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Speaker 1: Hi, welcome back to Bounce Forward with me, Tiff Pull.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land

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Speaker 1: of which I'm recording this podcast. The wereundry people of

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Speaker 1: the cooler nation. I pay my respects to elders past

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Speaker 1: and present. Mary messaged me, Tiff, I've seen a lot

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Speaker 1: of negative and pretty gross comments, mainly from men, about

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Speaker 1: Margot Robbie's pregnancy body. They're basically saying that she's ruined

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Speaker 1: because of it. I know you went through a rough

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Speaker 1: time with your pregnancies being so public. Do you have

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Speaker 1: any comments on this kind of treatment of pregnant women,

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Speaker 1: no matter who they are? Oh, Mary, I am so

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Speaker 1: grossed out by these comments, and I went and had

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Speaker 1: a look online because I wasn't aware of it, and

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Speaker 1: the comments are things like it's like watching your favorite

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Speaker 1: pub burndown. Barbie is not barbing anymore, she's really let

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Speaker 1: herself go. She's ruined now. Absolutely disgusting, and I felt

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Speaker 1: quite in raged because you should never comment on another

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Speaker 1: woman's body, let alone a pregnant woman's body. And when

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Speaker 1: I was pregnant, and I was pregnant in the media

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Speaker 1: as a fitness professional, people were commenting on my body

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Speaker 1: all the time, that I had put on more weight

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Speaker 1: than I should have in my pregnancy, that I was

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Speaker 1: bigger than I should have been, that my bump was bigger.

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Speaker 1: Are you having twins? Ha ha ha? Are you sure

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Speaker 1: there's not triplets in there? No, I'm having one baby,

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Speaker 1: and I am pregnant like it was constant. And I

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Speaker 1: had one experience where I went to a cafe and

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Speaker 1: a man came up to me and he said, whoa,

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Speaker 1: and it was kind of like you've let yourself go

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Speaker 1: vibes and I'm like, I'm pregnant in thirty weeks blah

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Speaker 1: blah blah. And he's like, oh, my wife, she was

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Speaker 1: just a bump, just stick legs and a tiny bump

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Speaker 1: and kept it really neat. You must be having a girl.

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Speaker 1: Did you know that girls steal their mother's looks. You

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Speaker 1: must be having a girl. My wife she had three boys,

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Speaker 1: perfect little bump, kept active, was just like couldn't tell

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Speaker 1: she was pregnant from behind. She was amazing. And I

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Speaker 1: was standing there just like tears in my eyes, and

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Speaker 1: ed just like ushered me to the table, and it

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Speaker 1: was just comments like that happening to me all the time,

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Speaker 1: like that was just one example. I've never gone back

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Speaker 1: to that cafe. Barred my family from going to that cafe.

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Speaker 1: And I thought, I'll walk back in there when I'm

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Speaker 1: not pregnant and be like, look at my revenge body.

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Speaker 1: But I've never done it, because you know, I just

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Speaker 1: don't want to waste the energy on that. People feel

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Speaker 1: like as a pregnant woman, they can touch your belly,

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Speaker 1: they can comment on your body, and it is just

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Speaker 1: not on. And that's why I created my bounce forward

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Speaker 1: philosophy and just declared to everyone I was bouncing forward.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't going to bounce back. And I hope that

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Speaker 1: Margot Robbie doesn't bounce back. I hope that she bounces forward.

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Speaker 1: I hope that she takes her time to bond with

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Speaker 1: the baby, to snuggle up in that baby bug bubble,

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Speaker 1: and to to just not worry about a body and

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Speaker 1: not punish yourself with exercise or deprive herself with on

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Speaker 1: a diet or a boot camp or some kind of

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Speaker 1: Hollywood boot camp. I hope that she just says f

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Speaker 1: off to everyone and takes her time to slowly recover

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Speaker 1: from giving birth. In that fourth Trimessa that is so

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Speaker 1: sacred and then gently gets back into exercise and safely

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Speaker 1: starts working her pelvic floor. And there's all these things.

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Speaker 1: When you're making these comments about people's bodies, you don't

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Speaker 1: know what they're going through. I had a few health

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Speaker 1: issues in my pregnancies I didn't share with anybody, you know,

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Speaker 1: that affected my weight, That affected everything that I had

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Speaker 1: going on in my pregnancy. You don't know what's happening

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Speaker 1: behind closed doors or in that for that person. We

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Speaker 1: don't know what's happening for Margo Robbie. And I'm hearing

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Speaker 1: comments like, oh, she must be having a girl, because again,

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Speaker 1: girls just feel you out, And I'm like, I was

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Speaker 1: filled out with a boy. I was filled out with

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Speaker 1: a girl. It really doesn't make a difference. You shouldn't

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Speaker 1: make any kind of judgments on a women's body, and

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Speaker 1: especially men when they take up comment over a female's body,

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Speaker 1: no matter whether you're pregnant or not. It's just not on.

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Speaker 1: And we're in twenty twenty four now, people, it's twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty four. We should stop commenting on people's bodies. And

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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if you're a celebrity, if you're in

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Speaker 1: the public eye, or you're not. You need to stop

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Speaker 1: the commenting and it's just really really sad and it

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Speaker 1: makes me really really angry. Thanks so much for listening

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Speaker 1: to bounce for Hey, I love having your company. So

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Speaker 1: please dm me on Instagram at tifhoul Underscore XO and

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