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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hey can we touch on something here that hit a

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Speaker 1: bit of a raw nerve for me last night? Can

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Speaker 1: we just go around the room all Mike's on please,

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Speaker 1: including you, Jess? And can we state your age? Starting

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Speaker 1: with you?

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Speaker 2: Jess, I'm thirty four, Thomas, I'm forty one, Ryan James,

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Speaker 2: I'm forty eight.

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Speaker 3: While we're at it, happy birth her, Happy birthday to

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Speaker 3: my beautiful wife.

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Speaker 4: But Linda Jacobsdy turns forty eighteen. That's the other one,

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Speaker 4: the first one.

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Speaker 3: Yes, she's over in Thailand at the moment getting the

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Speaker 3: kids were ready for school, three weeks old.

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Speaker 1: Here we really miss it. She's beautiful and I come

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Speaker 1: in at the tender age of forty five. This is

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Speaker 1: interesting because the statistics come out and they've done an

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Speaker 1: interview with over two thousand gen z and they've said,

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Speaker 1: what do you define as age old? What? What do

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Speaker 1: you what do you find as old aged? I'll go again, guys,

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Speaker 1: and they said, anybody that's born nineties, late nineties or

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Speaker 1: early two thousands, they are considered old. Twenty two percent

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Speaker 1: said that if you've reached thirty five, see you later,

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Speaker 1: you're done and dusted.

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Speaker 4: You're old, your toast has ages.

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Speaker 3: Never really It's something that I'd never really worried about,

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Speaker 3: have you guys.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I haven't talked about.

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Speaker 3: When you hit thirty and then you hit forty, Like

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Speaker 3: I mean, there are moments where you go, WHOA, Okay,

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Speaker 3: Actually I read there. I read an article the other

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Speaker 3: day saying that they that there's three major moments in

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Speaker 3: our life, yes, where we.

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Speaker 4: Do age quite a bit whip. Did you read about that?

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Speaker 4: I did, so. I think, yeah, I think.

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Speaker 3: The age of forty, and then I think it's around

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Speaker 3: the age of sixty, like your body really starts to

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Speaker 3: And you know where we notice it the most, it's

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Speaker 3: when we's it's when we actually can't recover like we

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Speaker 3: used to when we were younger.

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Speaker 1: Mate, on the recent holiday we just had, there was

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Speaker 1: a couple of time I walked into the bathroom in

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Speaker 1: the morning and looked at myself and I went, oh,

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Speaker 1: my god, who's staring back at me? Like there's an

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Speaker 1: old guy look? And then this morning I'll get into work.

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Speaker 1: Maddie has beautifully put together a card to say thank

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Speaker 1: you for coming to our wedding. She's included on the

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Speaker 1: front of the Carter photo of Maddie and Shannon, her husband,

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Speaker 1: and I'm in.

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Speaker 4: The photo as well. I walk old her dad like

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Speaker 4: I probably am.

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Speaker 1: I probably the same age as gave anyway, because Maddie's

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Speaker 1: a lot younger than me.

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Speaker 2: But the thing was I looked at knowing is it

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Speaker 2: her grandfather. I can't wear that suit again, like I'll

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Speaker 2: never be able to. I mean scientifically or bio logically.

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Speaker 2: You stop growing at the age of twenty six, so

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Speaker 2: you start dying at the age of twenty six. Everything

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Speaker 2: is developed.

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Speaker 4: The way you look at it, you can't looking at

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Speaker 4: it's very negative.

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Speaker 1: But nothing else develops in your body and especially your brain,

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Speaker 1: which is the last thing. Nothing else to apples past

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Speaker 1: twenty six.

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Speaker 4: Oh your egos to.

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Speaker 1: Can You're at the stage. It's where if you were

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Speaker 1: to fall over, people wouldn't say you fell over. People

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Speaker 1: would say, Fitzy, I reckon, you've ticked over that mark.

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Speaker 1: You're not going to believe what happened to I got

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Speaker 1: some bad news. He had a fall.

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Speaker 5: It's no longer.

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Speaker 4: Fell that well, actually there is.

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Speaker 3: We need to talk about it at some stage this week.

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Speaker 4: I have had a fall.

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Speaker 1: Nasty footage we'll do it another We're doing another time.

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Speaker 4: Actually, I do have a huge bruise. I have a bruise.

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Speaker 4: We're not at the moment, but we're not talking about

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Speaker 4: what I just saw.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 1: We're doing and do that later.

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Speaker 3: We're going to do that later. Yeah, do you want

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Speaker 3: to I was going to shaw? Do you want to

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Speaker 3: see my bud? Okay, well it's I've got a huge

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Speaker 3: bruise on it at the moment. We can talk about

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Speaker 3: it another time. But it is if there's moments where

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Speaker 3: are just like, what am I doing? CJ's giving it

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Speaker 3: called from Coloroi.

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Speaker 4: You're a jin z. Do you agree? How old is

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Speaker 4: old for you?

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Speaker 5: I don't really define old by the age.

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Speaker 6: But also like, if you start on ironically posting on Facebook,

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Speaker 6: you've aged pretty poorly, right, Okay.

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Speaker 4: So the thing is, though, c J.

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Speaker 1: It's just a friendly reminder that one day you'll be there.

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Speaker 1: Like it happens so quickly, but when you're in your

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Speaker 1: situation at the age of seventeen, you see back and

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Speaker 1: you go, oh, I've got so many days.

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Speaker 4: Before I'm there.

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Speaker 1: I got so many days, and this time next year

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Speaker 1: I'm only aid to get stuffed everyone.

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Speaker 3: But then before you, carroh, Carol's blowing up.

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Speaker 4: She's from Canterbury. You disagree, Carol?

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Speaker 5: Of course I do it.

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Speaker 6: It's only a number. Who can you find who's old

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Speaker 6: and who's not old? I still young at heart, I

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Speaker 6: still I still work. I get in and out of

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Speaker 6: a garbage truck at the age of sixty three, do.

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Speaker 5: You know, Carol?

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Speaker 1: I love that? And do you know what how would

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Speaker 1: we behave if we didn't count our ages in the years, Like,

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Speaker 1: wouldn't we just push on like we were forever young

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Speaker 1: until we couldn't go anymore.

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Speaker 6: It's a fair, it's only a number. You're only as

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Speaker 6: old as you feel, do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 6: Like I was still playing netball up until the age

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Speaker 6: of forty six.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, contact Carol.

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Speaker 3: Did you say that you get in and out of

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Speaker 3: the garbage truck, Carol, I'm like.

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Speaker 6: The old Yeah, like the old garbage trucks, the old

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Speaker 6: garbos that used to get out put the bins on

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Speaker 6: the back. That's what I do.

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Speaker 4: You do, not do you work for the local council, Carrol.

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Speaker 6: That's in a mining job, not for the local council.

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Speaker 6: We work for ourselves, so we do a lot of

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Speaker 6: schools and hospitals, et cetera. So yeah, so I'm getting

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Speaker 6: out loading bins on the back of the truck every night.

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Speaker 4: Yeah awesome.

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Speaker 1: Carol's going to run a campaign to get rid of time?

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Speaker 1: Or will you will never age past sixty two? Carrol,

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Speaker 1: We're going to get rid of time. Greg and Greystones.

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Speaker 5: Hello, oh right there you go, you Greg sixty buddy,

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Speaker 5: your little beauty to feel them fresh? And oh mate,

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Speaker 5: I'm over the moon. I'm going to balley fishing in

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Speaker 5: two weeks and go every twelve months.

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Speaker 4: Have a more, you little beauty.

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Speaker 3: So you go when it's cold back here, Greg, you

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Speaker 3: go over there and get the warmth.

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Speaker 4: What what do you go with anyone else?

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Speaker 5: No? No, just buy myself over ball right, it's on fishing.

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Speaker 5: China's over there. There is cheapish chips. Yep. The food

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Speaker 5: is amazing there. The people are briant and it's just

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Speaker 5: a yeah. And at my age you meet people hoops,

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Speaker 5: young people and they go out the turks all night

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Speaker 5: and you don't sam until one o'clock in the half.

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Speaker 1: Se Greg, you're married, mate? Are you fishing for a

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Speaker 1: wife over there as well?

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, I'm married and I've got two boys,

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Speaker 5: they're both growing up, so yeah, I just like you're

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Speaker 5: just talking over there, do a bit of fishing and screat.

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Speaker 4: Are you looking for love though? What is your bait?

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Speaker 5: What are you? What are you?

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Speaker 4: What are you running with these days? Greg Man?

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Speaker 5: Looking for not looking for love? Looking for.

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Speaker 4: You've had a cut. You've had a cutl of nibbles, Greg, haven't.

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Speaker 5: Don't you?

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Speaker 3: Bloody's history dropping crank you dog?

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Speaker 5: Greg? Give us.

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Speaker 1: Give us a call when you get back and tell

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Speaker 1: us a couple of stories. I think it was the

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Speaker 1: fish creek. You feel the animal that's a dolphin fish top.

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Speaker 1: It's not the way for dolphins, Bloody, Greg car he's illegal.

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Speaker 1: He's called the show to say it feels good and

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Speaker 1: we've just dragged him through the dirt.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, Craig.

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Speaker 4: Craig from Grey Staines.

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Speaker 5: Love you.

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