1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 2: Just a few days ago, we finally finally got around 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 2: to recording the music video for Translucent. 4 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:16,080 Speaker 3: Words Left Unspoken, Feelings left dunset. I'm drowning in emotions, 5 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 3: trapped in my own head. 6 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: When you look. 7 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 4: At me, I who you look right through me? Are 8 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 4: you women? Sorry? It turned me apart. When I see 9 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 4: you with her, I see you happy? 10 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 3: But did you have to go and stabbed me through 11 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: the heart? 12 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: Relatable Party. 13 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jacob Craig aka 14 00:00:55,880 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 2: an artist oh An Aunty Clark aka a lose artist, 15 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: A losing artist. Guys, so today is an exciting day. 16 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 2: We would like to take a bit of accountability first, 17 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 2: and I would like to point out that it is 18 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 2: currently it's December fourth, and I'm pretty sure Addie and 19 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 2: I if you guys have been listening for at least 20 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 2: nine months? 21 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 1: Was it nine months? 22 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 2: It's been a while. A long time ago, Addie challenged 23 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 2: me to make a song with him against each other. 24 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: We both made a song. We pro We documented the process. 25 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 2: It's a vlog on Patreon that go sign up if 26 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 2: you want to watch that vlog. 27 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: It's a while back we. 28 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 2: Both went and made a song individually with Toby Wells. 29 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: Shout out to Toby Wells. I think one reason not 30 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: making excuses I was a little bit disheartened with we 31 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: didn't follow up on what we're about to say is 32 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: those episodes were terribly performing day now, they didn't do 33 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: very I see that shit, And maybe maybe that's another 34 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: thing where I shouldn't look at the statistics. Oh okay, 35 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: maybe I thought it was a really good episode. 36 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's more about Yeah, I think if you 37 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: if you love an episode, fuck it. 38 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. So we made songs. 39 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 2: We made it this whole thing of like weave a 40 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 2: snippet and then we did like ODDI did his full song, 41 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 2: and then we did a sniff in of mine, and 42 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 2: then we did that my full song, and then we 43 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 2: released them on Spotify and you can go listen to them. 44 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 2: And then we said, whoever gets the most streams in 45 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 2: a month will make a music video. 46 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: Did we say one month or nine months? 47 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: No, yeah, you know we're thinking about it. Actually a 48 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 2: one in a night, they're not far off or you're 49 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 2: missing is a little curve on the top of the 50 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 2: on top of the straight line. 51 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: Maybe we said ten months, like the zero after, we're 52 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: gonna confused and we're actually there. 53 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 2: So you guys kept asking, and we kept thinking, we 54 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 2: said nine months. That's why we were ignoring you guys. 55 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: We were like, we said nine months. 56 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 2: But we would like to just Audie, can we please 57 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:55,959 Speaker 2: hear a little bit of your song? 58 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: You can caught in my thoughts. 59 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 2: But Audick, what do you want me to just play 60 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 2: from the start the minute? What do you want just 61 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 2: a little bit of the start? 62 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: Thinking all the time lost him my mind echoes from 63 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: the plastic game to fun. Oh yeah, feeling like gone, 64 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: being left behind card I my thoughts I started before. 65 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, such inferences I can't find, never believe in this. 66 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 6: It's made of my mind time, my thoughts lost him by. 67 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 2: If you ask me, how the fuck did I lose 68 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 2: a bang up? That is ordered my thoughts by Ottie Clark. Oh, 69 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 2: I just thought too. 70 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: I just came to me. This all stems from remember 71 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: ages ago. So me and Jacob been through Jake's first parents' 72 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: house set up. Then we went to this garage in like. 73 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 2: No, no, we went Jake's first my parents' place right 74 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 2: where I was living there. Yeah, their house and we 75 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 2: set up in a corner. It was like zero design. 76 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: It was just like what we had. And then we 77 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: moved here and we did go in that room in 78 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 2: the painted with the black chalk paint. 79 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: Got about that. 80 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,119 Speaker 2: Then we moved up into the garage in the corner 81 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 2: where it is sitting. Yeah, and we had it and 82 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: it was just. 83 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: Literally a garage. 84 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes Otti's car was parked in here while we 85 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:40,239 Speaker 2: were recording and it was stinking hot in the summer, 86 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 2: by the way. 87 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: But do you remember in that setup, I challenged you 88 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: to make a song and it was terrible. We made 89 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:47,239 Speaker 1: it ourself because we only had like five hundred listeners. 90 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: We went and made a song on garage band. Yeah, 91 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: we challenged each other and you won that one as well. 92 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. See you mind have a little bit 93 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: of a Mac for this. I just thought of that. 94 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 2: I would like to point out that when I was 95 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 2: in the recording seat, it was studio Toby Wells. A 96 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 2: couple of the times when when I was when I 97 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 2: was hitting some of them notes, he was like, mate, 98 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: he was like, let's go, And I was like, but 99 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 2: you didn't say that he did you? 100 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 1: Reflecting on my experience in the studio. I was struggling. 101 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: I had a fucking blast. Is it tone deaf or 102 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 2: like I don't know when to start singing like on cue? 103 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe you have poor timing? But also tone deaf 104 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 2: is a thing. Yeah, but I've got all that. So 105 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 2: so that was called My Thoughts by Ottie Clark, right, 106 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 2: and I have a feeling. 107 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 1: So we've explained what his song's about. 108 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 2: It's easy to call my thoughts like, oh, he's like overthink, 109 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 2: he's calling his thoughts and he's just slow down and 110 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 2: needs to, you know, let himself breathe. And then mine 111 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 2: was called translucent by Jake Craig. And should we play 112 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 2: a bit and then I'll give a quick rundown of 113 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 2: what it was. 114 00:05:48,720 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, let's do it asked the memories of what we 115 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 7: used to be. 116 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: Everywhere I turn, you're last. 117 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 3: See your laughter. That goes hunting me and I try 118 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 3: to move on. It doesn't feel right when you look 119 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 3: at me? 120 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: Do you look through me? 121 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 4: Are you even sorry? It turns me apart When I 122 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 4: see you with her, I see you have But did 123 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 4: you have to go and stab me through the heart? 124 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 125 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: Ah ah? So that is translucent by yours truly I 126 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: do see why you want Yours is a lot smoother. 127 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:55,119 Speaker 2: It's yeah, I went definitely for the guy the people 128 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 2: that Toby and I have listened to a bit of 129 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 2: before we went into it with the Fray. 130 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, interesting. 131 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 2: And so mine was about I actually wrote mine the 132 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 2: day before we went I went to record it, and 133 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 2: mine was about losing your best friend to. 134 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: A girlfriend, even though I also have a girlfriend. And 135 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: that one, yeah you won. And so what are the 136 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: streams at? The streams are at Call to my Thoughts 137 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: by Audie Clark is five thousand and sixty six, Really 138 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: you pumped me? But translution by Jake Craig is eight 139 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: hundred and twenty. 140 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: Fucking what I thought, Harry the other day, I had 141 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 2: three thousand listens on it. 142 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: Well, what happens in our favor is because people go 143 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: back and listen to that episode, yeah, and then they 144 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: go and listen to the song. So it's actually like 145 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: a really good system. 146 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 2: And so basically when we knew for a long time 147 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: I was making a music video, yeah, and we kept 148 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 2: putting it off because. 149 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: One we're lazy. 150 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: Two I was scared to do it and didn't want 151 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: to do it. I never brought it up, and then 152 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 2: three were lazy and we were a bit busy. Him. Yeah, 153 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: so just a few days go, we finally finally got 154 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 2: around to recording the music video for Translucent, and it's good, 155 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 2: and we would like to I don't want to put 156 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 2: the audio listeners through a whole three minutes of me 157 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 2: singing a song that's really not that good, but it 158 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 2: is pretty funny. But if you we're gonna have a 159 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 2: link in the description of this video to go. We're 160 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 2: gonna post it on our YouTube, the full music video 161 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: of Translucent, And yeah, we would just like everyone to know. 162 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: Congratulations man, And yeah, I'm going to put it to 163 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: the people. And you, Okay, just reminiscing in all this greatness. 164 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: And I was thinking about myself in the studio. I'm 165 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:40,199 Speaker 1: sure you were doing the same, should we? I actually 166 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: thoroughly enjoyed it same I sucked. That feels like you're 167 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: a bit better than me. But I hated the writing process. 168 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: If people want it, should I actually like the writing. 169 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: But that was kind of my like part that I'm 170 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: good at, IM good at like the end goal. Okay, Okay, 171 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 1: you're not your You're you suck at what's important. I 172 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: could be one of those ghostwriters facts. Yeah. But should 173 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: we write a song together? 174 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, fucking oes we should. 175 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: Should we write a song together and go you'll probably 176 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: a New Year project. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and we'll go 177 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: to Toby. We'll be like, we got a new song idea, 178 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: let's write an album. So maybe if the music video 179 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: gets a certain amount of likes, we'll do it. What 180 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: do you think it? Maybe we don't get that many likes. 181 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 1: A thousand, a thousand likes? 182 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 2: Yeah you reckon? 183 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? 184 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 2: Okay, shit, yeah, a thousand likes. 185 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: If the music video gets a thousand likes, me and 186 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: Jake will do a song together, and in the future 187 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 1: there could be an album. Yeah, this could be a 188 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: whole thing. 189 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 2: What would be quickly before we before we move on? 190 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 1: What do you reckon? We if we were a duo? Right? 191 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: What do we call ourselves? Relatables? Oh that's a good point. 192 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: I like that name that you mean, like our performing name? Yeah, okay, 193 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 2: think about it. Like I've been listening to a lot 194 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: of Hamish and Andy, right, And they had a thing 195 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 2: where when they were younger, they made a band and 196 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: it was called Cool Boys in the front Man and 197 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 2: they had a whole thing, where like they were the 198 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 2: cool boys who played a weird instrument, and then they 199 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 2: had they a front man that would bring in like 200 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 2: they got like guys abashing to be the frontman one 201 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 2: night ship like that, and then there's the inspired unemployed. 202 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: They have a friend who has something what's it called 203 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 2: big twisting in the funk twisting and the funk nasty. 204 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 2: We need to think of a name, or do we 205 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 2: want the badies to name us? Oh, that's a good point. 206 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 2: I'm thinking like Audie Clark and. 207 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: Clark and his Beaches. To be fair, you're probably more 208 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: a front man on the top of our head, I'm thinking, yeah, yeah, 209 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: you're like Dingle. What do you used to call me? 210 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: What dingland beany? 211 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 2: What did we what was some of the things we 212 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 2: wanted to call ourselves before we chose relatables. I don't 213 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 2: even remember. 214 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 1: I don't even remember. It was that long ago. I 215 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 1: don't think we landed on anything. Nah, I think, yeah, 216 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: I don't think we had any name. There was no 217 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 1: front runner. No, there wasn't We didn't have anything, and 218 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: then you came up with relatables we could be We 219 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: started with undtables. True. I feel like that's not not 220 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 1: really like it really in our territory relatable at the moment. 221 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,559 Speaker 1: What about like, yeah, maybe we'll put it to the 222 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: Facebook group for the name of like our front names. Yeah, 223 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:07,559 Speaker 1: because obviously called Relatables. Yeah we need stage names. 224 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, stage I reckon stage names. Masks, Magic Jake, we 225 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 2: go masks shirtless, right, and it's like obviously very well 226 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 2: known that this is Jake Craig and Ottie Clark from 227 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 2: the Relatables, but we pretend like we think nobody knows 228 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 2: that it's us, and we do concerts and everything, and 229 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: we are wearing masks, and yeah. 230 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: This could be be fucking fun. 231 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 2: Like, I'm sorry, guys, Like I really appreciate I really 232 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 2: like everyone's input. I care about everyone's opinion that listens. 233 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 2: But if you don't think this is a good idea, 234 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck because I think this is 235 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 2: going to be the funniest thing, funnest thing we've ever done. 236 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:41,719 Speaker 1: It's fun. 237 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:42,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to do it. 238 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, same, alrighty everybody, I've got a little bit 239 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: of a story time for you now, and a bit 240 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 1: of our experience being in the podcast industry, in the 241 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: media industry, and I just want to tell everybody. So 242 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: when we first started the podcast, we obviously wanted to 243 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: entertain everyone, but within that we wanted to hide a 244 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: good message or like a nice message and maybe just 245 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: leave that tiny bit of a positive impact in every 246 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: single episode. 247 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 2: Social media, on the other hand, it highlights drama, misinformation, 248 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 2: and the top zero point zero zero one percent of 249 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 2: people that you really shouldn't be comparing yourself to. And 250 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 2: even though it has those bad elements, it also does 251 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 2: bring an element of you can find your crowd like 252 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 2: never before in sometimes when you don't feel like you 253 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 2: belong somewhere, and. 254 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: The community we're building together, we couldn't be happy with kind, positive, 255 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 1: supportive dreamers, which we've really found out once we've started 256 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 1: the Facebook group. Everyone's so kind and positive in there, 257 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: and we would like to say that we love every 258 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: single one of you. 259 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 2: And we wanted to bring up probably one of our 260 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 2: not probably but deaf definitely our best favorite, most treasure 261 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 2: i'd say, experience through starting the podcast, and that was 262 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: about a year ago, a little over a year ago, 263 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 2: probably our now really good friend Harry from Blues and Greens, 264 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 2: who everyone knows if you've listened for even just fucking 265 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 2: two weeks he hit us up on Instagram and just 266 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 2: told us how much he resonated with the podcast. You know, 267 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 2: the podcast wasn't very big yet, and he just he 268 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 2: loved it, and he sent us Harry had a Blues 269 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 2: and Greens clothing line, and he sent us a couple 270 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 2: of items that we loved and we were wearing them. 271 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,319 Speaker 2: And after that we stayed connected and he'd always send 272 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 2: us little recaps of Harry was a support worker and 273 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 2: he had a client who just really liked the podcast, 274 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 2: and he'd always send us like videos of the client 275 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 2: saying hi, and just at areas of which the podcast 276 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 2: he liked and stuff like that. And then, yeah, Harry 277 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 2: just became a heaps good mate. 278 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're so grateful of the friendship that for 279 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 1: from that form from that, and fast forward about six 280 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: months later, the pod was doing good and for us, 281 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: a lot of companies were coming forward and wanting us 282 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: to produce, as they like to call it, merch. But 283 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 1: we were a little bit overwhelmed and something in our 284 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 1: gut was being like, ah nah, something about this doesn't 285 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: really feel right, felt inauthentic, and felt like a bit 286 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 1: of like a money grabbing a sense. But it's funny 287 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: how the stars align. And just from catching up with 288 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: Harry and there was a little bit of a seed 289 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: planted here and there. I don't know if it was 290 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: Harry or us, but we said do we want to 291 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: work together for the first time where we dropped hoodies 292 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: which was a great success, and Harry, like, you wouldn't 293 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: even think to experience something like this if you worked 294 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: with one of those big brands who produces merch. Harry 295 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 1: flew from West I was on his own course to Sydney, 296 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: stayed at Jake's house and we had a very successful drop. 297 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: But beyond anything else, we got to know each other 298 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: really well, and it didn't really feel like work when 299 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 1: we were dropping the hoodies. 300 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 2: It was a lot of fun. We got to know 301 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 2: each other and we had a great time doing it. Yeah, 302 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 2: and now I was fucking sick, eh ah. And then 303 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 2: we actually are genuinely good mates now. And I'll speak 304 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: for Oddie on this. He probably could say, but ODDI 305 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 2: went to Bali and I didn't go last time, as 306 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 2: everyone knows. And you know, Harry even flew over. I 307 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: don't think he flew out a four Oddie, but he 308 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 2: was there for his birthday. They got to spend that 309 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 2: odd his birthday together and you know, more time, he's 310 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 2: even Harry's even friends with our friend Jack, who if 311 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 2: you've ever been a part of Patron, you know Jack 312 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: a bit of a loose canon. 313 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 1: But it's funny because social media, it's a reoccurring theme 314 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: on the podcast, is so tricky to navigate, and it's 315 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: so easy to get caught up in all those terrible 316 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: things like likes, follows, and it's sometimes really hard to 317 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: find your authentic people. But this is a good story, 318 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: and just by putting ourselves out there, and by Harry 319 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: putting himself out there with his brand and sending us 320 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: a DM, we were able to find each other, which 321 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 1: I think social media and the online world should really 322 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: highlight a lot more often, these positive, individual, personalized stories 323 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: rather than these big million all the deals and everything 324 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 1: like that is what gets traction. So with that, we 325 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: want to say a big hello to Harry. He was 326 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 1: sitting there patiently. 327 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 8: Patiently getting sweaty palms. Very sweet and I very much 328 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 8: agree like social media as a whole or something I'm 329 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 8: passionate about about, like properly being able to share my 330 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 8: message help to people to utilize it for a positive 331 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 8: because beyond like all the big negatives, the headlines and that, 332 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 8: there's things like this where you'll never even had the 333 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 8: opportunity to build friendships and connect with people who you 334 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 8: can see a like mind. Have especially been in like 335 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 8: you're in Central Coast, I'm in Perth, the two pretty 336 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 8: isolated little places where you can get the comfort blake 337 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 8: and to stay in the sameness. But yeah, it's probably 338 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 8: been the best thing that's ever come for me from 339 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 8: social media, from the brand itself. So I'd say, so 340 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 8: what's come from for something that's come from social media? 341 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 8: I mean, to be fair, I met Beth on social media, 342 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 8: so that's a pretty good thing. But other than like 343 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 8: from the podcast, it's fucking been honestly the sickest thing. 344 00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 8: Like yesterday, Harry and I went for a run together 345 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 8: and we were just like we had stopped and we 346 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 8: were kind of walking back as like a warm down, 347 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 8: and I don't know how the topic came back, but 348 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:07,679 Speaker 8: I remember came up, but I just remember saying, like 349 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 8: I was saying, like thinking about it, you're our only 350 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,640 Speaker 8: friend now obviously we haven't been friends for the longest time, 351 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 8: like friends from school, but you're our only friend that's 352 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 8: like in the same in the game category all out, 353 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 8: Like all this stuff we talk about with our friends 354 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 8: is like if we ever see them as kind of like, 355 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 8: you know, what they're doing at work trady shit. 356 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 2: Like they still they don't. Well, the one thing I 357 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 2: was reflecting upon we're doing another T shirt drop, which 358 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 2: would have already happened as you're listening to this episode. Yeah, 359 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 2: why Harry is back. But I was reflecting I always 360 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 2: have my best thoughts in the shower. Yeah, I was 361 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 2: thinking about our relationship with Harry, and it's sort of 362 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 2: cool because a lot of our friends we've talked about 363 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 2: it before, went the opposite approach to Harry, And as 364 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 2: we started to get like more traction to them, we 365 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:55,959 Speaker 2: became more as less of a friend and more of 366 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 2: like a personality online and they started to. 367 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 1: Distance themselves from us. Yeah, where Harry, on the other hand, 368 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: took the opposite approach of that. He was drawn, he 369 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 1: was drawn to us and magnets. Yeah, he resonated with 370 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 1: what we were saying. And rather than being like, oh, 371 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:13,239 Speaker 1: these guys are fucking getting traction now, I'm not going 372 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: to talk to them. He was like, Oh, now I'm 373 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: going to listen to them. I'm going to give him 374 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: a chance. Or these guys are actually kind of cool. 375 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 1: I'm going a message him and say I think they're cool. Yeah, 376 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: And then we're like, fuck, no one's ever done that before, 377 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: especially when he messages that time. We probably were a 378 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 1: thirdly size we are right now, I think. 379 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 8: Smaller than I think at the time as well, it 380 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 8: was almost was like and I said it in that 381 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 8: original message, and we've gone over before in the pot. 382 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:34,320 Speaker 1: It was like a relief for me. 383 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,719 Speaker 8: That there was other young guys out there who were 384 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 8: willing to share the way that actually felt online. So 385 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 8: I was very much at that point, very much new 386 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 8: to like my social media journey. Like I rarely was 387 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 8: even posting at that point, and I never had the 388 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:48,639 Speaker 8: chance to look at and compare and feel like I 389 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 8: was okay to a bloways how I felt. So seeing 390 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 8: you guys have your friendship online almost friendships what I 391 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 8: felt like I had behind closed doors was like a 392 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 8: feeling of like it almost made me feel a part 393 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 8: and made me not feel like an outlier as such, 394 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 8: I was yet naturally drawn to you and you were 395 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:07,719 Speaker 8: in that position where it's like I wanted to get 396 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 8: to that point. Obviously different pass and somehow now are 397 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 8: passed of a line. But like you're already in the game. 398 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 8: You already had built your community and built your following, 399 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 8: so I very much looked up to that. And then 400 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 8: naturally it's like you can't. I came over here for 401 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,399 Speaker 8: the first time without meeting news and it's like, how 402 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 8: is it gonna how is it gonna happen? Like, yeah, 403 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 8: who are these guys are just gonna think they're fucking 404 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 8: top shit blah blah blah. Yeah, but like it's so 405 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 8: and funny. We said, it's gonna ties back into our shirts. 406 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: But like. 407 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 8: It's funny how everyone just is human. And it's like 408 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 8: you can see these personalities online and you think that 409 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 8: they're going to be this certain way. You think they're 410 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 8: going to be extrovert, you think they may be I'll 411 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 8: be quiet, whatever your idea of them that you had 412 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,439 Speaker 8: online was. But then at the end of the day, 413 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 8: everyone just is human, just like you and you guys 414 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 8: are just like two young guys who are willing to 415 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 8: be yourselves, who are willing to like be open and 416 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,200 Speaker 8: like beyond any social media following, and we had this 417 00:19:57,320 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 8: conversation today like it actually didn't changed the people you were, 418 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 8: and evenything allowed it to be more of who you 419 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 8: actually are because you had a platform. 420 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 1: To do that. 421 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, Harry was asking me before you got your audio. 422 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 2: I think I don't. I think it was just something 423 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,919 Speaker 2: about like we thought we were, we were taught, we 424 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 2: were just like talking about followers. I don't know, you're 425 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 2: talking about random shit. But when we I think when 426 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:24,360 Speaker 2: Harry first messaged us, it was while we're in Bali, right, yeah, yeah, 427 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 2: or just before or just before Bali, and I remember, 428 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 2: just like you talking about we're talking about the social 429 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 2: media thing, and and I think we had like ten 430 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:36,199 Speaker 2: K followers on Instagram and then I do remember like 431 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: when we went to Bali were there for six week 432 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 2: before when we got home from Bali, we had like 433 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 2: seventy k. And then Harry was like, oh, did that 434 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 2: ever get to your head? Like the quickness in which 435 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 2: it just kind of like went, And I was like, 436 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I don't think it did, and 437 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 2: I don't think it went to Ottie's head, but you 438 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 2: would have to ask someone that's not us. 439 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: I think you know. 440 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 2: It's a point because like we can, I can look 441 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 2: at you and be like, oh, I don't I obviously 442 00:20:58,800 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 2: don't think it went to your head and I don't 443 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,919 Speaker 2: and went to my head. But I don't think the 444 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 2: best person to ask could be I guess Joanna, Yeah, 445 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 2: someone who's closed she was there from the start, and yeah, 446 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 2: I mean fuck, I don't think. I like, I feel 447 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,440 Speaker 2: like my family would call me up if I had been. 448 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 8: I think from a friend's perspective, is that like that 449 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 8: would have looked at that naively without really knowing you 450 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 8: that well, Like, as you say, you don't see your 451 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 8: friends that often, and they would have just seen your 452 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,679 Speaker 8: followers grown and naturally would that No, might have just 453 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 8: been like, oh, these guys just think the top shit. Now, 454 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:33,679 Speaker 8: that's how sort of boys operating that tall poppy syndrome mentality. 455 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 2: But really like they're not even giving you a chance 456 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 2: to It's also to put yourself out there online, you 457 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,119 Speaker 2: have to come across as a little bit full of yourself, 458 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 2: even if you completely aren't. Just by posting yourself like, 459 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 2: you come across as like all these guy thinks he's 460 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 2: a ship no matter what you do. Even for girls, 461 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 2: this girl thinks she's a shit. I think if you 462 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,199 Speaker 2: fucking post a podcast, whether or not you're doing it 463 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 2: because you just want to do it as a hobby 464 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 2: or you do want it to be a job one day, 465 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 2: I think you have to have some sort of level 466 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 2: of narcissism to think like people will won't want to 467 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 2: hear what I have to say. And I don't think 468 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 2: it's an unhealthy amount. I think there's like a healthy 469 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 2: amounts of I guess narcissism is a strong word. It's 470 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 2: more like you kind of need to look a lot. Yeah, 471 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 2: you've got to have some sort of an ego to 472 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 2: be like, we're going to start a podcast. We're doing 473 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 2: it because you know, if it was a job one day, 474 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 2: that would be the coolest thing ever. 475 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 1: But also it's. 476 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 2: Like we think that we have conversations that are good 477 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 2: enough that people will listen to and take something away 478 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 2: from it. 479 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 1: I remember when we started, like we said we wanted 480 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: to make it work, but we never once said like 481 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: we want this to be a full time job work. 482 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 8: Mean, I'm the same and back on what you were 483 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,199 Speaker 8: saying in terms of like egos, like I feel like 484 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 8: to be a healthy human you've got to have a 485 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 8: level of ego about you because there's that balance between 486 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 8: like being ego centric where you think you're better than 487 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 8: everyone else, but then at least knowing that you're capable 488 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 8: of doing something, knowing that you're good enough to share 489 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 8: the things that you believe in because same as me, 490 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 8: it's like I'm putting some stuff on my social media, 491 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 8: which is like can be polarized and it can make 492 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 8: it look like I'm an expert when I don't have. 493 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 2: Any tangible certificates or whatever it is. 494 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 8: But like I myself know that I'm smart enough, full 495 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,239 Speaker 8: of enough knowledge, got a bit of experience, whatever that 496 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 8: people will want to hear what I've got to say. 497 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 8: So it's like you've got to have a level of 498 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 8: ego to start anything online. By the psych you can't 499 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 8: deflate it to the point where you think you're better 500 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 8: than you actually are. 501 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 1: And that's like that balance with. 502 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 2: I think you're right. I think you also have to 503 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 2: have an ego to do anything. Yeah, I like to 504 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 2: succeeded anything to you know, you've got to fuck let's 505 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 2: say you go start a company. You have to have 506 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 2: an ego where you believe in yourself enough to get 507 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 2: clients and like do it like that you're gonna make 508 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 2: money doing said thing. There's an ego and everything. I 509 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 2: guess it's just like the way we chose to do it. 510 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,639 Speaker 2: I think also though, while like we resonated with Harry, 511 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 2: and why we're in the position we are now and 512 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 2: why Harry's in the position here is now. 513 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 1: Is because, like I said at the start, we really 514 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 1: try to hide a little bit of a nice message 515 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: in every single podcast. And the same thing with like 516 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: Harry's brand, Like it's so easy to just like be 517 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: consumed by consumerism and make like secreties that just like 518 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 1: anyone would buy. But all Harry's clothes have a really 519 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: good meaning and purpose behind them. And I don't know 520 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 1: if it is this merit Like when you do drops, 521 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 1: you of ever think like even if I don't sell out, 522 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 1: like I might have impacted some people. Well that's what 523 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: I try and aim for. 524 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 8: Like I think the drops where I've left feeling a 525 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 8: bit empty, of the ones where it's like I know 526 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 8: there was never really intention behind that. 527 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 1: There's no message, And there's times. 528 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:25,119 Speaker 8: Where it's like I feel so fulfilled before the drops 529 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 8: even happened, because it's like I know that I've connected 530 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 8: with people, people have messing me whatever, But then that's 531 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,239 Speaker 8: sort of what I want to central I want to 532 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 8: steer away from the clothing inside of the brand and 533 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 8: be able to centralize my brand as whole as that 534 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 8: and just being able to feel like I actually am 535 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 8: making a bit of an impact. And I think that's 536 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 8: where like what you're saying with you guys, just you 537 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 8: feel to in a nice mess in all of yous 538 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,640 Speaker 8: and my brain is very like open to that type 539 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 8: of content, So listen to you. I sort of filtered 540 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 8: through the bullshit like clicking stuff like as much as 541 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 8: that makes me laugh, and I like it and I 542 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 8: watch all of it, but like my takeaway was always that, 543 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 8: like I always got the takeaway of like the positive 544 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,199 Speaker 8: stuff because that's what I was looking for, That's what 545 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 8: I searched for, That's what I wanted. But then again, 546 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 8: it's like some people see it. Some people don't see 547 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 8: it as well as I may, because that's not what they're. 548 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 2: Here to come for. Yeah, I know some people come 549 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 2: for maybe they saw us on TikTok and they think 550 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 2: we're all entertaining and then they come on here and 551 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 2: you never know, like they might come on in a 552 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,119 Speaker 2: Monday or a Wednesday episode and we don't do a 553 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 2: single entertaining thing and we just kind of have a chat, 554 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 2: and they're probably just like, what are these boring fuckers doing? 555 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 2: What the fuck are this is false advertising? 556 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 1: Fucking do you know? 557 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 3: How? 558 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,400 Speaker 1: Like we're ninety percent most people listening right now are female, Yeah, yeah, yeah, 559 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: And like Harry's one of. 560 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 2: The nine percent of the male audience we have. 561 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 1: How do you think, Like I think a lot of 562 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: girls listening would want their partners or men in their 563 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 1: life to look for those good messages or that content 564 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: where there is a bit of substance to take away from, 565 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,680 Speaker 1: And like, how do you find a guy that is 566 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 1: Harry All at ten percent? Not putting it on a pedestal, 567 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 1: but like within that ten percent of like who's open 568 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 1: mind and willing to learn rather than the people who 569 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: are just consuming gambling and horse racing and footy podcasts 570 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 1: from the outside looking. 571 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 8: And I think the easiest way is to like look 572 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 8: at the type of people they spend their time with, because, 573 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 8: as cliches is, but the people you spend your time 574 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,640 Speaker 8: with is who you sort of become. So if you're 575 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 8: if you're looking for a man and he's spending the 576 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 8: times with guys who are doing a lot of that, 577 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,959 Speaker 8: but he's trying to tell you that he's not like that. 578 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 8: More often than not, he probably is, But in terms 579 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,119 Speaker 8: of specifics, it's a cliche setting like I'm not like 580 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 8: other guys. Yeah, yeah, why did you start? Like I 581 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 8: used trying to probably like I've somewhat asked you off camera, 582 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 8: but not a whole lot like I used trying to 583 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 8: target more guys consciously, like what is you really like? 584 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 1: Not what what made you want to start it? 585 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 8: Though, because it is very much about like that positivity, 586 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,879 Speaker 8: so like, oh, you have like a driving thing that 587 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 8: makes you want to continue to do that or is it? 588 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 1: The start was initially to normalize men being able to 589 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 1: talk about their feelings, and it shifted to more voice 590 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 1: and normalizing it's a simple concept treating women equally. 591 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,399 Speaker 2: But I think, yeah, I reckon. What happened was like 592 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,360 Speaker 2: I remember ODDI saying I wanted to start the podcast. 593 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 2: It was a pretty classic like bro podcast, and we 594 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 2: might have even been at the gym, and I I 595 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 2: can't say I've ever thought of starting one. A couple 596 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 2: of year years before we confused. Before we started that, 597 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 2: I actually was keen to kind of like I wanted 598 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,239 Speaker 2: to make YouTube videos and I had a girlfriend at 599 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 2: the time that was like and I started to make 600 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 2: make some videos and she was like, you've changed, and 601 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I'll stop throwing stop. 602 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I'm changing as a person. Yes, I 603 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 1: have grown, and. 604 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 2: So yeah, then I stopped. And it's just like one 605 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 2: of those things like I never would have done it without, 606 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 2: you know, doing it. 607 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,120 Speaker 1: With there's a sense of security doing it with a friend. 608 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:46,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 609 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's why I love doing it with you guys. Yeah, 610 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,640 Speaker 8: beyond anything. It's like having fun security blanket you can't 611 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 8: lose in that sense as well. 612 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 1: And it's yeah, but yeah, it's funny, like I reckon 613 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: we started it off. 614 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 2: I remember, I just I even remember like the first 615 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 2: episode like we did say, like I think we spoke 616 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 2: about it and when Otti had the idea, he was 617 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 2: like he was like, you know, I think we we 618 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:13,120 Speaker 2: actually talk about kind of real shit instead of just girls. 619 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 2: You know, we talk about actually something that we would 620 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 2: like to see in our future. You know, what are 621 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 2: we going to do to like when we were when 622 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 2: we when we traveled together. I very actually only like 623 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 2: a month ago, got rid of this in my notes. 624 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:29,719 Speaker 2: By the way, we literally had like I think, if 625 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 2: we didn't do this audio and I, we're going to 626 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,880 Speaker 2: start a company, right. The first ever one we had 627 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 2: in mind was we wanted to well what he did do? 628 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 2: He did one called Blurred Reality and it was going 629 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 2: to be a clothing but. 630 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 1: He did, but he did. 631 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 2: He sold you sold surf fins, surfboard thins, airport fins 632 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:46,239 Speaker 2: actually sold it out of them. 633 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: That was a good business. 634 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,959 Speaker 2: And then when Oddie and I were traveling together, we 635 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 2: came up with this whole plan. We wanted to open 636 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 2: like the sickest bar ever because at the time we 637 00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 2: were both still drinking and we would party a bit. 638 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 2: We wanted to open the sickest bar ever. And we 639 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 2: had like we were traveling and we go to new 640 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 2: bars and something that we loved in that bar. We'd 641 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 2: write down in our notes that we wanted to add 642 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 2: into our bars and it was it was fucking so funny. 643 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 2: And then we only a month or two ago, I 644 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 2: saw that note and deleted it because I was cleaning 645 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 2: out my notes. 646 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 1: That yeah, I think also another like driving factor was 647 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 1: and I think that's why we obviously were good friends. 648 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 1: But I could see it in Jake as well, like 649 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: we both hadn't found our calling at all, and like 650 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: we found our calling purely by luck, just by doing 651 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 1: this and putting ourselves in this situation that we found 652 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: something we love. And that's also why it worked, because 653 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,479 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people like sort of not 654 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 1: necessarily half asked. Maybe it's not the right word, but 655 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: they don't go full commit into something, whereas we literally 656 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: went like full deep as possible. I said, let's do 657 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 1: it for four years. And I think because there was 658 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 1: an underlying factor of like realness and a good meaning 659 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 1: behind the pod, that's why it sort of worked. We 660 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 1: weren't just like surface level substance boys you crack open 661 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 1: a beer and then talk about fucking yeah. 662 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 2: Like we spoke about. 663 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: I remember talking about what. I was like, well, what 664 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 1: will we talk about? 665 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 2: And I remember it was like, well, we do have 666 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 2: a lot of stories of going out of mates that 667 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 2: we will talk about, right, And we did at the start, 668 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 2: like episode one one, that's what we wanted. We did 669 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 2: want to have segments where we were like entertaining talking 670 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 2: about who we are and what we've done. And then 671 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 2: I think like it would even just be like we 672 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 2: would title a segment like this one is going to 673 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 2: be called camping with the boys, and we would. 674 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 1: Talk about camping experiences. 675 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 2: And then I think it was we might have talked 676 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 2: one might have been like, you know, what do you 677 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 2: do when your friend's got a sister that's fucking hot? 678 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: Stupid sh like that. 679 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 2: But then in every episode we would make sure I'm 680 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 2: pretty sure we would make sure we did. We called it, 681 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 2: We said that, okay, guys, this is going to be 682 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 2: a deep segment, and we would talk about something kind 683 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 2: of deep for a while. It's quite often ODDI bringing 684 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 2: it up. And then I would sometimes bring a deep 685 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 2: segment to the table. And then because and so yeah, 686 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 2: we did started. And then what we fought was like, 687 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 2: we'll get the guys by talking about the guy stuff, 688 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 2: and then we'll keep the guys by talking about the 689 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 2: feeling stuff. Yeah, like how we feel about things. 690 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 1: I get where you want to get out. 691 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 2: Of it both yeah, in corporate and then then yeah, 692 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 2: got the guys. 693 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 1: We never got the guys. 694 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 2: Ye, females started listening, and then compound it hurts my 695 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 2: soul a little bit because I know, looking back, like 696 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 2: hindsight's a bitch, and it's definitely we needed to do 697 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 2: all that. 698 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 1: That was our journey. But people still start on episode 699 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 1: one and I know the exact fucking story I told, 700 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: and it's like so cringe of me telling it, Like 701 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 1: I'm just such a like I think, what would have 702 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: we been twenty two twenty one and it's me going 703 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,640 Speaker 1: home with a girl and I'm just like, ah, why 704 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: is that the first one? I mean, you gotta do it. 705 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 2: I feel like, I'm pretty sure we got a girl 706 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 2: on the phone that I had a one night stand with. 707 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, And he was like, so was my man and gentleman, 708 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. 709 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 4: We did that. 710 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 1: To be fair, that's a good question. It's a good 711 00:31:56,280 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: question to ask. Actually, she was like, I think that 712 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,840 Speaker 1: also shows like character development in ourselves and gives like 713 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 1: hope for that men out there can find like their 714 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 1: people and us And I think purely by us sitting down, 715 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: I remember one of the Also the other reasons it 716 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,239 Speaker 1: worked is I always said worst case in it at 717 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: the time, it was one episode a week. We get 718 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 1: to I get to sit down and talk to my 719 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 1: best friend for a week. Yeah, and we got really 720 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 1: good at talking. It's in a way it was a 721 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 1: therapy session with unqualified therapists. Yeah, and we were forced 722 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,560 Speaker 1: to talk about our feelings and you'd rack the back 723 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 1: of your brain thinking about what was I feeling like 724 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 1: this week? What can I tell Jake about I'm sure 725 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 1: you were doing the same. 726 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 2: No, it's hilarious. Yeah, in hindsight, back then, I bet 727 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 2: you we struggled to think of content. If I have 728 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 2: my brain now, back then, doing one episode a week, yeah, 729 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 2: like I got too much content, we have to add another. 730 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 2: And now because we do the multiple, it's like, oh, 731 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 2: what are we gonna talk about? 732 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 8: That's like like when people say wisdom is wasted on 733 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 8: the old, where it's like you have all this wisdom 734 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 8: when you're older, but like you need it when you're young, 735 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 8: when all the ideas are fresh and out. 736 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 2: But wisdom is wasted on the old. Is the sickest 737 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 2: saying I've never heard. 738 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 1: Then the other one's youth is wasted on the young. 739 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 2: Flipping it both because the elderly want to be young 740 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 2: again because they're like I regret everything. 741 00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like that, it's all part of your journey. 742 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 8: At the end of day, like very much like the 743 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 8: body count conversation you're having is like you've got to 744 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 8: go through all this. You just thinking that, yeah, you've 745 00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 8: got to go through this ship to become where you 746 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 8: are today. And it's easy to look back and like 747 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 8: when I brought up yesterday, I'm going to When I 748 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 8: was like, I'm gonna put the episode on, you said, 749 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 8: if you put it on, I'm leaving. 750 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 2: But he went to go listen to our first episode 751 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 2: and I was like, I'll actually go brush my teeth 752 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:33,160 Speaker 2: and go to. 753 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 8: Bed, and Soldier I was like, fuck, it's actually been serious. 754 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 8: But it's like, you gotta go. I'm the same with 755 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 8: my Instagram videos. I look back at that and like 756 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 8: I cringe watching it. I'm like, that guy looks like 757 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 8: he's got a gun hell to his face. But I 758 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 8: know for sure in a year's time, I'll do the 759 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 8: exact same thing looking back on me now and likewise 760 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 8: for you guys, but like, you gotta go through that thing, 761 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 8: and I think for anything, it's like an opportunity for 762 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 8: you guys to be like holy fuck, like like it's 763 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,800 Speaker 8: a way to look back and be proud of yourself. 764 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 2: Well, we have a genuine so we have a clear 765 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 2: archive archive of growth, yeah, or how we've changed as people, 766 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 2: and you have that for the rest of your life. 767 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 1: And I was saying that to you today. 768 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,800 Speaker 8: It's like when you're filming those blogs and that and 769 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 8: you're putting them on Patreon, although not many people may 770 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:13,840 Speaker 8: be seen them because it's like your top tier on Patreon, 771 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 8: but like that's there forever, and. 772 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 1: That's like a capsule. I was thinking that for our 773 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:20,319 Speaker 1: kids ever. And your kid went to LA and your kids, Yeah, we. 774 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 2: Were talking about funny shit and okay, we were like 775 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 2: we were like talking about it. We just were like 776 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 2: in an air being being and he goes like, oh, 777 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 2: you know when we post these vlogs that we've done 778 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 2: something with our girlfriends and stuff. And I was thinking, yeah, 779 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 2: like what about if you're what if you're older and 780 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,399 Speaker 2: you and you know, God forbid, you and Cassie break 781 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 2: up and you end up marrying someone else and you 782 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 2: have kids with them, and then your kids go find 783 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 2: your vlogs, right, and then your kid comes up to 784 00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 2: you one day and goes, Dad, who's Cassie And you 785 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 2: just be like. 786 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 6: She's the one that got away. Let me tell you 787 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 6: how I met your mother. Yeah, yeah, I. 788 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 2: Was thinking, well, it's actually pretty funny. So it feels 789 00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 2: like we've known each other forever. 790 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, we haven't to me and you. 791 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:02,839 Speaker 8: I was singing about this as well, like this morning 792 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 8: when I was journaling, I was singing the exact same thing. 793 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,719 Speaker 8: It feels like we've known each other forever, but like 794 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 8: we fucking Like last time I came here, I was 795 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 8: here for a week, so I spent twenty four hours 796 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,319 Speaker 8: staying at your house. Same again this time. It's like 797 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,759 Speaker 8: there's not many friends, Like I've got a cool group 798 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 8: of friends who are like my best friends. I've got 799 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 8: three or four of them who are like will be 800 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,319 Speaker 8: with me to my grave. Beyond that, there's not many 801 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 8: people in my whole life I've spent that much time with. 802 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 8: But it's like usually with your mates, you go on 803 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:27,400 Speaker 8: like the weekends when you're pissed, or you do a 804 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 8: little coffee here and there, a swimmer and there. But 805 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,760 Speaker 8: like it feels like that because we've had the opportunity 806 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 8: to like see fucking you know what I mean, all 807 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 8: hours of the day. Yeah, so it's really has it 808 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 8: has advanced quickly. 809 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 2: And I was thinking It's funny because the first time 810 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 2: you ever came right was when we had samples of 811 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 2: the hoodies we were about to drop. We're going to 812 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 2: drop them in like a month day for a night, 813 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 2: and you came and you stayed for one or two 814 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 2: nightsing was one night, yeah, And I remember like when 815 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 2: you were talking about coming, you said I'll get here 816 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 2: this day, and then you were like, I'll I'm gonna 817 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:57,800 Speaker 2: go stay with a friend in Canberra. 818 00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to fly in from canber in the morning. 819 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,040 Speaker 2: And then you like at the time, like we we 820 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 2: knew each other from like FaceTime calls and stuff like that, 821 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 2: but but we didn't like us. Three didn't like we 822 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 2: didn't know you didn't know us, and and we didn't 823 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,280 Speaker 2: very much trans we didn't know you. It was very transactional. 824 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 2: I could have just been business and gone. And then 825 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,399 Speaker 2: it was like I remember thinking in my head, funck 826 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 2: should I just offer him to offer for him to 827 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 2: stay here because you were going to stay somewhere in 828 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,439 Speaker 2: Sydney with a friend. And I think I remember asking you, like, oh, 829 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 2: I have you sorted that or whatever, and like NA, no, yeah, 830 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 2: and I was and I was like fuck, like do 831 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:33,920 Speaker 2: I invite this random guy. 832 00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 1: To my house. 833 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,080 Speaker 2: I fully remember it, yeah, and then like I did 834 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,240 Speaker 2: obviously no regrets, but I just think it's so funny 835 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,000 Speaker 2: that just like kind of was like oh do I yea. 836 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 2: At the time, I was like, and now I'm thinking, 837 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 2: like where fuck that company? I thought. 838 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 8: I remember the first time when I stayed here, when 839 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,840 Speaker 8: we were sitting here with the double reverse Wi Hoodie samples, 840 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,879 Speaker 8: and I was like, it was getting late. I knew 841 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 8: I had to I was planning on coming up and 842 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,399 Speaker 8: going straight back down, and I was like, fuck, I reckon. 843 00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 8: I don't know I'm gonna be able to get in 844 00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 8: this flight tonight, Like we're getting pretty late, and. 845 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 1: I I come in what I was planning on doing. 846 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 8: But then you offer to stay if I want it, 847 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 8: And I was like, well that was I was always 848 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:05,400 Speaker 8: going to do it. 849 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,160 Speaker 1: But I was like, fuck as if you like offered 850 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:08,960 Speaker 1: us Yeah, I know, I was like kind of rattled. 851 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 2: I just think it's so funny. Yeah, just like you 852 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 2: offer some random to stay and then but yeah, taking it. 853 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:18,240 Speaker 1: Like round circle. I guess. The last like nine months 854 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 1: of the podcast, we like to be transparent with our journey. 855 00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 1: We've sort of we mentioned it the other day, got 856 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 1: a little bit lost in, like Harry said, the transactional 857 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 1: side of making money on the podcast and trying to 858 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 1: make everybody happy, And like I said in that little 859 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: spill at the start, it is like we could have 860 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 1: easily just said, oh, someone, do you merch? We ticked 861 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,400 Speaker 1: the box yep, that's good and sold it. And something 862 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 1: we're learning in real time right now is we say 863 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,520 Speaker 1: it on the pod all the time is like to 864 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: trust your gut, and more recently for us is a 865 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 1: lot of the decisions we're making aren't necessarily the most logical. 866 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 1: Because this wasn't logical to say to some random guy 867 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 1: that's messages a message on message and caught up with 868 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:02,319 Speaker 1: our pod, do you want to do our merch? 869 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and send you a few hoodies? 870 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like there was no logic in that. Like the 871 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 1: logical thing would have been to do with the company 872 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 1: in Sydney. You offered us and we would have ticked 873 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 1: a box and. 874 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 2: It would have been cheap. They would have packed everything. Yeah, everything, 875 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,719 Speaker 2: that's the most logical thing. We were like fuck that. 876 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:16,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were with a. 877 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 2: Management company that was pushing us through that. They're like 878 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,480 Speaker 2: they're asking us. They're asking us, what do you want 879 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 2: to do? 880 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 1: What do you want to do? 881 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 2: We'll do everything for you, or you have to do 882 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 2: is promote it. 883 00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 1: You're like, we were like, nah, let us do it. 884 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 1: This was a lot more work, and I'm so grateful 885 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 1: it is and maybe the reward of monetary wasn't as good, 886 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:32,280 Speaker 1: but I don't give. 887 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 2: A fuck about that. 888 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:33,799 Speaker 1: You don't do it. 889 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 2: I don't look at this as a money thing. 890 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like we're learning, especially like now, and this is 891 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 1: probably the first thing we done unconsciously that we trusted 892 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 1: our gut, and we're taking that more into our transactional 893 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:47,640 Speaker 1: side of business with the pod, where like everything's not 894 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,960 Speaker 1: about money, which is obviously simple, but it's easy to 895 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,440 Speaker 1: get caught up in that world of like someone's saying 896 00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: this is how much money you'll make, and then you're like, oh, 897 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 1: maybe I should do it, or maybe I shouldn't. It 898 00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:59,400 Speaker 1: would be nice, and then like it's just trusting that 899 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 1: little thing in the back of your head or in 900 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 1: your gut, and you're just like, I'm so grateful that 901 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,279 Speaker 1: we did that. Just said you want to HOLDI just 902 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:06,839 Speaker 1: some random bloke. 903 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,920 Speaker 2: He's a question for you. Harry so it's like we 904 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,880 Speaker 2: were talking a couple of weeks ago. I think about 905 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:15,399 Speaker 2: it could have been the episode where we talked about 906 00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 2: what's challenging you right now? And I was I remember 907 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,279 Speaker 2: bringing up something on a podcast I listened to Shits 908 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 2: and Gigs where one of the guys said, like, they 909 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,759 Speaker 2: don't really ever get deep, like they're pretty just much comedy, right, 910 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,479 Speaker 2: but they kind of got deep and he was like, fuck, 911 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,279 Speaker 2: we're deep right now. But one of them said, when 912 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 2: we first started the podcast, they're huge now. But he 913 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 2: was like, when we first started, we took nothing seriously right, 914 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 2: Like we took we like life is not that serious. 915 00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 2: And it sounds like the most cliche saying he's like, 916 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,439 Speaker 2: but when we were there, we lived by that saying, 917 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 2: as life's not that serious, like you know, we just 918 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,480 Speaker 2: had the most fun ever. And he said the more serious, 919 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,839 Speaker 2: the more successful their podcast had gotten, is the more 920 00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 2: serious he has gotten. And then so I was thinking, 921 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 2: like Audie and I like kind of had to check 922 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 2: ourselves in a sense of like, because our podcast is 923 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 2: getting a bit more serious and successful, we have become 924 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 2: more serious, Like, well, now you know we need to 925 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 2: like we really need to give someone something each episode, 926 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,880 Speaker 2: and so I think we put so much pressure on ourselves. 927 00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 2: And someone wrote a really nice message Felicity Pasco. Shout 928 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 2: out to Flicity Pasco. She's definitely becoming an adminute the 929 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:26,439 Speaker 2: Facebook group. She just shaves nice message saying something like, yeah, 930 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,160 Speaker 2: miss of the days where you guys fucking we just 931 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 2: rambling about shit you loved, Like I've heard audio a 932 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,399 Speaker 2: couple of times even say like, you know, let's get 933 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 2: on to the next topic, like this is boring, like 934 00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 2: and even if we loved talking about it, and I 935 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,680 Speaker 2: think like it just in the last nine months has 936 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 2: showed that we still love it and enjoy it, but 937 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:47,000 Speaker 2: we we've unintentionally turned it into like something that we 938 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,400 Speaker 2: feel like we owe. It's hard to explain, but have 939 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 2: you ever felt like that in the in your did 940 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 2: you start off thinking like this is something that's like 941 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 2: maybe we'll never take off, so it's just like it's 942 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,719 Speaker 2: not that serious, like it's just fun, And then from 943 00:40:58,840 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 2: do you feel different now? 944 00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,480 Speaker 8: I totally get what you mean, And like I can 945 00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 8: see from your stamp, even as a viewer, I can 946 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:08,719 Speaker 8: see I could see that transition period. But I very 947 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,880 Speaker 8: much start things and like I've so much self believed 948 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,600 Speaker 8: that I know it's going to work out. But in 949 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:17,120 Speaker 8: that sense, it's like I think for me, the way 950 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,840 Speaker 8: I relate to that is I put a lot of 951 00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,200 Speaker 8: pressure on myself and thinking that I need results or 952 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 8: I need to do it like x amount of work. 953 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,960 Speaker 8: So it's like where I lose this seriousness and the 954 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 8: fun side of it is like there's days where I 955 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,880 Speaker 8: would like work ten hours, twelve hours, whatever, and I 956 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:33,920 Speaker 8: fucking love. 957 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,000 Speaker 1: It, like, don't get me wrong. 958 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 8: But then I'll do that constantly, constantly, constantly, And then 959 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 8: there's some days where I sit and reflect and I'm like, 960 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 8: I've got this flexibility where I'm working for myself, like 961 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 8: any hour that I want from home, but like, and 962 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:51,319 Speaker 8: that's something that I dreamt of and like, earlier on 963 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 8: in the year, I was like doing three days with 964 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 8: like support work as well and the days where I. 965 00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 1: Wasn't doing sport where I would utilize that flexibility. 966 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 8: But then for the last few months, I've just been 967 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 8: like a robot at my desk getting so much done, 968 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 8: working hard towards things I'm launching for next year. But 969 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:10,360 Speaker 8: then I reflected, I'm like the thing that I craved 970 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:14,200 Speaker 8: so much to be able to become full time on 971 00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,759 Speaker 8: blues and Greens was how much flexibility I was going 972 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,399 Speaker 8: to get. But the more I went hard on blues 973 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,920 Speaker 8: and Greens, the less flexibility I gave myself because I 974 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 8: wasn't willing to get up from my desk. So all 975 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,360 Speaker 8: the things that I wanted to do, all the dreams 976 00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 8: and the visions that I had of blues and Greens 977 00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:32,080 Speaker 8: going full time was me seting that fucking cafe, drinking coffee, 978 00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 8: working by the bea same that was a vision that 979 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:41,920 Speaker 8: I would see as myself when I was working, and 980 00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:43,440 Speaker 8: I was like, I can't wait to go full time, 981 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 8: lasking me so fucking good. But then the more it 982 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 8: got serious, the more serious I spent, and the more 983 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 8: things I realized, I'm not sacrificing that because I'm serious 984 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 8: on blues and Greens is my thing now and I 985 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,640 Speaker 8: didn't actually ever, I'm not really giving myself flexibility. So 986 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 8: things like tracing them back to where I'm today is 987 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:04,920 Speaker 8: like I'm here at your house for a week and 988 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 8: I don't know when I'm going to be here again, 989 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 8: and like this is like a rare opportunity for me, 990 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 8: and I've had a voice in the back of the 991 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,719 Speaker 8: head so many times whilst I've been here telling me 992 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 8: to just go sit at a desk and just lock 993 00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,080 Speaker 8: in and do work. But then my realist mindset or 994 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,840 Speaker 8: what I'm trying to tell myself is like, this is 995 00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,200 Speaker 8: like a rare opportunity where you've gotten the flexibility. This 996 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 8: is the flexibility you've craved, and like, enjoy these moments 997 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,720 Speaker 8: of just like sitting on the couch watching Netflix, sitting 998 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,320 Speaker 8: out talking to you in bed, doing things like sitting 999 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 8: in on the podcast, like making the most of these 1000 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,279 Speaker 8: opportunities which aren't there for me day to day. And 1001 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,720 Speaker 8: it's like I know when I go home on the weekend, 1002 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 8: when I go home next week, that I can fucking 1003 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,399 Speaker 8: sit at my desk for hour as many fucking hours 1004 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,800 Speaker 8: I want. Like this is the flexibility that I craved, 1005 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,719 Speaker 8: and I'm trying to tell myself, like, make the most 1006 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,919 Speaker 8: of these moments because back to what you were saying 1007 00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,280 Speaker 8: before about how you could have gone to the cheap 1008 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 8: merchant and things like that, But it's like opportunities like 1009 00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:58,319 Speaker 8: that are always going to be there for you and 1010 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,839 Speaker 8: use a very much at your startup journey, and you're 1011 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 8: always gonna have the opportunity for quick money grab things 1012 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 8: like that, but like the opportunity to do something that 1013 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:09,359 Speaker 8: is purely based of connection, opportunity to grow friendships. They're 1014 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,160 Speaker 8: like windows at just close so quickly. So I'm sure 1015 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 8: you look back on that and like, don't regret that 1016 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 8: as all at all as do a mine. I'm just 1017 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 8: trying to remind myself of, like what do I want 1018 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 8: life to be? Do I want it to be at 1019 00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:22,319 Speaker 8: my desk? What I want it to be a mix 1020 00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,600 Speaker 8: of set my future up as well as enjoining and now. 1021 00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,400 Speaker 1: It's so hard to balance living in the present moment 1022 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,480 Speaker 1: and thinking about your future and the business's future, or 1023 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 1: anyone who's studying, like thinking about the end goal rather 1024 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,560 Speaker 1: than thinking about what you're doing right now, and yeah, 1025 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,359 Speaker 1: giving yourself a break. I think that's one thing I 1026 00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,959 Speaker 1: need to work on is everything I'm doing is cool 1027 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:44,800 Speaker 1: and good and I love the grind, but I also 1028 00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,200 Speaker 1: also really bad at like taking a step back and 1029 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,520 Speaker 1: chilling and appreciating that. And like I can see, like 1030 00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 1: I'm obviously going to work on a lot, but I 1031 00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:53,840 Speaker 1: just don't want to get to that position where I 1032 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 1: forty or fifty and I've done all this cool stuff 1033 00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,799 Speaker 1: and I'm like, where'd the time go? Yeah? I didn't 1034 00:44:58,800 --> 00:44:59,520 Speaker 1: even appreciate it. 1035 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:01,799 Speaker 2: I fucking I reckon. I could talk about that for 1036 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,800 Speaker 2: literally a year straight, NonStop. Don't turn off the cameras 1037 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,640 Speaker 2: down to I reckon for a year. I can ramble 1038 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 2: a lot about it. 1039 00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 1: I got to question, Harry for you to finish on 1040 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: because you live in Western Australia, which, for anyone who 1041 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,880 Speaker 1: doesn't live in Australia is so far away from a 1042 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:20,600 Speaker 1: different country, so far away. If we could fly to 1043 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:25,319 Speaker 1: New Zealand quicker than a Barley quick and Yeah, if 1044 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:29,239 Speaker 1: Jake and I say were to move somewhere, would you 1045 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,359 Speaker 1: be more inclined? I know you've said you wanted to 1046 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 1: get out of the Perth Western Australian bubble. Would you 1047 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,359 Speaker 1: be inclined to come like a groupie near us? Yeah? 1048 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 1: Me and Jacob spoke about this. 1049 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 8: But do you say that we've spoken about this percent? 1050 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,720 Speaker 8: I think I'm crying, like not crying out. I'm very 1051 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 8: I love it, I hope, but like for a while, 1052 00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,719 Speaker 8: I've been searching for an opportunity. I don't want to 1053 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,000 Speaker 8: rush moving out. I've been searching for an opportunity. I 1054 00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:55,800 Speaker 8: was going to move my mate in Goldie than he 1055 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:59,520 Speaker 8: ended up moving home. But yeah, when like an opportunity comes, 1056 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,799 Speaker 8: I'd fucking staff at it for sure. I know that'd 1057 00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 8: be right, and I know we get the best out 1058 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:03,399 Speaker 8: of each other. 1059 00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 2: Guys, future look towards the future. Just keep listening and 1060 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,760 Speaker 2: you can see a relatables blues and greens something. 1061 00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:14,399 Speaker 1: Overall, if you're listening, the shirts have dropped. Hopefully they've 1062 00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,520 Speaker 1: sold out. I have sold out. They've sold out. We've 1063 00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,359 Speaker 1: manifested that. So unfortunately, if you haven't got one now 1064 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:24,440 Speaker 1: you can't get But overall, thank you for supporting us 1065 00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:27,680 Speaker 1: along this journey throughout the whole podcast, as well as 1066 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 1: your little present before we yeah finish on this present, eh, 1067 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,279 Speaker 1: Harry said he's got presents for us. I got a 1068 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 1: small and if you're not listening, I. 1069 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:37,279 Speaker 8: Mean, if you're not watching, they wrapped up in the 1070 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,080 Speaker 8: sock because I got here and didn't realize they were 1071 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 8: a present, So they can probably see remember what I 1072 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 8: think we can see the shape. 1073 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,600 Speaker 2: I hope it's not what I think it is. This 1074 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:45,319 Speaker 2: is Jake's one. 1075 00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 1: It looks like a mug. This sounds like a mug. 1076 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:50,759 Speaker 2: I was going to say, it looks like you think 1077 00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 2: it was what I think it was, just a little. 1078 00:46:54,920 --> 00:47:02,840 Speaker 1: Jake's not a big thinker. Oh yeah, oh that I 1079 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 1: love a relatables. 1080 00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,279 Speaker 8: That could be saying that Jake was talking about I 1081 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,239 Speaker 8: want to accessorize the studio a little bit more so. 1082 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,400 Speaker 1: I think I could be saying that is sick. Mine says, 1083 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 1: I love relatables with an R on the front and 1084 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: it's red, and Jake. 1085 00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:21,520 Speaker 2: Mine says, pickled juice consumption device. This is amazing. I've 1086 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 2: never seen anything cooler than this. 1087 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:27,120 Speaker 1: That's sick. I'll drink my mile out of it so much. 1088 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:29,239 Speaker 1: I was thinking about audio and I was like, is 1089 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:30,480 Speaker 1: he going to get as much use out of it? 1090 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,880 Speaker 1: Because I'll put that here in my room like that. 1091 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 1: That's so good. That's sick. Thank you very much. Thank you. 1092 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 2: Hopefully you haven't worn these. 1093 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:37,720 Speaker 1: This is the corner socks. 1094 00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:40,120 Speaker 4: It's the corner socks. 1095 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 1: You flow business. Yeah, you guys good. I like so 1096 00:47:49,640 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you everybody. We'll see you later.