1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,719 Speaker 1: High Scrollers is produced on gadigul Land. 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 2: We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this 3 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 2: country and Elder's past and present. 4 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 3: Well well, well, Matt, guess what I've been getting some 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 3: hate comments? 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: Is this what we were talking about in the other 8 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 2: episode where we were like, we need to save it 9 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 2: for close. I think that was a couple of weeks 10 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 2: ago now and we forgot so we're going to tell 11 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: you now. 12 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, so about like over ten years ago, I had 13 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 3: a collaboration with Herblescences and it was a big deal 14 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: back then. 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 2: It was your first time doing anything like that. It 16 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: was a full TV was it? 17 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 4: But it was like playing before YouTube video. 18 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like a commercial that they shot for 19 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 3: whatever their new shampoo conditioner was that at the time. 20 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 3: Escaped to Paradise or something like. 21 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 4: It was a bit of a Moroccan vibe. Yes. 22 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 3: Anyway, as we were saying in the episode, a couple 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 3: of weeks back, I need to scroll back and find 24 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 3: where they are. But I had it pop up in 25 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 3: my Facebook memories and I don't know why. It must 26 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 3: be because it was like over ten years ago or something. 27 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 3: But also someone posted it in Fate Society and so 28 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 3: it must have been one of their posts that they 29 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 3: like boosted as an adultor whatever, and it had heaps 30 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 3: of views and heaps of comments, and. 31 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:31,279 Speaker 5: So I was like, oh, I'm. 32 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 3: Curious to have a look at what people were commenting 33 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 3: back then, you know. And I feel like this was 34 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 3: back in the day, Matt, when obviously my YouTube was 35 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 3: really picking up and I was avoiding reading comments because 36 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 3: this is when guru gossip existed and hate comments and 37 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 3: threads and all that. So I was going through this 38 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 3: herbal and you'd still be able to find it on 39 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 3: the internet now, like herbal lessences, but good luck finding it. 40 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 3: Only saw it because it came up literally in my memories, 41 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 3: and so I went through. 42 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 5: And it baffled me. 43 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 3: Oh, I guess people still leave public like hate comments 44 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 3: these days. But people were commenting on it from like 45 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 3: ten years ago, just really rogue random stuff. And so 46 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 3: you know, the other month on here when we were 47 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: talking about being petti towards people, and how we were 48 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 3: talking about like high school like not so nice people 49 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 3: commenting on my things, and how I wish I could 50 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 3: reply back to them. Now you'd be like, hey, you're 51 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 3: feeling about this, yew, I thought of you in the moment, 52 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 3: and I just started to reply to some of the comments. 53 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: So you said it you sent it to me first 54 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 4: and said should I rely? I said, fuck, yeah, you shure. 55 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,959 Speaker 1: So here I am ten years later on this herbal 56 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: Escences post. 57 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 4: And you've recognized their names from high school? Right? No, 58 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 4: this is any of them? 59 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 2: No? 60 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 4: Oh, I thought you knew them personally. 61 00:02:58,720 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 5: No, this is Randoms. 62 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, So some of the comments with this, like 63 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,679 Speaker 3: I don't want to say their first and last name, 64 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 3: but this is a hilarious thing. It's from their like 65 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 3: their Facebook account. So Chloe said get her out of 66 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 3: here and tagged her friend and I commented back, like 67 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 3: just now and said like, and I tagged her, so 68 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 3: let you tag them because it's Facebook, And I said 69 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 3: ten years later with three love hearts to be like, hey, 70 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 3: does she reply anything? 71 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 5: Nothing? 72 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god, this person. Asha tagged 73 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 3: her friend and said she looks awful here and like 74 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 3: I can click on these people's profiles and see exactly 75 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 3: who they are now. And then someone said in. 76 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 5: Response, say this word on the podcast? Was that a bong? 77 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 5: Because we had all like. 78 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 3: And stuff, and then the Asia girl said yeah, she 79 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: was smoking acid and her friend wrote back loll and 80 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 3: so I tagged. I tagged the original girl and I said, 81 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 3: how did. 82 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 5: This for a Facebook memory? Still think I look awful? 83 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:20,799 Speaker 4: XX? 84 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 5: No reply good? 85 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 4: But there was one who did reply. 86 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, can you get to her? Yeah? So where is it? 87 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 4: She might have deleted her original comment, but you did 88 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 4: send it to me in the screen shot. 89 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 5: I did, didn't I yeah, I'm gonna. 90 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 4: I reckon she's deleted her original comment, which deletes. 91 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 3: Well, I'm not on the post right now. I'm in 92 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 3: my screenshots. But let me go to my message to you. Now, 93 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 3: someone did reply, but this person is like an influencer. 94 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 3: Now you do not know that where Wait, No, I 95 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 3: send it to you again. 96 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 5: You know who she is. She's been around for a while. 97 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 4: Okay, hang on, hang on, hang on, I'm going back 98 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:09,359 Speaker 4: in our screenshops. 99 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 5: I'm just send it to you again. Okay, look up 100 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 5: that girl. You know who that. 101 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 4: Is the original comment? 102 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, ha ha. 103 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 5: Ha, you know who that is? 104 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 4: Right, I've never seen her. 105 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 2: But I'm like gasping at the amount of followers because 106 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 2: you know, these days an influencer could have forty k 107 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 2: You know this girl, she's a big Australian influencer with 108 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: fucking apes of followers. 109 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 5: Say you're not wanting to say how many? So she wrote, 110 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 111 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 3: She wrote and tagged her friend, I'm cringing so hard, 112 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 3: and then her friend wrote back, Oh no, what the 113 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 3: fuck it hurts. 114 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 5: And then that was it. 115 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 3: There was the two comments from them, and so it's 116 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 3: so mean of me. 117 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,359 Speaker 4: So you've said that comment, Say what you said? 118 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 3: I tagged her just now in twenty twenty six and said, 119 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 3: how awkward. 120 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 2: But is that because you knew she was an influencer? Yeah, yeah, okay, 121 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 2: does she follow you and stuff? Nuh oh okay, but 122 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 2: obviously she knows he will. 123 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 3: And then this is actually really nice, and I think 124 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 3: I want to just talk about this a tiny little bit. 125 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:36,119 Speaker 3: This shows the power in like what you think right 126 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 3: now isn't always the way that you're going to act 127 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,679 Speaker 3: and feel in the future. And so she just wrote 128 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 3: back to me, and I was writing back to everyone, 129 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 3: so I was just having a field day in these comments. 130 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 3: But she said, oh my god, I'm so sorry. How 131 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 3: embarrassing for me. Ten years ago, I was a very 132 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 3: insecure seventeen year old, so she's twenty seven now, And 133 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 3: I think that says a lot. And I know we 134 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 3: talk a lot on here about like Reddit threads, anonymous threads. 135 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 3: I know we've been in Reddit before when we got 136 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 3: the little scrollers thing happening in the not irrelevant thread, 137 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 3: which I think that's gone now by the way, that 138 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 3: whole TikTok snark. 139 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:12,119 Speaker 4: Yes, all got shut down. 140 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 3: But you know, I know people love to hate watch 141 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 3: people and follow their every move. I think it's the 142 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 3: weirdest behavior I've ever seen in my life, like when 143 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 3: people hate watch and then talk badly about someone that 144 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 3: don't even know online anonymously. We spoken about this so 145 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 3: many times, but I think one of the most embarrassing 146 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 3: things about it all is, in let's say five years 147 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 3: or ten years from now, you're not gonna feel that way. 148 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 3: And if you saw the things that you're saying online. 149 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: Obviously all these comments are public, but if you even 150 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 3: saw the things that you were saying anonymously, you're going 151 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 3: to be so embarrassed by them when you grow out 152 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 3: of it. And I think that just says a lot 153 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 3: about like people participating in shipping on people online because 154 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 3: you're going to grow out of that, or maybe some 155 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 3: people don't Matt. 156 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I reckon. 157 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 2: There's some that definitely don't grow out of it, for sure. 158 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 2: There's one. There's one girl from my high school that 159 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 2: just has it out for me. Actually there might be two, 160 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 2: and I'm waiting for them to grow out of it. Yeah, 161 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 2: but I've kept all the receipts, I've kept all the screenshots. 162 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 2: I've kept everything so that if anything ever actually eventuates 163 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 2: from these people who just every time I get an 164 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 2: opportunity there in the comments going. 165 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 4: Well, oh you're serious, and. 166 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just waiting patiently with my folder full 167 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:41,319 Speaker 2: of screenshots of the absolute dirt I have on all 168 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 2: of them and what they've said to me and what 169 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 2: they've done to me throughout my life. 170 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 5: There you go. 171 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 2: And it wouldn't surprise me if they tune into every 172 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 2: episode of the podcast so they. 173 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 4: They hear this. 174 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 2: Oh, No one one one, I would assumed, is like 175 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: a big list like hate Watcher. The other one just 176 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 2: like I've actually told the story about her before and 177 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 2: the pot she was my friend and then like randomly 178 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 2: I just found out she'd been sabotaging me. Behind my back, 179 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: Like I. 180 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 3: Feel like a broken record because I feel like we've 181 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 3: spoken about this so much. But let's say there's someone 182 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 3: online and I've seen one of their videos before or 183 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 3: I've heard people talking about them and I don't really 184 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 3: like their content for whatever reason, Like I don't find 185 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 3: it boring, I find them not interesting, whatever. I just 186 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 3: don't follow that person and I don't know anything about them. 187 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: Oh I block them, yeah, like go to that effort. 188 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 3: But it just has always amazed me that people will 189 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 3: say I hate her, she's a horrible person. But then 190 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 3: we'll know everything about that person's life. We'll follow their 191 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 3: every move on social media, and we'll keep up to 192 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 3: date with their life. That is not normal behavior. Like 193 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 3: there's no one out there that I hate. If I 194 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 3: don't like someone online, I just don't follow them. I 195 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 3: would never obsessively follow them and know everything about their. 196 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 1: Life and like, yeah, she's a horrible person. 197 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 5: That is fucking weird behavior. 198 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: There's a lot of like big creators who constantly come 199 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 2: up for me that I've blocked. 200 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 1: Because it's just like I'm just like. 201 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 4: I don't want to watch this, You're so annoying. 202 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like you're not going to spend your time 203 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 3: then hate watching that person and knowing everything about their life. 204 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 2: I'm also at a point though in my in my 205 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 2: life and in myself in a way that like if 206 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 2: I was to because I've said that to a few 207 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 2: other people and they go, oh my god, But like 208 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 2: what if she asks you about it at an event, 209 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm actually so grown that I'll go because 210 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 2: I just didn't want to see your content. 211 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 4: It was coming up and I'm not interested. Yeah, end 212 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 4: of conversation. 213 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 2: Walk way back. Yeah, you're not my type of person. 214 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 2: I can tell from the content that you make. I 215 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 2: have nil interest in having you as a part of 216 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 2: my life. Conversation over, goodbye, and you know what, that 217 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 2: bitch will turn around and she'll go. 218 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 5: Hey, he's the radest infol Oh. 219 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 2: Ever, and as I said at the start of the year, 220 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 2: I'm at the point now where if someone goes You're rude. 221 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 4: Believe them. 222 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 3: Yes, there is so much power in people being wrong 223 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 3: about you. 224 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 2: There was actually a good video that I saw. It 225 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 2: was something like, if someone tells you that I'm rude, 226 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 2: believe them. And if someone tells you I'm the nicest 227 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 2: person on earth, believe them because I gave them each 228 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,079 Speaker 2: version that they deserved. 229 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 4: I'm like, sign sealed delivered dog, that's me. That's me. 230 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 2: So if you've had a bad interaction with May, that's 231 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 2: on you. 232 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 4: Actually, yeah, I. 233 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 3: Saw another one as well about it was like a 234 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 3: little quote. I know, you know that I love my quotes, 235 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 3: and it was talking about the type of people that 236 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 3: will hear something through someone else about someone. 237 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 1: And immediately believe them. 238 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 4: Mm hmmm. 239 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 3: Well, obviously it depends on the situation. But you know 240 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 3: if someone goes to you, oh, yes, so and so 241 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 3: she's a fucking bitch, and then if you are the 242 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 3: kind of person and that goes oh really yeah, and 243 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 3: like you just fully believe that straight away when you 244 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 3: have no idea whether that's true or not. It's like 245 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 3: it was a quote about be careful of those types 246 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 3: of people who will so easily believe something that they're 247 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 3: just told once about someone they don't even know. Like 248 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 3: make your own judgments about people, yeah, I said to others. 249 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: I had an instance of that with a creator in 250 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 2: Australia who one of my friends who isn't on social media, 251 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 2: was friends with this person five years before this person 252 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 2: started social media. So they've come out of the woodworks. 253 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 2: They're blowing up on socials all the rest of it. 254 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 2: And then I'm saying to my friend, have you seen 255 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 2: this person? Oh that was my best friend five years ago. 256 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:45,719 Speaker 2: They're a monster, this, that and everything X y Z 257 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 2: blah blah blah blah, And I went, all right, good 258 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 2: to know. I will keep my distance. Obviously, I'm going 259 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 2: to be cordial in this industry. I'm not going to 260 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 2: just outwardly be rude or hate or be snarky. But 261 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 2: I'm going to keep my distance. And that person will 262 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 2: never You'll never see them in a video with me. 263 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 2: I'll never want to have anything to do with them 264 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: at an event. Like, I've heard your side of the story, 265 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 2: and so that's that. Anyway, follow on, like two years 266 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 2: down the line, we end up working together on something 267 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 2: and I meet this person with full reservation that I've 268 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 2: heard this story from my friend, and this creator turns 269 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 2: out to be. 270 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 4: Just the loveliest. 271 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 2: Person ever, right, And I was like, this is so 272 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 2: strange because I've just heard the total opposite to this. 273 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 2: So I you know, as I said, I'm grown. I 274 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 2: went back to my friend and I said, hey, we 275 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 2: ended up having to work together. They are actually I mean, 276 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 2: I know you've had your experience with that, but they 277 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 2: are actually one of the nicest. 278 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 4: Most down to earth people. Blah blah blah. 279 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 2: And I didn't expect this from my friend, but my 280 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 2: friend actually said, well, you know what, that was five 281 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 2: years ago and they've probably grown and matured, so I 282 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 2: can see that. And I was like, oh wow, and 283 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 2: now I still to this day have a great relationship 284 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 2: with this creator. I'm not going to name them because 285 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 2: I don't want to throw my friend under the bars, 286 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 2: and I don't want, you know, I don't want anyone 287 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 2: to take anything the wrong way. You know, when I 288 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: got engaged, they sent me a text and give me 289 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:13,959 Speaker 2: this big congratulations all the rest of it. We have 290 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: to catch up soon and you know, we're not we're 291 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 2: not really super close or anything like that, but yeah, 292 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 2: it just goes to show what a lovely like gesture 293 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 2: that was as well, and we always just have kind 294 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 2: of been looking out for each other and whatever. But 295 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 2: it was nice that also my friend kind of was 296 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 2: able to be mature in that situation, because I was 297 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 2: a bit worried that I would be like, they're actually 298 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: all right and you know, my friend would go, well 299 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 2: you have no loyalty or whatever, but you know, she 300 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 2: didn't actually act that way at all. She was like, well, 301 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: you know, life moves on and she's probably gotten a 302 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 2: lot more mature and all. 303 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 4: The rest of it. And I was like, oh wow, 304 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 4: I didn't expect that reaction, but there you go. People 305 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 4: grow up, people. 306 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 2: Grow up, Things change. It's inevitable. You can't help it. 307 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 2: But you know what we were, will do. 308 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 4: We'll see you next Tuesday. 309 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 5: M HM.