1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gadigal Land always was, always 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. 3 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 2: Hey cheeks, I'm sal and I'm out And this is 4 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: two Broat Chicks, the show that shares life lessons and 5 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 2: tips to make you rich in life. And today we 6 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 2: are talking expensive things that aren't worth the money, expensive 7 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 2: shit that's not worth the money. 8 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 3: Expensive yah. 9 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, including a bunch of our personal picks and also 10 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 2: a bunch of picks submitted by you chicks, which is 11 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 2: very interesting. There were definitely lots of trends, but a 12 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 2: couple of outliers too, which. 13 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 3: We always love. 14 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 2: But before we get into it, we love to start 15 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 2: with a trending topic or product wreck of the week. 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 2: Mine is in regards to our Europe prep, so we 17 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: feel listened to our episode the other week. Alex and 18 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 2: I are going to Europe for the very first time, which, 19 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: of course, men's doing so much research on all of 20 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,119 Speaker 2: the specific things that you need, so we're. 21 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 3: Going to do content on it too. Yeah. Oh my god, 22 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 3: you get ready because there's going to be a lot. 23 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: But my product wreck of the week is a phone 24 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 2: case with a cross body phone. 25 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 3: Strap, whichever one you like. 26 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 2: There's lots of different options out there, but because in 27 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,680 Speaker 2: really touristy areas, you know, such as Paris or Rome, 28 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: et cetera. 29 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 3: We have snatching. Yeah, we've heard that London as well. 30 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 3: I've heard a lot everyway Italy agrees Paris. 31 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 2: And then the phone snatching in particular is very common 32 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: for tourists, especially because you're always walking around with your phone. 33 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 3: I've seen heaps and videos of it too my TikTok recently, 34 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 3: with like people putting a piece of paper down and 35 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: then picking the phone up with it, and straight up 36 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 3: I would fall for every single one of them. 37 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 2: Me too, And I know myself enough to know that 38 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 2: that is true. Or like, I've seen the videos of 39 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 2: people in London and this isn't to scare anyone. It's 40 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 2: the worst case scenario. So it's always good to be prepared, 41 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: but that you know, you'll be looking at your phone 42 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: waiting for a bus or something and somebody will ride past. 43 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 3: On a bike and just snatch it out of your hand. 44 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 2: So I did buy a crossbody phone straff and case. 45 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 2: You can get whatever ones you like. You know, how 46 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 2: much you spend on it exists on a spectrum depending 47 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 2: on what you got. 48 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 3: The only thing I would say on top of that though, 49 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: is especially with like your cross body bags and stuff, 50 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 3: you want to make sure that they're like slash proof 51 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 3: and stuff. So like there's heaps of travel safe brands 52 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 3: that you can look at for your cross body bags 53 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 3: that have like a slash proof material so people can't 54 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 3: like cut the bag yeah and run with it. And 55 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 3: they also have I think it's like RDIF blocking, so 56 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 3: people can't like skim your cards through it. And they 57 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 3: also have like this little like lock zipper that you 58 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,839 Speaker 3: like lock the zip to the other end of the thing. 59 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 3: And it means that people can't like open your bag 60 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 3: when you're not paying attention. Yeah, these be crazy. Yeah, 61 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 3: what's yours? Okay, So my product wreck or what's trending 62 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 3: is actually a report ooh, sexy money report. So a 63 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 3: new report on the cost of living has come out 64 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 3: because we saw I saw a comment on our TikTok 65 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 3: the other day and it was about how it was 66 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 3: a snippet where we were talking about how nearly half 67 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 3: of Australians have less than a thousand dollars in their 68 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 3: savings and there was a comment on there saying like 69 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 3: how do people not have any money in savings, like 70 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 3: maybe just stop going out and drinking and you'll be 71 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: able to save. And I was like, but anyway, I 72 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 3: think this was a really good kind of reflection of 73 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 3: why because in that snippet we did say that the 74 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 3: cost of living crisis is a really main reason as 75 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 3: to why people can barely afford to save money, let 76 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 3: alone like pay their rent and everything like that. And 77 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 3: it's because rent increases have outpaced wage growth by five 78 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 3: hundred percent in the first three months of twenty twenty four. 79 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 3: What yeah, So data from Domain found that Capital City 80 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 3: house rents grew by five percent between January and March, 81 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 3: whereas wages grew by less than one percent, sitting at 82 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 3: zero point eight percent during the same period. So when again, 83 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 3: we're not sharing this information to stress anyone out, because 84 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 3: I think you do hear those numbers and you're like, 85 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 3: what the fuck? Yeah, what's what the point you do? 86 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 3: And even when I was pulling in this report, I 87 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 3: was like to say, I was like, what the fuck 88 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 3: is going on? I was like, when is something going 89 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 3: to be done about this? But I think it's a 90 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 3: good reminder for this episode as well to have a 91 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 3: conversation have I think about what's the expensive shit that 92 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 3: we're buying that we don't really need, Like where can 93 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 3: we pull back? Yeah, because I think we're all feeling 94 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 3: like the crunch of this, Like my rent went up 95 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 3: by one hundred dollars a week this year and that 96 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 3: hurt me my feelings. Yeah, and yeah, just a good 97 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,119 Speaker 3: thing to maybe have a look at the expenses coming 98 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 3: in and out of our bank account and what really 99 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: brings us joy. Like, I think it's really important to 100 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 3: still have things in our life and spend the money 101 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 3: that we work really hard on, but things that are 102 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 3: fun and things that we enjoy, Like it's life is 103 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 3: not just about you know, the expenses that's like your 104 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 3: groceries and your electricity. Otherwise it's like where's the fun? 105 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 3: You know? 106 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's about that balance and yeah, where you 107 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: can cut back on some of those things and perhaps 108 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:33,239 Speaker 2: prioritize the things. 109 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 3: That you do really love. When I was like doing 110 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 3: the research for this episode, I kept seeing the quote 111 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 3: of material rich and money poor. Yeah, And I feel like, 112 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 3: especially with how much of it's been normalized to spend 113 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 3: money on really expensive stuff now, I think a lot 114 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 3: of people listening could probably relate to being material rich 115 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 3: and money poor. And what that means is you have 116 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 3: a lot of items that are very expensive, yeap that 117 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 3: you could look around your apartment and see quite a 118 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 3: lot of value and money's worth around, or even look 119 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 3: at your makeup routine and see a couple hundred dollars 120 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 3: in there, But when you look at your savings, that 121 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 3: doesn't that isn't quite reflected there. And again that's not 122 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 3: saying like, look at all your bad investments you've made 123 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 3: at all, because we've all been there. But it's more 124 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 3: to be like, okay, maybe reevaluate, maybe take some learnings 125 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 3: from that, being like, Okay, did I need to spend 126 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 3: you know, one hundred dollars on that thing? No, Okay, 127 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 3: maybe that's one hundred dollars I'll put towards savings next 128 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 3: time and I'll buy a more affordable version of that. 129 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 3: Like it's like doing a bit of an evaluation. Yeah, 130 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 3: that's real reveal performance review of your finance. Yeah, and 131 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 3: you're spending because we love shopping and getting a good 132 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 3: bargain as much as the next person. But it really 133 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 3: has made me think about some of the things that 134 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 3: I own and whether I would repurchase them again. Yeah, 135 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 3: it's like, would you. 136 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 2: Rather see that money reflected in that handbag or in 137 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: your back we're savings account exactly. 138 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 3: And it made me come to the conclusion of you 139 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 3: will never regret a good purchase, Like there have been 140 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 3: things that I've spent a lot of money on but 141 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 3: I needed that or I love it and I do 142 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 3: not regret it, Whereas like, there are things that I 143 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 3: look at and it makes it feel sick, which I 144 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 3: will talk about, But I'm like, you will never ever 145 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 3: ever feel guilty or have that voice in your head 146 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 3: saying should I be doing this when it's a good purchase? 147 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 3: You know deep down and if you have that buyer's 148 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 3: remorse and that buyer is guilt before buying something, you 149 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 3: know it's not a good purchase. I agree. 150 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 2: How good is the feeling when you listen to your 151 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: gut and you didn't buy something, and then a week 152 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 2: later you're like, oh, I'm so glad. 153 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 3: I didn't buy it. Yeah. 154 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think a lot of the time, you know, 155 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 2: similar to the things that we've said in the past, 156 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: but a lot of the time we buy like brand 157 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 2: name things or we invest in really expensive things because 158 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 2: we feel like we need to almost role play that 159 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 2: where successful and doing well. And I think it's really 160 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 2: hard because you see people on TikTok and Instagram wearing 161 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 2: brand names and doing halls of you know what they've 162 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 2: been shopping, and you're like, well I need that and 163 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 2: I need to wear like the Gucci belts so people 164 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 2: can physically see, Okay, she's. 165 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 3: Doing well, but can we stop doing that? Well, that's 166 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 3: a marketing tactic. The marketing tactic of brands is to 167 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 3: sell a lifestyle. Yeah. That's why you'll see so many, 168 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 3: especially fashion brand the content has changed and that's why 169 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 3: it's like like I saw a post from a fashion 170 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 3: brand that was about a girl getting proposed to, but 171 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 3: it's about the dress that she's wearing, right, So it's 172 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 3: like they're selling like, oh look, this dress is perfect 173 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 3: to get proposed yeah, which, you know whatever, brands can 174 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:51,559 Speaker 3: do what they want, but it's good having that in 175 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 3: your mentality of being like you're getting sold a lifestyle, yeah, 176 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 3: rather and that's why it's easy to fall into because 177 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 3: it's like, well, I want to get proposed to, like 178 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 3: you know, and it's it's how those things get in 179 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 3: your brain and it's so easy to like I've fallen 180 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 3: for it so many times. Oh totally. But that's why 181 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 3: continue to do So, that's why we see like that 182 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 3: girl trend, the clean girl trend, the tomato girl trend, 183 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 3: because we're getting sold lifestyles. Yeah, it's like the tomato 184 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 3: girl trend that had popped off about last year because 185 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 3: it was like she's wearing fucking linen and she's in Europe. Yeah, Like, 186 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 3: if you want a tomato, you want to buy linen. 187 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 3: Buy linen because you need it because you're going on 188 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 3: a holiday. Don't buy it because you're a tomato. Yeah, 189 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 3: okay exactly. 190 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 2: But like the validation that you get from those sorts 191 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 2: of things is so fleeting, whereas the validation that you 192 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 2: feel from investing your money in things that actually. 193 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 3: Align with your values where you want to be in life, 194 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 3: or something you actually need, something you actually anything wrong 195 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 3: with buying stuff that you need. Like if you're going 196 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 3: away and you need, you know, a nice outfit because 197 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 3: you're going to a really nice dinner and you're really 198 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 3: excited for that. I think that's so fine, but it's 199 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 3: something that you know you're going to wear again and 200 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 3: again after that, like and it checks. Like the boxes 201 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 3: before your purchase. Yeah, of being like, is it on sale? 202 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:10,319 Speaker 3: Is the cost per we're gonna be low? Okay, so 203 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 3: shall we get into it. I also do want to 204 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 3: have a little disclaimer that just because these didn't work 205 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 3: for us, or didn't work for one of the chicks 206 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 3: that sent it in, doesn't mean it's a bad product, 207 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 3: doesn't mean it's you know, you shouldn't buy it or whatever. 208 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 3: You are so welcome to make your own decisions with 209 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 3: your money. This is just what didn't work for us, 210 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 3: But if it works for someone else, and that's so 211 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 3: great because I'm glad people got their money as well. Yeah, okay, 212 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 3: my first expensive shit not worth the cash Shoka is 213 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 3: that you chicks know that my biggest regret is buying 214 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 3: a designer handbag. Every time I see it, I'm like you, yeah, 215 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 3: Like I still have it and use it because I 216 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 3: need to. Yeah, otherwise I'll be like you fucking eat it. 217 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:04,559 Speaker 3: But I regret spending that amount on one piece. And 218 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 3: again that's not to say no one should buy it, 219 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 3: but for me spending that amount of money towards something 220 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 3: I feel like I could have got better value because 221 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 3: I came one hundred percent get like a leather bag, 222 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 3: a leather handbag for three hundred dollars, not three thousand. Yeah, 223 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 3: Like I think about what that money could have gone towards, 224 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 3: or just could have put in savings or invested it, 225 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 3: and I'm like, cool, it's a bag. Yeah, and I 226 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 3: don't and I don't use it. That's the thing is 227 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 3: like me, I don't use it because I'm scared of 228 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 3: someone stealing it or getting damaged and then I'm not 229 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 3: getting any cost per wear out of it. Yeah. And 230 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 3: it was a lifestyle thing. Yeah, Like I was like, oh, 231 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:44,719 Speaker 3: it's a nice bag, and then I was seeing it 232 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 3: all over TikTok and all over Pinterest and the lifestyles 233 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 3: of like wear this bag feats out like oh that's 234 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 3: the nice I need it, I want it, I love it. Yeah, 235 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 3: and I can't even fit all my shit in it. 236 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 3: It's so stupid. Yeah, it's like the utility is not it. Yeah, 237 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 3: Like I'll use it, but I definitely regret buying it. 238 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 3: But I'm also not the only one that has this 239 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 3: opinion because designer stuff and name brand products, in my 240 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 3: opinion and a lot of the Chicks submissions, is just 241 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 3: not worth the money. And so when I was doing 242 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 3: the research, one creator called Christine on TikTok. I'll link 243 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 3: it in the show notes. Did a whole series of 244 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 3: purchases she regrets, and I'm going to say, like eighty 245 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 3: percent of them were designer products. Wow. So I don't 246 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 3: know if I missed any of them, but I think 247 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 3: I got all of them, and four out of five 248 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 3: were a designer product. Oh my god. So number one 249 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 3: was the Gucci slides. These were one four hundred and 250 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 3: fifty dollars and she said they were super uncomfortable, had 251 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 3: blisters and she had to get them resold so they 252 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 3: weren't slippery. Oh no. The next were the Frankie shot 253 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 3: Bee trousers. So these are three hundred and ninety eight 254 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 3: dollars and their polyester pants with what she said like 255 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 3: have a very fast fashioned feel to them. Right. The 256 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 3: next was a wiresel smoking moto jacket, and I couldn't 257 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 3: find the exact style, but she did say she bought 258 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 3: it secondhand. But I looked up a wire cl leather 259 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 3: jacket and it retails for over seven thousand dollars. And 260 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 3: the biggest thing with this is she said the whole 261 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 3: time that she was talking with the seller. She had 262 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 3: the voice in her head being like, I don't know 263 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 3: if I should be buying this, Like her body was 264 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 3: like propulsed by it, and she felt like she shouldn't 265 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 3: be doing it. So it's like listening to that voice. 266 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 3: And then the fourth out of fifth was the Chloe's 267 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 3: Susanna Boots YEP which retail for one thy eight hundred 268 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 3: and last but not least, was the Dice in air 269 00:13:54,679 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 3: rap Yeah whell so on that. This was the second 270 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:07,199 Speaker 3: most popular submission that we received to our question box 271 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 3: on Instagram, and I actually did all the numbers on it, 272 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 3: and thirteen percent of responses to expensive shit that wasn't 273 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 3: worth the money was the Dyson Wow. Yeah. So I 274 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 3: also want to preface this by saying that I've had 275 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 3: my Dison air at for that five years and I 276 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 3: I love it. I love it, but it works really 277 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 3: well with my hair and I actually use it, Whereas 278 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 3: I think the main downfall that I've seen and the 279 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 3: main kind of negative review is it not working on 280 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 3: people's hair, like their hair drops out of it quite 281 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 3: quickly or they just don't have the time to use it. 282 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 3: And it's definitely a product that you have to kind 283 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 3: of do it. Probably you've got to have wet hair. 284 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 3: You've got to, you know, maybe put some product in 285 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 3: it to make a hold of bit better. And you've 286 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 3: got to take the time to fully blow dry your hair. 287 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 3: But yeah, if you're not someone who wants to spend 288 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 3: time doing your hair, then it's probably not the best investment. 289 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 3: I also bought my dice in the first edition secondhand 290 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 3: on Facebook marketplace, so I paid like four hundred dollars 291 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 3: for it, whereas now it retails for eight hundred and 292 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 3: forty nine dollars. And I looked up the price from 293 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 3: when it first launch and it was six hundred and 294 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 3: ninety nine dollars. Yeah, but it had has had some 295 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 3: like tweaks to it. 296 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 2: Does I have like different attachments and the textiles, Like 297 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 2: you don't have to switch the barrels anymore. 298 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 3: It's got like a long barrel and a short barrel. 299 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 3: But I still have the first edition. I haven't bought 300 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 3: a new one and it still does the job. Yeah, 301 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 3: But yeah, I think the thing with the dice in 302 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 3: air rap is you can go in store, you can 303 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 3: book in and they'll give you a blow dry and 304 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 3: you can test the dice in air rap and see 305 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 3: if it holds on your hair or if you know 306 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 3: someone that has it, borrow theirs for maybe a weekend, 307 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 3: and see if you like it, see if you'll actually 308 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 3: use it, because nearly nine hundred dollars eight hundred and 309 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 3: forty nine that is a lot of money on something 310 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 3: that you won't won't use. Yeah, and go look on 311 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 3: faceook marketplace, yeah, honestly, or wait till Black Friday or 312 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 3: a sale event. Yeah. 313 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I think so many people were influenced by 314 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: the trend of the dice in air rap, you know, 315 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 2: over the last it because especially stars of Matilda Jeff 316 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 2: and her amazing bouncy blow dry. 317 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, she looks gorgeous, but her hair. 318 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 2: Was like made for the diceon airp for a nineties 319 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 2: blow dry, like she is, Like if you look up 320 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 2: dice and air app in the dictionary, there's probably a 321 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 2: picture of her. 322 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 3: Oh definitely. 323 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 2: So it's not gonna work for everyone. So I think 324 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 2: that's such a good tip to try it first. 325 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely try it first. But because you love it, 326 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 3: I love mine. But there's also other products that are 327 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 3: a lot more affordable that you can get the same look. 328 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 3: Like I've heard lots of really good things about the 329 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 3: Diboost blow dry brush. I also well, we also tested 330 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 3: the Mermaid hair air curl and their blow dry brush, 331 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 3: and I really liked that. I thought the look was 332 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 3: honestly bang on. Yeah, so what to buy instead is 333 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 3: good quality affordable basics or like better yet shop secondhand. 334 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 3: So if you want good basics, I am obsessed with Uniclo. 335 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 3: I cannot stop recommending them for basics because the price 336 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 3: to the like fabric and quality of what you get 337 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:39,239 Speaker 3: is just so so good in my opinion. Like the 338 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:43,360 Speaker 3: styles are very universal, meaning they're not super trend focused. 339 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 3: It's all basics, so it's so good. You can also 340 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 3: get alterations in uniclose stores, which is for short girlies 341 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 3: amazing because you can get like the jeans taken up 342 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 3: or the pants taken up, and I just love them. 343 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 3: But Uniclo have a sustainability rating of out of five, 344 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 3: and I think it's really hard to find affordable basics 345 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 3: that are made with a good material that are you know, 346 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 3: above a three, a three and above because a lot 347 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:15,160 Speaker 3: of you know, those brands that sit more affordable are 348 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 3: going to sit at a one to or two because 349 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:20,400 Speaker 3: they're affordable when we look at affordable clothing, a lot 350 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 3: of the time it means it's not the kindest to 351 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 3: the planet, and that's why it's more affordable. Yeah, and 352 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 3: then when we look at sustainable, because there's more sustainable practices, 353 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 3: it will increase the price. So it's very difficult to 354 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 3: find the middle ground. And I feel like uniclothes probably 355 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 3: the closest thing to that middle ground. But yeah, that's 356 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 3: where I would shop if you want to invest in 357 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 3: pieces that are good quality and affordable. And then Bettiette 358 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 3: shop secondhand. 359 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 2: Okay, my first expensive shiet that isn't worth the money 360 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 2: for me personally is hair extensions. 361 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 3: So no, for years, for literal years, I wore hair extensions. 362 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 2: What yeah, from maybe about when I was in year ten, 363 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 2: which was about two thousand and eight to twenty fifteen, 364 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 2: I wore hair extensions. 365 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 3: What's the fuck? But you've always had long hair. But 366 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 3: that's the thing. 367 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 2: When I was like in year ten, I didn't really 368 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 2: like my hair was about would have been shorter than yours. 369 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 2: I also had like, you know, like a razor cut 370 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 2: mullet and then it's like thin on the ends, Like 371 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 2: that was the. 372 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 3: Look at the time. But then you. 373 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 2: The further extension of that look PUN intended was then 374 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 2: to have like long extensions in it. And then as 375 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 2: like I got older, you know, my hair changed. I 376 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 2: always wanted a little bit more length and more thickness, 377 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 2: so I always wore extensions. I used to wear sew 378 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 2: in extensions, oh for. 379 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 3: A long time. They're really expensive. 380 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 2: Tape in extensions I've had. And then also clip ins 381 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 2: as well, yeah, which I do think if you're going 382 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 2: to pick anything, if you've never had extensions before, clip 383 00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 2: ins is like a good place to start. 384 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 3: And also because I. 385 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 2: Just hate the feeling of having fucking extensions in your. 386 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 3: Head and you want to like scratch your scalp and 387 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 3: you can't. 388 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:13,720 Speaker 2: Sorry, I just add a flash back, but when I 389 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 2: first started getting hair extensions, like the prices have changed 390 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 2: a lot since then, because we're talking like fifteen years. 391 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 2: But I probably haven't worn hair extensions since like maybe 392 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, and I did have tape in hair extensions 393 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 2: at that time, but I had a look and according 394 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 2: to the Australian Beauty School in Salon, hair extensions can 395 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 2: cost between five hundred and eight hundred dollars per installation. 396 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 2: How much you'll pay will of course depend on the 397 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 2: quality of the hair, the quality of the salon, if 398 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 2: you're working with a hair extension specialist, which I do 399 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 2: think is really important in terms of the application, and 400 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 2: also removal of the extensions to protect your hair. 401 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 3: But clip ins are. 402 00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:00,199 Speaker 2: Of course, like I said, a more affordable option. I 403 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 2: used to use hair extensions from Zala Hair. 404 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,400 Speaker 3: I remember them throw a back yeah, which around. 405 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 2: Yeah they are, yeah, and they're still really popular, I believe, 406 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 2: but those started at ninety nine dollars, but that was for. 407 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 3: Like like one string, yeah, so like quite. 408 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 2: Short length of hair, whereas I used to get like 409 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 2: the twenty two inch or whatever and then get them 410 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 2: cut into And the thing for me is what I 411 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,640 Speaker 2: will say is that like a lot of people want 412 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 2: to play with the length of their hair their hair 413 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:35,479 Speaker 2: not like might not grow as quickly. I was talking 414 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 2: to a hairdresser the other day and she was like, yeah, well, 415 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 2: you know, we see a lot of people who experience 416 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 2: hair loss, so they want hair extensions, you know. So 417 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 2: there's lots of different reasons why people would want hair extensions. 418 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 3: And I'm not saying. 419 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 2: That it is, you know, completely worthless investment, but for 420 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 2: me personally, what my goal with my hair extensions was 421 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 2: to have longer and thicker hair because I wasn't going 422 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:07,360 Speaker 2: too you know, a really qualified hair extension specialist. The 423 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 2: amount of damage that they did to my hair every 424 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,640 Speaker 2: single time, I would get so much breakage when I 425 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 2: was removing it that it just if I had left 426 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 2: it and instead focused on investing in good quality shampoo 427 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 2: and conditioner, hair masks, getting regular trims, things like that, 428 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 2: my hair would have grown and been thicker so much 429 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 2: quicker than when I was wearing hair extensions. And once 430 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 2: I did stop wearing hair extensions and did start focusing 431 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 2: on those things, that's exactly why I And I'm just like, yeah, God, 432 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 2: damn it, Like I just wish I knew that in 433 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 2: hindsight for me personally, because I know that in my 434 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 2: teens and early twenties, I spent a lot of money 435 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:54,120 Speaker 2: on hair extensions. 436 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, what to buy instead? 437 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 2: Invest in a good quality hair mask, heat protect and 438 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 2: good shampoo and conditioner. Visit a hairdresser who can give 439 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 2: you good advice on which products to use for your 440 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:14,239 Speaker 2: particular hair type and your hair concerns and goals. You know, 441 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 2: like I go to the hairdressers twice a year. Yeah, 442 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 2: Like that's all it takes for me. And even deciding 443 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 2: to go from jet black hair, which is what I 444 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 2: had for the majority of the time when I had 445 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 2: hair extensions two or more lived in Ballyage. That means 446 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 2: that instead of having to get my hair done every 447 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 2: three months, I now get it done once or twice 448 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 2: a year. One of my personal favorites, which I've spoking 449 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,119 Speaker 2: about many times on the show, loosely, braid your hair 450 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,439 Speaker 2: before you go to sleep. I used to wear it 451 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 2: up in a top knot, and shit, it's not good 452 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 2: for your hair. Causes a lot of breakage and tension 453 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 2: on your hair. And sleep on a silk pillowcase. 454 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 3: Sure do well. Everyone always asks you if you have extensions. 455 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 2: They do, yeah, and they're always so shocked, and I'm like, yeah, 456 00:23:58,560 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 2: the special moment. 457 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:05,639 Speaker 3: My next expensive shit not worth the cash. AirPods I 458 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 3: don't like. I don't like it well because ever since 459 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 3: I got like noise canceling overhead headphones, my life has changed. 460 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 3: I just I know some people love their AirPods, but 461 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,199 Speaker 3: for me, they always fall out of my ears, like 462 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 3: they always like, you can't go for a run in them. 463 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 3: You can barely even go for a brisk wall because 464 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe I've got really small ears. I've 465 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 3: had the wind blow an airport out. 466 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 2: Of my ear before me, the window, the toad from 467 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 2: the wind, and the willows. 468 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,239 Speaker 3: Of my ears just they fall out. And here's the 469 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:46,479 Speaker 3: thing for me, there's three pieces. There's three things I 470 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 3: can lose. You lose one AirPod, you're fucked. You lose 471 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 3: the case, you're fucked. There is too many things I 472 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 3: can lose in that arrangement that I just I can't 473 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 3: do it. Yeah, don't play They're not for me. And 474 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,399 Speaker 3: I also just think the sound on them is just 475 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 3: it's not it's not there for me. In saying this, 476 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 3: I never got like the Pro ones. I had like 477 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 3: the first edition ones, but I've used your Pro ones 478 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 3: and I don't like them. I definitely like the pros 479 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 3: better than I was inside your ear. Yeah, but I also. 480 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,120 Speaker 2: Have beats which I've had for like I think three 481 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 2: or four years now. 482 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, and the sound quality is so much Well, that's 483 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 3: the thing, and that's what I was gonna say. Is 484 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 3: my wa to buy instead is a good pair of 485 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 3: noise canceling overhead headphones. Like they are just they've been 486 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,440 Speaker 3: a game changer for me. The ones that I have 487 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 3: that I absolutely love that I think I've convinced that 488 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 3: like four friends to buy and they are an investment. 489 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 3: Is the both quiet comfort headphones. And my favorite thing 490 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:54,120 Speaker 3: about these is one they do not fall out anywhere. 491 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 3: They stay on your head. They're great. They're also really 492 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 3: really comfy, like really really comfy. They don't hurt any 493 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 3: of my piercings in my ears, and the noise cancelation 494 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 3: of them is lit. It's great. And they can connect 495 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 3: to multiple devices at once. I don't know if airports 496 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 3: can do that now. I don't know mine. I don't 497 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 3: think mine could do it. Whereas I my headphones will 498 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 3: connect to my laptop and my phone at the same time. 499 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 3: When I'm working and I'm working on my laptop and 500 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 3: I'm listening to something with my laptop, I can pick 501 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 3: up my phone and my phone will go through the 502 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 3: headphones as well. Oh it just yeah, I think the 503 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 3: airports do that. Do they do that? Okay, I don't 504 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 3: know if I did that. I hate when it does that, though, 505 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 3: Oh really I like it. 506 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,640 Speaker 2: That's only because when I'm like, when I'm like listening 507 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 2: to something like it's always because I'm like editing something 508 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,719 Speaker 2: or whatever, listening back to the podcast, and then I 509 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:45,680 Speaker 2: like pick up my phone and like open Instagram that 510 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 2: it like goes over to that. 511 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 3: Too real and I'm like no, stop, see I like that. 512 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 3: And then there's only one thing you can lose, and 513 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 3: they're a lot bigger, so it's not harder to lose them. Yeah, 514 00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 3: they don't end up in the washing machine, you know 515 00:26:59,480 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 3: what I mean. 516 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,399 Speaker 2: I think wait for a sale event, like these things 517 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 2: go on sale during Black Friday or like when it's 518 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 2: Christmas and you're. 519 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 3: Like what do I want? 520 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, be like mom, Dad, party high. I feel like, 521 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,239 Speaker 2: can you please all pull in for a JB Like 522 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 2: I love them. 523 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like it's a I don't know if it's 524 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 3: a bit of a boring purchase, but and I think 525 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 3: it's worth the spurge, especially when you're using them every day, 526 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 3: Like I use them every day when I'm going for 527 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 3: a walk or a run, or on transport or going 528 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,199 Speaker 3: on an airplane. Not that that's every day, but like 529 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 3: whenever I'm going on an overseas trip, you need the 530 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 3: nolise canceling headphones. Yeah, that's how I justify them. 531 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 2: I'd be like, especially when we worked in an office job, 532 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm wearing my headphones day, ten. 533 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:50,439 Speaker 3: Hours a day, and that's not hyperbole. So Yeppos, I 534 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 3: love them. 535 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 2: My last expensive shit that's not worth the money is 536 00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 2: bottomless brunch. 537 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 3: Oh, because you're so right. No, you're so right. Fuck you, 538 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:06,120 Speaker 3: you're so controversial. No, but you're so right. This one 539 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,879 Speaker 3: maybe has an asterix. Maybe, but for me, oh, I 540 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 3: know where we're going with it. 541 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,200 Speaker 2: But for some people and in some situations, maybe a 542 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,919 Speaker 2: bottomless brunch can give you bang for buck. But for 543 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 2: me personally, I never feel like I can eat and 544 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 2: drink enough in the allotted period of an hour and 545 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 2: a half, which it usually is to make. 546 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:32,880 Speaker 3: Up the money. Yeah. Ever yeah, Also, I'm a vegetarian. 547 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 2: I don't know if anybody else with dietares feels this way. 548 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 2: But a lot of the time the bottomless brunch, the 549 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 2: appeal is, oh, you get to have options. I can 550 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 2: have this taco and this taco and this taco. Most 551 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 2: of the time I look and there's one option, and 552 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 2: most of the time it's fucking mushroom anyway, eggplant or 553 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 2: eggplant you have. 554 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 3: Two favorites, my two favorites. 555 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 2: But regardless, even if it was something I really enjoyed, 556 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 2: i'd be like, oh, well, I'm sort of just snacking 557 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 2: on the one thing. And usually I look at it 558 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I probably would have been better off 559 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 2: buying one cocktail, yeah, having three tacos, and then probably 560 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 2: getting a vodka lime soda. 561 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 3: And that's what I would usually room in about them 562 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 3: now too, So like the rules will be like you've 563 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 3: got to finish the I mean, it's probably just the 564 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 3: responsible service of alcohol totally, but it's like you've got 565 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 3: to finish like that drink before you can order another drink. 566 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 3: And I find that with some places the service is 567 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 3: very slow, so that you can't get as many drinks 568 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 3: within the time. That's not to say everywhere, but I've 569 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 3: definitely noticed that at some It's like I'm there and 570 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 3: my drink is empty, but my drink's been empty for ages, 571 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 3: and I'm trying to get a drink and it takes 572 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 3: a while to get it out because and who knows 573 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 3: if that's on purpose or if I'm just banging for 574 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 3: a bed. You were cut off, and I'm like, oh, 575 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 3: come on, but yeah, I completely agree. And I feel 576 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 3: like bottomless brunches started at like sixty bucks and now 577 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 3: they're very much more towards the eighty to like nine 578 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 3: hundred of wheny I've seen some more. But here's the thing, 579 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 3: I get full really quickly. I don't feel like I 580 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 3: can eat as much to get the value sam of it. 581 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 3: Like I love picking at everything, but I I just 582 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 3: but I also feel like that's a bit of a waste. 583 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 3: And when I like when I eat heaps, I don't 584 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 3: really feel like drinking heats. Same when I drink heaps, 585 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 3: I don't really feel like eating heaps. I do eat 586 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 3: be responsible, but like you're like, I want like a 587 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 3: huge part. We're getting old, babe. 588 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 1: I know. 589 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 3: I kind of feel the same about set menus as well. 590 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 3: Like I know that these are typically I think that's 591 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 3: because of you being a vegetarian exactly, So I know. 592 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 2: That they're typically cheaper than ordering each of the meals 593 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 2: like ala catte. Yeah, but again, because for me, I 594 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 2: might call this is one thing I can have. 595 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 3: It sounds good. I'm also like a picky eater. 596 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 2: I know what I like, and I'm like, for me, 597 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 2: it's probably better off to just order what I want. 598 00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 2: So that's why that one has an asterix. And also 599 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 2: because I also don't want to try a really good 600 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 2: bottomless brunch one time and be like, guess what, this 601 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 2: one actually was really good to my money, because I 602 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 2: do think that there are ones out definitely, Yeah, but 603 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 2: I just think across the board, so what to buy? 604 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 3: What to buy? Instead? I think go for a happy hour. 605 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 2: That I was gonna say, because usually there's a little 606 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 2: bit more variety in what you can get. And also 607 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 2: make sure that you're using apps like First Table, Eat 608 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 2: Club or Happiest hour to find happy hour deals and 609 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 2: cheap meal deals near you, because a lot of the 610 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 2: time they're not as there's not as many tea and 611 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 2: c's as there are for a bottomless brunch, and that's 612 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 2: what I typically prefer to do. 613 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 3: I mean, that's right, Yeah, that's a good point. There 614 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 3: aren't as many like teas and teas for a happy hour. Yeah. 615 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, sure the happy hour might go for 616 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 2: two hours, but that's. 617 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 3: The same amount of time as a bottomless brunch. 618 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, But it's like if you're just going for drinks 619 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 2: or like, you can do that and then like order 620 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 2: whatever you want from the pub at the same time, 621 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 2: or like going to the pub on like the cheap 622 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 2: Tuesday when you can get the Pami or the Burger special, 623 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 2: like eyeing those out being like, yeah, I'm a burger girl, 624 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 2: so I'll go for the Friday Burgers. 625 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 3: I respect it, I like it, thank you. So let's 626 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 3: get into the chicks submissions. Now. This one's from Sarah 627 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 3: and this one made me fucking fizz my pants. So 628 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 3: expensive shit not worth the cash. Go traveling on your own, 629 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 3: go with your bestie or alone, and protect the memories. 630 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 4: Holidays can make or break oh my god, relationship and 631 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 4: especially what we've said before is don't book an overseas holiday, 632 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 4: like if you've been dating for like less than twelve 633 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 4: months in advance, like. 634 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 3: If you've been dating for six months, don't book a 635 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 3: holiday through inny year's time. I agree, because you don't 636 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 3: know it's gonna happen. 637 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 2: Also, if your relationship is on the rock, yes, don't book. 638 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 2: Don't do it holiday, especially if it's a one like 639 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 2: a month long trip to Europe. Next one Stanley and 640 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 2: Frank green Yettie is so much better from Vail. 641 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 3: I love the name BeO me too. See we haven't 642 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,040 Speaker 3: tried Yetti's. Yeah, we've got Frank Green's. Yeah. And to 643 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 3: be honest, I've got the Stanley Cup and Stanley Cup's 644 00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 3: cute and good, but you can't close it, yeah, And 645 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 3: I think that's a massive downfall of it because you 646 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 3: can't like chuck it in your bag. But I like 647 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 3: there's also the other thing on the Frank Green that 648 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 3: people don't like that you have to touch the lid thing. 649 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 3: But they've got that new button, yeah, that you can press. 650 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 3: I mean so many people already have their Frank Green 651 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 3: that now like you've got to repurchase another thing exactly. 652 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. I think the best water bottle is 653 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 3: the one you use. 654 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I like mine, but it is it's an 655 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:46,880 Speaker 2: expensive purchase, it is. 656 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 3: And I got mine as a gift. So that's probably 657 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 3: why I got two. Is a gift. Yeah, I did, 658 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 3: Lucky girl. It does keep the water and icing cold 659 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 3: though I use mine so much, and like you do 660 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 3: end up drinking more water from having like an emotional 661 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 3: support water bottle. But I don't necessarily think you need 662 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,400 Speaker 3: to spend like sixty bucks on a water bottle if 663 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 3: you want to go get one just from grandma or whatever. Yeah, 664 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 3: I agree, it'll serve the same purpose. Okay. Our next 665 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:17,319 Speaker 3: one from the Chicks Everything health and well being is 666 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 3: dry brushing, tongue scraping, et cetera. Worth it. Oh, I 667 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 3: really want to get a tongue scraper, so I'll report 668 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 3: back on this, Yeah, because it would be so satisfying. 669 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 3: Oh that's the thing, and I soon am I talking 670 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:34,760 Speaker 3: about this all the time. I hate brushing my tongue 671 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 3: because I'm fucking cat cowing over it sink me. 672 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,280 Speaker 2: But I'm like, will the tongue scraper avoid that issue 673 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 2: or is it just gonna be? 674 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 3: I think it will. I think it will. Okay, we 675 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:49,840 Speaker 3: can try it. Yeah. The dry brushing one I kind 676 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:53,360 Speaker 3: of agree with. Like I would try dry brushing, but 677 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 3: it's a fun like wellness activity. I don't know if 678 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 3: I necessarily You tried it, didn't you? Yeah you liked it? Yeah? 679 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's good. But I think that's the thing. 680 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,280 Speaker 2: It's just like depends on what you need as well. 681 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 3: Like I'm like, I'm so dry, Like I need all 682 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 3: the help I can get, you know what I mean? Like, 683 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 3: fuck me, I'm so dry, you know what I mean? 684 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 3: It's true okay, and then the last one, which I 685 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 3: think you had a fun little stat to this one. 686 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I did so the last expensive shit that isn't 687 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 2: worth the money from the chicks dresses as a wedding guest. 688 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:41,439 Speaker 3: That's from a I completely agree. 689 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,879 Speaker 2: Yep, And we've got we've got a stat to back, 690 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 2: we've got some stats by So, according to a twenty 691 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 2: twenty three Finder study, wedding guests spent on average one thousand, 692 00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 2: nine hundred and ninety three dollars to attend their life 693 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:08,959 Speaker 2: one's special day. Keep in mind, on average, this included travel, accommodation, gifts, 694 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:13,840 Speaker 2: pre wedding activities such as hens nights, engagement parties, and 695 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 2: a new dress or suit, of which the average person 696 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 2: spends two hundred and fifty nine dollars on a new 697 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 2: suit or dress. 698 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 3: So is that one thousand dollars for one wedding? Yeah, 699 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 3: the one and ninety three. Oh, I'm so glad I 700 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:32,760 Speaker 3: only have one friend that's engaged. 701 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, But like it makes sense if you think about 702 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,880 Speaker 2: the game. You're going to a destination wedding if you 703 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 2: have to stay at a hotel, But the average wedding 704 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 2: guest attendee spends two hundred and fifty nine dollars on 705 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:49,719 Speaker 2: the dress or suit alone according to the studies. 706 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 3: So wow, and people and like it gets like years, 707 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,839 Speaker 3: that's like wedding seasons. Yeah, and people have like ten 708 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 3: weddings in a year. Yeah, that's ten thousand when you're 709 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:01,799 Speaker 3: going with that start. 710 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,840 Speaker 2: When you get into your late twenties and early thirties especially, 711 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,840 Speaker 2: it is wedding season and baby season galore. 712 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's so expensive. And like, I love weddings. 713 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 3: I love weddings. I love seeing people get married and 714 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:19,840 Speaker 3: do their dance and like the bar. But you know 715 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,560 Speaker 3: that's going back there, But you don't me. I'm treating 716 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 3: weddings like a bottomless brunch, Like I spend one thousand 717 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,360 Speaker 3: dollars to get here. I'm getting a thousand dollars of 718 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 3: the fucking open bar to being like, this dress is 719 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 3: three hundred dollars. Open the wine, baby, get the rose 720 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 3: over here. You were me going to be best friends 721 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:46,759 Speaker 3: bartending Just kidding, obs, not really, But obviously people spend 722 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 3: a lot of money per head for weddings as well. 723 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 3: But I think that does shine a really good light 724 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 3: on it that you don't need to buy a new 725 00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:56,840 Speaker 3: dress for every wedding. 726 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,040 Speaker 2: If you think about all of these expenses, basically the 727 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 2: only one that you can buy once and reuse across 728 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:05,400 Speaker 2: multiple weddings is the output. 729 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 3: Borrow your friends, Like if you're all going to the 730 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 3: same weddings, collectively buy your wardrobe so then you can 731 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 3: best Yeah, or. 732 00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 2: Buy a neutral dress that you feel good in, that 733 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 2: is a color that you love that you can wear 734 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 2: to multiple events. 735 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,520 Speaker 3: That's what I do. Did you see that the actress 736 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,839 Speaker 3: that plays Eloise Bridgeton for their press tool bought one 737 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,600 Speaker 3: suit and did all of her press in one suit? 738 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:39,440 Speaker 3: The showcase? Like re wearing your outfits and like embracing 739 00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 3: the Lizzie Maguire you were an outfit repeater. Yeah, so good. Yeah, 740 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,840 Speaker 3: I love her. She's the best. Yeah, she's so cool. 741 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,279 Speaker 3: I want to be friends with her. She'd be a 742 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,839 Speaker 3: good laugh. Yeah. Okay, shall I get into advice. 743 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 2: With the chicks? 744 00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:59,440 Speaker 3: Okay, So long story short. I thought I could handle 745 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 3: credit cards, and I couldn't. I'm twenty one and have 746 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 3: two credit cards that amount about nine thousand dollars in debt. 747 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 3: I have so many things this year that I need 748 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 3: to pay for, and I need to pay five thousand 749 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 3: dollars off in the next three months before I do 750 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 3: any of it, as I feel if I don't pay 751 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,240 Speaker 3: one card off, I will be a mess. My problem 752 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 3: is I am literally addicted to shopping. I know how 753 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,920 Speaker 3: it sounds. It's crazy, but it's the instant gratification it 754 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 3: gives me. But I'm being honest. I do really want 755 00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 3: to pay this off. For reference, I earn about one 756 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 3: point five to two thousand dollars a fortnight, sometimes more, 757 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,520 Speaker 3: sometimes less. However, I am living out of home and 758 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 3: have bills and expenses. I have tried for a balanced 759 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 3: transfer and was denied with absolute fear reason. So please 760 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,200 Speaker 3: tell me. If anyone has tips, whether it's to stop shopping, 761 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 3: to combine my debt, etc. Whatever it is, please give 762 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 3: me your advice. I want to pay it off, but 763 00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 3: I physically keep justifying every purchase and I feel so 764 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,920 Speaker 3: bad for it. I never want a credit card again 765 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,360 Speaker 3: after this, But my bills come off of it and 766 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 3: I pay the card back bit by bit. But it's 767 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 3: like I keep this bad cycle on by funding the 768 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 3: card to pay for bills than any additional I spend. 769 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 3: Please help a girl out. I'm not looking for judgment 770 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 3: or for people to be rude, just some advice if 771 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:25,839 Speaker 3: you have any Oh gosh, that makes you feel so 772 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:30,920 Speaker 3: sick for you, Like, yeah, I know how stressful this 773 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 3: would be, and there's absolutely no judgment from us. We 774 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 3: know that this kind of stuff is a slippery slope. 775 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:41,720 Speaker 3: But so you worked as a credit cards editor for years, 776 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:45,280 Speaker 3: so I'm sure that you have some tipsah advice. Yeah. 777 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,400 Speaker 2: I think before we did this episode, and you know, 778 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,960 Speaker 2: we were looking at the submissions from the chicks, we 779 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,840 Speaker 2: were talking about should you ever get a credit card 780 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 2: in your twenties? I think it honestly depends. I personally 781 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 2: never did, even being a credit card editor and being 782 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:06,280 Speaker 2: you know, well versed in credit cards, because I think 783 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:08,799 Speaker 2: whether or not it's suitable really comes down to your 784 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:13,480 Speaker 2: spending habits and financial needs. I think, personally, a credit 785 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 2: card is only of good use if you're purely using 786 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,759 Speaker 2: it to buy things that you can immediately pay off 787 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,840 Speaker 2: because you're earning points, or you're using it to build 788 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 2: up your credit score and credit history, which you can 789 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 2: only do if you're making your payments on time and 790 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 2: not collecting or attracting interest. 791 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 3: So I think that's the thing, Like you really. 792 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 2: Need to sit down and have a like good hard think, 793 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 2: like what are your spending habits? Like do you use 794 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:48,880 Speaker 2: a lot of buy now, pay later services? Do you 795 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 2: find that you know you're sort of going paycheck to paycheck? 796 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 2: Do you struggle to save money or like really know 797 00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 2: where your money is? 798 00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 3: Like literacy, Yeah, and I think say that you have 799 00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,719 Speaker 3: good financial literacy. Yeah, And there's no shame if you're like, oh, 800 00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,359 Speaker 3: I actually have no idea, Like. 801 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 2: Ignorance is bliss when it comes to my money. I 802 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,080 Speaker 2: think a lot of people have that approach. And I 803 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,239 Speaker 2: think a lot of people look at credit cards as 804 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 2: a way to get some breathing room. And I think 805 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,359 Speaker 2: if you're going to look at it like that, I 806 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 2: personally wouldn't get one. 807 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 3: But we're here, now you've got the credit cards. 808 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,080 Speaker 2: This isn't financial advice, we will say, I think it 809 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 2: could really be worth maybe going to speak to someone. 810 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,280 Speaker 2: I know that is an additional expense, but a financial 811 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 2: advisor or an accountant could help give you an actionable 812 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,799 Speaker 2: plan on how to pay down your debt that will 813 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:42,480 Speaker 2: work for you. 814 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,160 Speaker 3: And they have all the licenses and everything to give 815 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 3: you that advice. 816 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,760 Speaker 2: If I was talking to someone generally with a credit 817 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 2: card debt. I would have said to potentially get a 818 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:55,600 Speaker 2: balanced transfer, which she did mention her submission, which is 819 00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,960 Speaker 2: basically a credit card that allows you to transfer a 820 00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 2: debt or multiple debts, from one credit card that's attracting 821 00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:06,080 Speaker 2: interest to a credit card that charges no interest for 822 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,759 Speaker 2: a promotional period. So, for example, this promotional period may 823 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 2: last for twenty eight months, and that will give you 824 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:16,600 Speaker 2: twenty eight months to pay down your debt without attracting 825 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 2: any further interest. So again, it gives you a bit 826 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,800 Speaker 2: of like breathing room to concentrate. 827 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 3: On paying that down. 828 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:25,560 Speaker 2: But even if you've got a balanced transfer credit card, 829 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:30,279 Speaker 2: you should never use it to make purchases or new purchases. Ever, 830 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 2: So in this situation, would you like because she obviously 831 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:37,120 Speaker 2: can't do that, Yeah, would The first thing if you 832 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,160 Speaker 2: in this situation do would be is stop paying your 833 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 2: bills on this credit card. So the first thing that 834 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 2: I would do is stop using your card to make 835 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:48,160 Speaker 2: purchases full stop. Yeah, take off any recurring bills that 836 00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:51,439 Speaker 2: you've got on there, stop using it to make any 837 00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 2: new purchases, and focus purely on paying the debt off. 838 00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 2: I think that you know, removing the recurring payments in 839 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,560 Speaker 2: your bills is a first app. The second would be 840 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,400 Speaker 2: remove your card details from your Apple Pay, remove it 841 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,840 Speaker 2: from any places that it might be saved in online 842 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,279 Speaker 2: accounts where you use it to check out, remove it 843 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 2: from after pay if you've been using it on that 844 00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 2: anything like that. Go through all of your accounts and 845 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 2: take it off so it's not even an option. Take 846 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 2: it out of your digital wallet whatever you use, and 847 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 2: then leave it at home. Don't take it out with 848 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,719 Speaker 2: you when you're going shopping. Leave it like hidden or 849 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 2: locked away so you won't be tempted to make any purchases. 850 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 3: It's not even an option. I would do whatever it 851 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,080 Speaker 3: to lock in a box and throw it to like 852 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:42,360 Speaker 3: have it away. And then it's going to be really hard. 853 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:46,320 Speaker 3: Yeah you're breaking like an addiction, because yeah, I think 854 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,400 Speaker 3: it's it is really hard, and there is such an 855 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 3: element of addiction to shopping that it's finding the triggers 856 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:57,279 Speaker 3: as well. And if that is things like social media, 857 00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 3: like one thing I did when I felt like I 858 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 3: was shopping to which is eye went and unfollowed every brand, 859 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:06,680 Speaker 3: Like a shopping addiction is a very real thing. 860 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:10,719 Speaker 2: Like we're not being like TIHI shopoholics like it actually 861 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:14,960 Speaker 2: is a genuine addiction. So I don't don't downplay that 862 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 2: or like I know you said, like it sounds silly. 863 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:18,480 Speaker 3: It doesn't at all. 864 00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:20,680 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people experience it. But I 865 00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 2: think that if you concentrate on paying off your debt 866 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:29,279 Speaker 2: and not making any future purchases on that card, you 867 00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:33,279 Speaker 2: will slowly but surely pay off your debt. And I 868 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 2: think that the more that you pay off your debt, 869 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 2: you're showing your bank good science, good behavior that you're 870 00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,120 Speaker 2: paying it off. And as you're doing that and your 871 00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 2: debt is going down, also keep tabs on your credit 872 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,399 Speaker 2: score and look at your credit report and see if 873 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 2: that's gonna improve, because typically it does when you're paying 874 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,960 Speaker 2: your bills on time. And also the amount of debt 875 00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,919 Speaker 2: that you have is being lowered. And keep an eye 876 00:45:59,960 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 2: on that because you may be able to apply for 877 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 2: a balance transfer card in future when your debt is 878 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 2: smaller and you've improved your credit score. But again I 879 00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:11,839 Speaker 2: would make sure that you're doing all that, do all 880 00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,400 Speaker 2: your research, know what the eligibility requirements are before applying 881 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,359 Speaker 2: for that future balance transfer card. 882 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 3: If you do decide to do that. But paying down 883 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:21,320 Speaker 3: your debt now. 884 00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:25,040 Speaker 2: Will potentially make it easier for you to get approval 885 00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:29,439 Speaker 2: in the future. But stop using your current credit card 886 00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:30,840 Speaker 2: to make any purchases. 887 00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:34,560 Speaker 3: That's the very first step that you have to do. Yeah, 888 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,600 Speaker 3: we do have a whole episode about tips to avoid 889 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,560 Speaker 3: impulse shopping that also might be helpful, and we can 890 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 3: put a link in that in the show notes. There's 891 00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,879 Speaker 3: a lot of people that find themselves in similar predicaments 892 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,640 Speaker 3: and it is really hard, and it is really easy 893 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 3: to be angry at yourself. And while it is good 894 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,920 Speaker 3: to be accountable, it's really better to put that energy 895 00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,480 Speaker 3: into fixing the problem rather than just hating yourself for it. 896 00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 3: So you have all the tools and you have everything 897 00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 3: to make a decision and to stick to it. And 898 00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,359 Speaker 3: I really really believe that you can do this. You 899 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:13,960 Speaker 3: absolutely can. So you got this chick love love, Yeah, 900 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,160 Speaker 3: good luck, but you don't need it. You can do it. 901 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 3: You can do it bad alright, alrighty chicks. Well that 902 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,279 Speaker 3: is a wrap for today's episode of Too broad Check 903 00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,319 Speaker 3: Its That is a ray. That is a right. 904 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 2: Thanks to your chicks for having us in your ear holes. 905 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:30,879 Speaker 2: We love to be here and thanks for sending in. 906 00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 3: Your submissions as well. We always love these episodes. 907 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 2: Pass the mic over to the chicks and thank you 908 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,240 Speaker 2: to m ik Made for making today's episode happened. 909 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:45,320 Speaker 3: Love Yeah bye check bye