Speaker 1: Hi, welcome back to Bounce Forward with me, Tiff Pull.
Speaker 1: I'd like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land
Speaker 1: of which I'm recording this podcast. The wereundry people of
Speaker 1: the cooler nation. I pay my respects to elders past
Speaker 1: and present. Mary messaged me, Tiff, I've seen a lot
Speaker 1: of negative and pretty gross comments, mainly from men, about
Speaker 1: Margot Robbie's pregnancy body. They're basically saying that she's ruined
Speaker 1: because of it. I know you went through a rough
Speaker 1: time with your pregnancies being so public. Do you have
Speaker 1: any comments on this kind of treatment of pregnant women,
Speaker 1: no matter who they are? Oh, Mary, I am so
Speaker 1: grossed out by these comments, and I went and had
Speaker 1: a look online because I wasn't aware of it, and
Speaker 1: the comments are things like it's like watching your favorite
Speaker 1: pub burndown. Barbie is not barbing anymore, she's really let
Speaker 1: herself go. She's ruined now. Absolutely disgusting, and I felt
Speaker 1: quite in raged because you should never comment on another
Speaker 1: woman's body, let alone a pregnant woman's body. And when
Speaker 1: I was pregnant, and I was pregnant in the media
Speaker 1: as a fitness professional, people were commenting on my body
Speaker 1: all the time, that I had put on more weight
Speaker 1: than I should have in my pregnancy, that I was
Speaker 1: bigger than I should have been, that my bump was bigger.
Speaker 1: Are you having twins? Ha ha ha? Are you sure
Speaker 1: there's not triplets in there? No, I'm having one baby,
Speaker 1: and I am pregnant like it was constant. And I
Speaker 1: had one experience where I went to a cafe and
Speaker 1: a man came up to me and he said, whoa,
Speaker 1: and it was kind of like you've let yourself go
Speaker 1: vibes and I'm like, I'm pregnant in thirty weeks blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And he's like, oh, my wife, she was
Speaker 1: just a bump, just stick legs and a tiny bump
Speaker 1: and kept it really neat. You must be having a girl.
Speaker 1: Did you know that girls steal their mother's looks. You
Speaker 1: must be having a girl. My wife she had three boys,
Speaker 1: perfect little bump, kept active, was just like couldn't tell
Speaker 1: she was pregnant from behind. She was amazing. And I
Speaker 1: was standing there just like tears in my eyes, and
Speaker 1: ed just like ushered me to the table, and it
Speaker 1: was just comments like that happening to me all the time,
Speaker 1: like that was just one example. I've never gone back
Speaker 1: to that cafe. Barred my family from going to that cafe.
Speaker 1: And I thought, I'll walk back in there when I'm
Speaker 1: not pregnant and be like, look at my revenge body.
Speaker 1: But I've never done it, because you know, I just
Speaker 1: don't want to waste the energy on that. People feel
Speaker 1: like as a pregnant woman, they can touch your belly,
Speaker 1: they can comment on your body, and it is just
Speaker 1: not on. And that's why I created my bounce forward
Speaker 1: philosophy and just declared to everyone I was bouncing forward.
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to bounce back. And I hope that
Speaker 1: Margot Robbie doesn't bounce back. I hope that she bounces forward.
Speaker 1: I hope that she takes her time to bond with
Speaker 1: the baby, to snuggle up in that baby bug bubble,
Speaker 1: and to to just not worry about a body and
Speaker 1: not punish yourself with exercise or deprive herself with on
Speaker 1: a diet or a boot camp or some kind of
Speaker 1: Hollywood boot camp. I hope that she just says f
Speaker 1: off to everyone and takes her time to slowly recover
Speaker 1: from giving birth. In that fourth Trimessa that is so
Speaker 1: sacred and then gently gets back into exercise and safely
Speaker 1: starts working her pelvic floor. And there's all these things.
Speaker 1: When you're making these comments about people's bodies, you don't
Speaker 1: know what they're going through. I had a few health
Speaker 1: issues in my pregnancies I didn't share with anybody, you know,
Speaker 1: that affected my weight, That affected everything that I had
Speaker 1: going on in my pregnancy. You don't know what's happening
Speaker 1: behind closed doors or in that for that person. We
Speaker 1: don't know what's happening for Margo Robbie. And I'm hearing
Speaker 1: comments like, oh, she must be having a girl, because again,
Speaker 1: girls just feel you out, And I'm like, I was
Speaker 1: filled out with a boy. I was filled out with
Speaker 1: a girl. It really doesn't make a difference. You shouldn't
Speaker 1: make any kind of judgments on a women's body, and
Speaker 1: especially men when they take up comment over a female's body,
Speaker 1: no matter whether you're pregnant or not. It's just not on.
Speaker 1: And we're in twenty twenty four now, people, it's twenty
Speaker 1: twenty four. We should stop commenting on people's bodies. And
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if you're a celebrity, if you're in
Speaker 1: the public eye, or you're not. You need to stop
Speaker 1: the commenting and it's just really really sad and it
Speaker 1: makes me really really angry. Thanks so much for listening
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