1 00:00:05,881 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: Approche production. Good morning. I'm Jennifer Cray, host of your 2 00:00:18,561 --> 00:00:22,281 Speaker 1: morning Mantra. We often shape our days around what we 3 00:00:22,361 --> 00:00:27,401 Speaker 1: believe others expect of us, wearing masks, ticking boxes, and 4 00:00:27,441 --> 00:00:34,361 Speaker 1: ignoring the spark within. Today's meditation draws on Howard Hermann's wisdom, 5 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:38,641 Speaker 1: don't do what you think others need. Do what makes 6 00:00:38,641 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 1: you feel alive, because others need you to be alive. 7 00:00:43,681 --> 00:00:48,961 Speaker 1: Your morning mantra, I choose what makes me feel alive. 8 00:00:54,761 --> 00:00:59,681 Speaker 1: Let's begin, if it's safe to do so, close your 9 00:00:59,681 --> 00:01:07,601 Speaker 1: eyes or lower your gaze. Relax your eyes, relax your ears, 10 00:01:09,481 --> 00:01:16,681 Speaker 1: relax your jaw, relax your shoulders down and bring your 11 00:01:16,721 --> 00:01:24,241 Speaker 1: attention to your breath. Bring your attention to any sense 12 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:33,321 Speaker 1: of obligation, your to do list, the roles that you play. 13 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:45,681 Speaker 1: Notice I should notice external expectations, other people's demands. Notice 14 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:50,001 Speaker 1: as you think of this, the tension that's held in 15 00:01:50,041 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: the body, and now purposely release it, melting tension down 16 00:01:59,561 --> 00:02:06,081 Speaker 1: and out of the body. I think that we are 17 00:02:06,081 --> 00:02:10,881 Speaker 1: best serving others' needs, and we might be happy and 18 00:02:10,961 --> 00:02:15,561 Speaker 1: grateful as we do this. But when we feel tired 19 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: or worn down, this is a sign that it might 20 00:02:19,921 --> 00:02:24,521 Speaker 1: not be the best for us right now. This is 21 00:02:24,561 --> 00:02:29,641 Speaker 1: the vitality that Howard Hermann speaks of the life force 22 00:02:29,841 --> 00:02:37,081 Speaker 1: that sustains us and everyone around us. Recognize that by 23 00:02:37,201 --> 00:02:41,321 Speaker 1: choosing our vitality, we offer our fullest self to the world. 24 00:02:43,881 --> 00:02:49,281 Speaker 1: Others don't need our empty compliance. They need our aliveness, 25 00:02:50,361 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: our authenticity, our light. Today's mantra, I choose what makes 26 00:02:57,841 --> 00:03:03,001 Speaker 1: me feel alive. Repeat to yourself, either out loud or 27 00:03:03,041 --> 00:03:10,361 Speaker 1: in your mind, what makes me feel alive? Bringing your 28 00:03:10,401 --> 00:03:15,161 Speaker 1: awareness to your breath and back to the space around you. 29 00:03:17,161 --> 00:03:22,561 Speaker 1: Slowly open your eyes to increase self awareness and growth. 30 00:03:23,321 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: I invite you to listen to this evening's reflection. You 31 00:03:27,841 --> 00:03:30,761 Speaker 1: can also deepen your practice with me on Inside Timer 32 00:03:31,601 --> 00:04:25,441 Speaker 1: find the link in the show notes below. In the 33 00:04:25,681 --> 00:04:25,841 Speaker 1: FA