 4>on and I was maybe gonna do it on stage

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<v Speaker 4>there with like big cannons.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, can you That would have been epic.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe we do that for the next baby, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>promised my husband that will find out the next baby one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because a festival baby, you're probably not gonna do

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<v Speaker 2>it straight away.

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<v Speaker 3>Recovery.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone just here for so we don't know the gender.

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<v Speaker 4>We have like a heap of boy names and like

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<v Speaker 4>love all the boy names. We have like zero girl names.

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<v Speaker 3>Really run us through some of the boy.

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<v Speaker 4>Names as.

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<v Speaker 3>Why can't you doant?

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<v Speaker 4>He's like, well, it's a big deal what you name

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<v Speaker 4>your baby, especially being on Instagram. Do you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>Trust me?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know What's stranger though? Is I have a

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<v Speaker 1>huge list of girl names in my notes, but like

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<v Speaker 1>not that many boy.

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<v Speaker 4>Names where the opposite people do tend to find girl

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<v Speaker 4>names easier. But it's just really hard. And we've only

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<v Speaker 4>got like seven weeks or maybe less, like quite likely

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<v Speaker 4>less we need to name this baby.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're seven months out of the nine months? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that right?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Seven? And hang on the pregnancy is ten weeks left,

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<v Speaker 4>ten months and seven weeks least seven weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I've always heard that pregnancies last for nine months. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>have I been misled?

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<v Speaker 4>You have. It's closer to ten months than nine months,

0:23:07.880 --> 0:23:09.879
<v Speaker 4>and you only figure that out when you feel pregnant,

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<v Speaker 4>because you're like looking at the dates and counting and

0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:14.240
<v Speaker 4>you're like, hang on, so.

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<v Speaker 3>Why is that? Why why do people say nine months?

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<v Speaker 4>Then it say it's like forty weeks? Is that right?

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<v Speaker 4>I think forty weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>They go of weeks, don't Yeah, I think so.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm week thirty three now, yeah, so wow. I think

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<v Speaker 4>they say nine months because you only find out when

0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:32.200
<v Speaker 4>you're pregnant a month in because of the way that

0:23:32.240 --> 0:23:36.960
<v Speaker 4>your period misses and things like that. Right, So maybe

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<v Speaker 4>that's why. I don't know, But yeah, it's closer to

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<v Speaker 4>ten months. And it's been tricked. Yeah, I've been lied to. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well that's just a long time as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, telling me.

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<v Speaker 1>Extra few weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, it is pretty crazy and it's a very

0:23:54.280 --> 0:23:57.800
<v Speaker 4>long time. But surprisingly I still feel good. Like everyone's like,

0:23:57.880 --> 0:24:00.360
<v Speaker 4>are you okay, I'm like yeah, good.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that was my next question. How has your pregnancy been?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? It's I've been very lucky, very lucky. But then

0:24:07.080 --> 0:24:08.800
<v Speaker 4>also you know, you do make your own bed, and

0:24:09.320 --> 0:24:11.600
<v Speaker 4>having the right attitude I think helps. Yeah, I was

0:24:11.640 --> 0:24:14.320
<v Speaker 4>pretty I was a zombie in the first three months.

0:24:14.600 --> 0:24:17.800
<v Speaker 4>It kind of felt like someone took out the personality

0:24:17.840 --> 0:24:21.760
<v Speaker 4>chip from my brain. Oh my god, I just was

0:24:21.840 --> 0:24:25.680
<v Speaker 4>so tired. I can't describe it to you. Like you'd

0:24:25.680 --> 0:24:27.800
<v Speaker 4>sleep twelve hours and be sad that you were waking

0:24:27.880 --> 0:24:30.119
<v Speaker 4>up because you just would be so exhausted.

0:24:31.200 --> 0:24:34.080
<v Speaker 2>Your body is working over time to make a human.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like you're building all the stuff. That's like the

0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:39.160
<v Speaker 4>build phase, right the first three months or four months,

0:24:39.160 --> 0:24:41.439
<v Speaker 4>even when you're like really building all the organs and

0:24:41.480 --> 0:24:42.560
<v Speaker 4>everything of the baby.

0:24:43.200 --> 0:24:46.119
<v Speaker 3>So far, crazy crazy. I said that before it's a

0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:47.399
<v Speaker 3>human inside it, I.

0:24:47.680 --> 0:24:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Can't actually can't work. Just like blows my mind.

0:24:52.000 --> 0:24:53.120
<v Speaker 3>Meaning disco moving around.

0:24:53.160 --> 0:24:57.000
<v Speaker 4>You said something, Yeah, constantly, it's an active baby. Like

0:24:57.280 --> 0:24:58.159
<v Speaker 4>we're quite nervous.

0:24:58.200 --> 0:24:59.000
<v Speaker 1>You have this shit.

0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:03.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we have a good good couple friend friend couple

0:25:03.520 --> 0:25:04.280
<v Speaker 4>who are pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry pardon me.

0:25:09.240 --> 0:25:10.720
<v Speaker 4>We have some good friends who are pregnant at the

0:25:10.720 --> 0:25:13.800
<v Speaker 4>moment and their baby is like yogurt just chills, doesn't

0:25:13.800 --> 0:25:17.160
<v Speaker 4>move doesn't do much, just is so peaceful and Minnie

0:25:17.240 --> 0:25:19.720
<v Speaker 4>just go. I'll have to like get up often in

0:25:19.760 --> 0:25:24.640
<v Speaker 4>the middle of the night because it's like like wake,

0:25:26.440 --> 0:25:28.959
<v Speaker 4>It's like what's the rave dance? Where like they go

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:31.080
<v Speaker 4>like that, is this a juicy wiggle?

0:25:31.280 --> 0:25:35.800
<v Speaker 3>No assume if anyone is going to know it.

0:25:35.760 --> 0:25:39.040
<v Speaker 4>Would be me. You know, it's not in the crowd.

0:25:39.080 --> 0:25:43.240
<v Speaker 4>I'm on the stage a while that dance. If anyone

0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:48.720
<v Speaker 4>knows what I'm doing, I don't know what gabbing, gabbery.

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:49.800
<v Speaker 1>I've never heard of that.

0:25:50.280 --> 0:25:56.840
<v Speaker 4>Gabbering that's Sydney things. No, it's definitely a millennial a

0:25:56.920 --> 0:26:01.080
<v Speaker 4>Sydney millennial thing. Deaf con Sidney millennial thing, right, you

0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:01.959
<v Speaker 4>fully lost us.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I was I was in the clubs in the days

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<v Speaker 4>of the Juicy Wiggle and what was that again, like

0:26:09.600 --> 0:26:13.440
<v Speaker 4>you know, like the will Sparks kind of yeah, yes, yeah,

0:26:13.440 --> 0:26:17.400
<v Speaker 4>she's got it. I wouldn't expect.

0:26:17.160 --> 0:26:20.439
<v Speaker 3>Anything less, would you, Juicy wiggle.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd give it a go.

0:26:22.440 --> 0:26:24.159
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I give it a go. But I hate to

0:26:24.200 --> 0:26:26.879
<v Speaker 1>admit that because it was like now I look, I'm like,

0:26:28.840 --> 0:26:29.600
<v Speaker 1>don't get the egg.

0:26:29.680 --> 0:26:30.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm not doing it now.

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:40.240
<v Speaker 2>Rude, rude with a lollipop, just doing it incredible?

0:26:40.760 --> 0:26:43.919
<v Speaker 1>Or should we all guess what the baby gender is

0:26:44.000 --> 0:26:47.399
<v Speaker 1>going to be? Do you have a guess? What do

0:26:47.440 --> 0:26:49.040
<v Speaker 1>you think the gender is going to be?

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<v Speaker 4>So I initially thought it was a girl, and then

0:26:52.359 --> 0:26:54.959
<v Speaker 4>these days they do this three D photos and so

0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:57.560
<v Speaker 4>like the scans. So I've been getting all these photos

0:26:57.600 --> 0:27:01.560
<v Speaker 4>and it looked one hundred like a boy. That's so cool.

0:27:01.840 --> 0:27:04.840
<v Speaker 4>See it would just looks like a dude. And then

0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 4>the last photo girl, it's like its face has gone

0:27:10.000 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 4>super cute and pretty in the last one. So I

0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 4>don't know. So you're undecided. I'm still honestly, I'm still

0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:20.320
<v Speaker 4>fifty to fifty. And people are so opinionated and they

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:22.720
<v Speaker 4>all have really great arguments to why they think it

0:27:22.800 --> 0:27:26.760
<v Speaker 4>is what it is. It's like to give you, yeah, yeah,

0:27:26.760 --> 0:27:30.080
<v Speaker 4>it feels Matt, you go first for the sake of

0:27:30.119 --> 0:27:31.440
<v Speaker 4>your hair being blue.

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:32.520
<v Speaker 3>It's going to be a boy.

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 1>I was going to say that to Yeah, it's.

0:27:34.520 --> 0:27:39.600
<v Speaker 3>A little but there's pink lights because I'm looking at her.

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:41.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm looking at her and I'm trying to, you know,

0:27:41.400 --> 0:27:43.679
<v Speaker 3>take it get trying to take it in.

0:27:44.000 --> 0:27:46.000
<v Speaker 4>Unfortunately, I feel like you're not the type of guys

0:27:46.440 --> 0:27:49.280
<v Speaker 4>in like the guessing pregnancy stage.

0:27:48.880 --> 0:27:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Of your life.

0:27:49.359 --> 0:27:55.720
<v Speaker 3>What makes you say that? Say that just a gut

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:58.280
<v Speaker 3>for you, try and say away from it.

0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:00.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say a boy just because the like

0:28:00.640 --> 0:28:03.600
<v Speaker 1>super active, like could be into sports.

0:28:03.640 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 4>Maybe to be honest from like you know all the

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:09.520
<v Speaker 4>old wives tales that they say, yeah, so next time

0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:11.800
<v Speaker 4>you see a pregnant woman you can make an educated guess.

0:28:13.119 --> 0:28:16.280
<v Speaker 2>Education from ye the what do you call it as

0:28:16.320 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 2>the stars and all that sort of stuff, because.

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:20.040
<v Speaker 4>It's all it is the same. It is the same

0:28:20.040 --> 0:28:25.520
<v Speaker 4>as horoscopes. I reckon, thank you, but we love it,

0:28:25.960 --> 0:28:29.000
<v Speaker 4>love it. If you're sick, it's a girl. And if

0:28:29.040 --> 0:28:31.000
<v Speaker 4>you're not sick, it's a boy. So I've been not sick.

0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:34.880
<v Speaker 4>If you if your bump is really like low and

0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:38.000
<v Speaker 4>forward and compact, it's a boy. But if you more

0:28:38.080 --> 0:28:41.840
<v Speaker 4>like put weight on round everywhere, it's a girl. So

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:45.240
<v Speaker 4>I'm boy again. If you like, I think something to

0:28:45.280 --> 0:28:48.920
<v Speaker 4>do with the types of foods you like, it's a girl.

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:51.760
<v Speaker 4>And so maybe I think it's like, if you like

0:28:51.880 --> 0:28:54.840
<v Speaker 4>kind of carbiish Swedish things, it's a girl. And if

0:28:54.880 --> 0:28:57.040
<v Speaker 4>it's more fresh it's a boy, so I tick that

0:28:57.120 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 4>as well. There are all these things that it's all boy.

0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:02.520
<v Speaker 4>Boy boy, oh your hair and nails. Your hair and

0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:05.040
<v Speaker 4>nails are meant to be amazing. Might have been ship house,

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:08.920
<v Speaker 4>so boy again, boy, I reckon because of that. It's

0:29:09.000 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 4>probably a girl because it's sucked him mom, Oh my god.

0:29:18.360 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 4>See that's so exciting. You'll find out in about seven weeks.

0:29:21.920 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 1>We'll find out seven weeks. Will you be posting the

0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:28.680
<v Speaker 1>baby on socials a little bit? A little bit?

0:29:28.840 --> 0:29:31.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know what the answer is to that, Like,

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:34.640
<v Speaker 4>we'll navigate it true as we go. I really dislike

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:38.120
<v Speaker 4>when an influencer has a baby and then the page

0:29:38.200 --> 0:29:40.840
<v Speaker 4>just becomes a baby page, because I want to follow

0:29:40.880 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 4>you for other stuff, not just baby things. So I

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 4>think we'll definitely like talk about when the baby arrives,

0:29:46.280 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 4>and I will be posting it, but maybe kind of

0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 4>like how we post our dog, Like we post him

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:54.120
<v Speaker 4>a bit, but not that much. The focus of my

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 4>page is still like my music and my DJing, And

0:29:57.840 --> 0:30:00.240
<v Speaker 4>I love that, yeah, because.

0:30:00.280 --> 0:30:01.880
<v Speaker 3>But then you're taking them on a journey with you,

0:30:01.880 --> 0:30:02.760
<v Speaker 3>your followers, so.

0:30:03.000 --> 0:30:05.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I think that's why I want to post

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:08.680
<v Speaker 4>some stuff, especially when it's like relating to work life

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:12.040
<v Speaker 4>and to a life, and the content will definitely shift

0:30:12.280 --> 0:30:14.840
<v Speaker 4>to being more life.

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:15.640
<v Speaker 3>As your life.

0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:16.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, but I.

0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:19.520
<v Speaker 4>Just don't want it to be like here's another photo

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 4>of my baby, Yeah, another one, Like.

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:25.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, some people don't really want to see

0:30:25.600 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 2>keeps the photos of babies as well.

0:30:27.480 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I mean I do, but I mean I

0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 1>don't give it to me given.

0:30:33.640 --> 0:30:34.719
<v Speaker 4>I want to consume it all.

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:37.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, your baby, yeah, like cute to see

0:30:37.960 --> 0:30:39.800
<v Speaker 2>the baby originally, but then keep flogging a baby. I've

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:42.680
<v Speaker 2>unfollowed some people from school. They just keep post some

0:30:42.720 --> 0:30:45.120
<v Speaker 2>babies like they're doing like the one month, two months.

0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:49.960
<v Speaker 4>I'll be doing that following me. It's a solid about

0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:57.000
<v Speaker 4>the cards. I am two months old today. I don't care, Like, yeah,

0:30:57.040 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 4>we're not going to be doing any of that.

0:30:58.720 --> 0:31:03.240
<v Speaker 2>They change their name to the baby's name mother or something,

0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 2>they fully changed their grip.

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:10.040
<v Speaker 4>No. I've like been really consciously thinking about how I'm

0:31:10.080 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 4>going to like keep my identity as Stara and Tiger

0:31:15.640 --> 0:31:19.320
<v Speaker 4>Lily as well as being a mom. But like I

0:31:19.440 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 4>found like there's so much negativity around becoming a mom,

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 4>like your life is over. Yeah done. And I'm like,

0:31:28.200 --> 0:31:30.040
<v Speaker 4>I've seen a lot of that and I think it's

0:31:30.080 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 4>so negative.

0:31:31.000 --> 0:31:37.960
<v Speaker 1>It's like shut up, but you can do it all right,

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Like I think, so you can be a working mom.

0:31:40.960 --> 0:31:44.040
<v Speaker 1>You can you know, bring in the bread and have

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:46.600
<v Speaker 1>the baby and like do what you love, do what

0:31:46.640 --> 0:31:47.000
<v Speaker 1>you love.

0:31:47.080 --> 0:31:49.800
<v Speaker 4>I think it takes a villa, absolutely, but I think

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:50.560
<v Speaker 4>it's possible.

0:31:50.800 --> 0:31:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you have a good support system around you?

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:55.080
<v Speaker 1>We do, Yeah, I do.

0:31:55.320 --> 0:31:58.040
<v Speaker 4>Both our parents are in Sydney and this is like

0:31:58.160 --> 0:32:03.400
<v Speaker 4>the first grandkid for both sides. Excited, they're pumped, they're

0:32:03.400 --> 0:32:06.760
<v Speaker 4>ready to rock and roll. My mom's just retired, so

0:32:06.800 --> 0:32:11.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, mommy need a hobby that's not your hobby.

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Or maybe it is on that.

0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:19.040
<v Speaker 3>What sort of mum do you reckon? You'll be cool mom,

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.120
<v Speaker 3>A strict mom. Cool.

0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:23.680
<v Speaker 4>I think I'll be cool but strict.

0:32:24.840 --> 0:32:26.800
<v Speaker 2>They can come to you for advice and talk to you,

0:32:26.880 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 2>but you're going to but.

0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:32.200
<v Speaker 4>Like no bs as well, Like would you ground them? Absolutely?

0:32:32.440 --> 0:32:36.400
<v Speaker 4>Like I reckon, I'll be pretty strict. But like if

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 4>you like work hard, play hard, like have fun and

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:43.959
<v Speaker 4>live your life, but don't be an asshole like my

0:32:44.040 --> 0:32:47.560
<v Speaker 4>parents with me were very relaxed, and because of that,

0:32:47.640 --> 0:32:51.760
<v Speaker 4>I think I took advantage of the system quite naughty. Yeah,

0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:56.959
<v Speaker 4>talk a while. So I think I would like to

0:32:57.000 --> 0:33:01.800
<v Speaker 4>be like strict but fair, but then also fun and

0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:04.600
<v Speaker 4>show them like, you know, if you're a good person,

0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:07.840
<v Speaker 4>you can have fun. Don't be an asshole. Like we're

0:33:07.880 --> 0:33:09.560
<v Speaker 4>talking about it the other night, like what are we

0:33:09.600 --> 0:33:11.600
<v Speaker 4>going to do when our kid comes home from school

0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:15.160
<v Speaker 4>like puffing on a vape And I'm like, oh my gosh,

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:19.000
<v Speaker 4>that's stressful. I don't know, but like I would be,

0:33:19.160 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 4>I'd be gnally about that kind of stuff.

0:33:21.480 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I crack it at that. Yeah, but that's.

0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 4>Going to happen, and probably like when they're five years

0:33:25.680 --> 0:33:28.240
<v Speaker 4>old these days, realistically.

0:33:27.520 --> 0:33:29.480
<v Speaker 2>Help go with that sort of stuff like that that

0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:33.000
<v Speaker 2>you've clearly done in your life and then you see them, Well,

0:33:33.000 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 2>I think you have.

0:33:33.520 --> 0:33:37.160
<v Speaker 4>To be honest and you have to explain, like, you know,

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:40.720
<v Speaker 4>you can try alcohol and drugs and vapes and things

0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:43.840
<v Speaker 4>like that when you're eighteen or like around that age,

0:33:43.840 --> 0:33:47.440
<v Speaker 4>I suppose, but like you have to understand that they

0:33:47.480 --> 0:33:48.960
<v Speaker 4>are bad for you and there are a lot of

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:51.720
<v Speaker 4>consequences that come with it. So I think maybe just

0:33:51.760 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 4>trying to have adult conversations with them that could be

0:33:54.400 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 4>totally wrong because they're kids and their brain. Sorry, guys,

0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:09.239
<v Speaker 4>what did you mean for lunch? But yeah, like, once again,

0:34:09.239 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 4>we don't have really any kids in our lives, so

0:34:11.120 --> 0:34:13.640
<v Speaker 4>we're like the test dummies for all our friends on

0:34:13.719 --> 0:34:17.279
<v Speaker 4>how these conversations are going to go. Yeah, so I

0:34:17.280 --> 0:34:20.800
<v Speaker 4>don't know, so exciting, nerve wracking, but exciting.

0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:24.800
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, yeah, how are you feeling about giving birth?

0:34:25.200 --> 0:34:25.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm pumped?

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:28.560
<v Speaker 1>Are you stuff it? I see?

0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:29.000
<v Speaker 4>I love this?

0:34:29.400 --> 0:34:30.680
<v Speaker 3>Are you going.

0:34:30.920 --> 0:34:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Like the Caesar? Neppi dural mat an Effi dural.

0:34:41.400 --> 0:34:43.360
<v Speaker 3>I don't know anything about that. I'm not.

0:34:43.680 --> 0:34:45.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm not. Yeah, I think it's actually cute that you

0:34:46.000 --> 0:34:46.919
<v Speaker 4>said Neppi dural.

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:49.640
<v Speaker 3>I don't know anything about this sort of stuff.

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:51.799
<v Speaker 4>You know what, We did birth Class number two last night,

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:54.239
<v Speaker 4>and we learned all about the empie durals, and I

0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:56.560
<v Speaker 4>was like pretty keen to like, well, I actually still

0:34:56.560 --> 0:34:58.520
<v Speaker 4>am keen for all pain relief. You know, let's get

0:34:58.520 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 4>over the flow, absolutely stick it straight to see what

0:35:01.000 --> 0:35:03.480
<v Speaker 4>we need. But there are like, once it's in, you

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:05.040
<v Speaker 4>can't really move, you're.

0:35:04.880 --> 0:35:06.759
<v Speaker 2>On the bed, but vice versa isn't there a point

0:35:06.800 --> 0:35:08.799
<v Speaker 2>where it goes and you can't get it put in.

0:35:09.000 --> 0:35:12.320
<v Speaker 3>You go past yeah, yeah, no return return.

0:35:12.360 --> 0:35:14.719
<v Speaker 4>There is a point of no return, which I'd be

0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:16.319
<v Speaker 4>stoked to hit the point of no return because then

0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:18.680
<v Speaker 4>it's just up top. You've just got to get in

0:35:18.680 --> 0:35:21.360
<v Speaker 4>the game and go for the a few more hours.

0:35:21.560 --> 0:35:23.360
<v Speaker 4>But I've been learning a lot in this birth course

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 4>and it's definitely freaky, but like it's made me super excited.

0:35:26.840 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 1>What's something interesting that you've learned?

0:35:29.800 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 4>Okay, So in the movies, when a woman is you know,

0:35:33.080 --> 0:35:35.080
<v Speaker 4>about to push the baby out, and you know, the

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:39.000
<v Speaker 4>partner's there and everyone's like push and she's like oh,

0:35:39.040 --> 0:35:40.399
<v Speaker 4>and then like the baby comes out.

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:40.839
<v Speaker 3>Yea.

0:35:40.880 --> 0:35:43.840
<v Speaker 4>So I thought, like the push phase, let's call it

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:46.240
<v Speaker 4>was like ten minutes or fifteen minutes.

0:35:46.280 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 3>Even I knew that that's we thought that. No, I

0:35:49.680 --> 0:35:53.600
<v Speaker 3>didn't know it's a lot longer than that. I even

0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:54.239
<v Speaker 3>knew that.

0:35:54.640 --> 0:35:57.480
<v Speaker 4>It's like like average two hours.

0:35:58.160 --> 0:36:02.360
<v Speaker 1>Of course, yeah, I've it was like three minutes or something.

0:36:02.520 --> 0:36:04.760
<v Speaker 4>I thought, yeah, maybe fifteen, maybe thirty.

0:36:05.000 --> 0:36:06.160
<v Speaker 3>Ma what was the thing?

0:36:06.160 --> 0:36:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I thought, No more than ten.

0:36:10.040 --> 0:36:12.799
<v Speaker 2>Contractions keep happening. That goes for ages, and that's where

0:36:12.840 --> 0:36:13.240
<v Speaker 2>you push.

0:36:13.600 --> 0:36:16.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, but the contractions might happen for twenty four hours.

0:36:16.680 --> 0:36:19.920
<v Speaker 4>I'm talking about right at the end, when you're or

0:36:19.920 --> 0:36:22.399
<v Speaker 4>when the head stops, when the head's like you can.

0:36:22.320 --> 0:36:25.439
<v Speaker 1>See the head, so you're crown You're crowning for two

0:36:25.520 --> 0:36:28.759
<v Speaker 1>hours potentially, so they can see when you're ten centimeters dilated,

0:36:28.920 --> 0:36:30.239
<v Speaker 1>you can see the baby's head.

0:36:30.320 --> 0:36:30.880
<v Speaker 3>That's huge.

0:36:31.000 --> 0:36:35.840
<v Speaker 4>That's when the push phase happens. I know, the terrify aerrafie.

0:36:36.080 --> 0:36:38.520
<v Speaker 4>Let's not remind you Scott was there last night in

0:36:38.560 --> 0:36:45.120
<v Speaker 4>the hospital course like, oh, looking really defeated. But yeah,

0:36:45.160 --> 0:36:47.759
<v Speaker 4>so when they can they can see the baby's head,

0:36:47.920 --> 0:36:51.799
<v Speaker 4>and it can be like average two hours to get

0:36:51.800 --> 0:36:53.400
<v Speaker 4>the babe out. That's why I said.

0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:56.399
<v Speaker 3>Two hours, ten centimeters dialate going like.

0:36:56.680 --> 0:36:58.759
<v Speaker 4>A mill forward, a meal back, millfold of meal back,

0:36:58.800 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 4>mill forward, mill back. That is terrifying.

0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:04.480
<v Speaker 3>Ship a lot of respect.

0:37:04.800 --> 0:37:06.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, women are incredible.

0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:08.200
<v Speaker 4>Women are really we are.

0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 3>I don't know how i'd go with you in.

0:37:10.480 --> 0:37:19.719
<v Speaker 4>That, which I haven't been China. I was, yeah, yeah,

0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:22.839
<v Speaker 4>I would just yeah, it's pretty overwhelming. But I think,

0:37:23.120 --> 0:37:26.399
<v Speaker 4>like anything in life, like if I went in having

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:29.239
<v Speaker 4>a shitty attitude or being really scared, I don't think

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:32.360
<v Speaker 4>that would help. So I think just educating myself, getting prepared.

0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:35.800
<v Speaker 4>I've got an amazing obstetrician who I love and trust.

0:37:35.880 --> 0:37:38.920
<v Speaker 4>She's awesome, So hoping that we can just you know,

0:37:39.000 --> 0:37:40.360
<v Speaker 4>give it a go, and like at the end of

0:37:40.400 --> 0:37:42.920
<v Speaker 4>the day, if I have to have a Caesar or

0:37:43.000 --> 0:37:45.160
<v Speaker 4>whatever happens, like just kind of the goal is to

0:37:45.160 --> 0:37:46.720
<v Speaker 4>get me and the baby out healthily.

0:37:47.200 --> 0:37:47.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly.

0:37:48.040 --> 0:37:50.399
<v Speaker 4>That's it. To not have like too many hang ups

0:37:50.440 --> 0:37:52.720
<v Speaker 4>about like the process or the plan.

0:37:53.040 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love that.

0:37:55.120 --> 0:37:55.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:37:55.400 --> 0:37:57.120
<v Speaker 2>I know a lot of people that I've in my

0:37:57.160 --> 0:38:00.440
<v Speaker 2>life around me that they had a plan and completely

0:38:00.520 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 2>thrown out the window that's coming. Yeah, this all natural one,

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:05.719
<v Speaker 2>and then as they went into labor, they're like, that's

0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:06.360
<v Speaker 2>not going to happen.

0:38:07.600 --> 0:38:09.600
<v Speaker 4>Well, Like, also, you could get to forty weeks and

0:38:09.640 --> 0:38:11.960
<v Speaker 4>the baby could be like flipped around and you could

0:38:12.040 --> 0:38:14.040
<v Speaker 4>have to just have a caesar, or you could go

0:38:14.120 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 4>into labor and then the baby could get distressed. And

0:38:17.440 --> 0:38:19.560
<v Speaker 4>I did learn this last night as well. Let's say

0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:23.919
<v Speaker 4>you're laboring in like the ward and the baby's heart

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:27.719
<v Speaker 4>rate let's say, is going crazy, like not good. They

0:38:27.719 --> 0:38:30.719
<v Speaker 4>can have that baby out in fifteen minutes, So they

0:38:30.760 --> 0:38:34.359
<v Speaker 4>take you down to the surgery rooms. Wow, do all

0:38:34.400 --> 0:38:39.480
<v Speaker 4>the prep and whatever. Cut babies out fifteen minutes. That's crazy,

0:38:39.480 --> 0:38:43.279
<v Speaker 4>Like that's insane. That isn't like that's massive surgery. And

0:38:43.360 --> 0:38:45.399
<v Speaker 4>usually they would take an hour or two to prep

0:38:45.440 --> 0:38:47.160
<v Speaker 4>at least, and they're like, yep, naps.

0:38:46.920 --> 0:38:50.160
<v Speaker 1>See are ready to go, ye out, so yank it out.

0:38:50.200 --> 0:38:52.640
<v Speaker 4>Like that can happen as well, you know. Literally, Yeah,

0:38:52.760 --> 0:38:58.279
<v Speaker 4>saw some photos and videos of last night of emergency emergency.

0:38:58.360 --> 0:39:01.040
<v Speaker 4>It wasn't like an emergency, but it was a C section,

0:39:01.280 --> 0:39:04.120
<v Speaker 4>and like it's pretty hectic surgery. Like I think a

0:39:04.200 --> 0:39:08.520
<v Speaker 4>lot of people think that it's the chill road because.

0:39:08.320 --> 0:39:11.480
<v Speaker 3>You're awake, aren't. Well, now, people, you're awake when you're done.

0:39:11.800 --> 0:39:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah most of the time.

0:39:13.120 --> 0:39:17.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, unless there's like a reason why you couldn't be awake,

0:39:17.160 --> 0:39:18.240
<v Speaker 4>but yeah, you are awake.

0:39:18.480 --> 0:39:20.360
<v Speaker 1>Have you seen the show One Born Every Minute?

0:39:20.560 --> 0:39:20.680
<v Speaker 3>No?

0:39:20.719 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 4>But I've been told that people watch that, and some

0:39:23.000 --> 0:39:25.000
<v Speaker 4>people said, don't watch that, So I think I'm not

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:25.520
<v Speaker 4>gonna watch.

0:39:25.520 --> 0:39:30.040
<v Speaker 1>It's literally about like every episode they have maybe like

0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:34.560
<v Speaker 1>three or four people giving birth and they all like

0:39:34.840 --> 0:39:38.000
<v Speaker 1>obviously have their own journey through it, and you see

0:39:38.040 --> 0:39:40.279
<v Speaker 1>like the couple and like they're embracing, and then some

0:39:40.280 --> 0:39:42.759
<v Speaker 1>people are doing it single and like you know, they

0:39:42.800 --> 0:39:46.560
<v Speaker 1>all have these different experiences, and I just find it fascinating. Yeah,

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 1>probably when I'm about to your birth. Maybe not, maybe not,

0:39:50.560 --> 0:39:53.720
<v Speaker 1>But I mean also like super educational, I feel because

0:39:53.760 --> 0:39:55.960
<v Speaker 1>you just I mean, I didn't learn that the baby's

0:39:56.000 --> 0:39:57.920
<v Speaker 1>crowning for two hours. That's new information.

0:39:58.120 --> 0:40:01.040
<v Speaker 4>But well, I had to ask all of myself in

0:40:01.120 --> 0:40:02.000
<v Speaker 4>this class.

0:40:02.520 --> 0:40:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Dr Matdover here.

0:40:04.440 --> 0:40:06.799
<v Speaker 3>You're talking about your husband. He looked defeated. How's he

0:40:06.840 --> 0:40:08.480
<v Speaker 3>going to? I reckon, he'll go in the.

0:40:10.320 --> 0:40:13.680
<v Speaker 4>Room the birthing. Sweet. The reason why he was looking

0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:17.960
<v Speaker 4>defeated last night is he's really like a gaggy, queasy

0:40:18.080 --> 0:40:23.560
<v Speaker 4>type of guy. So even last night, just like talking

0:40:23.719 --> 0:40:26.920
<v Speaker 4>about the epidural and the cesarean and stuff, he was

0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:30.520
<v Speaker 4>feeling a bit shit. So he's going to be either

0:40:30.719 --> 0:40:33.360
<v Speaker 4>passed out on the floor or hooked up to the

0:40:33.480 --> 0:40:41.520
<v Speaker 4>nitrous oxide, just like getting high. But look, it'll be

0:40:41.560 --> 0:40:43.799
<v Speaker 4>interesting to see how he goes. I don't know. I

0:40:43.840 --> 0:40:46.400
<v Speaker 4>think he probably doesn't know either. I reckon, I have

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 4>faith that he'll be really awesome and really supportive when

0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:51.160
<v Speaker 4>it comes to it. But I do think something that

0:40:51.200 --> 0:40:54.399
<v Speaker 4>they've like really persisted on saying time and time again

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 4>in the course is that it's actually really tough for

0:40:59.080 --> 0:41:03.800
<v Speaker 4>the partners because the woman goes into like primal mode,

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:06.560
<v Speaker 4>let's just say, and it's just doing a thing, and

0:41:06.600 --> 0:41:09.719
<v Speaker 4>the guy or the girl or the partner is just

0:41:09.800 --> 0:41:15.400
<v Speaker 4>seeing their wife or partner just like in this extreme

0:41:15.480 --> 0:41:19.600
<v Speaker 4>discomfort slash pain slash. I don't know, she might be

0:41:19.719 --> 0:41:25.520
<v Speaker 4>like grunting or screaming or totally silent or whatever, and

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:27.160
<v Speaker 4>they're like, what do we do? So I think it

0:41:27.200 --> 0:41:29.959
<v Speaker 4>can be really hard on the partner, And they've really

0:41:30.000 --> 0:41:34.040
<v Speaker 4>said that a few times, like partners, get yourself ready.

0:41:33.800 --> 0:41:40.080
<v Speaker 1>To Yeah, you need to mentally prepare. How long have

0:41:40.200 --> 0:41:42.239
<v Speaker 1>you and your husband Scott been together for?

0:41:42.760 --> 0:41:44.200
<v Speaker 4>It'll be seven years this year.

0:41:44.360 --> 0:41:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Wow, I know, how did you meet?

0:41:46.800 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 4>So we actually met at schoolies or bose seventeen, but

0:41:50.719 --> 0:41:53.040
<v Speaker 4>I don't remember that much like an our encounter.

0:41:54.640 --> 0:41:56.840
<v Speaker 2>We sat obviously each other on the booth, don't remember.

0:41:58.600 --> 0:42:00.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember much anyway, Remember I did know if

0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:05.760
<v Speaker 2>it was completely you. So you look familiar there about Scott,

0:42:06.920 --> 0:42:07.640
<v Speaker 2>less about us.

0:42:07.680 --> 0:42:08.600
<v Speaker 3>This is a romance.

0:42:11.719 --> 0:42:14.120
<v Speaker 4>So we met at schoolies. He was actually staying in

0:42:14.120 --> 0:42:16.359
<v Speaker 4>the apartment next door to me. My friend was looking

0:42:16.400 --> 0:42:18.680
<v Speaker 4>up with his friend and I couldn't find her. So

0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:21.480
<v Speaker 4>I apparently went into their room and I was like, hey,

0:42:21.480 --> 0:42:23.319
<v Speaker 4>I'm looking for my friend. Where is he? Like where

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:26.120
<v Speaker 4>is she? And he was like, oh, get out, no

0:42:26.200 --> 0:42:27.359
<v Speaker 4>girls allowed or some shit.

0:42:27.440 --> 0:42:28.319
<v Speaker 1>You got to said that to you.

0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:34.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And my cousin was like his best bestie, so

0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:38.120
<v Speaker 4>he knew me as like Mitch's cousin, right, so he

0:42:38.200 --> 0:42:40.719
<v Speaker 4>was like, get out, she's not in here, like, you know,

0:42:40.800 --> 0:42:44.240
<v Speaker 4>fuck off, Just trying to be a good friend. But okay,

0:42:44.440 --> 0:42:47.040
<v Speaker 4>I don't remember that. That's Scott's story, right, But then

0:42:47.040 --> 0:42:50.719
<v Speaker 4>we kind of rekindled and re met a couple of

0:42:50.760 --> 0:42:52.600
<v Speaker 4>years later. So when I was what I must have

0:42:52.680 --> 0:42:56.759
<v Speaker 4>been twenty four, and him and my cousin moved into

0:42:56.800 --> 0:43:00.879
<v Speaker 4>like a sharehouse together in Darling Hurt and obviously I

0:43:00.920 --> 0:43:03.439
<v Speaker 4>had like the hookups for the clubs and the free

0:43:03.520 --> 0:43:06.239
<v Speaker 4>drinks and things like that, so they started coming out

0:43:06.280 --> 0:43:09.399
<v Speaker 4>clubbing heaps with all their guy friends. And I think

0:43:09.440 --> 0:43:12.120
<v Speaker 4>it was probably really bad timing for Scott because he

0:43:12.360 --> 0:43:17.600
<v Speaker 4>just like entered the share house like party time and

0:43:17.640 --> 0:43:20.399
<v Speaker 4>then we met and then it was like his friend.

0:43:22.440 --> 0:43:24.200
<v Speaker 1>But really the fun had just begun.

0:43:24.360 --> 0:43:28.080
<v Speaker 4>It had in a different way. Exactly does Scott travel

0:43:28.120 --> 0:43:31.560
<v Speaker 4>with you when you DJ or is he very much? Never?

0:43:32.400 --> 0:43:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Never?

0:43:33.120 --> 0:43:34.880
<v Speaker 4>The first year, you know, when you're like in that

0:43:34.920 --> 0:43:37.279
<v Speaker 4>love bubble. Yeah, he came to like every gig and

0:43:37.280 --> 0:43:40.319
<v Speaker 4>then it was almost like to the day where he

0:43:40.440 --> 0:43:43.480
<v Speaker 4>was like, all right, I've got this girl, We're awesome.

0:43:44.520 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 4>I'm never coming to.

0:43:45.280 --> 0:43:46.920
<v Speaker 2>A gig that.

0:43:48.800 --> 0:43:51.680
<v Speaker 4>I have to do this. I am done.

0:43:51.800 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:54.760
<v Speaker 4>It's actually not very fun like coming as a plus

0:43:54.800 --> 0:43:58.480
<v Speaker 4>one because I get on a plane and then I

0:43:58.560 --> 0:44:00.520
<v Speaker 4>go have some food and then I have a sleep

0:44:00.880 --> 0:44:02.880
<v Speaker 4>and then I wake up at like, let's say midnight.

0:44:03.360 --> 0:44:05.200
<v Speaker 4>And I'm fine to wake up at midnight because I've

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:07.200
<v Speaker 4>been doing it for years. But like when Scott would

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:10.480
<v Speaker 4>wake up, he'd be like shivering and feeling sick. You know,

0:44:10.520 --> 0:44:12.080
<v Speaker 4>when you're being pulled out of sleep.

0:44:12.120 --> 0:44:16.439
<v Speaker 1>It's awful. I hate that feelings. Yeah, going to Europe

0:44:16.440 --> 0:44:18.880
<v Speaker 1>House'll never forget it. I was asleep for like an

0:44:18.960 --> 0:44:20.040
<v Speaker 1>hour and I woke.

0:44:19.960 --> 0:44:22.280
<v Speaker 3>Up and I was like sleep.

0:44:23.480 --> 0:44:25.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. So he would like be in that stage and

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:28.200
<v Speaker 4>have to go to the club and then drink vodka

0:44:28.239 --> 0:44:30.920
<v Speaker 4>with like a random promoter who didn't want to talk

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:33.719
<v Speaker 4>about him, like wanted to talk about me, and there

0:44:33.880 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 4>I'm working, so I'm not talking to him, and like

0:44:36.680 --> 0:44:38.920
<v Speaker 4>he said this funny story once. This is toward the

0:44:39.000 --> 0:44:41.479
<v Speaker 4>end of the first year. He was like, some guy

0:44:41.600 --> 0:44:44.480
<v Speaker 4>congratulated me for having a job today, and I was like,

0:44:44.520 --> 0:44:46.520
<v Speaker 4>what do you mean? And he goes, okay, So Scott,

0:44:46.560 --> 0:44:49.560
<v Speaker 4>what do you do? And he's in construction. He sells

0:44:50.480 --> 0:44:53.640
<v Speaker 4>like aggregate and gravel and things like that, and the

0:44:53.680 --> 0:44:56.200
<v Speaker 4>guy goes, oh, okay, well, at least you've got a job.

0:44:57.200 --> 0:45:00.760
<v Speaker 4>Scott runs a very successful business. And he so offended

0:45:00.760 --> 0:45:03.320
<v Speaker 4>that he didn't want to, like he couldn't say anything else.

0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:05.440
<v Speaker 3>Like what a weird thing to say that is, Like he.

0:45:05.480 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 4>Obviously thought, like, oh, you know, I'm a promoter in

0:45:08.640 --> 0:45:17.080
<v Speaker 4>a club and your girlfriend's DJ and you sell gravel. Good. Yeah,

0:45:17.120 --> 0:45:19.279
<v Speaker 4>like you know we're in a club. This is so cool.

0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:21.880
<v Speaker 3>I reckon that promoter right now. It's probably.

0:45:24.160 --> 0:45:29.399
<v Speaker 4>Probably, yeah working for your husband, yeah, probably, So yeah,

0:45:29.400 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 4>he doesn't come anymore, which that I'm fine with that,

0:45:32.520 --> 0:45:34.800
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't tag along to his work, so that's okay.

0:45:34.840 --> 0:45:38.839
<v Speaker 1>But maybe when Minnie Disco. Yeah, I think so might

0:45:38.880 --> 0:45:39.520
<v Speaker 1>make a return.

0:45:39.680 --> 0:45:42.640
<v Speaker 4>You'll have to, I think so. Yeah, it could be fun.

0:45:42.680 --> 0:45:45.799
<v Speaker 4>I'd like to see him with like the baby on

0:45:45.920 --> 0:45:51.000
<v Speaker 4>like the front pack carriers headphones on the baby, just

0:45:51.160 --> 0:45:53.040
<v Speaker 4>like I love.

0:45:53.200 --> 0:45:56.320
<v Speaker 1>I went to Kings of Leon a few months back

0:45:56.680 --> 0:45:58.640
<v Speaker 1>and there was a baby there and they had like

0:45:58.680 --> 0:46:02.160
<v Speaker 1>the baby headphones, and baby headphones are so cute, like

0:46:02.239 --> 0:46:04.719
<v Speaker 1>literally the smallest baby must have only been like two

0:46:04.760 --> 0:46:05.320
<v Speaker 1>months old.

0:46:05.440 --> 0:46:08.160
<v Speaker 4>Really yeah, and like the parents took it to the show.

0:46:08.560 --> 0:46:10.680
<v Speaker 1>The mom was just like and I was.

0:46:10.640 --> 0:46:11.719
<v Speaker 3>Like, I love that.

0:46:12.080 --> 0:46:15.319
<v Speaker 4>Love seeing goals. Yeah, goal, Yeah, I need to get

0:46:15.880 --> 0:46:19.759
<v Speaker 4>my JBL family to like make some good little headphones. Yes,

0:46:20.080 --> 0:46:22.560
<v Speaker 4>if it's a girl, you'll definitely get them jazzled with

0:46:22.680 --> 0:46:26.280
<v Speaker 4>like diamonds and things on them ones.

0:46:26.520 --> 0:46:31.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that would be so cute, so cute, Like that's

0:46:31.360 --> 0:46:37.720
<v Speaker 1>an Instagram post right, absolutely viral Instagram post a hundred.

0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:38.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:46:38.760 --> 0:46:42.560
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I like, can a boy wear jazzled headphones?

0:46:42.640 --> 0:46:42.839
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:46.600
<v Speaker 4>Probably? You know what, why not he'll look back and

0:46:46.640 --> 0:46:48.879
<v Speaker 4>be like, Mum, this is just so embarrassing.

0:46:49.800 --> 0:46:50.879
<v Speaker 3>Men can wear whatever they want.

0:46:52.600 --> 0:46:54.360
<v Speaker 1>So cool, they can.

0:46:55.440 --> 0:46:56.080
<v Speaker 3>What they want.

0:46:57.560 --> 0:47:00.239
<v Speaker 4>Scott has a different word about that. Probably he'd be like, no,

0:47:00.600 --> 0:47:03.160
<v Speaker 4>make them black and plain even for a girl needs

0:47:03.200 --> 0:47:03.760
<v Speaker 4>to be cool.

0:47:05.480 --> 0:47:07.160
<v Speaker 3>But he not like your jibs.

0:47:08.080 --> 0:47:08.799
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah what.

0:47:10.719 --> 0:47:11.239
<v Speaker 1>Accessory.

0:47:11.400 --> 0:47:15.319
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, look, he just isn't about them because he thinks

0:47:15.320 --> 0:47:18.640
<v Speaker 4>I stole the idea from it. That's right, Yeah, that's right, publoke.

0:47:18.800 --> 0:47:24.080
<v Speaker 1>When did you know that Scott was one?

0:47:24.840 --> 0:47:29.120
<v Speaker 4>I think I knew. I really like loved him very quickly. Yeah,

0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:32.520
<v Speaker 4>like I'm talking maybe like six weeks. It's so cute,

0:47:32.560 --> 0:47:33.520
<v Speaker 4>like so fast?

0:47:33.560 --> 0:47:35.080
<v Speaker 3>Did you say it at six weeks?

0:47:35.520 --> 0:47:38.239
<v Speaker 4>No? I waited till like four months and said it

0:47:38.239 --> 0:47:41.200
<v Speaker 4>at four months, and he was going to wait till

0:47:41.280 --> 0:47:42.759
<v Speaker 4>twelve months to say it.

0:47:43.239 --> 0:47:45.680
<v Speaker 3>That no, and he was a very long time.

0:47:45.719 --> 0:47:47.560
<v Speaker 4>He was cut that I said it first because he

0:47:47.600 --> 0:47:49.319
<v Speaker 4>wanted to say it first, and I'm like, well, bitch,

0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:52.520
<v Speaker 4>if you're gonna wait twelve months, then I'm gonna say it.

0:47:52.760 --> 0:47:52.840
<v Speaker 2>Like.

0:47:54.320 --> 0:47:57.840
<v Speaker 4>So, I knew pretty quickly, and we went on like

0:47:57.880 --> 0:47:59.720
<v Speaker 4>maybe three or four dates, and then I went overseas

0:47:59.719 --> 0:48:02.120
<v Speaker 4>for form once for work. Wow, So he came over

0:48:02.160 --> 0:48:04.120
<v Speaker 4>twice to visit me, and then like kind of when

0:48:04.160 --> 0:48:06.879
<v Speaker 4>he left that first time, I was like, oh, yeah,

0:48:06.880 --> 0:48:09.000
<v Speaker 4>this is really a thing. And I think when you

0:48:10.440 --> 0:48:13.120
<v Speaker 4>are not physically together in that first period and you're

0:48:13.120 --> 0:48:16.520
<v Speaker 4>forced to talk and communicate as opposed to like, let's

0:48:16.560 --> 0:48:19.640
<v Speaker 4>be real, just like have sex and drink and party.

0:48:19.920 --> 0:48:21.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, constantly hang out with each other in that

0:48:21.920 --> 0:48:23.000
<v Speaker 2>honeymoon stage.

0:48:23.040 --> 0:48:26.680
<v Speaker 4>Yes, exactly. So like the fact that we couldn't do

0:48:26.760 --> 0:48:28.880
<v Speaker 4>that and we really had to talk, I think that

0:48:29.280 --> 0:48:33.280
<v Speaker 4>made a big difference. And then I reckon twelve months

0:48:33.280 --> 0:48:37.520
<v Speaker 4>in was you know, after you've had like the honeymoon

0:48:37.560 --> 0:48:40.880
<v Speaker 4>stages kind of fading and you get into your routine.

0:48:41.320 --> 0:48:44.040
<v Speaker 4>That's when I thought, oh, yeah, like this could definitely

0:48:44.080 --> 0:48:44.879
<v Speaker 4>be a forever thing.

0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:46.319
<v Speaker 3>How did he propose to you?

0:48:47.080 --> 0:48:50.840
<v Speaker 4>It was very romantic. I saw it on Instagram, so

0:48:51.360 --> 0:48:53.800
<v Speaker 4>he nailed it. Oh my gosh. I had no idea

0:48:53.880 --> 0:48:57.480
<v Speaker 4>as well, Like no idea. So we were going on

0:48:57.520 --> 0:49:01.480
<v Speaker 4>like a camping fall drive trip in wa and yeah,

0:49:01.640 --> 0:49:04.640
<v Speaker 4>and we pulled up on a beach in like the

0:49:04.719 --> 0:49:07.719
<v Speaker 4>Pitch Black after like a massive day of travel like

0:49:07.760 --> 0:49:10.280
<v Speaker 4>flying a Perth and then doing like eight hours drive

0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:14.439
<v Speaker 4>down to Esperance, and I had no idea. We woke

0:49:14.520 --> 0:49:16.440
<v Speaker 4>up the next morning, he woke me up at like

0:49:16.520 --> 0:49:17.120
<v Speaker 4>five am.

0:49:17.280 --> 0:49:21.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, dude, the fuck reason for this?

0:49:21.560 --> 0:49:24.279
<v Speaker 4>And he's like yeah, literally, I was like what. He's like,

0:49:24.280 --> 0:49:26.680
<v Speaker 4>there's a beautiful sunrise. Let's get a drone shot. I'm like,

0:49:26.760 --> 0:49:29.479
<v Speaker 4>we're here for two weeks. Yeah, we've got two weeks.

0:49:29.480 --> 0:49:32.200
<v Speaker 4>And he's like, come on, babe, it's real pretty. I'm like, okay,

0:49:32.760 --> 0:49:36.759
<v Speaker 4>it was very beautiful, like marshmallow sky. Yeah, and he's

0:49:36.800 --> 0:49:40.440
<v Speaker 4>down there. It's also freezing because it's like the South

0:49:40.440 --> 0:49:44.279
<v Speaker 4>of Australia like in March, and he's like, come down,

0:49:44.400 --> 0:49:46.440
<v Speaker 4>come down, put on a cute outfit. Let's like, you know,

0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:48.919
<v Speaker 4>run around the beach together. Surely you knew, and he said,

0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:50.640
<v Speaker 4>put on a cute outfit. Well, no, we do this

0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:52.719
<v Speaker 4>stuff all the time. But he like takes lots of

0:49:52.800 --> 0:49:55.640
<v Speaker 4>my Instagram content for me, so and you know what,

0:49:55.680 --> 0:49:59.560
<v Speaker 4>he's very good at it. So I thought the whole time,

0:49:59.640 --> 0:50:02.480
<v Speaker 4>I was thinking, at least I'm going to get some

0:50:02.480 --> 0:50:10.239
<v Speaker 4>good content. Anyway. I put on this like really colorful

0:50:10.480 --> 0:50:14.719
<v Speaker 4>srong and like kind of like top and he's like, babe,

0:50:14.880 --> 0:50:17.560
<v Speaker 4>like marshmallow skies and white beaches, like don't you have

0:50:17.600 --> 0:50:20.360
<v Speaker 4>like a white cozie or something. I was like, oh yeah,

0:50:20.520 --> 0:50:23.120
<v Speaker 4>but like since when you're a director of what I wear.

0:50:23.680 --> 0:50:25.920
<v Speaker 4>But I was so pissed at this point because I

0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:29.160
<v Speaker 4>was freezing, needed to pee, and he was like, come on,

0:50:29.200 --> 0:50:31.120
<v Speaker 4>we've got to get this shot before like the light

0:50:31.160 --> 0:50:34.960
<v Speaker 4>gets too bright. Okay, so get on my white bikini

0:50:35.320 --> 0:50:37.600
<v Speaker 4>and go down to the beach. And I'm standing there

0:50:37.640 --> 0:50:39.600
<v Speaker 4>and you can see me in like the bits that

0:50:39.600 --> 0:50:42.680
<v Speaker 4>we haven't shared on Instagram. I'm staring up at this drone,

0:50:42.880 --> 0:50:50.000
<v Speaker 4>like glaring at It's funny. We should do a blue fuff.

0:50:50.280 --> 0:50:54.160
<v Speaker 4>Maybe we can do it next here staring up this drone,

0:50:54.239 --> 0:50:56.360
<v Speaker 4>just thinking, are you fucking serious?

0:50:56.800 --> 0:50:57.879
<v Speaker 3>Is he flying the drone?

0:50:57.960 --> 0:50:59.719
<v Speaker 4>He's flying the drone back at the car because he's

0:50:59.760 --> 0:51:01.600
<v Speaker 4>gonna put it on I didn't know this. Oh no,

0:51:01.640 --> 0:51:03.440
<v Speaker 4>actually I did know this. He's going to put it

0:51:03.480 --> 0:51:06.000
<v Speaker 4>on remote circle mode and then he's going to come

0:51:06.000 --> 0:51:07.839
<v Speaker 4>and join me in the in the video.

0:51:08.320 --> 0:51:09.120
<v Speaker 3>How is he going to get it?

0:51:09.320 --> 0:51:12.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah, So he'd kind of been practicing that in

0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:15.719
<v Speaker 4>the lead up, like just practicing these drone shots or

0:51:15.760 --> 0:51:19.360
<v Speaker 4>whatever loves the drone. So I'm literally standing there thinking

0:51:19.400 --> 0:51:21.640
<v Speaker 4>my feet and num. I need to peace so badly.

0:51:21.840 --> 0:51:25.680
<v Speaker 4>I didn't sleep very well. Welcome to holidays with Scott

0:51:26.280 --> 0:51:29.279
<v Speaker 4>so fun. And then he goes to me, Tara, turn

0:51:29.320 --> 0:51:32.319
<v Speaker 4>around and act like you're having a good time, and

0:51:32.360 --> 0:51:36.040
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, okay, and you see like showfaces on. I'm like,

0:51:36.320 --> 0:51:38.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm being filmed. I can do this. We're going to

0:51:38.239 --> 0:51:40.439
<v Speaker 4>get an epic cute shot to post on the first

0:51:40.520 --> 0:51:43.440
<v Speaker 4>day of our holidays. And so then he's like, all right,

0:51:43.560 --> 0:51:46.080
<v Speaker 4>walk to all the water, act like you're having fun.

0:51:46.560 --> 0:51:51.800
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, whow having fun? Thinking my feet and numb sucks.

0:51:52.560 --> 0:51:55.359
<v Speaker 4>And then he goes he said turn around, and then

0:51:55.440 --> 0:51:57.840
<v Speaker 4>he's on one knee and he said, will you marry me?

0:51:58.000 --> 0:52:02.319
<v Speaker 4>And I was just like, I still am shocked thinking

0:52:02.360 --> 0:52:04.759
<v Speaker 4>about it now, Like it was amazing. And then he

0:52:04.840 --> 0:52:07.360
<v Speaker 4>opened the box and like had my dream ring in

0:52:07.400 --> 0:52:11.280
<v Speaker 4>the box, which We'd had some discussions about this before,

0:52:11.320 --> 0:52:13.680
<v Speaker 4>and I really didn't think he knew what I wanted,

0:52:14.080 --> 0:52:17.040
<v Speaker 4>and so we've had a few arguments and I'd had

0:52:17.040 --> 0:52:20.440
<v Speaker 4>a few breakdowns about it absolutely, and yeah, then we

0:52:20.560 --> 0:52:24.000
<v Speaker 4>just got drunk and drank champagne and swam all day

0:52:24.320 --> 0:52:26.360
<v Speaker 4>and yeah, it was amazing.

0:52:26.560 --> 0:52:28.719
<v Speaker 3>It was very cute.

0:52:30.040 --> 0:52:31.880
<v Speaker 4>I know, he nailed it, and he also got the

0:52:31.880 --> 0:52:35.800
<v Speaker 4>perfect Instagram post. So so that's like a nailing all round.

0:52:35.960 --> 0:52:38.759
<v Speaker 1>He's just really like, yeap, hit that one on the head,

0:52:39.040 --> 0:52:39.480
<v Speaker 1>you know what.

0:52:39.960 --> 0:52:44.920
<v Speaker 4>He Yeah, the expectation was high, but he like totally

0:52:44.960 --> 0:52:47.080
<v Speaker 4>smashed it out of the park because doing it by

0:52:47.160 --> 0:52:51.239
<v Speaker 4>yourself on holidays while you're four wheel driving in a

0:52:51.280 --> 0:52:55.120
<v Speaker 4>different state, and then also with the emotional like him

0:52:55.120 --> 0:52:58.000
<v Speaker 4>being nervous because he was nervous, like it's a lot

0:52:58.719 --> 0:53:03.560
<v Speaker 4>to think about. Yeah, yeah, so yeah he really he

0:53:03.640 --> 0:53:04.479
<v Speaker 4>did so well.

0:53:05.239 --> 0:53:09.279
<v Speaker 1>And then you guys got married, how recently twelve months ago,

0:53:09.360 --> 0:53:11.960
<v Speaker 1>like exactly, wow, happy one year.

0:53:13.200 --> 0:53:16.800
<v Speaker 4>I had a really unromantic anniversary. I was so tired

0:53:16.840 --> 0:53:19.120
<v Speaker 4>because I worked the night before and then had Harry

0:53:19.120 --> 0:53:25.359
<v Speaker 4>Styles the night before that. We love Harry Style absolutely absolutely,

0:53:25.760 --> 0:53:28.080
<v Speaker 4>and so two nights out for a prego ladies like

0:53:28.280 --> 0:53:31.200
<v Speaker 4>a lot. So it was pretty chill one year anniversary.

0:53:31.280 --> 0:53:34.080
<v Speaker 4>But the wedding was amazing. It was so good. It

0:53:34.120 --> 0:53:36.800
<v Speaker 4>looks beautiful. Thank you the rain.

0:53:39.239 --> 0:53:39.439
<v Speaker 2>Rain.

0:53:41.400 --> 0:53:44.040
<v Speaker 4>That's where Bakley were talking about this. It was the

0:53:44.080 --> 0:53:47.440
<v Speaker 4>wettest week I'm pretty sure on record, like ever in

0:53:47.680 --> 0:53:50.960
<v Speaker 4>March or even maybe ever in Sydney. I've never seen

0:53:51.000 --> 0:53:53.680
<v Speaker 4>it that wet before. We were having like between sixty

0:53:53.719 --> 0:53:56.160
<v Speaker 4>and one hundred meals of rain a day wow in

0:53:56.200 --> 0:53:57.840
<v Speaker 4>like the two weeks leading up to the wedding. And

0:53:57.880 --> 0:54:00.560
<v Speaker 4>it was at parents, Scott's parents property. So we're gonna

0:54:00.560 --> 0:54:04.160
<v Speaker 4>have this beautiful garden wedding, dancing under like a canopy

0:54:04.280 --> 0:54:08.680
<v Speaker 4>of like a million fairy lights, so beautiful, amazing, get

0:54:08.760 --> 0:54:12.480
<v Speaker 4>married down by the lake in the sunshine. None of

0:54:12.520 --> 0:54:16.080
<v Speaker 4>that happened because none of it. No, we had to

0:54:16.200 --> 0:54:19.400
<v Speaker 4>like we got married on the driveway because the ground

0:54:19.480 --> 0:54:22.960
<v Speaker 4>you'd stand on it and you'd sink that far because

0:54:22.960 --> 0:54:28.279
<v Speaker 4>it was so wet. Nah. And it was a black

0:54:28.320 --> 0:54:30.080
<v Speaker 4>tie wedding as well, so all our guests were like

0:54:30.160 --> 0:54:33.280
<v Speaker 4>dressing up. So yeah, we got married on the driveway

0:54:33.360 --> 0:54:36.719
<v Speaker 4>and then had both marquees on the driveway. Lucky they've

0:54:36.719 --> 0:54:37.840
<v Speaker 4>got a gorgeous driveway.

0:54:38.360 --> 0:54:41.319
<v Speaker 1>It looks beautiful, like no one would even know that

0:54:41.320 --> 0:54:43.920
<v Speaker 1>that wasn't even a plan. Yeah.

0:54:43.960 --> 0:54:48.160
<v Speaker 4>We had an incredible stylist and she is a hard

0:54:48.200 --> 0:54:51.799
<v Speaker 4>as boss arss bitch and she just like boss these

0:54:51.880 --> 0:54:55.120
<v Speaker 4>marquee people around and pissed everyone around to get it

0:54:55.160 --> 0:54:58.799
<v Speaker 4>looking amazing because she knew for me, like I'm a

0:54:58.800 --> 0:55:01.960
<v Speaker 4>really visual person and like the aesthetic was always something

0:55:01.960 --> 0:55:04.360
<v Speaker 4>that was so important to me for it to feel

0:55:04.400 --> 0:55:08.000
<v Speaker 4>like it flowed and the guest had this beautiful visual

0:55:08.040 --> 0:55:10.200
<v Speaker 4>experience all the day and was.

0:55:10.200 --> 0:55:11.560
<v Speaker 3>Really good for Instagram as well.

0:55:16.040 --> 0:55:18.239
<v Speaker 4>But you know what, even if I wasn't on Instagram,

0:55:18.280 --> 0:55:23.160
<v Speaker 4>I reckon I still would have wanted it to be aesthetic. Aesthetic. Absolutely,

0:55:23.239 --> 0:55:25.200
<v Speaker 4>I've always been that type of like even when I

0:55:25.239 --> 0:55:27.160
<v Speaker 4>was like a little girl, I'd have my room a

0:55:27.200 --> 0:55:30.920
<v Speaker 4>certain way and like have different things set up so

0:55:31.000 --> 0:55:33.759
<v Speaker 4>it was spacious and like color coordinated.

0:55:34.040 --> 0:55:36.200
<v Speaker 2>Alays want the photos look good as well, Like you

0:55:36.239 --> 0:55:36.960
<v Speaker 2>look back on it.

0:55:37.280 --> 0:55:42.680
<v Speaker 4>We look very chiseled in the photos. Stress creates weight loss.

0:55:42.719 --> 0:55:45.719
<v Speaker 4>Not for me, organize a wedding in the rain.

0:55:45.840 --> 0:55:54.840
<v Speaker 2>Maybe, who has anyone anyone listening who wants a wedding planned?

0:55:54.960 --> 0:55:55.680
<v Speaker 3>Come talk to me.

0:55:56.160 --> 0:55:58.120
<v Speaker 4>It has to be your wedding because you have to

0:55:58.160 --> 0:56:04.560
<v Speaker 4>be Yeah. So were you in scott trying then to

0:56:04.600 --> 0:56:10.360
<v Speaker 4>have a baby. No, so we only started We started

0:56:10.360 --> 0:56:13.799
<v Speaker 4>trying a couple months after the wedding. Yeah, I had

0:56:13.800 --> 0:56:15.759
<v Speaker 4>a few overseas trips for work and I didn't want

0:56:15.800 --> 0:56:18.920
<v Speaker 4>to be pregnant for them, just because I don't know.

0:56:18.960 --> 0:56:21.520
<v Speaker 4>You never know how you're going to feel, true, So

0:56:21.760 --> 0:56:24.160
<v Speaker 4>we were very lucky. We actually felt pregnant the first

0:56:24.160 --> 0:56:28.360
<v Speaker 4>month we started trying, but then eight weeks later we

0:56:28.400 --> 0:56:29.239
<v Speaker 4>had a miscarriage.

0:56:29.320 --> 0:56:30.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry to hear.

0:56:30.520 --> 0:56:33.000
<v Speaker 4>It was pretty shitty, yeah, because it was just so

0:56:33.080 --> 0:56:38.560
<v Speaker 4>unexpected and I'm relatively young and healthy, and I don't know,

0:56:38.600 --> 0:56:40.719
<v Speaker 4>I just didn't know anyone that I had a miscarriage.

0:56:40.760 --> 0:56:43.000
<v Speaker 4>I just hadn't thought about it. So it was a

0:56:43.040 --> 0:56:45.480
<v Speaker 4>real shock to the system when it happened. So then

0:56:45.520 --> 0:56:49.080
<v Speaker 4>we thought, well, we'll just try again next month. Everyone

0:56:49.120 --> 0:56:52.040
<v Speaker 4>said give it a few months, this and that, and

0:56:52.080 --> 0:56:54.400
<v Speaker 4>we just thought, well, fuck it, we'll just try.

0:56:54.760 --> 0:56:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And so what happened.

0:56:56.040 --> 0:56:59.920
<v Speaker 4>We felt pregnant literally like straight away again, which is

0:57:00.160 --> 0:57:00.640
<v Speaker 4>very lucky.

0:57:00.760 --> 0:57:01.720
<v Speaker 1>So that's amazing.

0:57:01.760 --> 0:57:05.640
<v Speaker 4>We had like, look, obviously it wasn't completely smooth sailing,

0:57:05.800 --> 0:57:08.160
<v Speaker 4>but we had pretty great luck with it because I

0:57:08.200 --> 0:57:10.799
<v Speaker 4>know people try for such a long time. Yeah, And

0:57:10.840 --> 0:57:12.840
<v Speaker 4>the reason why we kind of decided to start trying

0:57:13.280 --> 0:57:15.480
<v Speaker 4>relatively soon after the wedding is we saw lots of

0:57:15.520 --> 0:57:19.040
<v Speaker 4>people struggling to fell pregnant and we thought, well, we've

0:57:19.040 --> 0:57:21.480
<v Speaker 4>got to start trying at some point, right until you

0:57:21.560 --> 0:57:25.400
<v Speaker 4>start trying, you don't actually know whether it's going to work. Yeah,

0:57:25.480 --> 0:57:28.960
<v Speaker 4>So it's pretty it's pretty gnarly, and yeah, it's pretty.

0:57:29.240 --> 0:57:31.640
<v Speaker 1>It's pretty amazing that people are starting to be a

0:57:31.680 --> 0:57:34.240
<v Speaker 1>bit more open about that because I feel like five

0:57:34.320 --> 0:57:36.959
<v Speaker 1>years ago I just thought like you'd have sex ones

0:57:37.080 --> 0:57:38.080
<v Speaker 1>and get pregnant if.

0:57:37.960 --> 0:57:38.920
<v Speaker 3>You didn't wear a condom.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was lied to. Actually really quite difficult to

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<v Speaker 4>get pregnant. It's a process. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And also the fact that so many people have mischaracters

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<v Speaker 1>like thank you for being open about that, because it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't really spoken about it a taboo.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. And you know what, even after our miscarriage, I've

0:57:57.920 --> 0:58:01.360
<v Speaker 4>been really vocal about it. Not I've been like relatively

0:58:01.400 --> 0:58:04.520
<v Speaker 4>vocal about it online, but like in my real life,

0:58:04.560 --> 0:58:05.840
<v Speaker 4>I've been really vocal about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It felt good talking about it, like it felt like

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<v Speaker 4>it helped me get over it. Yeah, And so many

0:58:12.240 --> 0:58:14.200
<v Speaker 4>people would be like I had one, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Had two, I had it's a lot more common.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. So they say one in four pregnancies, not one

0:58:21.960 --> 0:58:25.440
<v Speaker 4>in four women, So like one in four times that

0:58:25.480 --> 0:58:28.400
<v Speaker 4>a woman could or would fall pregnant will end up

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<v Speaker 4>in a miscarriage, which is like insane.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it's pretty hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's high.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, absolutely, So, like there's no surprise that so many

0:58:36.040 --> 0:58:38.000
<v Speaker 4>women around me were like me too, me too, me too,

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<v Speaker 4>And it was nice to and it's still nice to

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<v Speaker 4>connect with people over that experience because yeah, you don't

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<v Speaker 4>really you don't think I'm going to be one of

0:58:46.600 --> 0:58:51.320
<v Speaker 4>the become a statistics Yeah, just wasn't even on my radar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's probably like knowing that you had a miscarriage

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<v Speaker 1>in some ways probably made other people feel more comfortable

0:58:59.480 --> 0:59:03.320
<v Speaker 1>and like more what's the word, like open.

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<v Speaker 4>Just opening, Yeah, like talk about it.

0:59:05.360 --> 0:59:08.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like feeling like they're not alone, I guess, And

0:59:08.440 --> 0:59:09.240
<v Speaker 1>I think that is like.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't make sense, but there's shame in it for sure,

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<v Speaker 4>Like did I do something wrong? Was there something that

0:59:16.000 --> 0:59:19.160
<v Speaker 4>I could have done differently? And I definitely did feel that,

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<v Speaker 4>which is insane because there shouldn't be any shame because

0:59:22.240 --> 0:59:25.360
<v Speaker 4>it's nothing to do with you. Obviously, something wasn't right

0:59:25.400 --> 0:59:28.439
<v Speaker 4>with the baby and like the baby and my body

0:59:28.520 --> 0:59:32.520
<v Speaker 4>knew that, which is amazing, but like there is still

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of shame in like this happened in my body,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's been good to talk about and like I

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<v Speaker 4>think I want other women to be able to feel

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<v Speaker 4>like they can talk about it so it is less

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<v Speaker 4>to do and they don't feel such a sense of shame. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, if you can talk about it's like helping you recover,

0:59:48.480 --> 0:59:48.840
<v Speaker 2>I guess.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, absolutely, Yeah, it'll be interesting to see, like because

0:59:52.640 --> 0:59:55.440
<v Speaker 4>we did fall pregnant so quickly. Again, I say to Scott,

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<v Speaker 4>like I wonder, I don't reckon, I've dealt with all

0:59:57.440 --> 0:59:59.040
<v Speaker 4>the emotions.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was gonna ask you that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I don't know, it'll probably come up at

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<v Speaker 4>some point I reckon.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe like post Yeah, yeah, that's part of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Might be a bit.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got to think.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you've got disco disco, that's fine. Yeah, I'm looking

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<v Speaker 2>at the discoball and your shoes like, yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And like you know, I was worried i'd be really

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<v Speaker 4>anxious this whole pregnancy, but I've been super chilly. I

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<v Speaker 4>haven't even thought about it, just because like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>just figure, what's the point in forecasting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And it's still a trauma that you have to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with and like you know, work your way through sometimes,

1:00:35.320 --> 1:00:37.520
<v Speaker 1>like you know, technique to work through our traumas.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, things that happened to us, and there's no like

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<v Speaker 4>linear healing. I don't exactly that also how we go,

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<v Speaker 4>but yeah, it's we're very lucky in regards to you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the whole process of pregnancy and fertility and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Derek, thank you so much for coming in. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that we've kept you in a hot bar. Why, I like,

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<v Speaker 1>really thank you for being so open. I know you're pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm sorry that was saying, are we gonna like

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<v Speaker 1>induce labor in here?

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<v Speaker 4>So let's just all.

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<v Speaker 2>Touch, keep the cameras rolling. It does happen, I'll document

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<v Speaker 2>it play by play. Wait, you're fifteen minutes that you

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<v Speaker 2>reckon it's going to be.

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<v Speaker 4>No, you've got twenty four hours before fifteen minutes. We'll

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<v Speaker 4>keep you. I must get the content.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for luck.

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<v Speaker 1>We will all be keeping our eyes peeled.

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<v Speaker 4>We cannot wait to see baby mini disco disco ball

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<v Speaker 4>whatever we're calling it's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't wait to.

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<v Speaker 2>See the influx of baby content on your Instagram.

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<v Speaker 4>I definitely have I'm definitely probably going to be eating

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<v Speaker 4>my words, which posting hard.

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<v Speaker 2>For it.

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<v Speaker 4>Matt's unfollowing and I was like everything.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be all over that this message is stop.

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<v Speaker 4>Please please stope enough. You promise you wouldn't here. Oh

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<v Speaker 4>thanks for having me saying arahn o, thank you, thank you,