1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: I'll get a team. It's bloody Harps and Tiff talking 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: over the top of me. What's new? Just another day, 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: Just a Monday, Just a Monday, Doctor Mark Cohen, who 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,479 Speaker 1: was recently on the show, and you all went, oh god, 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: he's good, get him back. And of course we're not 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,319 Speaker 1: recording two episodes in one day. We're definitely not doing 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: that because that would be deceptive. Height tif. 8 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: He is good, though, isn't he? 9 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 1: He is good? What do you like about him? What 10 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: do you like about the good doc? While he's sitting 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: in the top left square on my. 12 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 3: Screen, I just like how different, you know, like down 13 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 3: to earth but smart and I don't know, there's just 14 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 3: such breadth to everything that he talks about. 15 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: He's not too fancy. He's like an academic ug boot. 16 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 1: You know, he's just comfortable, the academic ug boot. He's 17 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: like an academic ugboot. You can just slip into him. 18 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: It's just bloody comfy and he makes you feel warm. 19 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 2: You know. 20 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: He's familiar and a bit wooly. I'm not sure what 21 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: that last bit means. I'm not sure that last bit. 22 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: Good day, mate, welcome back to the show. 23 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: How are you I'm going to use that on my bio. 24 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 4: I've been called you can just the academic ug boot. 25 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 4: That's it. 26 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: You're welcome as long as you put a tiny little 27 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: asterisk with a ch next to it. Yeah yeah, yeah, 28 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: copyright mate. Last time you were here, I introed you 29 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 1: when we spoke about this kind of mission statement that's 30 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 1: on your website. I just repeat it, Ibridge advanced science 31 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: and ancient wisdom and offer simple, practical solutions that help you. 32 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: And there was five key things. One finder fun to 33 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: make sense of life. Three master your mind and body 34 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: for tame your toxic load. I'm interested in that, and 35 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: five live happy, healthy and long. So we've done the 36 00:01:56,640 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: first two, we're going to lean into the last three. 37 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: Number three is mastering your mind and body. And of course, 38 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: for those who didn't hear the first one, have a 39 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: listen and then come back to this or vice versa. 40 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: But the doc is not only a medical doctor, but 41 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: he's also got a PhD in Chinese medicine and engineering 42 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: electrical and computer systems engineering, So you know, it's a 43 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: little bit other than that fuck all though, I mean 44 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: really other than that. 45 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 4: Nothing. He's a dumb ass, but look, he comes cheap, 46 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 4: so here he is. 47 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: So let's talk about See no one else says that 48 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: to you on a podcast. Bro, Let's talk about number three, 49 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: which is mastering your mind and body. When I saw mastering, 50 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, he's mastering a good goal or is perhaps 51 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: coexisting harmoniously with my mind a better goal or a 52 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: better I don't know. 53 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 4: Can we master our mind? 54 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: I think we can absolutely, All right, let's go. I'm 55 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 2: pack it well. I think the mind is a great 56 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 2: servant but a terrible master. 57 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 3: When your mind masters you, then you know, you end 58 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 3: up with mental health issues because you can second guess yourself, 59 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 3: you overthink. So I think you need to master your 60 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 3: mind rather than having your mind control your life. 61 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 2: And the same with your body. You need to be 62 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: the master of your body. 63 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 3: And and whether it's how you move or what you eat, 64 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: or the joy that you get from your body is 65 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 3: it's one of the great you know, the great things 66 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 3: we do in while we're alive is we have this 67 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 3: body and we live. 68 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 2: In the world. 69 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: So I think we do need to master our mind 70 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 3: and body. And not that we have a mind. We 71 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 3: are not our mind. You know, we have a body. 72 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 3: We are not our body. So it gives you this 73 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 3: meta level to live through. 74 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, this which my listeners hate me talking about metacognition 75 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: and that better awareness and met it. My PhD is 76 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: met a perception. Trying to understand how others see you 77 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: all that. That's like the funny thing about trying to 78 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: master your mind is you've kind of got to understand 79 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: your mind to master it. And then how do you 80 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: understand your mind when the tool that you're analyzing your 81 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: mind with is your mind? You know, it's a mind fuck. 82 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: It's like you're trying to the thing you're trying to understand. 83 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: You're looking at with the thing that you're trying to understand. 84 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 3: So so my approach to that is trying to turn 85 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 3: your mind off. And one of the things to both 86 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 3: master your mind and body is, and I'll get a 87 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 3: bit esoteric and spiritual here, is to really get into 88 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 3: stillness by turning your mind off and actively doing nothing. 89 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 3: And you might you might think you're doing nothing. People 90 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 3: what do you do on the weekend? And I did 91 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 3: nothing out the couch watching Netflix. But doing nothing is 92 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 3: actually a spiritual dat of it. And you might think 93 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 3: you're doing nothing, but there's always less you can do. Wow, 94 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 3: if you look at these ancient practices. I mean the 95 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 3: practice of yoga was I mean yoga physical arsenal, you know, 96 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 3: yoga postures was really to get a comfortable seat so 97 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 3: then you could meditate. And when you meditate, the aim 98 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 3: of meditation is to turn your mind off, so you're 99 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 3: actually not thinking. It's from that position of not thinking 100 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 3: and not and being comfortable still that you get the 101 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 3: greatest movement and activity. And that's also in a lot 102 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 3: of Eastern philosophies, whether it's martial arts, but also in 103 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 3: juggling in ballet, you get the greatest movement from the 104 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 3: stillest point. So your physical center of gravity is just 105 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 3: below your navel. 106 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: They call it the dunti. 107 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 3: En naval and the pubic bone. And that's the point 108 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 3: where if you shove a spear through someone, they'll spin 109 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 3: or if you know, that's the point where a ballerina 110 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 3: will get held up, or an acrobat will spin around, 111 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: or a juggling point still so they can juggle all 112 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 3: the things in the air. That's the point where a 113 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 3: martial artist will move from to kick and punch and 114 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 3: be active. So have the greatest still point. It gives 115 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 3: you the ability to have the greatest resilience and the 116 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 3: greatest flexibility of movement. So cultivating a still point, and 117 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 3: that's both in mind and body, that gives you that 118 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 3: meta cognition, that meta analysis. 119 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 2: Of you know, when I'm in movement, where where am 120 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 2: I moving from? You know? Who are you when you're 121 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 2: totally still? 122 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 3: And there's a lot of ways to get to that 123 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 3: still point, and I find that the best way to 124 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 3: get to the still point is actually through activity and 125 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 3: then come back to stillness. And again, I mean yoga 126 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 3: is a great example where you'll do a yoga class 127 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 3: and you'll stretch one way, you'll stretch the other way, 128 00:06:58,240 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 3: and then at the end of the class you'll do 129 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 3: a a shavasena, the relaxation, the corpse pose, and you 130 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 3: can go into really deep stillness because you've exercised. If 131 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 3: you just went to the start of the class and 132 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: did that corpse pose and tried to still, you wouldn't 133 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 3: get that same stillness. So it's by having getting that 134 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 3: activity out of the way and go into the extremes 135 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 3: of activity. 136 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: And again, and. 137 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 3: Yoga you've got to be you don't just stretch, you 138 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 3: go to the extreme point of that stretch to the 139 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 3: point where if you go a bit further you're going 140 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 3: to hurt yourself. You have to stop yourself and know 141 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 3: what is your limit, and that physical limit. 142 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 2: Then once you know the edge, then you can find 143 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 2: the middle. And that that works with physical exertion, works 144 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 2: with hot and cold. 145 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 3: You know, you go to a sword in a nice 146 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 3: ba if you get to the point where you're either 147 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 3: so hot or so cold, you. 148 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 2: Think, hey, you know, I need to get out. And 149 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: after you've done that, and I see. 150 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 3: A lot of practices don't talk about this, and I'm 151 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 3: one of the ones. I always emphasized you need to 152 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 3: rest afterwards after you've done cold, you know, and just 153 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 3: doing hot or just doing cold isn't as good as 154 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 3: doing both. So do hot and then cold, But then 155 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 3: you rest and because you've done the hot and cold, 156 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 3: your body can come back into homeostasis. You know, that's 157 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 3: a biological principle. Homeostasis is when you know you have 158 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 3: a constant internal environment where you can have stillness in 159 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 3: the midst of environmental activity and uncertainty. So cultivating that 160 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 3: helps you master your mind and body. And there's a 161 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 3: lot of ways you can master being still, but it's 162 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 3: really setting aside time to actively do nothing. And I 163 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 3: find so many people in the modern world, you know, 164 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 3: they're always doing something. And now we've got phones and 165 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 3: people just doom scroll on their phones. If the people 166 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 3: don't be bored. When I was a kid, you know, 167 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 3: in the sixties and seventies, you know, there were times 168 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 3: when we were just bored and we just had to 169 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 3: be with ourselves. 170 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 2: You know, looking up of the sky and watching the 171 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 2: clouds or whatever it was. 172 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 3: But cultivating that stillness is actually a really high level 173 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 3: of mastery, and that's confirmed in all my research into 174 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 3: ancient you know, meditation traditions and spiritual traditions and martial 175 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 3: arts traditions. Of cultivating that stillness gives you that mastery 176 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 3: of the both mind and body. 177 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 1: It's like being busy as a badge of honor these days, 178 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: you know, the busy badge. 179 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 4: How are you busy? What's going on? Busy? Everyone's busy. 180 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: It's like that's like scoring social branding points. And if 181 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: it's you don't want to say what are you up to? 182 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 4: Nothing? Because that's bad. You can't say nothing because that's 183 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 4: that's a negative. 184 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 3: Well, I like to you to do extremes. I like 185 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 3: to be I mean, I love to be busy. I 186 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 3: want to be fully engaged and use my whole capacity. 187 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 3: So you know, we talked I think last time we 188 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 3: talked about having a capacity that matches or having a 189 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:49,559 Speaker 3: challenge that matches your capacity that means you're actually trying 190 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 3: to deal with everything, but alternating that with being just 191 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,839 Speaker 3: totally in the moment and doing nothing. I think last 192 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 3: week also talked about what we're talking about, being preser 193 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 3: but also the future, hopping to be content but also 194 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 3: not happy, you know, trying to change things. And it's 195 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 3: this dialectic, this dilemma of being really busy at times 196 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 3: but also having other times when you can just absolutely 197 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 3: do nothing. And when I say doing nothing, there's not 198 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 3: just lying on the couch just you know, yeah, it's 199 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 3: like how little can you do? 200 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 2: And going into that. 201 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 3: And there are practices, whether it's breathing practices or doing 202 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 3: hot and cold or yoga, where you can actually reduce 203 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 3: your heart rate, you can reduce your respiratory rate, you 204 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 3: can turn off your monkey mind, so you can actually 205 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 3: really get into physiologically doing nothing as well as mentally 206 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 3: and in terms of activity. And that's actually a really 207 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,959 Speaker 3: deep practice and the more you can master that that, 208 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 3: the more you can actually do when you're busy, and 209 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 3: the more productive you're. 210 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 2: Going to be when you're busy. 211 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: A friend of mine told me years ago, Doc, maybe 212 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: twenty years ago, twenty five, Tiff, could you do me 213 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: a favor and find out when the Power of Now 214 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: came out? I think it was maybe mid to late 215 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: nineties to read the Power of Now by Kattail, which, 216 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 1: of course you know. And I remember I've read about 217 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: five to ten pages. I'm like, this is fucking mumbo jumbo. 218 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: This is such bullshit, pseudo whatever, spiritual psycho babble. And 219 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: I put it away and I came back to it 220 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: about five years later, I don't know, a significant time later, 221 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: and I just picked it up again because so many 222 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 1: people had said, oh it's incredible. 223 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 4: I'm like, I'll give it another go. And I started reading. 224 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, this is brilliant. How long 225 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 4: has this been around? 226 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: And it was funny, the same guy reading the same words. 227 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: But I was something had shifted in me and the 228 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: thing that didn't make any sense made all the sense. 229 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 4: So got an answer. 230 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 2: Tiff ninety ninety seven. 231 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: Ninety seven, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, so that's what's that twenty 232 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: seven years ago. But that idea, thank you, that idea 233 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: of like being the observer of your thoughts, like, you know, 234 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 1: the awareness of everything I'm not you know that I'm 235 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: like what what? Well, if I'm not my thoughts, who 236 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: is or what is the observer? Like what is the observer? 237 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: Where the fuck's he? 238 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 4: Or is it a he? Maybe it's not a he. 239 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 4: Maybe it's just awareness. 240 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 3: Well, you can't actually be totally in the moment and 241 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 3: be thinking. Thinking is in the past or the future. 242 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 3: I've got a I've spent thirty eight years writing my 243 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 3: first poem I ever wrote. It took thirty eight years 244 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 3: to rise, and a very dense poem about Chinese cosmology, 245 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 3: Western physics, thermodynamics, mindfulness. 246 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 2: And it's now a children's book called Bing and Bang Begin. 247 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 2: But there's a. 248 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 3: Lining there and it goes through nothing, everything, something, anything 249 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 3: and king and thinking. 250 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: There's a few lines here but says. 251 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 3: Thinking can never know, can actually never be in the now, 252 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 3: to just be in the moment. 253 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 2: Thinking doesn't know how over the past and the future. 254 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 3: Thinking has free reign, but the present is not part 255 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 3: of thinking's domain. Wow dilemma because when you're in the present, 256 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 3: you're not thinking. You're either in the moment or you're 257 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:29,319 Speaker 3: active at doing nothing. And it's when you're thinking, it's 258 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 3: either you're thinking about something that's happened or something that 259 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 3: will happen. And this is this dilemma we keep on 260 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 3: coming back to, where how can we be fully present 261 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 3: in the moment but still have ambitions for the future 262 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 3: and still be forward thinking? And I think are totally 263 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:50,319 Speaker 3: He really made ancient philosophy popular by bringing people back 264 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 3: into the moment because our society goes through this pendulum 265 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 3: swing of you, we have to be busy, we have 266 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 3: to be engaged, and that's that's how we rate ourselves 267 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:00,839 Speaker 3: of how busy are we have much money we're making, 268 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 3: how much activity? And what have we accomplished and not 269 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 3: realizing that by actively doing nothing and accomplishing nothing in 270 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 3: that moment is a great accomplishment. 271 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 1: M Yes, and back to just quickly met a cognition 272 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: is like starting to become aware of your own thoughts 273 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: and then getting curious about your thoughts. Why do I 274 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: think that, Why is that that thing happened? And my 275 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: story about the thing is this? Where did that story 276 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: about that thing come from and does that serve me 277 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: or sabotage me. 278 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 2: Well, that's when you start healing back the layers of 279 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 2: who you are. 280 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 3: One of the things actually that really changed the trajectory 281 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 3: of my life. 282 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 2: I was in thirty medicine ninety eighty four, I think 283 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 2: eighty four. 284 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 3: I was in thirty medicine and we had this lecture 285 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 3: on primal therapy, which is when you do a regression 286 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 3: back to birth and you realize all the you know, 287 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 3: the birth trauma that you have and for most people earth. 288 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 2: Is traumatic, but how that actually affects your life? 289 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 3: And I came up with a model then, and it 290 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 3: actually it was because of doing that that I did 291 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 3: an honest degree and that honestly we end up doing 292 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 3: Chinese medicine and that set of a whole trajectory. But 293 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 3: the idea that when we have situations we can't deal with, 294 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 3: especially as an infant or as a child, that sort 295 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 3: of ossifies part of our sort of closes a system, 296 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 3: and we do that to protect ourselves, but then that 297 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 3: closed system dominates our thinking for the rest of our 298 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 3: life unless we unpack it. And that's when when you 299 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 3: do this metacognition, you're saying why do I think that? 300 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 3: And then you go back to a past trauma or 301 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 3: a past event that actually set your. 302 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 2: Thinking in stone. 303 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 3: And when you can unpack that, you become more flexible 304 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 3: and it opens up unconscious. You can make unconscious processes 305 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 3: more conscious. That then gives you greater flexibility, because when 306 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 3: you're dominated by unconscious processes, you're rigid and you think 307 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 3: you don't have control. 308 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,119 Speaker 2: Over what's going on because it's not conscious. 309 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 3: So it's a process of I'm healing me young and 310 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 3: going back to why are you're thinking that, what happened 311 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 3: in my life that made me do that? 312 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 2: And unpacking that with patience. 313 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 3: Often you'll talk to patients about when did you stop 314 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 3: enjoying life or what traumas did you have, and then 315 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 3: you can analyze that and realize that traumatic event really 316 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 3: set the whole trajectory that ended up as a physical illness. 317 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really powerful. That metacognition is actually a really 318 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 2: powerful process. 319 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's very high. 320 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: Level self awareness, you know, self reflection, self awareness. 321 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 4: All right, So we're not going to get through all three, 322 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 4: but that's all right. 323 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: So last time we did find the fun and make 324 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: sense of life today we're going to do, which we're 325 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: just mastering your mind and body. 326 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 4: Let's talk about tame your toxic load. 327 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: So what do you referring to when you say, I'm 328 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 1: sure it's not one thing, but many things. 329 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 4: What is toxic load? 330 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 3: So we have exposed to so much toxicity in the word, 331 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 3: I mean our body makes toxins, I mean metabolic waste 332 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 3: products and they have to excrete. 333 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 2: So a lot of our. 334 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:20,719 Speaker 3: Organs, you know, liver and kidneys and sweat, and you know, 335 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 3: we excreete toxicity. But there's and I break everything to 336 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 3: five and we can talk about that another But there's 337 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 3: a lot of toxicity we're exposed to with different types 338 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 3: of toxicity. 339 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:33,119 Speaker 2: So that's a lot. 340 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:35,199 Speaker 3: There's a lot of chemical toxicity, and that's in our 341 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 3: air and our water and our food. 342 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:39,360 Speaker 2: You know, in our environment everywhere. 343 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 3: There's electromagnetic radiation, there's biological toxicity mold and all those 344 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 3: sort of things. There are different types of toxicity. Then 345 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 3: there's the dose, like how much do you get? And 346 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 3: in the last probably fifteen years, we've learnt a lot 347 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 3: about endocrine disruptors and how you can have very small doses. 348 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 2: Have very large effects. Live phalates yeah, thalates and. 349 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:07,360 Speaker 3: The whole range of endocondristuffs A pfas and all the 350 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 3: perfluorinated compounds, brominated compounds, and all the xeno estrogens. So 351 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 3: you know, very very small doses and even heavy metal 352 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 3: with mercury and things like that, a very small dose 353 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 3: on lead can have a very very big effect. The 354 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 3: type of toxicity, the dose, the timing of when you're exposed. 355 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 3: If you're exposed as an infant or a fetuses, has 356 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 3: much more long lasting effect than if you're exposed as 357 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 3: an adult. 358 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 2: Then you have the combination the cocktails. 359 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 3: Because they when they look at toxicity in the lads, 360 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 3: they look at one chemical at a time. They don't 361 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 3: look at the chemical cocktails that we're exposed to. And 362 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 3: everyone has a unique exposure history based on where you're 363 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 3: born and what you eat, and you know who you 364 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 3: are and the environment where you live, so. 365 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 2: That that mixture has an effect. And there's there's something 366 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 2: from nothing effect. We can get two chemicals. 367 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 3: And individually they don't do any any damage, but when 368 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 3: you put them together they actually do damage. 369 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 2: That's the something from nothing effect. And then finally there's 370 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,439 Speaker 2: luck and the luck of. 371 00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 3: Who are your parents, and what are your genetics and 372 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 3: where born and where do you live and where have 373 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:18,880 Speaker 3: you traveled in your life because there's environmental disasters and 374 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 3: you know, industrial accidents and even natural you know, toxic 375 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 3: from you know read it's radioactive elements in the well 376 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 3: in your water well or arsenic or whatever in the 377 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 3: natural environment and the industry that you're living around all 378 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 3: have into play into our toxic exposure. 379 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 2: So you know, it's the type, the dose, the. 380 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 3: Timing, the mixture and luck impact on our life. And 381 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,159 Speaker 3: that toxic load that we build up over our life 382 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 3: has a huge influence on what disease we're going to get, 383 00:19:55,840 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 3: how healthy we are, our capacity to enjoy life, and 384 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 3: how long we're going to live. And there's a lot 385 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 3: of things we can do to reduce those things through 386 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 3: being conscious of our choices of you know, what we're 387 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 3: going to eat. 388 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 2: And I've done research. 389 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 3: Two thousand and eight, I think we published a study 390 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 3: that showed just one week of eighty percent organic food 391 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 3: will reduce your pesticide load by ninety percent. 392 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 2: Wow. And that was allgano phosphate pesticides. 393 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 3: And that's again of phosphate pesticides with a newer they're neurotoxins, 394 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:34,199 Speaker 3: are based on nerve gas, but they replace the organo 395 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,399 Speaker 3: chlorine pesticides, which are that soluble they're really hard to 396 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 3: get rid of. But they're gano phosphate pesticides. They're more toxic, 397 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 3: but they're water soluble, so eventually you pee them out. 398 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 3: So if you stick put them in your body, after 399 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,439 Speaker 3: a week, ninety percent of them are gone. So that 400 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 3: so there are ukn eate choices to reduce your your 401 00:20:53,760 --> 00:21:00,199 Speaker 3: toxic load and enhance excretion, so you drinking good water 402 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 3: and sweating and using your body and having herbs that 403 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 3: will stimulate your liver and your kidneys to excrete things. 404 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 2: So there's a lot we can do to reduce that 405 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 2: toxic load. 406 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 3: And we talked about having those unconscious processes conscious and 407 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 3: then you actually get more flexibility in your life. 408 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 2: When you reduce the toxicity in your body and your. 409 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:29,679 Speaker 3: Toxic load, your physiological unconscious activity becomes more responsive, so 410 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 3: your mitochondria work better, you have more energy. You actually 411 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 3: you get more enjoyment from life, and your pain levels 412 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 3: go down, your disease levels go down, inflammation goes down. 413 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 3: So toxicity is a major influence and when I did 414 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 3: a deep dive, and I've got lectures on this, and 415 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 3: it's really depressing when you start researching it. It's really 416 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 3: like I got depressed for quite a few years because 417 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 3: I went I really researched all those different elements and 418 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,959 Speaker 3: you realize the ocean, I mean some fascinating stuff. So 419 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 3: there was one study they did on whale ear wax. 420 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 3: So apparently whales have ears and they don't clean them. 421 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 3: So after you know, whale came with eighty years and 422 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 3: they end up with these big long candle of wax 423 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:20,680 Speaker 3: in their ears. And that wax is like tree rings 424 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 3: because it gets laid down each year and waxes by substance. 425 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 3: So whatever's toxicity in the ocean, it gets laid down. 426 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,400 Speaker 3: So they can look at the history of the toxicity 427 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 3: of the oceans because whales travel over vast areas of ocean, 428 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 3: and they can see that the level of toxicity. And 429 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 3: what they notice is that a whale, just like a 430 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 3: human infant, will get a big dose of toxicity as 431 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 3: an infant when they're breastfeeding, because when you breastfeed, you're 432 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 3: actually getting the concentrated toxicity, if that's soluble toxicity from 433 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 3: your mother into the infant and then it continues. Then 434 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 3: you get exposed through the environment, and they show that 435 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 3: the oceans have become much more toxic over the last 436 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 3: eighty years, and this whale ear wax is one of 437 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 3: the measures they can actually look look at that. 438 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 4: That's buddy, that's incredible. 439 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 1: Well all right, what about what about it's going to 440 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: sound weird, but toxic people or toxic workplaces or like, 441 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 1: I feel like being around some people is bad for 442 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 1: your health, not not just mentally but also physically. 443 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 4: Absolutely. 444 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 3: I mean, there's that that's sort of truism in popular culture, 445 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 3: saying you are the average of the five people you 446 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 3: spend most time with. 447 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's true. 448 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,439 Speaker 3: You can actually if you're around toxic people, negative people, 449 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 3: and you know you know who they are in your life, 450 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 3: they actually have a huge impact on you. So surrounding 451 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 3: yourself by positive people, people who are on the same 452 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 3: wavelength of. 453 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 2: You, people that make you feel good. And again it's 454 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 2: my focus on focusing on fun. You want to be around. 455 00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,199 Speaker 3: People who you enjoy being around, who you laugh with, 456 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 3: you can learn with, you can share with, and who 457 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,159 Speaker 3: you don't have to put up a front and be 458 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 3: someone else with you, so you can be your totally 459 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 3: natural self. 460 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 2: And if you're a lot of people in their work 461 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 2: environments they can't be their natural self. 462 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, they have to put on a work suit and 463 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 3: I work face and be around toxic people and often 464 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 3: in toxic industries as well, doing jobs that they don't 465 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 3: it's not about their passion. It's just about getting a paycheck. 466 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 3: And even that's toxic. Just working in a dead end 467 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,400 Speaker 3: job or a job that's not aligned with who you are, 468 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,400 Speaker 3: that in itself is toxic and being around people who 469 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 3: are toxic to you. 470 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 2: Has an impact not just on. 471 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 3: Your enjoyments of life, but your physical health, your mental health, 472 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 3: and your longevity. 473 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. 474 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, And conversely, tiff dogs and cats of therapeutic, aren't 475 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: they They're healing. 476 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,400 Speaker 2: Because you don't have to have to be anyone else 477 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 2: with your dog. 478 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 3: You just be yourself and your dog will love you 479 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,640 Speaker 3: for who you are and the best And yeah, you. 480 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 2: Can ensure your dogs make you happy. 481 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,679 Speaker 3: And I mean there's all the touch and the you know, 482 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 3: the tactile sensation and that. 483 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 2: Positive regard that you get from the dog and the 484 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 2: fact that actually have to. 485 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 3: Look after them and be of service and being of 486 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 3: service is actually a great positive action in the world 487 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 3: because it gives you purpose. 488 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 2: So looking at for animals. 489 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 4: There one hundred percent. 490 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 1: I feel like just like being around some people is 491 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: literally I mean, there's there's been research showing that like 492 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 1: being around some people can suppress your immune system, like 493 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:49,360 Speaker 1: like yeah, because you know, and increase cortisol and adrenaline 494 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 1: and sympathetic nervous system action. 495 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 4: And all that stuff. What about. 496 00:25:55,119 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 1: Stimulants and booze and drugs in general, Like, what's your mean? 497 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 1: I know that's a very vast playing field and there's 498 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 1: a million different drugs, and what do you tell people? 499 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: Because we live in a culture that is pretty heavily 500 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: I was going to say, focused on, not focused on, 501 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 1: but connected to booze. Like we're coming up to Christmas 502 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: as we record this, there's going to be a lot 503 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:28,120 Speaker 1: of booze going on at most Christmas lunches and dinners. 504 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 3: DoD Civilization has been built on sugar, caffeine, alcohol, right, 505 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 3: they're the drink I mean, tobacco as well, and other things. 506 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 3: And if you look at the whole history of civilization, 507 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 3: it was all about the spice trade and getting drugs 508 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 3: and opium and tea, I mean tea and caffeine at 509 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 3: the whole East India Tea Company. It's all about tea 510 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 3: and it's all about drugs. Drugs are an essential part 511 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:58,400 Speaker 3: of who we are as humans. Yeah, but I think 512 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 3: the way that our culture has developedn't Isn't that actually healthy? 513 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,160 Speaker 3: And you look because and you look at that, I mean, 514 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 3: most people aren't healthy. We have the huge range of 515 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 3: chronic disease. Sixty percent of the population have chronic disease. 516 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 3: And you know, sugar, alcohol and caffeine drive society. 517 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 2: So we have a caffeine in the morning to hype 518 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 2: us up. 519 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 3: We have sugar to keep us active during the day, 520 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 3: and we have alcohol in the evening to calm us down. 521 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,879 Speaker 3: And when you have it like that, it's actually not 522 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 3: healthy at all. And I'm a big fan of me. 523 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,879 Speaker 3: And I'm not anti alcohol or you know, caffee. I 524 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 3: mean personally, I don't drink coffee. I just don't need 525 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:38,239 Speaker 3: the stimulation. I hype enough as it is. I had 526 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:43,160 Speaker 3: alcohol rarely, certainly, not every day, maybe once a week. 527 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 2: I have a drink. 528 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 3: But I'm certainly not against alcohol, but I'm not a 529 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 3: big proponent of it. 530 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 2: And sugar. I don't have refined sugar. 531 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,280 Speaker 3: In my life, but I love you know, I love 532 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 3: sweet things. But in Chinese medicine say you want to 533 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 3: balance sweet, salty, spicy, sour, and bitter, So how do 534 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 3: you balance those tastes in your life? And so having 535 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 3: sweets important, but you want to balance this. And most 536 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 3: people actually don't have enough bitter in their life. And 537 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 3: if you don't have enough bitter, you'll crave sweets. And 538 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 3: a lot of people get there bitter from coffee and chocolate, 539 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 3: not from herbs. 540 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 2: So a lot of people they think they love coffee, 541 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:21,679 Speaker 2: and I. 542 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 3: Mean they do love coffee and chocolate, and you do 543 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,640 Speaker 3: sweeten them, but they're actually craving the bitters. And if 544 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 3: you have enough bitter, you actually reduce your sweet craving. 545 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:35,120 Speaker 2: So there's some elements there. But coming into the holidays, yeah, 546 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 2: I mean, alcohol is a it's alcohol is directly toxic 547 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 2: to every organ in your body. As a medical. 548 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 3: Student, came up a mnemonic for alcoholic liver disease, and 549 00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 3: the moonic is basically the whole alphabet. Every letter of 550 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 3: the alphabet is one of the signs and symptoms of 551 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 3: alcoholic liver disease. So it's directly every organ in your body. 552 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 3: And that's not to say that you should never have it, 553 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 3: but to have a society that's based on it, like 554 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,719 Speaker 3: you know in Australia, like any local town has a 555 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 3: pub and maybe you know it's something else that the 556 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 3: pubs like the center of the of the town and 557 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 3: of our civilization has been built on this depressant, depressant, 558 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 3: and that's that's played out. 559 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 2: I'm used to. 560 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 3: I don't know the latest staff when I was in 561 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 3: working in the hospitals eased to say forty percent of 562 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 3: all hospital emission were alcohol related. 563 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 2: Wow, it might be more than that now and that 564 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 2: includes you know the pfos. 565 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 3: What they could use to do a PFO was piston 566 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 3: fell over, you know in the emergency department. That's a 567 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 3: PFO piston fell over on a Saturday night. But you know, 568 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 3: whether it's some car accidents, alcoholic liver disease, obesity and 569 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 3: all the all the sequeally of alcohol is really dominating 570 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 3: our health system. So alcohol can be it can be great, 571 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 3: but it's not something to have to overdo. 572 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 2: But but it's part of our culture. 573 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 3: I mean, as a doctor, I still do a little 574 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 3: bit about doing that three hours a week in medical practice, 575 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 3: and I prescribe medical cannabis and that can be again everybody, 576 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 3: but can be a game change to the people, certainly 577 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 3: for sleep and inflammation and pain, and there are certain 578 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 3: conditions that it can be grateful gettings off for everybody. 579 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 2: But I'm not against drugs, but I do think there's 580 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 2: a you need to use them very consciously and not 581 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 2: as a habit, as a. 582 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 3: Habit if you're if you're habitually using stimulants or depressants, 583 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 3: then you're really good. 584 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 2: A question, you know, how do I have? Who am I? 585 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 3: And how can I find stillness and happiness without that? 586 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 3: If you depend on drugs for your your mental health 587 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 3: and well being, then you actually in trouble. 588 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 1: So if it's just dount of interest, because I've never 589 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: had any drugs and I've never been drunk, so I'm 590 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: the world's most boring man. 591 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never. 592 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 2: Go through life and I've been dragon. That's that's no. 593 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: I've never had a glass of never been drunk, never 594 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 1: been high. So CB D oil is that's am I 595 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 1: right saying that's the non psychoactive THHC is the psychoactive 596 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 1: bit and CB So cb D oil doesn't get you high. 597 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 4: What is it is? It mainly for inflammation reduction, or. 598 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 2: It's for lots of things. 599 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 3: You can think of it as like really good fish oil, 600 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 3: Like it's an oil that I mean, you have an 601 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 3: endocannabinoid system in your body and see the oil matches that, 602 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 3: so we actually have a system in our body that 603 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 3: is receptive to that. So it can help with inflammation, 604 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 3: it helps with mood stabilization, it. 605 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 2: Can help, it helps with so many things. Again, it's 606 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 2: not for everybody. But it doesn't get you high. You 607 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 2: won't you don't get stoned off CBB right. 608 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 3: And it's funny because in Australia and I just got 609 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 3: back from Europe, and in Europe and England and in 610 00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 3: Americas and three times in America this year, you can 611 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 3: buye over the counter and there's all these health products 612 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,719 Speaker 3: and supplements and even topical skincare that have CBD in it. 613 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 2: In Australia it's only on prescription, so as. 614 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 3: A doctor prescribe it, but you can't go to the 615 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 3: health is stored by CBD products, whereas you can in 616 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 3: a lot of the world. 617 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 2: So it's really funny how drugs are regulated in. 618 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 3: Different societies and how those societies adapt to that. But 619 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,719 Speaker 3: you can go to any bottle shop and buy as 620 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 3: much alcohol as you want, which alcohol is psychoactive. You 621 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 3: know you being drunk is a psychoactive state. So yeah, 622 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 3: so CBD is there's always no downsides to it. You 623 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 3: can't overdose, it doesn't have serious side effects, it doesn't 624 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 3: really interact with other drugs, and it can have a 625 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 3: great benefit. But it's restricted in terms of you need 626 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 3: a doctor to prescribe, and there are different doses, and 627 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 3: there's different formats and now there's you know you can 628 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 3: there's inhalers, there's vabes, there's oils, there's gummies, there's all 629 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 3: these different dosage forms. 630 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,480 Speaker 2: There's topical patches and things, and. 631 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 3: It can be a game changer for a lot of people, 632 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 3: but the bureaucracy makes it hard to access at the moment. 633 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 4: So weird, so so weird. 634 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: I'd love to do I'd love to do a show 635 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 1: one day where we talk about all the the drugs 636 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 1: or substances or treatments that you think should be legal 637 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 1: that aren't and why Anyway, Hey mate, it's always good 638 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 1: chatting to you. I appreciate you. Tell people how to 639 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: find you and follow you and connect with you if 640 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,160 Speaker 1: if you're interested. 641 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I have a website doctor mark dot com, 642 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,000 Speaker 3: Dr M A r C dot Co. 643 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 2: I'm actually a little bit on Facebook and LinkedIn. 644 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 3: I have a company, Extremely Alive, which makes probiotic kombucha, 645 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 3: vinigar and herbs and Manuka honey. And one of the 646 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 3: things I do with my products, like I have all 647 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 3: these products, but I actually teach people to make themselves. 648 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 3: And maybe we can talk about that another time where 649 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,239 Speaker 3: you where you know. I love making really high quality products, 650 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 3: but I don't want to have them every exclusive. As 651 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 3: you know, there's a lot of wellness very inaccessible to people. 652 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,360 Speaker 3: So I'll always have a product, right, I'll teach you 653 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 3: how to make it yourself at home for free. 654 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:27,080 Speaker 2: Wow. Fan of empowering to their own. 655 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 4: Horrible business man. Yeah, well again, I'm kidding. I'm only kidding. 656 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not. I've never been focused on business. 657 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 3: I mean I I do businesses because I have a 658 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,560 Speaker 3: water filtered business because I just wanted people to have 659 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 3: good water. And I created this kombuchi company, Easha Vinegars 660 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 3: because I wanted to make the world's best drink for myself. 661 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 3: And I had a friend who had an incredible kombuci 662 00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 3: company that I did research on and showed we did 663 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 3: the first ever clinical trial of kombucha. 664 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,880 Speaker 2: Wow, so extremely A live is our is our brand 665 00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 2: where we've just started off. 666 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 3: We've just created ox Wolves, which are kimbucha, vinegar, honey, 667 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:07,919 Speaker 3: manuka honey and herbs and we've just launched them. But again, 668 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 3: we'll teach people to make it themselves. This is an 669 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 3: ancient medicine. It's it's not difficult, but a lot of 670 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 3: that knowledge has been lost. So I'm about empowering people 671 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 3: to do good stuff. So yeah, find me on my 672 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 3: website reach out. I'm happy to converse with people. 673 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 2: There. 674 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 1: Will say goodbye here, but as always, mate, brilliant, thank 675 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 1: you so much, appreciate your time, my pleasure. 676 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:32,280 Speaker 2: Great thanks