WEBVTT - Des Disappears: The Man Who Vanished Without a Trace

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<v Speaker 1>Approche production.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever lost something, maybe it was your keys,

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<v Speaker 2>your mobile phone, or something more valuable. To find them,

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<v Speaker 2>you retrace your steps, You look in all the places

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<v Speaker 2>they're most likely to be, and sometimes you look in

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<v Speaker 2>places where they're probably not, but just in case. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>when things go missing, you blame other people. You ask

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<v Speaker 2>them if they've put them somewhere, if they've seen them.

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<v Speaker 2>You sometimes think the worst, maybe they've been stolen, taken

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<v Speaker 2>from you when you weren't looking. Some of those theories

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<v Speaker 2>that you come up with when something goes missing are

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<v Speaker 2>far fetched. You blame and have unreasonable thoughts. Those themes

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<v Speaker 2>will be explored in this podcast, but not with insignificant

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<v Speaker 2>material things, but with a person. This is a story

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<v Speaker 2>of Desmond Francis Carr, who was last seen at three

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<v Speaker 2>pm on August two, nineteen seventy nine, and then he disappeared.

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<v Speaker 2>Nineteen seventy nine. The Prime Minister of Australia was Malcolm Fraser.

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<v Speaker 5>Honey Side Still shot.

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<v Speaker 2>At thirty eight years old. Desmond Francis Carr or Des

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<v Speaker 2>as he was, was the youngest son of Dolly.

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<v Speaker 5>And Frank Carr from WA.

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<v Speaker 2>Frank DES's dad was a large man, not heavy, but

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<v Speaker 2>tall and lanky. Frank worked for the main roads department

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<v Speaker 2>that Jobby's son, Dez would one day inherit. Dorothy or

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<v Speaker 2>Dolly as everyone knew her, was Frank's wife. They had

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<v Speaker 2>a lovely marriage, lived in a quiet town called York,

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<v Speaker 2>and lived a modest life with their three daughters and

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<v Speaker 2>youngest son, Dez. There was one other child, his name

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<v Speaker 2>was Max. Three days after Max was born, he passed away.

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<v Speaker 2>Shirley DES's little sister recounts what life is like back

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<v Speaker 2>then in York.

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<v Speaker 4>Beautiful little town. I mean I could live there again

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<v Speaker 4>now if I had two Yeah, would definitely days used

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<v Speaker 4>to walk to school with me. Make sure that none

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<v Speaker 4>of the kids picked on me, you know, if they

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<v Speaker 4>did look out. He was very protective of me. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I had lots of little friends at school and that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet things were pretty simple for a teenager growing up

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<v Speaker 2>in York. You loved afl and hung out with your mates.

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<v Speaker 2>That's exactly how Dez grew into an adult. He loved

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<v Speaker 2>hanging out with mates, watching TV and looking after his

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<v Speaker 2>little sister Shirley.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, we really got on well together. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>mainly played football. Theirs wasn't really a very athletic person,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, he used to like his TV. He wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>a smoker or drinker. Then he used to look after

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<v Speaker 4>me at school, at playtime and things like that. Where

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<v Speaker 4>during when we're a bit older and they didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to be caught with little sister.

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<v Speaker 5>Did he finish school?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think he left school third grade. Third what

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<v Speaker 4>do you call it?

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<v Speaker 1>That grade?

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<v Speaker 4>That at high school? Yeah, it was pretty good at school.

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<v Speaker 4>Not a gee whiz, but he got through like I did.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, Green and Joy were the same. Nobody was

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<v Speaker 4>extra bright, but we just managed to get through everything.

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<v Speaker 5>Yet and growing up, what it does want to be

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<v Speaker 5>what it was?

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<v Speaker 1>The insident?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, he wanted to be a race car driver. My

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<v Speaker 4>dad put the stock to that, so I think he

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<v Speaker 4>was a bit of Alarican.

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<v Speaker 2>Shirley is almost seventy five now. She was only thirty

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<v Speaker 2>five when des vanished. Her memories are fading, mainly due

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<v Speaker 2>to mild dementia and some stress throughout a life, but

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<v Speaker 2>some of the memories of DEAs are really clear.

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<v Speaker 4>We've had a little hardware store, you know, it's only

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<v Speaker 4>a probably because of a normal toilet. And yeah, he

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<v Speaker 4>used to go after school and helped clean up the

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<v Speaker 4>yard and things like that. It never got paid money

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<v Speaker 4>for it, but he got other little things like if

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<v Speaker 4>he wanted a toy from the show, or little things

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<v Speaker 4>like rope and that he used to when people used

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<v Speaker 4>to say, what's he rope for? What was he going

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<v Speaker 4>to do with that? But he was less doing the kangaroos,

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't he, we found out later on?

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<v Speaker 5>And what would you do with the kangaroos? After he lies?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I don't want to know. I'll just

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<v Speaker 4>leave that to everyone else's imagination. Was he a happy kid, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>very mischievous, cheeky.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>As an adult and when he started to get a

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<v Speaker 5>bit older, and got out of the hardware.

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<v Speaker 4>What was his job then, Well, mainly he was working

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<v Speaker 4>out north for the main raged department, same as what

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<v Speaker 4>Dad did. Dad. And apparently he got mixed up with

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<v Speaker 4>the wrong crowd. He got into drinking before he left

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<v Speaker 4>to go up north. He didn't drink alcohol, you know

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<v Speaker 4>what I mean, but I think he got addicted to it.

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<v Speaker 4>And he wasn't a nasty drunk or anything like that,

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<v Speaker 4>but he was a big drinker. Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And so how old was he when he went up north?

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was seventeen, I think sixteen or seventeen.

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<v Speaker 5>So pretty young young. Would you say you were close brothers?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, very close. Yeah. He was my idol, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>my big brother because there's only one boy in the family,

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<v Speaker 4>and I used to look after me, you know a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>but was joined when they were away nursing all the time,

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<v Speaker 4>so they didn't grow up with him sort of like

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<v Speaker 4>I did. And it was, you know, happened to put it.

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<v Speaker 4>The big brother's not here anymore, he's gone up nort

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>So when we're talking about up north, whereabouts did he go?

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<v Speaker 4>Palled Headland just all around that area? Arrousked about I

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<v Speaker 4>think you'd call him.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so he'd work on.

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<v Speaker 4>On farms and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Later on in life he went to the main Rage Department,

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<v Speaker 4>working for.

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<v Speaker 2>Them obtaining disser's worklogs from the West Australian main roads.

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<v Speaker 2>He was stationed at a small Aboriginal outpost called Thangu,

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<v Speaker 2>sixteen hundred kilometers north of Perth and only eighty kilometers

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<v Speaker 2>from Broome. Thangu is a coastal homestead first established in

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<v Speaker 2>nineteen fifty by a farmer hoping to raise cattle. Although

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<v Speaker 2>Thangu is coastal, it's still around forty kilometers inland from

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<v Speaker 2>any beach and so is classed as outback. Out Back

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<v Speaker 2>Australia is some of the harshest countryside in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Most people are afraid of the snakes and spiders that

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<v Speaker 2>they believe inhabit these lands, but in fact more people

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<v Speaker 2>perish in outback Australia because of the sun, the heat

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<v Speaker 2>and the unforgiving landscape. There is red dirt everywhere. Outside

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<v Speaker 2>of the major towns are Aboriginal communities, mostly off the

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<v Speaker 2>beaten track. Des was working on a road that now

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<v Speaker 2>stretches from Perth on Australia's West coast to its northmost

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<v Speaker 2>port Windham. The Great Northern Highway is Australia's longest road

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<v Speaker 2>at over three two hundred kilometers. In nineteen seventy nine,

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<v Speaker 2>Dees was working on the stretch of dirt road that

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<v Speaker 2>would eventually link Port, Headline and Broom. Temperatures in these

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<v Speaker 2>outback areas often reach above thirty five degrees, but on

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<v Speaker 2>the freshly latar it can get into the high forties.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's important to try and understand the sort

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<v Speaker 2>of person Des was. He was a bit of a loner,

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<v Speaker 2>being the only boy in the family. As a child,

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<v Speaker 2>he would often find his own fun. Sometimes that fun

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<v Speaker 2>would turn into mischief. Des wasn't afraid of being by himself,

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<v Speaker 2>which probably led to him moving up north to work,

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<v Speaker 2>working as part of a main roads team. The hours

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<v Speaker 2>were long, but the money was good. From the records

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<v Speaker 2>we received, it seemed like Des didn't have any mates

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<v Speaker 2>as such up north. He had work colleagues, but none

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<v Speaker 2>of those tight sort of friendships that you establish while

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<v Speaker 2>working in a remote area for months with the same

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<v Speaker 2>group of blokes. He was happy that way. Des didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have a girlfriend or a wife, and from what the

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<v Speaker 2>family remember, little romantic interest. The lifestyle working on these

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<v Speaker 2>remote roads consists of waking up, getting trucked out to

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<v Speaker 2>the area you're assigned to work. Then at the end

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<v Speaker 2>of the day you get picked up and head back

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<v Speaker 2>to camp for some tucker and a beer or two.

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<v Speaker 2>Often you're working on your own with no one else around.

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<v Speaker 2>That was DES's life. Before we dig into what happened

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<v Speaker 2>on August s second, nineteen seventy nine, we have to

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<v Speaker 2>step back over ten years and uncover what could have

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<v Speaker 2>led to DES's disappearance. DES's older sister, Joy remembers.

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<v Speaker 6>Nineteen sixty six, we had the car accident. Des was

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<v Speaker 6>still in per thin and he used to come over

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<v Speaker 6>to the hospital because I hadn't the spine broken. And

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<v Speaker 6>he used to come over to Beat every day and

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<v Speaker 6>see me with one of his mates, Rick older set

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<v Speaker 6>and Rick was called up into the army, so he

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<v Speaker 6>would have been eighteen. I was berthed by then, and

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<v Speaker 6>Dares wanted to go too, but he wasn't called up

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<v Speaker 6>because of medical problems and that he.

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently had more on DES's relationship with his best mate Rick.

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<v Speaker 2>In episode two, not only was Joy, DES's sister involved

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<v Speaker 2>in a car crash in nineteen sixty six, but des

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<v Speaker 2>was also involved in a car crash in the mid seventies.

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<v Speaker 2>It is possible that alcohol played a part in his crash,

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<v Speaker 2>although back in those days there was no random breath testing,

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<v Speaker 2>and so it's possible that des was drink driving when

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<v Speaker 2>he had his car accident. The details of the accident

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<v Speaker 2>are sketchy, but what I do know is no one

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<v Speaker 2>else was injured. Joy, Deser's sister, sheds more light on

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<v Speaker 2>what happened. We're talking that he had a car crash

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<v Speaker 2>and you don't remember where that was. Was he badly injured?

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<v Speaker 6>I think he had concussion.

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<v Speaker 2>This wouldn't be the only concussion he received just before

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<v Speaker 2>he disappeared. There was another incident that could have led

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<v Speaker 2>to his disappearance. We'll explore that in episode two. For now,

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<v Speaker 2>let's mark down concussion as a possible reason for Deser's disappearance.

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<v Speaker 2>There is a theme emerging around DES's relationship with alcohol.

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<v Speaker 2>We heard from both his sisters that Dez had a

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<v Speaker 2>drinking problem of sorts. This problem only really emerged when

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<v Speaker 2>he moved up north to work. Each year in Australia,

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<v Speaker 2>tens of thousands of people go missing loved ones that

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<v Speaker 2>have simply up and vanished with no sight, no record

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<v Speaker 2>of their last movements. Susie is from Leave a Light

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<v Speaker 2>on Ink, a Facebook group that helps connect long term

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<v Speaker 2>missing people's stories and their families. She told me what

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<v Speaker 2>she does to help in the search for a missing person.

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<v Speaker 7>We aim to raise awareness of long term missing persons

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<v Speaker 7>and provide support for families suffering the ambiguous loss of

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<v Speaker 7>their loved ones. We endeavor to try and create media

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<v Speaker 7>publicity for long term missing persons, sus We also work

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<v Speaker 7>alongside the Australian Federal plase ensuring that long term missing

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<v Speaker 7>persons are listed onto their database. We also work with

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<v Speaker 7>families to help to find answers for them for questions

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<v Speaker 7>that they might have that they struggle to find information for. Plus,

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<v Speaker 7>we also liaised with the families sort of as an

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<v Speaker 7>intermediate between them and the jung FED or police and

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<v Speaker 7>missing persons units.

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<v Speaker 2>So there are at the moment thirty eight thousand people

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<v Speaker 2>reported missing each year in Australia. Not of those, a

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<v Speaker 2>small portion of them is what you call long term

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<v Speaker 2>missing persons. What does a long term missing person mean?

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<v Speaker 7>That they've been missing for longer than three months? And

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<v Speaker 7>there's approximately one percent of that thirty eight thousands that

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<v Speaker 7>go missing every year that aren't located that end up

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<v Speaker 7>falling into that long term missing persons category. Currently, there's

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<v Speaker 7>over two thousand, six hundreds long term missing persons in Australia.

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<v Speaker 2>When you think about what changes a person can go

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<v Speaker 2>through in forty years, it's almost impossible to imagine what

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<v Speaker 2>Dees would be like now, What would he look like,

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<v Speaker 2>what interests would he have? Dees is not alone in

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<v Speaker 2>being missing.

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<v Speaker 5>For forty years.

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<v Speaker 2>Susie from Leave a Light On shares her own experience

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<v Speaker 2>with a long term missing person.

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<v Speaker 7>My sister Joanne was eleven years old when she was

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<v Speaker 7>kidnapped from the Adelaide Oval in nineteen seventy three. So

0:14:20.601 --> 0:14:24.241
<v Speaker 7>as a legacy to her and also as a legacy

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<v Speaker 7>to all the other long term missing persons here in Australia,

0:14:28.001 --> 0:14:30.641
<v Speaker 7>we created Leave a Lot On to help raise awareness

0:14:30.681 --> 0:14:34.761
<v Speaker 7>and give supports family. I was actually born fourteen months

0:14:34.761 --> 0:14:37.401
<v Speaker 7>after my sister disappeared, so I never had the opportunity

0:14:37.481 --> 0:14:40.201
<v Speaker 7>to meet her. My family used to go to the

0:14:40.241 --> 0:14:44.721
<v Speaker 7>football nearly every week, and this day they'd gone to

0:14:44.761 --> 0:14:47.561
<v Speaker 7>the football. They always sat in the same sort of area.

0:14:48.161 --> 0:14:51.041
<v Speaker 7>They'd met a lady years before and made quite good

0:14:51.081 --> 0:14:54.081
<v Speaker 7>friends with her. She was there that day with her granddaughter.

0:14:54.641 --> 0:14:56.641
<v Speaker 7>Her granddaughter needed to go to the toilet, so my

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<v Speaker 7>sister offered to take her. After a few minutes, they returned,

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<v Speaker 7>and then later in the game, Cursy, who was four

0:15:03.201 --> 0:15:06.841
<v Speaker 7>years old, to go to the toilet again, so Joanne

0:15:06.881 --> 0:15:09.361
<v Speaker 7>once again took her to the toilet, but unfortunately this

0:15:09.401 --> 0:15:14.641
<v Speaker 7>time they didn't return. My mum, brother and dad had

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<v Speaker 7>a bit an extensive search of the ground and unfortunately

0:15:19.401 --> 0:15:22.761
<v Speaker 7>couldn't locate her. So she was reporting to think along

0:15:22.801 --> 0:15:23.281
<v Speaker 7>with Percy.

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<v Speaker 2>Since then, there's never been a sighting, never been any

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<v Speaker 2>news about both the girls.

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<v Speaker 7>Over the years, There's been a number of suspects that

0:15:32.401 --> 0:15:35.841
<v Speaker 7>the police have investigated. Unfortunately there hasn't been enough evidence

0:15:35.881 --> 0:15:39.441
<v Speaker 7>to charge anyone, and sadly there hasn't been enough evidence

0:15:39.441 --> 0:15:43.601
<v Speaker 7>to locate either or Joanne. The girls were seen leaving

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<v Speaker 7>the oval with a tall, stooped man in his late

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<v Speaker 7>thirties and early forties. Kirsty was being carried by this

0:15:51.641 --> 0:15:55.001
<v Speaker 7>gentleman and Joanne was struggling with him, pulling on his

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<v Speaker 7>arm and quite trying to get him to drop thirsty

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<v Speaker 7>and there were a number of witnesses that come forward

0:16:00.761 --> 0:16:06.721
<v Speaker 7>to verify this information. But unfortunately the suspect for the

0:16:06.721 --> 0:16:09.881
<v Speaker 7>girls have been located over the forty six years.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't make it any easier. But I guess you

0:16:12.961 --> 0:16:18.841
<v Speaker 2>have some knowledge around what happened because someone saw something

0:16:19.001 --> 0:16:21.921
<v Speaker 2>and that the girls were taken from the oval. So

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<v Speaker 2>what happens after that moment, it's hard to suppose and

0:16:25.401 --> 0:16:28.401
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to think about, but I guess that's

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of information. And that's not always the

0:16:30.881 --> 0:16:32.321
<v Speaker 2>case with long term missing people.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 7>Unfortunately, there are a lot of people that go missing

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<v Speaker 7>that seems to just vanishing sin here and nothing is seen,

0:16:39.641 --> 0:16:42.481
<v Speaker 7>there's no evidence left behind, there's no information.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's exactly what happened to Dez. He just vanished.

0:16:50.041 --> 0:16:53.281
<v Speaker 2>So did he go walk about, did he want to disappear?

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<v Speaker 2>Or is there something more sinister behind his disappearance.

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<v Speaker 4>So this particular day, they dropped off at the certain

0:17:01.441 --> 0:17:04.241
<v Speaker 4>place did he had to go to. He had his water,

0:17:04.361 --> 0:17:07.081
<v Speaker 4>he had his food, dude, and they came to pick

0:17:07.121 --> 0:17:13.161
<v Speaker 4>these up that afternoon. No nowhere to be found, just

0:17:13.281 --> 0:17:15.241
<v Speaker 4>like someone plucked him up, you.

0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:19.400
<v Speaker 2>Know, Dez had three sisters. He grew up in a

0:17:19.441 --> 0:17:22.960
<v Speaker 2>small country town in Wa. He was a normal country

0:17:23.001 --> 0:17:25.441
<v Speaker 2>boy who grew into a young man who liked hanging

0:17:25.481 --> 0:17:27.840
<v Speaker 2>out with his mates, playing a bit of footye, and

0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:32.201
<v Speaker 2>getting up to childhood mischief. His middle sister, Joy, has

0:17:32.281 --> 0:17:35.080
<v Speaker 2>her memories of des in those early days living.

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<v Speaker 5>In New York.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, it was great.

0:17:37.441 --> 0:17:40.400
<v Speaker 6>Every year we used to get floods just about We

0:17:40.441 --> 0:17:43.361
<v Speaker 6>lived on the opposite side of the river to the school,

0:17:44.360 --> 0:17:47.761
<v Speaker 6>and we loved having floods because the bridges would be

0:17:47.801 --> 0:17:49.240
<v Speaker 6>covered and we didn't have to go to school.

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<v Speaker 8>That was great.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, No, it was good. And we had our grandparents,

0:17:54.281 --> 0:17:57.961
<v Speaker 6>my mum's parents living just out a little way out

0:17:58.001 --> 0:18:01.241
<v Speaker 6>of town and with a really great joy to go out.

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<v Speaker 4>There.

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<v Speaker 6>Had a big well back of the house, and there's

0:18:06.521 --> 0:18:08.440
<v Speaker 6>being a little boy used to like to try and

0:18:08.521 --> 0:18:12.521
<v Speaker 6>climb up this windmill thing, and he would always get

0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:15.561
<v Speaker 6>roused at. He still kept doing it, but he didn't

0:18:15.600 --> 0:18:17.521
<v Speaker 6>do any harm as it turned out, But they were

0:18:17.521 --> 0:18:19.801
<v Speaker 6>frightened that some of the boards on top of the

0:18:19.801 --> 0:18:24.321
<v Speaker 6>well might have given away. Yeah, it would always make

0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:26.640
<v Speaker 6>something excuse for him to come and play with us.

0:18:27.041 --> 0:18:30.080
<v Speaker 6>He didn't like playing with dogs, like all boys, you know,

0:18:30.321 --> 0:18:35.080
<v Speaker 6>liked playing rough games marbles and that. In fact, I

0:18:35.120 --> 0:18:35.840
<v Speaker 6>can remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how.

0:18:36.681 --> 0:18:41.160
<v Speaker 6>Old I was. Theirs had the measles, and we used

0:18:41.201 --> 0:18:43.120
<v Speaker 6>to go into the bedroom with in Gwin and I

0:18:43.201 --> 0:18:45.961
<v Speaker 6>and play and throw around. He pushed me one day

0:18:46.001 --> 0:18:48.400
<v Speaker 6>and he put his knee up and he hit me

0:18:48.441 --> 0:18:50.600
<v Speaker 6>in the mouth and knocked on two front ties out.

0:18:52.801 --> 0:18:56.561
<v Speaker 2>So Daz was an explorer and an adventurer. He didn't

0:18:56.561 --> 0:18:59.681
<v Speaker 2>seem like he was afraid to take risks. As Darz

0:18:59.761 --> 0:19:02.680
<v Speaker 2>grew older, he developed a bit of a loner mentality.

0:19:03.600 --> 0:19:07.440
<v Speaker 2>He had friends, but that group of friends was small.

0:19:07.561 --> 0:19:11.600
<v Speaker 2>His best friend in the early seventies was Rick. Des

0:19:11.600 --> 0:19:13.761
<v Speaker 2>and Rick would hang out together and get into a

0:19:13.801 --> 0:19:17.321
<v Speaker 2>bit of trouble, nothing serious, just what we'd call alarican

0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:22.360
<v Speaker 2>these days. As we heard in episode one, DES's best mate,

0:19:22.441 --> 0:19:26.321
<v Speaker 2>Rick was called up to Vietnam. Des wasn't because of

0:19:26.360 --> 0:19:31.241
<v Speaker 2>some unconfirmed medical issues. While Rick was stationed in Vietnam,

0:19:31.441 --> 0:19:36.241
<v Speaker 2>something happened, something that affected DES's emotional state that could

0:19:36.281 --> 0:19:39.561
<v Speaker 2>have contributed to his disappearance in nineteen seventy nine.

0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:45.960
<v Speaker 6>Rick was only overseas in Vietnam for oh, just two

0:19:46.080 --> 0:19:48.200
<v Speaker 6>or three months. I think it wasn't he was killed

0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:55.120
<v Speaker 6>that really hit is hard, and I think that's when

0:19:55.160 --> 0:19:57.880
<v Speaker 6>he started to go drinking a bit more than what

0:19:57.921 --> 0:19:58.521
<v Speaker 6>he should have been.

0:19:59.561 --> 0:20:02.881
<v Speaker 2>Death often has a way of triggering emotion that might

0:20:02.961 --> 0:20:06.920
<v Speaker 2>not normally appear. In de Us case, it wasn't just

0:20:06.961 --> 0:20:10.921
<v Speaker 2>an emotion that was triggered. It was drinking. Dez started

0:20:11.001 --> 0:20:16.080
<v Speaker 2>drinking and drinking hard. Was Dez drinking to forget or

0:20:16.201 --> 0:20:20.201
<v Speaker 2>drinking to dull the Paine? Whatever his reason, his family

0:20:20.241 --> 0:20:28.840
<v Speaker 2>feel this may have contributed to his disappearance. At this

0:20:28.961 --> 0:20:31.600
<v Speaker 2>point in the podcast, I think it's important to call

0:20:31.640 --> 0:20:35.761
<v Speaker 2>out a few things. There is a certain significance with

0:20:35.840 --> 0:20:39.520
<v Speaker 2>this story that I'm attached to. We will explore that

0:20:39.761 --> 0:20:43.720
<v Speaker 2>in later episodes. But it's fair to say this story

0:20:43.801 --> 0:20:46.600
<v Speaker 2>is not just intriguing to me. It's played a part

0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:51.080
<v Speaker 2>in my life for a long time. Let's get to

0:20:51.120 --> 0:20:56.001
<v Speaker 2>the disappearance. It was an evening in late June nineteen

0:20:56.041 --> 0:20:59.761
<v Speaker 2>seventy nine at Thangu station in out back Western Australia.

0:21:00.761 --> 0:21:03.961
<v Speaker 2>Dez had finished work on his steamroller. After working in

0:21:04.001 --> 0:21:08.120
<v Speaker 2>the hot suny himself on a road stretching fifty kilometers

0:21:10.041 --> 0:21:12.761
<v Speaker 2>it was an unsealed road, and Desert's roll at this

0:21:12.880 --> 0:21:16.001
<v Speaker 2>time was to steam roll the road flat and from

0:21:16.041 --> 0:21:19.881
<v Speaker 2>there a team would come in and lay down hot ashphalt.

0:21:21.561 --> 0:21:25.041
<v Speaker 2>Then the road would be classed as sealed. You can

0:21:25.041 --> 0:21:27.640
<v Speaker 2>see pictures of that red dirt that would soon become

0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:33.521
<v Speaker 2>a sealed road on our website. Whereas dez dot com,

0:21:33.681 --> 0:21:36.720
<v Speaker 2>Thangu's station was the meeting point for the main roads

0:21:36.721 --> 0:21:39.480
<v Speaker 2>department and where workers from all over the stretch of

0:21:39.521 --> 0:21:44.120
<v Speaker 2>highway were stationed. Most nights, it was the same get

0:21:44.160 --> 0:21:47.041
<v Speaker 2>back from the road, have some grub in the mess hall,

0:21:47.561 --> 0:21:51.761
<v Speaker 2>have some beers and hit the sack. These days, drinking

0:21:51.840 --> 0:21:53.960
<v Speaker 2>while being a fly and fly at worker is not

0:21:54.080 --> 0:21:57.920
<v Speaker 2>tolerated for good reason. Most fly and fly out workers

0:21:57.961 --> 0:22:00.880
<v Speaker 2>are breathlyzed before they start a shift and they must

0:22:00.921 --> 0:22:04.681
<v Speaker 2>have a reading of zero. In fact, most FIFO workers

0:22:04.761 --> 0:22:07.640
<v Speaker 2>are not allowed to drink while they're on roster. It's

0:22:07.681 --> 0:22:09.880
<v Speaker 2>only when they're on the leave that they can unwind.

0:22:11.001 --> 0:22:14.441
<v Speaker 2>That's now, But in nineteen seventy nine the rules were different,

0:22:14.961 --> 0:22:19.080
<v Speaker 2>mainly because there were no rules. You could get drunk

0:22:19.481 --> 0:22:22.241
<v Speaker 2>head to work the next day and not be breath tested.

0:22:23.041 --> 0:22:27.521
<v Speaker 4>Mom and Dad were worried about him drinking, but that's

0:22:27.561 --> 0:22:30.120
<v Speaker 4>a depthural thing. All the young blokes up there, you

0:22:30.241 --> 0:22:32.200
<v Speaker 4>go to work through the day. It didn't interfere with

0:22:32.281 --> 0:22:35.360
<v Speaker 4>his job. They all had a beer of a night time,

0:22:35.521 --> 0:22:37.561
<v Speaker 4>So how can you do you know?

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<v Speaker 2>In June nineteen seventy nine, a few months before he

0:22:42.041 --> 0:22:45.080
<v Speaker 2>went missing, Dez had finished writing a letter to his

0:22:45.160 --> 0:22:47.840
<v Speaker 2>mum and dad and had decided to head into the

0:22:47.880 --> 0:22:51.561
<v Speaker 2>nearest town, Derby, which was a little under forty kilometers

0:22:51.561 --> 0:22:55.481
<v Speaker 2>from the station. It was a Friday night, and after

0:22:55.521 --> 0:22:58.160
<v Speaker 2>a long week at work, it was finally time to

0:22:58.241 --> 0:23:02.761
<v Speaker 2>unwind at about ten pm. From the records and interviews

0:23:02.801 --> 0:23:07.001
<v Speaker 2>that were conducted around the time, was a fight. There

0:23:07.041 --> 0:23:09.561
<v Speaker 2>is no record of who was in the fight and

0:23:09.600 --> 0:23:13.321
<v Speaker 2>why it occurred, but whatever happened, it didn't end well

0:23:13.360 --> 0:23:16.880
<v Speaker 2>for des He suffered a cut on the head, a

0:23:17.001 --> 0:23:20.281
<v Speaker 2>cut so bad he needed to be taken to Derby Hospital.

0:23:20.921 --> 0:23:23.561
<v Speaker 2>This head knock is well documented in the police reports

0:23:23.600 --> 0:23:27.360
<v Speaker 2>back from nineteen seventy nine. The detective in charge back

0:23:27.400 --> 0:23:30.721
<v Speaker 2>then is now eighty two years old and retired. He

0:23:30.761 --> 0:23:33.360
<v Speaker 2>put us in touch with the current detective in charge

0:23:33.400 --> 0:23:38.041
<v Speaker 2>of missing Persons in wa Detective Sergeant Jude Sevright, she

0:23:38.241 --> 0:23:40.761
<v Speaker 2>shared some information from his missing person's file.

0:23:41.921 --> 0:23:45.921
<v Speaker 8>A missing person's reports was compiled by a Sergeant Pethick

0:23:46.481 --> 0:23:49.281
<v Speaker 8>who was attached to Brim Police station at the time,

0:23:50.080 --> 0:23:55.561
<v Speaker 8>and his inquiries has shown that before Des went missing,

0:23:56.840 --> 0:24:02.241
<v Speaker 8>he was apparently suffering from quite terrible headaches, so the

0:24:02.961 --> 0:24:07.840
<v Speaker 8>sergeants contacted Broom Hospital and he was advised that back

0:24:07.840 --> 0:24:10.561
<v Speaker 8>on the twenty third of June, in only seventy nine,

0:24:11.160 --> 0:24:14.720
<v Speaker 8>that Des was treated by a doctor for an injury

0:24:14.801 --> 0:24:18.801
<v Speaker 8>to his right temple, which according to the notes stated

0:24:18.840 --> 0:24:21.521
<v Speaker 8>that he received in a fight, and the next ray

0:24:21.600 --> 0:24:24.280
<v Speaker 8>was taken at the time, but it revealed that there

0:24:24.321 --> 0:24:29.401
<v Speaker 8>wasn't It was negative for any fractures and he received

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:33.241
<v Speaker 8>no further treatment. From the notes that I'm being made

0:24:33.241 --> 0:24:37.241
<v Speaker 8>aware of, he was advised to return to the hospital

0:24:37.241 --> 0:24:39.801
<v Speaker 8>for follow up, but I don't believe that Des did

0:24:39.840 --> 0:24:45.281
<v Speaker 8>return to the hospital following that. Another check with Derby

0:24:45.640 --> 0:24:49.880
<v Speaker 8>Hospital revealed that he was treated there on the twenty

0:24:50.120 --> 0:24:53.680
<v Speaker 8>first of the next month in July and again suffering

0:24:53.721 --> 0:24:58.440
<v Speaker 8>from headaches and apparently had some sort of infected lesion

0:24:59.160 --> 0:25:03.160
<v Speaker 8>on his right scalp through which he was treated with

0:25:03.321 --> 0:25:06.241
<v Speaker 8>antibiotics and it was quested to return to the hospital

0:25:06.721 --> 0:25:09.481
<v Speaker 8>in a few days. From my understanding, he didn't return.

0:25:09.761 --> 0:25:13.481
<v Speaker 2>It's interesting that there's a month between him first presenting

0:25:13.561 --> 0:25:15.801
<v Speaker 2>to Broome Hospital on the twenty third of June in

0:25:15.961 --> 0:25:19.160
<v Speaker 2>nineteen seventy nine and then presenting again in Derby a

0:25:19.201 --> 0:25:24.241
<v Speaker 2>month later with a similar sort of area and this

0:25:24.360 --> 0:25:28.961
<v Speaker 2>was back from that fight that happened around the June

0:25:29.001 --> 0:25:29.961
<v Speaker 2>time in seventy nine.

0:25:30.041 --> 0:25:33.201
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, he seems to be having this continuing similar symptoms

0:25:33.201 --> 0:25:37.321
<v Speaker 8>that he's presenting for. And then from what I understand,

0:25:37.321 --> 0:25:41.600
<v Speaker 8>on the first of August in nineteen seventy nine, he

0:25:42.681 --> 0:25:45.681
<v Speaker 8>was so unwell from his headaches that he was unable

0:25:45.721 --> 0:25:49.201
<v Speaker 8>to tend to work, so he remained at the camp

0:25:49.241 --> 0:25:52.281
<v Speaker 8>all that day. And it's also believe that he hasn't

0:25:52.721 --> 0:25:56.001
<v Speaker 8>around that time, he wasn't eating well. I'm assuming this

0:25:56.041 --> 0:25:58.201
<v Speaker 8>is to do with the fact that he wasn't well

0:25:58.201 --> 0:26:02.081
<v Speaker 8>and it maybe maybe to do with what you've mentioned

0:26:02.721 --> 0:26:04.241
<v Speaker 8>or related to the headache symptoms.

0:26:04.321 --> 0:26:07.721
<v Speaker 2>Is there any extra detail on the fight, because Frank Carr,

0:26:07.761 --> 0:26:12.321
<v Speaker 2>Desmond's dad, said that a chair fell on him and

0:26:12.321 --> 0:26:14.041
<v Speaker 2>this is how Frank recounts the story.

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:16.080
<v Speaker 8>I read that in the newspaper article, but I'm not

0:26:16.120 --> 0:26:20.001
<v Speaker 8>sure where that information has come from. It's not I

0:26:20.001 --> 0:26:22.281
<v Speaker 8>don't have any other information about that in the file.

0:26:22.521 --> 0:26:25.321
<v Speaker 2>So the police report is that the reason that he

0:26:25.441 --> 0:26:28.441
<v Speaker 2>had a bump on the head was not from a chair,

0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:29.360
<v Speaker 2>but from a fight.

0:26:30.080 --> 0:26:31.761
<v Speaker 8>That's what's written in the report here.

0:26:33.321 --> 0:26:36.201
<v Speaker 2>What is the most interesting here is that this detail

0:26:36.241 --> 0:26:38.840
<v Speaker 2>of the fight is different than what the family believe

0:26:38.921 --> 0:26:40.761
<v Speaker 2>happened to him and how he got a bump on

0:26:40.801 --> 0:26:43.640
<v Speaker 2>the head, a bump bad enough to be sent to

0:26:43.721 --> 0:26:52.480
<v Speaker 2>hospital twice in as many months. On August second, nineteen

0:26:52.521 --> 0:26:56.001
<v Speaker 2>seventy nine, although still not feeling one hundred percent, des

0:26:56.080 --> 0:26:58.921
<v Speaker 2>was picked up from the camp along with the other workers.

0:26:59.681 --> 0:27:01.880
<v Speaker 2>He had not complained of any headaches on the morning.

0:27:02.481 --> 0:27:05.041
<v Speaker 2>He was suffering mild diarrhea from the earlier in fact,

0:27:05.481 --> 0:27:08.121
<v Speaker 2>from the bump on the head. However, he still went

0:27:08.160 --> 0:27:11.720
<v Speaker 2>out to work on the roller. Each workout would be

0:27:11.761 --> 0:27:15.281
<v Speaker 2>dropped off at a designated machine on the highway. Today,

0:27:15.761 --> 0:27:18.880
<v Speaker 2>Dez was driving a roller. It was just him on

0:27:18.961 --> 0:27:23.041
<v Speaker 2>a stretch of road that was around ten kilometers ten

0:27:23.120 --> 0:27:31.001
<v Speaker 2>kilometers of highway with just Dez and his roller with him.

0:27:31.001 --> 0:27:33.480
<v Speaker 2>On that day. He had his lunch packed and a

0:27:33.481 --> 0:27:36.360
<v Speaker 2>blue water bottle, the kind that was made of foam.

0:27:36.921 --> 0:27:40.561
<v Speaker 2>He was wearing black shorts, a red shirt, and brown

0:27:40.600 --> 0:27:48.281
<v Speaker 2>boots with a bucket hat. The time was eight thirty am.

0:27:48.561 --> 0:27:51.521
<v Speaker 2>At three pm that same day, the truck that dropped

0:27:51.521 --> 0:27:53.960
<v Speaker 2>Dez off in the morning had driven past him to

0:27:54.001 --> 0:27:56.200
<v Speaker 2>head out to pick up the other workers from a

0:27:56.241 --> 0:27:59.760
<v Speaker 2>further post, and they saw him working on the roller.

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:03.840
<v Speaker 2>By four pm, when the truck returned to pick him up,

0:28:04.241 --> 0:28:14.561
<v Speaker 2>des had disappeared. That's exactly how Shirley, his little sister,

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:15.521
<v Speaker 2>remembers it.

0:28:16.281 --> 0:28:20.321
<v Speaker 4>Because he's worked for the main roads department. They dropped

0:28:20.360 --> 0:28:22.680
<v Speaker 4>them off of the morning at a certain place with

0:28:22.801 --> 0:28:25.400
<v Speaker 4>all their water and their food and that for the day.

0:28:26.481 --> 0:28:29.640
<v Speaker 4>So this particular day, they dropped Theirs off at a

0:28:29.681 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 4>certain place that he had to go to. He had

0:28:32.360 --> 0:28:36.161
<v Speaker 4>his water, he had his food, he had his boots,

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:40.200
<v Speaker 4>and that on dropped him off, went down further and

0:28:40.241 --> 0:28:41.401
<v Speaker 4>dropped other people off.

0:28:41.441 --> 0:28:42.401
<v Speaker 5>You know they do that.

0:28:43.401 --> 0:28:46.001
<v Speaker 4>I think it's one or two people, but Theirs was

0:28:46.001 --> 0:28:49.761
<v Speaker 4>the only one by himself, and they did that and

0:28:50.561 --> 0:28:54.321
<v Speaker 4>just went back to their camp. When they came to

0:28:54.321 --> 0:28:58.561
<v Speaker 4>pick Theirs up, that night, all that afternoon, no nowhere

0:28:58.561 --> 0:29:03.641
<v Speaker 4>to be found, just like someone plucked him up. You know,

0:29:04.681 --> 0:29:07.521
<v Speaker 4>steam roll was still running on the side of the

0:29:07.601 --> 0:29:11.321
<v Speaker 4>road that had been on that was the actual motor

0:29:11.481 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 4>was still going. Then they thought, well, okay, he's going

0:29:14.481 --> 0:29:15.481
<v Speaker 4>to be here somewhere.

0:29:19.121 --> 0:29:22.761
<v Speaker 2>It's not often that something just ups and vanishes on

0:29:22.801 --> 0:29:26.561
<v Speaker 2>a deserted stretch of road with no food, no water,

0:29:27.401 --> 0:29:32.440
<v Speaker 2>no shelter, and thirty kilometers from the closest camp. But

0:29:32.521 --> 0:29:33.761
<v Speaker 2>that's what happened to Daz.

0:29:34.641 --> 0:29:36.960
<v Speaker 4>What they told us that he'd probably wanted to go

0:29:37.041 --> 0:29:39.961
<v Speaker 4>to the toilet or something to relieve himself. So he's

0:29:39.961 --> 0:29:43.721
<v Speaker 4>probably just walked over in the bush and didn't come back.

0:29:45.041 --> 0:29:49.161
<v Speaker 4>He the police and that were called straightaway. They were

0:29:49.161 --> 0:29:56.601
<v Speaker 4>there within an hour. They looked everywhere, so many kilometers

0:29:56.641 --> 0:29:59.681
<v Speaker 4>around that area. They just didn't look at that certain place.

0:29:59.761 --> 0:30:02.681
<v Speaker 4>They went inland, they went on the other side of

0:30:02.681 --> 0:30:06.801
<v Speaker 4>the road, and I think there was seventeen of them

0:30:08.121 --> 0:30:12.960
<v Speaker 4>to look at the area where the last time he

0:30:13.041 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 4>was seen, and nobody found anything. No tracks, there was

0:30:19.521 --> 0:30:22.041
<v Speaker 4>no you know, like he had big boots in that

0:30:22.161 --> 0:30:26.001
<v Speaker 4>on there's no tracks at all. If they had a band,

0:30:26.321 --> 0:30:30.200
<v Speaker 4>we probably would have found him, even the manager or

0:30:30.201 --> 0:30:34.240
<v Speaker 4>whatever he said. He said, he's like something's pucked him

0:30:34.281 --> 0:30:39.441
<v Speaker 4>off them upstairs. Someone's just come down and pull him up.

0:30:40.241 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 4>And because that was a silly thing, we didn't believe

0:30:43.521 --> 0:30:46.321
<v Speaker 4>any of that. You know, that doesn't happen. It just

0:30:46.361 --> 0:30:51.401
<v Speaker 4>doesn't happen. But as the years went on, we thought, well,

0:30:51.481 --> 0:30:57.521
<v Speaker 4>if he's not deceased under a bush or something like that,

0:30:58.361 --> 0:31:01.441
<v Speaker 4>where's the other place. If you go.

0:31:03.001 --> 0:31:06.081
<v Speaker 2>You might notice there are some gaps when the exact

0:31:06.081 --> 0:31:10.041
<v Speaker 2>detail of what the family remember and what was actually

0:31:10.081 --> 0:31:15.121
<v Speaker 2>documented in the police report over forty years ago. Detective

0:31:15.201 --> 0:31:19.081
<v Speaker 2>Sergeant Jude Severright explains the official report.

0:31:19.921 --> 0:31:24.721
<v Speaker 8>From what I understand from the report, he went to

0:31:24.761 --> 0:31:29.001
<v Speaker 8>work as usual on the second from information from a

0:31:29.001 --> 0:31:34.041
<v Speaker 8>colleague that he was not feeling well. He interacted with

0:31:34.481 --> 0:31:37.521
<v Speaker 8>his colleagues at morning tea time, spoke to several different persons.

0:31:37.521 --> 0:31:40.881
<v Speaker 8>He went back to the camp at lunchtime, though he

0:31:40.921 --> 0:31:44.841
<v Speaker 8>did not eat. From what I understand, and at about

0:31:45.081 --> 0:31:49.521
<v Speaker 8>two pm that day in the report it meant is

0:31:49.561 --> 0:31:51.361
<v Speaker 8>that he spoke to someone I'm not sure who that's

0:31:51.361 --> 0:31:53.561
<v Speaker 8>someone is and said I'll be back at the camp

0:31:53.761 --> 0:31:57.521
<v Speaker 8>in two hours and then at three pm, he was

0:31:57.561 --> 0:32:00.921
<v Speaker 8>working with four other persons from what I understand, didn't

0:32:00.921 --> 0:32:03.321
<v Speaker 8>speak to them at that time. I don't know why.

0:32:03.321 --> 0:32:07.321
<v Speaker 8>That's not elaborated in the report. They left him to

0:32:07.361 --> 0:32:11.841
<v Speaker 8>continue with his work the ruler. And then at four

0:32:11.881 --> 0:32:16.881
<v Speaker 8>pm that day, when our vehicles returned to the site

0:32:16.921 --> 0:32:20.721
<v Speaker 8>where Dez was working to collect him, he wasn't there.

0:32:20.921 --> 0:32:22.761
<v Speaker 8>It's just his roller parked in the middle of the road.

0:32:23.761 --> 0:32:26.361
<v Speaker 2>So that means there's a period of an hour from

0:32:26.761 --> 0:32:30.681
<v Speaker 2>three pm to four pm where essentially he's gone missing.

0:32:31.361 --> 0:32:32.241
<v Speaker 8>That's what I understand.

0:32:32.321 --> 0:32:35.361
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and so the gentlemen that were working with him

0:32:35.401 --> 0:32:38.041
<v Speaker 2>at the time, did they notice anything, or is there

0:32:38.041 --> 0:32:41.121
<v Speaker 2>anything in the reports about how he was feeling, or

0:32:41.161 --> 0:32:45.561
<v Speaker 2>whether he was whether he was himself and lucid, or

0:32:45.601 --> 0:32:49.121
<v Speaker 2>is there any information around what his state was that afternoon.

0:32:49.441 --> 0:32:52.161
<v Speaker 8>There is a comment in the report that he appeared

0:32:52.161 --> 0:32:55.521
<v Speaker 8>to be becoming a bit more irrational and abnormal. It's

0:32:55.601 --> 0:32:59.000
<v Speaker 8>not elaborated on, so I don't know what that actually means.

0:32:59.281 --> 0:33:04.001
<v Speaker 8>But then also in contradiction to that, to some degree,

0:33:04.321 --> 0:33:06.960
<v Speaker 8>apparently that day when he was speaking to certain people,

0:33:07.001 --> 0:33:10.441
<v Speaker 8>he seemed okay. So it's not a definitive either way

0:33:10.481 --> 0:33:13.681
<v Speaker 8>as to as to exactly how he was feeling.

0:33:15.001 --> 0:33:18.401
<v Speaker 2>So des may have been frazzled or a little irrational

0:33:18.561 --> 0:33:22.041
<v Speaker 2>on the day he went missing. However, if it just

0:33:22.161 --> 0:33:25.761
<v Speaker 2>walked off, surely if that had happened, there would be

0:33:25.761 --> 0:33:30.561
<v Speaker 2>a trace or a body or footprints. Remember, it wasn't

0:33:30.641 --> 0:33:33.521
<v Speaker 2>yet a sealed road des was working on. It was

0:33:33.561 --> 0:33:38.441
<v Speaker 2>a red dirt sand road, which would leave footprints if

0:33:38.481 --> 0:33:43.281
<v Speaker 2>someone had just walked off. To see pictures of the

0:33:43.321 --> 0:33:47.881
<v Speaker 2>area surrounding Deser's disappearance, head to our website. Whereas dez

0:33:48.041 --> 0:33:55.441
<v Speaker 2>dot com, no tracks and no traces of des were

0:33:55.481 --> 0:34:00.480
<v Speaker 2>ever found. You can only imagine how Deser's mum and

0:34:00.561 --> 0:34:05.161
<v Speaker 2>dad would feel once they learned of his disappearance. Both Shirley,

0:34:05.161 --> 0:34:09.481
<v Speaker 2>DES's younger sister, and Enjoy, his older sister, have different

0:34:09.521 --> 0:34:12.401
<v Speaker 2>accounts of how they found out their brother was missing.

0:34:13.161 --> 0:34:18.281
<v Speaker 4>I think his name was Colin, a good friend of Deser's.

0:34:19.281 --> 0:34:22.201
<v Speaker 4>He came around one day. Mum and dad were at

0:34:22.201 --> 0:34:27.441
<v Speaker 4>the back. Dad was pruning some trees there. He walked in,

0:34:27.681 --> 0:34:29.561
<v Speaker 4>walked out to Mum and dad, and then the next

0:34:29.561 --> 0:34:33.441
<v Speaker 4>minute I heard screams and I thought, oh, what's that?

0:34:33.761 --> 0:34:37.641
<v Speaker 4>So I raced around there. I was only twenty something,

0:34:38.601 --> 0:34:42.441
<v Speaker 4>and that he told us that Desert God missing, that

0:34:42.521 --> 0:34:46.921
<v Speaker 4>nobody knew where he was, nobody could find him, and

0:34:47.161 --> 0:34:51.241
<v Speaker 4>it just crumbled my mum and dad as well. But

0:34:51.361 --> 0:34:54.161
<v Speaker 4>we couldn't get any answers from and nobody knew anything

0:34:55.601 --> 0:34:58.641
<v Speaker 4>the main roads department. I mean they looked for him.

0:34:58.721 --> 0:34:59.121
<v Speaker 1>They did.

0:35:00.561 --> 0:35:04.121
<v Speaker 2>That's Shirley's version of how they found out, but over

0:35:04.201 --> 0:35:09.041
<v Speaker 2>forty years memories fade Joy had a different version of events.

0:35:09.881 --> 0:35:13.321
<v Speaker 6>I think the police came up and told us that

0:35:13.721 --> 0:35:17.641
<v Speaker 6>he went missing, but I can't really recall because it

0:35:17.681 --> 0:35:21.241
<v Speaker 6>was about about eleven o'clock at night, I think when

0:35:21.801 --> 0:35:23.881
<v Speaker 6>they came up and told us. So we just packed

0:35:23.921 --> 0:35:27.521
<v Speaker 6>up everything then and went straight off to Perth. And

0:35:27.761 --> 0:35:31.401
<v Speaker 6>we got up there and apparently a mum and dad

0:35:31.641 --> 0:35:34.121
<v Speaker 6>heard about it. The start off with from a friend

0:35:34.161 --> 0:35:37.881
<v Speaker 6>of Desert's up there wanting to know if you know

0:35:37.961 --> 0:35:43.321
<v Speaker 6>they'd heard from Dead because they'd found his greater and

0:35:43.401 --> 0:35:45.721
<v Speaker 6>that they're still running at the site of where he

0:35:45.881 --> 0:35:47.841
<v Speaker 6>was working. That's what I understand.

0:35:49.041 --> 0:35:52.281
<v Speaker 2>While researching this story, I was able to obtain an

0:35:52.321 --> 0:35:55.561
<v Speaker 2>ABC special on missing persons back from nineteen eighty one.

0:35:56.321 --> 0:35:59.761
<v Speaker 2>In this special, DES's dad, Frank and Dolly talk about

0:35:59.841 --> 0:36:01.241
<v Speaker 2>Dez and his disappearance.

0:36:05.961 --> 0:36:11.201
<v Speaker 1>He couldn't believe. I think that he was working on

0:36:11.241 --> 0:36:13.801
<v Speaker 1>a roll and with these infection that he had on

0:36:13.841 --> 0:36:16.321
<v Speaker 1>his head and with his severe headaches. He was getting

0:36:17.201 --> 0:36:21.681
<v Speaker 1>given any Andy brydeck for the infection. He got diarrhea

0:36:21.721 --> 0:36:24.881
<v Speaker 1>about it and what he's continuing out with wall Com.

0:36:25.001 --> 0:36:30.321
<v Speaker 1>The diarrhea when he got back on his machine grounded

0:36:30.401 --> 0:36:33.121
<v Speaker 1>the noise and the wrap around the vibrats and things

0:36:33.681 --> 0:36:35.881
<v Speaker 1>couldn't stand. He got off the machine and went and

0:36:35.921 --> 0:36:38.201
<v Speaker 1>laid in the bush. Probably would have gone a flat

0:36:39.121 --> 0:36:42.681
<v Speaker 1>when he woke up, and nobody about. I would probably

0:36:42.721 --> 0:36:47.641
<v Speaker 1>been just about on dark. And we think, and the

0:36:47.721 --> 0:36:51.401
<v Speaker 1>doctor's seek in Derby that he could have gone to

0:36:51.561 --> 0:36:56.321
<v Speaker 1>Nami or lost his temples and he's going out in

0:36:56.321 --> 0:36:59.481
<v Speaker 1>the road and someone and I think this is what

0:36:59.601 --> 0:37:03.401
<v Speaker 1>I believe is true, is that someone's picking him. You know.

0:37:03.681 --> 0:37:06.721
<v Speaker 1>The thing is that has he gone off or has

0:37:06.721 --> 0:37:10.241
<v Speaker 1>he gone out? We don't, Well, it's not a day

0:37:10.321 --> 0:37:12.761
<v Speaker 1>Gay's pass and I don't think of him. I often

0:37:12.841 --> 0:37:17.001
<v Speaker 1>get his faders out and he's not a name that

0:37:17.041 --> 0:37:18.201
<v Speaker 1>I don't think about.

0:37:20.401 --> 0:37:23.841
<v Speaker 2>Although almost forty years ago. You can hear the hope

0:37:23.841 --> 0:37:27.521
<v Speaker 2>in Frank and Dolly's voice, hoping that someone knows something,

0:37:28.241 --> 0:37:31.001
<v Speaker 2>that maybe he just got in someone's car and got

0:37:31.001 --> 0:37:35.441
<v Speaker 2>a lift somewhere. Maybe he's still out there somewhere living

0:37:35.481 --> 0:37:38.481
<v Speaker 2>a new life with no real memory of the family

0:37:38.681 --> 0:37:44.601
<v Speaker 2>and the life he left behind. This hope is something Joy,

0:37:44.961 --> 0:37:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Frank's daughter, also remembered, and it eventually led to Frank's death.

0:37:51.001 --> 0:37:55.440
<v Speaker 6>Oh horrified. Dad was beside himself and I still reckon

0:37:55.521 --> 0:37:57.841
<v Speaker 6>that killed Mum and Dad. You know that the shock

0:37:57.881 --> 0:38:00.961
<v Speaker 6>of it all. Had been up there with Gwynn and

0:38:01.121 --> 0:38:04.721
<v Speaker 6>they helped in the search, and I think they even

0:38:04.721 --> 0:38:07.841
<v Speaker 6>went up in the plane to search because the main

0:38:07.921 --> 0:38:13.641
<v Speaker 6>roads people didn't sort of go looking straight away because

0:38:13.681 --> 0:38:17.801
<v Speaker 6>his notre of his grader was still running when he

0:38:17.841 --> 0:38:19.481
<v Speaker 6>went off into the bush, and they just thought he

0:38:19.561 --> 0:38:23.401
<v Speaker 6>went off into the bush to relieve himself. And they

0:38:23.481 --> 0:38:25.721
<v Speaker 6>knocked off on the Friday and went back to their

0:38:26.641 --> 0:38:32.201
<v Speaker 6>huts and things, And when there's hadn't returned, somebody went

0:38:32.241 --> 0:38:35.001
<v Speaker 6>out looking for him. I gather, but there's no sign

0:38:35.081 --> 0:38:38.041
<v Speaker 6>of him, but his greater were still there, and I

0:38:38.081 --> 0:38:41.601
<v Speaker 6>think that's probably when they alerted the police. You know,

0:38:41.601 --> 0:38:44.681
<v Speaker 6>it was all very suss to start with, we thought,

0:38:46.401 --> 0:38:50.161
<v Speaker 6>not knowing what was going on, But after its Dad

0:38:50.201 --> 0:38:52.881
<v Speaker 6>and Gwen came back. We stayed in Perth and Dad

0:38:52.921 --> 0:38:55.761
<v Speaker 6>was going around everywhere, putting flyers and that around them

0:38:55.761 --> 0:39:00.601
<v Speaker 6>the different areas if anyone saw him, and then Gwen

0:39:00.761 --> 0:39:03.960
<v Speaker 6>suggested we bring mom and Dad down here. It's only

0:39:04.001 --> 0:39:07.481
<v Speaker 6>since Uncle Ron went that I've realized this that we

0:39:07.521 --> 0:39:09.281
<v Speaker 6>should have left them there to deal.

0:39:09.121 --> 0:39:09.801
<v Speaker 7>With it all.

0:39:11.281 --> 0:39:15.000
<v Speaker 6>Because when we were here, every time our phone rang

0:39:15.121 --> 0:39:17.881
<v Speaker 6>that Ron was on ambulance call as well as water

0:39:17.921 --> 0:39:22.121
<v Speaker 6>authority call out. And every time the phone ring, whether

0:39:22.121 --> 0:39:24.641
<v Speaker 6>it be day or night, Dad would say, I'll answer that.

0:39:24.641 --> 0:39:26.761
<v Speaker 6>That'll be for me. About dis what is.

0:39:26.801 --> 0:39:29.801
<v Speaker 2>Clear about Dez and his relationship with his family is

0:39:29.801 --> 0:39:33.281
<v Speaker 2>that he loved them and he missed them. Des wasn't

0:39:33.321 --> 0:39:35.561
<v Speaker 2>much of a writer, but as part of the search

0:39:35.641 --> 0:39:38.321
<v Speaker 2>for Dez, the family sent a copy of a letter

0:39:38.361 --> 0:39:41.841
<v Speaker 2>Des wrote in June nineteen seventy nine. It turns out

0:39:41.961 --> 0:39:45.201
<v Speaker 2>this was the day of his fight and consequence stayed hospital.

0:39:46.321 --> 0:39:49.081
<v Speaker 2>This note was given to police in nineteen eighty eight

0:39:49.481 --> 0:39:53.841
<v Speaker 2>as proof of DES's handwriting by his sister gwen DES's

0:39:53.921 --> 0:39:57.841
<v Speaker 2>mum Dolly starts reading the letter, Dear.

0:39:57.721 --> 0:40:01.561
<v Speaker 4>Mum and Dad, don't go shop. Well, as I finally

0:40:01.601 --> 0:40:05.041
<v Speaker 4>got around to writing, how is everyone down that way

0:40:06.281 --> 0:40:07.561
<v Speaker 4>or keeping okay?

0:40:07.641 --> 0:40:10.921
<v Speaker 3>I hope sorry to hear that you cut the holidays short,

0:40:11.121 --> 0:40:14.601
<v Speaker 3>but I guess that's the way things turn out. Please

0:40:14.641 --> 0:40:17.241
<v Speaker 3>excuse the writing paper, but as I have nothing else

0:40:17.281 --> 0:40:20.281
<v Speaker 3>at the moment, it will have to do. I'm working

0:40:20.281 --> 0:40:24.121
<v Speaker 3>on the MRD now, not a bad job, but long hours.

0:40:24.841 --> 0:40:28.881
<v Speaker 3>It's easy enough. I'm the th man. Dad will explain

0:40:28.921 --> 0:40:32.321
<v Speaker 3>what that means. We're out at Thangu Camp on the

0:40:32.361 --> 0:40:35.241
<v Speaker 3>Headland to Broom Road and about eighty k's from Broom,

0:40:35.801 --> 0:40:38.480
<v Speaker 3>so if I stick it out until next Christmas shall

0:40:38.561 --> 0:40:42.201
<v Speaker 3>definitely be down this year. We're getting some funny weather

0:40:42.281 --> 0:40:44.881
<v Speaker 3>up here at the moment. Hot one day, cold the

0:40:44.921 --> 0:40:48.201
<v Speaker 3>next and rain. I see it's been a bit cool

0:40:48.241 --> 0:40:52.281
<v Speaker 3>down that way too. Well, everybody seems okay up this way,

0:40:52.481 --> 0:40:55.681
<v Speaker 3>except for a few sniffles, etc. Seeing as how I

0:40:55.721 --> 0:40:58.001
<v Speaker 3>have a bit of time up my sleeve, shall endeavor

0:40:58.041 --> 0:41:01.321
<v Speaker 3>to write Timmy's sister too, only short ones, though, like

0:41:01.361 --> 0:41:04.921
<v Speaker 3>this will be Well, it's Friday now, I'm trying to

0:41:05.041 --> 0:41:07.401
<v Speaker 3>make my mind up to go to Derby or Broom.

0:41:08.361 --> 0:41:11.921
<v Speaker 3>I guess it will be Derby. Well, not much else

0:41:11.961 --> 0:41:14.681
<v Speaker 3>at the moment. I shall try to write more often.

0:41:15.121 --> 0:41:18.561
<v Speaker 3>So for now that's all, as I've run out of space,

0:41:19.521 --> 0:41:22.561
<v Speaker 3>excuses excuses. Love Dez.

0:41:23.761 --> 0:41:25.601
<v Speaker 2>As you can tell from the tone of his letter,

0:41:25.921 --> 0:41:28.761
<v Speaker 2>dares knew that his family missed him, and that he

0:41:28.841 --> 0:41:31.081
<v Speaker 2>was terrible at keeping in touch with both his mum

0:41:31.121 --> 0:41:34.801
<v Speaker 2>and dad, but also his three sisters. He talks of

0:41:34.841 --> 0:41:38.361
<v Speaker 2>heading to Broom or Derby. That Friday night he ended

0:41:38.441 --> 0:41:41.481
<v Speaker 2>up in Derby, and that's the night he got in

0:41:41.521 --> 0:41:44.761
<v Speaker 2>a fight, was knocked on the head and ended up

0:41:44.761 --> 0:41:48.841
<v Speaker 2>in hospital. This eventually could have been the cause of

0:41:48.881 --> 0:41:54.161
<v Speaker 2>his disappearance. He promises to write more often, and also

0:41:54.281 --> 0:41:57.521
<v Speaker 2>that he'd be home for Christmas in nineteen seventy nine

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<v Speaker 2>and to write to his sisters Gwen, Joy and Shirley.

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<v Speaker 2>They never heard from him or saw him again. Dez

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<v Speaker 2>was definitely thinking about coming back to be with his family.

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<v Speaker 2>He'd recently bought a new car and a dog, and

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<v Speaker 2>already purchased a new set of clothes that he was

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<v Speaker 2>saving up to wear to see the family At Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>The police record and a few coworker interviews at the

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<v Speaker 2>time state that Dez had some alcohol issues. There were

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<v Speaker 2>also other interactions with police that Dez had nothing serious,

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<v Speaker 2>but all involved alcohol, so it would be fair to

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<v Speaker 2>say that Des liked to drink. DES's drinking is another

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<v Speaker 2>theory about why he went missing his sister Shirley.

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<v Speaker 4>Unfortunately, he was a heavy drinker and people just thought

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<v Speaker 4>that he'd just got a bit, maybe got drunk out

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<v Speaker 4>there and just went for a walk in the bush

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<v Speaker 4>and got lost. But that proved later on when they

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<v Speaker 4>did all the searchers that there was no tracks, there

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<v Speaker 4>was nothing. Someone from upstairs has just plucked enough.

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<v Speaker 2>When a family member goes missing, it's not just the

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<v Speaker 2>immediate family that's impacted. Susie from Leave a Light on Ink,

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<v Speaker 2>a Facebook group that helps track down long term missing

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<v Speaker 2>people across Australia, talks about the effect it has on

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<v Speaker 2>the whole family for generations to come.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, you can't really grieve, but there's there's nowhere that

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<v Speaker 7>you can can go to lay flowers or say you're

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<v Speaker 7>good buyers like your bush. If someone passes away, you

0:43:39.721 --> 0:43:41.921
<v Speaker 7>can go to the cemetery and you can you can

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<v Speaker 7>properly grieve and say say you goodbye and come to

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<v Speaker 7>groups with it and move on in life. Whereas when

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<v Speaker 7>you've got a missing person your whole life it's like

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<v Speaker 7>a living nightmare, and you turn out that it's like

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<v Speaker 7>being in limbos. There's no way of moving on because

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<v Speaker 7>you don't know whether they're alive, whether they're dead, whether

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<v Speaker 7>they're okay, whether they've got mental health issues and they

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<v Speaker 7>need support. It's just so much of the unknowing, and

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<v Speaker 7>that's what families find so incredibly difficult to deal with.

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<v Speaker 2>With your sisters, Joanne go and missing, how has that

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<v Speaker 2>affected your life? And then if you have children, your

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<v Speaker 2>parenting style and their life.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, it affected me great. But I didn't have the

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<v Speaker 7>independence and freedom that so many other children of my

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<v Speaker 7>same age growing up with. I couldn't go to friends places,

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<v Speaker 7>or don't ride my bike down the street, or go

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<v Speaker 7>and play at the neighbors unless my mum or my

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<v Speaker 7>brother supervising me. I found it incredibly difficult to go

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<v Speaker 7>and do anything on my own, and I'm finding that

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<v Speaker 7>I do the same with my daughter. I worry, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>if I can't see her with wing the supermarket and

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<v Speaker 7>you know if she tells me that she'll be a

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<v Speaker 7>few minutes and she's longer than a few minutes, I

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<v Speaker 7>instantly start to worry. And it's it's something that it's

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<v Speaker 7>this instinct you can't help but panic because you think

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<v Speaker 7>to yourself, is it going to happen all over again?

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<v Speaker 7>And that's that's the concern, especially with a kidnapping things,

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<v Speaker 7>But in general, when someone goes missing, it's not just

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<v Speaker 7>the immediate family, but future generations to come because that

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<v Speaker 7>person is a part of your family and you talk

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<v Speaker 7>about them, so the next generation they have questions they

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<v Speaker 7>want to ask as well, and unfortunately it doesn't stop

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<v Speaker 7>just for the immediate family.

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<v Speaker 2>In the next episode, you'll hear two other theories of

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<v Speaker 2>Desert's disappearance. Both are far fetched, both have never been substantiated,

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<v Speaker 2>and both are theories that some of the family believed

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<v Speaker 2>for a good portion of time.

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<v Speaker 4>The UFOs that's well that my old sister Gwynn, she

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<v Speaker 4>believed in that There's was absolutely adamant that this light,

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<v Speaker 4>no car, no nothing, just this great big light was

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<v Speaker 4>following him along the road.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true to say, when left with no hope and

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