WEBVTT - Conversations with Cornesy - Peter Norris

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<v Speaker 1>Did I everyone, welcome to conversations. Today's guest has an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing story. It's been an amazing journey, really born into

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<v Speaker 1>a life of crime. I can't describe it in any

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<v Speaker 1>other way. Born into a life of crime. His dad

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<v Speaker 1>was a hardened professional criminal and was in and out

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<v Speaker 1>of jail, and Peter Norris, who's my guest, was dragged

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<v Speaker 1>around the country to various locations with his mum and

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<v Speaker 1>dad first and his dad then into institutions and then

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<v Speaker 1>into a foster home. But he emerged from that, and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll cover that story as we go. He's recounted the

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<v Speaker 1>journey in a book called The Bank Robber's Boy. Peter Norris,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning, how are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, good morning, Cornsey, I'm great, thank you, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>really appreciate your having them on your show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an amazing story. I mean, it's what intrigues me

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<v Speaker 1>out the book. When you get to the epilogue, you're

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<v Speaker 1>only twelve. That life you fit into those years zero

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<v Speaker 1>to twelve, so jam pa, and then you cover the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of your life where you've emerged from such a

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<v Speaker 1>difficult upbringing to being successful as you are now. But

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come to that. You rely on your brother, your

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<v Speaker 1>brother Day's early memories for the first couple of chapters

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<v Speaker 1>to tell us about your dad. So, yeah, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>your early memory.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean, as you just alluded to Cornsey, that

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<v Speaker 2>first sort of twelve years of life. Even looking back now,

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<v Speaker 2>I go, it feels like another lifetime because there was

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<v Speaker 2>so much packed into that. Yeah, and a lot of it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, not necessarily positive experiences, some traumatic. But my

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<v Speaker 2>first memory as a child, as a four year old,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was living with people who I thought were

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<v Speaker 2>my biological family, and we were the Robinson's, and I

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<v Speaker 2>had a mom and a dad, and I had two siblings,

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<v Speaker 2>two brothers. And it's a really surreal memory that one

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<v Speaker 2>night I had a blood nose. I used to get

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<v Speaker 2>these blood noses as a kid all the time, which

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<v Speaker 2>is not uncommon. And I bled all over my sheets

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<v Speaker 2>and my pillowcase, and the person I thought was my

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<v Speaker 2>father gave me this strapping across the back of the legs,

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<v Speaker 2>which was a massive overreaction to an accident. And I

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<v Speaker 2>laid there that night and the next morning and I

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<v Speaker 2>had this powerful sense of I don't belong here. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's probably the best way I can explain it. Is

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<v Speaker 2>that I looked at my surroundings. I looked at Mum

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<v Speaker 2>and Dad and my siblings, and I went, why am

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<v Speaker 2>I tall and thin with dark curly hair. Why are

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<v Speaker 2>they short and round with red hair? So I had

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<v Speaker 2>this revelation of sorts that this is not where I'm

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<v Speaker 2>meant to be, and it was really strange. That was

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<v Speaker 2>my earliest memory.

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<v Speaker 1>It's you're only four then, I mean that InTru you've got.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got good memories of early good memories. You've got

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<v Speaker 1>clear memories of those early years. So so we'll come

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<v Speaker 1>to the we'll come to the Robinson's in due course.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll tell us about your dad. I mean those those

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<v Speaker 1>early years where your brother Dave recounts things that were

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<v Speaker 1>happening around the household and the different names that you

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<v Speaker 1>had to be known as. So you tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>your dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, look, dad, Dad had a similarly traumatic childhood, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>growing up in Grafton Jail and Tamworth Boys Home. And

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<v Speaker 2>it was in one of these places that he met

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<v Speaker 2>some fairly well known criminals like George Freeman. And as

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<v Speaker 2>you know, as my brother Dave tells it, George was

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<v Speaker 2>a young eighteen year old when he first went into jail,

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<v Speaker 2>and Dad was a bit more of a season criminal

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<v Speaker 2>at that stage, so they took young George under their

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<v Speaker 2>wing and got him a coveted job in the in

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<v Speaker 2>the bakehouse, so he wasn't cleaning toilets and scrubbing showers

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<v Speaker 2>and those sorts of things. So George kind of joined

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<v Speaker 2>that gang. But of course, you know, George went on

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<v Speaker 2>to become a lot, a lot sort of more famous

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<v Speaker 2>as a criminal, I suppose, and my dad who preferred

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<v Speaker 2>to stay in the background, but yeah, Dad and his crew,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, they were bank robbers.

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<v Speaker 1>And did he ever did he talk about did you

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<v Speaker 1>have a chance to talk about his upbringing? You mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>a tough upbringing? Yeah, did you meet his Did you

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<v Speaker 1>meet your grandparents on your dad's side, for instance.

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<v Speaker 2>I met my grandmother on dad's side, and there wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of talk about family history those things. So

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<v Speaker 2>it was really only probably when I was in that

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<v Speaker 2>age of eleven to twelve where I started to really

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<v Speaker 2>dive into some of that family history. And I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>will get to some of those stories. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>suppose the way that that early part of life and

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<v Speaker 2>I came into the care of the family, like the

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<v Speaker 2>Robinson's dad was a hardened criminal, and my mum lived

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<v Speaker 2>with us up until the age of eighteen. And again,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, my brother recalls these memories really vividly that

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<v Speaker 2>mum actually had enough and went off and found another boyfriend, Tim,

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<v Speaker 2>who was a command an ex commando in the British Army,

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<v Speaker 2>and he'd moved to Australia and Mum and him met

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<v Speaker 2>and anyway, Dad sort of took a disliking to a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of things that happened over there and went around

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<v Speaker 2>with the tomahawk and smashed the door down and caved

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<v Speaker 2>a bit of him his head in with the tomahawk,

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<v Speaker 2>and and yeah, next thing the family were back together.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it certainly wasn't a happy environment for mum, who, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>from that point formed a drug habit, and yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>was obviously planning her escape as well.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a moment in the book, sad moment in the

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<v Speaker 1>book where your grandfather sets you down and says we

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<v Speaker 1>won't be seeing your mother again. And it leaves me

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<v Speaker 1>hanging right until the end, because I wondered what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she die? Did she commit suicide? Did you a

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<v Speaker 1>young man and being told that you won't see your

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<v Speaker 1>mother again. How do you deal with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she told her kids, all of us, so there's

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<v Speaker 2>four of us that she was going shopping for the day,

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, grabbed her bag as she normally would, and

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<v Speaker 2>hopped on a bus and that was it. Cornsey, we

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<v Speaker 2>haven't seen or heard from her since. There hasn't been

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<v Speaker 2>a single She would only be in her seventies now,

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<v Speaker 2>so you know, likely alive, hopefully still alive, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but just just disappeared off the face of the earth. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>to this very day.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I kept waiting for her to reappear in the book,

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<v Speaker 1>to be quite honest, I kept waiting for you to

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<v Speaker 1>track it down and real did you try to do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Tried to do that early in life. There was a

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<v Speaker 2>few programs through the Salvation Army where you were able

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<v Speaker 2>to locate missing family members, and we tried everything we

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<v Speaker 2>could to find her. And look, I don't begrudge her

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<v Speaker 2>for making that decision. It would have been a pretty

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<v Speaker 2>tough environment for her. The only question that I would

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<v Speaker 2>have for her is, even at this stage, is how

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<v Speaker 2>you walk away from four children? You know, you've got kids,

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<v Speaker 2>I've got kids. We know how tough that would be

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<v Speaker 2>to leave them and never communicate with them again for

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<v Speaker 2>the rest of your life. So that would be a

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<v Speaker 2>tough one, I imagine, And I'm sure you know she

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<v Speaker 2>went through some hell with that decision herself.

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<v Speaker 1>So the Robinson's is not a pleasant experience for you,

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<v Speaker 1>strapped for having a blood nose and bleeding all over

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<v Speaker 1>your sheet. So what happens then? I mean of it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a journey from one place to the next. As

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<v Speaker 1>you're reading through this book, it's hard to settle because

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<v Speaker 1>you don't settle and your dad's there and then he's gone,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he reappears magically. So what happened after Robinson's.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, after the blood nos incident, there was a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of time, a couple of weeks where you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I even went to school. I was going to kindergarten.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to my kindergarten teacher and my mood was

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<v Speaker 2>a bit down. And she said to me one day,

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<v Speaker 2>she said, oh, what's wrong, Peter. You're normally this happy

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<v Speaker 2>child who's running around the playground. And I said to her,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm looking for my real family. I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to get me And again it sounds really strange that

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<v Speaker 2>a four year old was so certain that he didn't

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<v Speaker 2>belong where he was. And I recall that day because

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<v Speaker 2>she was really kind and she said to me something

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<v Speaker 2>along the lines of, you know, if you're patient, the

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<v Speaker 2>things you wish for will come. And I looked turned

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<v Speaker 2>around and I was, you know, fifty meters away from

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<v Speaker 2>that conversation when I walked away, and she was still

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<v Speaker 2>just watching me, and I'm sure she was thinking, what

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<v Speaker 2>the hell is going on with that kid? And anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>it was the weekend after that conversation, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>running circles around the front yard. Was a very active child,

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<v Speaker 2>and the person I thought my mother was cutting roses

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<v Speaker 2>off the rosebush. And the front gate squeaked open, and

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<v Speaker 2>I turned around and there was this man with sort

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<v Speaker 2>of thick muscular arms and he was making a vline

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<v Speaker 2>straight to me, and he had this smile on his

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<v Speaker 2>face that I'll never forget. And not a word needed

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<v Speaker 2>to be exchanged. I knew, I just knew that that

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<v Speaker 2>was where I belonged, and he put his arms out,

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<v Speaker 2>I jumped into them. And that was Dad who spent

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<v Speaker 2>which I found out later spent eighteen months in the

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<v Speaker 2>New South Wales court system legally getting his kids back together.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was a really special moment.

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<v Speaker 1>He knew him straight away.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously I didn't know the face. I hadn't didn't remember

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<v Speaker 2>the face, but you know, there's just something in my

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<v Speaker 2>gut that that's where I belong. I hopped, There was

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<v Speaker 2>no hesitation. I hopped into his arms. He was crying.

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<v Speaker 2>I was crying, and yeah, there was an exchange of

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<v Speaker 2>conversation between him and the Robinsons and maybe a social worker,

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<v Speaker 2>there was somebody else there, and I didn't hear any

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<v Speaker 2>of that. I was just caught him, you know, just

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<v Speaker 2>staring at this man and just this feeling of content

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<v Speaker 2>and happiness, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Just did he take your way straight away? He did?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he walked me out. There was a car waiting

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<v Speaker 2>out the front, and you know that that moment got

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<v Speaker 2>even more special when we got to the car and

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<v Speaker 2>there was two little girl's faces pressed up against the

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<v Speaker 2>window and they were giggling and clapping and cheering, and

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<v Speaker 2>as I would learn in the the sort of half

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<v Speaker 2>an hour after that, they were my sisters who had

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<v Speaker 2>already been collected and knew that they were getting their

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<v Speaker 2>brother back.

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<v Speaker 1>And you never knew you had had a sister let

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<v Speaker 1>alone too.

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<v Speaker 2>Never knew I had a sister let alone too. So

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<v Speaker 2>it was again a strange experience for that journey in

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<v Speaker 2>that car back to the house that Dad had set

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<v Speaker 2>up for us to hear about what my family had

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<v Speaker 2>been doing. And you know, one of my sisters was

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<v Speaker 2>quite vocal, so she was telling me everybody's story, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I got a half an hour wrap up

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<v Speaker 2>of you know, how it came that I was back

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<v Speaker 2>in this car with my real family. So it was, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>just a and still you know, one of the most

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful memories.

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<v Speaker 1>I have, your older brother, Dave. He seemed to he

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to be distant from the family from time to time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was there a reason for that, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>He had he had a really strong relationship with my

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<v Speaker 2>with my grandfather, which is my mother's father. So and

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<v Speaker 2>if we take a step back, you know, when mum

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<v Speaker 2>caught that bus, my grandfather took us to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>as we said, took us to a church and handed

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<v Speaker 2>us out to different families. That I went to the

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<v Speaker 2>Robinsons and my sisters went elsewhere, which even in itself,

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<v Speaker 2>was a strange thing to happen. And yeah, so Dave

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<v Speaker 2>remained with grandfather and did so for y you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a fair chunk of his childhood. He felt safe and

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<v Speaker 2>secure in that environment, so he stayed there.

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<v Speaker 1>Peter Norris is my guest. His book is called The

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<v Speaker 1>Bank Robber's Boy. It's a what's the story of a

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<v Speaker 1>young fellow who's affected by the the criminal aspect of

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<v Speaker 1>his father. He delves into little bit of crime himself

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<v Speaker 1>a bit later into the book, but has emerged successfully,

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<v Speaker 1>tremendously successfully. Back after the break. If you just tuned

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<v Speaker 1>into conversations, we're speaking with Peter Norris. Now, Peter is

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<v Speaker 1>the son of a man who was once shown on

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<v Speaker 1>that television show Australias Most Wanted. We'll talk about that

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<v Speaker 1>because that comes as a bit of a surprise to

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<v Speaker 1>a young fellow watching TV and his father's face pops up.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you just tuned in, Peter's four years of age.

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<v Speaker 1>His mum and dad have split up. He's been fostered out,

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<v Speaker 1>but his dad goes through the court system and finds

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<v Speaker 1>him and reunites the family, or two of the sisters

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<v Speaker 1>and Peter. But it doesn't seem to get any easier. Peter,

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<v Speaker 1>you're four years old, you with your sister and your dad.

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<v Speaker 1>He set up a house, but you go from place

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<v Speaker 1>to place, I mean tell us about the insecurity of

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<v Speaker 1>all that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that was a challenging times as a four

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<v Speaker 2>year old child at this stage. You know, I had

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<v Speaker 2>no idea that our family was any different than any other.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't I certainly didn't know that dad was a criminal.

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<v Speaker 2>So when we were told in the middle of the

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<v Speaker 2>night regularly, you've got ten minutes, grab one bag. You've

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<v Speaker 2>got a backpack, whatever you can fit in. That is

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<v Speaker 2>all you get to take, you know. So I'd grab

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<v Speaker 2>Tom the Turtle, my teddy bear, and a few you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a few bits of clothing and we'd be out the door,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, no chance to say goodbye to any

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<v Speaker 2>friends that you'd made at school. Yeah, we're just just out.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was yeah, and all I've our belongings left

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<v Speaker 2>in the place and this this you know from there,

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<v Speaker 2>It's just a process that was repeated over and over,

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<v Speaker 2>which was really unsettling and took a little bit, certainly

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<v Speaker 2>a long while to get used to it.

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<v Speaker 1>If you ever do not for the fact you had

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<v Speaker 1>to change your your name regularly, how did you handle that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we'd have this briefing from you know, from Dad

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<v Speaker 2>if we started a new school all that. Okay, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>don't forget that today your surname is Reynolds or you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know, A funny part of the story

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<v Speaker 2>is is that Norris is actually not my surname. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not my birth name. My birth name is Pugh p

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<v Speaker 2>u g h. And but my birth Gibbie says Norris

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<v Speaker 2>because that's just the way Dad set it up at

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<v Speaker 2>the time. So I'm still running under a fake name

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily as as my children, but we've never never changed

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<v Speaker 2>it back.

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<v Speaker 1>If your birth certificate has got Norris on it, how

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<v Speaker 1>did that happen? Was it was he operating with a

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<v Speaker 1>fake name because you sign that as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, operating under a fake name. It was obviously

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<v Speaker 2>regularly wanted by the by the police for various things.

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<v Speaker 2>So it looks like just at the time, yeah, that

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<v Speaker 2>was the name that we were using, and it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>on my birth certificate, so it stays.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you find out your own name?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was for all well, when I had a

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<v Speaker 2>connection to some of Dad's family. Yeah, after we kind

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<v Speaker 2>of went our separate ways, and they were all pews.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I've had to look up dad's records. There's

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<v Speaker 2>an article actually in the Sydney Morning Harold where Dad

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<v Speaker 2>escapes from Long Bay jail. This is before my birth.

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<v Speaker 2>He knocked out one of the guards and put the

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<v Speaker 2>prison uniform on and just strolled out the front gate.

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<v Speaker 2>But as the article goes, it's, you know, Clarence Donald

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<v Speaker 2>Pugh escaped and he's and police are searching bush bush

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<v Speaker 2>around the abound the prison to see if they can

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<v Speaker 2>locate this escape prison. So yeah, there's all these things

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<v Speaker 2>that go, yeah, that that's you know. My surname is

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<v Speaker 2>not meant to be Norris, so it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Called the Bank Robbers. Boy. You don't talk much about

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<v Speaker 1>the banks that he robbed in the book. Yeah what did?

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<v Speaker 1>What did? What do you know about those crimes?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I think the earliest memory I have of Dad

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<v Speaker 2>actually being a criminal was one evening one afternoon. Actually

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<v Speaker 2>Dad was having a little snooze on the couch. So

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<v Speaker 2>my sisters and I went looking for Christmas presents. It

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<v Speaker 2>was nearly Christmas time, and so as you do as

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<v Speaker 2>a kid, we're searching through the d and we thought

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<v Speaker 2>our dad's wardrobe is probably the spot where we'll find them.

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<v Speaker 2>So we pulled a chair out and climbed up on

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<v Speaker 2>top and had a look, and there was some blankets

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<v Speaker 2>and things that look like they're hiding something, so we

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<v Speaker 2>pulled them out and anyway, we found three brown bags

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<v Speaker 2>and they're all filled with cash, bundles of cash, and

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<v Speaker 2>we've wrapped up with elastic bands. I don't know how much,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, there was bundles and bundles and bundles

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<v Speaker 2>of cash and two handguns in one of the one

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<v Speaker 2>of the bags. So we quickly put them back and

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<v Speaker 2>we made this little pack between the three of us

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<v Speaker 2>that we wouldn't mention it again, and we certainly wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be telling Dad that we knew about it. But it

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<v Speaker 2>was about that time that we realized that life probably

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<v Speaker 2>for us was not normal, and our family was a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit different than anybody else. And then from that

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<v Speaker 2>there was a few other moments. So Dad would always

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<v Speaker 2>so I was really, really really close to Dad. I'd sleep,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, in his bed every single night, cuddled up.

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<v Speaker 2>But almost every night, without fail, he'd think I was

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<v Speaker 2>asleep and he'd slip out and he'd be gone for

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<v Speaker 2>hours in the middle of the night and come back

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<v Speaker 2>in the early hours of the morning, and there'd be

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<v Speaker 2>new things in the house. There'd be new TVs, bikes

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<v Speaker 2>for us, There'd be all these this new stuff, and

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<v Speaker 2>then a week later it'd be gone again.

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<v Speaker 1>But as you're describing it, it seems more like a

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<v Speaker 1>petty criminal and than a bank robber. Did you read

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<v Speaker 1>did you research any of the bank jobs that he did?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's a few, and there's a few that I recall.

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<v Speaker 2>And one there's a Petersham This a hospital, not a bank,

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<v Speaker 2>but this is one big one, an armed robbery where

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<v Speaker 2>and I remember going there with Dad and he was

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<v Speaker 2>he got a job as a cleaner, and it was

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<v Speaker 2>only for about two weeks, and I wondered why, But

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<v Speaker 2>what he was doing was watching the watching the staff,

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<v Speaker 2>and obviously the payroll system in that day was all

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<v Speaker 2>done in cash. And then two weeks later he didn't

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<v Speaker 2>work there anymore. And then on the news I saw

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<v Speaker 2>that two armed men had taken the ten thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 2>payroll by a shotgun. And then we were off again moving. So,

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<v Speaker 2>even at that age, and I think I would have

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<v Speaker 2>been about six at that point, I started to put

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<v Speaker 2>two and two together. Probably my main in terms of banks.

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<v Speaker 2>It was probably really talking to Dad. He was he

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<v Speaker 2>actually didn't get caught, and he got caught for one,

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<v Speaker 2>but a lot of the bank the bank were robbery

0:19:55.680 --> 0:19:58.520
<v Speaker 2>crimes he didn't get caught for. But you know, there

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<v Speaker 2>was one later on in life, when we were traveling

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<v Speaker 2>across the wa which will get to that. He told

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<v Speaker 2>me about that, just a bank in Sydney where Dad's

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<v Speaker 2>job was to subdue this one guard who was meant

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<v Speaker 2>to be pretty tough and was going to be the

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<v Speaker 2>main problem. And as Dad tells me, he said, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I went in and I put a shotgun in his

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<v Speaker 2>face and told him to get down or I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to blow his head off. And he didn't move.

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<v Speaker 2>He just stood there looking at me. And then Dad said, okay, well,

0:20:28.600 --> 0:20:30.720
<v Speaker 2>the intel's right. He is going to be a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>So I said it again. Get on your bloody knees,

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<v Speaker 2>are I'm going to blow your head off? And again

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't move, And then Dad said, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>noticed something. His eyes just glazed over and he started

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<v Speaker 2>to piss himself. And I realized then that he'd gone

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<v Speaker 2>into this catatonic state of shock, and he wasn't, in

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<v Speaker 2>fact all that tough. He was scared, just like everybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you excuse that behavior though, where you're relating it

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<v Speaker 1>so matter of factly.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I can't. It looks I'm relating it as he

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<v Speaker 2>told me. But what I will say is on hearing

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<v Speaker 2>that that there was that moment and there was a

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<v Speaker 2>few others where that was really an indication to me

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<v Speaker 2>that I didn't want to be my father. I was

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<v Speaker 2>certainly not proud. And he had a little chuckle as

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<v Speaker 2>he told me that, thinking, you know, he wasn't so

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<v Speaker 2>tough after all, Pete, and on a little little hit

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<v Speaker 2>on the shoulder like he was proud of it. And

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<v Speaker 2>I actually felt shame and certainly some dread and sorrow

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<v Speaker 2>for the poor man who had to experience that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just one of those that are a romantic air

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<v Speaker 1>about the you know, the criminal bank robbin, like the

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<v Speaker 1>Butch Cassidy Sundown's kid. Yeah, is there something remotely romantic

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<v Speaker 1>about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Look? I don't find anything too romantic about the crimes

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<v Speaker 2>because I've seen on too many Asians the impact it

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<v Speaker 2>has on the victims, you know, And I think another

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<v Speaker 2>one that sticks in my mind was you know we

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<v Speaker 2>were and it's not a you know, there's no weapons involved.

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<v Speaker 2>But we were driving to the races one day in

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<v Speaker 2>a taxi and Dad was a bit of a punter.

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<v Speaker 2>When he'd stolen enough money that he could punt. We'd

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<v Speaker 2>be off to the races every weekend. And he had

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<v Speaker 2>this hot tip and he paid the taxi driver ten

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<v Speaker 2>bucks to get there as fast as he could, and

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<v Speaker 2>one of my sisters she vomited all over the back seat.

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<v Speaker 2>We just put up at the races and it was

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<v Speaker 2>only a couple of minutes to Dad's hot tip was

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<v Speaker 2>about to jump, so he had to get the bed on,

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<v Speaker 2>and the taxi drivers ranging and raving and wouldn't let

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<v Speaker 2>us go. So Dad asked us kids get out of

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<v Speaker 2>the back seat, walked around to the taxi driver's side,

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<v Speaker 2>knocked him out with one punch, and this poor man's

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<v Speaker 2>head was sitting on the horn as you'd seen a movie.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just that head on the steering wheel. And Dad

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<v Speaker 2>grabbed our hands and all right, off we go, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just just nonchalant, no impact on him. And I looked

0:23:05.840 --> 0:23:09.399
<v Speaker 2>back at that incident and again that was one of

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<v Speaker 2>those moments where I just felt complete sorrow, and I

0:23:12.359 --> 0:23:14.920
<v Speaker 2>didn't stop thinking about that for days. The poor man

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<v Speaker 2>with his head on the steering wheel. So there were

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<v Speaker 2>these incidents that were lining up that were really for me.

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<v Speaker 2>They were just kept telling me that I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>be something other than what my father was.

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<v Speaker 1>Peter Norris is my guest. Book is called The bank

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<v Speaker 1>Robber's Boy. It's really interesting reading, to be quite honest.

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<v Speaker 1>A bit more about that when we get back back shortly.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to conversations now if you've just tuned in,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a fascinating discussion with a gentleman called Peter Norris. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Peter's done really well in life. He manages a big

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<v Speaker 1>facility of a corower, but his early days were beset

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<v Speaker 1>by his association with his dad and love of his dad,

0:23:55.280 --> 0:23:58.200
<v Speaker 1>who was a hardened criminal in and out of his life,

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<v Speaker 1>in and out of jail. You're talking about the dad

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<v Speaker 1>racing to the to the race course to get a

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<v Speaker 1>bet on. You seem to spend a lot of time

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<v Speaker 1>as kids at race courses. Was he was he a

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<v Speaker 1>professional gambler or was he? Was he a good punter

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<v Speaker 1>or not?

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<v Speaker 2>I think he considered himself a good punter, but I

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<v Speaker 2>can tell you now that there are more times at

0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:23.040
<v Speaker 2>the at the end of the races that he was

0:24:23.040 --> 0:24:26.120
<v Speaker 2>in a bad mood than in a good mood. And

0:24:26.160 --> 0:24:28.640
<v Speaker 2>we knew, we knew if he had a bad night,

0:24:28.880 --> 0:24:34.040
<v Speaker 2>it was yeah, there weren't many words spoken. But on

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<v Speaker 2>the other side, if he had a good night, we

0:24:35.800 --> 0:24:37.920
<v Speaker 2>were off and we were getting ice cream, and life

0:24:38.000 --> 0:24:43.120
<v Speaker 2>was pretty good for everybody. So yeah, I would say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>not a particularly good punter, despite him being there every

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<v Speaker 2>single weekend, almost you.

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<v Speaker 1>Showed some entrepreneurial and now said, those races, as you

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<v Speaker 1>account in the book, being able to you know, guy's

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<v Speaker 1>beer and sell it on for whatever, twenty cents a glass,

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<v Speaker 1>and pinching buckets of ice cream to sell them. Surely

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<v Speaker 1>you got it. Surely you got caught doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, look I did. And I think I suppose this

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:14.480
<v Speaker 2>goes to the fact that you do become a bit

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<v Speaker 2>of a productive environment. You know. So at that age,

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<v Speaker 2>I was still only about eight, between eight and nine,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, all I'd seen was Dad steal and

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<v Speaker 2>scheme and find ways to make money. And when when

0:25:29.400 --> 0:25:31.600
<v Speaker 2>we go to the races, it would be, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>race just before race one, and Dad would always say

0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:38.359
<v Speaker 2>see you later. We'll meet back here after the last race.

0:25:38.400 --> 0:25:41.320
<v Speaker 2>So we had hours and hours and hours to myself

0:25:41.359 --> 0:25:44.199
<v Speaker 2>to entertain myself. And yeah, so I come up with

0:25:44.200 --> 0:25:49.040
<v Speaker 2>some schemes to make some money myself, just you know,

0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:52.640
<v Speaker 2>I thought that would make Dad pretty proud. So one

0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:56.240
<v Speaker 2>particular one was as the most of the men would

0:25:56.359 --> 0:25:58.960
<v Speaker 2>would race to the track, race to the track to

0:25:59.000 --> 0:26:01.520
<v Speaker 2>watch the race, I'd have that sort of five minute

0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:03.919
<v Speaker 2>jingle that would let you know that the race was coming,

0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:06.760
<v Speaker 2>and they'd all race off and they'd leave their beers

0:26:06.800 --> 0:26:10.040
<v Speaker 2>at the bar back in those days, so I would

0:26:10.040 --> 0:26:12.679
<v Speaker 2>at that point go and collect all the half beers,

0:26:12.680 --> 0:26:16.480
<v Speaker 2>all the dregs, and put them all into one plastic

0:26:16.520 --> 0:26:20.760
<v Speaker 2>cup so and then resell them. As the guys come up,

0:26:20.760 --> 0:26:23.879
<v Speaker 2>I'd find a different space and sell them for twenty

0:26:23.880 --> 0:26:27.239
<v Speaker 2>cents each. And quite often the men obviously knew what

0:26:27.320 --> 0:26:29.760
<v Speaker 2>was going on, but they'd have a chuckle and throw

0:26:29.840 --> 0:26:32.719
<v Speaker 2>me fifty cents or a dollar note and say adio,

0:26:33.080 --> 0:26:36.280
<v Speaker 2>goot on your kid, and yeah, and I would get caught,

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:39.520
<v Speaker 2>and you know, someone, some official from the track would

0:26:39.520 --> 0:26:43.080
<v Speaker 2>come along and boot me along. But being a kid,

0:26:43.640 --> 0:26:45.399
<v Speaker 2>it was never in any real trouble, So I'd just

0:26:45.440 --> 0:26:48.200
<v Speaker 2>set the same thing up somewhere else and that process

0:26:48.359 --> 0:26:51.600
<v Speaker 2>just repeated. So but I'd give Dad that money at

0:26:51.640 --> 0:26:53.679
<v Speaker 2>the end of the night, and you know, in the

0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:57.080
<v Speaker 2>hope that that would help us as a family when

0:26:57.119 --> 0:27:00.000
<v Speaker 2>things weren't good. We were we were going to Smith's

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 2>family in Salvation Army for clothes and food and things.

0:27:02.760 --> 0:27:05.879
<v Speaker 2>So I suppose I felt like I was I was

0:27:05.880 --> 0:27:06.800
<v Speaker 2>helping us out.

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 1>But you ended up in Red Cross homes and yeah,

0:27:11.840 --> 0:27:15.640
<v Speaker 1>other facilities like you're talking about. You don't go into

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:20.919
<v Speaker 1>much detail about your time at Baltara, and you've settled

0:27:21.400 --> 0:27:26.720
<v Speaker 1>a case against the Yeah, I'm going to using the

0:27:26.760 --> 0:27:30.479
<v Speaker 1>word atrocity, settle a case against the way you were

0:27:30.480 --> 0:27:33.639
<v Speaker 1>treated against that institution because of the way you were

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:36.200
<v Speaker 1>treated there. Can you tell us about that?

0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we did. We as a family, we made our

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:44.720
<v Speaker 2>way to Shepherd and actually Dad was on the run again,

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:47.080
<v Speaker 2>and at this stage I was I was eleven years

0:27:47.080 --> 0:27:51.200
<v Speaker 2>old and we were staying in a Salvation Army restpirit

0:27:51.359 --> 0:27:57.360
<v Speaker 2>center and Dad got himself into a into a fistfight actually,

0:27:57.440 --> 0:28:00.640
<v Speaker 2>and with this really large man and I just remember him.

0:28:00.640 --> 0:28:04.320
<v Speaker 2>He's been this really large overweight man with tattoos all

0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:06.400
<v Speaker 2>over his body and his face in his neck, and

0:28:07.359 --> 0:28:09.679
<v Speaker 2>Dad wasn't doing particularly well in this fight, and this

0:28:09.760 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 2>large man had him in a had his hands around

0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 2>Dad's throat and sort of looked across at us and said,

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:19.600
<v Speaker 2>do you want your father to die today? It was

0:28:19.600 --> 0:28:22.399
<v Speaker 2>a pretty horrible experience as a kid. You know, we

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:25.920
<v Speaker 2>clearly someone tells you that, you think that's what's what's

0:28:25.960 --> 0:28:29.840
<v Speaker 2>going to happen. Anyway, there was an old an old

0:28:29.920 --> 0:28:33.080
<v Speaker 2>man who never spoke to anybody. He was in his

0:28:33.160 --> 0:28:35.800
<v Speaker 2>seventies and sat on this little stool and chained smoked

0:28:35.840 --> 0:28:40.800
<v Speaker 2>mental cigarettes and and from nowhere he picked up this

0:28:40.840 --> 0:28:42.840
<v Speaker 2>stool that he sat on and he smashed it across

0:28:42.840 --> 0:28:46.680
<v Speaker 2>the back of this this big this big man's head. Anyway,

0:28:47.000 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 2>as he recovered from being unconscious, this man got up

0:28:50.360 --> 0:28:52.480
<v Speaker 2>and he looked across all of us and he said,

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:55.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm coming to get all of you tonight, and I'm

0:28:55.360 --> 0:28:59.000
<v Speaker 2>going to murder the whole family. And so yeah, and

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:03.080
<v Speaker 2>strange that have circumstances. That night, we're all kind of

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:05.200
<v Speaker 2>huddled up in one room and Dad told us everything

0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:08.760
<v Speaker 2>was going to be okay. And eventually drifted off to sleep,

0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:12.200
<v Speaker 2>and two we heard sort of a lard bang down

0:29:12.240 --> 0:29:15.760
<v Speaker 2>stare and their front door was being kicked in, And

0:29:15.800 --> 0:29:17.760
<v Speaker 2>of course, as a child, I thought this man was

0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:21.360
<v Speaker 2>coming to deliver his promise, but as it turned out,

0:29:21.400 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 2>it was a crew of detectives who, yeah, pretty much

0:29:24.680 --> 0:29:26.680
<v Speaker 2>by the time I realized what was happening, Dad was

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:30.400
<v Speaker 2>pinned on the ground and as he promised through all

0:29:30.440 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 2>of his all of our time together, he was you know,

0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:35.680
<v Speaker 2>just looked at me and said, I love you, Pete,

0:29:35.680 --> 0:29:38.520
<v Speaker 2>and I'll be back to get you as soon as

0:29:38.520 --> 0:29:42.520
<v Speaker 2>I can. And from that point, you know, Dad was

0:29:42.560 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 2>sent to jail, and yeah, my sister Kelly and I

0:29:45.720 --> 0:29:48.960
<v Speaker 2>were both made wards of the state for those that, yeah,

0:29:48.960 --> 0:29:52.720
<v Speaker 2>that don't know, So the Victorian government became our legal guardian.

0:29:52.800 --> 0:29:56.000
<v Speaker 2>And I know a lot of people wins about government

0:29:56.040 --> 0:29:59.000
<v Speaker 2>decisions these days, but I can tell you that they

0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:01.240
<v Speaker 2>don't do a good job being your parent either. So

0:30:01.800 --> 0:30:06.160
<v Speaker 2>it wasn't a great experience. The first decision they made

0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 2>on my behalf and my sister Kelly's behalf was as

0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:16.000
<v Speaker 2>an abandoned child, they couldn't find anywhere anywhere for us

0:30:16.040 --> 0:30:18.960
<v Speaker 2>to live, so they made the decision for me to

0:30:19.360 --> 0:30:24.080
<v Speaker 2>go to Baltara, which is a youth detention center with

0:30:24.280 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 2>children up to the age of sixteen who had committed

0:30:28.680 --> 0:30:31.440
<v Speaker 2>most of who had committed criminal acts. So you know,

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:35.400
<v Speaker 2>a kids jail, which is I'm told I was told

0:30:35.480 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 2>last year at my hearing that that's just the way

0:30:37.640 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 2>things were done. I suppose My response to that is,

0:30:40.280 --> 0:30:42.680
<v Speaker 2>when was it ever okay to put an abandoned child

0:30:42.720 --> 0:30:44.080
<v Speaker 2>into a prison?

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:45.600
<v Speaker 1>What happened there?

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:51.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, look, it was a horrible four months, Graham, And

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:54.520
<v Speaker 2>I suppose it's come out recently that you know, some

0:30:54.600 --> 0:30:57.360
<v Speaker 2>of the crimes in there of a violence and of

0:30:57.400 --> 0:31:03.400
<v Speaker 2>a sexual nature, well, all things that happened one particular night.

0:31:05.600 --> 0:31:08.240
<v Speaker 2>And as people, as kids do and as adults do,

0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 2>I suppose, when they spend time in those institutions, you

0:31:11.080 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 2>become really angry. And I had no communication from anybody.

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:17.960
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't told where Dad was, I wasn't told where

0:31:17.960 --> 0:31:21.240
<v Speaker 2>my sisters were. I wasn't told how long I'd be

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 2>in there for, so as far as I was concerned,

0:31:23.840 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 2>that could have been forever. So I laid in bed

0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:30.600
<v Speaker 2>one night in a room of three small beds with

0:31:30.680 --> 0:31:34.000
<v Speaker 2>two other occupants, and I started crying. I was an

0:31:34.000 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 2>eleven year old who had just had enough, and one

0:31:39.240 --> 0:31:43.320
<v Speaker 2>of the guards who I was aware of, sort of

0:31:43.360 --> 0:31:45.520
<v Speaker 2>walked in. He had this big sort of red handlebar

0:31:45.640 --> 0:31:48.320
<v Speaker 2>mustache and this big belly that hung over his pants,

0:31:48.360 --> 0:31:51.760
<v Speaker 2>and I knew, is he come in the room? I

0:31:51.800 --> 0:31:53.760
<v Speaker 2>stopped crying and I just went, God, I hope he's

0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 2>not here for me. Unfortunately he was. He skull dragged

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 2>me out of that room, down the hallway and took

0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:08.120
<v Speaker 2>me into the showers, and yeah, and to be honest,

0:32:08.120 --> 0:32:10.360
<v Speaker 2>just beat the shit out of me until I pissed

0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:13.320
<v Speaker 2>myself as an eleven year old, and and drabbed me

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:15.480
<v Speaker 2>back to the bed, really just for the for the

0:32:15.520 --> 0:32:19.960
<v Speaker 2>crime of crying and annoying him that night. Look, and

0:32:20.000 --> 0:32:21.959
<v Speaker 2>that's probably not the worst that happened in there, but

0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:26.800
<v Speaker 2>that's one story that they had to face at a hearing. Yeah,

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 2>in twenty twenty four, so only last year.

0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>So you were successful in suing the government, I guess. Yeah,

0:32:34.640 --> 0:32:36.640
<v Speaker 1>how traumatic was that to go through it again?

0:32:38.600 --> 0:32:43.840
<v Speaker 2>It was? Yeah, it was a deeply traumatic experience. But

0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:49.720
<v Speaker 2>I think the probably the most traumatic part about that process, Cornsey,

0:32:49.920 --> 0:32:53.800
<v Speaker 2>was I was offered the opportunity to read an opening

0:32:53.800 --> 0:33:00.000
<v Speaker 2>statement at that hearing, and there was the state representatives there,

0:33:00.000 --> 0:33:05.320
<v Speaker 2>their legal team, and their insurers present, and I tabled

0:33:05.320 --> 0:33:09.600
<v Speaker 2>my opening statement, which I had spent weeks putting together,

0:33:10.440 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 2>put my heart and soul into, because there were a

0:33:12.400 --> 0:33:15.800
<v Speaker 2>few things that I needed to say, and I wasn't

0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 2>blaming anyone present, but my statement was asking them to

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:24.760
<v Speaker 2>evolve beyond their predecessors and do the right thing, certainly

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:30.640
<v Speaker 2>by myself and others like me. They came back into

0:33:30.720 --> 0:33:32.880
<v Speaker 2>the room where I was waiting and handed me back

0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:36.400
<v Speaker 2>my statement and advised me that they wouldn't permit me

0:33:36.440 --> 0:33:38.959
<v Speaker 2>to read that it was too hard for them to

0:33:39.000 --> 0:33:47.640
<v Speaker 2>hear and cited a workhoalth safety reason for their staff.

0:33:49.080 --> 0:33:51.280
<v Speaker 2>We're needing protect our team, so we're not going to

0:33:51.320 --> 0:33:55.440
<v Speaker 2>allow you to read that statement. And it was right

0:33:55.480 --> 0:33:58.640
<v Speaker 2>at that time that I knew that they're not here

0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:01.760
<v Speaker 2>to resolve that they don't care if you can't hear

0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:05.440
<v Speaker 2>that statement. You're really not here, yeah, to help you,

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:08.560
<v Speaker 2>just trying to make this a financial decision and hope

0:34:08.560 --> 0:34:09.280
<v Speaker 2>that I go away.

0:34:09.760 --> 0:34:12.760
<v Speaker 1>Peter Norris is my guest in and out of institutions,

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:16.399
<v Speaker 1>in and out of relationship with his dad. Does find

0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:20.880
<v Speaker 1>a loving foster family, and I was able to make

0:34:20.920 --> 0:34:23.920
<v Speaker 1>a success of his life after that. Back shortly, my

0:34:24.000 --> 0:34:27.040
<v Speaker 1>guest on conversations is Peter Norris. Peter's written a book

0:34:27.040 --> 0:34:30.520
<v Speaker 1>called The bank Robber's Boy, son of a bank robber,

0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:34.960
<v Speaker 1>like a hardened criminal in his three siblings, moved from

0:34:35.000 --> 0:34:39.120
<v Speaker 1>institution to institution. Has a happy ending because Peter does

0:34:39.160 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 1>make a success of his life. I don't know whether

0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:44.239
<v Speaker 1>we're going to have enough time to get through that completely.

0:34:45.000 --> 0:34:48.160
<v Speaker 1>You do find a loving foster family in the Dull Arts.

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:51.000
<v Speaker 1>So can you give us a brief overview of your

0:34:51.000 --> 0:34:51.520
<v Speaker 1>time there?

0:34:52.120 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I can, Cornsey, Yeah, what had happened. Dad

0:34:56.040 --> 0:34:58.880
<v Speaker 2>had been apprehended again. He'd sort of gone to jail

0:34:59.160 --> 0:35:01.400
<v Speaker 2>and he was extra I did to w way to

0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 2>face some charges back there, and I was given a

0:35:05.640 --> 0:35:09.200
<v Speaker 2>few weeks to live with my sister actually, and in

0:35:09.239 --> 0:35:12.959
<v Speaker 2>that time I started my own crime spree, breaking into

0:35:13.000 --> 0:35:17.560
<v Speaker 2>houses and faced court and was told by a judge

0:35:17.560 --> 0:35:21.279
<v Speaker 2>at that time that I was possibly not possibly, I

0:35:21.440 --> 0:35:23.720
<v Speaker 2>was at the worst thirteen year old criminal that he'd seen,

0:35:25.000 --> 0:35:26.839
<v Speaker 2>and I had some choices on my own to make

0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 2>for the rest of my life. And it was really

0:35:30.120 --> 0:35:34.359
<v Speaker 2>a department or social justice decision that I was sent

0:35:34.800 --> 0:35:36.960
<v Speaker 2>there to a family which are the Dullards, and it

0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:39.480
<v Speaker 2>was meant to be for three weeks, and they said,

0:35:39.719 --> 0:35:42.239
<v Speaker 2>you're out of control. Go and have three weeks with

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:44.520
<v Speaker 2>a foster family and see if you can pull yourself

0:35:44.560 --> 0:35:49.719
<v Speaker 2>together in that three weeks. I stole their car, I

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:54.640
<v Speaker 2>did all sorts of things to test them out. Yeah,

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:57.160
<v Speaker 2>but the beautiful family they are. At the end of

0:35:57.160 --> 0:36:00.919
<v Speaker 2>that three weeks, Yeah, they sat me down and said, Peter,

0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:03.600
<v Speaker 2>would you like to stay? We can see, we can

0:36:03.640 --> 0:36:06.919
<v Speaker 2>see there's a good person in there somewhere, and we'd

0:36:06.960 --> 0:36:09.560
<v Speaker 2>love you to go to school and start playing sport

0:36:09.760 --> 0:36:13.200
<v Speaker 2>and yeah, just starting to become a normal child with

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:16.000
<v Speaker 2>a routine. And yeah, I took them up on that offer.

0:36:16.280 --> 0:36:20.000
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, because my life certainly wouldn't be the same

0:36:20.040 --> 0:36:20.520
<v Speaker 2>without them.

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:24.200
<v Speaker 1>Just quickly, your dad does come back into your life briefly,

0:36:24.280 --> 0:36:26.680
<v Speaker 1>but only briefly. Tell us what happened to him in

0:36:26.719 --> 0:36:27.000
<v Speaker 1>the end.

0:36:28.200 --> 0:36:32.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had access over to my sister's house every

0:36:32.440 --> 0:36:35.680
<v Speaker 2>second weekend, and Dad as he done, you know, throughout

0:36:35.719 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 2>every year prior to that, whenever he was incarcerated he

0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:43.560
<v Speaker 2>escaped and come back to find me and kept his promise.

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:46.919
<v Speaker 2>And on one of those visits, he was hiding out

0:36:47.000 --> 0:36:50.719
<v Speaker 2>and i'd been to see him, and he sat me down,

0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:54.680
<v Speaker 2>and as we've done every other time, he said, radio, Pete,

0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:56.880
<v Speaker 2>grab your stuff, we're off again. I'm going to have

0:36:56.920 --> 0:36:58.759
<v Speaker 2>to get out of Shepherd. And it's a bit hot

0:36:58.800 --> 0:37:03.520
<v Speaker 2>here for me with family around. And he sat there

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:05.200
<v Speaker 2>and looked at me, and I didn't answer him, and

0:37:06.239 --> 0:37:10.360
<v Speaker 2>I think he knew straight away. And I was crying,

0:37:10.600 --> 0:37:15.160
<v Speaker 2>and again he was crying, so not unlike when I

0:37:15.160 --> 0:37:17.400
<v Speaker 2>was four years old, but this one was very different.

0:37:18.880 --> 0:37:21.600
<v Speaker 2>I looked at him and I said, Dad, I can't.

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:25.359
<v Speaker 2>I want a better life for myself. And I think

0:37:25.400 --> 0:37:30.239
<v Speaker 2>the important thing here for people listening is as much

0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 2>as I wanted to I loved Dad more than anything,

0:37:33.360 --> 0:37:35.319
<v Speaker 2>there was something in life that I wanted more, and

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:38.160
<v Speaker 2>that was to not become him. And I had to

0:37:38.160 --> 0:37:42.879
<v Speaker 2>make that decision at that time, otherwise inevitably I would

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:44.000
<v Speaker 2>have just become my father.

0:37:45.560 --> 0:37:48.080
<v Speaker 1>He died so young. How are you told? And how

0:37:48.120 --> 0:37:49.600
<v Speaker 1>did you know? Yeah?

0:37:49.840 --> 0:37:52.479
<v Speaker 2>Look, after that decision where I told Dad I wasn't

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:55.720
<v Speaker 2>going with him again, he picked his stuff up, really

0:37:55.760 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 2>didn't say another word, walked back out the door. That

0:37:59.719 --> 0:38:02.880
<v Speaker 2>was a last time that I saw him. He was

0:38:03.320 --> 0:38:06.239
<v Speaker 2>captured again. He was great at escaping, but he wasn't

0:38:06.280 --> 0:38:12.560
<v Speaker 2>great at staying staying free. He was always recaptured, returned

0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:19.359
<v Speaker 2>to Freeman or prison. And yeah, unbeknownst to me even

0:38:19.360 --> 0:38:22.719
<v Speaker 2>that that last visit I had, he was Yeah, he

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:28.280
<v Speaker 2>had had early onset Alzheimer's and was quite sick. And yeah,

0:38:28.320 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 2>so he died in prison as in his fifties, fifty six,

0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:36.400
<v Speaker 2>which was terribly sad. At the time, I'd received a

0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:40.880
<v Speaker 2>phone call from Community Services, I was still a state

0:38:40.880 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 2>board and was advised that that Dad had passed away. So, yeah,

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 2>pretty tough time as a as a teenager. After everything

0:38:50.080 --> 0:38:50.800
<v Speaker 2>we've been through.

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<v Speaker 1>You have reunited with you with your siblings, haven't you,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you've gone separate way?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it? Ye?

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<v Speaker 1>Just briefly us that before we rush through your closet

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<v Speaker 1>school experiences.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I have. Yeah, Look, we're not a particularly close family, Cornsey.

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<v Speaker 2>I think all of those life experience we all went

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<v Speaker 2>our separate ways. My brother David has followed Dad's footsteps.

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<v Speaker 2>He's spent a lot of time in jail and robbing

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<v Speaker 2>armor guard vans and doing all sorts of things. My

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<v Speaker 2>sister Kelly, who was also incarcerated in a girl So

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<v Speaker 2>she's facing her hearing this year actually, and I will

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<v Speaker 2>be by her side. Some of the horrific things that

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<v Speaker 2>happened to me and nothing compared to what happened to her,

0:39:37.440 --> 0:39:40.720
<v Speaker 2>the poor thing. So she's really just a gypsy floating

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<v Speaker 2>around wa.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you say hearing, she's suing the state.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, and she just hasn't recovered like I have.

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<v Speaker 2>The poor things. So yeah, she's two years older than

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<v Speaker 2>me and she's just hasn't settled in life at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, unfortunately.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and your other sister who was seriously injured

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<v Speaker 1>in a motorcycle accident when she was young, how did

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<v Speaker 1>life turn out for her?

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<v Speaker 2>Look? She Yeah, she married a really good man and

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<v Speaker 2>her life as has been really settled. And yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 2>quite quite successful in her own right, just with her

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<v Speaker 2>and her children. So yep, she's living in Queensland. But

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<v Speaker 2>they're also very supportive of the book and the story

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<v Speaker 2>is you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, Okay, did they have to read it first?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I've got them to give to read parts of

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<v Speaker 2>it and give me their parts of the story just

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure I had all the all the facts right.

0:40:37.520 --> 0:40:39.399
<v Speaker 2>But they've read it now and they're you know, they're

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<v Speaker 2>really proud of the story.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, so tell me how after. I mean, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>it's dull. The influence of the Dullah the Foster family

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<v Speaker 1>completely your education. You went on to tertiary education. You're

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<v Speaker 1>well qualified. Not only that you you do bodybuilding, you

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<v Speaker 1>do weightlifting, and give us a brief overview of that.

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<v Speaker 1>How and why?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think what I the experiences I had with

0:41:06.560 --> 0:41:09.880
<v Speaker 2>dad up until the age of thirteen, Krnsey taught me

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<v Speaker 2>two things. One was I didn't want to be him,

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<v Speaker 2>as I said, and I couldn't have any stronger feeling

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<v Speaker 2>than that at that age, which is quite remarkable given

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<v Speaker 2>how much I loved and respected and admired him. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't admire what he did, but he was a great dad.

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<v Speaker 2>He was protective and loving. But I just knew that

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to be him. So that was motivation

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<v Speaker 2>in certainly, you know, to move in the other direction.

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<v Speaker 2>But the other thing he taught me was that if

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to do something, don't do it half asked.

0:41:43.440 --> 0:41:47.239
<v Speaker 2>You just put everything into it, and there's sort of

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<v Speaker 2>people I think they use the words hyper focused or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever it is these days, and people look at me

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<v Speaker 2>and they just say, you know, I said I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to I'm just going to go and do some bodybuilding,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know I did it. In twenty twenty three,

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<v Speaker 2>Eagan placed second in a few categories. And oh, that's great,

0:42:04.680 --> 0:42:06.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, well done. I went. Well, it's not great

0:42:06.680 --> 0:42:09.359
<v Speaker 2>because I have to go back again now. So I

0:42:09.440 --> 0:42:12.120
<v Speaker 2>was there again in May twenty four and won six

0:42:12.160 --> 0:42:16.719
<v Speaker 2>gold medals. I've just got that drive just to want

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<v Speaker 2>to be really good at whatever I put my mind to.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, you know, and that's that's certainly some of

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<v Speaker 2>the dull Ard influence on me as well, just teaching

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<v Speaker 2>me to be a better person and to and to

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<v Speaker 2>giving life everything you've got, despite you know that that

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<v Speaker 2>some of those childhood experience is a good show. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't believe there is any excuse not to be a

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<v Speaker 2>good person.

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<v Speaker 1>And your professional qualifications tell us about those.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, I qualified from university just with a

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<v Speaker 2>Tourism and hospitality degree. And there I've like I like

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<v Speaker 2>I suppose I've done all through life, is I've just

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<v Speaker 2>put everything into every job that I've had, I've put

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<v Speaker 2>my head down and I've been a good person and

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<v Speaker 2>a good leader. And yeah, so now I'm CEO of

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<v Speaker 2>a multiman dollar hospitality organization with one hundred staff, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a foster care and myself and look after little

0:43:13.680 --> 0:43:19.040
<v Speaker 2>children on weekends when I can, and probably not unlike myself.

0:43:19.080 --> 0:43:22.799
<v Speaker 2>I find a bedtime story and a cuddle and a

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<v Speaker 2>safe roof over their head, you know, is often all

0:43:26.560 --> 0:43:30.680
<v Speaker 2>they need. And a wife and kids, yeah, separated, But

0:43:30.719 --> 0:43:35.840
<v Speaker 2>I've got two girls thirteen and nineteen, and I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>football coach, so Ozzie RULs football coach from my under

0:43:40.120 --> 0:43:45.080
<v Speaker 2>fourteen girls team with you might know Cornsy is it's challenging.

0:43:45.560 --> 0:43:48.040
<v Speaker 2>I can't talk to girls as like you would with

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<v Speaker 2>the under fourteen year old boys, so I have to

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<v Speaker 2>be a little bit calmer and speak to them a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit differently. But I'd love that role too.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great story, Peter, congratulations to the way you've

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<v Speaker 1>emerged from it. I mean, it's such a difficult childhood.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a real credit to yourself that you've been able

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<v Speaker 1>to get to where you are at the current time.

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<v Speaker 1>So a great yarn. As I said, you're only twelve

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<v Speaker 1>when I got to the epilogue, so there's probably another

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<v Speaker 1>book in there somewhere.

0:44:15.760 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 2>There's definitely some more stories in there.

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<v Speaker 1>All the best, mate, Thanks you, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>So much for your time, really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>The book is called The Bank Robber's Boy Peter Norris.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Big Sky publication. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>time