WEBVTT - How we met the loves of our lives 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:04.440 Ad A lady, A lady, A lady, A lady filtered. Hello, Hello, 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:07.960 it's your best ees, your friends, Hailey and Lauren. We 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:10.639 are ad Lady, I'm filtered. We're besties. We're business partners 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:13.200 and where the creators of ad Lady. Hello, I say, 0:00:13.320 --> 0:00:16.560 Hailo's Media and we do everything together except bang. 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:19.800 You know that line. It's very funny. We got an 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:23.439 email from our insurance guy, Adrian, and he's like trying 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:26.720 to explain to the insurance company like they do everything 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:28.160 but bang, so they're insurable. 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:32.200 It's really awkward. 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:34.400 It really made me laugh. It's true. 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:37.239 Are we are we covered each other? 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:39.960 Like ninety nine percent? Sure we're covered? 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:43.680 Yeah? Are we covered? Are we covered? I don't know? Anyway, 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:46.199 all right, we're going to start this podcast with our 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:48.920 member of the week. You have a douzy. 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:53.400 Well, Hailey Pearson, you are going to Thailand with my 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:54.200 partner Burjo. 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:58.560 That sounds really salacious when you say like that. 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:02.400 I don't know. There is a conference over in Thailand 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:05.039 that we have hosted for years and it is amazing 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.759 and I can't go because I just can't be thirty 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:10.640 weeks pregnant in Thailand. The thought of that gives me anxiety. 0:01:10.520 --> 0:01:12.760 Yeah, which is fair enough. And so we thought, well, 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:14.720 who am I going to do this with? And the 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:19.880 next best option plan B B for Burjo, B for Berjo. 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:22.600 He's in media, he loves a chat, loves a drink, 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:23.440 loves to party. 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:26.240 Yeah. I mean, if you don't know us and you 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:29.640 just saw that on paper that I'm going overseas with 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:32.520 your partner, it's pretty weird, right. 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:35.120 Do you know what's weirder? I'm moving into your house 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:35.800 with your husband. 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:39.440 You will go over there for dinner, and that's fine. 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:43.000 But I will say I've been friends with Burjo longer 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:43.959 than I've been friends with you. 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:45.680 I know you two used to bitch about me when 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:46.360 I was your producer. 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:48.200 Yeah, because you used to have really long nails and 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:50.040 you put them along the blackboard like you were like 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:54.520 you when you were twenty. You look like you were 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:56.640 fifty in that light. Not that you looked old in 0:01:56.640 --> 0:02:00.320 the face, but you acted like full shoulder pads brief case. 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.640 You walked into that radio station like you were Miranda 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:05.800 from Devils Grata. 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:09.000 Well, I was, I have my little shoulder pads on 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:10.880 that I'd probably bought a blazer from soup prey because 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:12.639 times were tough, and Burgeon. 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:14.359 I would go, oh god, she's wearing a shoulder pads. 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:17.280 Here, she goes, what does she want now? No, so 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:20.120 you guys are going away for six days, right? 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:20.640 Yeah? 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:25.280 I am afraid of the dark. So I'm thinking about 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:26.200 moving in with my parents. 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:32.600 Thought, Hang, you've lived here by yourself before. Burgo was 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:35.440 living here for years and you were fine. You used 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:37.880 to go outside of you heard a noise with a bat. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:39.720 I used to be so strong. 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:41.400 What's happened? I don't know. 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:44.280 I'm now like the thought of being alone in my 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:47.080 house and having to be like the full time parent, 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:48.520 like and look after Sophia. 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:49.919 You actually have to do something now. 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:51.440 I can't do it. 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:54.359 I can. That's what it is. It's not that you 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:55.920 scare the dark, is that you don't want to look 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:56.920 after child on your. 0:02:56.760 --> 0:03:01.680 I don't want a parent, No. I just get afraid 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.240 being by myself these days, which I never. 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:08.000 Used to be. Do you know you were so fierce 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:10.360 when you were living in this house and you bought 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:14.000 this house all by yourself, living here with your baby girl, 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:15.640 and you were so strong and fierce. 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:18.080 I think it's the pregnancy thing. Again. It's the imposter 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:22.200 syndrome thing. I've been going through, the doubting myself. But 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:24.320 I used to be afraid of the dark, and then 0:03:24.320 --> 0:03:26.640 I got so strong, and now I feel like I 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:28.560 don't want to be by myself again, Like that is 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:32.000 making me anxious. So while you guys are holidaying in Pouquette, 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.360 I might move in with mum and dad. And it's 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.320 also like a holiday, you know. In the mornings, I 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:38.280 get up hold from Mom, what do you want for 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:40.440 dinner tonight? I'm like, oh, I'm just do a pravd can. 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:44.160 When we just talk about that as an adult, going 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:47.160 to your mum and dad's house, isn't it funny how 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:49.840 we walk through that door and we revert to being 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:53.000 a child. I sit on the couch, Dad massages my feet, 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.000 Mum goes, what do you want and makes me whatever 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:55.320 I want. 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:58.040 In the kitchen we are children again. Do you want 0:03:58.040 --> 0:03:59.120 a banana cake tonight? 0:03:59.200 --> 0:03:59.360 Oh? 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:00.480 God, I would love. 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.720 A bananas It is just the nicest thing. 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:06.960 So I think maybe it's just me pretending I'm scared, 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:08.080 just so I can go home and have a bit 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:08.640 of a holiday. 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:10.160 You know, you just want for dinner? 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:12.080 Yeah, And dadd wud takes a fear on adventures and 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:13.720 I can just lay on the couch and have grapes. 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:17.760 Drop into my mouth. Lazy. All right, here's my member 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:19.960 of the week. I'm feeling really good this year. I 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:22.240 feel like last year I was robotic, I was doing 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:24.960 too much, and this year I feel like I'm starting 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:27.520 my day with a walk, come back, have brecky. It's 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:31.080 a really nice time. But this morning, my oldest son 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:34.159 happened to be at basketball really early. So Jimmy and 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:36.839 I are walking and I looked at my phone halfway 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.680 through our walk, and I had fifty eight messages. I'm 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:43.960 not joking, fifty eight from our eleven year old outfeet. 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:45.800 I'll just read. I won't read all fifty eight because 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.080 it will take a couple of poos. 0:04:47.080 --> 0:04:48.200 We'll be here until next week. 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:51.560 This is legit. I just woke up and no one 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:57.240 is home. Where is everybody? New message? Help me? New message? Mom, 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:02.119 New message? Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom, mom, mom, mom, Please 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:04.320 help me. I just woke up and no one is home. 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.520 Where are you? Where is everyone? Help me? Mum? Then 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:08.160 he copy and pasted it. I'm just going to show 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:10.680 you the screenshot, copy and paste, copy and paste. It 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:12.919 goes on and on and on, and then by the 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:16.880 time I saw it, I said, baby, we're walking and 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:20.000 he said, but what do I do? And I said, shower, 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:23.640 get dressed, and we'll be home in tent And he said, okay. 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:27.800 I like what he's so dramatic, are we? 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:31.360 I love you goes to the worst every time he's 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:34.640 so dramatic, and I can't work out because he's really funny. 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:37.039 I'm like, are you just taking the business this is 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.640 a funny thing, or are you actually anxious? Like do 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:41.440 you think you're going to die? I think it's he 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:43.000 thinks he's going to die, which we've discussed on a 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:43.760 previous podcast. 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:45.960 Anyway, morbid brain hashtag, yeah, Brin. 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:47.719 And that's not even he doesn't even have a phone. 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:49.479 This is on his laptop. He's sitting there on his 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:51.719 laptop like he's doing a business meeting, typing to me. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:56.360 We haven't even done our shopping. This is what we're 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:57.159 talking about today. 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:59.279 So we're going to talk about Devil wes Pridor because 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:01.960 everyone's talking about at the moment quickly, and then we're 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:06.400 going to talk about our love stories, how we found 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:07.640 our ways to our partners. 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:10.520 Yeah, if you are like Laurens thirty seven, I'm forty four, 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:13.200 if you are in your single era and you're like, 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:16.559 how do I meet that one? How do I meet them? Now, 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:18.920 we're going to tell you our story and it might 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:20.400 give you a couple of ideas of how you can 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:21.480 potentially meet your love of you. 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:23.400 Boy boy, is it a journey? 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:25.920 Oh? Yours is up and down and up and down, up. 0:06:25.920 --> 0:06:28.719 And down and up and down? All right? Random talk to. 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:31.760 Me, Okay, devil whrez Frida. I have been so excited 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:34.200 to see this movie. I love this movie so much, 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:37.039 number one and it came out. I cannot believe this 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:37.800 twenty years ago? 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:38.800 Did it? 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:41.800 Isn't that crazy? And the fact that they've got all 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:44.920 the cast back, like the core cast, and they look 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:48.480 just as good, if not better than they looked twenty 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:51.520 years ago. They're all back, which is amazing. Money and 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:55.000 plastic surgery for you, Yeah, but good plastic surgery. Like 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:58.560 i'd say, Anne Hathaway, you look at her face and 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:01.760 you're like, I can't tell, Like you have to have 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:04.559 had something dumb, but I can't tell. It's that good. 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:07.520 She looks like her face moves, but she still looks 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:08.080 really young. 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:10.160 How old would she be an out of Reckon, she'd be. 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:12.120 My ade Rekon? Or can she be forty four? Maybe 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:12.880 even forty five? 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:13.680 Who's her? 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:18.679 Yeah? And Meryl streets she is just a freaking queen. 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:20.800 I think if I met her in real life, I 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:23.880 would pass out in front of her because I'd be 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:26.640 so nervous. She's so intimidating but so beautiful. 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:28.040 And she'd look down at you with her glasses. 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:30.760 Oh yeah, I want to talk about two things. I'm 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:32.520 not going to do spoilers in case you haven't seen 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:35.080 it yet, but I do want to talk about one 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:36.760 thing because it relates to us. You haven't seen it 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:37.800 because you don't like going to the movie. 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:39.200 I don't I go to the movies, guys, because you 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.360 can't talk in movies, and that gives me exciting. 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:42.160 I like to talk. 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:43.120 You do. 0:07:43.240 --> 0:07:45.640 You're like Alfie. That's why I regretted bringing him to 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:46.080 that movie. 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:48.440 Or I sleep The last time I went to a movie. 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:50.520 I slept for fifty minutes. I woke up and I 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:52.000 was like, who died? What happened? 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:54.640 I know? I saw a photo your husband, Burdo, send 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:57.160 it to me. Okay, Devil Wears Bright Up. This is 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:59.480 a spoiler without being a spoiler. It's not giving it 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:03.200 anything too much away. But in the first five minutes, Andy, 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:06.560 who's the main character and Hathaway, is working for a 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:09.400 paper and she's at an awards night and she's about 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:11.240 to win an award. She's at a table of ten, 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:14.040 all her colleagues, and right as she's about to get 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:16.400 on stage with this award, they get a text message 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:20.240 that says, you're redundant. You've been made redundant, and so 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:24.000 the whole table have just lost their jobs and she 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.160 has to get up and accept this award, and she's like, 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:30.440 I'm should be really happy right now, but my whole 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:33.760 table have just been fired. And this is the scary 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:39.240 thing about print media and that landscape which we are 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:41.440 part of. We have an ad Lady magazine, which is 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:44.439 a physical magazine, a coffee table book. 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:45.640 You can smell it. 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:49.120 It's delicious. The whole movie is basically about how that 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:52.240 is dead and everyone is moving on to the digital era, 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:56.280 which I love digital era. I love being on my 0:08:56.320 --> 0:08:59.080 phone and looking and scrolling, but if I'm reading a magazine, 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:02.160 I feel like I need a physical copy. I can't 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:04.440 even get a kindle or an iPad. I have to 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:05.040 have the book. 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:06.800 If I want to read a book, I read the book. 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:09.080 I cannot read off a screen because screen takes me 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:09.880 back to being at work. 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:12.920 Yeah, and you always say this story. When we first 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:17.240 started our magazine, they were dying. It was in the 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:20.640 whole era of like, fuck, we're a magazine's going The. 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:24.000 Week we started our Ade Lady magazine, three South Australian 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:27.400 magazines in that week went fast. And we've been planning 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:30.080 this magazine for like six months, Like it wasn't like 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:35.880 let's start a magazine tomorrow. And then suddenly three weren't 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:38.600 there anymore, and that was really scary, but we still 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:39.760 went we're. 0:09:39.520 --> 0:09:40.000 Going to do this. 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:41.880 It was the best decision we've ever made. It was 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:44.640 I never want to not do the print magazine. 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:47.079 Do you feel though, you know how this whole new 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:50.880 generation of people, which I love, they're not they're not 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:54.160 drinking anymore, they don't buy a new fashion that's everything 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:58.280 sustainable and they go back to records and the old 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:01.440 school things. Do you think that maybe, and I'm hoping 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:05.360 fingers crossed, we've had this whole like oh wow, everything's 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:08.480 digital and now like, h No, I actually like the 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:11.280 physical copy things like magazines will come back. 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:13.280 I think there's always going to be a place for 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:16.680 social media, like we love it Instagram, Facebook. There's always 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:18.480 going to be stuff that's going to pop up. But 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:23.120 I feel like print, books, records, all that old stuff 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:26.120 is always going to be around, like the good old 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:29.160 days of like the seventies and eighties and nineties. Like 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:32.280 think about the music our kids and our kids' kids 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:34.080 are going to listen to abba. 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:36.360 But that's what they listen to. My kids, Yeah, listen 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:39.040 to what I listened to as opposed to music of today. 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:42.640 So the stuff that's happening now, because there's so much happening, yeah, 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:44.160 I don't feel like it's going to live on as 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:47.360 long as the older stuff. So I think there's always 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.320 going to be a place for TV, print everything. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:52.959 There's nothing better than opening a book or a magazine 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:55.760 and just like that feel and you feel like, oh, 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:57.920 I'm in my little happy place. I'm about to escape 0:10:57.960 --> 0:10:59.720 the world and go into this book in front of 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:02.000 me and you smell it, you smell the pages, and 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:07.079 it's just so nice. On that though Andy made redundant, 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:11.760 I did want to say this. This is so relatable 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:14.520 right now. There are so many redundancies in our industry, 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:18.920 in radio, in TV, it's everywhere. It's really sad. A 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:21.920 lot of these massive buildings that were once full of 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:27.080 people and a beehive of energy are now diminishing to nothing. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.920 You have flaws that are completely empty because people are 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:33.520 being made redundant and being replaced by maybe it's AI, 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:37.800 or they're just putting five people's workloads on one person. 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:41.640 That's what's happening now. But when you get made redundant, 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.720 sometimes it's the best thing that will ever happen to 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:49.320 you because your brain can reset and you can go Actually, 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.319 I know at first this is the worst thing in 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:54.320 the world. I've lost all my confidence. But now I 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:57.600 can actually work out what I really want, and you 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:59.199 might go in a whole different path. 0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:03.319 When we started at a Lady exactly you were made redundant. 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:06.600 I went crazy, it was like redundant, Well, it's true, 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:09.440 and we had time to reset because often, you know, 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:11.840 like some people take a gap year after school, or 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.920 it's very rare in your adult life and career that 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:20.080 you're forced to stop, yes, but being forced to stop 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:22.440 gives you time to be creative and go what do 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:24.319 I actually want to do? And that's where the best 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:26.840 businesses come from. Like I just want to bake bread 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:29.120 or I think about that. Lady we once met in 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:31.720 McLaren Vale. She was retired and she got time to 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:34.040 stop and think and she opened up a bakery because 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:37.000 she loved baking and it turned into the most amazing, 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.440 hustling and bustling bakery that she started when she was 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:42.320 like seventy. She was like, I never wanted to do this. Yeah, 0:12:42.320 --> 0:12:43.760 I didn't know it was going to turn into this, 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:46.160 but here we are. She had time to think about it. 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:47.720 There's a lot of people who are in a job 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:50.480 and they don't have the confidence. They're not brave enough 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:53.960 to leave and try something that they've always wanted. 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:55.600 To do there for years and it's all they know. 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:58.120 Yeah, so look at it if you I know, it's 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:03.000 really hard, Okay. Colin's perfect example. She was reading the 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:05.960 news on Channel nine for years and then she was 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:08.920 made redundant. And it's a normal thing in media, this happens. 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:11.680 In fact, you haven't been a media unless you have 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:14.120 been made redundant. I know, right, But she's found this 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:16.600 new lease on life. She's now doing a heap of 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:19.000 other things that are feeling her bucket. She's doing pr 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:21.520 she's doing Hallosa with us, She's doing all these other 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.920 things that she probably would never have done if she 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:28.400 hadn't have been made redundant. So sometimes it's a blessing. 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:30.960 Being redundant is not the worst thing that can happen 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:31.920 in life. 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:36.760 Being made redundant. Being redundant is the worst thing that 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:37.880 can happen in life. 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:38.600 You're redundant. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:39.600 I don't want to be redundant. 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:40.240 You're redundant. 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:43.080 You're dead to me. 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:47.200 Okay, no, but remember when I came back from having Sofia, 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:49.600 I felt redundant in the business, and it was actually 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:51.400 the worst thing ever. Like I have to have triggered 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:53.920 right out. I thought, you didn't need me. 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:55.720 No, you always need it. 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:59.679 But it's your brain. You go to everything's running smooth, 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:01.920 everything's fine. Oh my gosh, I don't need me, Oh 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:05.000 my gosh, I'll go work for someone else. Yeah, baby, 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:06.480 brain does weird shit to you. 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:09.840 Yeah, cost of living is really hard right now. So 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:12.480 if this is happening to you, we totally understand that. 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:15.600 It's like shit, what am I gonna do, but you 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:17.280 will find your way and it will be fine. 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:18.320 Yeah, you'll be all right. 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:22.080 All right, Okay, we are about to talk love. We 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:25.040 love love. I love love. I love love. 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:26.400 I never used to love love. 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:28.080 I know, I know you did. It was always there, 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:30.920 but now you really feel it. I had a situation 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:34.440 this week where I feel like I fell in love 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:36.080 with my husband all over again, and I know he 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:38.440 felt the same. And it was because he had a 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:43.240 general ascetic. He was drugged, highly drugged, like I'm serious. 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:46.520 He went under to have a little operation, and while 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:49.760 that was happening, I was so stressed, thinking, oh my gosh, 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:51.520 what if he doesn't wake up? This is like what 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:54.320 And then when I picked him up from the thing, 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.760 we just hugged and got into the lift and kissed. 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:58.480 This is something you don't really do when you've been 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:00.760 together for twenty years. Just like embrace, you made out, 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:02.760 We gave yeah, we had a little kiss in the 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:07.040 hell up and then that nineties just like I could 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:09.200 tell you know when you just go he's just hugging 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:12.040 and touching and just like just appreciate you so much. 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:15.560 And I think when you when you're in that situation, 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:17.680 you know, you do take your partner for granted a 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:19.560 little bit because it's normal so. 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:23.920 Much because you're like what everyone aspires to be, love 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:27.320 each other and find each other sexy and funny. After 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:29.880 twenty years, I got a craig. 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:33.880 It is weird, isn't it. Anyway, we thought, oh God, 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:35.160 I don't know where this is going to go to. 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:37.640 Lawrence already lost it. We're going to talk about love 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:40.760 because we thought, if you are single and you're trying 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:44.360 to find someone, whether it be a boy or a girl, 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:46.720 we're going to share our love stories and maybe it 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:48.720 will give you a little bit of hope because mine 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:52.680 was more smooth sailing than Laurence, but we still ended 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:54.840 up in the same place. So let's start with your story. 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:56.400 All right, how long? How long do we have? 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:59.800 We don't have that long, so an edited version. 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:04.200 Okay version. So I used to produce you and Burgo 0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:07.400 back in the day safm Days Michael Haley and Burjo show, 0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:12.440 like what fifteen years ago, and I didn't really like Burgo, 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.720 like we were friends and then we weren't friends. We've 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:18.400 had a really like up and down, especially at the 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:21.280 beginning relationship which you were part of. From the beginning. 0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:25.160 Yeah, let's talk about the first moment that Burgo started. 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:26.920 And there's the first night you met him and there 0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:29.440 were two new guys and you were on a dance 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:31.360 floor and you knew one of them was gay. 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:33.360 And one of them was straight, and we happened to 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:36.400 be at a party and I just Burgo rocked up 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:38.720 and I just started like slut dropping on the dance 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:42.560 dance floor and being so wild to him. And then 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:44.600 we got to work on the Monday, and I was like, 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:46.040 oh my gosh, you're not the gay one, You're the 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:47.880 straight one. Because then I met Christian Hull, who was 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:51.200 my assistant producer, and he was clearly gay, and I went, oh, 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.240 my gosh, I'm so embarrassed. So Burgo's just like, well, 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:56.840 this chick's into me. This is nice. She's very forward. 0:16:57.920 --> 0:17:02.360 But from then we stopped working at the station. We 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:04.480 didn't see each other for a really long time. 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:06.640 You were very nice at the beginning to each other, 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:09.040 and I think it was more there was obviously always 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:12.160 something there, because there's a really fine line between love 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:15.600 and hate and very fine, and it was that you like, 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:17.320 he would pick on things, but I was always like 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:21.439 you'd like her like you definitely like that girl you 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:23.560 were with someone, so I don't think you were looking 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:24.400 at him the same way. 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:26.560 And then my partner at the time didn't like Burgo 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:29.200 because I think he always thought that there was something 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:30.600 going on which there wasn't. 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:32.720 Because he would come to your house as friends and 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:33.440 just rock up for. 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:35.840 Dinner all the time, would hang out. We would hang 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:37.800 out all the time. We were just like he'd pick 0:17:37.840 --> 0:17:39.840