1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:20,201 Speaker 1: Approche production. I'll never live up to a label. I'll 2 00:00:20,281 --> 00:00:25,641 Speaker 1: never let somebody else define who the fucking trust version 3 00:00:25,681 --> 00:00:29,321 Speaker 1: of myself is. And you know, someone like, to be 4 00:00:30,081 --> 00:00:33,241 Speaker 1: yourself is the greatest job you could ever have, and 5 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,761 Speaker 1: so many people fail at it, and it's so simple. 6 00:00:36,801 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: All you have to do is just show up. I 7 00:00:38,721 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 1: don't care what anyone thinks, and then just be yourself 8 00:00:41,881 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: and the right people you birds of fever flock together. 9 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,241 Speaker 1: Whatever way you want to put it, you're going to 10 00:00:47,241 --> 00:00:49,001 Speaker 1: be in the circle that you're in. And I had 11 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: this conversation with one of the kids today. Stop trying 12 00:00:52,081 --> 00:00:56,481 Speaker 1: to fit in to a circle. If you're a square 13 00:00:56,641 --> 00:00:59,441 Speaker 1: and you're trying to fit into a circle, you're always 14 00:00:59,481 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: going to feel inadequate. And this is for everybody in life. 15 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:06,881 Speaker 1: When you just be yourself, people of the right nature, 16 00:01:06,961 --> 00:01:07,721 Speaker 1: the same nature. 17 00:01:07,761 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 2: Look it up. 18 00:01:08,561 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: There's so many groups or people community or social media 19 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: groups that you can join that I like to just 20 00:01:17,161 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: go hiking and they don't want to say a word 21 00:01:19,481 --> 00:01:22,201 Speaker 1: to each other. You might like to go hiking and 22 00:01:22,441 --> 00:01:27,121 Speaker 1: actually jump off the into some waterfalls if it's safe. 23 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,761 Speaker 1: Let me clarify that. But people are focusing on Brannie 24 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:36,121 Speaker 1: the deepest, darkest version of themselves, and then they're trying 25 00:01:36,161 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: to edit that version not be vulnerable because especially as man, 26 00:01:39,721 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: if I share to Brannie that I'm sad about my 27 00:01:42,761 --> 00:01:46,161 Speaker 1: kids or well, fuck, ain't you this notorious bank robber 28 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,601 Speaker 1: and tough I've seen you do X Y and Z, 29 00:01:49,761 --> 00:01:51,921 Speaker 1: I couldn't care that's what someone thinks of me. And 30 00:01:51,961 --> 00:01:55,081 Speaker 1: I'm at a point and this is so important for yourself. 31 00:01:55,361 --> 00:01:58,361 Speaker 1: When you go to think and someone said something about you, 32 00:01:58,881 --> 00:02:02,161 Speaker 1: I just I literally scroll straight past it. Brother, that's 33 00:02:02,281 --> 00:02:05,321 Speaker 1: literally pretend you're scrolling and it comes up and it 34 00:02:05,361 --> 00:02:10,761 Speaker 1: says Jeff's you know well boldy and wouldn't couldn't tell 35 00:02:10,801 --> 00:02:12,801 Speaker 1: you at the time of day. I just go straight 36 00:02:12,841 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: past that comment and wouldn't worry me in one way, 37 00:02:16,041 --> 00:02:20,161 Speaker 1: shape or form. If I have my structure to my 38 00:02:20,281 --> 00:02:23,241 Speaker 1: life and I don't have time to sit there and go, 39 00:02:23,601 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: oh fuck, Brent wrote something about me. I insert did 40 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,521 Speaker 1: Julie and so did Mary. I just couldn't care. Like 41 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,401 Speaker 1: if that person says, hey, how can we do business 42 00:02:32,401 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: together to change and save lives? Because that's a journey 43 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,281 Speaker 1: I'm on. Fuck yeah, brother, fuck your sister. Let's have 44 00:02:38,321 --> 00:02:41,841 Speaker 1: that conversation and straight away I'll step into that space. 45 00:02:42,161 --> 00:02:44,801 Speaker 1: And if someone wants to focus on something that's toxic 46 00:02:44,881 --> 00:02:50,001 Speaker 1: and evil towards the directions of your intentions, then it's 47 00:02:50,041 --> 00:02:52,081 Speaker 1: not my space. I wish you are the very best 48 00:02:52,641 --> 00:02:57,321 Speaker 1: and you keep telling the story of the villain that 49 00:02:57,401 --> 00:03:00,521 Speaker 1: I used to be, but he's the superhero fucking showing up, 50 00:03:00,561 --> 00:03:02,841 Speaker 1: showing you the end story to it. And you know, 51 00:03:02,881 --> 00:03:04,761 Speaker 1: at the end of those movies you always like, how 52 00:03:04,761 --> 00:03:08,921 Speaker 1: good is that that Superman or Superwoman save the world. 53 00:03:09,481 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: Don't save yourself by just being yourself? Couldn't couldn't put Yeah, 54 00:03:16,201 --> 00:03:20,241 Speaker 1: that's deep, and that's a that'll step you out of 55 00:03:20,281 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: the ass pool the mud pit that you're currently sitting 56 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,041 Speaker 1: and you feel like every day you've got to lift 57 00:03:27,081 --> 00:03:30,561 Speaker 1: your leg out of knee deep mud and try and 58 00:03:30,601 --> 00:03:35,401 Speaker 1: walk another step. You're carrying everyone else's ship and it's 59 00:03:35,441 --> 00:03:38,241 Speaker 1: not your ship, and you've just got to say, what's 60 00:03:38,281 --> 00:03:42,001 Speaker 1: in my invisible backpack? Fucking let's face that ship. And 61 00:03:42,001 --> 00:03:45,361 Speaker 1: I'm going to put it this way. Imagine how much 62 00:03:45,521 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: of life you've missed now and how all the emotions 63 00:03:49,361 --> 00:03:52,361 Speaker 1: the feelings you don't want currently sit within it. You 64 00:03:52,441 --> 00:03:54,441 Speaker 1: might say I'm stressed out, I'm angry. 65 00:03:54,241 --> 00:03:58,761 Speaker 2: I'm fifty straight, I'm nearly fifty, and I'm scared, not 66 00:03:58,921 --> 00:04:03,641 Speaker 2: scared of you know, the jails doesn't skie me. 67 00:04:04,121 --> 00:04:09,081 Speaker 1: It's a lot of time. Yeah, what's happened in that time? 68 00:04:09,401 --> 00:04:12,921 Speaker 2: Now? I'm to me, I'm nearly three quarters the way 69 00:04:12,961 --> 00:04:16,681 Speaker 2: into my life journey. Okay, if you're blessed to live 70 00:04:16,681 --> 00:04:19,481 Speaker 2: in another twenty or thirty years, then wow, what a 71 00:04:19,561 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 2: fantastic I mean you get beyond that then hey. But 72 00:04:22,681 --> 00:04:25,121 Speaker 2: my point is I have children that you know, from 73 00:04:25,281 --> 00:04:30,481 Speaker 2: an adult to teenage to still you know young. If 74 00:04:30,521 --> 00:04:33,921 Speaker 2: I'm to have a chunk of that life again taken 75 00:04:33,961 --> 00:04:41,161 Speaker 2: from them and us, that that installs that scares me. 76 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:46,281 Speaker 2: That worries me that I am going to lose more 77 00:04:46,281 --> 00:04:50,041 Speaker 2: time than I've made best of time already last in 78 00:04:50,121 --> 00:04:54,041 Speaker 2: my younger years. Yes, I've had to as yourself, you know, 79 00:04:54,921 --> 00:04:58,161 Speaker 2: come back in our mature life and take control after 80 00:04:58,201 --> 00:05:02,241 Speaker 2: a lot of self work and better ourselves to help others. 81 00:05:02,401 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 2: It's our passionate, it's what we do. 82 00:05:03,721 --> 00:05:04,561 Speaker 1: We'd love to do it. 83 00:05:04,561 --> 00:05:06,361 Speaker 2: It's what know, who gets this up each day and 84 00:05:06,841 --> 00:05:11,281 Speaker 2: feeling good? Take that rug from under me, and I'm 85 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,441 Speaker 2: looking at a bottomless pit and then I'm going, wow, 86 00:05:14,481 --> 00:05:16,001 Speaker 2: there's a little bit of light at that very end 87 00:05:16,001 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 2: of the time. But man, there's some time ahead of 88 00:05:17,921 --> 00:05:21,441 Speaker 2: that that fees the funk out of me. Bro. 89 00:05:22,161 --> 00:05:26,081 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a saying. I like another of quote. I'm 90 00:05:26,121 --> 00:05:31,161 Speaker 1: not reading my computer. Hit the AI button, Hit the 91 00:05:31,161 --> 00:05:36,801 Speaker 1: AI give us a quote. Jeffrey Morgan's left the room. 92 00:05:36,841 --> 00:05:42,481 Speaker 1: It's empty. Emptiness is a lack of clarity, right, And 93 00:05:42,521 --> 00:05:45,561 Speaker 1: when you have clarity around your own vision, purpose and wine. 94 00:05:45,561 --> 00:05:50,241 Speaker 1: And going back on this little journey about unpacking invisible backpack, 95 00:05:50,601 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: I want people to ask themselves, you haven't unpacked the 96 00:05:53,081 --> 00:06:00,961 Speaker 1: invisible backpack. You've had trauma, heartache, pain lessons, mistakes, fuck ups, abuse, 97 00:06:01,081 --> 00:06:04,321 Speaker 1: whatever it is in your past, right, and what are 98 00:06:04,361 --> 00:06:06,921 Speaker 1: all the feeling and emotions attached to What are the 99 00:06:06,961 --> 00:06:10,281 Speaker 1: selfling behaviors, thoughts and beliefs behind it? And you know 100 00:06:10,401 --> 00:06:12,681 Speaker 1: it's all fucked up? And I'll say to you, do 101 00:06:12,761 --> 00:06:15,401 Speaker 1: you want that for the rest of your life? So 102 00:06:15,561 --> 00:06:17,801 Speaker 1: you might be twenty now and you're already feeling twenty 103 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:21,281 Speaker 1: years worth, you might be fifty feeling fifty years worth. 104 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,321 Speaker 1: Is that what you'd loved for the rest of your life. 105 00:06:24,361 --> 00:06:27,041 Speaker 1: There's not one person that would say, fuck yeah, let's 106 00:06:27,041 --> 00:06:30,281 Speaker 1: celebrate that. Let'll all be like hell no. Right, So 107 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: my question is is it better to unpack your invisible 108 00:06:34,001 --> 00:06:38,001 Speaker 1: backpack for one year face it front on fear anxiety. 109 00:06:38,041 --> 00:06:40,961 Speaker 1: You get sweaty anxious, you might have been, your stomach 110 00:06:41,081 --> 00:06:45,081 Speaker 1: might rumble more than ever, But in a year's time 111 00:06:45,481 --> 00:06:47,961 Speaker 1: you were starting to head in a totally different direction. 112 00:06:48,361 --> 00:06:50,921 Speaker 1: And you've sailed through this storm over the seas rough 113 00:06:50,961 --> 00:06:55,041 Speaker 1: seas for so long, and now it's just it's not raining. 114 00:06:55,201 --> 00:06:58,521 Speaker 1: The seas are calm, the dolphins are beside you, your 115 00:06:58,601 --> 00:07:02,441 Speaker 1: partner's sitting next to you, and you're on this big yacht. 116 00:07:02,561 --> 00:07:05,121 Speaker 1: Because you've wrote it through, you've built this resilient and 117 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:09,361 Speaker 1: now you've stepped into the trust version of yourself because 118 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:14,641 Speaker 1: now your focus isn't fixing the problem of the rough seas, 119 00:07:15,001 --> 00:07:18,081 Speaker 1: but more the destination of we're actually heading. And that's 120 00:07:18,081 --> 00:07:21,561 Speaker 1: a different conversation. And that's what I went through, you know, 121 00:07:21,881 --> 00:07:23,841 Speaker 1: and for people to know, I've gone through a lot 122 00:07:23,881 --> 00:07:26,761 Speaker 1: of what Braining's gone through. We've gone through this whole 123 00:07:26,841 --> 00:07:31,001 Speaker 1: journey and so many come through and just even talking 124 00:07:31,001 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: to people. And the funniest thing people think that people 125 00:07:33,841 --> 00:07:36,241 Speaker 1: who have money don't go through this stuff. Trust me, 126 00:07:36,281 --> 00:07:39,881 Speaker 1: I'll sit with them and they do. And the same principle, 127 00:07:39,961 --> 00:07:42,641 Speaker 1: what is the solution to your problem? Otherwise you're going 128 00:07:42,761 --> 00:07:45,041 Speaker 1: to always focus on the problem and you'll be at 129 00:07:45,201 --> 00:07:49,601 Speaker 1: sea through these rough range range piecing down the seas 130 00:07:49,601 --> 00:07:53,521 Speaker 1: that that they're choppy, as you think, will I even 131 00:07:53,681 --> 00:07:56,881 Speaker 1: make it through to the next day, and that the 132 00:07:56,921 --> 00:07:59,401 Speaker 1: only thing you're trying to do is survive and get this. 133 00:07:59,521 --> 00:08:02,241 Speaker 1: You keep the hands on the stew and try and 134 00:08:02,241 --> 00:08:05,441 Speaker 1: get through that little moment rather than say I'm going 135 00:08:05,521 --> 00:08:07,721 Speaker 1: to face this front on and I'm going to turn 136 00:08:07,801 --> 00:08:11,241 Speaker 1: this into the calmest ocean where I can see straight 137 00:08:11,281 --> 00:08:14,641 Speaker 1: through to the bottom. And it's just a visualization of 138 00:08:14,721 --> 00:08:17,921 Speaker 1: the most beautiful destination and the location. And if you 139 00:08:17,961 --> 00:08:21,401 Speaker 1: don't have that visualization for your own vision, purpose and why, 140 00:08:21,881 --> 00:08:26,201 Speaker 1: you'll always stay within the actions of the past. And 141 00:08:26,241 --> 00:08:29,761 Speaker 1: what that means is that invisible backpack will create the 142 00:08:29,801 --> 00:08:34,081 Speaker 1: reactions of your behaviors, your thoughts, your beliefs, your environments, 143 00:08:35,121 --> 00:08:38,081 Speaker 1: and most importantly, the life that you end up living. 144 00:08:38,121 --> 00:08:41,281 Speaker 1: And you just hey, my name is Jeff. I'm going 145 00:08:41,281 --> 00:08:43,881 Speaker 1: to give you a life a regret like fucking keep 146 00:08:43,921 --> 00:08:46,601 Speaker 1: walking me or a my names Jeff, And I'm going 147 00:08:46,601 --> 00:08:50,321 Speaker 1: to help you become the healthiest, happiest, com most successful 148 00:08:50,401 --> 00:08:53,801 Speaker 1: version of yourself. And I want you to visualize everything 149 00:08:54,001 --> 00:08:57,841 Speaker 1: you want within your life. It's going to happen. And 150 00:08:57,921 --> 00:09:00,881 Speaker 1: even if you focus and head towards that you end 151 00:09:01,001 --> 00:09:05,441 Speaker 1: up hitting really high, what would it feel like? You know, 152 00:09:05,521 --> 00:09:08,481 Speaker 1: what are the emotions and feelings attached then? And not 153 00:09:08,561 --> 00:09:11,001 Speaker 1: having that core case over your head, Bernnie been in 154 00:09:11,041 --> 00:09:14,401 Speaker 1: the house that you want with your kids. Hugs, love care, 155 00:09:15,161 --> 00:09:17,441 Speaker 1: you know, they're the things that we just sort of 156 00:09:18,321 --> 00:09:21,241 Speaker 1: start with and everything else just rolls off into the 157 00:09:21,321 --> 00:09:24,121 Speaker 1: next space. And you know, let's trust me, man, I'm 158 00:09:24,201 --> 00:09:27,401 Speaker 1: living proof that you can go from a jaw cell 159 00:09:28,481 --> 00:09:31,361 Speaker 1: thirteen years before to sitting in front of a billion 160 00:09:31,401 --> 00:09:36,081 Speaker 1: dollar business in an overseas country delivering leaders workshops. And 161 00:09:36,121 --> 00:09:38,761 Speaker 1: if I can do it, what the fuck is your 162 00:09:38,841 --> 00:09:42,401 Speaker 1: excuse to yourself? The only thing stopping you is you 163 00:09:42,561 --> 00:09:44,881 Speaker 1: reverting back to the only program you know, and that 164 00:09:44,961 --> 00:09:47,801 Speaker 1: program sends you down a dark path. And as I said, 165 00:09:47,881 --> 00:09:50,921 Speaker 1: just face that front on, run it over. With the 166 00:09:51,001 --> 00:09:55,681 Speaker 1: fucking crush and roller, something that just comes through and 167 00:09:55,721 --> 00:09:58,641 Speaker 1: crushes it so flat that you never ever see that again. 168 00:09:58,681 --> 00:10:01,601 Speaker 1: And it's just, Yeah, it's something that you look back 169 00:10:01,601 --> 00:10:05,401 Speaker 1: in your video mirror and remember the lessons of as 170 00:10:05,401 --> 00:10:09,201 Speaker 1: you grow towards the brightest, healthiest, happiest, calmest and most 171 00:10:09,201 --> 00:10:13,001 Speaker 1: successful self was. That's a beautiful journey. But like I 172 00:10:13,081 --> 00:10:16,201 Speaker 1: can tell you that I'm experienced m