WEBVTT - Newsreader Abbey Opens Up About Having A Baby On Her Own 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:05.440 We've got get your every day every la adelaide. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:07.680 He jos. 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:10.480 We talk about one of the most influential and powerful 0:00:10.480 --> 0:00:12.400 and just flawless man on the planet, of course, that 0:00:12.520 --> 0:00:13.240 is Joe Biden. 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:15.880 Never steps up and thank you all, God bless you all. 0:00:15.960 --> 0:00:18.800 Let's go, let's go, let let the world, let's go 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:20.479 do Let's go lick the world. 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:23.520 Indeed, I think the world that should be our motto 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:25.520 for the weekend as we headed to gather out. 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:26.200 Let's go lick it. 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:27.480 Let's go give it a good lick. 0:00:27.800 --> 0:00:31.760 Seriously, type in Joe Biden gaff and oh my gosh, 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:33.159 hours and hours of entertainment. 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:33.640 Beautiful. 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:35.560 The man knows how to stuff up a speech. What 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:36.040 about this? 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:39.519 Though, journalists have been told to stop stealing souvenirs from 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:43.280 US President Joe Biden's official aircraft, so an infantry check 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:45.519 on Air Force one after mister Biden's visit to the 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:47.760 US West Coast and a couple of months ago, found 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:50.800 several items were missing from its press section. People just 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:55.920 taking a couple of little souvenirs. Branded pillowcases, glasses, gold 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:59.520 rimed plates among the items that allegedly vanished from the jet. 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:01.400 I have to say, if I was a journalist following 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:03.360 Joe Biden around and I was on his private jet, 0:01:03.360 --> 0:01:07.760 I'd be very, very tempted absolutely just to take something. 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:10.480 And given Joe Biden is as alert as he is, 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:12.880 I reckon you could steal his teeth and he wouldn't know. 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:16.080 He muttered some absolute nonsense. 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:18.840 He's just walking around making gummy speak for two weeks. 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:20.920 He's like, someone, did someone take my teeth? 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:22.480 America? 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:25.840 Give it a good old lick thourteen, twenty four to ten. 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:28.680 What special little souvenir did you steal? 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:31.920 And when we don't condone fevery absolutely not. 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:33.360 But you feel like most people have been in a 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:35.160 situation where're like, do you know I might not get 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:37.760 back here? This is a really special occasion. I want 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:40.480 to remember it forever, absolutely, Or maybe you were being 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:41.800 genuinely thrifty. 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:42.520 Thirteen twenty four ten. 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:45.560 Give us a call if you've maybe sampled something that 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:46.560 perhaps she shouldn't have. 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:48.200 I ast make a bit of a habit back that 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:49.960 I thought it was really really cool, particularly it's sort 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:52.280 of nineteen or twenty. You think it's awesome to have 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:54.200 alcoholic merchandise around your house? 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:56.080 Yeah, that is the thing isn't it. 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:59.000 She's we collected some bar mats. Did you use the journeys? 0:01:59.040 --> 0:01:59.880 Yeah, bar maats. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:01.880 So they used to be genuinely like tow so it'd 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:04.120 be like two is new or whatever it was. And 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.000 then they turned into those fancy mats, you know, the 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:07.320 ones are sort of half stick on the bar. 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:09.120 Yes, so you'd have to put them down your treehouse. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:11.600 And then you get home and you have a little 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:13.800 bar mats and you put that in the front kitchen 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:15.400 and you're like, oh, this is so cool. Look at 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:17.600 all that beermerg all, there's like a rum post from 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:18.080 the background. 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:21.480 Now own your lad's lonely? 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:22.880 Yeah, what was that like? 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:24.880 What was that feeling like when you woke up in 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:27.280 the morning and you had a bar mat stuff down 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:28.560 the front of your pajamas? 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:31.119 Not very good? No, not very good for things down there. 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:33.079 No, I suppose the plus side was and no one 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:34.120 else was ever really seeing it. 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:36.160 They were they when you were sort of going down 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:36.639 that direction. 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:39.280 Yeah, in your case, you know, I mean, I mean, 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:40.440 did you think you were going to pick up with 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:41.679 the bar mat down the front of your pants? 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:43.519 No, it was pretty confident nothing was going to happen. 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:47.239 As well, it was a safe fit as we'll go 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:48.200 home with something. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:51.440 Thirteen twenty four to ten. What special little souvenir did 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:51.880 you steal? 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:55.560 Good morning, Bonnie, what did you sample? Shall we say morning? 0:02:56.320 --> 0:03:01.520 It's not actually myself, it's my father. My dad. Every 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:04.440 single footy trip he's come home with a bar stool 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:09.160 from a pub out in the out in the smoking area. 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:14.360 So it was not four different barsdels from different pubs. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:17.280 We've never met your dad, but we can absolutely know 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.559 right now that he's a beautiful, perfect Manny. 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:21.760 Can you can you please explain to me how he 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.400 subtly steals a bar stool from a pub. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:28.240 Honestly, no idea. But I do remember once when I 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:31.280 was young and I had a girlfriend over for a 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:33.640 sleepover and mom was like, oh, we've got to go 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:36.360 pick that up, like he's at the pub, and we 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:38.120 were in the backseat and he legit put the bar 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:42.360 stool on top of our lade. 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.160 Is amazing, absolutely perfect. 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.240 They don't match, though, do they, Bonnie? They're all different. 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:50.880 No, surprisingly, they actually all match. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:54.320 Oh don well, standing, thank you, Bonnie. 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:55.960 Real tile of robin hood, isn't it? 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:58.240 Thirteen twenty four to ten give us a call this morning. 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:02.560 What have you perhaps taken from somewhere that you shouldn't have. 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:06.520 Talking about what's happened on the fly of the official 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:09.880 aircraft of Joe Biden. Joe Biden, what an absolute spiritual 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:11.720 leader he is. Never stuffs up. 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:15.400 I have trouble even mentioning, even saying to myself my 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:17.920 own had the number of years. I no more think 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:19.920 of myself as being as old as I am than. 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:24.240 Fly great thanks to that, Joan, I made no sense whatsoever. 0:04:24.279 --> 0:04:26.600 But no, Biden, I think sometimes you do get to 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:28.000 a point, though, where you get to an age where 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:29.000 you forget how old you are. 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:30.560 Yeah, that's universal to all. 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:34.680 Of us jobes like eighties, high eighties, nineties, hundred tens. 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:38.679 Oh, I think is he seventies or eighties eighties? 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:40.719 Okay, at the back of our journalists. 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:43.760 That's stealing all sorts of things from his aircraft thirteen 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:46.800 twenty four ten, especially little souvenirs that you've pocketed over 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:47.240 the journey. 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:49.840 Yes, we've just heard from a beautiful girl who said 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:53.000 that her dad has stolen four different bar stools from 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:54.200 four different pubs and. 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:54.800 They all match. 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:56.000 That's good, that's beautiful. 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:58.320 Isn't it, Brad, what have you perhaps sampled? 0:04:59.000 --> 0:04:59.480 Good morning? 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:00.360 He good? 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:04.440 So it was actually my brother the same thing pubs 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:07.440 around Adelaide, and he used to take wherever he went 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:11.320 restaurants as well, just the salt pepper shakers. I don't 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.279 know why he ended up with some that were not 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:13.960 even fancy. 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:17.240 Wow, you need salt and peppers shakers for every room 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:17.719 of the house. 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:18.440 That's true? 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:20.720 Yeah, pretty much? Yeah, yeah, no, I was not. 0:05:21.520 --> 0:05:25.239 When you're as obsessed with salt as I am, it's good. Yeah, 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:27.520 thank you, Brad. Donno, what have you sampled? 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:28.640 Good morning? 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:31.720 I've had this do a weird addiction that whenever I 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:34.240 stay in a week a DNBA or a hotel, I 0:05:34.279 --> 0:05:37.040 have to take something with me, like a flannel or 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:40.200 a fridge magna or a steak knife like that. 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:41.560 Wow, he scared. 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:43.719 It's going to be like a gateway little obsession where 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:47.040 eventually starts stealing you know, the couch, and then it's a. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:49.279 Fridge, and then you steal the entire. 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:52.039 House if I could fit it. 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:52.520 In my car. 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:53.160 Yeah. 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:55.880 The last time I went to our place that we 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:58.800 ran as an airbnb, I couldn't find my peeler, my 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:01.520 vegetable peel at Donna, did you stay with us? 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.080 No, I've never taken a vegetable peeler? 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:06.920 Right, okay, well that's for life. Thank you, Donna. Let's 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:08.279 go to Sean. Good morning, Sean. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:11.919 I said, twenty four Guinness classes. Yeah, so that that 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:13.000 was the sort of a beginning. 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:13.520 Yep. 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:17.880 But yeah, I've got I had this like it started 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:19.599 with a couple and then I put them on my shelf. 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:22.400 I'm like, well, now it's an odd number. Yes, Now 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:23.240 I've got to get six. 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:23.480 Right. 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:24.919 Then after I got six, I'm like, well, if I 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:26.440 have six, if one breaks, that's going to be an 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:29.640 odd number. I went to twelve yep, and then I 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:32.200 went or if I k twelve, if I have twenty four, 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:35.679 it's a nice number. So I went to that number. 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:36.479 Okay, but my. 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:40.520 Defense, right is each class is like thirteen dollars a class, 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:43.680 and I know it only costs four dollars yeah Guinness 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:44.039 as well. 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:44.839 Yeah. 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:47.560 So my defense is is that every ten that I buy, 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:48.279 I get a glass. 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:50.159 Yeah, spot on. 0:06:50.320 --> 0:06:51.840 So it's actually making the money back. 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:54.719 Okay, So have you stopped now you're happy with twenty four? 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:56.560 What happens if you lose one and you've only got 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:57.039 twenty three. 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:01.400 Yeah, I'm thinking about that. 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:03.560 Sure, Thank you so much. 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:06.080 It was a weekend of p and we for both 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:07.960 of us. Let me explain that a little bit further, 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:12.040 shall I. So, firstly, my four year old wandered into 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:15.800 the kitchen yesterday morning as I was cooking breakfast and said, Mom, 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:17.480 need to go to the toilet. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:18.720 Take me to the toilet. 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:23.040 And because she starts school literally next week, we're trying 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:24.880 to go No, no, no, you don't need mum or Dad 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:26.560 or your sisters to take you to the toilet. You're 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:29.600 gonna have to do it by yourself at receptions. So 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:30.840 you need to start to learn. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:31.480 And she. 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:36.800 Sits on the floor and I'm like, I just I thought, 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:38.880 I'll just ignore this little tantrum that's happening and go 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:42.440 back to my eggs and bacon. Anyway, next minute, I 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.920 look over because she's sitting there for an extraordinary amount 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:46.360 of time for a little kid that wanted to go 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:46.880 to the toilet. 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:50.280 Great big puddle. 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:52.720 Of wa I'm making a genuine puddle. 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.240 But making a real statement like if you're not going 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:57.400 to take me to the toilet, I'm just. 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:59.560 Going to be on the floor the statement where he 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:00.240 is at the beg ones. 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:03.160 Yeah, aren't they they're the ones with plenty behind them, Yeah. 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:04.280 Yes, exactly. 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:07.360 And then I call you on the way home and 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:09.520 you're having a similar sort of weeaed trouble. 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:10.160 Yeah. 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:13.560 Yeah, it's interesting, isn't it, Particularly dealing with Toddler's. We're 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:16.520 in the process now where Lottie is very selective with 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:19.160 her toilets. Okay, so then maybe the same sort of thing. 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:21.360 She's very good at going the toilet, yeah, but doesn't 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:23.880 like to wean things that she doesn't she's not familiar with. 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:24.200 Yeah. 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:24.520 Right. 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:27.600 So there's one of those you know those two thousands 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:29.440 lose that that the electronic one. 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:29.920 The ones. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:37.000 And it's like estimated time minutes. She had a light 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.040 to look at that one. She just likes to look 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:40.559 at that one. So we had to negotiate with her. 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:42.839 She went to do a bushwear, which's not very good 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:45.440 at squatting down. So one stage it looked over and 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:47.200 she's genuinely. 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:47.800 A cell phone. 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:51.040 Let's keep this between me and you lot not tell Mark 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:54.199 to get in trouble. And also some say one stage 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:56.000 she's doing it and there's a bunch of people walking 0:08:56.040 --> 0:09:01.800 towards what she's doing away like a genuine drunk person. 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:03.480 Did you have any toilet vapor? 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:03.960 No? 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.679 No, no no. So that was Yeah, that was society 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:08.360 sue that I was willing to deal with. 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:08.680 Yeah. 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:09.040 Sure. 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:11.560 And then you're at the park and Lottie decides to 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:13.360 help herself to someone else's killing. 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.240 Yeah the life lessons, isn't it. 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:17.560 Because there's a park attached to a park at Queen 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:20.480 Street and quite often great place for a little birthday party. 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.320 So Lotty said, I'm just going to pop next door 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.600 because I want a piece of cake from that birthday party. 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:29.360 You've got to go. No, no, no, you can't just 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:29.800 turn up. 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:31.719 You can't just cruise around the neighborhood look at the 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.720 birthday parties to get your cake fixed. 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:37.319 No exactly. And then and this was the piece the resistance. 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:41.640 I heard you actively in real time gaslight you're three 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:44.320 year old, as you're trying to extricate her from the park. 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:46.080 Put your hand of if you've got toddlers and you 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:48.160 have to gaslight them to get watch one out of them. 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:54.400 Jerney ten shoots right up. So Lotti had said, I 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:56.199 want to stay at the park. I feel like we've 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:57.360 been there for about two days as it. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:59.720 Was yeah, oh god, parks are excruciating. 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:02.240 It's boring, to which I had to say, right up, 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:03.839 we have to go home. We have to go home. 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:05.120 She said, no, I want to stay at the park, 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:07.280 and said, here's your options. We can stay at the park, 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:08.599 but if we stay here, we stay here for the 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:12.000 rest of our lives, okay. And if we stay here 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:13.680 for the rest of our lives, you'll never see mum again, 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:15.880 You'll never see the cat ever again, and we'll never 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:18.800 get to go back home. And then what will we eat, Lottie, 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:20.840 I said, look, word out over the coat. 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:21.120 Dogs. 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:23.400 Dogs always poos over the corner over there, so we 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:25.319 could eat that. I'm not sure what we're going to drink. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:26.880 We'll have to drink out of the dog bubber as well, 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:27.760 so you are fected. 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:28.360 She came around. 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:31.480 He effectively said, we can stay at the bart, but 0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:33.320 we'll have to stay here forever. And then I just 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:36.000 hear this little three year old voice in the background going, 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:37.400 I want to go home. 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:41.079 Sure, okay, let's go on me. 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:45.760 I went to the Thunderbirds game on Saturday night, and 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:49.640 at halftime, as you do, just went for a little 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:53.040 whittle in the toilet. Sure, So I was sitting in 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:55.640 the cubicle and there was a woman next to me 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:58.600 who obviously had taken her i'd say, little toddler, little 0:10:58.640 --> 0:11:01.480 girl to the toilet. Was very quiet in there. I 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:03.960 mean I'm pretty sure it was like me, her and 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:07.920 one other person, so really quiet. And then next minute 0:11:08.760 --> 0:11:15.600 I hear this little voice go, mummy, you've got a 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:21.040 lot of hair on your vagina. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:24.360 There was no way, there was no way that I 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:25.120 could have predicted you. 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:28.640 I was we go with. 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:31.520 This bang, and then I could hear the mother just 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:32.120 like awkwardly. 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:38.679 Oh anyway, as it happens, we both flushed and walked 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:41.280 out at the same time. And because at that point 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:44.400 I had the giggles and she saw me laughing, I 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:51.320 was like, oh, interesting toilet conversation. She looked at me 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:53.720 and she was so embarrassed. She was like, oh, yeah, 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:56.160 it turns out I knew the woman actually, And then 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:57.960 we started talking about how we. 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:01.359 Knew each other. But she was so mortified. 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:03.520 And I was retelling this story to produce it em 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:06.240 and you had something similar with your toddler. I did 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:07.680 so another Saturday too. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:08.600 It must happen on Saturdays. 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:10.440 Were at swimming and I had to take him solo, 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:13.319 so I had to get changed after swimming out of 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:15.120 my bathers, but I also had to go to the toilet. 0:12:15.160 --> 0:12:16.480 I was like, all right, come on, Max, let's go. 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:19.200 So it's two and a half and he's learning to 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:21.480 go to the toilet, so he's learning the proper names 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:25.679 for things. So take my one piece off. Not attractive 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:27.319 at all, but I mean they're trying to get it done. 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:30.520 Go to the toilet and stand up, start getting dressed, 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:33.200 and he just points and he goes, mummy, you have 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:43.040 a penis in the loudest and no, no, no, no, no, 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:47.280 mummy has a vagina. Boy, daddy's got a penis. Trying no, mummy, 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:49.319 you have a penis. And so I'm out of there 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:51.640 as quickly as I can. Pull my stuff on, get 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:53.640 out of there. And once again, you go out and 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:55.439 there is another mum there with kids, and she just 0:12:55.520 --> 0:13:00.480 kind of goes. I tried to correct him. It's what's 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:02.840 so embarrassing. I got this from a really good source. Actually, 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:04.720 you to Henry to the toilet one day and he 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:06.640 pointed to you and said, Daddy isn't that supposed to 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:11.079 be where your penis. 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:14.840 I was like, what are you talking about about? It's there? No, no, no, no. 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:21.520 Vagina kids they know not what they say. 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:30.960 My really, it is so time for it. He loves 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:31.560 girl girl. 0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:34.880 Yes, this is where we download on all the stuff 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:37.719 that's really annoying us women during the week, Abby from 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:38.240 the newsroom. 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:42.199 That would be everything for you. Correct, yep, producers are eaten. 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:43.680 It's not so annoyed this week. 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:48.480 I'm all right, you're okay, all right, okay, let's get 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:48.880 into it. 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:49.960 Yeah. 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:52.680 So this is something that I have spoken I haven't 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:54.560 really spoken to you guys about, but I've been talking 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:59.000 amongst friends about and basically a good friend of mine 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:03.000 she is single, she hasn't found her person yet, and 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:07.559 she is having tests to basically become a mum. She's 0:14:07.559 --> 0:14:10.199 gonna do it on her own, single mom right now. 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:13.320 Every time, my sister has brought this up twice with 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:15.720 me and said, why don't you look at freezing your eggs. 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:19.960 I'm thirty four, haven't found the one, haven't found who 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:23.560 I'm going to settle down with. And it's funny because 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.000 every time, well the two times that she's brought it 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:28.760 up I get tiary and I can't talk about it. 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:32.600 And I think it's because at thirty four, you sort 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:35.240 of go, I thought that I would be married. I 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:37.160 thought that, you know, at least i'd be married. I 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:39.640 thought that I would have maybe had a kid by now, 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:40.600 et cetera, et cetera. 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:44.360 Anyway, do you feel pressure on that front? Yeah? 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:46.160 I think I do a little bit, because I think 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:50.000 we're sold this dream as children that when you grow up, 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.840 you meet your person, you go and have your own family, 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:56.320 things like that, And I think that as much as 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:59.120 I go, you know, I hats off to the women 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:02.040 who do it and who are single parents or go 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:05.080 and do it on themselves. But for me, and I've 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.880 spoken about it before, mentally, I don't think I'm strong 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:10.520 enough to bring a child into this world on my own. 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:13.840 I've got such an amazing support network, I really really do, 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:15.400 and I know that they would be there for me. 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:17.560 But also I think you look, and you go, I 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:21.080 want to bring my kids up in a family unit. Yeah, 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:23.600 but today, yeah, I just sort of thought I'd love 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:26.640 to hear from people thirteen twenty four to ten. Have 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:28.800 you done this? Have you frozen your eggs? Have you 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:31.200 gone down the path of having kids on your own? 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:32.520 Are you thinking about it? 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:33.120 Yeah? 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:35.400 Well two things here. Firstly, you can do it. 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:38.720 You're one of the strongest people I know and you're 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:40.320 really fierce, and if you want to have a baby 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:42.600 on your own, then I have no doubts in my 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:47.000 mind that that's absolutely what you can do. And secondly, 0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:49.280 this is so common now. I know of so many 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:51.480 people that are just going, well, you know what, I 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:53.760 haven't found the night and shining armor. I haven't found 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:56.480 that guy that we're sold as little girls. So I'm 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:58.520 just going to do this by myself because I want children. 0:15:58.680 --> 0:15:58.920 Yeah. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.000 So, yeah, it's a really interesting conversation. 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:02.720 We'd love to hear from anyone who's gone down this 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:05.320 path or anyone who's contemplating at thirteen twenty four ten 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:05.800 gives a call. 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:08.360 The other thing to talk about as well, is I 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:11.120 think blokes to do it as well. You have a 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.240 timeline in your head, have we you think things are 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:15.880 supposed to be? And I would say maybe ninety percent doesn't. 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:17.720 It doesn't add up whether it's like twenty five I 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:19.400 should be doing this and by thirty I should be married. 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:21.560 By this I should be having this, and then I 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:23.080 don't think you do it on purpose as well, and 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.760 when it doesn't add up, maybe you feel like you're failing. Yeah, 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:29.040