1 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: Welcome back to the pod. 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: This is one of my bonus episodes and I'm joined 3 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 2: again by Sarah and Emma from Interview Boss. Make sure 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 2: to listen to our main episode if you haven't already, 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: but you're here still in the studio and you're doing 6 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 2: the bonus with me and today in this episode, we're 7 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 2: going to be just spilling some tea about things that 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 2: we've heard that have happened in workplaces in our experience. 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: Yep, what have you got? Sarah? 10 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 3: Well, I'm not going to say whether this was anything 11 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 3: to do with any workplaces I've worked in or whether 12 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 3: I've heard whatever happened someone vaping at their desk wasn't 13 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 3: just a regular vape though. It was a weed babe, 14 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,959 Speaker 3: not just like indoors at their desk. I'm like, can 15 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 3: you not even run out. 16 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: Crazy? 17 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 4: What's the disciplinary action for a weed babe? 18 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: Immediate dismissed. 19 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 3: It depends on how long they've been working there. Hang on, 20 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 3: who who noticed this? Was that the teammate next door? 21 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 3: Go on, you'd smell it. Surely they didn't even hide it. 22 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 3: Someone was like, ah, I use a regular vape sometimes 23 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 3: sneakily at my desk, but I think. 24 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: That's a step too far. 25 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 3: Oh a fella, yeah, fellow VAPO who pointed them out, 26 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 3: I think, But yeah, it depends on how long they've 27 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 3: been working there. I think in this case the person 28 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 3: was maybe in probation, So that's a very straightforward kind 29 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 3: of situation. 30 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: That's another thing as well, which we didn't touch on 31 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 2: in the main episode, which I feel like we could 32 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: do a whole episode about, and one thing that I 33 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 2: think a lot of business owners will go into business 34 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 2: not even thinking about. Like, as we know, like hiring 35 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: someone is such a delicate process and like we mentioned 36 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 2: in the first episode, like it's terrifying and you've got 37 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 2: to put so much trust. But one thing that you 38 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 2: deal with a lot in business is you know, having 39 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 2: to deal with certain things happening, and it all comes 40 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 2: down to the way that that person is employed and 41 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 2: how long they've been employed. And it's just something that 42 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 2: I never thought of when I started Fate, But like, 43 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: even if someone is doing something terribly wrong, you've got 44 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 2: to like jump through hoops before you can. 45 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: Actually deal with that issue. And it's just one of 46 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: those things spacking. 47 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 2: No, you can't just be like get the fuck out 48 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: of here, like if someone's done something bad, like you've 49 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 2: actually got to take all these necessary steps. 50 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 3: And I think that's like you can sometimes see that 51 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 3: from the perspective of, like why can't we have more 52 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 3: power as businesses to make these decisions? But I think 53 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 3: it's sometimes helpful to think about it from a perspective 54 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 3: of a relationship. Like a really good friend that you've 55 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 3: known for a really long time, if they did something 56 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:32,519 Speaker 3: like that wasn't really appropriate, or they upset you or whatever, 57 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 3: You're not going to immediately cut them off forever as 58 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 3: a friend. It depends on Oh, but they've been so 59 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 3: good to me for the years, Like I want to 60 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 3: know what's going on, Like what why did they do that? 61 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 3: Can I have a chat to them about it? And Oh, 62 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 3: they're going to apologize and not do it again. And 63 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 3: maybe it's just that one blip in that long relationship, right, 64 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 3: But if they're a brand new friend and they do something, 65 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 3: you might be like, well, that's not worth it. So yeah, 66 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 3: a kind of perspective of you might have stuff ups 67 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 3: in your life, Like good people do bad things. I 68 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 3: do believe that there are consequences, but good people sometimes 69 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 3: do bad things, and I think that's A similar approach 70 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 3: in a workplace is if you've got a twenty year 71 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 3: unblemished career history with this employer and you make one 72 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 3: mistake for someone else, that might be the end of 73 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 3: the road for them. 74 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: It might be a. 75 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: Warning and you know, a stern kind of conversation. 76 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 2: Which I think is something that a lot of business 77 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 2: owners would then struggle with. Like when you are in 78 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 2: that predicament of someone's been doing something wrong and you 79 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: can't just again. 80 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: Like going back to having hard conversations. 81 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 2: People don't want to do it, so either leave it 82 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 2: and let it fester and turn into something huge, or 83 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: you've then got to step in and have like an 84 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 2: awkward conversation. 85 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: And I think that's where a lot of. 86 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: Business owners, especially new business owners, would get stuck when 87 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 2: they just want everyone to be happy and they don't 88 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 2: want to deal with any kind of tricky conversations. But 89 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: in my experience, I've just learned have that hard conversational 90 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: because your life is going to be easier after it. 91 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 3: What other situations have you had to deal with. 92 00:03:58,640 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: Or heard about happening? 93 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: Word one that comes to mind that I don't know 94 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 2: where it happened, or may or may not have been 95 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 2: at the company that I own. 96 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: Someone napping on the clock. 97 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 3: Oh okay, I can one up that. Oh what about 98 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 3: napping on the clock up high in the racks of 99 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 3: the warehouse? Yeah okay, yeah, okay, apparently that's a common thing. 100 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've only experienced that once. So they're climbing up 101 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: on No, it wasn't in my warehouse. 102 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 3: I can say that, climbing up into the racks up high, 103 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: that's right. And it's like, it's just there's so many 104 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 3: reasons you could unpack in that warning letter termination the confidence, 105 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 3: Like I've been tempted to nap a lot of times 106 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:50,799 Speaker 3: in breakfast radio, but to just to just commit and 107 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 3: and go to your car or something, just say can 108 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 3: I have a tenor like I'm feeling good. 109 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: And that's the thing. I'm like, if you need to 110 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: take a break, like. 111 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 2: Go to someone, just like I'm feeling a bit fucked, 112 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 2: I just like, go sit in my car for twenty 113 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: minutes and close my eyes. Instead, people are like, nap 114 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 2: on the job, and now I'm like, now you're going 115 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 2: to get in trouble. 116 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 117 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 3: Someone drinking vodka out of a water bottle that was 118 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:12,559 Speaker 3: like a clear water bottle. 119 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: It's just straight vodka. Okay, how did how did that? 120 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, how did I find out? How do you find 121 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 4: out that? 122 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 3: Oh, it's a bad one because it was actually a 123 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 3: customer that went, hey, can I speak to someone? 124 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 5: I think he's drunk? 125 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 3: Drunk? Oh, yeah, that's bad. 126 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 4: I want to ask, because we hear stories about this 127 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 4: in workplaces all over. But as someone in HR, how 128 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 4: many times have you come across the issue of people 129 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 4: having intimate relations within a workplace? Is that quite common? 130 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 3: Like as in at work, yes, like in the in 131 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 3: the office, yes, like physical intimate like in the workplace. Yeah, 132 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 3: I haven't run in to that before. But I've worked 133 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 3: in lots of workplaces where people are couples or they 134 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 3: you know, they're all around the same age, and they 135 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 3: date and they break up and they whatever. That's really common. 136 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 3: Haven't actually dealt with that happening in the office, although 137 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 3: I'm sure I'm sure it does. 138 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never experienced that, Like I can say, like, 139 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 2: we've never had anything like that happen at fate, Like, 140 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: no one's ever done as far as I'm aware. Like 141 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 2: I don't know what people areetting not to do at 142 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 2: the back. 143 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: Of the warehouse. 144 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 3: There's no security taps. 145 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 6: No. I've heard now that I'm in corporate life, I 146 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 6: hear stories a lot, not from this place, but you 147 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 6: hear stories from other workplaces all the time saying, oh this, 148 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 6: these people are doing this in the meeting room on 149 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 6: level seven. 150 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: I believe it. 151 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:51,799 Speaker 3: And yeah, like, provided that it's consensual and it's adults 152 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 3: and you know there's no kind of issues around, like 153 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 3: power and promotions and all that kind of stuff. I 154 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 3: really don't want to No. 155 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 5: I don't want to deal with it. 156 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 3: She's like, I don't care play. I just like, don't 157 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 3: get caught. I don't want to deal with it. And 158 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 3: often stuff comes to me and I'm like, God, I 159 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 3: wish you'd just gotten away with this because I really 160 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 3: don't want to have to deal with it, Like can 161 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 3: you've done that better, like whatever thing you said about 162 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 3: someone or whatever, because it's like now I have to 163 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 3: be involved, and I really don't like. Nobody likes. No 164 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 3: business owner likes having to deliver those consequences, Like you've 165 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 3: put me in this position. 166 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: That's what we always say. 167 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 2: Like there's been a few instances where I've had to 168 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 2: hand out like warning letters and every time, I found 169 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: myself in that predicament, Like I'm always just honest. 170 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: And speak like a human to my staff, and I. 171 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 2: Always just say, look, I don't want to be doing this, yeah, 172 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: And I wish employees would realize that as well, or 173 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 2: like if I'm looking for an opportunity, no, like I 174 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 2: don't want to be having this disciplinary meeting with you. 175 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to have to be handing you this 176 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 2: warning letter because this isn't fun for me either. And 177 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people may think, you know, 178 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 2: if it's head office, like oh, they love doing this 179 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 2: or they want me to get this warning letter. It's like, no, 180 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 2: I'd actually rather never do this again in my whole career. 181 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 3: Honestly, even if you think people are evil, it's more 182 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 3: Admint who likes admin. Even evil people don't like. 183 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 2: Adamt exactly right, and which staff would just realize that, 184 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 2: Like we just want everyone to have fun, get along, yeah, 185 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: do your job, show up every day, do. 186 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: The work, go home. You don't have to be besties. 187 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 2: Like we don't expect that, and just like, don't do 188 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: anything wrong so we don't ever have to have like 189 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 2: an awkward conversation. I don't have to give you a 190 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 2: warning letter. We don't have to dismiss you from your role. 191 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 3: And there's so many things where you just could have said, hey, 192 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 3: I'm dealing with this, instead of pretending you were here 193 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 3: or lying that you came to that and saying no, no, 194 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 3: I was definitely there, and you're like, well, I can 195 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 3: actually see that you weren't, like, and then it's a 196 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 3: whole story. You could have just said, oh, something happened, 197 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, and it wouldn't. 198 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: Have been It's better to just be honest, and the 199 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 1: whole cover. 200 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 3: Up becomes a whole story. And like, there's so many 201 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,319 Speaker 3: I think that these are the fun ones to talk about. 202 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 3: I guess, like the crazy, outlandish kind of behavior, But 203 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 3: the more crazy concerning is the fraud. The you know, 204 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: gift voucher, hear this account here, fake address here, like 205 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 3: that kind of stuff is just awful. 206 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 2: I worked at a place when I was when I 207 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 2: was younger, like before I had a license. I as 208 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 2: a teenager, and two people that I was working with 209 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 2: that were a couple, like we were all really young, 210 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 2: like they were a few. 211 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: Years older than me. 212 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 2: They were stealing money from the business that I was 213 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 2: working at. Because we were using a cash register and 214 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 2: they could charge it was like an old school cash register, 215 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 2: you know, so they could charge things that I don't 216 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 2: know how they were doing it. And they were like 217 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 2: there'd be change in the middle, so the customer would 218 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: get their change and then they'd take the rest. 219 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: And I remember I was so young, like. 220 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 2: I would have been fifteen, because like I couldn't even 221 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: drive myself to this workplace. And they told me about 222 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 2: what they were doing, and they were trying to get 223 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 2: me in on it, but I'm really bad with numbers 224 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 2: and like. 225 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 3: The maths or you would he like me maths. 226 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, So it was mental the way they were doing it. 227 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 3: And I wasn't putting it in the register something cheaper, 228 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 3: but charging the customer of the right amount and then 229 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 3: the difference. 230 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 2: And so I'm not good with maths on a good day, 231 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 2: let alone if I don't have a calculator, And they 232 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 2: were having to do it on the spot at the 233 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 2: register as they'll bring the transaction through and then they 234 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 2: were pocketing the difference and they were trying to encourage 235 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 2: me to do it, but I was like, oh, like. 236 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: Because I felt pressured to do it. 237 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: I felt pressured to do it because they were like 238 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 2: my two older coworkers, and I was like, I can't 239 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 2: because I can't work out the money. 240 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 3: Like do relate to I used to almost have a 241 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 3: stroke when I worked in hospital as a teenager too, 242 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 3: when an old person would come in and you would 243 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 3: have already put it in the. 244 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 5: Till they wi their ten cents. 245 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: I'll give you the ten cents. 246 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 2: I'm like, he's twenty, buch, just stay care and they're 247 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 2: staring at you like are you an idiot? 248 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: And there actually I. 249 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 6: Got fifty cents here and you're like, no time, please, 250 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:56,559 Speaker 6: that's me now. 251 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 1: I'm like if someone did that to me now, I'd 252 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: be like, so what do I give you? 253 00:10:59,320 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 6: Now? 254 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 1: Just changed the whole equation. 255 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 5: I'm like, in my brains six square? How I work 256 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 5: this out? 257 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 3: Yeah that happened, Like oh, I'm going to have to 258 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 3: start scanning everything again. 259 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Yeah, no I can't. I can't. 260 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 2: But yeah, that happened at the old workplace, and the 261 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 2: owners ended up finding out because they like saw their 262 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 2: sales transactions like why is everyone buying like oh this. 263 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: Stock take would be wrong? 264 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and they I think the police ended up 265 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 2: getting involved and. 266 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: Those two people got fired and I was just an accomplice. 267 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 3: Nobody interview me. 268 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: Please. 269 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you lied in an interview once and then 270 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:37,959 Speaker 3: like didn't get worked out, it was it. 271 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 5: All kind of I don't recommend do as I say, 272 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 5: not as I do. 273 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 3: But when I was about eighteen, I applied for a 274 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 3: trainee ship in my hometown, like a business admin trainee ship. 275 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 3: Interview went really, really well, and then at the end 276 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 3: it was like in passing as we were leaving. It 277 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 3: wasn't even a proper interview question, but she was like, oh, 278 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 3: by the way, can you drive manual in cars? And 279 00:11:56,280 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 3: I was like, yep, yep, absolutely couldn't drive man only 280 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 3: had an automatic license. 281 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 5: No one in my family ever had a manual. 282 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 3: And she's like great, And so then I had two 283 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 3: weeks to learn how to drive manual and guess you 284 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 3: can drive manual down slang and you know what. 285 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 1: I had no choice but to learn in a manual. 286 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 2: And I thon, it's a flex because not many people 287 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 2: can drive manuals these days, So it's a flex. 288 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 3: And yeah, honestly though, it's almost like the reverse of 289 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 3: a flex because we grew up in the country and 290 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm a country girl, you can't drive a 291 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 3: manual like that's but the word flex. 292 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:34,119 Speaker 5: Is just expected. 293 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 3: In the end, they were just asking because they had 294 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 3: work cars that, like I think I had to duck 295 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 3: out to the post office like right a day, so 296 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 3: they were like, instead of taking your own car, you 297 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 3: can take a work one if you want. 298 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 5: But I also could have just taken my own car, 299 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 5: so you didn't. 300 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: Need to learn. But now you've got that skillful lot. 301 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 3: And the cars that I had to drive were rusty, 302 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 3: old one hundred year old uthes that would stall in 303 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 3: town at the roundabout, so it was a bad idea, 304 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 3: very Trauman. I like it. 305 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, now I can drive Manuel. 306 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: Well, this has been great again. 307 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 2: I feel we're going to have to get you both 308 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 2: back in the studio a little later in the year 309 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 2: because I like that idea, see. 310 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:10,679 Speaker 3: What people want to hear. 311 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, thanks for joining me on my bonus episode, 312 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 2: and be sure to listen to the main if you 313 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 2: haven't already, which would have come out earlier this week. 314 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 1: They're coming out back to back, right, Vander, They are great. 315 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: Thanks again, DLS, thank you so much. 316 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 4: Worries