WEBVTT - #2119 Managing Your Energy - Bobby Cappuccio

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<v Speaker 1>Look at it, Tam.

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<v Speaker 2>It's your project. It's it's Robert. It's Robert Capuccio, It's

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<v Speaker 2>Tiffany and Cook. It's Craig Anthony Harper, it is it

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<v Speaker 2>is us. It is a What day is it? It's

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<v Speaker 2>Wednesday or Thursday? It's Thursday, thanks Tiff. It's the fifth

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<v Speaker 2>of the third. It's a Thursday. Apparently it's twelve forty one.

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<v Speaker 2>I do know that in the PM, not the AM.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be weird. I just got back from a walk,

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<v Speaker 2>did a quick eight thousand steps between appointments and a

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<v Speaker 2>little feet a burning Hi, Tiff, how.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you very good?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you? Harps.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't do any regular and not that you need to,

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<v Speaker 2>because you're very active, but you don't really You're not

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<v Speaker 2>really a take notice of your steps so much kind

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<v Speaker 2>of person, are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, a little bit, A little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I walked a door too well.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd probably crank out ten or twelve without really thinking

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<v Speaker 2>about it too much when you watch your kind of

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<v Speaker 2>do you know?

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<v Speaker 4>I reckon My average now sits around for thirteen or

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<v Speaker 4>fourteen thousand. I used to focus on it a bit

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<v Speaker 4>more and it was over fifteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a few so what do you and then

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<v Speaker 2>you figure out your stride length?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you reckon?

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<v Speaker 2>So fifteen k's for fifteen thousand steps would be somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>around ten or eleven k's for you. I'm thinking, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>she's looking.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to have a look at my gam and see.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a look at your stride length and that'll

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<v Speaker 2>give you your total distance.

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<v Speaker 1>Bobby, Hi, Bobby, it was going on, come in with

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<v Speaker 1>a bit more energy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to do it again because you have fucking

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<v Speaker 2>energy today before the show and they're terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to go again. Hey Bobby, Hi, Hey Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god fucking hell, can you take it? Can you

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<v Speaker 1>take something? Can you have a beer or something? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>We started to get in ten minutes, So next time,

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, you do that. How are you? What's going

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<v Speaker 1>on over there?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I'm just mitigating all these things eighty because it

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<v Speaker 5>was a it was a lot of big like build

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<v Speaker 5>up getting onto the show today, a lot of like

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<v Speaker 5>stop and go. It's like you ever see Jurassic Park

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<v Speaker 5>where it's like, you know, he's about to get eaten

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<v Speaker 5>by the tears. The tear Rex is just taunting them,

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<v Speaker 5>like flipping the car over. It's like that is thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? So yeah, glass of wine? Brilliant.

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<v Speaker 2>So somebody just handed you a glass of wine and

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<v Speaker 2>a big well not a big arm, but an arm

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<v Speaker 2>come in front of the camera.

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<v Speaker 5>That is how powerful you all? You said, I got

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<v Speaker 5>a wine, But that was impressive, wasn't it?

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<v Speaker 1>Fucking wow? You really manifested that. Wow. Wow, look at

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<v Speaker 1>what I like?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you like into like quantum physics and ship well

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<v Speaker 5>clear and reality?

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<v Speaker 1>Just now to get me that glass of wine. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't need you drinking, We don't need you. Another all

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<v Speaker 1>comes in through the screen.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck yeah, imagine if that's imagine if that same arm

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<v Speaker 2>handed Tiff, Now, that would make me fucking David Copperfield

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<v Speaker 2>or what's that other dude's name?

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<v Speaker 1>What's that serious looking a Potter? No, Harry Potter, You're

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>And just we did mention it this morning on another show.

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<v Speaker 2>But what do you think of TIFF's new ranger?

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<v Speaker 1>Look? I love it. I love it. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>really suits straight up? How long does that take to derangefi? Tiff?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, mate, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you've had it done before, not this color.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even expect this color this time?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you know who?

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<v Speaker 2>You remind me of that little girl that sang at

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<v Speaker 2>the Olympics that got holed up You know at the

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand Olympics, that little girl that sang she got

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<v Speaker 2>holed up on.

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<v Speaker 1>Why what do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean you didn't pay You didn't watch the opening ceremony.

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<v Speaker 2>It was only twenty six years ago. You were sixteen.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all right, I cannot recall.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Do you know what?

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<v Speaker 2>Right now there's a whole bunch of oldies yelling at

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<v Speaker 2>the screen the name of that that young well she's

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<v Speaker 2>a woman, well and truly a woman now, But anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>you've got the same kind of vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a look, Tiff, Tiff, Bobby, what are you drinking?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that? Red wine or charez?

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<v Speaker 2>What is that?

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<v Speaker 1>I think this might be a petite sah. I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>at it.

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<v Speaker 5>The only thing we have is a pin and noir

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<v Speaker 5>and a petite so ah, this looks This doesn't look

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<v Speaker 5>late enough for cola to be like a pin, and

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<v Speaker 5>so I think it's drink.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a very big all right.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's when I'm not drinking, I'm just holding it.

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<v Speaker 3>You find is it Niki Webster.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Nicky Webster, Niki Webster. Yeah, she was a sweet

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<v Speaker 1>she was as sweetie and saying like a.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was going to say something inappropriate, so I'll

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<v Speaker 2>just say she changed her Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Angel, thank you Bobby much better. So I want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you about something today.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk to you both about something today,

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<v Speaker 2>which is it's very relevant for me over the last

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<v Speaker 2>few months and very relevant well probably my whole life,

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<v Speaker 2>but specifically because I've been a bit cook lately, but

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<v Speaker 2>also a lot of people I talk to, and that

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<v Speaker 2>is energy management.

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<v Speaker 1>That is how you and how our audience.

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<v Speaker 2>And so if you've got any advice or thoughts or

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<v Speaker 2>ideas or experiences that are relevant, but you know, because

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<v Speaker 2>I've been I have a thing everyone called pernicious anemia,

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<v Speaker 2>which means I don't really absorb vitamin B twelve, so

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<v Speaker 2>I've got to put B twelve injections into my ass

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<v Speaker 2>on a weekly basis.

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<v Speaker 1>I forget and then six weeks later, I go fucking hell,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like shit.

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<v Speaker 2>And then then my subconscious goes, or my prefrontal cortex

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<v Speaker 2>more accurately, goes, well, why don't you do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing you meant to do and then so for me,

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<v Speaker 1>always trying.

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<v Speaker 2>To manage my physical, mental, emotional kind of energy and

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<v Speaker 2>lately has been a bit hard, but not only kind

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<v Speaker 2>of on a big scale, kind of globally in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>but more specifically through the day. I seem to be

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<v Speaker 2>better between so it's twelve forty seven between when I

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<v Speaker 2>wake up and start doing shit, which is six ish

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<v Speaker 2>to about two or three, I seem to be somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>near my optimal I think we've asked you this before, TIF,

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<v Speaker 2>but all around, and say, cognitive tasks, physical tasks, problem solving,

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<v Speaker 2>which is cognitive emotional energy management, all round, Like when

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<v Speaker 2>are you the best in the day?

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<v Speaker 3>Early early.

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<v Speaker 4>Or probably morning, maybe even mid to late morning is

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<v Speaker 4>good for cognitive but you know what, and this, and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't do this because it's terrible for my sleep.

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<v Speaker 4>But if I sit down at the computer again after dinner,

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<v Speaker 4>I can get very focused for a very long time

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<v Speaker 4>into the evening. But that ruins my sleep, so I

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<v Speaker 4>don't do it, which is annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have a second wind quite often. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>talking about flatulence, but later in the day although although

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<v Speaker 2>I mean same, same, but later in the day, hang

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<v Speaker 2>on excuse me, but later in the day quite often,

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<v Speaker 2>when I should be falling into a camera at seven

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<v Speaker 2>point thirty after food, my brain's like, hey, why don't

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<v Speaker 2>we do this? And I just start everything sharpens up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like I just woke up. It's like my IQ

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<v Speaker 2>goes up. Periodically, my attention, my energy go and I

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<v Speaker 2>do not know why, but so I kind of, you

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<v Speaker 2>know when I've got it. Like last week, at about

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<v Speaker 2>ten o'clock at night, I record a solo podcast, which

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<v Speaker 2>I never ever do because I was fucking wired. I

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<v Speaker 2>was so excited and I felt good and I had

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<v Speaker 2>an idea. I went, fuck it, I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 2>record something at you, Bobby. Is it.

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<v Speaker 1>Haphazard or is it kind of more predictable with you your energy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, my natural like peak levels of focus are early

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<v Speaker 5>in the morning, through the morning until like ten or

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<v Speaker 5>eleven o'clock, and in the evening about with a lull

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<v Speaker 5>in the afternoon, mostly around like two to five PM.

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<v Speaker 5>So if I could do something that's just a repetitive

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<v Speaker 5>task that doesn't require a ton of creativity in those hours,

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<v Speaker 5>ideally not doing a seminar, although you know sometimes that

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<v Speaker 5>pops up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at my best.

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<v Speaker 2>What's is the top of the list for both of you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like the variable that makes the biggest difference one way

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<v Speaker 2>or the other? Is the biggest factor sleep for both

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<v Speaker 2>of you? Or is it something else?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I too sleeps massive. I had a brilliant

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<v Speaker 4>night's sleep last night, and I'm just on fire today.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so fucking funny, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate Bobby? How many wheeze do you have a night?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's just you, like no one's listing, But

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<v Speaker 2>how many wheeze do you have a night? And by

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<v Speaker 2>the way, how big is your prostate? Is it like

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<v Speaker 2>a basketball, softball, a baseball?

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<v Speaker 5>About eleven eleven to twelve weeks a night and it's

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<v Speaker 5>about the size of a water melon.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, so people think.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a tumor. It's like, no, it's just a large prostate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>bad life decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you still run that that hose that you

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<v Speaker 2>had with those clans from.

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<v Speaker 1>Your cock to that bucket? Or have you upgraded in

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<v Speaker 1>some way?

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<v Speaker 5>I have always wandered, like, what would life be like

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<v Speaker 5>if I could just wear like a nappy?

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<v Speaker 1>Ah? Could that improve my sleep patterns?

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we getting into I feel like we've

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<v Speaker 2>entered into insensitive territory led by me. I apologize everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>I would tell you we'll edit that out, but we

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<v Speaker 2>fucking won't.

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<v Speaker 1>You know we won't.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, so just a general I think for everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>sleep is probably the biggest variable after that. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say a few in terms of energy,

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<v Speaker 2>and of course it's different for different people. So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about I'm thinking about the weather, which people don't

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<v Speaker 2>talk about when it's real hot. I struggle. I'm way

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<v Speaker 2>better in cooler environments. Obviously food makes a big difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously stress or lack thereof, can make a big difference

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<v Speaker 2>on everything, but ultimately energy management, and then I think, also,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, just the fundamentals like workload, Like what is

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<v Speaker 2>number two on the list for both of you.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're going to get towards.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking about some solutions or potential solutions everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>But Bobby, let's go with you. So after sleep, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest factor?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, movement, movement is mass It changes my thought patterns,

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<v Speaker 5>It elevates my energy, increases my creativity, lowers my stress.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's like what I do join that movement? You know,

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<v Speaker 5>if I listen to something like instrumental, like a nice

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<v Speaker 5>inspiring soundtrack, definitely game changer. So if I can restructure

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<v Speaker 5>my environment to incorporate as much movement as possible, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>just a different human being, so can.

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<v Speaker 1>Be more specific. So like what like I do?

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<v Speaker 5>Like the person I am now, I'm like a different

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<v Speaker 5>version of.

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<v Speaker 2>That fucking ltif he's hard work, he's drinking booze, he's

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<v Speaker 2>being problematic.

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<v Speaker 1>Before the show, he was just bitching, fucking help. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want to do the show anymore, just

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<v Speaker 1>let us know. You don't have to be subliminal, just go.

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<v Speaker 2>I fucking hate you both. I don't want to do

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<v Speaker 2>the show, you know you Just let us know we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, I'm going to.

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<v Speaker 2>Go fuck all right, Well, I'll try and contribute something logical.

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<v Speaker 2>When I do strength training for about an hour a day, everyone,

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<v Speaker 2>it does all the good things for me. If I

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<v Speaker 2>walk ten thousand steps plus a day, it does all

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<v Speaker 2>the good things for me. And it also, which is

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<v Speaker 2>very unexpected for me, when I started just consciously walking,

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<v Speaker 2>because I was just randomly where I would just walk

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<v Speaker 2>whatever I walked on the day. Some days it would

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<v Speaker 2>be a lot. Some days it would be fuck all.

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<v Speaker 2>More days it would be fuck all. But since I

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<v Speaker 2>introduced like going out just before this show and doing

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<v Speaker 2>a quick eight thousand, I actually feel happier, which is

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<v Speaker 2>a weird correlation for me anyway, but it helps me emotionally,

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<v Speaker 2>which helps me regulate a lot of other things. TIF

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<v Speaker 2>can you offer anything more constructive than Bobby did? Because

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<v Speaker 2>fucking hell?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, sure as hell can.

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon, We're coming back to you, Bobby, so I'm

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<v Speaker 2>giving you a se can chance.

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<v Speaker 4>Bobby, I reckon food and movement, food and exercise head

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<v Speaker 4>to head with me, I'll get angry. So I got

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<v Speaker 4>to eat, but if I don't move. I was talking

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<v Speaker 4>about this to someone the other day that it's obvious

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<v Speaker 4>when you look at your priorities or your values, doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>matter how important things are in my life, exercise always

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<v Speaker 4>comes first. Exercise or never takes a back seat. It's

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<v Speaker 4>very rare that I go, you know what, I actually

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<v Speaker 4>can't make the gym today. Yes, there has to be

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<v Speaker 4>a reason why that cannot be fit in.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I think Also, actually I'll shut up because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm getting ahead of myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Bobby, do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Really want to tell us what the movement, what kind

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<v Speaker 2>of movement, and how that impacts you and what you do.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yes, it's the time I expanded in the gym.

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<v Speaker 5>But for me, if I would prefer in a perfect

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<v Speaker 5>world to hit the gym at five am, ever in warning,

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<v Speaker 5>because when I'm in the gym and i'm training hard,

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<v Speaker 5>one you get it out of the way. Two it's

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<v Speaker 5>like I can listen to a podcast. I can feed

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<v Speaker 5>my mind with high quality information unless it's like me

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<v Speaker 5>being interviewed on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how that goes. But unless it's the E

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<v Speaker 1>Project carry on.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I feel so much more ready for the day.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think it's it's that combination of the exercise

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<v Speaker 5>and the input. I can't listen to anything too scientific

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<v Speaker 5>while i'm moving, but something conceptual, you know, by the time,

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<v Speaker 5>by the time eight o'clock in the morning hits, I

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<v Speaker 5>have so many ideas in my head. The problem with

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<v Speaker 5>me physiologically is if I do that by about ten

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<v Speaker 5>to eleven o'clock in the morning, I am completely knackered.

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<v Speaker 5>So that is too early in the day for me

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<v Speaker 5>to get a workout in a hard workout in so

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<v Speaker 5>I have to do a light workout in the morning,

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<v Speaker 5>some type of ritual like it just involving like a walk,

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<v Speaker 5>just just some some light movement, and then later on

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<v Speaker 5>in the day if I train, that's perfect. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 5>it's those are just bookends. It's about intermittent movement. It's

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<v Speaker 5>about intermittent movement where I'm not switching from one test

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<v Speaker 5>to another. And I'm talking about cognitive flexibility. I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>talking about multitasking so much where my brain is constantly on.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I if I can just take a walk up the.

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<v Speaker 5>Street or from one meeting to another, or to the

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<v Speaker 5>car and just try to not think about anything, not

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<v Speaker 5>send the next email, not send the next text, That's

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<v Speaker 5>when I make most of my mistakes when I do

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<v Speaker 5>that anyway, So I'm really not saving time. I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 5>much wasting it. I'm in a completely different mental state.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's bookending movement ritual in the morning, more tents

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<v Speaker 5>to work out later on the day, and intermittent movement

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<v Speaker 5>as much as I can possibly fit in so I

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<v Speaker 5>can get my ten to fifteen thousand steps a month.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I ask you and TIF you might have a

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<v Speaker 2>thought about this, because maybe you have one foot in

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<v Speaker 2>this pool as well. But Bobby, you've spoken many times

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<v Speaker 2>about anxiety and all of those things, and mental health

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<v Speaker 2>and obsession and the myriad of things that we talk

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<v Speaker 2>about on this show.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>That obviously there's a correlation between stress, anxiety, overthinking, and

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<v Speaker 2>our subsequent energy that's left for the day. So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>kind of talking about investing a lot of energy in

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<v Speaker 2>shit that we really can't change, which is often what

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<v Speaker 2>anxiety is, or that kind.

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<v Speaker 1>Of stress is. Do you ever think it, think.

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<v Speaker 2>Of it in those terms of like I'm exhausted and

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't fucking done anything, but I've thought everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's like Thursday for me.

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<v Speaker 6>I get it, especially like the like the more lack

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<v Speaker 6>of predictability in my environment, the more I find myself

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<v Speaker 6>engaging in things that caused me a lot of worry.

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<v Speaker 5>They put me in a high state of arousal. But

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<v Speaker 5>there's literally nothing I can do about it, not on

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<v Speaker 5>a global scale, maybe on like a micro scale, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>that's very hard for me to avoid.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is where like today, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, we're we're looking to move again, Like are where

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<v Speaker 5>we are is not a very it's not an inspiring neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's put it that way and looking for where we're

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<v Speaker 5>going to move to. It's very important for me to

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<v Speaker 5>be in a building that has so many amenities, so

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<v Speaker 5>many nooks, so many says that were just like carved

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<v Speaker 5>out because I could stay home and I could structure

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<v Speaker 5>my environment in a way where those triggers are not present.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was like, oh, I got to discipline myself

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<v Speaker 5>to not get to get off social media and get focused.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have to discipline myself to do shit because

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<v Speaker 5>the environment leads me to engage in things that are

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<v Speaker 5>productive and that usually only takes discipline for me for

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<v Speaker 5>about I don't know if you find this for about

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<v Speaker 5>ten minutes, Like I got to really discipline myself for

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<v Speaker 5>the first ten minutes to get engaged in something, but

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<v Speaker 5>anywhere from seven to fifteen minutes, like the activity pulls

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<v Speaker 5>me into it that level of engage, it almost takes

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<v Speaker 5>discipline to pull me away from it.

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<v Speaker 1>If that makes sense? Yes, yes, do you think? And

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm coming to YouTube.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think, Bobby, that you know if you spent

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<v Speaker 2>let's say you're working in an environment with people that

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<v Speaker 2>you like, it's not overwhelmingly phenomenal, but you certainly don't

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<v Speaker 2>hate going to work, so you're working with people that

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<v Speaker 2>you like. The job's pretty good. It's a seven, right,

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<v Speaker 2>It's not a ten, but it's a seven. A year

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<v Speaker 2>of that versus a year of you working essentially in

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<v Speaker 2>isolation from home, what do you think is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be a better outcome for you.

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<v Speaker 1>For what appeals more to you.

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<v Speaker 5>That's really hard because it depends on the nature of

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<v Speaker 5>the work that I'm doing and who I'm doing it with.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, but the thing is, for me, one thing

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<v Speaker 5>feeds another. If I have the right home environment right,

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<v Speaker 5>which is what I'm talking about, and I can literally

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<v Speaker 5>go somewhere that is esthetically inspiring or people are kind

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<v Speaker 5>of like weite noise, like a really cool coffee shop,

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<v Speaker 5>and just sit there by myself and focus. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 5>energizes me for the days where I get to get

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<v Speaker 5>out on the road and be around people, or that

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<v Speaker 5>I am I getting out on the road.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not getting on planes much anymore. It's all local.

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<v Speaker 5>But if I'm going to a site to give a presentation,

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<v Speaker 5>I have so much more energy to give, and then

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<v Speaker 5>I need to retreat back to that isolation and work

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<v Speaker 5>at home and gather myself so it's almost like a

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<v Speaker 5>virtuous cycle for me. But if the environment's wrong or

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<v Speaker 5>the nature of the work is wrong, or the people

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<v Speaker 5>are wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's that's quite difficult. I don't think I'm unique

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<v Speaker 1>in that area.

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<v Speaker 5>Not everybody likes to be on the road, not everybody

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<v Speaker 5>likes to work out of coffee shops. But I think

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<v Speaker 5>the nature of what you're doing, how closely it's tied

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<v Speaker 5>to personal meaning? And who are the people you're working with,

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<v Speaker 5>and do they enliven you or are they people that

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<v Speaker 5>kind of like drag you down and deplete you know mentally.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's a guy's a guy comes to the

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<v Speaker 2>cafe every morning.

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<v Speaker 1>His time's Alex. Let's give a shout out to Alex. Alex.

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<v Speaker 2>Essentially, I'm not very good at this because I might

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<v Speaker 2>fuck up the actual wording. But he he plays the

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<v Speaker 2>stock market or he's like, it's not it's not like casual.

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<v Speaker 2>This is his job, right, So he's all and he

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<v Speaker 2>he lives above the cafe, and he's got a well

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<v Speaker 2>I've never seen it, but they're all very nice. So

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<v Speaker 2>I imagine a beautiful apartment blah blah blah, and he

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<v Speaker 2>would spend I mean, I don't know, but every morning

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<v Speaker 2>when I get there, he's there.

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<v Speaker 1>When I go, he's there. When I walk past, he's there.

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<v Speaker 1>I reckon.

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<v Speaker 2>He spends at least eight hours a day in that cafe.

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<v Speaker 2>He's set up and he's got his breakfast and his

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<v Speaker 2>lunch and his coffees and his mineral waters, and he's

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<v Speaker 2>got his that's his little office.

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<v Speaker 1>And we've spoken about it often. He's like, I'm way

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<v Speaker 1>more productive here in.

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<v Speaker 2>The energy, in the movements, in the background voices, in

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<v Speaker 2>the music, in the there's there's just he goes me

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<v Speaker 2>sitting in a room upstairs. It fucking drives him like

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<v Speaker 2>he's doing the same thing thirty thirty meters away with

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<v Speaker 2>a million distractions, and he's somehow way happier and more

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<v Speaker 2>content and more product So it's such a personal respond thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Cookie, what's your what are your thoughts around

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<v Speaker 2>all this?

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<v Speaker 4>You made me think of when we first went into lockdown,

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<v Speaker 4>and how surprised I was after a couple of weeks

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<v Speaker 4>of realizing how exhausted I was with all of the

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<v Speaker 4>in person interactions and just reflecting on, oh am I

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<v Speaker 4>an extrovert?

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<v Speaker 3>Really? Or am I a little bit introverted? To, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think we can.

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<v Speaker 4>It's easy to lose kind of lose sight of what

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<v Speaker 4>what fills you up and what drains you a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit when you're doing lots of things. And yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like sometimes I can have a day where I

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<v Speaker 4>get to the end of the day, I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>so exhausted, and then I'll flick through in my mind

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<v Speaker 4>what I've done and sometimes judge it and get really

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<v Speaker 4>done anything because so many parts of my job are

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<v Speaker 4>just in joy like everything's enjoyable, or I'm with people,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm people, and I'm like, oh, you shouldn't be tired.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the things I do also every morning at

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<v Speaker 2>the aforementioned cafe is and I mentioned this probably five

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<v Speaker 2>times over a years, but I look at my schedule

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<v Speaker 2>for the day and I used to literally ask myself

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<v Speaker 2>this question, not out loud, but now I just do

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<v Speaker 2>it automatically. But the question is in terms of what

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do be, create and change today, what's

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<v Speaker 2>the best use of my energy and time?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, so I look at all the shit I've got

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<v Speaker 1>to do, I go, Okay, what really matters? What kind

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<v Speaker 1>of matters? And what can wait?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, obviously a podcast can't wait because it's scheduled

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<v Speaker 2>in but I might have to get back to that guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if I get back to him tomorrow, that's all right,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll put it on my list for today. But

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And just that kind of awareness around optimizing and not

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<v Speaker 2>wasting whether it is time or energy or resources or skills.

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<v Speaker 2>But that kind of put me into a more strategic

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<v Speaker 2>kind of place cognitively but also emotionally, in a place

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<v Speaker 2>where I wasn't just wasting, you know, like i'd fucking

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<v Speaker 2>you know, overthink things I'd like when I used to

0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:25.359
<v Speaker 2>have multiple businesses, not surprisingly, but lots of stuff my

0:24:25.680 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 2>mind never fucking shut down and trying to get my

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<v Speaker 2>mind to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be quiet or still or to you know. And it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't just that I was busy, is just that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't good at like my environment, the situation didn't lend

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<v Speaker 2>itself to calm. But also in the middle of all

0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:46.240
<v Speaker 2>of that, I was fucking chaotic, in the middle of

0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:49.480
<v Speaker 2>the chaos. So it's a real skill and it's a

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<v Speaker 2>real exercise in self awareness to actually be able to

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<v Speaker 2>see the space between what I am doing day to

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<v Speaker 2>day on an external level, and then how that is

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<v Speaker 2>impacting me day to day on an internal level. The

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<v Speaker 2>end spoken and authorized by Greig Kapa, Bobby and Tiff

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<v Speaker 2>are just sitting there not in no.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that what you said is just critically important

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<v Speaker 5>because it's so many people today, because everyone's got this platform.

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<v Speaker 5>They're all telling you about how you should work and

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<v Speaker 5>how you should organize your time. What time you need

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<v Speaker 5>to get up in the morning and just do fifteen

0:25:28.480 --> 0:25:30.920
<v Speaker 5>minutes of this, fifteen minutes journaling, fifteen minutes of a

0:25:31.000 --> 0:25:33.679
<v Speaker 5>cold plunge, you know, do forty five minutes of a workout.

0:25:33.840 --> 0:25:35.800
<v Speaker 5>Just do you know, fifteen minutes of journaling. By the

0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:37.480
<v Speaker 5>time you're done, I got to get up at like

0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:39.760
<v Speaker 5>four o'clock in the morning. I'm not going to bed

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<v Speaker 5>until two o'clock in the morning because of all these

0:25:41.840 --> 0:25:44.159
<v Speaker 5>fifteen minute things. Oh but I'm not sure you get

0:25:44.200 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 5>eight out of hours asleep, and it's like a fuck off.

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<v Speaker 5>I think you got to really understand who you are

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<v Speaker 5>and how you optimally function. And then there's the parts

0:25:55.080 --> 0:25:55.840
<v Speaker 5>of your life and.

0:25:55.840 --> 0:25:58.159
<v Speaker 1>Your work that are structured for you. If you're in.

0:25:58.200 --> 0:26:00.240
<v Speaker 5>Meetings all day, you kind of got to show up

0:26:00.280 --> 0:26:02.080
<v Speaker 5>to those you know, you've got clients, you kind of

0:26:02.160 --> 0:26:04.560
<v Speaker 5>have to be there. So for me, that helps me

0:26:04.680 --> 0:26:07.960
<v Speaker 5>get organized. Like if I have meetings in the day, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>well that's pre structured time, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>I have my rituals that you got to be ferocious about.

0:26:14.119 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 1>So you got a walk of time in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>But for me, if I didn't have meetings all day

0:26:19.640 --> 0:26:20.800
<v Speaker 5>to go, okay, well what am I going to do

0:26:20.920 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 5>from ten o'clock to eleven o'clock? And then what's my Actually,

0:26:23.720 --> 0:26:26.800
<v Speaker 5>my brain creatively doesn't work like that. What you just

0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:30.520
<v Speaker 5>said makes a lot of sense. I've got twelve things

0:26:30.760 --> 0:26:34.199
<v Speaker 5>on my to do list, which ten of these can

0:26:34.280 --> 0:26:37.960
<v Speaker 5>I not focus on right now? What are the top

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<v Speaker 5>two for today that have the highest level of consequences

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<v Speaker 5>if they're not done, and you know, the highest level

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<v Speaker 5>of positive impact if they are done. Now added these two,

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 5>what is the best use of my time right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Like right now, what do I need to be working on?

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<v Speaker 5>And obviously, if I'm in my time where my cognitive

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<v Speaker 5>functions not the all between two and five in the afternoon,

0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:05.359
<v Speaker 5>that might change that answer. But I think from me

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<v Speaker 5>going okay, right now, here's the things I need to

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<v Speaker 5>do before I select priorities, let me identify.

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<v Speaker 1>Posteriorities, what I won't do with my time right now.

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<v Speaker 5>What's left over, what's most critical, and then at once

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<v Speaker 5>that's done.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let me reassess.

0:27:23.400 --> 0:27:26.360
<v Speaker 5>If I had every minute of my day blocked out

0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:30.280
<v Speaker 5>in these fifteen minute blocks, I would be so not productive,

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<v Speaker 5>especially on the creative aspects of my work.

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<v Speaker 1>So I love what you said there. It really lands

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking about, like we've spoken about this many times,

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<v Speaker 2>the idea of you know, obviously with the U project,

0:27:46.320 --> 0:27:49.520
<v Speaker 2>my intention behind was that behind that was that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the biggest project I'll have in my life or biggest

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<v Speaker 2>management project is me, my mind, my motions, my choice's,

0:27:56.240 --> 0:28:02.399
<v Speaker 2>behavior's outcomes, et cetera. And I used to with I

0:28:02.480 --> 0:28:06.560
<v Speaker 2>didn't do it initially, but then probably two or three

0:28:06.640 --> 0:28:10.359
<v Speaker 2>years into my personal training career, with nearly all of

0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:13.800
<v Speaker 2>my clients, we worked in twenty eight day blocks, so

0:28:14.520 --> 0:28:17.359
<v Speaker 2>we would every four weeks we would do an assessment,

0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:20.440
<v Speaker 2>and they weren't the same assessments. It was an assessment

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:25.119
<v Speaker 2>relevant to the individual right goals, needs, physiology issues.

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<v Speaker 1>All of that stuff. But what we would do is

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:29.960
<v Speaker 1>we would train.

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<v Speaker 2>We would go through all the stuff and then every

0:28:33.240 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 2>twenty eight days we would reset, re evaluate, talk, try

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:39.640
<v Speaker 2>and get some awareness, hit the pause button and go, Okay,

0:28:39.720 --> 0:28:41.680
<v Speaker 2>this is what we've done for twenty eight days. Is

0:28:41.760 --> 0:28:44.880
<v Speaker 2>what we've achieved or not achieved. Let's change one or

0:28:44.920 --> 0:28:47.400
<v Speaker 2>two variables. Then we talk about the variables, right, and

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:49.800
<v Speaker 2>there might be one food thing, one supplement thing, one

0:28:49.840 --> 0:28:55.680
<v Speaker 2>exercise thing, one lifestyle thing, whatever. I think, you know,

0:28:55.760 --> 0:28:58.840
<v Speaker 2>because people love structure and process, and I think one

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 2>of the things sometimes with this show and lots of shows,

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:04.160
<v Speaker 2>is you get all of this data and all of

0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 2>this information, all of these ideas, and you're like, yeah,

0:29:06.720 --> 0:29:07.960
<v Speaker 2>but where the fuck do I start?

0:29:08.160 --> 0:29:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Where the fuck do I start? And I was talking

0:29:11.120 --> 0:29:13.200
<v Speaker 1>with the Crab last night at the gym. The Crab

0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:14.640
<v Speaker 1>is my training partner, and.

0:29:16.160 --> 0:29:19.840
<v Speaker 2>He said to me, I've like my heart rate, my

0:29:19.920 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 2>resting heart rate, which is usually in the eighties. He said,

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:24.960
<v Speaker 2>it's come down. It's constantly in the sixties now, like

0:29:25.120 --> 0:29:29.480
<v Speaker 2>sixty five sixty three. And he goes, and my blood

0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:33.040
<v Speaker 2>pressure is low, and I go. The problem with the Crab, though,

0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:37.520
<v Speaker 2>is he tries fourteen new things every week. Right, So

0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:40.840
<v Speaker 2>we don't know what's working. He's always adding supplements. And

0:29:41.560 --> 0:29:44.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm not talking about drugs. I'm literally talking about just

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 2>all of the crappy eyes online, which you don't know

0:29:48.360 --> 0:29:49.800
<v Speaker 2>if it works or it doesn't work.

0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:51.120
<v Speaker 1>But he's always But.

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<v Speaker 2>The idea, my idea is, you know, when we try

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.959
<v Speaker 2>to figure out how we work, and we go all right, well,

0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:02.360
<v Speaker 2>his apart from my day to day, my to do list,

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<v Speaker 2>But over the next four weeks, why don't I try

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.800
<v Speaker 2>this with my sleep or whatever, or why don't I

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:13.280
<v Speaker 2>try this with my food and make one or two

0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:17.920
<v Speaker 2>changes that you are absolutely going to know this is working,

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:19.760
<v Speaker 2>this is not working, This is a good.

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:22.920
<v Speaker 1>Idea or bad idea, and then you can build on that.

0:30:23.480 --> 0:30:26.479
<v Speaker 2>Because when we talk about how do I be more

0:30:26.480 --> 0:30:29.240
<v Speaker 2>efficient with my energy, how do I manage myself better,

0:30:29.280 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 2>how do I optimize my genetics, it's such a massive

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 2>process and project. The very few of us are going

0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 2>to wake up in five years and go, fuck, I'm

0:30:39.480 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 2>incredibly improved and better and magically somehow. But I think

0:30:43.560 --> 0:30:48.240
<v Speaker 2>that idea of going well, I'm constantly tired. I'm a

0:30:48.320 --> 0:30:52.720
<v Speaker 2>bit of an overthinker. I really struggle with anxiety. Here's

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:56.640
<v Speaker 2>maybe one thing that I will do absolutely every day

0:30:56.800 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 2>for twenty eight days to maybe help find some calm

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:07.080
<v Speaker 2>because or to find some joy, or to you know,

0:31:07.200 --> 0:31:10.040
<v Speaker 2>whatever it is. I just think that that idea of

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 2>actually being a little bit scientific, even if you're not

0:31:14.000 --> 0:31:16.680
<v Speaker 2>a scientist. You don't need to be sciencey, but just go,

0:31:17.000 --> 0:31:19.240
<v Speaker 2>what's one thing that I can change? Because your body

0:31:19.320 --> 0:31:22.080
<v Speaker 2>will tell you. Your nervous system will tell you, your

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 2>energy levels will tell you.

0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>And so for people listening, go where the fuck do

0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:32.440
<v Speaker 2>I start? Make a calculated, intelligent decision. This is a suggestion,

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 2>and change one thing or two things, and don't unchange

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:41.160
<v Speaker 2>it unless you get really adverse response, and then just

0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:43.200
<v Speaker 2>see what happens, because you might find a thing that

0:31:43.280 --> 0:31:46.080
<v Speaker 2>you go, fuck, I'm I'm five percent better when I

0:31:46.160 --> 0:31:49.400
<v Speaker 2>do this. Cool Now next month, build on that. What

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<v Speaker 2>are your thoughts on that, Tiff?

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<v Speaker 4>I have been doing that the last couple of years,

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<v Speaker 4>with the with my energy and my hormone changes and

0:31:57.480 --> 0:32:04.000
<v Speaker 4>HIT and the supplements, and even with the suboptimal usually

0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 4>advice from doctors when I'm given like when I was

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:10.400
<v Speaker 4>put on HRT, I wasn't directed properly on how to

0:32:10.520 --> 0:32:13.880
<v Speaker 4>use the body stuff or what each substance was doing.

0:32:14.120 --> 0:32:18.160
<v Speaker 4>And so recently I had progesterone increased and then I

0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:22.280
<v Speaker 4>had side effects from it, and then I had to

0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 4>go and research myself, and then I had to figure

0:32:24.920 --> 0:32:27.680
<v Speaker 4>out and on top of that, I've looked at supplements.

0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:29.880
<v Speaker 4>So I've got a lot of fatigue lately. So now

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:34.040
<v Speaker 4>I've started having to write down the days that I'm

0:32:34.080 --> 0:32:36.360
<v Speaker 4>feeling tired to see if it's cyclical, if it's happening

0:32:36.400 --> 0:32:38.560
<v Speaker 4>at the same time each month, because it looks like

0:32:38.640 --> 0:32:40.160
<v Speaker 4>it might be, but I forget because I've got the

0:32:40.240 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 4>mind of bloody rabbit.

0:32:42.560 --> 0:32:43.840
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I'm doing it all the time.

0:32:43.960 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 4>And now I've had to remove a one of my

0:32:46.480 --> 0:32:50.000
<v Speaker 4>sleep supplements that works really well at when I'm taking

0:32:50.120 --> 0:32:52.480
<v Speaker 4>progesterone because I think it's too much because I take

0:32:52.480 --> 0:32:54.640
<v Speaker 4>Gabbat and gab is amazing for me. I go straight

0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:57.720
<v Speaker 4>to sleep, but I'm waking up tired and heavy in

0:32:57.880 --> 0:33:01.080
<v Speaker 4>the second half of my cycle when I'm taping progesterone.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Yeah, I mean, how fucking interesting is that? And thinking,

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:09.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, like whether or not you understand your body

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 2>or your mind or your behaviors or whatever.

0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 1>Everyone's got a body.

0:33:12.800 --> 0:33:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Everyone's got a nervous system, everybody's got a hormone or

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:19.160
<v Speaker 2>an endocrime system. Everybody's got a respiratory in a cardiovasculars

0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:21.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, like we're all the sat we're all different,

0:33:21.480 --> 0:33:23.880
<v Speaker 2>but we've all got the same bits kind of and

0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:25.440
<v Speaker 2>then we've all got a mind, and we've all got

0:33:25.480 --> 0:33:27.240
<v Speaker 2>a background. We've all got a bit of trauma, we've

0:33:27.240 --> 0:33:29.479
<v Speaker 2>all got a bit of excitement, we've all got goals.

0:33:30.040 --> 0:33:32.360
<v Speaker 2>But it's trying to you know, especially on a show

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:37.479
<v Speaker 2>which is essentially about self optimization on some level, right

0:33:37.960 --> 0:33:41.479
<v Speaker 2>then you know, to start to get a little bit

0:33:41.560 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 2>strategic and even as we've said many times, to record it,

0:33:45.680 --> 0:33:47.560
<v Speaker 2>to diarize it, and then go, well when I do this,

0:33:47.880 --> 0:33:48.720
<v Speaker 2>what's the outcome?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? No change?

0:33:50.400 --> 0:33:53.120
<v Speaker 2>Cool, Well maybe you can fuck that off when you do,

0:33:53.360 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, like when I started, simplest protocol of all time,

0:33:57.160 --> 0:34:01.200
<v Speaker 2>walk ten thousand steps a day, don't stop, don't do

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:03.600
<v Speaker 2>it three days, don't go hey, world, I'm doing then

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:06.480
<v Speaker 2>fucking give up. So since the day I started, which

0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 2>is probably twenty months ago, I haven't missed one day

0:34:08.680 --> 0:34:12.680
<v Speaker 2>in twenty months. And overall for me, I couldn't really quantify,

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:16.160
<v Speaker 2>but I'm just going to say better better brain, better

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:18.840
<v Speaker 2>energy generally speaking, except when I don't take my B

0:34:19.080 --> 0:34:25.319
<v Speaker 2>twelve because I'm fuck an idiot, yeah, Bobby, Or in.

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<v Speaker 5>All seriousness, I've always wanted to be a shift worker.

0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:29.800
<v Speaker 5>I know it's really bad for you, but I've always

0:34:29.840 --> 0:34:32.120
<v Speaker 5>wanted to just like sleep all day and work at

0:34:32.200 --> 0:34:33.080
<v Speaker 5>night and just see what the.

0:34:33.080 --> 0:34:33.759
<v Speaker 1>Impact would be.

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<v Speaker 5>Really Yeah, yeah, I know it's the worst thing you

0:34:39.040 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 5>could possibly do, and there's a lot of issues associated

0:34:42.480 --> 0:34:44.839
<v Speaker 5>with shift work, but I've done it a couple of times.

0:34:44.960 --> 0:34:46.960
<v Speaker 1>So when I was younger and I was working security

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:47.759
<v Speaker 1>in New York.

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<v Speaker 5>This is prior to like getting into that fitness industry,

0:34:51.200 --> 0:34:53.520
<v Speaker 5>I was like eighteen years old, and a lot of

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:55.960
<v Speaker 5>times I would do the overnight shift and I loved it.

0:34:56.160 --> 0:35:00.440
<v Speaker 1>There was just something about it. I just love hours

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>of the day.

0:35:00.840 --> 0:35:02.680
<v Speaker 5>When the rest of the world seems like it's sleeping,

0:35:03.640 --> 0:35:06.360
<v Speaker 5>like early early in the morning, four or five o'clock

0:35:06.400 --> 0:35:06.920
<v Speaker 5>in the morning.

0:35:07.320 --> 0:35:09.840
<v Speaker 1>I just love that. I look forward to that every

0:35:09.960 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 1>day and then like twelve one o'clock in the morning.

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:14.760
<v Speaker 1>It's brilliant.

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<v Speaker 5>So I just I always wanted to experiment with that

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:19.960
<v Speaker 5>for a few months just to feel what that's like.

0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:23.680
<v Speaker 5>I probably feel like shit, but for me, there's something

0:35:24.640 --> 0:35:30.440
<v Speaker 5>very quiet, very self organizing, you know, just very peaceful

0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:31.879
<v Speaker 5>about that time.

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<v Speaker 1>That is such a weird comment, but I'm interested.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I did not expect you to say that

0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:41.760
<v Speaker 2>at all, like and simultaneously say, I know it's terrible

0:35:41.840 --> 0:35:45.839
<v Speaker 2>for you, but I would love to do this thing. Yeah,

0:35:45.880 --> 0:35:49.120
<v Speaker 2>I have no desire to do that. Could you imagine

0:35:49.200 --> 0:35:52.560
<v Speaker 2>the fucking nightmare that you and I would be? Oh

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:59.880
<v Speaker 2>oh oh yeah, But I do understand that nighttime stillness

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:02.000
<v Speaker 2>and space and serenity.

0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.600
<v Speaker 1>Bobby, where you're just like, oh, I love this time

0:36:04.719 --> 0:36:07.920
<v Speaker 1>of the day. It's brilliant.

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:11.080
<v Speaker 5>And even when you know, we went to Rinkopec and

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:15.279
<v Speaker 5>you had like three hours a day late maybe kind

0:36:15.320 --> 0:36:17.560
<v Speaker 5>of like one hour of twilight and the rest of

0:36:17.560 --> 0:36:20.120
<v Speaker 5>the time it was doc I just love the way

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:20.560
<v Speaker 5>that felt.

0:36:21.440 --> 0:36:21.800
<v Speaker 4>Hmm.

0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Well, Iceland's pretty fucking beautiful as well. Oh my god,

0:36:28.000 --> 0:36:30.640
<v Speaker 1>that that was one of the most magical places I've

0:36:30.640 --> 0:36:31.520
<v Speaker 1>ever been in my life.

0:36:32.080 --> 0:36:37.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, if you put your little finger up

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:39.080
<v Speaker 2>in there, please share. Yeah.

0:36:39.120 --> 0:36:42.320
<v Speaker 4>So I've got a friend who we do little voice notes.

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:44.800
<v Speaker 4>Here's more like a podcast to me over a messenger

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:47.680
<v Speaker 4>shout out to VICKI, But it's like catching up with

0:36:47.760 --> 0:36:49.560
<v Speaker 4>a friend when you don't have time to get on

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 4>the phone and catch up with a friend. So she'll

0:36:51.120 --> 0:36:53.000
<v Speaker 4>drop me a voice note about things going on in

0:36:53.080 --> 0:36:54.799
<v Speaker 4>their life, and I'll do the same when I have time.

0:36:54.880 --> 0:36:57.960
<v Speaker 4>And it's awesome. She in the one that she left

0:36:58.000 --> 0:37:01.319
<v Speaker 4>me yesterday. She happened to be thinking about me coming

0:37:01.440 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 4>back from holiday, She goes, what have you? I was

0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:06.920
<v Speaker 4>thinking about you and India and are you going away again?

0:37:07.040 --> 0:37:09.440
<v Speaker 4>Like you just had such great energy and what was

0:37:09.520 --> 0:37:13.359
<v Speaker 4>that all about? And I was thinking about at Christmas time,

0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 4>I put I replayed an old episode of one of

0:37:16.600 --> 0:37:20.120
<v Speaker 4>my guests, and I listened to it, and I was

0:37:20.200 --> 0:37:22.400
<v Speaker 4>talking about the year before when I went to Vietnam,

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:26.080
<v Speaker 4>and I spoke about and I don't recall this now,

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:29.840
<v Speaker 4>but I spoke about Vietnam almost as passionately as I

0:37:29.960 --> 0:37:32.359
<v Speaker 4>felt when I came back from India. And it made

0:37:32.440 --> 0:37:36.520
<v Speaker 4>me realize how much or how important is for me

0:37:36.760 --> 0:37:41.560
<v Speaker 4>to disconnect and to go to places that are unfamiliar

0:37:42.000 --> 0:37:47.000
<v Speaker 4>and beautiful and around different people, but also how that

0:37:47.360 --> 0:37:50.800
<v Speaker 4>reset so when we're in the him malayas it resets

0:37:50.840 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 4>your circadian rhythm because by eight o'clock we eat food

0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:57.000
<v Speaker 4>around the campfire, and by eight o'clock I would sneak

0:37:57.040 --> 0:37:58.520
<v Speaker 4>off and go get in my tent and I would

0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:00.440
<v Speaker 4>go to sleep, and I would wake up, and I

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:01.880
<v Speaker 4>would get up and I would walk and wait for

0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:05.719
<v Speaker 4>everyone to wake up. Like your body finds the rhythm again,

0:38:05.800 --> 0:38:08.359
<v Speaker 4>because my head's not busy thinking and doing.

0:38:08.520 --> 0:38:11.960
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I think when you get away from the

0:38:12.040 --> 0:38:14.960
<v Speaker 2>thing that you spend most of your time in the

0:38:15.040 --> 0:38:19.160
<v Speaker 2>middle of, be that geographically, socially, professionally, but all of

0:38:19.200 --> 0:38:23.280
<v Speaker 2>a sudden, it's you in a part of the world

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:24.919
<v Speaker 2>or country or whatever.

0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:27.800
<v Speaker 1>Where this is not your place, but fuck, this place

0:38:27.960 --> 0:38:32.120
<v Speaker 1>is good. Yeah, like this is yeah. Yeah, I think

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:35.080
<v Speaker 1>when you're in the middle of that, the continuity.

0:38:34.480 --> 0:38:37.440
<v Speaker 2>Of the day to day, the groundhog dayanus of our existence,

0:38:38.000 --> 0:38:41.600
<v Speaker 2>when you're just kind of in that flow or that momentum,

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:44.759
<v Speaker 2>swimming to the side of the river and getting out

0:38:44.880 --> 0:38:48.080
<v Speaker 2>of that and finding some space in a different space

0:38:49.480 --> 0:38:50.440
<v Speaker 2>is not always.

0:38:50.200 --> 0:38:50.719
<v Speaker 1>Easy to do.

0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:54.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And you realize how some of the.

0:38:56.000 --> 0:38:58.880
<v Speaker 4>Small things that don't matter we turn into things that

0:38:59.040 --> 0:39:01.560
<v Speaker 4>matter or we have to control too much in our lives.

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.880
<v Speaker 4>I remember they would our lunch every day in India

0:39:05.200 --> 0:39:09.200
<v Speaker 4>and it would be a really like sometimes a sandwich

0:39:09.280 --> 0:39:12.000
<v Speaker 4>of whitebread sandwich with plastic cheese and shit. And it

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:14.919
<v Speaker 4>was if you handed me that now, I would throw

0:39:14.960 --> 0:39:16.719
<v Speaker 4>it at you and go, I'm putting name in my body.

0:39:16.760 --> 0:39:19.759
<v Speaker 4>That is grossest thing ever. We would get to lunchtime

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:22.840
<v Speaker 4>and that was the most beautiful gift. I appreciated it

0:39:22.960 --> 0:39:26.759
<v Speaker 4>and I enjoyed it because my cup was full from

0:39:26.840 --> 0:39:28.960
<v Speaker 4>other things. I wasn't trying to fill my cup with

0:39:29.920 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 4>brownie or I was over control. I need to control this,

0:39:35.200 --> 0:39:36.560
<v Speaker 4>I need to put this in my body. It was

0:39:36.640 --> 0:39:38.640
<v Speaker 4>just like, have a fucking sandwich, mate.

0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:39.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:39:39.520 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 2>Do you think there's an inverse correlation between your spiritual

0:39:42.560 --> 0:39:44.040
<v Speaker 2>state and your brownie consumption?

0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:52.960
<v Speaker 1>Bobby? I feel like you are in your happy place,

0:39:53.760 --> 0:39:56.120
<v Speaker 1>and it varies a bit. There's peaks and troughs.

0:39:56.239 --> 0:40:01.160
<v Speaker 2>But when you're around people you love and and you're

0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:04.400
<v Speaker 2>on stage, or you're at a conference, or you're at

0:40:04.400 --> 0:40:07.400
<v Speaker 2>an event and things are going great and you're flying,

0:40:07.520 --> 0:40:09.839
<v Speaker 2>which is most of the time, I feel like that's

0:40:09.960 --> 0:40:10.919
<v Speaker 2>you going.

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 1>This is my purpose.

0:40:12.120 --> 0:40:15.640
<v Speaker 2>My purpose is to teach and inspire and help and

0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:19.160
<v Speaker 2>support and empower people to be I feel like that's

0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:24.399
<v Speaker 2>that's your optimal energy giver almost yeah.

0:40:24.920 --> 0:40:33.319
<v Speaker 5>Learning, yeah, teaching, rating, traveling planner, playing with ideas, being

0:40:33.400 --> 0:40:36.720
<v Speaker 5>around people that engage me. Absolutely, that is my happy

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:40.040
<v Speaker 5>place them. I plug in to those value sets, the

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:41.399
<v Speaker 5>happier and more fluid am.

0:40:42.320 --> 0:40:43.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I remember talking to them.

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:45.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't know who it was, maybe body or someone

0:40:46.040 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 2>about you and back in the day when you spend

0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:50.960
<v Speaker 2>about seven hundred days on the.

0:40:51.040 --> 0:40:56.319
<v Speaker 1>Road a year and we're like, how does this motherfucker?

0:40:56.600 --> 0:40:59.400
<v Speaker 1>And it's like at the end, you're better than you

0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:04.680
<v Speaker 1>were at the stop. It's like you're jorgonized. Yeah, right,

0:41:04.800 --> 0:41:06.359
<v Speaker 1>when I was constantly on the road.

0:41:06.440 --> 0:41:09.000
<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's exhausting when you get off a plane,

0:41:09.360 --> 0:41:12.080
<v Speaker 5>especially a red eye, because I cannot sleep on a

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 5>plane to save my life. So that day I'm just

0:41:15.320 --> 0:41:19.759
<v Speaker 5>walking around like I've been lobotomized. But once I get

0:41:19.840 --> 0:41:22.680
<v Speaker 5>some sleep and I get into that rhythm, I have

0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 5>more energy flying around the world than I do waking

0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:29.480
<v Speaker 5>up in the same place and having a structured environment

0:41:29.680 --> 0:41:33.080
<v Speaker 5>day in day out, because that becomes a ritual in

0:41:33.200 --> 0:41:35.359
<v Speaker 5>and of itself, and it's just all of these things

0:41:35.440 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 5>that feed me. Although lately, and I don't know if

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:42.760
<v Speaker 5>this is a consequence of how my environment has changed,

0:41:44.160 --> 0:41:46.520
<v Speaker 5>Like I don't want to say join COVID but towards

0:41:46.560 --> 0:41:52.239
<v Speaker 5>the end of COVID to now, or if I'm changing intrinsically,

0:41:53.200 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 5>but I feel like I get more of a reward

0:41:56.680 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 5>from teaching small groups, not be on that stage, but

0:42:01.400 --> 0:42:05.440
<v Speaker 5>training and developing other people to be on that stage,

0:42:05.920 --> 0:42:07.759
<v Speaker 5>to be in that coaching appointment.

0:42:08.800 --> 0:42:11.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that drives me more than being the

0:42:11.800 --> 0:42:13.400
<v Speaker 1>person on stage myself. Lately.

0:42:14.080 --> 0:42:17.839
<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's because in those more intimate scenarios where it's

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:19.840
<v Speaker 2>you and ten people in a room or thirty or

0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:26.080
<v Speaker 2>five or whatever, there's more connection, there's more intimacy, there's

0:42:26.200 --> 0:42:29.719
<v Speaker 2>more I don't know, I feel like you're you're not

0:42:29.840 --> 0:42:35.160
<v Speaker 2>really delivering something, You're just connecting with people and interacting

0:42:35.239 --> 0:42:39.040
<v Speaker 2>with people. And like I think that, I think the

0:42:39.200 --> 0:42:42.200
<v Speaker 2>energy is very different in that situation to standing on

0:42:42.280 --> 0:42:47.920
<v Speaker 2>a stage being not performative but essentially doing a performance

0:42:48.000 --> 0:42:51.200
<v Speaker 2>or giving a speech, or where you can't be too

0:42:51.440 --> 0:42:55.560
<v Speaker 2>organic because you've got to get a job done. Yeah,

0:42:56.600 --> 0:43:00.239
<v Speaker 2>I think for me, one of the nicest compliments I've

0:43:00.360 --> 0:43:02.680
<v Speaker 2>ever gotten, and I know TIV has, and I'm sure

0:43:02.760 --> 0:43:06.480
<v Speaker 2>you have. But it is when people say I love

0:43:06.560 --> 0:43:08.880
<v Speaker 2>being around you, I love your energy. When I go

0:43:09.040 --> 0:43:13.440
<v Speaker 2>away from you, I feel more energized. And that's I

0:43:13.600 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 2>don't mean that sounds self indulgent or arrogant or because

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:19.080
<v Speaker 2>doesn't get set a lot by the way, most people

0:43:19.120 --> 0:43:20.640
<v Speaker 2>are like your account, how do I get.

0:43:20.560 --> 0:43:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Out of here?

0:43:21.360 --> 0:43:27.879
<v Speaker 2>But those few yeah, yeah, yeah, oh you're welcome, thanks Dave.

0:43:28.920 --> 0:43:33.560
<v Speaker 2>But it's like, you know, like you know people sorry,

0:43:33.840 --> 0:43:37.239
<v Speaker 2>you know tif that people love being around you, like

0:43:37.880 --> 0:43:40.560
<v Speaker 2>you're like even the groups that you teach you your

0:43:40.600 --> 0:43:44.200
<v Speaker 2>training groups where you smash people, like nobody is coming

0:43:44.280 --> 0:43:48.080
<v Speaker 2>because it's fun. It's fucking horrible and you're a fucking

0:43:48.320 --> 0:43:53.239
<v Speaker 2>monster and take my money right, Well that's because of

0:43:53.360 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 2>your energy. Yeah, like that's And also it's not like, oh,

0:43:57.239 --> 0:43:59.600
<v Speaker 2>there are no other training groups in Melbourne, or there

0:43:59.640 --> 0:44:03.160
<v Speaker 2>are no other gyms. Well, they're a fucking million and

0:44:03.280 --> 0:44:05.719
<v Speaker 2>in the middle of all of that, and it's not

0:44:05.920 --> 0:44:09.719
<v Speaker 2>like you're training in a seven million dollar complex. It's

0:44:09.760 --> 0:44:14.040
<v Speaker 2>not like you're at the AIS with unlimited resources. It's

0:44:14.160 --> 0:44:18.600
<v Speaker 2>just old school fucking brutality mixed with a bit of

0:44:18.760 --> 0:44:21.719
<v Speaker 2>sociology and a few laughs and a bit of silliness.

0:44:21.840 --> 0:44:24.000
<v Speaker 2>But because you care about them and you love them,

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:28.839
<v Speaker 2>they'd love being around you, Like for me, if you can,

0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:33.520
<v Speaker 2>if people want to be around you, just amongst other things,

0:44:33.640 --> 0:44:37.960
<v Speaker 2>but primarily because like your energy is great. That's a

0:44:38.040 --> 0:44:40.800
<v Speaker 2>fucking gift. And there are some people that I know

0:44:40.960 --> 0:44:44.440
<v Speaker 2>it's like in I mean this with total respect, but

0:44:44.520 --> 0:44:49.520
<v Speaker 2>there's nothing really majorly spectacular about them where you would go, oh,

0:44:49.640 --> 0:44:52.600
<v Speaker 2>she's a world class singer, or he played for fucking

0:44:52.760 --> 0:44:55.800
<v Speaker 2>the New York Jets or whatever it is, right, but

0:44:55.960 --> 0:44:59.120
<v Speaker 2>you just know when you're around them, it's fucking good,

0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:00.640
<v Speaker 2>Like it's not.

0:45:01.239 --> 0:45:03.080
<v Speaker 1>There are some people that being around them.

0:45:03.160 --> 0:45:05.640
<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh my god, it's like wading through fucking

0:45:05.760 --> 0:45:09.359
<v Speaker 2>social quicksand God bless. And then there are other people

0:45:09.480 --> 0:45:11.960
<v Speaker 2>that're just like, fuck, I just want to bask in this.

0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:16.920
<v Speaker 2>This makes me and it's nothing particular that happens. I

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:20.040
<v Speaker 2>just walk away going I'd like to hang out with you.

0:45:20.600 --> 0:45:23.959
<v Speaker 2>Like it's like almost a fucking you know, a little

0:45:24.120 --> 0:45:25.200
<v Speaker 2>human pick me up?

0:45:25.320 --> 0:45:29.120
<v Speaker 1>What's that? What's the drug Prozac? It's like a fucking

0:45:29.280 --> 0:45:30.799
<v Speaker 1>human prozac sitting.

0:45:30.600 --> 0:45:35.560
<v Speaker 4>Down with energy is so important and it I was

0:45:35.600 --> 0:45:38.239
<v Speaker 4>talking about it with someone recently, like just the you

0:45:38.400 --> 0:45:42.760
<v Speaker 4>have to be so aware of it because the difference

0:45:42.840 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 4>between me when I am burnt out and aiming to

0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:50.920
<v Speaker 4>do what especially given the things that I do, is

0:45:51.280 --> 0:45:54.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm a different person if I'm well slept and I

0:45:54.120 --> 0:45:56.800
<v Speaker 4>have good energy. But you have to, I mean eventually

0:45:56.960 --> 0:45:59.840
<v Speaker 4>in your life apparently you have to realize that the

0:46:00.160 --> 0:46:02.520
<v Speaker 4>energy is not endless and you need to nurture it

0:46:02.520 --> 0:46:04.319
<v Speaker 4>and you need to do the right things like when

0:46:04.320 --> 0:46:08.960
<v Speaker 4>you're young that was an all the time stayed yes.

0:46:09.360 --> 0:46:13.400
<v Speaker 2>And also being knowing now as a full ass alleged

0:46:13.440 --> 0:46:17.239
<v Speaker 2>grown up going I should probably not have this meeting

0:46:17.320 --> 0:46:20.360
<v Speaker 2>today every now and then, I should probably not do

0:46:20.520 --> 0:46:22.799
<v Speaker 2>these two sessions because I'm a two out of ten

0:46:23.760 --> 0:46:26.799
<v Speaker 2>and I'm definitely not going to be amazing to be here,

0:46:26.880 --> 0:46:28.719
<v Speaker 2>and not that you need to be amazing, but it's like,

0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:31.960
<v Speaker 2>I know that I can't do my best for this person.

0:46:32.600 --> 0:46:34.680
<v Speaker 1>So I'll pull the pin.

0:46:35.719 --> 0:46:38.600
<v Speaker 2>We better stop, because we've been banging on for over

0:46:39.160 --> 0:46:42.040
<v Speaker 2>for an hour or so. Robert Capuccio dot com is

0:46:42.239 --> 0:46:46.800
<v Speaker 2>Bobby's website. The self help antidote. Of course, is his

0:46:47.200 --> 0:46:51.800
<v Speaker 2>brilliant podcast, Roll with Punches is TIFFs podcast, which is

0:46:51.840 --> 0:46:55.399
<v Speaker 2>well over a thousand episodes. She is in rare air,

0:46:55.640 --> 0:46:59.880
<v Speaker 2>She's just fucking flying, and she's off to talk to

0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:04.839
<v Speaker 2>the masses in Queensland next Thursday with a stowaway.

0:47:05.280 --> 0:47:07.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. How do you feel about the stowaway?

0:47:08.080 --> 0:47:11.920
<v Speaker 2>Is that? I feel like the stowaway could be a

0:47:11.960 --> 0:47:14.480
<v Speaker 2>fucking distraction. I don't know that he's going to be

0:47:14.560 --> 0:47:16.560
<v Speaker 2>particularly valuable, but who knows.

0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:19.320
<v Speaker 3>He's not coming for the entire event.

0:47:19.480 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 4>And as my speaker coach Jack mentioned on Facebook, he's

0:47:25.000 --> 0:47:28.239
<v Speaker 4>probably going to be better at reenacting this beautiful blowwave

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:30.560
<v Speaker 4>that the hairdresser gave me yesterday than I would.

0:47:30.640 --> 0:47:34.120
<v Speaker 3>So he might redeem himself. He might might be handy.

0:47:34.320 --> 0:47:36.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh you mean he's going to do your hair up there?

0:47:36.760 --> 0:47:39.000
<v Speaker 4>I reckon, I reckon. I've got to go to a

0:47:39.080 --> 0:47:44.000
<v Speaker 4>gala ball mate. I went frock shopping today, just saying, what.

0:47:44.200 --> 0:47:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Did you buy a frock? I did? Oh? Fuck? Describe

0:47:47.960 --> 0:47:49.640
<v Speaker 1>that to Robert Nye? What is this frock?

0:47:49.800 --> 0:47:50.040
<v Speaker 2>Mate?

0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:51.280
<v Speaker 1>It is listeners.

0:47:51.360 --> 0:47:54.440
<v Speaker 3>It is sequenced, all sequenced. I love it. I love

0:47:54.520 --> 0:47:55.760
<v Speaker 3>a good sequence. Got split.

0:47:55.840 --> 0:47:58.240
<v Speaker 2>I bet it's got the shoulders cut out so everyone

0:47:58.360 --> 0:48:00.440
<v Speaker 2>can see your fucking massive debts, hasn't it? No?

0:48:00.560 --> 0:48:01.439
<v Speaker 3>Do you want to know a story?

0:48:01.520 --> 0:48:04.160
<v Speaker 4>Though this has happened on multiple occasions, Shout out to

0:48:04.239 --> 0:48:07.439
<v Speaker 4>the fitness, fitness, the fashion designers out there, who was shit?

0:48:08.360 --> 0:48:10.280
<v Speaker 4>Or do you have any times I have gotten Oliver

0:48:10.440 --> 0:48:13.480
<v Speaker 4>almost died in the change rooms at Mayas because you

0:48:13.600 --> 0:48:16.040
<v Speaker 4>put a dress on and then you go to take

0:48:16.120 --> 0:48:18.880
<v Speaker 4>it off and my laps won't come out because there's no.

0:48:19.000 --> 0:48:19.520
<v Speaker 3>Zip or anything.

0:48:19.560 --> 0:48:21.319
<v Speaker 4>You slip it over your head and then you've got

0:48:21.400 --> 0:48:23.200
<v Speaker 4>to get back off and I'm like, I'm never and

0:48:23.239 --> 0:48:25.520
<v Speaker 4>then sometimes I actually am sitting there.

0:48:25.640 --> 0:48:29.080
<v Speaker 3>I sit for five minutes kind of panicking.

0:48:28.760 --> 0:48:31.360
<v Speaker 4>Going, well, what now what do I do with this

0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:35.440
<v Speaker 4>dress worth hundreds of dollars that I am now stuck

0:48:35.520 --> 0:48:37.280
<v Speaker 4>in m That's.

0:48:37.120 --> 0:48:38.120
<v Speaker 1>Why I address this.

0:48:38.760 --> 0:48:41.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just put your tracksuit over the top and stroll

0:48:41.440 --> 0:48:44.000
<v Speaker 2>right out. That's what Bobby does. That's how he gets

0:48:44.040 --> 0:48:47.920
<v Speaker 2>his free dresses. I might suggest if that perhaps you

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<v Speaker 2>are the problem, not the dressmakers, because you are an.

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<v Speaker 1>Anomaly, you know from the back. Well I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>total dude, but well, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, until I started, you harps and then my left

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<v Speaker 3>I am.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem creator Bobby. Enjoy that wine and thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>coming to play. We'll say goodbye Affair, of course, but

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<v Speaker 2>TIV thank you for listeners. Sorry about that. We'll try

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<v Speaker 2>harder next time.