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Speaker 1: Apod Shape Production.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode of Am I A Bad

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Speaker 2: Mum Podcast. We were just having an interesting conversation before

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Speaker 2: we press called on the microphones about mums and drinking alcohol,

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Speaker 2: and everybody's completely different, but there's definitely a theme. I

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Speaker 2: speak to so many other mums that like, oh, near wine.

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Speaker 1: It's Monday, but I'm going to have a wine.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like it's something that we then shame

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Speaker 2: ourselves about as well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we were talking about it from the

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Speaker 3: sort of perspective of you're coming from your angle on it,

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Speaker 3: and I was coming from my angle on it. I

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Speaker 3: said to you just of late, I sort of noticed

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Speaker 3: a different habit forming within my own behavior around alcohol.

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Speaker 3: We've openly discussed this many of times around like you

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Speaker 3: try and go Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, whereas like I said,

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Speaker 3: I'm struggling at the moment with the Monday, Tuesday Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: But then we spoke about why we like, why are

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Speaker 1: you doing it?

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Speaker 3: It's interesting to know everyone's relationship habits with alcohol, I think,

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Speaker 3: and moms in particular, obviously, mums, dads, grandma's, granddads, whoever's

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Speaker 3: doing it.

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Speaker 1: But alcohol is a tough one.

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Speaker 2: I definitely think that there's an element of reward. We've

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Speaker 2: got through the day, We've done a million things, the

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Speaker 2: kids are sorted.

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Speaker 1: I deserve this kind of thing. There's definitely that.

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Speaker 2: There's the and I know after speaking with you, and

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Speaker 2: enjoyment when doing shit jobs that you don't really want

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Speaker 2: to do, you're just trying to make them a little

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Speaker 2: bit more fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then there's relaxation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so that was that was part for you, where

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Speaker 3: you're like, I don't touch anything until I'm literally sitting

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Speaker 3: in my pajamas and relaxing, and you know that you

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Speaker 3: can sort of take a big sigh and just know

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Speaker 3: that the day is done, and that's when you enjoy yours.

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Speaker 3: Whereas me, I'm one hundred percent very aware of what

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Speaker 3: I'm doing and why I'm doing it, which is one

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Speaker 3: hundred percent avoidance of doing the things I don't overly

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Speaker 3: enjoy doing. And that is that five o'clock to seven

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Speaker 3: o'clock sort of rush. And it's not every night, because

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Speaker 3: every night in our house differs of where I am

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Speaker 3: and what I'm doing. But if I'm at home and

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Speaker 3: I know that I'm not going anywhere for pickup of

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Speaker 3: any sort of child related thing.

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Speaker 1: My thought process is I might just have one sider,

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Speaker 1: just one.

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Speaker 2: See, I'm not very good at just having the one.

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Speaker 2: That's my problem. Easier to have none. I went through

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Speaker 2: a RBT the other day. I drive down this road

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Speaker 2: all the time. I've never seen an RBT down there.

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Speaker 3: That's because someone's called it in and said there's mums

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Speaker 3: and dads going home from work like at this time,

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Speaker 3: look for them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It was such a random time, was like five pm

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Speaker 2: or something. And funny thing, rach, I can see the

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Speaker 2: guys pulling people over ahead, so I've like slowed down.

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Speaker 2: Isn't there a funny thing with RBTs in that you

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Speaker 2: know you haven't had any alcohol at all? Right, but

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Speaker 2: there's a part of you that goes, oh shit, am

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Speaker 2: I drunk?

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Speaker 1: You're just about to do? Oh god, am I over?

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Speaker 3: No? I get like, I get really smug and go

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Speaker 3: like I got nothing to worry about here. Yeah, And

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Speaker 3: then that part of you in the brain goes, what

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Speaker 3: if what if you last what about your one sider

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Speaker 3: last night?

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Speaker 1: What if it's still in your sister?

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Speaker 2: So I pulled up to this policeman and I'd got

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Speaker 2: my license out and He's like, I don't need to

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Speaker 2: see your license unless you've unless you've been drinking. And

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Speaker 2: I was like okay, And then I went because I

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Speaker 2: to see a license unless you've been drinking. And I

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Speaker 2: it's never too early. Any time of day is acceptable

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Speaker 1: Afterwards, I was like, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: The funny thing about that RBT rate I was on

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Speaker 2: my way to the bottom shop.

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Speaker 1: Am I a bad mum for watching and just not

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Speaker 1: joining in?

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Speaker 3: This one is just a little bit of fun, lightheartedness

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Speaker 3: of we live in a pocket outside of Brisbane. I

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Speaker 3: out every day. It's not a drama. For some people

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Speaker 3: on the weekends they feel like they're driving to the country.

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Speaker 3: And we've had a particular landmark make our little town

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Speaker 3: and it is the Kenilworth Bakery.

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Speaker 2: I've heard of it, so it's a change.

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Speaker 3: The Kenilworth is a little town Sunshine Coast Inland, kind

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Speaker 3: of from Noosa and they're well known for donuts, Like

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Speaker 3: people drive from Brisbane to go.

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Speaker 1: To this donut shop in Kenilworth.

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Speaker 3: And now she's opened her fourth store apparently no more

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Speaker 3: after this, and the fourth one happens to be in

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Speaker 3: sleepy little Samford.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's exciting.

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Speaker 3: Well, it is exciting until you want to go anywhere

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Speaker 3: on the weekends and Saturday and Sunday.

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Speaker 1: Now you cannot move. Oh it's brought in tourism. You

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Speaker 1: can't go anywhere, Katie.

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Speaker 3: I can't even drive to my local overpriced IgA to

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Speaker 3: get some sour cream for dinner because you can't get

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Speaker 3: across the roundabout. This is like it's arta chaos, all

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Speaker 3: for the sake of donuts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, because there was that. What's the other places?

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Speaker 1: Brookies Cookies, Brookies Cookies, chirm side, I think.

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Speaker 3: But at the same time people line up for it, right, yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's but then it dies down.

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Speaker 2: It's like they do I don't know if they do

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Speaker 2: TikTok advertising on whatever they do. But then it becomes

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Speaker 2: like a trend. Everyone wants to taste.

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Speaker 3: When everyone's doing this right now, Yeah, everyone's coming to

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Speaker 3: stand fed right now. So then you've got these lineups,

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Speaker 1: For donuts, and I was like, no, if you sue,

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Speaker 1: I'm not joining in. Don't want the lineup.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to line up number one number so

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Speaker 3: many people in our town right now that I can't

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Speaker 3: actually even get around, and it's kind of like SPOTL

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Speaker 3: the local. So now I'm not vibing out either. My

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Speaker 3: kids were like, Elsie and Gracie, right, we're down. We're

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Speaker 1: But must be so good, like we want to just

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Speaker 3: I looked at them and say, do you want to

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Speaker 3: go on line up for a donut? Do you know

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Speaker 3: that your time is worth more than that lineup to

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Speaker 1: Eight dollars or something like that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, mum, why is so like, come on, come and

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Speaker 3: line up with us. You're such a Debbie downer. You

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Speaker 3: just don't understand it's amazing. I said, you don't know,

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Speaker 3: it's amazing. Could be shit donuts.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was like, but you don't know because you just

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Speaker 3: want to get in the fad because of that line Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I said, if you want to knock yourself out, I

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Speaker 3: will be here. I can also see the lineup and

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Speaker 3: they're like really, and I was like, yeah, here's some cash,

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Speaker 3: go knock yourself out at the donut.

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Speaker 1: See you in about an hour. Did they line up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they lined up for a donut and they got

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Speaker 3: the donort, they got the donut, they got a donut each,

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Speaker 3: and then they came back. Oh mum, so many people

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Speaker 3: in there, so many like flavors, YadA, YadA, YadA.

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Speaker 1: There's a meat along donut. What I feel like getting

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Speaker 1: the meat long donut and belting over the head? Whoever

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Speaker 1: buys that? Because that is horrible meter long donut donut?

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Speaker 1: Who does buy the I don't know. Do you like

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Speaker 1: buy a.

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Speaker 2: Meat long donut for a whole group of people, like

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Speaker 2: an office or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And you maybe cut it up?

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Speaker 3: Or maybe you just love donut that much you want

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Speaker 3: to eat a meat along donut?

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Speaker 1: But they apparently do like pies and sausage rolls.

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Speaker 3: Obviously it must be good because people keep coming back

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Speaker 1: Hasn't rolled out of town yet. I'll get a question

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, did you try a bit of the girl's ye donut?

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Speaker 1: Because they didn't eat them? All, I had a little

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and what did you think, It's just like any

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Speaker 2: other donut. Yeah, but I think you're angry with them.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm angry about how busy it's made.

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Speaker 1: Your little town.

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Speaker 2: Yeah I am, and that you can't get around anywhere.

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Speaker 1: I can't get anywhere so busy. It's so busy bakery.

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Speaker 2: And so I think that even if that donut was

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Speaker 3: So. The only thing good I'm going to say is

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Speaker 3: it got me a quiet coffee whilst I could see

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Speaker 3: my children down the street in the lineup, so they

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Speaker 3: were down there. Whilst they're down there, I've got peace

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Speaker 3: and quiet having my coffee in the sun. They loved it.

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Speaker 3: They were a part of it. They were excited. Then

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Speaker 3: they got home and they ate these donuts and they're like.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna put it out there when you see

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Speaker 2: a line like that, like your girl saw the line

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Speaker 2: and were like it must be amazing, Like they must

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Speaker 2: do the best donuts to have it that busy and

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Speaker 2: to have a lineup outside.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, this is a conspiracy theory, But do you

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Speaker 2: think the owners of the bakery have done, i know,

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Speaker 2: rent a crowd or something like that so that people

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Speaker 2: think that it's the best bakery ever.

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Speaker 1: Look, there's so.

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Speaker 2: Many people outside, so many be so good, creating a

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Speaker 2: ripple effect of people.

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Speaker 1: Then well look at the knock on effect. My ten

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Speaker 1: and twelve year old just saw it.

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Speaker 3: The eyes and the dopamine hit and then they were

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Speaker 3: gone and they wanted to be a part of it.

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Speaker 3: Then they come back, they're so let down because I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: it's just another donut. Actually, on the opening day, just

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Speaker 3: to add on to this, the lineup was all the

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Speaker 3: way out of town because they were giving away free donuts.

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Speaker 3: So people lined up for three hours to get a

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Speaker 3: free eight dollar donut.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I saw there was a new GYG that opened

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Speaker 2: up on Gimpie Road and I was driving home and

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 1: Like, wow, the traffic, traffe what are they doing?

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Speaker 2: And then I saw on the sign they were doing

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Speaker 2: something like it was either five dollars or ten dollar burritos,

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Speaker 2: and it was like, I think it was five dollars,

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Speaker 2: like all day for five dollar and I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh awesome, And I had a moment of going, oh,

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Speaker 2: just pop through the drive through, grab the girls.

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Speaker 1: They loved do id and.

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Speaker 2: Then I saw the line right. They even had someone

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Speaker 2: doing like traffic control outside. I slowed down, ready to

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Speaker 2: indicate and try and pull in. And then I saw

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Speaker 2: the line, and I went

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Speaker 1: On playful price down the road