WEBVTT - JOSH AND STEFANO: An Emotional Honeymoon Update 

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<v Speaker 1>After meeting and marrying just a few days ago. Josh

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<v Speaker 1>and Stefano are now on their honeymoon at the Burrida

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<v Speaker 1>Hotel in the Southern Highlands, and as they checked in,

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<v Speaker 1>sparks were very much still flying.

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<v Speaker 2>Wishing you one welcome at the Burrita Hotel and congratulations

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<v Speaker 2>on your wedding. Cheers to this marriage and surviving twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four hours to go.

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<v Speaker 3>For all the twenty four hours, beautiful twenty four hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Chin chin, chinchinchin. I am very happy with my match.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Pego surprisingly did very well. I asked for

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<v Speaker 2>ideally a South American with tattoos, tick tick who had

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<v Speaker 2>to be funny. I mean, oh yeah, Like all he

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<v Speaker 2>had to do was go to Bondai, which is where

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<v Speaker 2>I found you. Funny. You've been funny, which is weird

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<v Speaker 2>to me because I'm usually the funny one in relationship

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<v Speaker 2>and you say I'm not funny. So like that, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know my place yet. It kind impassion think that

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<v Speaker 2>you found your place. No, I think I think I

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<v Speaker 2>think you found your place in the in the last night. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>During their third day together, the pair decided to separate

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<v Speaker 1>for just a few minutes to privately reflect on how

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<v Speaker 1>they both think things are going so far, with Stefano

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<v Speaker 1>going first, how.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you doing well, just like in the mornings, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know. For me, I'm kind of crazy. This is

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<v Speaker 3>like the first time that I do this kind of experience,

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<v Speaker 3>like marrying somebody that I haven't met before. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so strict, like when I meet somebody in the apps,

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<v Speaker 3>I always ask for Instagram or fit for a vidhical,

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<v Speaker 3>just to be sure about the other person, the way

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<v Speaker 3>that he looks, and also how the personality. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>at least I can't have an idea of the personality.

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<v Speaker 3>But doing this it was like a challenge for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to say. At the beginning it was a

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<v Speaker 3>bit hard even to understand him because we have like

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he's from the north of England, so his

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<v Speaker 3>accent is quite different. I learned more like American English,

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<v Speaker 3>and also English is my third language, is not even

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<v Speaker 3>my second language, so sometimes I struggle understanding him. But

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<v Speaker 3>now it's much better. In fact, he was calling me

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<v Speaker 3>Hobby Hobi. I understood Hobby because I'm shorter than him,

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<v Speaker 3>and like last week I was in New Zealand and

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't go to Hobbington, but what I was talking

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<v Speaker 3>about hobbied Hovington, and a few days later I understood

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<v Speaker 3>that he was calling me like husband hobby. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>know that's Lam.

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<v Speaker 2>And what else.

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<v Speaker 3>It was very interesting, you know, to go on a

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<v Speaker 3>trip with somebody that you don't know and like slowly

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<v Speaker 3>start understanding each other and connecting and trying to do

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<v Speaker 3>things that we like because we have very different teats,

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<v Speaker 3>tastes and music trains, activities, way of seeing life. But

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<v Speaker 3>then we found also many other things in common, very

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<v Speaker 3>important things. I would say, like the most important thing

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<v Speaker 3>that I see in another person is how big their

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<v Speaker 3>heart is. I'm excited to see how this continues.

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<v Speaker 1>Interestingly, despite the language barrier issues, Josh was also still

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<v Speaker 1>just as hopeful.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so it's stay free. I think of the honeymoon,

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<v Speaker 2>which means we've been together now NonStop for maybe four days,

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<v Speaker 2>which for me, who likes to spend time alone, that

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<v Speaker 2>is a lot. And it like I'm enjoying myself while

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<v Speaker 2>getting on great, but it is a bit overwhelming. I've

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<v Speaker 2>just gone to like a random bar in the hotel,

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<v Speaker 2>which is kind of cool anyway, uh, As I said, though,

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<v Speaker 2>like everything is going great with having fun, We're getting

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<v Speaker 2>to know each other, but there's like those little differences

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<v Speaker 2>you know, your first meet some one, especially English, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not even his second language, it's his third language. And

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<v Speaker 2>then we say things and it's like trying to figure

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<v Speaker 2>out what was meant by that? Was that joke? Was that? Not? That?

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<v Speaker 2>Was that rude? Like? And he said some things and

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<v Speaker 2>then I interpreted it quite negatively, which he did not mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It was no bad intend that, but it's like, you know, you,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know this person. We're still getting to know

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<v Speaker 2>each other. But like I'm happy, I'm happy I'm doing this,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't know I feel good that, I feel optimistic, hopeful.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm go go back to the room. Now we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to go play tennis and go to the gym. So

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<v Speaker 2>update you shouldn't. But it's a good start.

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<v Speaker 1>As the newly married couple continued having fun and building

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<v Speaker 1>on their relationship, things sadly started to feel a bit

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<v Speaker 1>too much for Josh. During their final night.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so it's the last night of our honeymoon and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here in our room on my own stephan Oh

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<v Speaker 2>is outside smoking or on his phone. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of just said I need some space right now,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I just feel so overwhelmed. I think we've been

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<v Speaker 2>to the other six whole day is now like NonStop,

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<v Speaker 2>like twenty four to seven, and like I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't had a second to myself to think and

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<v Speaker 2>process things and breathe, and like I wish, like tonight

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<v Speaker 2>is that last night. I wish I could just push

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<v Speaker 2>through and go, let's go out have fun. Let's but

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like I've got nothing left to give,

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<v Speaker 2>like my social BATCHO is zero, And then I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm being boring, like I'm dragging him down to

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<v Speaker 2>my usual state, which I don't want to do. He's

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<v Speaker 2>just so positive and so one thing to just have fun,

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<v Speaker 2>which like I wish I could right now, But I

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<v Speaker 2>just I was I going to spend this one night

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<v Speaker 2>at home, back in my room just to kind of

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<v Speaker 2>get my head around everything, and you know, because tomorrow

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<v Speaker 2>we go home and then I move into his house,

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<v Speaker 2>which we'll be fun, I'm sure, like when I'm feeling better,

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<v Speaker 2>but right now that feels kind of terrifying. Fuck, this

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<v Speaker 2>is higher than a foret who's going.

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<v Speaker 1>To be before they return to Sydney and move into

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<v Speaker 1>Stefano's house. The newlyweds will sit down for their first

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<v Speaker 1>in depth podcast chat to really explore how they're feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>what they've learned not just about each other but themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>and also the things they'd been too nervous to bring

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<v Speaker 1>up so far uh