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Speaker 2: We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this

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Speaker 2: Us today, always was, always will be Aboriginal Land ladies first.

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Speaker 2: So basically, I welcome to close friends everyone. I have

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Speaker 2: been struggled on struggle Street this week and I wanted

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Speaker 2: to bring up this conversation, which is a bit weird

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Speaker 2: to talk about. And I don't know how we're going

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Speaker 2: to navigate this because obviously we can't give too much

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Speaker 2: away here. But I've been on struggle Street this week

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Speaker 2: because I was locked out of my Instagram earlier this

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Speaker 2: week and it asked me to log back in and

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Speaker 2: I went, holy fucking shit, what is my Instagram password?

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Speaker 2: And that I thought about it and I went, I don't

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Speaker 2: know my TikTok password. I couldn't tell you my YouTube past,

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Speaker 2: I couldn't tell you my Netflix builgiin, I couldn't. I

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Speaker 2: couldn't tell you like any of my passwords ever, And

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Speaker 2: it really shook me, and I was like, does anyone

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Speaker 2: else have this issue or does it just me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm right there with you, Matt. I hate passwords.

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Speaker 1: I fucking hate them, especially so I've got all the

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Speaker 1: same passwords as you. But then we've got a business,

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Speaker 1: Then we've got Shopify, Then every single one of our

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Speaker 1: employees has their own Shopify log in. Then we have

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Speaker 1: a billion other accounts like Australia Posts, fucking this, that

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Speaker 1: and the other. We forget passwords every day, and the

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Speaker 1: steps that you have to go through to get the

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Speaker 1: fucking password back or reset it is too much. And

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Speaker 1: now I know you hate like AI and all that,

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Speaker 1: but honestly, at some stage, can we just get rid

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Speaker 1: of passwords and it's a fucking fingerprint or an eyeball

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Speaker 1: for everything, like I don't. And just the fact that

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Speaker 1: every password has different criteria. It must contain upper case,

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Speaker 1: lower case and symbol and punctuation.

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Speaker 2: Weelve characters, eight characters, ten characters, So every single password

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Speaker 1: And it's just different variations of the same password.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and some of them I make real tricky to

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Speaker 2: you know, figure out with changing changing the E two

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Speaker 2: A three or something like that, and then other ones

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Speaker 2: I don't have to do that, so I don't and like, honestly,

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Speaker 2: like if I died and someone needed to log into

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Speaker 2: my cat, good fucking luck, because I obviously don't have

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Speaker 2: them like written down anywhere. And then sometimes as well,

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Speaker 2: I've gotten lazy when I just sign up to like

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Speaker 2: random sites or sites that I don't think i'll use much,

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Speaker 2: and you know how Apple will suggest a password and

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Speaker 2: it will just be like forty random numbers and symbols

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Speaker 2: that don't make sense at all, and I just go, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just use use strong password, and then it saves.

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Speaker 2: Because I think that's the problem, is like because it

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Speaker 2: auto saves all the time. And then when I tried

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Speaker 2: to log into my Instagram, auto save wasn't an option.

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Speaker 2: I think it's because it so long ago I had

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Speaker 2: logged in and never locked out that that maybe wasn't

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Speaker 2: an option. Like saving the password wasn't an option.

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Speaker 1: I tell you what I hate too, When you're like

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Speaker 1: trying to log in, You've tried to log in six

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Speaker 1: times and it's like locked you out. It's like too

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Speaker 1: many failed attempts, check your email to reset password. Then

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Speaker 1: you go to reset the password and it's like, can't

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Speaker 1: use previous past password. It's like, but I tried that,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, like, what the fuck it wouldn't let me.

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Speaker 2: And then also when you change the password and you're like,

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Speaker 2: I've just changed it. I've even done the little eye thing,

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Speaker 2: and then it's changed and you go log in and

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Speaker 3: I hate it. I hate passwords.

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Speaker 2: I do love two factor authentication, though I do love

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Speaker 2: that you know it can send me a text makb.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 1: I hate two factor authentication. You just got a code

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Speaker 1: to your two factor authentication app. It's like, what fucking app?

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Speaker 1: And this happens in our workplace on a weekly basis.

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Speaker 1: And then in the group chat did someone get a code?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, first of all, to where what

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Speaker 3: Or email?

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Speaker 1: Oh that wasn't that, It was authenticator app? What authenticator app?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: And then you have to.

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Speaker 1: Fucking call shopify and be like I can't get into

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate it.

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Speaker 1: There needs to be a company that comes in and

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Speaker 3: For every platform in the world.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: And I'm all for take my fucking eyeball take my fingerprint.

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Speaker 3: I don't care.

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Speaker 1: If I can just look at the device and log in,

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Speaker 1: I'd be happy. I'd be happy to never remember a

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Speaker 2: The other thing as well, is do you use zero

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Speaker 2: shout out to zero, love you. But they used to do.

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Speaker 2: You would log in and it would authenticate the log

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Speaker 2: in for thirty days, and now it's every twenty four hours,

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Speaker 2: resets every day. I've got to go on the authenticator

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Speaker 2: app and put in the code to prove that it's me.

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Speaker 2: There's no like remember this browser or anything like that.

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Speaker 2: I can't. I can't even figure out yeah, and it's

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Speaker 2: not like I can. I mean maybe you can, but

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Speaker 2: I can't move money around in my zero Like in zero,

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Speaker 2: I can't transfer money right yeah, or you can if

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Speaker 2: you can, I don't know how. But I'm like, why

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Speaker 2: do I have to authenticate? All I'm doing is it's

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Speaker 2: just my invoices and me bank statements, Like it's not

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Speaker 2: like they're logging into my bank cap and being able

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Speaker 2: to go. I'll just transfer all the money out of

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Speaker 1: Cause there's so many troubles, Like even when AJ and

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Speaker 1: I go overseas, which we haven't for a while because

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Speaker 1: our numbers are the ones that are on all of

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Speaker 2: Huh.

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Speaker 3: And then like if we're overseas and the girls have

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Speaker 1: Yes, and it's caused so much troubles for us multiple

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Speaker 1: times in the past where we're like, we're going overseas,

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Speaker 1: no one, we can't get a code. Fucking now, just

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Speaker 1: bring in the ie scanner.

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Speaker 2: Honestly. Okay, Well, I'm glad someone else has the same

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Speaker 2: issue as me, because every I think, every single account

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Speaker 2: Because if I get logged out of everything in my life,

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Speaker 2: I may as well just make new accounts because I

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Speaker 2: don't know how to log in. And I feel like,

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Speaker 2: as someone who's grown up on the Internet, it should

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Speaker 3: But it is so complicated.

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Speaker 1: Okay, mark my word, there's going to be a company

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Speaker 1: that comes and revolutionizes passwords for every company.

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Speaker 3: It's good They've got to because it's fucked.

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Speaker 2: Go Google, girl, I would love you to look up

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Speaker 2: the most commonly used password.

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Speaker 3: I reckon it's like password one, two three.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and see if we've used any of them ourselves.

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Speaker 2: I was also going to talk about old passwords as well,

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Speaker 2: because I used to have really funny old passwords, but

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Speaker 2: I'm also like, hmm, they might be still attached to

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Speaker 2: some accounts and I wouldn't want anyone to hack me,

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Speaker 2: So maybe that's a little bit a bit full on.

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Speaker 2: Quirty password and admin are the most popular. One, two, three, four, five, six,

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Speaker 2: We've got root. Root is a common passwordot random scroll down.

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Speaker 2: There's not many ones there. It's just like.

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Speaker 1: I definitely use like one two three and one two

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Speaker 3: Needs numbers at the end, I'm like, for fox sakes.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I have numbers that I use, but they're

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Speaker 3: But yeah, Admin, I've never used that.

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Speaker 1: That's number two most popular, but I think workplaces would

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Speaker 3: Hannah's nodding her head.

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Speaker 1: I hate them too, and the password is the most

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Speaker 1: What's quirty?

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Speaker 3: That's just a keyboard like that across Did you not

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Speaker 2: How do we learn that?

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Speaker 3: In primary school? It's a quirty keyboard.

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Speaker 2: That's what you call that a querty keyboard?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you definitely grew up on a farm. It's a

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Speaker 1: quirty keyboard. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of keyboards, I've been smashing the keys on mine

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Speaker 2: started writing a memoir. Remember earlier this year, obviously, I

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Speaker 1: No, But I will say writing a book has made

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Speaker 2: How's all that going good? I don't everyone knows that, right.

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Speaker 1: I've done like little stories, but I haven't done any

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Speaker 3: So we're at that phase. And I'll tell you another thing.

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Speaker 1: And for those of you that don't know, I've written

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Speaker 1: my own book kind of like a memoir, bit of business,

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Speaker 1: bit of life, bit of everything. When I finish writing it,

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Speaker 1: I had blonde hair, like the full blonde hair. So

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Speaker 1: Then I dyed my hair dark brown, like chocolate brown.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, fuck, I can't come out with a

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Speaker 1: book with blonde hair when I've got brown hair. So

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Speaker 1: then we did a second photo shoot again to change

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Speaker 1: the cover. Now my hair's medium light brown, and I'm

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Speaker 1: reshooting it again next week.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to have at least now part of

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Speaker 1: me I just burned. I'm going to have three cover options.

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Speaker 1: So if I changed my hair in between now and

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Speaker 1: the time it launches, i've got three options.

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Speaker 2: You just go back to blonde, surely.

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Speaker 1: Oh fuck, But that's where it's at. We were going

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Speaker 1: to launch it at the end of twenty twenty four,

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Speaker 2: Nice why not? But it was a therapeutic experience for you,

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Speaker 2: It really was.

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Speaker 3: So I was writing it just at night when I

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Speaker 1: I'd put it on my headphones, put on some ADHD

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Speaker 2: We were looking at all the old fashion and I

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Speaker 3: Upon a time, because I literally didn't know what to write.

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Speaker 2: It's because I haven't been contacted to write a memoir.

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Speaker 2: and I'm very much enjoying it. So that's my little

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Speaker 1: Oh I have to say as well, you know how

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Speaker 1: we say see you next Tuesday at the end of

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Speaker 1: every Close Friends. In our broadcast channel the other week,

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Speaker 3: Loll.

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Speaker 1: It must have been like the first time they'd listened

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Speaker 1: to the end of Close Friends.

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Speaker 3: We say it every week.

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