1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: My kids were craving cereals, so I decided to make 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: it from scratch. 3 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 2: You know you wanted cereal, Well, too bad, buddy, you 4 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 2: got to wait seven hours. 5 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can have it for dinner. Hey, welcome back 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 3: to Just for Girls. 7 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: It's actually Monday, so you're literally hearing this less than 8 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: twenty four hours. 9 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: It's out time, guys. 10 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, we recorded last week, but the microphone wasn't actually working, 11 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: So we're back again to do another episode, just for girls, 12 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: Just for girls, just for the girls, the girls. 13 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: So what did you get up to this weekend? Sam? 14 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: This weekend, I actually last minute decided to go down 15 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: to Sorrento with a few friends on like Friday night. 16 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: Like we drove down at like nine pm at night, 17 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 1: which was very last wenight. Yeah, like we were all 18 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: out for dinner and then we're like fuck it, like 19 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: we're gonna go on Saturday. 20 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 2: You out for dinner and you're like, fuck it, let's 21 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 2: just drye to surround. 22 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: Though, yeah, because we're like we're gonna go down on Saturday. 23 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: But we're like, what are we doing tonight? Like, let's 24 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: all just go down tonight. So we all just like 25 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: drove played music and drove down spent the weekend Insurento. 26 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 3: It was so quiet. It was nice down there. 27 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: It's weird, it's eerie, but very comforting. I feel down 28 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: there even when it's really quiet. 29 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:07,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, went to the pub, went to the bath house, 30 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: like very chill in a bath house, like a raw 31 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: bath house. It's like the nine step thing what we 32 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 1: did with conserving beauty. 33 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and we did that. 34 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: It was really nice, and then just drove back Sunday awesome. Yeah, 35 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: Like I'm not really into the drinking at the moment, 36 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: Like I'm not loving it. 37 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 3: My anxiety is really bad. 38 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: So I was like, it's kind of a weekend that 39 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 1: I don't need to go out and do anything when 40 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 1: it's cold as well. I don't like getting pissed. Fair enough, 41 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 1: give me the sun. I'll fucking get my up. 42 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 2: It's honest. Cool. Yeah, so I just don't want to 43 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 2: be there. Yeah, I like don't want to be there. Yeah, 44 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 2: what did you do? Had a relatively chill weekend? I 45 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: kind of work up. Well this was yeah last week 46 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: and I just feel so out of routine. I think 47 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: it is because obviously I have had surgery and I 48 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: haven't been able to do anything for two weeks, so 49 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: I've pretty well been sitting on my ass because that's 50 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 2: like my only option. And now I'm just feeling really 51 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 2: really out of routine, which is fine, you know, and 52 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 2: I'll get back into a routine at some point, but 53 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 2: you know, this week and I'm trying to start walking 54 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 2: again because I can finally exercise again, and I'm like, 55 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 2: we've actually booked, Barie, Guys, we've booked we're going to Bali. 56 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 2: So we're going in less than a month, going in 57 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 2: like three weeks. That's crazy, so good, Yeah, try and 58 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 2: keep us in Melbourne, guys, yeah, literally do it. 59 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 3: But I haven't been in Melbourne. 60 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: I think I've said it on the podcast, but I 61 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: haven't been in Melbourne for longer than a month. 62 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: That's wild. 63 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: Every month this year I've been on a plane going somewhere. 64 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 2: That's crazy. 65 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,839 Speaker 3: Yeah. So yeah, almost you too, though. 66 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think that's why I'm really struggling to 67 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 2: find my routine again. I constantly feel either really tired 68 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: or really out of it, and like, you know, it's 69 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: a weird feeling. Like even this morning, I woke up 70 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 2: and I just feel something and it's freaking me out. 71 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: But I'm like, that's okay. Not every day is going 72 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 2: to be the best say in the world. You know, 73 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 2: I'll slowly get back into it and then I'll be 74 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 2: on a plane again. 75 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: So yeah, we'll like Barley's going to be the best 76 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: reason except for us. 77 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, no, it's not like. 78 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: I my dream. So what I need and what I 79 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 2: want is I want to wake up. I want to 80 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 2: go get some yummy food and a matcher, and then 81 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 2: I just want to bathe in the sun and read 82 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 2: my books. 83 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: I think I'm going to bring your books over and 84 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: I'm going to read them over there, okay, because you like, 85 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: don't shut up about them, so I'll like pack them 86 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: in my book. 87 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. I've just started reading The Throne of Glass, which 88 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 2: is the same author, new series, probably more well known series. 89 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 2: It's incredible, finished book one on the book to I 90 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 2: just I'm really empowering through these wos. So read and 91 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: then I want to, you know, start getting ready as 92 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: the sun goes down, get all pretty, have my shower, 93 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,119 Speaker 2: look at my tan lines. And then I've been going 94 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: ham on the shopping for it. Really see, I'm not 95 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: there yet. 96 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 3: I'm like, I want to be prepared. I want to 97 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 3: have the hot bikinis. I put some babies. 98 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 2: Anymore, Yeah, can give them to me, I can. But 99 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 2: then I want to maybe have a couple of drinks 100 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: in US. Some nights we can just chill and vege 101 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 2: and do nothing. Sometimes do that, oh well, like even 102 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 2: like I love. 103 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: My favorite time in Bali is like five thirty on 104 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: the bean bags on the beach with a fucking drinking 105 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: hand with a fucking corn and watching everyone people watching 106 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 1: there is great. I love surfing there too, so I 107 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: reckon I go surfing there a little bit. 108 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love. 109 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 2: I love to surfing and Bali. 110 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: I love getting like the longboards and just like frolicking 111 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: around in it's so much. 112 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,799 Speaker 2: I'm there to read yees, vege. 113 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it'll be keen. 114 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: And we know a few people going over there at 115 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: that time, so the night life will be good, just keen. 116 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: I love actually using holiday as a holiday, yes, yeah, 117 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 2: you know, because it's incredible. The American trip was it 118 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 2: was a bit of work too, so it was a 119 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 2: lot of work. Yeah, yeah, but that's okay. But so 120 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 2: I'm excited to just literally veg and get tanned. I'm 121 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 2: supper being pale. 122 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, God, my confidence goes down like two points when 123 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: I'm pale, maybe three. 124 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 2: Bigger Yeah, not you. 125 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 3: No, it's weird. 126 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 2: It's such a weird people that are naturally beautifully pale, 127 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 2: and it like suits them so much. I'm incredibly envious 128 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 2: of them. 129 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think being pale suits me. 130 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because I also know what I look like 131 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: when I'm tanned, so it's like everyone looks better tan 132 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: completely wear sunscreen. 133 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 3: SBF always guys. 134 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, so on this week's episode, guys, we are doing 135 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 2: what your crazy, strict, weird rules were as a kid 136 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 2: growing up. 137 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 138 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: I saw a video on TikTok of a chick that 139 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 2: was running through the rules she had as a kid, 140 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 2: And I'll find and I'll read something to you when 141 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 2: we get into it. Absolutely fucking crazy. 142 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I have some weird ones for 143 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: my parents, but nothing's coming to the top of my head. 144 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 3: So I feel like throughout this episode i'll be to still. 145 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll be able to spill a few things that 146 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 1: my parents made me do when I was a kid. 147 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm keen for this episode. It should be 148 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: fun and. 149 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,239 Speaker 2: It's hard, loud and interesting. I just feel like, yeah, 150 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 2: this cheek the way she like, that's like low key prison, 151 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 2: Like I feel really bad for the poor girl. 152 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 1: Well, I grew up in a boarding school, so my family, 153 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: like I lived quite like a border. Like a lot 154 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 1: of the rules that the borders had my parents had, 155 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 1: so I feel like they could be kind of weird. 156 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: But to me they didn't seem weird because all the 157 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: borders were doing it. But I feel like if I 158 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: unpack them here, like. 159 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:21,840 Speaker 2: That's a big house rule. 160 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your recommendation of the week is? 161 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 2: My recommendation is the nas Light Reflecting Foundation. Have a 162 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: lot of you guys asking me to do a makeup routine. 163 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 2: I promise I'll get around to it. I'm not gate keeping, 164 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 2: I'm just lazy. But the Nars Light Reflecting Foundation is beautiful, 165 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,799 Speaker 2: stays on all day. I've been using it for about 166 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 2: a year. Now get your hands on it. I promise 167 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 2: it just makes you like that glowy beautiful, like not 168 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 2: look sweaty a it. 169 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: You always have a good bass, I say, yeah. Mine 170 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: is the avine cecal Fate Restorative Protective Cream. As you 171 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: guys know, I've been going through a lot of issues 172 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: with my skin. I think I've narrowed it down. It's 173 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: come to my stress levels, my anxiety, and I think 174 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: it's also exma that every time I am really really 175 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: anxious or my stress is really high, I break out 176 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: in this anyway in the morning with this like yeah, 177 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: and it's very angry, it's very sore, it's very itchy, 178 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: and it's something I've never really had an issue with. 179 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: I've never had acne growing up and everything like that. 180 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,559 Speaker 1: Now I've turned twenty two and I have this major 181 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: rush all over my face. But that restorative cream by 182 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: Avin you can get it from Chemists Warehouse. It just 183 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: seems to calm it down a little bit. It's like 184 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: very thick cream. So if you guys are suffering with 185 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: like dermatitis or like a skin barrier issue, try that 186 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: out because I've been really liking it as of recently. 187 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 2: Beautiful. Yeah, Okay, guys, it's time for question of the week, 188 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 2: all right, So I'm curious to your opinion on this one. 189 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 2: How do you feel about sex on the first day. 190 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: I have never done it, and I don't think I 191 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: ever will. I am quite closed off when it comes 192 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: to sexual intimacy. 193 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 3: I'm so open on this podcast. 194 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 2: I'm like I hate having sex. 195 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 3: I really struggled. 196 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: I really struggle to be intimate with someone that I 197 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: don't like or have a connection with. Every single person 198 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,239 Speaker 1: that I've slept with, and I'm not telling you how many, 199 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: but I've liked or. 200 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 3: I've known for a significant amount of time. 201 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: So I think if I went on a first date 202 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: with someone that I didn't necessarily know, I'm all down 203 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: for like a good kiss, but like, I don't think 204 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: I could be sexually intimate with them because it has 205 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: to for me to enjoy it, I have to like them, 206 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: and I don't think I can get on that on 207 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: the first date. And its quite a lot like yeah, yeah, 208 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 1: And I don't judge girls who do it, like I'm 209 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: like I almost a m I have a bit envoused 210 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 1: that you guys like don't give no fucks almost or 211 00:08:57,880 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 1: like just like let your hair loose. 212 00:08:59,160 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 3: I can't do it. 213 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: And it means a lot to me to be sexually 214 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: I like, I'm almost like giving you something in a way. 215 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 2: It's like I don't know if you deserve it. 216 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know if you deserve it. 217 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: I want you to work a little bit harder for it, 218 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: Like I want you to prove to me. And I 219 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: think once I am sexually intimate with someone, I become 220 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: a lot more vulnerable. So I don't like being vulnerable 221 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: in the first day totally. So I'm like, no, you 222 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: don't get to have. 223 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 2: Sex with me. You can wait. You can wait, you 224 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 2: can gromble. 225 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 3: What about you. 226 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 2: I'm not saying I haven't, but I definitely would prefer 227 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 2: not to, like if I can not. If I can 228 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 2: help it, obviously I can help it. It's you know, 229 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 2: I prefer not to, Like you said, it's not always 230 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: something that I'm feeling or if I'm ready. And I 231 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 2: do think that sometimes in order for me to fully 232 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 2: enjoy the experience, like not wake up the next day 233 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 2: and be like, oh, like why did I do that? 234 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,079 Speaker 2: I definitely would like to know the person for a 235 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 2: very long time. Yeah. In saying that, you know, sometimes 236 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: you're having a really good time and you get along 237 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 2: really well, and that's okay as well, that's. 238 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 3: What you want to do. 239 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's also your choice, like you've also decided 240 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 2: to do this. It's not like you've given something to 241 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,959 Speaker 2: the guy, like all power to you if you want 242 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 2: to have sex in the first date, because you want 243 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: to do that. It's like maybe you're having sex with him, 244 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 2: he's not having sex with you. 245 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 1: Sometimes when you go on a first date, you might 246 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: be really vibing them with them, but subconsciously, in the 247 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:17,719 Speaker 1: back of the head, you know you don't want to 248 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,319 Speaker 1: go anywhere with them, so you're like, this is kind 249 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 1: of all I kind of want from this experience that like, 250 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm happy to do it now. 251 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 3: I just you know what I mean. 252 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's things do Like there's different periods in like 253 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 2: my dating scene where I've changed, and I think now 254 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 2: I'm definitely a lot more closed off, Like you know, 255 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 2: I'm struggling a lot recently to find that connection with someone, 256 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 2: so like I haven't been on like a date in 257 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: quite a while. I'm like, you know, I'm very content 258 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 2: doing that. I just think it depends on how you feel. 259 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's all on the vibe. 260 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. In 261 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:47,599 Speaker 2: saying that I currently am in a point of my 262 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: life that I prefer not to because yeah, I'm not 263 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 2: ready to like give that part of myself to someone 264 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 2: at this point in time. But in saying that, if 265 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 2: you're getting along amazingly some people have those first dates 266 00:10:57,880 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 2: where they're like, holy fucking shit, this is the best 267 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 2: in my life. You feel like having sex, Go fucking 268 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 2: have sex. Yeah, it's really not that deep. 269 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 3: It's not that deep. 270 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: But I think in the back of my head, I'm like, 271 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to give them the satisfaction completely. I'm like, 272 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: also like, I just think locker room chat. I'm like, 273 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the chat of that WEEKND. 274 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: If you have enough respect for me, you will hold on. 275 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 2: You don't at that point probably really know the person 276 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 2: well enough to know how they're going to react to 277 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 2: something like that. So yeah, yeah, I do think each today, 278 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 2: do whatever you feel comfortable doing in that moment, and yeah, 279 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And if you do feel 280 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 2: like doing it, don't think about the locker room chat. 281 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 2: Just do what you feel comfortable and want to be 282 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 2: doing in that moment. So yeah, they're right or wrong. 283 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's just jump straight into today's episode. 284 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 2: So weird rules, strict rules, how you grew up. Let's go. 285 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: We asked over on the Instagram page for you guys 286 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: to send over weird rules that you guys have as kids, 287 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: and we haven't read them yet. Our producer wrote them 288 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 1: into the Google docs, so. 289 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 3: We're very excited to react to them. 290 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: The first one that it says is we were not 291 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: allowed to go to the toilet. If we had people over, 292 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: we had to wait until they were distracted or they left. 293 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 3: That is craw That would be so fucking hard. 294 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 2: I've got a very very small bladder. You guys just 295 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 2: really know everything. I come barely hold up. 296 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 3: No, you're so bad? 297 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 2: Is it like? It must be like they just almost 298 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 2: would find it rude, Like you're saying I need to 299 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 2: use the toilet in front of guess, but it's like 300 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 2: everyone in the whole fucking world needed. 301 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 3: To go to the toilet. It's not I wasn't. 302 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: That's Mine's kind of along the same lines as I 303 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to go to the toilet when we were 304 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 1: eating dinner. 305 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 2: I had to. 306 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 1: Wait till after because I used to shove my vegetables 307 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: in my cheeks and then empty into the toilet, And 308 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: one time got caught because I didn't shut the toilet 309 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 1: door and my family was. 310 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,079 Speaker 2: Like spilling into the toilet. 311 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I wasn't allowed to go to after dinner. 312 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 2: I do get the like asked to be excused to 313 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 2: leave the table, Like, yes, use the toilet. I do 314 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 2: think using the toilet mid dinner like can't be rude. 315 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 2: Like I do have to do it occasionally, and I 316 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 2: always feel like it's a little bit rude. 317 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I sometimes find it rude when people do 318 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 1: it when we're out for dinner in like a big 319 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 1: group setting, because it's never just like a quick toilet. 320 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: People always go for like thirty minutes when. 321 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 2: You like, if you need to go to the toilet, 322 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 2: go to the toilet. But if you're having dinner with 323 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 2: like five girls and like someone goes to the toilet, 324 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 2: and then that turns into three girls that spend twenty 325 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 2: minutes in the toilet making tiktoks and taking photos of themselves, 326 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 2: that's that's rude. Yeah, just go to the bathroom, come 327 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 2: straight back, go on your own, all right. So someone 328 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 2: sent this in. My dad would sit in the car 329 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 2: outside a party reading a book until the party was 330 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: finished and it was time to pick me up. 331 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 3: My dad would do that. My dad would hunt that. 332 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: No, but my dad used to come half an hour 333 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: earlier parties and would sit out the front. 334 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I just think, but my dad would have 335 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 2: done something like knowing that my dad was sitting out there. 336 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 2: I'd almost leave earlier too, because I feel bad that 337 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 2: he's wasting his night. I just it's it's safe, you know, 338 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 2: it's weird there. 339 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: I won't be able to fully enjoy my because I 340 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: know that my dad is sitting out there, really. 341 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 2: Like looking at the time, like counting the minutes. I 342 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 2: find that odd, Like I wouldn't like that at all. 343 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,439 Speaker 1: Our parents told us it was illegal to turn the 344 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 1: lights on in the car. 345 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 3: My parents did that too. 346 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 2: It was like, oh my god, turn that light off. 347 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 3: I don't understand. 348 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 1: And now driving I don't really see it is an 349 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: issue with someone turned the lights on in the car, so. 350 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 3: But it was a big thing. 351 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 2: I don't know why at night don't turn the lights 352 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 2: on the back of the car because it's just harder 353 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 2: to see the road apparently or whatever. 354 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 3: I don't really I don't notice. 355 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 2: Notice I'm looking forward. I maybe get the lights above 356 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 2: you being on it might be harder to see, but 357 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 2: like the back lights, like if I needed to, like 358 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 2: if I drop something, it was like, no, how long 359 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 2: I have five seconds to turn this light on? And fine, 360 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 2: when I need to find get hands and it. 361 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 1: Was always there was always something about the fucking car 362 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: as the light in the car. My brother, my parents 363 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: used to do it all the time. 364 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: Turn it out, turn it out. When you were a kid, 365 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 2: if you'd be like fighting with your sibling in the 366 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: car and then your parents would like obviously be telling 367 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 2: you to stop, and you just would not be the 368 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 2: moment they pulled that car over and go get out. 369 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 2: Would you be like, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, 370 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. 371 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 1: I like you. 372 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 2: I apologized. My sister got out at once and I 373 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 2: just cried and cried and cried because I was like, 374 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 2: she's gonna be kidnapped. 375 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 3: Oh no, I would get out me. My brothers used 376 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 3: to go, that's it, I'm moving out of home. 377 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: Every time. 378 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 3: We used to have a five with our parents, and 379 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 3: my brothers used to pack a bag. 380 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: My brother once got like Uncle Toby's music, but I 381 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: was like, packed his bag and my dad used to go. 382 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 3: Leave do it bye, you won't leave. 383 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 2: My brother left. 384 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 3: My dad found him down the road, like sitting on 385 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 3: the river. 386 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: As a parent, though, when they actually do or they 387 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 2: actually get out of the car, like my sister didn't 388 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 2: just stay where we put her. She started walking. Yeah, 389 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 2: I used to walk and I'm like, I was like, 390 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: she's gone. It was terrifying. It so finding quickly. How 391 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 2: quickly that you switch it up when someone like the 392 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 2: kid will be like I'm telling mom, or get the 393 00:15:59,040 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 2: fuck out of the car. 394 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I me and my brothers used to 395 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 1: get out and my mom used. 396 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 3: To fully drive away. 397 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 2: I would buckle myself in and like be like, I'm 398 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 2: not fucking getting anywhere. You're gonna have to carry me. 399 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: I needed to do a fashion show for my dad 400 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 2: of the outfits I was wearing before I went to 401 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 2: the party. That's funny, that's funny. I would hate that. 402 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd try. You'd like make it into a fun 403 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 3: thing and be like, Dad, what about this? 404 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: Even like when I would go downstairs now, like when 405 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 2: I lived at home, if I was wearing something like 406 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 2: a particularly short skirt on a cold winter's night, I 407 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 2: you do feel that little bit like like I know 408 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 2: my dad's gonna hate yeah. 409 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: Or my dad always used to if I was walking 410 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: around the house in winter with no socks on, he 411 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: would like force me to put socks on because he 412 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: was like, you're gonna get sick. Or every time we 413 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: had swimming lessons and my hair was wet, my mom 414 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: would be like, run straight to the car because you're 415 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: gonna get sick because your hair's wet. Like it was 416 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: like little things like that that my parents were like 417 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 1: really strict on, Like I wasn't. 418 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 3: Allowed to leave the house wet hair. 419 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: I always had to wear socks on him winter because 420 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: my dad was like, you're gonna get sick if your 421 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: feet are cold. 422 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 2: Like, I do understand the fashion show. Maybe if you're young, 423 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 2: like really young, it's like, yeah, you probably don't want 424 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 2: your daughter going out in a belx as a skirt 425 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 2: when she's like thirteen, you know what I mean, Like, 426 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 2: I do understand that, But it depends how old you are. Yeah, 427 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 2: once you hear a certain age, it's like, yeah, she 428 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 2: can really decide what shoan swear on her own. 429 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 430 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 2: My dad would just say no to everything if he 431 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 2: was given that option to say yes or no to 432 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 2: the stuff I wear. But now he knows, it's like 433 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 2: he can tell me don't wear that, and I'm going 434 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 2: to be like, are you fucking jerking? Like I'm working 435 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 2: what I want, But it's always he's sure I. 436 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 3: Don't think my dad ever commented on what I wore. 437 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 2: Mine was just like my brother was bringing a jacket, 438 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 2: but that's because he was worried about me. Yeah, cold, 439 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 2: I like stiff the cold. If it means my life, 440 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:47,400 Speaker 2: it's gonna look better with him Jack. 441 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 3: I think my dad would have done that too. 442 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 1: But I lived with one hundred and twenty boys and 443 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 1: two brothers. Like I think I knew what to wear 444 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 1: before I left the house. 445 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and my dad would have fucking killed me. 446 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 1: I was allowed to have sex, but I wasn't allowed 447 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,119 Speaker 1: to take birth control only condoms. 448 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 3: I was the same. My mom didn't let me go 449 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 3: on birth control. 450 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was allowed to be on birth control, but 451 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:11,919 Speaker 2: I also went on it when I went on it 452 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 2: because my periods were yes, crazy, yeah regular, So that's 453 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 2: kind of why I went on it. And it was 454 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 2: like and then I need the like I need this 455 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 2: to stop. Yeah. But maybe if it was just if 456 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 2: it was a protection thing. 457 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, But I got the conversations when you would have 458 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: with your parents about like I remember when my first 459 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 1: my mom started first talking about like using protection, so 460 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: fucking awkward. My brother walked into the kitchen and my 461 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 1: mum had a whiteboard and she was doing a diagram 462 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:41,679 Speaker 1: that's the birth, and my fucking brother walked in. And 463 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: I had never been more embarrassed in my life. Like 464 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:45,879 Speaker 1: I used to swear to my mom that she had 465 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 1: to swear on her life to tell my brothers that 466 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: I never got my period because having my period around my. 467 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 3: Brothers would be so embarrassing. 468 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: Everyone knew fucking straight away because I was a raging bitch. 469 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 1: But I was convinced until I was like eighteen that 470 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,080 Speaker 1: my brothers didn't know that I had my period. And 471 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: my brothers definitely didn't know I had sex. 472 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 2: No way, no way. It was just like I'm like, yeah, 473 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:09,199 Speaker 2: I don't even because I know my mom listens to this. 474 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 2: I'm still scared, Like do they even know? Now? 475 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 3: I'm a virgin, Michelle, your daughter is a good human. 476 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 2: I'm a really good person, Mum. 477 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 1: My healthy parents told me I was allergic to coke, 478 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,239 Speaker 1: so I wouldn't drink it. My parents would have done 479 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 1: something like that. 480 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like that, but it's like I've never 481 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 2: drank fizzy drinks. It wasn't really allowed them to drink coke. Now, 482 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 2: I just don't like them yeah, I've never had them. 483 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wasn't allowed to drink coke like I was 484 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: allowed to drink like Sprite and fander and stuff. But 485 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 1: my parents never allowed me to drink coked. 486 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 2: Like lemonade is way less scary. 487 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 1: I feel like like adult like coke was an adult 488 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 1: soft drink to the caffeine, I think so. Maybe yeah, 489 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: but my mum always had a coke, but we were 490 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 1: never allowed it was Sprite or Fanta or solo. Yeah. 491 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 2: Is it the caffeine coke? 492 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 3: Maybe? Yeah, I know it has a lot of caffeine, 493 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 3: but yeah, no, I don't think so. 494 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's why. 495 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, we weren't allowed to drink. We weren't 496 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: allowed to drink cocus kids. 497 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 2: I don't think kids need caffeine. No, I understand not 498 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 2: want of your kids to like love fizzy drinks and 499 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 2: stuff is Yeah. 500 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 1: My dad set me a challenge to not drink soft 501 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: drink for a whole year, and I did, and I 502 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 1: think I got like five hundred bucks or something. 503 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think I could very very very easily go yeah, 504 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 2: the rest of my life without drinking. So, I like you, 505 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 2: I can't drink them. 506 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,400 Speaker 3: I just we Yeah, because you have a bird. 507 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 2: I can't. I can't burt. Yeah, so I can't really 508 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:33,919 Speaker 2: drink soft drinks. So I just don't have those desire. 509 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,199 Speaker 2: So one of the ones on the video that I 510 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 2: was watching, the girls actually is laded out since realized, 511 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: but she was not allowed to be in her room 512 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 2: at all unless she was sleeping. Like you want to 513 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,239 Speaker 2: do your makeup, do it in the living room. Like 514 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 2: being in her room, pry unless it was sleeping time 515 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 2: was like forbidden. 516 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,640 Speaker 3: That's wild to me because my room at my house 517 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 3: was like my. 518 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 2: Sacred They were like you hang out with the family. Yeah, no, 519 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 2: oh my god, that would like I brought with my laptop. 520 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,159 Speaker 3: And watch YouTube, Like I would never sit in the 521 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 3: living room. 522 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 523 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:05,879 Speaker 2: And for her, it's like she can't have her phone 524 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 2: on her unless it's in the living room. I just 525 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 2: thought not being allowed to be in your room, like, 526 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 2: sometimes kids need privacy. Sometimes kids just need to be 527 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 2: on their own. You know. 528 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 3: I wast got my door taken off the hinges. I 529 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,120 Speaker 3: didn't have a dotage to do it. I slammed it 530 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 3: and my dad goes, do it again, I'll take it off, 531 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 3: and I did it again. 532 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. I've actually so he took it off. I broke 533 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,719 Speaker 2: our front door. To this day, it's still broken at 534 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 2: us to get it fixed every couple like every six 535 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 2: months because the water swells and the hinges. I just 536 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 2: smacked the whole thing off the hinge because I was 537 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 2: yelling at my ex boyfriend. Ex boyfriend was there and 538 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,399 Speaker 2: he was fucking annoying me, and I just slammed the 539 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 2: door and it ripped the like the wood that stops 540 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 2: the door from closing straight off. So now the whole 541 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 2: thing is broken, has been broken since twenty sixteen. Sorry, dad, 542 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,159 Speaker 2: So every time we can't open the door, like it 543 00:21:56,200 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 2: takes like a whole lot of force, and yeah, it. 544 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 3: Sucks God the world that we live in. 545 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,679 Speaker 2: He deserved it. Why am I angry that it was 546 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 2: my door that got ruined because he was being a 547 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 2: brain his door. 548 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 1: Our three house rules were don't cry, don't lie, and 549 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 1: eat all your dinner. 550 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 2: I don't like that. Don't cry. 551 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I also now I had a rule of like 552 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: you had to eat all of your dinner. Upon reflection, 553 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 1: I had that same rule as like you had to 554 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 1: clear everything on your plate else you didn't get dessert. 555 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 3: But now like knowing. 556 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: And educating myself on so much on eating disorders and 557 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: binge eating disorders and everything like that is like it 558 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: actually stops you from learning how to intuitive. 559 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,160 Speaker 2: Eat, learning how to know when you're full, knowing. 560 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 1: When you're full, because you in your mind, you grow 561 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: up knowing that when your plate is clear, that's when. 562 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 2: You're full, that's when you're done. 563 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but some people like I now don't know how 564 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 1: to intuitive eat because that's the thing that I grew 565 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: up in my head. 566 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I understand. I gah, Like I think is it better? Obviously? 567 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 2: I do think we'll start with your fucking vegetables at 568 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 2: least that you can't be full after you finished all 569 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 2: your pastor and you've left the place. But it's like 570 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 2: forcing a kid to eat v on when they're full. 571 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,439 Speaker 2: It's like that's not going to be good as an 572 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 2: adult because you're going to struggle. 573 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 3: Term regular cues. 574 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. I wasn't allowed on social media until I was eighteen. 575 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,200 Speaker 3: WHOA, I wasn't allowed until I was thirteen. 576 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, thirteen is the age that you are allowed to 577 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: have Facebook, according to Facebook. So that was kind of 578 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 2: when my parents were like. 579 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but apparently there's a rule that I mean, 580 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: there's a petition that are so many parents are signing 581 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 1: that you can't go on until you're eighteen now again. 582 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 1: But like the fact that it's social media and online 583 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 1: bullying is so bad at the moment that like parents 584 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 1: are signing it. 585 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, if I could keep via kids, I like, if 586 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 2: I could keep them on social media forever, like I would, 587 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 2: But I do think. 588 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: When will you give When do you think it's an 589 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 1: appropriate age to give your kid a phone? 590 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 2: Thirteen? 591 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, my kids and I will swear by this. I 592 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 1: don't care how the world evolves over time. My kid 593 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 1: will not have a phone until they go to high school. 594 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: I'll give That'll get it for Chris mess as like 595 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 1: I did. Me and my sister had a flip phone, 596 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: so we couldn't use social media. I thought we could 597 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 1: text and call our parents if we needed to about 598 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,199 Speaker 1: picking us up and so. Yeah, but I rode my 599 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 1: bike to and from school three point eight kilometers. I 600 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 1: did it every day without a phone. 601 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 3: I was fine. I fucking survived. Since ye three, my. 602 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: Kid will my kid will get a phone on Christmas 603 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: before they go into year seven. They'll get an iPhone 604 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: and they'll be fine. They have an iPad or an 605 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 1: iPod touch in fucking primary school. 606 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, they could have an iPhone iPod with no Wi 607 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 2: Fi on it. They can do the game seasons to music. 608 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you do not need a phone in primary school, 609 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: seeing like young kids with phones. 610 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 2: I actually I'm like, what is this world come to? 611 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 2: But then again times do change as well, so I'll yeah, 612 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 2: I don't think they need a phone. I do so 613 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 2: think like if you were to prevent your kid from 614 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 2: being on social media till they were eighteen, they can. Yeah, well, 615 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 2: like you know, events and stuff get made on Facebook. 616 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:58,919 Speaker 2: I just feel like I would worry that it would 617 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,199 Speaker 2: people would be like it's so weird, Like I don't know. 618 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I also think that once they go into 619 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: adulthood they're almost a bit naive and a bit almost 620 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: sheltered from the world that then they don't know safety 621 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: on the side. 622 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 2: Raising kids like I, you know, go everyone that has 623 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 2: been able to do that successfully. But I just feel 624 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 2: like if you don't do this, like this will happen, 625 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 2: but this will happen if you do that, And it's. 626 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 1: Like yeah, like if you give you a decided if 627 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: you're too chill, then your parents, your kids might really 628 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,400 Speaker 1: fuck up. But then if you're too strict, your kids 629 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: will do it behind your back, like you can't fucking win. 630 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 2: So congrats to everyone that's successfully raising children right now. 631 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 2: We're very proud. Just go off. 632 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't allowed to drink up and go secretly, like 633 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: all I wanted to do was enjoy milk. 634 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:44,479 Speaker 3: That was a weird thing. 635 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 1: We weren't allowed to drink up and goes unless we 636 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,680 Speaker 1: were playing sport in the morning. My my mom didn't 637 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: let me like my brothers would always play early morning. 638 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 2: So I wonder why. 639 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 3: I don't know, probably because it's like a liquid breakfast. 640 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 2: And she wasn't allowed to drink ove and goes. 641 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 3: What was something that your parents didn't allow you to eat? 642 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 2: Well, fizzy drinks, it was my main one. Yeah, Like 643 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 2: we just never had them. 644 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: We weren't allowed to have like sweet biscuits unless we 645 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: made them, like sweets, like my mum never bought muffins 646 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: from Woolies. 647 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 3: If you wanted a sweet treat. 648 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 2: You had to make it. Yeah, but now. 649 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: I'm really grateful for that because I only really like 650 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,440 Speaker 1: baked goods that are like homemade, like. 651 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 2: Well, they taste better. 652 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, like I don't like the bakedness of other ones. 653 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 2: I don't understand not allowing your kids to have up 654 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 2: and goes because I don't they're not good for you them, 655 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 2: They're not good for you. The sugar most cereal that 656 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 2: kids eat isn't good for you. 657 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like the sugar content in that is so 658 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: high that it's like. 659 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 2: I had for breakfast because I hate breakfast, Like I'm 660 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 2: really not a breakfast gal, so I just wouldn't eat. 661 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 2: I just makes you people really stick in. The one 662 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 2: ex up and Go was like all I could eat. 663 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I think it's because that sugar content. 664 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 2: Like take it up and go? Yeah. Do you remember lcms. 665 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,120 Speaker 3: Won't allowed them. I always wanted roll ups. 666 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,679 Speaker 1: We weren't allowed roll ups, those those long snakes that 667 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: come into pink little things and they're like the long 668 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,400 Speaker 1: stringy snakes and everyone used to like wrap them around 669 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: their finger and like with. 670 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 2: People with h yeah strings. 671 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, weren't allowed them. 672 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: Weren't allowed their exo lollies like the North and Crosses lollies. 673 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,479 Speaker 2: I see. I was very like my parents were very 674 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 2: good with lunches. I think we did, like I do 675 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 2: overeat a bit, but like, yeah, we were. They were 676 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 2: good with food. Really, it was just soft drinks that 677 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 2: we weren't allowed. 678 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,639 Speaker 3: Like fruit shripes, we weren't allowed. 679 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: The only thing we were allowed music by wise Uncle 680 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: Toby's ones. We weren't allowed like a lot, like anything 681 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: that was like really overly processed. 682 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 3: My mom like didn't let. 683 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 2: I think me and my brother were quite fussy, like 684 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 2: my brother more so than me, but Riley was a 685 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 2: good eater, my sister, so they were just like whatever 686 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 2: you were going to eat, fine, yeah, you know what 687 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 2: I mean, you need something. 688 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 3: My mom was like, fine, go hume. Moms like go hungry. 689 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 1: But we because I grew up in a boarding school, 690 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,159 Speaker 1: we would have our dinners and everything made by the 691 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 1: chefs and it's so interesting, So we like didn't really 692 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: eat like home meal was. Once I became like ten 693 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: and above, we would go there. So then my mum 694 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,120 Speaker 1: would enjoy making our lunches and everything like that. Actually, 695 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 1: my mum never made my lunch. She always made my 696 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 1: brothers because I was a bit of a control freak. 697 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 1: But like she loved baking and stuff like that because 698 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: she didn't really have to cook dinners and things. 699 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 2: So we would always have like a baked muff fan 700 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 2: that's heaven though, That is heaven, honestly. 701 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,439 Speaker 1: Muffin, piece of fruit and a sandwich and maybe some 702 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 1: shapes if you were lucky. 703 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:31,919 Speaker 2: I wasn't allowed a boyfriend until year nine. Fair, I agree. Fair, 704 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 2: Why do you fucking need a boyfriend when you're thirteen? 705 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 3: Yeah? 706 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:35,920 Speaker 1: Fair? 707 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 2: Like kiss a boy fine, do everyone, But I don't 708 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 2: think you need to have a boyfriend at that. 709 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 710 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 1: If I had a boyfriend in year nine, I don't 711 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: think I would have told my parents that I had 712 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: a boyfriend in your nine. I think I got a 713 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: boy My first boyfriend was in year ten. 714 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 2: I think mine was yet tennis. 715 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 3: Well yeah, and I told them, but he wasn't allowed 716 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 3: to have some It's not. 717 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 2: Even like real relationships anyway, now that it matters like 718 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 2: you do you? But I don't think that's a bad rule. 719 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, especially like you can have like a little fling 720 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 1: with a boy. I think in year eight and nine 721 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 1: have a little seven and. 722 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 2: I be like, oh, I have a still question this boy, 723 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,719 Speaker 2: and I'm going to kiss him at the Qong social 724 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 2: on the weekend and everyone's going to stand around me 725 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:11,959 Speaker 2: and record it with flashlights. 726 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fine, but like boyfriend, Like if I had 727 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: a boyfriend in year nine, like he wouldn't be able 728 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 1: to come over to our house. Like my mum was like, 729 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: you always had to keep the door open. 730 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, a ruler. I actually had the eye stand by. 731 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 2: I wasn't allowed to have a boy stay over till 732 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 2: I was eighty. 733 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 734 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 3: Same, and I think that's same. 735 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 2: I was very very envious of people that were allowed 736 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 2: to do that. Yeah, but I don't dislike my parents, 737 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 2: Yeah rule, I think that's I understand why they did that. 738 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 3: Yeah completely, I did. 739 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 2: The thing is that I did like go behind their 740 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 2: back in staying it, you know, but I do understand 741 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 2: why they did that. 742 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 3: Yes, completely, yea, I now understand. 743 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,720 Speaker 1: I saw this thing as like why parents don't let 744 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: their kids have sleepovers? And I completely, I almost completely 745 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: understand it now. 746 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 3: I was like, you don't know the parents. 747 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: If you don't know the parents all that well, like 748 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 1: if I had to sleepover, maybe the kids had to 749 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 1: sleep over their cousin and I'm like related to them, 750 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: or it's like my husband's kids, husband's sister or something 751 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 1: like that. I understand that, but you don't know what 752 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: goes on in that family's you're almost putting your kid 753 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,800 Speaker 1: into an unsafe environment if you don't know them, Like 754 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: what you've met that kid at school. You don't know 755 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 1: what goes on in anybody else's household, and you're just 756 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: letting your kids stay the night. 757 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 2: I understand that. Like, I've had a sleepover once the 758 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 2: one time, and I actually felt really uncomfortable around your dad. Yes, 759 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 2: and a mum came and picked me up because I 760 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 2: was like, I don't want to say it tonight, like 761 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 2: I just feel like he's staring at me weird and 762 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 2: we must maybe he was a lovely guy, but I 763 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 2: just didn't feel comfortable. 764 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: I now saw that because I never understood why. But 765 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: now when it was explained to me, I'm like, that 766 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: is so fair. 767 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 2: Makes sense. But then people are like, so you'll let 768 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 2: the kids stay at your house though, because you're all 769 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,040 Speaker 2: safe and perfect. I just, yeah, I get it. 770 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 1: I don't think I'll let my kids have sleepovers at all. 771 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 1: I think we'll like unless I know the parents directly 772 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 1: and I know their dynamic. 773 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 2: I think you didn't know the parents, Like, yeah, we 774 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 2: are best friends growing up, like family best friends. I 775 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 2: was best friends with the one that was my Riley's 776 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,479 Speaker 2: best friends to the one above. My mum and her 777 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 2: mum were so close. So that's so fine, like we 778 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 2: still know them to this day. But I do understand, like, oh, 779 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:20,480 Speaker 2: you met Becky in school, you want to say at 780 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 2: her house, who the fuck's Becky? Yeah, Becky could be 781 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 2: a boy, yeah yeah. 782 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: And you just don't know unless I feel like i'd 783 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: have to know the parents directly. 784 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 2: I get that the future no makeup until college. 785 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 3: My parents didn't let me wear makeup to school. 786 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 2: I understand that. 787 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: And my mum was director of students, so she would 788 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 1: be like, you're fucking wearing mascara. Take it off, Like 789 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 1: I wasn't allowed away anything. Her mum would go take 790 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 1: those earrings out easy, yeah, And she would go around 791 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 1: with the makeup wipe like And I kind of understand 792 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: that because I feel like there was such a big 793 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 1: thing in society that like, you want to feel beautiful 794 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 1: without makeup, and you don't need to go to school 795 00:31:58,920 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: to feel good. 796 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 2: But I do think the makeup where I think, can 797 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 2: be embarrassing too for some kids. 798 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: Like my mum would never do it in front of 799 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: people's faces. She would never do it in the corridor. 800 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: She would pull them into the offices, and you're wearing 801 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 1: too much makeup? 802 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 2: Fair enough, I wouldn't if my kid left it. Like 803 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 2: I see these videos and like, go girls if they 804 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 2: do it. But there was actually one that I thought 805 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 2: was really strange. She was like, get ready with me 806 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 2: for school at three am. This chick's up at three 807 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 2: am doing a makeup. 808 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 3: For Cassie from Euphoria. 809 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, but I think it's also America is different too, boy, 810 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 2: Girls schools are different sometimes girls, you know, a little 811 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 2: bit of light makeup. Fine. 812 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 3: Upon my reflection, I'm so glad that I had a uniform. 813 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 2: You think I can figure out what to wear every 814 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 2: single every single day. Yeah. 815 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 1: I used to be so envious of the kids in 816 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: America that didn't have to wear school uniform. But now 817 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm like now that I'm an adult and I have 818 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 1: to find a new outfit every day, So fucking. 819 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 2: God, I agree. I'm glad I had a uniform. 820 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 3: And that would have saved so many mental breakdowns. 821 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, everyone, I just don't feel nice today. I 822 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 2: don't want to go. Yeah, that would have happened a lot. 823 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 3: You have to wear the same thing. 824 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wasn't allowed to shower too late because my 825 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 2: mum said I'd fainting collapse. 826 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 3: That's like gas lighting. 827 00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 2: I don't get. Yeah, maybe it's just because maybe noise 828 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 2: or mess or something. 829 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:11,719 Speaker 1: It was just like if you do, I don't want 830 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: to take you to the emergency room at nighttime. 831 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 2: But like you wouldn't fade and collapse. 832 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 3: You could, but you can slip and ball. 833 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 2: No. I think she just lied about like if you 834 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 2: shower late at night or something, you'll get like light 835 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 2: headed and like collapse. Like that's what the mum was saying. 836 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 3: Too lazy. 837 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 838 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: Interesting, We had to wear a certain outfit for each 839 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: meal of the day. If we didn't, we'd get in trouble. 840 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,600 Speaker 1: Why would your parents do that? Wouldn't they want to 841 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 1: like minimize the amount of laundry. 842 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 3: That they have to do. 843 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 2: I don't understand that one bit. Yeah, Like what kind 844 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 2: of outfit like Pj's at breakfast? 845 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 3: Like are we doing a bit of a Narris Smith? 846 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 2: I don't get that. I love Narrow Smith not enough 847 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 2: I watch every so do I Why are you in 848 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 2: a ball gown? 849 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 850 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 2: I don't get that. 851 00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, but like as we said at the start, 852 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 1: of this year overdressing is good. 853 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I find I always wonder if she's 854 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 2: going somewhere. No, she's not. 855 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 1: It's that whole tide wife tried. Wife is like a 856 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 1: traditional wife. She's like yeah, like it's like a trend 857 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 1: on TikTok. 858 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 2: Very very lucky guy. 859 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,319 Speaker 1: Yeah he's fucking hots but he needs to take that 860 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: tooth pick out of Yeah. But again they play because 861 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 1: they're Mormon, so they play a very tad wife like 862 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: he's kind of the provider. She's the stay at home 863 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 1: mom that she cooks and cleans like. It's very trad wife. 864 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 2: Okay. Yes, I love Nara Smith, Yes, more than anything. 865 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 2: I love her videos making things like cheese it's from scratch. 866 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 3: I fubble gum. 867 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 2: She made bubble gum from scratch. See, I think I 868 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 2: know it. She's probably very much also playing into the 869 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 2: role from scratch thing too, which is probably why she 870 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,680 Speaker 2: is taking it so far. Yes, I find some of 871 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 2: those things a bit odd, but I watched the video like. 872 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 3: My kids were craving cereals, so I decided to make 873 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 3: it from scratch. Your kids wasn't fucking craving it. After 874 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:00,840 Speaker 3: it took me four I was to make it. Is 875 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,439 Speaker 3: it just time? 876 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,919 Speaker 2: How early you get? This is just starving the whole 877 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 2: time you wanted cereal will do bad buddy, You got 878 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 2: to wait seven hours. 879 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,280 Speaker 3: Yeah you can have it for dinner. 880 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, cereal for dinner. 881 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,319 Speaker 1: And you could start the whole day because I have 882 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 1: to fucking let it dry. 883 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,840 Speaker 2: Yeah snacks, No something in the fridge. No make like 884 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 2: Oh I find making the corn flakes from scratch cheese. 885 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 2: It's bubblegum marshmallows to put in the hot I just yeah, anyway, 886 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 2: I still think it's very fun to watch. 887 00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: I would get fined if I didn't do my chores. 888 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 1: That'd read something. 889 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 3: If my dad heard about that, my dad would one hundred. 890 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 2: Yeah that's annoying because I've always try and escape through. 891 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 3: We used to get five dollars of pocket money a week. 892 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 2: We did get pocket money as well, very minimal, but 893 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 2: just sucks. 894 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 3: Didn't get your find me. My brothers used to run 895 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 3: down to the little Lolli shop. 896 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 2: I wonder how much money we go. 897 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 1: We weren't allowed to see I'm sexy, you and I 898 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,839 Speaker 1: know it, but I'm read for would have big out fro. 899 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 2: You're not allowed to say that sexy is like somewhat. 900 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: My mom used to let me sing the most obsurd thing. 901 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 3: She was like, it was too funny. 902 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 2: I like you didn't know what you were just wanted 903 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 2: to see a little child like singing all these I 904 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 2: used to do the TikTok by Madonna on the fucking 905 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 2: in the living room floor and my mom was like 906 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 2: it was so inappropriate, but like she was like, you 907 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 2: didn't know what you were doing, so like it wasn't 908 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 2: bad because you didn't realize how want. 909 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 1: And then it escalated into peacock by fucking Katy Perry 910 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,800 Speaker 1: with pomp poms. I used to play in my pink 911 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,640 Speaker 1: radio and I used to go into the boarding houses, 912 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 1: into the borders room and say can i people, I 913 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: wanted to see you, And I used to do it 914 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:42,879 Speaker 1: in front of the borders because I. 915 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 2: Only just got there. It's like, I want to see 916 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 2: your cock. 917 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:50,279 Speaker 1: Yes, And she's like, eleven year old me is going 918 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 1: to these fucking eighteen year old boys, and if. 919 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 3: Any of you are listening to this, If any. 920 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 2: Of you were listening, she wants to see your people. 921 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to see your peacock, but like, please 922 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,360 Speaker 1: message me if you guys ever used to remember, I 923 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 1: used to show them my video stars, those fucking online 924 00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 1: music videos you used to do. I used to go around. 925 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:07,920 Speaker 1: I used to make sit all these boys down. I 926 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 1: used to sit and make them watch it. Like I'm embarrassed. 927 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 3: Like the thought of it. If I think about it 928 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 3: for too long, that's fun. 929 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,359 Speaker 2: I think, yes, that's fucked. But I'm like, you're a kid. 930 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,760 Speaker 3: But some of them message me now and then like hey, I'm. 931 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 2: Like, dude, that's funny. 932 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: But if I think about the stuff that I used 933 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,359 Speaker 1: to do in Perth at the boarding school, I'm embarrassed. 934 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 2: I was a very I was like a well behaved child. 935 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 1: I was a good behaved child, but I just like 936 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 1: all these boys were like I kind of viewed them 937 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: as my. 938 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,440 Speaker 2: Brother's shy, very shy. 939 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 3: Yeah I didn't have the choice, Yeah I know, and I. 940 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 2: Just like I wish I wasn't shy, But that was 941 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 2: probably the social anxiety coming on young. Al Right, guys, 942 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 2: those are some of your crazy rules. I've really actually 943 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 2: enjoyed that, and I think we'll probably do a part two. 944 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 3: Yeah that's crazy, if you. 945 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 2: Guys want to hear it. Some of them guys were 946 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:03,440 Speaker 2: alive this day to tell the tale. We survived the childhood. Yeah, 947 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 2: here we are. 948 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 3: I reckon, we're pretty good. 949 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,320 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I can't wait to see how my kids 950 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 2: turn out. But no, they're gonna be They're gonna they're 951 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,160 Speaker 2: gonna be kuitting really really really short and with really 952 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 2: manly voices. 953 00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for joining us on this 954 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 1: Tuesday's episode of Just for Girls, and we might see 955 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 1: you on Thursday. 956 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 2: See your Thursday guys. 957 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 3: Bye,