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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast on Richie.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you very much for the queue. I'm surprised

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Speaker 2: you didn't point at me. Oh now, and now I'm

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Speaker 2: allowed to speak.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. I have the talking stick. Who would have

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Speaker 3: thought it?

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Speaker 2: Things that you see on social media may not be

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Speaker 2: as romantic as they see.

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Speaker 1: You can't say that. You cannot say that.

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Speaker 2: And the other thing I'm going to bring to the table,

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Speaker 2: wait for it.

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Speaker 3: Life can be hard.

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Speaker 2: For people using social media and the influences.

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Speaker 4: Now there's not just.

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Speaker 2: No, it's true. It's true, and I'm going to fly

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Speaker 2: their flag this morning. This story comes from Reddit, and

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Speaker 2: maybe get involved. If there's an element of your life

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Speaker 2: that you are absolutely lying about on social media. I

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Speaker 2: guess firstly what comes to mind is perhaps you tend

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Speaker 2: to post loving photos of you and your family or

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Speaker 2: your girlfriend, but in actual fact the relationship is dying.

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Speaker 2: You're only posting the photos so that you keep the

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Speaker 2: family on side, or you make your girlfriends jealous. Maybe

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Speaker 2: you don't even like your kids, but you keep posting

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Speaker 2: photos at the park and telling everyone how cute they are.

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Speaker 1: It's really up to like any form of art, in

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Speaker 1: a way, it's up to the person or the viewers

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Speaker 1: interpretation of that moment, isn't it Well.

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Speaker 3: Yes it is, unless there's an essay.

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Speaker 2: Below the photo where they're driving the message home.

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Speaker 1: But a picture tells what is It tells thousands words,

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Speaker 1: tells a thousand stories, says a thousand wor words anyway.

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Speaker 1: So if I see a picture of you at the

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Speaker 1: beach capell.

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Speaker 3: Which you won't, oh and you do, I'll be crying

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Speaker 3: at home.

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Speaker 1: In your bikinis just at the beach.

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Speaker 3: I can't wear a bikini to the beach.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, and I and the sun's kind of going down.

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Speaker 1: I think you've had the most beautiful afternoon and most.

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Speaker 3: Relaxing day possible.

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Speaker 1: Little did I know when you put your towel down

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Speaker 1: on the beach there was a dog trd there and

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Speaker 1: then May given you hell because she wants an ice scream.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't even want to go to the beach. I've

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Speaker 3: had to drag it.

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Speaker 4: You run out of fuel on the way, and you

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Speaker 4: wave a wave got you and you've got sand in

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Speaker 4: your crack.

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Speaker 2: That's the home depends whether you like having sand in

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Speaker 2: your crack.

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Speaker 1: And you actually sat down for about three minutes you.

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Speaker 4: Will rub it hard enough it makes glass.

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Speaker 3: I mean it's hard to exfoliate in some areas. Guys.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, let's move, let's move a Look what they're saying

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Speaker 2: is a lot of people who post things about Look,

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Speaker 2: this is me running my business and I'm sending all

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Speaker 2: my orders out and it's really great and everything's successful

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Speaker 2: in life's going well, when in actual fact, running.

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Speaker 3: A small business hard hard. It's incredibly hard.

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Speaker 2: You know, you're only just meeting the I don't even

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Speaker 2: know how you run a small business, but you're meeting

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Speaker 2: the lines, the deadlines.

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Speaker 1: And you know who I reckon are brilliant at this

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Speaker 1: real estate agents. Okay, they are leaning against a fast

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Speaker 1: looking car. They've got a sharp suit on, they haven't

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Speaker 1: got any socks on, so they look like they're a

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Speaker 1: little bit adventurous as well, and they're crunching deals.

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Speaker 4: He's saying that.

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Speaker 3: Jason Yang goes home and cries into.

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Speaker 4: HEAs hands Yang yang dang when he gets home.

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Speaker 1: And then he gets home, he looks down he sees

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Speaker 1: how much the cars costing him a month.

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Speaker 3: It's not even his car.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I not don't even know Jason, and I'm

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Speaker 2: not commenting on him necessarily. But most cars that people

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Speaker 2: are leaning on they don't own them.

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Speaker 1: No, they don't. And you know what, they're standing there

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Speaker 1: with the coffee and they're on the phone, look like

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Speaker 1: they're crunching deals, but really they're just trying to put

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Speaker 1: a meal on the table on the mini and wage.

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Speaker 4: There's a great Instagram account called units of TikTok?

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Speaker 3: Is this like me?

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Speaker 1: Strong man?

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Speaker 4: There's this amazing guy.

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Speaker 3: He would be in his if he's late fifties.

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Speaker 4: I reckon, Okay, he's in all right, Nick, but he

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Speaker 4: just thinks he's God's gift for women. And he walks

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Speaker 4: around with his top off and he's just his hand

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Speaker 4: is a selfie stick and it's just him walking smiling,

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Speaker 4: looking deep into the camera, going, ladies, this is what

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Speaker 4: you could have if you don't.

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Speaker 1: Amz home goes home and cross himself to slowly?

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Speaker 3: Is this the whole thing?

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Speaker 2: Because it's an romantic ideal that doesn't really exist. Let's

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Speaker 2: go to Meghan and elderly. Good morning, Megan, good morning, Oh.

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Speaker 3: Not too bad. Have you got a part of your

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Speaker 3: life that isn't as glamorous as you portray?

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Speaker 1: It's my friends post on Facebook these photos of themselves.

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Speaker 1: They don't look like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, And so when you see the photo come up,

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Speaker 2: do you think, oh, my goodness, Jessica does not look

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Speaker 2: anything like that. Her skin's usually bad. That is not

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Speaker 2: the size she usually is. Yeah, she's affected that entire

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Speaker 2: it looks terrible.

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Speaker 3: Ye mean, do you know what's yeah it is.

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Speaker 1: I think some girls and guys they adopt an Instagram

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Speaker 1: smile and it doesn't look like anything you would see

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Speaker 1: in the natural world.

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Speaker 3: Well, they've found they found their angle.

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Speaker 1: But when you find your angle and then you repeat

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Speaker 1: it over and over again in a still form, you

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Speaker 1: start to look ridiculous. There was a girl that worked

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Speaker 1: here to remember her. Yes, she smiles in photos, and

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Speaker 1: you go, you don't look anything like that. Unrecognizing that

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Speaker 1: is like, I mean, if you would have made a

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Speaker 1: guy that's catfish one, I won Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Want just tell Kate, she's right here.

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Speaker 1: Your Instagram smile, O, Kate, No, it's not you.

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Speaker 3: Well I have to smile somewhere.

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