1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. What to do after a first 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: date that night when you're going to sleep, stalk their 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: profile for the one hundredth time. But this time it's 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: not risky because if you like a photo, they won't 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: think it's weird. 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 2: Oh you do do that and you just smile and smile. 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: I just want to I just want. 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Oddie Clark aka 9 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 3: Mummy and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy. 10 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 3: I want to ask you, Jake, what is the strongest 11 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 3: emotion in the world? Hate? Oh, you evil man? Have another? 12 00:00:58,200 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: Try cheer? Cheer. 13 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 3: That's an emotion live. That's what I'm looking for, mate. 14 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: Sorry, I just wanted to leave everybody in a bit 15 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 1: of a suspenseful feeling. 16 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 3: And what's the cliche sayings that everyone says you fall 17 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 3: in love when you least expect it, Okay, yep? And 18 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 3: I was thinking, like, surely you can't be like that 19 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 3: simple because everyone says that you're like that doesn't really 20 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: help me, Like do I just start forgetting about love? Yep? 21 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 3: So I thought, when did I fall in love? So 22 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 3: I'm here to help everyone who's single who might be 23 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 3: looking for a partner, and what was a factor that 24 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: maybe helped me get over line? And it was when 25 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 3: I changed my mindset from being a logical romantic person 26 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 3: to a hopeless romantic person. Why let me introduce you 27 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 3: to the theory, Jake. 28 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm here. 29 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 3: So we have hopeless romance and logical romance. Before I 30 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 3: so my girlfriend right now was like, is my first 31 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 3: girlfriend ever properly had, like a proper proper girl, yeah, 32 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 3: like in real life and shit. And before that, I 33 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 3: was all about being rational yeap logical thoughts. And I 34 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 3: was also like this could never work. I always overthought 35 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: in my head and overanalyzed situations. I was always cautious 36 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 3: about like my heart, and I was like I was 37 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 3: always kept my feelings to myself, being logical, like I 38 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 3: was trying to protect myself. Yeah. And I was always 39 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 3: a problem solver, like I was just trying to always 40 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 3: have the answers before the problems were even there. Okay, 41 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 3: But now, hopeless romance is being doolulu in yourself and 42 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 3: your partner and love. Okay, simple example being we always 43 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 3: get on the pot. Is can long distance work? If 44 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: you think it can? Work. It can work. 45 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: I met someone the other day, had I didn't meet 46 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: him that day, I had known them. Yeah, talking about 47 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: being with his partner, He's like, we've been to it 48 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 1: for nine years, did long distance for. 49 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 3: Seven, so you can make it work. 50 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, but it was hard. 51 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 3: But I would Audi logical. Addie would have been just 52 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 3: like a long distance man, like, no, it's not gonna work. 53 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 3: Same here of my life and I'm not gonna waste that. 54 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 3: But hopeless, Audie, it's like, if I love this woman, 55 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 3: I can make it work. When start listening to your heart. 56 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 1: One time, my cousin was going to see a boyfriend 57 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 1: that lived in It was like a five hour drive. Yeah, 58 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 1: And I remember saying because she wasn't at a family 59 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: dinner and I asked my aunty, I said where is she? 60 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 1: And she said, oh, she's on her way. She left early, 61 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: so she's like, she's on her way to this place. 62 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, that's a long way for a boy. Ah. 63 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: I was like, you wouldn't catch me driving a budgy 64 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: way for a girl, like an hour forty five minutes. 65 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: Matt Beth, Yeah, exactly, hopeless multiple times a week. 66 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 3: So rather than you fall in love when you least 67 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 3: expect it. You fall in love when you start to 68 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 3: listen to your heart, not your brainy. 69 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: Oh, that's fucking I'm trying to deep it. It's truely hilarious, hilarious. 70 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 3: I just think it's so like. 71 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think what I am. Maybe I think 72 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: it might be a little bit of a hopeless roman. 73 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: I think I'm definitely still logical in certain aspects of 74 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 3: my relationship. Yeah, but to get over the line and 75 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 3: actually get my girlfriend, I think I had to start 76 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 3: listening to my heart and become a bit of a 77 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 3: hopeless romantic. 78 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,679 Speaker 1: Yeah. Proof in the Pud, exactly, Proof in the Pud, 79 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: My guy, you spoke to her six weeks about meeting her? 80 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 3: Exactly. 81 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: I'm not that hopeless. Actually, who knows I could be? 82 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: You never know, because I mean I started talking best 83 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: with I think I didn't maybe it was two weeks 84 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: or something before I could meet her when I started 85 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 1: talking to her, and I was fine with that. And 86 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, like, if there was a six 87 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: week number on it, would I have even gone for it? Yeah, 88 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's a good question. That's 89 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: a question you ask, But I mean I think I 90 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: would now. 91 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 3: I think it's so relatable just to like shut yourself 92 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 3: off to everyone and be logical and focus on yourself, 93 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 3: which is completely fine. I'm not saying that's wrong by 94 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 3: any means. I needed that time in my life, like 95 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 3: eighteen to twenty three, just to be logical and concentrate 96 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 3: on myself. But as soon as I was ready to 97 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 3: open my body up to the emotions that don't make 98 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 3: sense behind science, that don't logic, don't make sense in 99 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 3: that's when I was ready to. 100 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: Fall in love. I think. 101 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 3: So. 102 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: For instance, I know one of our friends, we've spoken 103 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: about it before, one of our friends' parents, they got 104 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: engaged or married after three months. Now with that is 105 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 1: that hopeless romance? 106 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? Like to me, like if you hear someone saying 107 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 3: getting engaged or married after a year or two, logically 108 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 3: you think that's stupid. Yeah, but sometimes you can't understand 109 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 3: the hopeless romance going on in that relationship, and I 110 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 3: see where they're coming from. Yeah, you got to be 111 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 3: delulu sometimes and some some reason it just can work. 112 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, yea yeah. 113 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like the same with like easiest example being 114 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 3: a prenup if you got married, if if someone was 115 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 3: rich and the other person wasn't. Yep, Like, you just 116 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 3: have to be Delulu in this situation that it's going 117 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 3: to work and you should never think about the money 118 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:03,799 Speaker 3: on the side of things. 119 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, did I tell you about I've surely brought it up. 120 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: About that podcast I listened to with like the most 121 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: sought after, possibly the most maybe successful. He's a divorce 122 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: lawyer and he's a divorce layer like billionaires and like 123 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: professional athletes, and like he's expensive blah blah blah, and 124 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: all of his takes on like love and like pre 125 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 1: nups and all that stuff. Have you listened to it? Shit, bro, 126 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: you need to listen to that. A It's crazy. It 127 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: kind of makes me want a prenup. Oh really Yeah, 128 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: Like he has like he has good arguments to not 129 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: have them, but he also has like brilliant arguments to 130 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: just have it. 131 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 3: I just I've always thought, if I'm going to marry 132 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 3: this person, I'm not having that thought in my mind. 133 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: No, I know, it's such a scary thing. But also, 134 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 1: like you were talking about, there's like a law you 135 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 1: didn't you say what you're saying. There was a law 136 00:06:56,640 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: that if you live with someone for two years, then there's. 137 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 3: On It's like it's pretty much like being married and 138 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 3: they could take half of everything. 139 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's like terrifying. 140 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 3: It is, yeah, one hundred percent. But it's like if 141 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 3: you just have to be Delulu in your relationship. But 142 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 3: that's when like you sort of play on the logical 143 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 3: side of things, and if I've been together with them 144 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 3: for five years, what's another fIF day and whatever? Fuck know, 145 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 3: it's interesting. But basically what I was trying to say 146 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 3: is it's okay to be Delulu. 147 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's there, Oh right, right right, And anyone 148 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: that's questioning like wait, like I guess, oh, do you reckon? 149 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: Do you reckon? When you were not being deluted? Like 150 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: super like logical? Logical? Do you reckon? Anything? Like the 151 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: thought of what your friends would think was a big 152 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: factor or was always about kind of what you. 153 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 3: One hundred percent I was thinking about what my growing up, 154 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 3: Your friends have too much of an impact on your 155 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 3: relationships around you, especially being a boy, and you just 156 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 3: give each other ship and you always used to think like, oh, 157 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 3: like I wonder if they care if I hang out 158 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 3: for tonight or someone that if they think I'm a simp. 159 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: Oh that's big. 160 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so stupid looking back at it out, looking 161 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 3: back at it now that we're mature, but like back then, 162 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 3: being a young eight nine to twenty er our boy, 163 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 3: even we're both I'm guilty of giving shit to my 164 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 3: friends for being calling them sim so you're whipped. 165 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like I was used to do it all 166 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: the time. 167 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 3: And looking back now, I was being toxic and making 168 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 3: that relationship probably worse because he was doubting himself and 169 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 3: his love towards us. Yeah yeah, yeah, Now he's trying 170 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 3: to thinking like maybe I'm a simp and I've spent 171 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,679 Speaker 3: too much time with a yeah yeah, yeah, it's just silly. 172 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 3: But it's funny how like you just realize things the 173 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 3: older you get. It's so simple, but it's true. 174 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Oh okay, So when we 175 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: were younger, we I can't really remember, like let's say 176 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 1: one of our friends starts dating a girl that maybe 177 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: we're all and thinking, like, you know, we have an 178 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 1: opinion on it, okay, we I don't. I can't think 179 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: of a time we've ever maybe other than one time 180 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: like told the friend voice that opinion like voiced it. 181 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 3: No, we don't do that. 182 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: But here's a question I have is do girls like 183 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:00,079 Speaker 1: voice stuff. 184 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 3: Like that or what they think? 185 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I feel like they do. 186 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: I think they do. 187 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 3: Like if they if one of your friends brings back 188 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 3: a gla says I'm saying, Jake, Yeah, like if. 189 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: They thought I was ugly? Do girls kind of be 190 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: like ugly? Like it's I feel like for some reason, 191 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 1: I feel they do, but I could be so wrong. 192 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. 193 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 3: I feel like they talk more about like like their 194 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 3: rep in like the community, or he's a fuck boy, yes, 195 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 3: or like he's known for fucking girls ever, Yeah, they know, 196 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 3: known for being emotionally unavailable. 197 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: What yourself. 198 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 3: I feel like they don't comment on appearance. They comment 199 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 3: on like demeanor of the person. Yeah, because they think 200 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 3: they're they're a bit nice with the appearance. 201 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:45,079 Speaker 1: True. Yeah, I actually no, girls are way less judgmental 202 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: of appearance of guys. I'd say, yeah. 203 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 3: But then when it gets the gritty stuff, like emotions 204 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 3: get involved, that's when they start going he's. 205 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: A and then oh yea yea yeah yah yeah, and 206 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 1: when and when like someone breaks up with I mean 207 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: guys do it too, you know, like say, let's say 208 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:00,719 Speaker 1: one of our friends gets I broke my Yeah, you 209 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: can do better anyway. I always tell them, yeah, you 210 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 1: can do better anyway. Last episode it is not the 211 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: best that I've broken up. But like last episode, how 212 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: we were comparing my mostach to her ex boyfriend when 213 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: we turn the cameras off because he couldn't see his 214 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: full face, I was like, get that, shoves the screen. 215 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,959 Speaker 1: He goes, not that you want to know, but you're 216 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: better than him anyway. 217 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 3: It's kind of like it's a peace of mind. 218 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, alright, guys. So I don't think we label ourselves 219 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 1: as a dating podcast, but we do seem to talk 220 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: about it a bit. A lot of dilemmas about dating. 221 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 3: That's what everybody cares about. 222 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 1: That everyone cares about. So we thought we might come 223 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: to the table today with a couple some tips, tips 224 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: and or tricks, yeah, both for how to tell a 225 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: guy you'd like him without actually saying the words I 226 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 1: like you, because the answer is fucking obviously telling me 227 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: you like him. Yes, But we thought, if you need 228 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 1: some help, here's some help. And this is a guy 229 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:09,199 Speaker 1: would take these things as oh she likes me. 230 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, she likes. 231 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. 232 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. And although we don't advocate these things, sometimes it's 233 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 3: fun just to play around and see what he does. 234 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 1: I think, yeah sometimes yeah, But like you said, these 235 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: ones are going to come across as like, oh, she 236 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 1: likes me. I don't think these very much games. Yeah, true, 237 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: these ones aren't games to me. You go first, How 238 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: to tell a guy you like him without actually telling 239 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,319 Speaker 1: him you like him? Your arms scream, I go to 240 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: the gym. Really, to be fair, think about it. 241 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 3: I would be like, she's whipped. 242 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, she loves me. 243 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah. You'd be like yeah, and give us a 244 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 3: little bit of like a little perking our step, don't 245 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 3: I tell you? Oh you feel good? Yeah? How to 246 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 3: tell a guy you like him without actually telling him 247 00:11:55,400 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 3: you like him when he's driving legs or oh fack 248 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 3: towards him twenty four to seven, Oh. 249 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: And kind of just look at him. Yeah, because when 250 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: we're driving all they were folks on the road. I 251 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: can tell you're looking at me. I can tell, and 252 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: I'm just do that little stair were just like just 253 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: little chiky grin. 254 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, legs there you know, she likes you. 255 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: And then he'll be like, no, shift gears. 256 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why guys gonna drive manual. When the first 257 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 3: couple of dates like, oh, you want shift gears for me, 258 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 3: and then you touch each other's. 259 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,959 Speaker 1: Hands, He's like, you put your hand here, I'll do 260 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: it and tell you. 261 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 3: Every guy who drives manual has done that. Okay. 262 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: How to tell a guy you like him without actually 263 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: telling him you like him? Just like maybe first date 264 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: or something like that. You're at dinner and he makes 265 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 1: you giggle and you can't do a little cute little 266 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: girl giggle, and then you just kind of go, you're 267 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: actually so funny. 268 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 3: I said the name, You're so funny. 269 00:12:58,400 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: Ah. 270 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,599 Speaker 3: Okay, if he's like a guy, I start using his 271 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 3: name all the time, like, ohie, you're so funny, like 272 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 3: Jake is so yeah, Jake's so hot, like's big Yeah, okay, 273 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 3: this is actually like my best one I reckon. Okay, 274 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 3: How to tell a guy you like him without actually 275 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 3: telling him you like him. I feel like I can 276 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 3: talk about anything and just be myself around you. 277 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,439 Speaker 1: I fucking love that. Yeah. I had one that was 278 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: kind of real as well, and it was you make 279 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:31,839 Speaker 1: me feel good. Heell a guy, Okay, he sort of 280 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: like you make me feel safe. Yeah, like he needs 281 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: to make me feel good obviously, but like, don't lie. 282 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 3: I thought of another one. Yeah, you make me feel 283 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 3: like home. 284 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: Home is where you are. 285 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I saw a thing that like described I 286 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 3: reckon love in the most the best but also the 287 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,839 Speaker 3: worst way. Everyone was like, you make me feel like 288 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:57,839 Speaker 3: all four seasons at once? What don't you reckon? That 289 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 3: describes love in the most terrible but also best way possible? 290 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: Can you elaborate? Is there room to re elaborate? Is like? 291 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 3: To me, that means that all emotions at once, like love, obsession, hate, everything. 292 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 3: That's what it means to me. Like because winter, cold, hot, windy, 293 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 3: overcast everything, you just feel everything when you're with him, 294 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 3: all four seasons. 295 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I need to spread the word on that one. 296 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: If I heard it, I'd be. 297 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 3: Like me, it's open to interpretation obviously. 298 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: How to tell a guy you like him without actually 299 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: telling him you like him? You don't say anything, You 300 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: just rub your leg on his leg under the table. 301 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you know a date's going really well? Yeah, 302 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 3: when mid date you just feel a leg make sure 303 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 3: it's hurst. 304 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: Shit, Nah, good feeling. 305 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 3: My last one, How to tell a guy you like 306 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 3: him with actually s saying you like him, tease the 307 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 3: fuck out of him. Oh yeah, banter, I don't let 308 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 3: him tease you back the Yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 309 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 310 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 3: It's like I tolerate you more than most people. I 311 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 3: can't stand everyone else. 312 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: Fuck. 313 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like I can't hate you, but like 314 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 3: less than everyone else. 315 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you're tolerable. Yeah, I wouldn't say 316 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: you're good. Yeah, you're tolerable. 317 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 3: This banter, Yeah, like, that's a good one. 318 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 1: How to tell a guy you like him without actually 319 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: telling him you like him. Not to come on too strong, 320 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: but babies with you would go hard. 321 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 3: As soon as they mentioned like kids or anything like that. Yeah, 322 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 3: like o kids would look hot. 323 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. When the girl says like our babies would be 324 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 1: fucking cy you yeah. 325 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 3: Oh, or like something about we shoul get a dog 326 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 3: together or something like that, that's when you yeah. Wow, yeah, 327 00:15:58,320 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 3: that's dabbling and love. 328 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: I got one more. How to tell a guy you 329 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: like him without actually telling him you like him, Look 330 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: him in the eye and say you better kiss me 331 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 1: when this date is over. 332 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 3: I would be like, I think I'll kiss her right now. 333 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, wait, actually, when do you when she says 334 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: that I think I would you listen to her? And 335 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: do you wait till the day time or do you 336 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 1: just go come here right now? 337 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 3: Confidences? Okay, yeah, you don't even say anything, you don't 338 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 3: kiss up, then say come here, just lean in and 339 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 3: kiss I reckon, you got it? 340 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 1: She got yeah, I said when the day's over, buddy. 341 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: She starts kind of starts calling you buddy and champ, 342 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: and you're just like, okay, well this is done, just 343 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 1: ruined it. You can pay for the meal, oh ship? 344 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: Is there anything like? Actually, like how for real gy 345 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: you like him? Because obviously the easiest thing to say 346 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: is tell him that I like you. 347 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 3: Wh should do this against some time. That's not good. 348 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 3: That's not good. That's like the cop out on a 349 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 3: bad day. 350 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 1: Which even even saying let's just say, I don't know, 351 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: maybe you've been on a few days and like you 352 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 1: do really like him, and you know, not like you 353 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 1: should kind of know if he likes you back by now, 354 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: but I don't know. 355 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 3: You just want to simple, simplistic approach is the best. Yeah, 356 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 3: Like say I've loved spending time with you, I really 357 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:33,119 Speaker 3: like you. Yeah, simple, I don't know if this is like. 358 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 1: I liked it. I think I've said it before. When 359 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 1: when when my girlfriend did it to me, she didn't 360 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 1: she didn't say the words I like you, but she 361 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: she I've said it before. She said. She was like, 362 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: are you sleeping with anyone else? 363 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't know if I like that. 364 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 1: One though, And I was like, oh no, She's like yeah, 365 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: because like because I'm not, and in my and in 366 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: my head, I was like, oh that's like yeah, like that's. 367 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 3: Exclusive if it's a good gesture, like exclusive, Yeah, yeah, 368 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 3: definitely a good gesture, but also like I reckon, you 369 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 3: can do like war romantic to sound like you Oh yeah, no, look, 370 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 3: I'm sure there was definitely other things. 371 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't know why that one stood out 372 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 1: to me, Like I remember where we were when she 373 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: asked it. Maybe because no one asked me that before. 374 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 3: Keep part of the sure, I. 375 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 1: Was like, you don't know me. I don't I don't 376 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: do that. 377 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 3: You don't know me. Yeah, yeah, you don't even know 378 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 3: me yet. 379 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: You should have said that, you know what I mean, 380 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: like you don't know me. I don't mean it like that. 381 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 1: I don't mean like I don't mean like you're not 382 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 1: allowed to know that information. I mean, like you don't 383 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 1: know me and you don't know like my past, like 384 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: you were my first I can count my body count 385 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: on one hand. 386 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, you broke a year out. 387 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: Yeah okay, guys, we're going to follow it up with 388 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 1: what to do after a first date. 389 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 3: I loot confusion going on there. 390 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, assuming it went well, yeah, okay, smile 391 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 1: like an idiot and say to yourself, oh, I'm in trouble. 392 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 3: It's always in like some cute little voice, or you 393 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 3: say it in your head like ah. 394 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: Also, let's just say that you drop someone home and 395 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: drop a girl home from first date, and then there's 396 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 1: nothing more main character vibe than driving home from dropping 397 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 1: and go home for the first date that went well, 398 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: when you're like, oh, oh, I'm fucked here, but then 399 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: you chuck some music on. That's main character is fuck. 400 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 3: Do you ever think when you say something like cringe, 401 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 3: is fucking the card to yourself that like someone's secretly 402 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 3: recording you. I always think that, really yeah yeah yeah 403 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 3: all the time. If I do something cringe or something, 404 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 3: I'm like someone like recording me that. 405 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 1: Nah, I'm I'm way too confident, Like in my own 406 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: car to think that, Like I've said before that I 407 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: got caught by the fucking trading that you and I 408 00:19:58,160 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 1: was like, look at my arms. 409 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 3: I was like, to be confident to drive your car. 410 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: And so I actually don't think I've ever thought that. 411 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 3: I always think, you know, it's just weird. 412 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: When I actually know. What I do think is imagine 413 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 1: if I say something out loud to myself that I 414 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 1: think is like super cringe. I'll think what if I 415 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: imagine if I accidentally phoned someone and they were just listening. 416 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: Yeah is what I think. But I don't think like 417 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: a fuck like. 418 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 3: A couple of it just did that. 419 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you do after a first date? Be 420 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 1: the first one to say thank you had the best time? Yeah? 421 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 3: So initiated, I say, do it? Yeah, confidence is key. 422 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 3: We keep saying that. 423 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 1: I also have the thing where I reckon Okay, so 424 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 1: it's going to be like majority of the time a 425 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 1: guy's asking a girl on a date, right, but it 426 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: goes both ways. I just think, whoever asked the other 427 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: person on the date is like, so, so I asked 428 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,880 Speaker 1: my girlfriend on a date, take her on a date? 429 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: I leave, So I think she should say so she's 430 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 1: not that she should, but just think like she'll say 431 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: thank you too much. I had the best time. But 432 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 1: then I think it's up to me to say we're 433 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: doing this again. Oh, I actually think it's up to 434 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: me to organize. 435 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 3: I do like that. 436 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: Actually, I don't know why. It's such a feeling of mine. 437 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's correct. I wish there was 438 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: a rule book which everyone lived by. Should be right one. 439 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, the rule Book of. 440 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: Dating the relatables bad, his rule book of dating. 441 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 3: It was bad, his real book of dating. 442 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: I think we should write a rule book of dating. 443 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 3: I think so because there's so much confusing and you're like, 444 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,199 Speaker 3: oh should I text first? Or like you always get 445 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 3: to take the best. The simp approach is you both 446 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 3: say by you don't admit your feelings, and then when 447 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 3: right before you leave, you text her saying I had 448 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 3: the best time ever. Well, I actually remember one time 449 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 3: we spoke about saying, so on the first date, you 450 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 3: know you're in a good place if you organize this 451 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 3: second date on it while on the first, Like I've 452 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 3: always thought that's just like kind of it's like so good. 453 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 3: I got to know where the next one is. 454 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, like when am I seeing you again? 455 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 1: I have to know right here, right now. And also 456 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 1: I'm like I'm thinking every single time I've been on 457 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: one date and another one hadn't happened, not not, none 458 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:22,160 Speaker 1: of them was like when can we do this again? Yeah? 459 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,439 Speaker 1: So I say, yeah, I don't know. That's my feeling. 460 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,719 Speaker 1: What to do after a first date? Far the stomach 461 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 1: ache away. 462 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 3: Do girls feel that too? Surely not, surely they do 463 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 3: just something, But I think it's even nerves combined with 464 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 3: like you obviously can't fight in front of them, you're 465 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,879 Speaker 3: just gassy in your stomach grumbling. 466 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was gonna say another one as well. Thing 467 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: to do after a first date is go get a 468 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,239 Speaker 1: second dinner because you obviously didn't eat all. 469 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 3: You get home and snack. For some reason, you're always 470 00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 3: starving on a date, but you don't care. 471 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:01,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you don't. 472 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 3: Actually, first couple, then you're busy, Yeah, you're busy doing activity, talking. 473 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: At what point do you because we've said actually what 474 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: we said on on Maddie's podcast, we were like a 475 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: green flag to us, is you know, on a first date, 476 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: if you're hungry, order that fucking burger and eat it. 477 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 1: I want to see it. Yeah, but like if you're 478 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: nervous and not hungry, obviously don't don't force it down. 479 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 1: But at what point in time is like how many 480 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:28,360 Speaker 1: dates in do you think it's like, all right, let's 481 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 1: fucking hook in together. Three? Three dates? 482 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'm all obliged for one. Yeah, but 483 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 3: like if you want to be like cautious, yeah, three Okay, 484 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 3: I hear you. I'm dialed in. 485 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,440 Speaker 1: If I if I've got a more than three, like 486 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: we're going somewhere over this. 487 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I think it takes two to really get 488 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 3: to know someone. Obviously it takes months and months, but 489 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 3: like two to get to know if you're like this 490 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 3: is gone forever or not. 491 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. I remember going on one of the first dates 492 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: with my ex. I don't like remember the date, but 493 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 1: I remember something sticking with me, and it was we 494 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: went to get burgers and she just picked it apart. Yeah, 495 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: And I was like, what a waste of money. You 496 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: fucking didn't need it. It's just a spread apart bun 497 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 1: with some meat. 498 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 3: Now, first couple, I feel like it's I get nervous too, 499 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 3: and I just possibly I can't eat. Yeah, you know 500 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 3: I want to and I'm like, I'm not trying to 501 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 3: like make myself look good. I just get nervous in 502 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 3: my stomach. He's like, oh no, no food here. No, 503 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,399 Speaker 3: that's fucking relatable. And another thing, let me know this 504 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 3: is relatable. Is one of the reasons that you don't 505 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 3: finish a meal is because you guys are just too 506 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 3: much and the food gets cold and you're like, well, 507 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 3: this is gross, this soggy. Yeah, yeah, this is gross 508 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 3: now like this used to be a hard shell target, 509 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 3: this is now a fucking wrap, like disgusting. 510 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: And so you go and that's when you go for 511 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,919 Speaker 1: a walk and get dessert and literally relatable. All right, 512 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 1: what to do after a first date that night when 513 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 1: you're going to sleep stalk there profile for the one 514 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 1: hundredth time, But this time it's not risky because if 515 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: you like a photo, they won't think it's weird. Oh 516 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: you do do that and you just. 517 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 3: Smile and her smile. 518 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: I just want to I just want to say, I 519 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:24,400 Speaker 1: wonder if girls do that. Surely, surely, please, I want 520 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 1: to know. What I want to know is like when 521 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: you're geting for the first day, you just have all 522 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 1: that fuck you just have that and you know what 523 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 1: it is, You know that feeling and you get home 524 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 1: and everyone's just like, oh, you're in a good moon 525 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: and you're just like you get out of my way. 526 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 1: I'm in a good mood. Is the girl feeling the same? Yes, 527 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 1: it has to be. 528 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, bro. 529 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 1: Has to be. I got two more. What do you 530 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 1: do after a first date? Change your Facebook status? Are taken? 531 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 3: Do people still do that? I occasionally see like the 532 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 3: random like someone got engaged. I'm like, who's changing their 533 00:25:58,880 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 3: Facebook stas? 534 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 1: Some people? I okay, I'm never doing that. Such a 535 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: crazy thing to say from me. Okay, not bullying in 536 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 1: any the sense, all right, any senses in any sense 537 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 1: of the word. I mean, but some people, it's like 538 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: they don't It's like they get left behind in the 539 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 1: social media. 540 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:24,120 Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah yeah. 541 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 1: Because there's people in our school in our year that 542 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: are like changing their Facebook status to like marry by 543 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: all my congratulations, I say, congrats, But like also, I mean, 544 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 1: I guess it's a thing though, Like can you judge 545 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: them for it? Not really? Maybe I'm just being mad judgy, Oh. 546 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 3: Maybe a little bit. You're entied to your opinion. But 547 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 3: I also just think it's like for old people like 548 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 3: I think, maybe it's a thing to like, so boys 549 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 3: don't send them friend requests, maybe to show they're taken. 550 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,879 Speaker 3: That's my only thought. But as crazy Facebook does that, 551 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 3: Yeah weird. Do you remember when Facebook came out of 552 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 3: like hoax and Pokes was flirting, Pokes. 553 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 1: Was liking an Instagram story. 554 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 3: Yes, that's what it was, and you'd like, have a 555 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,680 Speaker 3: three hundred polk streak with girls, dude. 556 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,640 Speaker 1: No, Pokes was streaks back in the day. I never okay, 557 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,479 Speaker 1: I got left behind in the snapchat streaks thing. Right. 558 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 1: The first time I ever discovered what streaks was was 559 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 1: ex girlfriend bring her up a lot, fuck it part 560 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: of my life. Ex girlfriend first started talking and she like, 561 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: I was like driving the car, she's on Snapchat. I'm 562 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: like turning glance over. She got like fucking like fifty people. 563 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 1: I was like, why did girl? How many people he 564 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 1: tak you on Snapchat? 565 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 3: Why of the girls already have always have so many streaks? 566 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:35,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, how many people? 567 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, I got fifty streets. 568 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,359 Speaker 1: And I was like, what's a street? Yeah, I have 569 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 1: a streak with. 570 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:45,439 Speaker 2: Fucking JJ Yeah what And she's like, look, I got 571 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,920 Speaker 2: fucking and I was like, you send a message to 572 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 2: that mean and I girl, you're white. 573 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 1: Mate of them would do. 574 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 3: Every girl in high school had so many streaks, and 575 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 3: every dude just had one girl. That's what it was. 576 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 1: Every dude had one girl and they were like, that's 577 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 1: my girl. 578 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 3: Yeah fuck, but that is the number. 579 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: That's the thing though, Actually I that was just a number. 580 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,359 Speaker 1: I I don't because I feel like I've also seen 581 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 1: like there was some guys with so many yeah and 582 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 1: the player yeah yeah, so like it was like the 583 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: guy had just like ninety percent girls and their streaks. 584 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,239 Speaker 3: I remember it was weird when like someone from your 585 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 3: school had a streak with someone from another school, like 586 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 3: how did you meet? 587 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 1: Man? 588 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 3: Like, and you're like, what's going on? 589 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 1: Like are you guys? 590 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 3: Thank god? 591 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: I want to know. So when I was young, one 592 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: of our friends, I was in the car with two friends. 593 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 1: One of them was talking about a girl that went 594 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: a different school. Yeah, and he couldn't stop smiling. Right, 595 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 1: we were like, you're in love. He's like, I've never 596 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: even met her. He's like, but she added me back 597 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: on snapchat. Yeah, you have to message, you have to messenger. 598 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: And so he's like doo do it. And we were like, Okay, 599 00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: if you say her name and you can hold your 600 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 1: straight face for ten seconds without smiling, you don't have 601 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 1: to do it. But if you say her name, oh no, no, sorry. 602 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 1: If we say her name and you and you don't 603 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 1: hold a straight face, you have to message. But if 604 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 1: you do hold a straight face, you don't have to message. 605 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 1: So we said her name, gave him like ten chances. 606 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 1: We're like name and he's like, and I'm like, you're 607 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,959 Speaker 1: fucking smile and a purpose out his messager and then 608 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 1: he does it, and we'd like little fucking kids, like like, 609 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 1: oh my god, I don't know if girls did that. 610 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 3: And then he got ghost. 611 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 1: True story, he did get ghost. Dude, Okay, my last one. 612 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 1: What to do after a first date? Imagine the rest 613 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 1: of your life together? 614 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you do go into just this dreamer land. 615 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: Well that's what you're doing to drive home, the main 616 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 1: character drive home for the first date. 617 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 3: After you're like, you're like, I'm fucked White picket fans, Yeah, retriever, Yeah, 618 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 3: three kids on a farm. 619 00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 1: To midsummer's night, the windows down, living near the beach. 620 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 3: Music's playing. You're like, man, I can't wait for my lifetime. 621 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god. You get up, you're drinking you coffee 622 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 1: on the back, and you have your beach house and 623 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 1: she's out on the beach with the kids, and you're 624 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 1: just like O, life's great, go on retrievers, just like 625 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 1: running the water. 626 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 3: What why the fuck do we do that? Bro? And 627 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 3: then you get home and then she never she never 628 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 3: text you again. 629 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, like it was. 630 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 3: It was nice to think about her like that. 631 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 1: Oh ten minutes of pure joy. Do you reckon? 632 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 3: You got left behind in like social media and friends 633 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 3: and keeping up with things a little bit when you 634 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 3: dropped out of school. Yes, I feel like that's a 635 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 3: tough thing that guys especially also some girls you gotta 636 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 3: tape in hairdressing and anything like that. Drop out of 637 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 3: school for apprenticeships even trades, and like no one talks 638 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 3: about how much they hit left behind because that two 639 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 3: years in school is so different to the first. 640 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: However, many there you start drinking and ship. 641 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 3: You sent me treated like an adult in school, like 642 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 3: you teachers start to show your respect and shit, Oh yeah. 643 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 1: True, I never got I never got that at school. Yeah, 644 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 1: until I went to sign out, like I'm leaving because 645 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: I'm doing apprenticeship and like, oh wow, congratulations, like blah 646 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 1: blah blah. I'm like, yeah, you didn't care about the 647 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 1: fuck you're a human seriously. And then so I remember 648 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: because I was working full time and then everyone started, 649 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: like school started slowing down, and I remember like or 650 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: everyone started just like drinking during the week I had 651 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: to fucking wake up at five thirty eight. Yeah, I 652 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 1: was like what, And you don't get invited to stuff. 653 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: And then it's like because you don't start, you know, 654 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 1: you're not getting invited that, you don't get invited to 655 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: the weekend thing because you don't exist anymore. 656 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 3: Because and one does forget about you. And I feel 657 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 3: like no one talks about that. And it's like just 658 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 3: like the harsh reality of getting an apprenticeship or dropping. 659 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,239 Speaker 1: Out of school interesting. I don't know, it's weird though, 660 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: because like I feel like some people are lucky and 661 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 1: keep in touch. Yeah, I feel like it. Like two 662 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: years into my apprenticeship, I was probably not doing much, 663 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 1: but then I do. I think I remember end up 664 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 1: ended up. Yeah, that's why I like joined our. 665 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 3: Group that's our group name. I gotta beat that. 666 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 1: I want to actually will end it here, all right, 667 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 1: guys group names. Yeah, okay, guys have group names for 668 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 1: their group and it's what you call your group chat houses. 669 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 3: Called I'm gonna beet that again. 670 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 1: Sorry, I won't, I won't say it again, but I 671 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 1: want to know what's what everyone's group chat name was 672 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:32,280 Speaker 1: called girls and guys. Girls and guys. Yeah, girls and guys. Also, yeah, 673 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 1: I want to go. I think has showed me a 674 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 1: couple of hers. They're pretty funny. 675 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 3: Ours go derogatory, and girls go creative. I swear they're 676 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:40,200 Speaker 3: like yeppoholics and stuff. 677 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 1: Send us your creative group chat names, yeah, okay, or 678 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 1: your derogatory read them out orgatories now derogatory on Patreon, 679 00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: all of it. 680 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and creative on Spotify. 681 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 682 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 3: Ok, that's that's funny. 683 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 1: That's good. 684 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 3: We got drunkie poos too. 685 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, one's called drunky poos and that was because one 686 00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: time someone said into a group chat that didn't have 687 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 1: a name at does everyone want to go get drunkie poos? 688 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 1: And he never lived it down, so we named a 689 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 1: drunkie poos. I could tell you what we probably got 690 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 1: DRUNKI poozy. 691 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 3: Alright, everybody, thanks so much for listening. 692 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 1: Go join the Facebook group give us five stars, Join Patreon. 693 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 1: We'll see you on Friday. 694 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 3: I'm scared