WEBVTT - ANNA'S LITTLE SECRET... 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:04.720 I actually I have only decided this morning that I'm 0:00:04.760 --> 0:00:05.760 sharing this secret. 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:08.119 I'm like, do I want to share this secret? 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:09.000 Yeah? 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:09.520 I think I do. 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:11.680 When we tell everyone our secrets on you here. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:20.720 True, this is like our safe sace. But Where's Your 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:21.120 Head At? 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:25.560 Is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:28.120 trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:31.080 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:40.560 intimate details, advice, and much more. Good morning that morning, Anna. 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:44.360 I'm sitting here with two cups. I've got a March 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:45.800 of Last Air and my green. 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:48.159 Tea couldn't decide what I wanted. How are you? 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:51.480 I'm good, I've just got a green tea. I haven't 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:54.280 had a coffee today yet. I'm just gonna see how 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:56.600 green tea if it stays down, and see how I feel. 0:00:57.000 --> 0:00:58.680 How is your matcha? I've had one of them for 0:00:58.680 --> 0:00:59.360 a while. 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:01.560 Do you know what? I'm back on the march a lattes. 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:04.240 I had one once like two years ago or something, 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:06.920 and I just wasn't a fan. And then I was like, 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:08.640 I want to try it again, and ever since I've 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:11.080 been loving it so green tea and much. 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:13.440 I used to get a much when I'd had like 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:16.000 already like four coffees or five coffees and it was 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:18.240 like five o'clock at night, and I really liked them. 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:20.480 Yeah, it sound nice and smooth. 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:25.600 Anyway, we are currently away in Greece and by the 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:28.520 time this episode, and this is so crazy to say, 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:31.280 by the time this episode comes out, I will be 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:35.399 officially missus Staples, I will be married. 0:01:35.760 --> 0:01:36.560 How cool is that? 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:37.160 I know? 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.520 Congratulations, thank you. 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:43.080 And today, like when this episode comes out, will be 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:48.480 our recovery. So we'll be recovering from the wedding, having 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:49.960 a little pool parties. 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:51.680 Is that what the recovery is? 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:52.800 Did you not know that? 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:57.200 I mean not like I have literally sent so many 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:00.680 emails and so our invites. We didn't put a hard 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:02.600 copy out. We put a paperless post and I've sent 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:04.840 you so many emails and that I. 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:08.880 Swear to God. How it constantly asks me, where is it? 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:11.799 What is there a dress code? I'm like, yes, I've 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:14.440 literally told you all of this information so many times. 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.359 And I asked you the other day what the dress code. 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:20.560 Was for the like five hundred It's very simple. We're 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:23.320 having a white party for the welcome dinner, having a 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:26.720 formal wedding, that's right, And we're having a pop of 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:29.240 color for the recovery pool party. 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:31.120 Okay, so that means like a party shirt. 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:32.880 Do you have your stuff ready? 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:36.359 No, I'm going to go get a suit for the wedding, 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:39.320 but all white. It's pretty easy. I've got white pants, 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:41.760 probably from your thirtieth they still fit me, to. 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:44.120 Be fair, I know I had a thirtieth white party. 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:46.960 So it's like, surely everyone has some white. 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:49.200 Surely they still fit me. So I'll try them on 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.600 and then poper color. I have a party shirt somewhere. 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:55.560 Yeah, pop of color or party shirt is the thing. Yeah, 0:02:56.440 --> 0:03:01.880 party shirt? Well, since I just got married and I 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:04.040 don't know when I'll be posting about it, if I've 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:05.400 even posted about it yet. 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:08.480 But what is your plan on that? Are you just 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:09.800 gonna post it straight away? 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:11.560 Like I don't know, Like as soon as I get 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:13.080 the photos from our photographer. 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:15.240 I would love to do a post, but I'm like. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:18.440 No pressure you Are we allowed to post until you do? 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:20.800 Like's the what's the rule with that? What's the general? 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:21.080 Like? 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:24.560 Is it rude to post if the bride and groom 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:25.880 haven't posted yet? Yeah? 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:28.680 So what we're gonna ask our guests on the wedding 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:32.840 is that no one posts their wedding content until the 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:35.760 first post has gone up that we've posted, and then 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:37.560 from there it's like free reign, Like. 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:39.480 But what's the rules on that? So like we can't 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:42.400 post because this is from my wedding as well, Like 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:44.840 you can't post anything. You can't post any of like 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:47.440 the what do you call it, any of like the 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:50.000 decorations or any of the place or anything like that, 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:50.400 can you. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.760 Yeah, so that's the rule, So like no posting anything 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:56.200 on the day until the bride and groom have posted, 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:58.080 and then you can post whatever. So once our first 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:00.440 photo has gone up, then it's like, can post all 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:01.600 your content essentially? 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:05.560 Good to know, I'll remember that. No, No, I've had 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:07.920 a conversation with Timming, so I got that. I was like, 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:10.240 what's the general rule with like people you can't post? 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:12.600 Because I see people now I post at weddings and 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:13.880 I'm like it kind. 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:16.400 Of spoils it, don't you think, like if you get 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:18.480 to see like the bride or the groom or like 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:21.040 they're not the professional shots as well. It's like from 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:24.560 people's iPhone and look sometimes the iPhone photos somehow turn 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:26.839 out better, but you still want the bride in the 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:30.200 groom to have that moment of being able to, you know, 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:34.320 release the first images to the world, you know, like 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:38.599 a bit of a carousel moment, show the first real 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:41.840 first reel or whatever they want to post, and then 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:44.000 I feel like from there it's like free reign, go 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:48.279 for gold. But I have like a little secret to 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:53.080 tell you, Matt and everyone else. I actually I have 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:56.840 only decided this morning that I'm sharing this secret. 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:59.200 I'm like, do I want to share this secret? 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:00.200 Yeah? 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:00.600 I think I do. 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:02.600 And we tell everyone our secrets on you here. 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:08.520 True, this is like our safe sace. But so obviously 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.400 we're getting married in Greece, as you know. Yes, and 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:16.400 our celebrant is actually so for context, I have three 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:21.400 bridesmaids and four groomsmen on Michael's end, so that's an 0:05:21.520 --> 0:05:25.760 uneven number, right, Yes, And Michael's friend who was a celebrant, 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:27.720 just had a baby so he couldn't make the wedding. 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.160 So we were like, why don't we make one of 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:36.240 Michael's groomsmen the celebrant for our wedding so that the 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:41.000 FUNCTIONUAI is even. So we have three three and then 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:43.760 one of the groomsmen goes into the middle to be 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:44.480 the celebrant. 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:46.960 How did you decide who that was going to be? 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:52.640 So we agreed that we wanted to do that, and 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:54.279 then we like looked at all the groomsmen. 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:57.159 We couldn't make it the what is it? The men 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:57.640 of honor? 0:05:57.720 --> 0:06:02.800 Best man of honor, the best man because obviously he's 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:04.279 the best man. So we kind of like looked at 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:08.320 the other three and I and you. Matt are very 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:11.680 close with one of Michael's grimson. He actually helped Where's 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:14.800 your Head at go on tour. He's very reliable, He 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:17.320 like puts his one hundred and ten percent into everything. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:19.280 This is not taking away from the other Grimsom, but 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:22.000 I just know him on a work level as we've 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:29.159 worked with him Lovely Wazza, and so we asked him if. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:30.760 He would be our celebrant. 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:32.599 Is he qualified to do that? 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:35.640 He is not. So I don't know if you're kind 0:06:35.640 --> 0:06:36.920 of picking out what I'm putting down. 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:37.960 Do you need to do you need to have a 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:39.040 qualification to do it? 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:43.560 You do you need to I think it's a year course. Actually, 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:46.479 I'm pretty sure. Maybe I need a fact check that 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:50.719 maybe be fact check if you need that. Yes, But anyway, 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:53.880 he's not a celebrant, but he's going to be an 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:58.120 acting celebrant, which means that our wedding that we just 0:06:58.200 --> 0:06:59.920 had yesterday is. 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:01.480 Not a legal ceremony. 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:04.960 It's our wedding day for us, and like in our eyes, 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:06.400 it's the day that we married. 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:08.560 Yeah, how are you going to be married? Then? If 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:11.680 it's not legally binding, are you going to like just 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:15.240 not officially married. 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:17.560 No, So this is the secret. 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:23.840 So on the twenty eighth of April, Michael and I 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:27.200 went to the Registry office with both of our parents 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:34.920 and we had a registry secret wedding in Melbourne and 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:39.080 signed the documents. Our dads were the witnesses, so you 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:41.440 have to have two witnesses on the wedding documents. So 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:44.720 both of our dads did it and it was actually 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:49.360 a very special moment. I got photos of it, so 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:51.480 when I get back from Greece, I think i'll post 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:54.480 them and share it. So if you're not on the pod, 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:56.840 I guess you won't know. If you're not listening to 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:58.160 the pod, you won't know about it. 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:02.400 But yeah, we are legally married as of now in 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:03.640 this moment right now. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:09.560 So you are miss Staples, missus, missus s sorry miss yeoh, 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:14.680 congratulations out. That's amazing. Yeah, it was a different Do 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:17.239 you feel like a like a full married woman? 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.320 Not yet, because I feel like until we have the 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:22.160 official wedding official like. 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:26.640 We've like, it's not official. It's like that's the official wedding. 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:27.360 Yeah. 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:32.640 Well, let's talk more about the registry office next. 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:37.480 Okay, and so you legally married right now. You haven't 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:41.800 had your official wedding, but you are missus Staples. Tell 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:44.559 us about the experience that you had, because obviously that's 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:48.000 a lot different to your big wedding that you are 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:51.840 yet to have or when we're listening to this had yesterday. Yeah, 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:54.840 how was it in the What is it? For one? 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:56.559 Is it like a courtroom because I imagine it being 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:57.400 like a courtroom. 0:08:57.520 --> 0:08:57.760 Yeah. 0:08:57.800 --> 0:09:01.160 So there's a registry office kind of like close to 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:05.000 Parliament station. If you're familiar with Melbourne, it's like the big, 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:08.480 big building. It's beautiful. It's like a very old building. 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:13.600 So basically you pay five hundred dollars. There's two choices 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:15.880 of rooms, so you can either get the six person 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:18.839 room or a fifty person room. What did you have 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:21.440 the six person room? Because it was me, Michael and 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:22.920 both of our parents, so six people. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.000 It's a difference in the rooms just the size. 0:09:25.080 --> 0:09:26.800 Nothing size. Yeah. 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.120 So one has like a full aisle, the big one, 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:32.160 so people like literally have their whole wedding there. 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:33.120 It's pretty cool. 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:35.800 It was. It's beautiful as well, like it's a beautiful 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:40.199 old building. Yeah, or if like with us, like obviously 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:42.160 we're having another wedding, so we didn't want to like 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:43.520 I didn't want to walk down the aisle. 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.520 Did you do anything like that or you just did 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:50.280 you just walk up? You go, sorry, no, that's okay. 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:55.560 So we basically took some photos before with our parents, 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:57.720 which was a nice memory. And I'm going to make 0:09:58.120 --> 0:09:59.920 a photo book for everyone. I don't know if I'm 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.599 it to them on Christmas or I have like a 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:06.120 day before I leave to the wedding, so I don't 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:07.600 know if I'm gonna have time for the wedding. I 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:09.320 wanted to get it for the wedding as a gift 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:11.240 to our parents, but it might be a bit too late. 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:17.040 But basically we walked into the registry office and our 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:22.240 photographer was with us. The celebrant guy. He was super nice. 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:24.120 He told our parents to go into the room, and 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.280 then me and Michael had to go into the separate 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:27.040 room with him. 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:28.280 So we're like sitting there. 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:30.439 It was very official, like I was like, oh, this 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:32.199 is a bit much like it was a bit full on. 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:35.120 And then he was like, are you here out of 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:36.079 your own free will? 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:38.880 And I was like yes. 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:43.800 He was like a table, You've got the gun more 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:46.800 than anything, Michael. 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:49.480 Literally and I was like, no, I'm here out of 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:51.440 my own free will. He's like, are you sure? I 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:52.640 was like pretty sure. 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:54.080 He said that to Michael, are you sure? 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:54.839 No, he said it to. 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:56.600 Both of us like he was like he was like 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:58.760 fully making sure that no one was forcing us into 0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:02.080 this marriage, that it wasn't like an arranged marriage, that 0:11:02.120 --> 0:11:03.559 we both like loved each other. 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:04.800 It was like pretty full on. 0:11:06.200 --> 0:11:10.000 Then he kind of took us through what the whole 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:12.000 experience was going to be like. So he was like, 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:15.080 so when we go back in, you're gonna walk back 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:18.000 into the room. You both have to face your parents, 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:21.880 stand looking at them both. Then I'm going to read 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:26.200 stuff like something and you both have to say I do, yes, 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:29.040 I do at the same time. Then you're gonna both 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:31.920 turn to face each other and you're gonna do the 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:34.600 whole vows that he has pre. 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:36.600 Oh okay, so you didn't say you're the as. 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:39.480 Yeah, so we had kind of like talked about that, 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:42.840 agree to everything. He ran us through what was gonna happen. 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.360 So then we went back into the room. We both 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:48.240 faced our parents. It was so awkward. I'm like, I'm 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:52.559 telling you, so fucking awkward. Imagine your parents and your 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:55.439 in laws just staring at you, and you and your 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:57.160 partner just standing there holding hands. 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:59.600 I was like, it's just uncomfortable. 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:02.160 Did you like stand opposite your parents? 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:04.880 So it was like it was like switched but it 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:07.560 didn't matter, Like they were just all staring at us. 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:08.920 It was like did anyone cry? 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:13.920 No, I don't think so. But it was like a 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:18.720 little bit emotional. It was more flowed emotional. It was 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.080 so intense, like so intense. 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:24.880 So it's not cute to have a runaway marriage and eloping. 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:27.440 Registered No, it's cute. It was cute. 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:30.240 Like it was like a really like I don't know, 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:32.040 it was just like a very cute moment. 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:33.680 Intimate the right word. 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:38.040 It was intimate, But it was also like I don't know, 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:41.600 it was a bit serious, like I started giggling, like 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:44.360 I was like it just felt too serious, like it 0:12:44.440 --> 0:12:45.600 was giving me the ick a little bit. 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:49.920 I was like, well, marriage is a legal binding thing. 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:52.560 When you think of it, it's legal. It's pretty serious. 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:54.800 When we think about marriage, we're like, oh my god, 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:56.720 we're in love, we're going to be together together. 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:59.440 But like when you're actually getting married, like when it's 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:01.480 when you're getting down to the nitty gritty, it's like. 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:04.120 A legal binding, document binding thing. 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:06.440 And in that moment, I was thinking, Fuck, if you're 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:08.960 not one hundred percent on someone, you would be having 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:12.360 a full blown meltdown, like you know in those moments 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.960 when like something's bad's happening and then you start like 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:18.120 your head starts spinning and you're like freaking out and 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:19.839 having a mental breakdown. 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:20.680 And you're have fully having a spiral. 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.080 I was like, if you're not one hundred percent on 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:27.000 someone during this moment, you'd be like, like I understand 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:30.839 now why there's like runaway, like people like I can't 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:33.240 do it, like you know in the movie, like those 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:36.280 moments you just don't understand. I in that moment, I 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:40.120 was like I'm one hundred and fifty thousand percent a 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:43.360 yes to this man, and I'm still finding this in here. 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:47.400 It's on you look at Michael when he's spiraling. Yeah. 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:51.160 So we well, no, we were all we were also. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:53.480 I feel like we were both kind of spiraling. We 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:54.920 were both like so. 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:57.560 He said the thing, and then we were both like, yes, 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:00.160 I do. Then we turned to face each other and 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:02.320 we were just staring at each other in the eyes, 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:05.640 and he did the whole like repeat after me, I 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:11.040 anna take you Michael to be my lawfully wedded husband, husband, wife, 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:14.240 Take me Michael to be the wife. 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:19.080 Yeah, I anna should wife your wife? 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:19.360 Yeah. 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:22.240 Yeah, so we did. That was hard to get through, guys. 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:25.120 So so we did those of ours yea. And then 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:28.120 he was like, I now pronounce you husband and wife. 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:30.760 But then he didn't say you make kiss, so bride. 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.840 So I was like, do we kiss? And he was like, 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:36.320 if you want, and then I was like it was 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.680 really awkward, and then both of our parents are like 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:40.640 standing there watching us. So we gave like the most 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:44.960 awkward peck on the lips ever, and then Michael's mom 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:47.600 was like that was a bad kiss, Like do it again, 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.880 and I was like ah on that. 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:53.320 Actually, that's a crassical thing on your actual wedding day, 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:55.640 do people like how much of a kiss do you 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:56.320 actually have? 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:59.120 Well, that's a thing I need to think about this. 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.600 I'm glad you've brought the up because this is a conversation. 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:05.240 Me and Michael haven't even like thought about this at all, 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:06.880 Like we need to practice. 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:07.920 Do you want to practice it or do you want 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:09.120 to be in the moment? Give? 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:10.920 But what if it's an awkward kiss? 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:14.120 But is it like how long do you first. 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:16.040 Kiss after the legal marriage? I was like, oh, I'm 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:19.160 glad that wasn't the actual wedding where we're properly getting 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:20.480 married with our friends and family. 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:24.040 Because do you like leaning and then you like make out? 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:26.560 What's the time limit to people like clap? This is 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:28.880 like a really use tongue? Do you? I wouldn't think 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:30.560 so in front of your friends and family. 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:32.120 Then if you don't use a little bit of tongue, 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:35.040 is it like have you even consummated the marriage with 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:35.680 the kiss? 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.440 You know, maybe you just touch tongues just a little. 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:40.680 How do you use tongue? Like I don't even feel 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:41.800 like I used tongue that much? 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:45.120 Well, just a normal life, I always use tongue. 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:48.840 I mean, do you use tongue? Yeah? I think I 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:49.480 can't even think. 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:53.920 About so normal on the lips then I'm definitely using tongue, 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:54.720 like you know. 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:56.800 Like I don't know, I think about it. I don't 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:59.280 even think about how I kiss. 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:01.800 Oh my god, Matt put his hand up and started 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:02.840 kissing it. 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:03.800 It's too much. 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:07.440 Like do Yeah, I think I used tongue. Yeah. Well, 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:09.600 like you want to practice, you want to have maybe 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:12.600 communicate with Michael and say, hey, we're practicing. 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:13.960 One hundred percent. We're practicing the first kid. 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:15.280 Doesn't that take away from it though? 0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:16.920 Nah? 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:19.440 Like my dream first kiss, if you must know, which 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:21.200 I don't think you can going to tell you anyway, 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:25.400 is like if we they go you may kiss the bride. 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:29.000 We kind of like do a four second makeout and 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:30.880 then Michael like lunges me back. 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:32.640 On the thing and then we kiss again on top 0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:34.320 of the aisle at the altar. 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:38.240 At the altar, Yeah, like a full moment. That's cute, 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:39.560 but that needs to be practiced. 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:41.960 That does need to be practiced. Yeah, so no, you 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:42.760 need to practice it. 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:45.880 Like if we didn't practice, my head would like probably 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:48.720 knock myself and knocked myself out back on the ground, 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:55.480 dropped me imagine. So anyway, the registry had an awkward kiss. 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:59.680 Then our parents, both of our dads signed the document 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:01.840 really cute, which is really cute. 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:04.240 So there have been no witness signing in Greece and 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:05.639 no no. 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:07.879 So that whole part of the ceremony, we won't do it. 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:10.600 We'll just literally say when now kiss the bride your 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:12.920 official husband and wife or whatever he's going to say, 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:13.440 We're going. 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:15.280 To go take photos or you guys have champagne. 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:16.160 Pretty much. 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:19.280 Have fun. 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:26.840 So yeah, that was the experience. The registry office. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:31.159 Wedding was really fun and like if someone's looking to 0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:32.800 do it, it was fun. 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:35.960 It was a vibe would you So then after you 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:38.119 signed the papers, do you just walk out? Like do 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:39.920 you shake hands with the guy that marries you? Do 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:41.720 you just walk out? Or do you do afterwards? What's 0:17:41.760 --> 0:17:42.200 the Oh? 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:43.480 Actually I missed a part. 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:48.760 Yeah, so we actually went in early and after the 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:49.880 documents were signed. 0:17:50.080 --> 0:17:52.800 So did you get to pick the person that marries you? 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:55.960 No? Okay, miscellaneous guy it. 0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:58.040 Was who it was on shift that day. 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:00.479 But I mean, I feel like they're probably doing so 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:03.280 many weddings there, they're probably pretty like on point. 0:18:03.440 --> 0:18:05.240 He was taking it very serious. 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:07.200 As well, like when we were giggling the whole way through, 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:09.919 he did not crack a smile. He was like dead set, 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:12.960 like he was like, this is a legal thing. 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:16.600