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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: It's a scary world out there.

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Speaker 1: What's happened?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's the dating world. Where are you at dating

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Speaker 2: app news?

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Speaker 1: It's good to get an update.

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Speaker 2: Never been on the dating apps, but as far as

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Speaker 2: I no never what.

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Speaker 1: You want it to be? On Raya?

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Speaker 3: What could you talk about raya celebrity?

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Speaker 2: That would be nice. They haven't accepted me. Apparently I

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Speaker 2: haven't done enough. I'm like, seriously, I'm dedicated my childhood

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Speaker 2: to this. Done enough. I've been working my childhood.

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Speaker 1: My two profile pictures are a gold LOGI followed by

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Speaker 1: a gold LOGI.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's the lack of profile pictures that is the issue.

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Speaker 3: You should put You should put your gold LOGI on

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Speaker 3: a jet ski.

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Speaker 1: That would be.

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Speaker 4: You.

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Speaker 2: Guys always talk about the gold LOGI makes me feel

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Speaker 2: I know you're trying to compliment me in some ways.

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Speaker 2: Is that it almost makes me feel like like it's

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Speaker 2: the only thing that I've ever done, and that if

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Speaker 2: I didn't have a gold LOGI, I wouldn't be love.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I hate two and I have three silver.

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Speaker 1: But it's what it represents.

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Speaker 3: It's what the trophy represent.

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Speaker 2: What does it represent?

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Speaker 3: You are the most popular person in Australia for that year.

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Speaker 1: That's the way you've got to.

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Speaker 2: Look at it. Mate, in the old days, I used

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Speaker 2: to be someone I think is what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: I also say, once again, since you joined the show,

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Speaker 1: congratulations on joining the show.

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Speaker 2: Oh and congratulations.

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Speaker 1: We could have had anybody on this show, but you

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Speaker 1: fought hard and you found yourself in the hot set. Congratulations.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Anyway, back to the dating apps, and all

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Speaker 2: I'm saying is good luck to you if you're on them,

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Speaker 2: because it doesn't matter what you say or what you

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Speaker 2: don't say, you are hard up against it to have

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Speaker 2: fine connection.

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Speaker 1: Well, if they worked, they wouldn't exist.

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Speaker 3: Well, the hardest thing is actually what I'm making the person,

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Speaker 3: isn't it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Well, what they're saying is you can't text too

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Speaker 2: much because you can fall into the category of penpal.

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Speaker 2: You can't text enough, Like if you don't text enough,

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Speaker 2: then you're disinterested, you tiresome. Tiresome chat is such a

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Speaker 2: turnoff for the nation's datas that just three dull texts

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Speaker 2: are enough for people to lose interest in someone completely.

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Speaker 2: So you've basically got three texts to get somebody over

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Speaker 2: the line. But if you say something like, hey, sexy,

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Speaker 2: what's your number? Forty percent think that that is a

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Speaker 2: red line. You're so hot as in hawt if anyone

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Speaker 2: ever reads. And even the fire emoji apparently isn't particularly.

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Speaker 1: What are you meant to write?

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Speaker 2: Well, you're not meant to say, You're not meant to

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Speaker 2: say send picks, because that is both the rudest of

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Speaker 2: course text forty five percent. And if you just send

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Speaker 2: which this I find this very surprising, if you just

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Speaker 2: if you just send a single aubergine emoji, which is

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Speaker 2: the eggplant, I'm forty four percent find that a turnoff

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Speaker 2: as well.

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Speaker 1: So Tommy, would you? And I'm just thinking if you

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Speaker 1: needed an opening line for a dating app. Tommy when

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Speaker 1: he was single, he had about five facts up his sleeve.

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Speaker 1: So trivia, Yeah, like trivia. So if you were just

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Speaker 1: on the app and all of a sudden you've got

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Speaker 1: a match and someone sent you through an interesting fact,

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Speaker 1: would that be the best approach? What were some of

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Speaker 1: the ones you used, Tommy?

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Speaker 4: But there was one about I think it was one

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Speaker 4: in Bangkok where the traffic is so bad that one

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Speaker 4: day it will come to a complete holt While you

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Speaker 4: will be stuck in a traffic jam.

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Speaker 1: Kiss me for that's the thing sea.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm curious. I'm like, is this guy a serial killer?

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Speaker 2: Or you need a man of my dreams? Might you

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Speaker 2: be both?

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Speaker 3: You don't go on to a dating app to get fat,

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Speaker 3: you get similar word.

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Speaker 2: You're not allowed to scroll through and check. I don't

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Speaker 2: know how people work this out. And this is how

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Speaker 2: I will come undone one day. Is you're not allowed

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Speaker 2: to click on their photo if you like them, but

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Speaker 2: you're not allowed to hang on. You're not allowed to

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Speaker 2: click on the profile of their friend to see if

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Speaker 2: they're single. Kind of thing like you find okay, they're.

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Speaker 1: Just like a vessel the ocean that is the connector and.

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Speaker 2: Things like without you know if they're doing something fun.

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Speaker 2: Please don't say without me with a question mark. That's

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Speaker 2: a bit desperado.

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Speaker 1: What about you take my breath away?

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Speaker 3: Like that's just a traditional great line, you've got what

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Speaker 3: about but you've got beautiful eyes?

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Speaker 1: I'd love to be an organ doner take my heart.

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Speaker 1: That's cute.

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Speaker 2: That's not what you mean.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not.

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Speaker 2: I just I'm going through that part of these I

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Speaker 2: don't even understand. D T f what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Or w y D?

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Speaker 2: Then w y D.

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Speaker 1: What you're doing up? What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: What you're doing? What's up yours?

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Speaker 4: Or mine?

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Speaker 2: Morning? Beautiful? I actually quite I think that's a nice.

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Speaker 1: One, if you're a sucker for that. I went out

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Speaker 1: for dinner one time and there was a bloke there

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Speaker 1: and he's so cheesy and this girl that was at

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Speaker 1: the dinner table. He looked at her and he's got

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Speaker 1: a British accent and he said, you have got the

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Speaker 1: most beautiful eyes I have ever seen, and she melted.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you can't fall for that cheesy rubbish.

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? That's just that's simple.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was just so cheesy. I think it's

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Speaker 2: I think if someone's I've had somebody a long time ago.

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Speaker 1: I can't remember what did they say?

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Speaker 2: They did mention that I had lovely eyes?

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Speaker 1: Did they? How did that work?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 2: I still fancy them from Afar, you know them, We've

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Speaker 2: talked about them on the show.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about David Williams.

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Speaker 2: No, but close, same country.

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Speaker 1: Prince Harry. Oh, this is good. You actually meant Charles,

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Speaker 1: didn't you? Isn't it? It was effective?

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Speaker 3: That was an effective line.

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Speaker 2: It is even though you know it's a lie. Maybe

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Speaker 2: it's a lie. I mean, I happened to think I

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Speaker 2: do have quite nice eye. But you know that's me

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Speaker 2: need to say nice things about myself rather than the

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Speaker 2: awful inner.

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Speaker 1: It turns.

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Speaker 3: It's harder in the moment when you're face to face

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Speaker 3: because I remember, remember the palace down at Culdie, Kate, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: what happened to Pallas?

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Speaker 1: What a great place.

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Speaker 2: It's now the pavilion, which is the Couldie Pavilion now.

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Speaker 3: But there was a beautiful girl that I and she

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Speaker 3: was looking over my way as well, and I thought, okay,

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Speaker 3: this is my opportunity. So she went to the toilets

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Speaker 3: and I thought, I'll wait outside the toilets for her

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Speaker 3: to come out a bad stuff.

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Speaker 1: And I was freaking out.

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Speaker 3: So she walked out of the toilet and I she

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Speaker 3: turned around and she was right there in front of

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Speaker 3: my face. I freaked out and I said, how did

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Speaker 3: you go.

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Speaker 1: In the toilet? And she went, you did pretty heavy

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Speaker 1: on the flush BJ and I have been married with Kate.

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