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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast. Can

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Speaker 1: we talk about spying?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I really.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't concentrating because I was reading this article that I'd

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Speaker 3: seen yesterday about I mean, look, it confuses me this

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Speaker 3: stuff because I'm not very good with technology. So either

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Speaker 3: I'm going to get spied on and have absolutely no

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Speaker 3: idea for a really long time, or there's no way

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Speaker 3: anyone could ever spy on me because I don't have

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Speaker 3: any gadgets or any like. There's no way any I'm

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Speaker 3: just living in the world writing letters.

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Speaker 1: You don't know how to turn the TV on.

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Speaker 4: You'd be no good at a steak out where you've

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Speaker 4: basically got to wait in your car for them to

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Speaker 4: come out of their house. Kate, that'd be tough for

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Speaker 4: you because, I mean, concentration wise, you'd be like, it's

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Speaker 4: not good. I'm going to go get another coffee.

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Speaker 3: Guy, I'd be a fantastic what do they call it

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Speaker 3: the cockatoo or something? Aren't you a cockatoo? If you're

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Speaker 3: watching out?

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Speaker 1: I didn't know is that a term? Doesn't think of

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Speaker 1: the canary and the mine?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: Do you know what when when you break up with someone,

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Speaker 4: I must admit the first week or two, you do

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Speaker 4: do a little bit of spying, just to see what

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Speaker 4: they're up to and see if there's anybody else in

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Speaker 4: your life.

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Speaker 2: Do you.

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Speaker 1: Thing?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It depends how much you despise them

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Speaker 3: and how far away you want to get from them.

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Speaker 5: I do.

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Speaker 3: I actually had this thought the other day in the

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Speaker 3: in the old in the good old days, when people

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Speaker 3: broke up, didn't you just move on? Whereas now because

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Speaker 3: of social media and technology, it's very hard to not

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Speaker 3: dip into that or like fall into the rabbit hole

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Speaker 3: of having a look at where they are. But this

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Speaker 3: is another level altogether. That's been sorry.

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Speaker 6: Difference between doing a drive by and staking somebody else

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Speaker 6: out at home then following them on social media.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that physically getting in the car. But it's the

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Speaker 3: same premise. We just have different tools these days. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's probably scary seeing someone in a

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Speaker 3: car out of the front of your house. There are

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Speaker 3: all these stories that have surfaced, so people are spying,

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Speaker 3: and if you've had this experience, give us a call.

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Speaker 3: Thirteen twenty four ten, where people are even using they've

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Speaker 3: dropped or they think they are going to break up,

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Speaker 3: so they put one of those little layer tags into

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Speaker 3: somebody's bags so they know exactly where they know where

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Speaker 3: they're going. Apparently there's a device too that you can

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Speaker 3: attach to your house as security. And when you live there,

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Speaker 3: it's fine because you can get vision of when the

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Speaker 3: doorbell rings, what's going on, bo, what's going on on

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Speaker 3: both sides of.

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Speaker 1: The door in cameras.

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Speaker 3: But if you're no longer living there and you've got

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Speaker 3: access to that vision, you can now see when someone

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Speaker 3: rings the doorbell, the person ringing the doorbell and your

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Speaker 3: girlfriend or you're ex girlfriend standing inside.

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Speaker 1: The house doing at my place. I'm not Tommy. You

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Speaker 1: were telling us they how to avoid ring cameras.

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Speaker 2: What is the best way is.

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Speaker 1: Separate podcasts?

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Speaker 3: Separate podcast and what about like your accounts? And I've

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Speaker 3: seen I've actually.

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Speaker 1: Been questions over this before where all of.

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Speaker 3: A sudden, a new name will pop up on your

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Speaker 3: like your Netflix account or somebody else's watching it all.

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Speaker 3: There's been a profile created for Gary. Who the hell

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Speaker 3: is Gary?

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Speaker 1: What about that.

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Speaker 6: Time fits you were worried about what was going on

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Speaker 6: in your relationship and it's a sensitive story, but found

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Speaker 6: out the password of an ex girlfriend's email, did.

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Speaker 4: You I accidentally when she was with me. She was

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Speaker 4: from America and she was working in Sydney and we.

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Speaker 1: Fell in love.

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Speaker 4: Kylo was the name, and I she said, I'm going

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Speaker 4: to go back to America. And it was this tough moment,

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Speaker 4: you know, where I had my hand out and go,

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Speaker 4: don't go. And as on the final day she was

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Speaker 4: she was very emotional crying because she you know, she

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Speaker 4: I've hit the jackpot here and I've got to leave

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Speaker 4: this guy. But I saw her on the.

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Speaker 3: Computer mate, she was getting on the plane.

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Speaker 4: I saw her on the computer and she's putting her

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Speaker 4: password and I thought I'll have a look at the

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Speaker 4: keyboard there, and it was it was as basic as

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Speaker 4: her password was. Australia got her. Damn Well, that was

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Speaker 4: probably something that I shouldn't have known. So then when

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Speaker 4: she went back to America, Kate, I I may have

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Speaker 4: gone into her email a couple of times and found

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Speaker 4: out that the an ex wanted to catch up when

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Speaker 4: she got back high.

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Speaker 1: And was she catching up with her with him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, unfortunately.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's awful.

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Speaker 3: Are we taking calls on this? And if you've caught

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Speaker 3: your ex spying on you, or maybe you are, in

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Speaker 3: fact the spy it Marstown.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Tan, your ex was spying on you?

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Speaker 2: He was. I caught him driving past my house about

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Speaker 2: six months after we broke up. It was so freaky.

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Speaker 2: I just pointed at him. So I don't know how

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Speaker 2: often he did it, but I caught him that one time.

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Speaker 1: Did he waved back Tenure or did he acknowledge that

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Speaker 1: you'd seen him?

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Speaker 6: No, not at all, he said in his head. The

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Speaker 6: other way.

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Speaker 3: All the blood would have run from his legs.

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Speaker 4: Never rekindled the romance, Tenure. That was it done and dusted.

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Speaker 6: No, you'd never go back, mate, No, I know what

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Speaker 6: you mean.

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Speaker 3: You think you want to go back, and then you

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Speaker 3: get back there and as soon as like you're just there, like,

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Speaker 3: oh now, I remember.

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Speaker 4: The anchor in Wilton tell us about your persistent ex banker.

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Speaker 5: Oh look, it wasn't so much stalking. It was relentless

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Speaker 5: just trying to contact me. I kept I blocked him

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Speaker 5: on every avenue. I was like, look, you know it's done.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to talk to you anymore. He then

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Speaker 5: started transferring me like one cent five cents and writing

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Speaker 5: in the description line in my bank sayment, just answer

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Speaker 5: my course please.

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Speaker 4: Good way to get to them.

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Speaker 1: No, no, it's not.

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Speaker 7: He eventually stopped because I didn't respond so well.

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Speaker 1: Usually the police.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I do love leaving a little message there when

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Speaker 4: you transfer some money to friends.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean to stop asking me?

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Speaker 1: Katrina?

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Speaker 7: Hello, Hello, happy belated birthday for yesterday.

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Speaker 4: We see Thanks Katrina, what's your story?

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Speaker 1: What happened to you?

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Speaker 7: I'm a little bit like Kate and I have. I'm

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Speaker 7: terrible with technology, and I just kept bumping into my

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Speaker 7: ex just random spots and had no idea why, and

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Speaker 7: then realized my location was still on my phone.

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Speaker 4: Of course, he's got to turn your location off.

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Speaker 7: I didn't think. I didn't think.

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Speaker 1: Was he acting like that was a random bumping? Like

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Speaker 1: what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Hi, I'm like, this is weird getting random?

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Speaker 3: But yeah, well you could have thought that it was

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Speaker 3: some kind of sign from God that you should get

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Speaker 3: back together.

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Speaker 2: Here the universe doing that?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, not the universe.

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Speaker 4: Can you have mates that you can employ as well

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Speaker 4: as your produc investigators? Because I did. I tried a

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Speaker 4: long distance relationship Kate, and a week after we started

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Speaker 4: the long distance relationship at a mate ring, me saying

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Speaker 4: I just saw her at the movies with some of

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Speaker 4: the guy You've got a history.

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Speaker 1: Of great kisser Rachel in Castle Hill. So were you

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Speaker 1: the spy Rah?

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Speaker 2: I was so. My mom had always talked about this

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Speaker 2: X and I decided that i'd find him for her.

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Speaker 2: And I found that he owned a restaurant and I

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Speaker 2: was going on a date and he suggested the location

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Speaker 2: that like her ex boyfriend, like her, his restaurant was out,

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Speaker 2: so I was like, Oh, why don't we go to

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Speaker 2: this restaurant? So I ended up going on a date

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Speaker 2: at my mom's ex boyfriend's restaurant so I could spy

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Speaker 2: on him. And then also my mom sent my friends

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Speaker 2: to spy on me and the ex boyfriend as well.

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Speaker 4: That spying going on everywhere, lack of trust going on,

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Speaker 4: isn't the gosh, there's this been ansh going on here?

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Speaker 1: My god, I mean, you all turn up and you're

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Speaker 1: all spying on each other. Just go around at one

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Speaker 1: person's house. It'll make the job easier.

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