WEBVTT - WHY YOU SO OBSESSED WITH ME? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.640 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:04.360 she How do. 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:07.360 I put this? Isn't a fan of my kissing style. 0:00:08.360 --> 0:00:11.119 Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in a 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:13.880 trash bin. He's non recyclable. Catching them up. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:17.239 I love being love. I love love. 0:00:17.880 --> 0:00:20.360 On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we will 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.520 be telling you how to make your crush obsessed with you. 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:26.160 You should always be your true, authentic self, but try 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:29.560 these little tips and psychological tricks to get your next crush. 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:32.559 Keen on you two stick around to hear some toxic 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:36.320 and non toxic ways to master the law of attraction. 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:42.720 Where's Your Head At. 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:46.960 Is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:49.479 trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:52.479 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:58.600 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:03.160 That is one large coffee or drinking this morning? You're 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:04.160 feeling extra tired? 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:06.600 Yeah I am, but a big boy needs a big coffee, 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:11.479 I reckon. Thanks for pointing out. Is it a big 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:13.039 cup or is it a small hand or is. 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:16.959 It a Oh my god? The comfort the self compliments 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:18.920 have started already. How are you this morning? 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:21.360 Well, let's cut the formalities. Anna, let's cut the little 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:24.839 chit chat. I'm not in a good place, goes away 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:28.360 on Friday and she has no like this is the one. 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:29.160 This is a big one. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:32.320 So this is the one where she has no service, 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:35.119 Like she can't message you. No, I still can't wrap 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:36.880 my head around that, Like how are we living in 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:37.800 this day and age? 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:39.280 And she's gonna have no reception. 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:44.200 Well, she's tracking the Larapinter Trail for the Hunger Project charity. 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:47.840 So she's raised five grand and they're going to walk 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:48.840 the larap Inter Trail. 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:51.360 Good, what a great thing to do. 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:54.680 Fifteen kilometers a day. They're camping out under the stars. 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:57.240 They're really like it's a real like come to Jesus 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:58.800 sort of black time, you know what I mean? 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:00.559 Was she doing it with her work? 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:03.440 So the Hunger Project is with lack to Cuba, who 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:05.600 she works for, and they like they take all the 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:07.600 staff on this side. 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:08.880 So is this compulsory? 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:13.200 No, it's not. She doesn't have to do this, no, no, no, 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:15.480 which is random as well. Yeah, so she actually went 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.919 through like they actually not cast, but they interview you 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:20.800 to see like who they're going to take on. You 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:22.600 have to be eligible for it, you have to work 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:25.120 there for three years, so there's like a vigorous like 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:31.080 weeding process to get the pretenders out. Wow. But yeah, 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:33.000 I don't know. I'm gonna have a little bit of 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:35.160 a loane time me time. I won't be able to 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:38.080 contact her. There'll be no cuddle monster, there'll be no Heaven. 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:39.359 It's gonna be a. 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.000 Rough it's gonna be a bleak week. 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:43.880 I'm gonna be And you're away as well, aren't you. 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:46.200 You're in Baly, So I've got both my women away 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:49.760 from me. I'm gonna be fucking I don't know who 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:52.760 I'm going to be venturing to. 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.600 Go to be like rocking in the corner by the 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:54.920 end of the week, being. 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:57.320 Like what's happening, Mickey's on night duty. I'm fucked. 0:02:57.840 --> 0:03:00.560 You can still contact me. I will be around, like 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:04.040 you know, from certain hours. I mean, no contact with 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:06.760 your partner. That's pretty full on, Like I wouldn't even 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:10.040 be looking like doing that. Absolutely not like that's a 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:12.160 strong note from me, But I mean it's for a 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:12.799 great cause. 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:13.679 Good on her. 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.560 We wish her all the best for the trail, and 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:19.280 I think she's gonna smash it. She's probably gonna come 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:22.920 back absolutely wrecked, like you're gonna be on massage duty. 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:24.560 Don't say that she hears. 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:29.720 This in all serious and speaking about Bali, I am 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:31.840 gonna be in Bali extremely soon. 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:34.400 I am getting. 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:39.400 Really clean and attached to Michael because I know that 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:41.440 I'm not going to be with him soon. So, like 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:44.960 we have become obsessed with each other. Like we literally 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:47.440 will like lie on the couch and just be cuddling 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:50.560 at each other, really tired and like you know. 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:52.040 Like all of that cringey stuff. 0:03:52.080 --> 0:03:54.240 Like we're just like obsessed at the moment, like we're 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:55.119 peaking at a ten. 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:57.200 I don't know if I do that, I'm probably the opficite. 0:03:57.200 --> 0:04:01.600 I'll probably distance myself to get ready for it, like 0:04:01.720 --> 0:04:05.200 to get ready for that that's toxic. Well it helps 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:07.640 me survive, So I don't know. If that's toxic, then 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:08.320 I'm toxic. 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:11.240 Well look on that note, I think it's time to 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.680 talk about how to make people obsessed with you in 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:21.080 a toxic and a non toxic way. Let's do it, Okay, Matt, 0:04:21.160 --> 0:04:23.400 you know the reason why we're doing this episode, and 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:27.440 it's because one of my friends who's single is having 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:30.640 a really tough time at the moment dating, Like. 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:34.120 We remember how shit it was dating, Oh suck. 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:38.120 You know, She's just gone through this kind of like 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:41.880 weird like situation where she's feeling a little bit heartbroken 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:43.960 and she was like, you know what I need, Anna, 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:47.240 I just need a guy to be obsessed with me. 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.200 How do I make a guy obsessed with you? 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:51.200 And I was like, you know what, this is a 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:53.880 great episode for a podcast and we want to hear 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:55.400 a male perspective of this. 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:57.280 So we're going to ask. 0:04:57.120 --> 0:05:00.920 You, Matt, just tell us what makes the guy obsessed 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:01.320 with you? 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:03.239 Do you want the long answer or the short answer? 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:06.080 Give us, give us it all any details out? 0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:10.080 Okay, So what makes me obsessed with the girl? I 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:12.920 like a girl that's like, I like a girl's confident. 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:13.800 I love that. 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:14.719 Love confidence. 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:17.359 Yeah, confidence is key. So like if they're like coming 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:20.480 in confident and like they know what they've got, Like 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:23.320 I'm sucker for that. Like, yeah, sucker for that. 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:25.520 So you think, like fake it till you make it. 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:28.960 So if you are feeling insecure, just like you know. 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:32.800 Like eventually show your vulnerable side. But if this is 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.719 unlike when you first meet someone, yeah, you have to. 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:37.039 I reckon, come across confident. 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:38.479 I'll have a bit of a fake it till you 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:38.880 make it. 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:42.680 Yeah, we'll do it. What else, I don't put a 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:48.839 tight little number on and look to me when you 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:51.080 first meet a girl, Yeah, I think the confidence is key. 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:54.400 Being confident means that, like, also, you're like, you're strong 0:05:54.440 --> 0:05:56.680 and independent, You've got like your whole life going on, 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.240 So you can see that this girl like they have 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:01.479 it going on and they're not relying on you to 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:03.960 help them find themselves sort of thing. So like you're 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:06.800 coming in to this girl's life and you're you know 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:07.200 what I mean. 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:10.280 Yeah, absolutely, So you don't want to feel like if 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:12.400 you sat dating someone and you're on date two, that 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:16.880 you are their whole life. Like like if if you're like, hey, 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:18.400 do you want to catch up, they might be like, oh, 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:20.800 I've got work, Oh i've got plans, Oh I've got 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:21.440 a hobby. 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:25.080 So their life does not revolve around you essentially. 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:26.839 And then in saying that, that can mean that they're 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:29.200 not desperate. So then obviously if someone comes across desperate, 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:30.559 that's a bit of a turn off as well. 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:33.080 Yeah, okay, so someone like shows that they like you 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:35.320 too much. You're like, nah, I've already got you. 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:36.680 Yeah, tapping out. 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:38.880 But in saying that, though, like what happened with Jen 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:41.280 and I where you were like you factuated with each 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:42.720 other straight away and hung out and I was. 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:44.760 Obsessed with But you had six years of four play 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.599 via Instagram likes I did. 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:50.320 I had four years, six years of just fucking yeah, 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:51.360 just like getting. 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:53.800 Rejected just like what if? 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:56.000 Okay, so that makes yeah, that makes sense there, that 0:06:56.040 --> 0:06:58.080 makes sense. But I finally got it. I was there. Yeah, 0:06:58.120 --> 0:06:59.880 so okay, so yeah, keep them in your DM. So 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:00.880 six years. 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:05.719 That's to be cool. Playing the long GWG. 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:08.960 Yeah, Like I think about like me and Michael, like 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:12.400 we were like instantaneously obsessed with each other. But I 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:15.080 actually spoke to Michael and I was like, hey, like 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:18.280 we're doing an episode on like being obsessed with each other, 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:22.080 Like what made you obsess with me? And Michael? The 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:24.520 first thing that he said was your bejas. 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:27.440 I was actually gonna list that, you know, I was 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:30.480 actually gonna say that, but I was like, I don't 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:33.040 I don't think that would be so appropriate straight away 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:35.760 off the bat. But but thank you Michael for bringing 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:37.480 that up. Yes, give a wicked head job. 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:39.920 But then the. 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.760 Second thing that he said, when he was like Nana 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:46.240 in all seriousness, he was like, how much fun we 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:48.760 had together just made me so obsessed with you, because, 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:51.080 like he said, like when he met me, I was 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:55.080 just like in such a carefree kind of like wanting 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:59.040 to have fun, just like grabbing life by both hands 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:01.880 and just being like, let's you know, the world is 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:04.520 our oyster, we can do whatever, and just that positive, 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:07.320 happy type of vibe. And he said that really drew 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:10.520 me to you. So I mean that's what Michael initially 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:15.800 past the BJ found that drew him in. 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:18.440 Do you reckon You were yourself around Michael straightaway? 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:19.280 Yeah? 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:20.840 I think that's so important. 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:21.400 So important. 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:23.680 You never want to put up this like facade of 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:27.360 like I like you, you basically don't want to pretend 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:30.400 to be someone else because you can't continue to be 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:31.960 someone else the. 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:34.880 Whole time, the whole time, like you're Yeah, but like 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:38.320 I felt like I was myself around gen. I felt 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:40.679 like I could be myself and I could, like like 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:43.079 I said, we like chatted till like four or three 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.280 am in the morning, Like I've never done that with 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:47.040 a girl. I'd never been like that with someone like 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:48.200 being truly myself. 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:51.000 Isn't it interesting that with both of our partners at 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:55.280 the moment on our very first day, we actually ended 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:58.040 up like the date was so prolonged and we ended 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.240 up staying up to like three am and the warning 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:02.760 chatting with them. Like I think that's like a strong 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.240 sign if you can just chat to people and like 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:07.440 have fun and enjoy their company. 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:11.840 Like you know, we were both like blind on these dates. 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:14.439 It's still like, I guess we didn't want the date 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.480 to end, so we were like, let's have a few drinks, 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:19.160 let's chat, let's have fun. And I think that is 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:21.600 like a really great sign when you first meet someone. 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:26.080 But in saying that, after our first day, so after 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:28.959 Michael and I's first date, he had messaged me here 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:31.119 and there, like he had replied to some of my stories. 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:33.360 You know, he'd liked a few of my Instagram photos, 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:34.960 which I was all over. I was like, as he 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:37.600 liked it, yet, you know, you know when you first talk. 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:39.920 Or just like oh no, you were posting photos for 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:41.200 him to see if he liked it. 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.320 Yeah, yeah, like you know, you know, like you get like, 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:45.199 I don't know, let's just say you get a thousand 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:47.120 likes and the only one you care about is the 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:48.240 person who you're seeing. 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:49.400 It was like a vat vie Do. 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:51.200 You remember those days? And then you'd see if they'd 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:53.840 viewed your story or not. Oh yeah, stories were like 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:55.440 directly put up for them to see. 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:57.360 Yeah, and then they haven't watched it, and you're like 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:00.240 what are they doing? Oh? 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:04.280 But anyway, after our second date, we had kind of 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:06.720 like had like little bits of interaction here and there, 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:10.400 but I remember he hadn't asked me on a second 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:12.560 date yet, and I was like, that was like the 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:15.800 best date of my life, and like, yes, he's interacted 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.160 with me here and there, but like, why has this 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.720 guy not asked me out on a second date? Like 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:24.000 I'm so confused, Like he was acting obsessed with me, 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:25.480 I was acting obsessed with him. 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:26.960 Was I reading the room wrong? 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:29.000 Then I started to doubt myself and then I was like, no, 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:32.200 I know it was a great date. So I actually 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:36.640 messaged him and I was like I literally said, so 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:39.679 are you taking me out on a second date or what? 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:40.560 Question? 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:42.160 Mark confidence? 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:43.959 And then his. 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:47.800 Response was like I was literally just about to ask you. 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:50.400 I wanted to see if you were free on Thursday, 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:51.800 and I was like, perfect, lock it in. 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:54.240 Do you know why he waited so long? Has he 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:54.760 told you are? 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:55.440 Yeah? 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:58.880 So he was like he was under the impression that 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:02.360 like he was like, yeah, so, I think he was 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:04.120 kind of trying to play a little bit hard to 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:06.720 get because he was still unsure of like where my 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:10.400 head was at, and so yeah, he. 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:11.680 Was like trying to play it a bit cool. 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:14.280 But then he reckons that after I sent that text 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:16.800 message being like, you know, are you going to ask 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:19.080 me out on a date or what are you going 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:21.280 to ask me on a second date or what. From 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:23.280 that moment on, he was like, fuck it, I think 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:24.120 she's obsessed with me. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:26.040 I'm just going to act completely all in. 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:28.480 And you know, like he was like messaging me at 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:30.360 like midnight when he was out with his friends, like 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:31.080 what are you up to? 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:32.000 What are you doing? 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:35.920 Like always messaging me, like especially if he was drinking 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.360 so and then it just kind of like went from them. 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:40.320 That is a sign if a guy's messaging you while 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:42.839 he's out with these mates, is it? Yeah, I reckon 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:44.679 because you're not gonna put you like you're out like 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:46.480 in your single technically. 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:47.800 And there's other girls there's other girls. 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:48.560 And you're messaging. 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.000 Yeah, it's a good sign unless he's. 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:53.080 Just striking out and he knows that he's gone. 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:55.640 But yeah, but if he's messaging you early in the night, 0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:58.400 through the whole yeah yeah. If it's like, what time 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:00.480 do you reckon? If it's past like ten o'clock, then 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:02.680 it could be like a bit of a strikeout situation. 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:04.680 Even nine, No. 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:06.680 I'll tell you later. Twelve. 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:12.360 Oh so twelve okay, right, okay, that's striking out, ladies. 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:13.720 In case you're wondering. 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:16.160 I've got a bit of don't don't count me out 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:20.600 at nine or ten? What I wouldn't count me out? 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:21.520 Okay? 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:25.000 What's a fail where you're like this is a turn off, 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:27.520 Like I'm not going to be obsessed with you now, 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:30.079 Like the thing I mean, I'm asking you this question, 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:33.120 but I'm also answering at the same time, Like guys, 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:35.720 when I'm like first art, when I first start seeing 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:37.680 a guy, they can do the smallest things and it 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:39.480 just gives me the eck and I'm out, So like 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:40.480 what gives you the eck? 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:45.080 Okay? It's the first thing comes to mind, is like 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:47.960 if they try to be like sexy and it just 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:48.920 fucking fails. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.800 Or they try like what like when they kiss or 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:52.800 they try. 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:55.480 Yeah, I've like you know, like they bite their lips 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:57.640 or something. It's just not like they're trying to overdo it. 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:00.920 And then you're just like okay, so not too full 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:02.560 of not too full. I thinel like a. 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:04.320 Subtle bite of the lip could be like a little 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:04.720 bit hot. 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.600 Like what's that thing that they tell you to do 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:09.000 to like look at a guy in the eye then 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:10.760 look down at his What is it? 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:11.040 Okay? 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:12.840 They tell you to look look at a guy in 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:14.359 the eyes like intently. 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:18.600 Are you trying it on you? 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:24.120 What he means relationships? 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:26.240 Just see if it okay? 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:27.840 So they tell you to like I'm not doing it, 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:29.360 I'm just explaining how. 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:32.040 To I'm just sitting here. 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:36.000 I feel like I feel uncomfortable now, but anyway, I'm 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:39.240 not just. 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:40.640 Relaxed, okay. 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:42.600 So basically, they tell you to look at a guy 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:45.520 in the eye like intently, and then you look down 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:48.040 at their mouth and then you can like bite your 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:50.120 own lip and then look back up at them with 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:51.320 like a little bit of a snack. 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:52.840 Do you think that would work? 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:56.040 I don't know. I never seen it done. 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:58.680 But maybe yeah, in a subtle way. I think sometimes 0:13:58.720 --> 0:13:59.800 like girls. 0:13:59.520 --> 0:14:01.559 Can do it, isn't it left to right eye? 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:01.959 Oh? 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:02.439 Is it? 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:03.080 Yeah? 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:03.800 Maybe it is? 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.720 Yeah, I think maybe like left eye, right eye mouth 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:09.240 and then like look back. 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:14.600 Up, okay, ladies that are listening. And it did not 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:18.880 work on me then with Anna, but I didn't do it. 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:22.640 But if it works with someone else, well, how do 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:25.160 you know that you've made a guy obsessed with the manna? 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:26.840 Like what gives it away that they just? 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:31.320 I think when you know they're regularly messaging you. I mean, 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:34.360 I have this rule, and you know how stubborn I am, 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:36.560 so like when I make a rule, I followed the rules. 0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:39.840 I have this rule where like if I'm seeing a guy, 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:42.480 I won't message them first, so like as soon as 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:44.600 they message me, I'll just be totally normal. Like I 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:48.240 won't like wait to text them back. I'll maybe wait 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:50.320 like ten minutes or something. So I'm not like fully 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.440 jumping on that bandwagon as soon as they messaged me. 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:55.080 But like, yeah, like I probably like if I was 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:59.280 seeing a guy for the first say, three weeks, I 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:02.400 probably would message them first. So I can kind of 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:04.640 get a gauge about how much they're thinking about me, 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:07.440 because if I'm not messaging them, then they know they. 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:10.680 Know if they want to talk to me, they're gonna have. 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:12.760 To reach out. But then as soon as they reach out, 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:14.760 it's like totally normal. I'm like, how's your day going, 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:16.320 da da da, Like ask some questions. 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:18.200 I hate that. What happens if they're playing games and 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:20.120 you guys are having like a massive stalemate and no 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:21.600 one's messaging anyone. 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.480 Well then it's just not for me because I'm like, well, 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:25.320 if you're not willing to put in the hard yards, 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:26.000 like you. 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:29.440 Don't get the hard you don't get the hard work, 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:34.080 you get it. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:39.640 Okay, both look down the camera lands. 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:41.320 Okay, so this is the thing that you're meant to do. 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:42.640 Okay, so you look down. 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:44.480 So we're going to try this for the people who 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:44.960 are watching. 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:49.800 So we're gonna look down, look up. Bite your lip. 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:56.359 That was smoldering. 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:00.240 So if you watch that, girls, I'm sorry, I am taken, 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:05.680 but I've just fallen in love with me. But look 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.360 at Emma behind the camera's flushing. 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.040 I thinks everyone's going in love with him. But how 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:13.680 do you know a girl's obsessed with you? 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:17.880 Matt just say like hanging out out the front of 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.880 my house waiting for me to leave talk to me, 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:24.440 just all that sort of stuff. No again, in this 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:26.680 day and age, it comes down to like messaging, I reckon, 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:30.520 but they're prompt messages. If anyone says they missed your 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:33.040 message or they're too VISI shit, yeah, they're fucking lying. 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:36.280 It's such trash, Like no one's missing a message. And 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:40.680 especially if you like someone that is like you're like 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:43.920 all encompassed in that, so you're absolutely not missing a message. 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:46.680 If someone hasn't replied to you in twelve hours, it 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:48.680 means that they don't like you. And I think that 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:50.880 there's probably like zero point zero one percent of a 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.880 chance that they do like you. And it actually is 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:58.040 a genuine mistake. Like it's never a genuine mistake, is it. No. 0:16:58.160 --> 0:16:59.960 I remember I was seeing this girl and I will 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.000 like I was thought she was a vibe. I thought 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:04.840 she was okay. She would take literally like three to 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:06.960