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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables? What do men want to have

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Speaker 1: the benefits of a relationship but not the obligations of

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Speaker 2: Facts bro Okay, I have one, Okay, what do men want?

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Speaker 1: Wi fi treatment on a girlfriend budget.

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Speaker 2: Relatable Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jacob Craig aka

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Speaker 2: Daddy and my podcaster in crime. Some will say the

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Speaker 2: Patrick to my SpongeBob Addie a ka mummy, and.

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Speaker 1: Some will say Superman too. Who'sman's sidekick? Crypto? Is it?

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Speaker 1: That's not sidekicks dog?

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Speaker 2: He's obeesiye, Crypto, that's fitting Crypto.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, cryptos literally Superman but in dog form.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a really accurate thing for sure.

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Speaker 2: But his mummy because he's the one you go to

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Speaker 2: when you want talk a great feelings.

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Speaker 1: And Jake is Daddy because he's never around. And you

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Speaker 2: But baddies Ordie and I have We've done something. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's done something good.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say big, done something big.

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Speaker 2: We started watching the show, A big show, a big show.

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Speaker 1: Some would say the show of the Summer's taking the

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Speaker 2: I say Show of the Summer because it's summer in

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Speaker 1: Of the Winter. This is very American so far, we think.

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Speaker 2: I turned pretty Yes, so you started watching the Summer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how do you feeling? What do you think?

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of feelings. There was there was

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Speaker 2: There was more than a handful of scenes that were

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Speaker 2: Selection, Yes, difficult, cringe, But I will not lie to you.

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Speaker 2: When the first episode ended, I was like, I want

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Speaker 2: It's honestly like it's an it's a pretty easy watch.

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Speaker 1: I can see it happening.

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Speaker 2: One of Summer I Turn Pretty Batties. It is time

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Speaker 2: for the IG question of the Week this week.

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Speaker 1: This week the question was what do men want? Oddie,

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Speaker 1: what do you want?

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Speaker 2: What do I want?

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Speaker 1: Tell me what you want? The baddies to sign up

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Speaker 1: to Patreons.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I kept on saying a link that you

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Speaker 2: So link for Patreon is in a description over on Patreon.

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Speaker 2: You're going to get for a little just pocket change

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Speaker 2: that you just you throw five It's five dollars a month, right,

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Speaker 2: you throw five dollars a day to coffee. Yeah, one

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Speaker 1: You're entertained for over two hours.

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Speaker 2: Also, there's now I'm pretty sure it's years. We can

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Speaker 2: sure in Bali.

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Speaker 1: Did we And we're about to go to Bali again?

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Speaker 1: Full circle, full circle moment. Yeah, and you get the

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Speaker 1: we get a thousand paid members, we are doing a

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Speaker 1: live show for the baddies. Yeah, so go sign up

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Speaker 2: Okay, but for real that I do question? So we did?

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Speaker 2: We said on Instagram. We asked our audience to answer

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Speaker 1: Good answers, great answers. Yeah, once again, the ig stories

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Speaker 1: a lot of views. Bro.

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Speaker 2: For the amount of follows, we'll go a lot. So

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Speaker 2: there's some good answers. Do you want to start? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So what do men want.

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Speaker 2: The approval of other?

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Speaker 1: Men they do. That is so true.

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Speaker 2: That's all they fucking want.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they just want to impress their friends or the boys.

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Speaker 2: Ridiculous, It's terrible.

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Speaker 2: I don't have any independence, do they?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, may have no independence. Okay, what do men want?

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Speaker 1: You mean? What do their dicks want? Right? Fah, it's

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Speaker 1: Men think with their head downstairs? What head thinking with? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What do you thinking with? What are you thinking with?

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Speaker 2: I want to know what sort of trouble people have

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Speaker 1: That was my birthday, and we did that trend and

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Speaker 2: Well, you suggested it and you you just go on

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Speaker 1: And I didn't know you were saying a girl either.

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Speaker 2: He's where I remember my fucking mindset. I remember being like,

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Speaker 2: all right, if I say no to Oddie and I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I.

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Speaker 1: And I chose terrible as if you didn't find the

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna. I'm not like housing down this big

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Speaker 2: ask kabbab that's too much for one person and then

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Speaker 1: So I was doing it a fam. It's all how

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, generous? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: That's generous? All right?

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Speaker 1: I have just something casual and low key, right.

437
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 2: Comment?

438
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:37,120
Speaker 1: Uh, reoccurrence. Reoccurrence is the label thing.

439
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,720
Speaker 2: We're talking about labels for two years, I know we're

440
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,640
Speaker 2: talking about why is no one putting labels anything two years,

441
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 2: been talking about it.

442
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like we just got to get in

443
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 1: like that. My alter ego when I was trying to

444
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 1: be a toxic man's name is Chad. I feel like

445
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 1: a lot of these need to be said with like

446
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 1: a Chad ego, something like this, want some casual and

447
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: low key.

448
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,440
Speaker 2: I feel like these need to be said with who

449
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: by the person who voices Tamlin in.

450
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 1: The We should have bought like some backwards caps or

451
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:06,400
Speaker 1: something to get chains, to get into character chains. I'll

452
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: go again. Then, what do men want to have the

453
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 1: benefits of a relationship but not the obligations of a relationship?

454
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 2: Facts?

455
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: Bro Okay, I have one? Okay, what do men want?

456
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: Wify treatment on a girlfriend budget? I saw heaps of them. Oh,

457
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 1: I don't know why I got so true a mum

458
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 1: but in wife form.

459
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 2: Fucks they want to date their mom?

460
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: Why? I don't know, Fuck me, I gotta I do.

461
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: I did have a funny one. What do men want?

462
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. Ask my missus.

463
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 2: I don't know why.

464
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 1: It comes back to mums and their sons and so

465
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 1: sons who have been like I was envious of them

466
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 1: growing up. You go over to your mate's house. I

467
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,879
Speaker 1: stopped getting lunch made from me in like year nine

468
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 1: or ten. Yeah, and like mum stopp cleaning my room

469
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 1: and shit, yeah mine seven on. I was that when

470
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: you were still going he mate's houses and they're like

471
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: their mom would make it like hectic meals and like

472
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 1: their house would be spotless, in their room would be spotless,

473
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 1: like fuck, help is just sick like, but it's not.

474
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: They were setting it up still.

475
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 2: Those ones probably still fucking live at home and get

476
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 2: that shit done for them.

477
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 1: Bro. Oh, we have a friend we've talked about it

478
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 1: before and he's lived out at home for ages. When

479
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,880
Speaker 1: he lived under us, he would take his laundry from

480
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,239
Speaker 1: he lived out of home from his parents' house to

481
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 1: his parents' house so his mom could do his washing well,

482
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:35,879
Speaker 1: because he would he would work.

483
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 2: He still worked like with his dad, and so he'd

484
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 2: go there in the morning and then go.

485
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: To work with his dad. But he'd leave his no

486
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 1: excu and his mom would do it. He also wouldn't

487
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: have food in his house because he'd go there and eat.

488
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, he'd go there, I have breakfast there, like he

489
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 2: was living the dreams.

490
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: There's literally no point of living.

491
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 2: He should have been paying rent there, he was paying

492
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 2: rent here.

493
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: He just come sleepy.

494
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

495
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 1: I gotta think how I can say this one, because

496
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: this is just this was probably the most reoccurring. Okay,

497
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: what do men want? Boobies? Hey?

498
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 2: I will say one thing I like to consider myself

499
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 2: non toxic and.

500
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: Not stereotypical. But one thing I do want is boobies

501
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:39,919
Speaker 1: for yourself. No, just like maybe you are toxic. I

502
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: saw one, you know last week about my double D comment.

503
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: I wanted dogs and donuts and not double Someone commented

504
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: on this and said what do men want? And then

505
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 1: someone said audio apparently wants double teas. I was like, hey,

506
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 1: fuck you, it's not what I meant.

507
00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 2: What do men want? Eight in one shampoo? I have

508
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 2: that too, white shampoo. Eights in one shampoo.

509
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: That's funny we picked the same one. I know they

510
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 1: must really want it. I personally, I.

511
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 2: Know you wouldn't use it.

512
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: I would well if I didn't have my skin journey

513
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 1: to adolescence, I think I would love eighting one shampoo.

514
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 1: You were blessed, just lucky hair looks skin. It's all

515
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 1: gonna go downhill at one point, mate, look at my

516
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:29,880
Speaker 1: dad bro. But it's still good looking.

517
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 2: People say he looks like Woody Harrelson. I don't know

518
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 2: who that is.

519
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 1: Okay, but so what would the.

520
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 2: Eight things be in the eight and one shampoo?

521
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: So what's normally in the shampoo conditioner, face wash, body wash,

522
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 1: body wash. That's four four more.

523
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: Anyway, we could somehow make it be like moisturizing cream

524
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 2: at the same time moisturizer.

525
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 1: Hand, hand and body moisturizing the hand.

526
00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 2: Okay, it's just full body moisturize. We'll go with six,

527
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 2: like face, body and hand moisturize.

528
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: That's six.

529
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 2: I need two more el or.

530
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: Lip gloss, lip, lip balm, yeah, lip balm, I'm thinking

531
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: the crazy and then the eighth one. Surely we could

532
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: brush our teeth no, no deodorant at the same time

533
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: you take away my lip, arm.

534
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 2: Brush, teeth and deodoran brush te eighteen one show cologne

535
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 2: the Yeah, you could. I'd use it, but you would

536
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 2: use it.

537
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 1: I remember when we first lived together, you had a

538
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: I think it was a four and one. I was

539
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 1: a two and one. I was a two in one

540
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: when we went camping, I was a three in one.

541
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 2: You don't have to which was face face is crazy.

542
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: Face shamp I can understand shampoo and condition and being

543
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 1: the same, but face is fucking crazy.

544
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 2: One time I was at my auntie's place a few

545
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 2: hours north and I was having a shower and I

546
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 2: used to I went through a phase. I used to

547
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 2: think that you had to wash your hair every single day, really.

548
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: When I was younger.

549
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 2: So I would wash and condition my hair every day

550
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 2: and it was just always soft and floppy.

551
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: But I didn't bring my own and in the shower

552
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 1: like they.

553
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 2: She obviously had her own in her own suite, but

554
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 2: I was in just like the other shower and my

555
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 2: younger cousin didn't do that, and so there was nothing.

556
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 2: And I washed my hair with a bar of soap.

557
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: And I thought that was a good idea.

558
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 2: How old were you?

559
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: Probably like fourteen? We were going to say, like eighteen

560
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: the nine.

561
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, like fourteen fifteen, I've washed It was crazy crazy.

562
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: It's insane, fucking insane. What do men want? This was

563
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: the only one I really related to. Someone to bite

564
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 1: my bicep and give me cuddles. Bite my bicep. Fuck.

565
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 2: Yes.

566
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: The worst thing is every man does this to like

567
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 1: flex their girlfriend and they're like feel it, and when

568
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: they say no, it's just like you don't even love me.

569
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 2: You may as well kick me. Yeah, kick me, yea,

570
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 2: give it a kiss when they say no, that's pretty good. Yeah,

571
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 2: she'll hype me up.

572
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: I've got like a fifty to fifty hit rate day.

573
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: Really Yeah, she's like, nah, come on, I think I

574
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 1: do it.

575
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 2: The reason you have a fifty to fifty hit rate

576
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 2: is because I know for a fact you do it

577
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 2: ten times more than I do it. I know for

578
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 2: a fact you do it at least once when you

579
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 2: see it. Every single time you go see each other,

580
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 2: you do.

581
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: It at least once.

582
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 2: It shouldn't matter.

583
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: It's like what when you say I love you, the

584
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: more you say you shouldn't get less responsive, should you

585
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: do you reckon? The more you say I love you,

586
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: the less you mean it. No, I think it means

587
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: the exact same amount every single time. Means the exactly

588
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: same thing with my passtep. Now, I got a good

589
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: hit rate because yeah, I do it.

590
00:28:55,920 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 2: I don't know less than once a month of those.

591
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: Numbers, rookie numbers. Yeah, that's to get excited.

592
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: Let's let's give us the one where and shit man

593
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 2: big enough to fill maybe she won't get excited.

594
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: What do men want?

595
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 2: I relate to this one, the Ultimate Collector Series Millennium

596
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: Falcon Lego with seven four hundred and fifty one pieces,

597
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 2: seven four hundred and fifty one pieces. That's very specific.

598
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: I would like that too. I think that was a good, nice,

599
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 2: healthy one too.

600
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: That's a good one. What do men want again? For

601
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: the boys to think I'm cool? Yeah? Yeah, they want approval.

602
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 2: I used to want that. Yeah, I couldn't think of

603
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: anything worse Now.

604
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: It's kind of like, you know how when you're younger

605
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: and you're trying to figure out life and what you

606
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: want to do with it, and you do things, you

607
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: dress certain ways to impress other people. Yeah, it really

608
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: falls under that you do things for I was in

609
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: the movies watching Fantastic Four in the week d and

610
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: I went by myself and I was like, Oh, this

611
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: is gonna be a nice little date by myself. And

612
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: there was a kid sitting on the back row and

613
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: they had to be like fifteen sixteen, and they were

614
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: all trying to impress each other. They're like swearing to

615
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: the movie, plants like funny sounds on their phone, throwing

616
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: like chocolate and shit, and I was like, this is

617
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: just the fucking worst experience ever. Yeah, And I was like,

618
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: this is rible, and someone said to him, because I

619
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: don't know the confidence. Now, I'm not shut up, but

620
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: someone said, guys, you mind being quiet? And then they

621
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: mocked him, like you guys mean being quiet?

622
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 2: Where the fuck do they find the confidence?

623
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: Why did teenagers have so much confidence?

624
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 2: Now?

625
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: I'm glad I didn't say anything because I would have

626
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: been easy pickens. I was sitting by myself, LOSERU on

627
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 1: the mo. They would have just started fucking bullying.

628
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 2: Serious. They mocked this man.

629
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: Yeah it was dark so I couldn't see it as

630
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: a man, but they mocked him anyway.

631
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now, if I, randomly, when I

632
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 2: was a kid had the confidence fucking around but then

633
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 2: someone came up and said something, I straight away would

634
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:58,479
Speaker 2: have said so sorry.

635
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: It's like pussy's that pack mentality, Like it's been misconstrued

636
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: somewhere along the line with it. When there's so many

637
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: boys that these things are considered okay or considered cool

638
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 1: because they're impressing each other. But if you're just like

639
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: one on one or you would never do that in

640
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: front of your parents or just one mate, because you

641
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: know your friends, what would you what would you do

642
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: if you said some to How many was there?

643
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 2: I reckon there was like six or seven Okay, it

644
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: was a fair field. There was like six or seven

645
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 2: of these kids, like mid teens.

646
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: I was thinking in my head after if I tripped

647
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: one of them, like what would they do if I

648
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: could take them? I was thinking that, like walking out

649
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: to tap one of their legs.

650
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: What would you do if they just this group of

651
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 2: like fifteen year olds right started like throwing mold teasers

652
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: at you.

653
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 1: In the movies they do molds and they hit you

654
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: and you turn around.

655
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 2: You're like, what the fuck do you want?

656
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: Like go away?

657
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 2: And they were like, ha, here on your own, loser,

658
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 2: fucking Nigel, no friends over here?

659
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: What would you do? Would you we even like have

660
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: a comeback? I think I would have left, Think I

661
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: would leave. I was thinking to myself. Even though they

662
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: didn't do anything, I was thinking like if this continues.

663
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: They were putting their flash on their phone on and ship.

664
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: There was a couple like too next to me that

665
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: kept looking over and and I was like, if this continues,

666
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: like I don't want to be here, nah, ruining the experience. Yeah, exactly.

667
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: I was for some reason though, because there wasn't that

668
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: many people there. The Holtz lady or guy who comes

669
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: through a flashlight I didn't walk through once. I was like,

670
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: this is the opportunity for it to happen. Wow, But

671
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: also you're not going to pick up on How.

672
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 2: Do you get those little fuckers not to do that

673
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 2: type of shit? Condoms? Wow? That was good.

674
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was good.

675
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 2: Condoms should have been more revalent when they were being conceived.

676
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 2: What do men want a ten out of ten women

677
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 2: while offering minus nine effort and looking like a solid three.

678
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: Yo fast? They do want so much, but they can

679
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: offer so little. That's a good point. That's a great,

680
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: great point. Okay, oh this one I actually do want

681
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: as well. So what do men want women to think

682
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: they're funny?

683
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: One?

684
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like, I don't think that's toxic to say that's

685
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: what every man wants.

686
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 2: Even if it is toxic, I'm sorry, but deep down,

687
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 2: like if Beth said to me, I'm the funniest person

688
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 2: she knows, I'd be like, wow, what's her name?

689
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: Beth?

690
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 2: He said, Bed. If Beth stop gas lighting me, I

691
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 2: know how to say my golfriend. Don't even fucking start

692
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 2: to think I said Bed.

693
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: You did say Bed. I did not say Bed. Do

694
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: not gaslight me.

695
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 2: I said Beth's name probably four thousand times in my life.

696
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,959
Speaker 1: Now we've been together for a year. I did not

697
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: fucking say Ben. You just really good.

698
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: Right before pause and we played, Beth said to me,

699
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 2: I'm the funniest person. She knows fat. Right before we

700
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 2: started recording, we were talking about my turn pretty.

701
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: We were talking.

702
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 2: About Conrad and I said the word Conrad, said it wrong.

703
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 2: Then Audie goes, oh, yeah, you're gonna suck it up.

704
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 2: He's because your dog's name used to be Comrad with

705
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 2: an M. He said comrade. And I fucking did not.

706
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 2: I said con Rad because I'm not an idiot to

707
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 2: comrade Comrade. Comrade said it, and I don't fuck up

708
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:34,720
Speaker 2: my words.

709
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: You just dug yourself a whole because I'm going to

710
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,439
Speaker 1: replay that. I did not say Bed.

711
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,479
Speaker 2: You said Bed. There's no funking not meeting another girl,

712
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 2: just meaning you fucked it up.

713
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: I did not say that, because die on this. You

714
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 1: just said it really quickly, and you're like Bed, such

715
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: whole shit.

716
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: I hope that I hope you go to do the

717
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 2: replay and you don't add it in because you're wrong.

718
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll see. You had to bring up the

719
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: one off cam because I.

720
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 2: Was right twice. I you said comrades.

721
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: I didn't know.

722
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 2: I did not say your comrades dead, your dog. Stop

723
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 2: bringing them up. You are the one who said that too.

724
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: Stop bringing them up.

725
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 2: Comrades, Dad, rest in peace. What do men want to

726
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 2: actually be the height that they say they are?

727
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no no. They want the girl

728
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: to think that they are the height.

729
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 2: They say they are.

730
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 1: They don't care. No men care about height. No, they

731
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: just care that their fucking girl thinks that. I reckon.

732
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 2: Like they say they're six to one and they're five eleven.

733
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 2: They just want the girl to assume they're six to one. No, bro,

734
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 2: I reckon. If a guy's five eleven and he says,

735
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: you see six, he probably did he wants to be

736
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 2: six one. Yeah, both want to I think the girl,

737
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 2: but it's more important I.

738
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 1: Want to be six one. That's great.

739
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: Okay.

740
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: What do men want for their mummy to always cook

741
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:56,879
Speaker 1: dinner and do their washing?

742
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 2: Fuck that? Okay, So my last one, this was pretty accurate.

743
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 2: What do men want to start a podcast and successfully

744
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 2: invest in crypto?

745
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: Oh?

746
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 2: One's dicked that. And the thing about that is that's

747
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 2: actually me. Yeah you tried, because I have lost money

748
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,799
Speaker 2: on crypto and I've given up. Actually, well, it's been

749
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 2: a long time since I checked that.

750
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 1: Remember last time I checked it was like six months ago.

751
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: Because I had something like ee hundred dollars. You put

752
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: like what was it five k into ethereum.

753
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 2: No, it's called like ripple or something.

754
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: Did you have etheroreum to start and you seld it?

755
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 2: No? I never had theoryum. So if I come on,

756
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 2: log me in Wi FI work, If I wait, this

757
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,720
Speaker 2: could be sick a. If it's like heaps.

758
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: You always say this and then it's gone down, like

759
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 1: eight dollars or tithing.

760
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: It always ends up just going down. Oh wait, how

761
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 2: did I get in my par Okay, quickly, I think

762
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 2: you had two hundred and fifty.

763
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: Last nime I had four hundred something. It was like four.

764
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,359
Speaker 1: All my informations is wrong. Okay, Actually it was.

765
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: Like I think it was like in the four hundreds.

766
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 2: But I was fifty dollars up. Okay, I was fifty

767
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 2: dollars up. About six months ago, and that was it

768
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 2: was a while ago.

769
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: Ey, okay, I've got it.

770
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 2: Do I've got to do Okay, take a guess.

771
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:14,240
Speaker 1: So was it fourteen or four sixteen? It was around.

772
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 2: At about that yes, ummm, I.

773
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 1: Think it's up five twenty five oh eight, Shit, I

774
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: got five hundred and eight dollars. Bro, how can we

775
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: say they're gonna get you a house one day?

776
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 2: Keep that in just fucking skyrocket.

777
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: So you've ticked both things. Podcasts and Crypto got dude

778
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,399
Speaker 1: on the twenty set on the twenty third of July.

779
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 1: It was at six o' four. They checked this more often.

780
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: You lost one hundred dollars. There was one hundred bucks.

781
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 2: The last time I checked it, I reckon.

782
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a while ago, it was, yeah, And

783
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: it's slightly concerning how excited you're getting. It's hilarious, like

784
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: here's the thing is like I'm never going to let

785
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 1: myself put more money in.

786
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 2: But also it's just fun to watch this. That's gonna

787
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 2: see what everything's at. It's an expensive game bitcoin aud

788
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 2: guess in it like one hundred fifty thousand, one hundred

789
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 2: and seventy eight. Yeah, crazy, it's just it's the most

790
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 2: by far, and like it's never ever going to get

791
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 2: fucking caught. I bet wow, crazy. We should do some research.

792
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 2: What should we put my my my crypto money into.

793
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 1: I want to invest in gyg stock. That's why I

794
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 1: want to put all my money.

795
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 2: Maybe I should put my five, my five hundred and

796
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 2: eight into gyg stock. It's it's only going off. I'm

797
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 2: only going to go way more the product.

798
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: It's great. My last one fucking hits men in the face,

799
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 1: I think in a good way, right answer if you

800
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: were a man. It's also very harsh. What do men want?

801
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 1: Freshly eighteen? No frontal lobe?

802
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:44,959
Speaker 2: Fuck? Yeah, I don't know, but it's like as harsh

803
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 2: as it is.

804
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 1: They do it right. They don't. Men don't.

805
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 2: There was one in there I saw and it was like,

806
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 2: men don't want someone that's going to challenge them.

807
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: Really, I love that majority of me.

808
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 2: I don't want someone that's going to like challenge them.

809
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 2: They just want someone that's going to be like yeah, yeah,

810
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 2: or like catered to their needs yeah type vibes.

811
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 1: Yeah.

812
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 2: What did we see who? Or in the Facebook group?

813
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 2: The next ig question we need to do is, oh,

814
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 2: what was a red flag that you missed or something,

815
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 2: and he didn't realize that it was a red flag too. Afterwards,

816
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,879
Speaker 2: someone commented on the post in the Facebook group that

817
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 2: their boyfriend had to make a group chat with their

818
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 2: friends and one of them said, like, having a younger

819
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: girlfriends better because you can mold them into what you

820
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 2: want them to be.

821
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: That is crazy and you can see his thinking. He

822
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't think that's toxic at all.

823
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 2: Well, you would be like, you could say, so you're

824
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,879
Speaker 2: a manipulator, right, and he would be like, no, no, no, no,

825
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 2: it be like just read back what you fucking said.

826
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 2: They would never be able to say the definition of

827
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 2: manipulation not insane. I don't understand some men's learning curve

828
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 2: happened in the worst ways. Dilemmas time Daddy, Twisty Twas.

829
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 1: My dilemma is, I'm going to say tricky, but honest,

830
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:18,879
Speaker 1: that's what we want.

831
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 2: I love an honest dilemma. Loves a little bit of

832
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 2: a ticky confess.

833
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: How can they submit one?

834
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 2: They can submit one by It's either linked in the

835
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 2: description below, or if you go to our Instagram and

836
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 2: you go to a little link in our bio and

837
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,919
Speaker 2: scroll to the bottom and click on confession sessions wrong,

838
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 2: and you click on dilemmas you can submit there. They're

839
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 2: all anonymous, even though we give you an option to

840
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 2: be anonymous or not, they're all anonymous.

841
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:45,320
Speaker 1: You could physically see Jake's brain scrolling on Instagram confession

842
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: sessions because it's right underneath.

843
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 2: I didn't even know that.

844
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 1: Okay, hello, thank you for reading my dilemma.

845
00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 2: I haven't read it yet. I'm going to try and

846
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 2: keep it brief. I am currently in a relationship, and

847
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 2: it's been about one year at this point, and it's

848
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 2: honestly the best relationship I've ever been in.

849
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: He's not the problem.

850
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 2: I think there is something wrong where I just can't

851
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 2: seem to stop researching his past partners. Oh so she

852
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:20,879
Speaker 2: thinks she hands. I am very nosy by nature, and

853
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 2: I knew at one point when we were not dating

854
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 2: yet that he was also seeing somebody else, as that

855
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 2: person tried to call him while we were in his

856
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 2: car driving, so I saw her name. One thing I

857
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 2: can't help is looking at people that he has spoken

858
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 2: to with, so he has spoken with, or gone on

859
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 2: dates with, or even had relationships with on Instagram when

860
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 2: they are public profiles. This isn't the first instance of

861
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 2: me doing this. I am only realizing this recently, that

862
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 2: this is probably a deeper issue now that my partner

863
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 2: is actually amazing. I have been in similar situations where

864
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 2: with partners in my past, but those partners have ended

865
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,399
Speaker 2: up cheating on me or talking to their ex's at

866
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,760
Speaker 2: length behind my back or both. So I've had hunches

867
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 2: and I was usually right, but now I don't have

868
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 2: a hunch. But I feel like it's a bad habit

869
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 2: at this point to look up those girls to see

870
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 2: if they've posted anything new. I'm very confident in this

871
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 2: current relationship, and sometimes I feel like looking up these

872
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 2: girls takes up too much of my time, Like why

873
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 2: do I want to look at them so badly? I

874
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 2: would consider myself a confident person, and I am wondering

875
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 2: if you have any advice to help break this habit.

876
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

877
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: Ah Okay, Well, the first thing too, I guess you

878
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,720
Speaker 1: can say getting better is realizing it is a problem.

879
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean your first steps already there.

880
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, the first steps there. So first tick is done.

881
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: But so you've recognized there's a problem, how can we

882
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: then help her to stop it? And so she used

883
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: to do it because there was a gut feeling, but

884
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: now she's doing it out of habits and have a

885
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 1: gut feeling muscle membory type shit.

886
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 2: It's the urge the self control.

887
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 1: Yes, So how do you teach self discipline, self control

888
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: within this and know when I guess love's involved, which

889
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: is the strongest emotion.

890
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 2: You need to create a group chat with every single

891
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 2: one of the girls he's ever spoken to, dated or seen. Right,

892
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 2: create a group chat and say, guys, not gonna lie.

893
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: I have a problem. All of you live in my head,

894
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,240
Speaker 2: rent free, I need you ought to block I cannot

895
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 2: look you up.

896
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 1: Well maybe other than the start of that, the solution

897
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: is just block them. Then you can just go on

898
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: block them. Sounds like she doesn't give them, just go

899
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: on block them? Oh true, I wonder. So on Patreon

900
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 1: we I think this is a band aid fix, not

901
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: necessarily a solution to start. But so the problem is

902
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: you go on there out of habit and you just

903
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: have to see it and it's this instinct within you.

904
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 1: But so on Patreon, we bought these things called the

905
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: brick and they break certain apps within your phone, and

906
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: when you go on your phone you can't go on

907
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: them until you physically tap this brick and unlock it

908
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: and you leave the brick in another room. I think

909
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,360
Speaker 1: this is definitely a band aid, but it's going to

910
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 1: break that sort of muscle memory and that urge, and

911
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: it's gonna sort of check you check yourself when you

912
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 1: go to do it, you're like, oh shit, it's blocked.

913
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,760
Speaker 1: And then also you have to physically go into another

914
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: room tap your phone and you be like, what the

915
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 1: fuck am I doing? And it's going to break that

916
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: muscle memory you've got in your mind of doing this.

917
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: I think that could be a helpful step, but I

918
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:27,720
Speaker 1: don't think it's a solution.

919
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 2: It's hard as well, you know, because it's like if

920
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 2: Instagram didn't exist, you wouldn't be doing it. So it's

921
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,720
Speaker 2: like you need to limit your time on Instagram, because

922
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: I dare say if you could somehow limit your time

923
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 2: on Instagram, first of all, you're gonna be more productive

924
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 2: in your working life and your day life. And then

925
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 2: when you let yourself go on it, what you're gonna

926
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 2: want to do is actually watch some reels, watch what

927
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 2: your friends are doing, and then eventually you should just

928
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 2: forget about them. I say, I dare say, I don't know,

929
00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 2: maybe you should fucking like. I don't like suggesting therapy

930
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 2: because I don't think that's the answer to everything. But

931
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 2: I just think that there's certain times where certain people

932
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 2: know how to ask the right questions where you could

933
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 2: explain this whole thing to someone and then we can

934
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:14,919
Speaker 2: think of little solutions that we think would help us. Right,

935
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 2: but we don't know what it's like to be, you know,

936
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 2: and so we also don't know how to ask the

937
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 2: questions that would get you to then give yourself the

938
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 2: answer because we can't give the answer.

939
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: Like maybe you think you're confident, but you're actually not.

940
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: You never know.

941
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 2: It could be the case like maybe you are super insecure,

942
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 2: and it's just not a thing where it's like crippling anxiety. Insecurity,

943
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 2: it's more of the constant need to go look at

944
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 2: what they've posted, just to see how they're looking, if

945
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 2: they've got their hair changed, what they're doing, blah blah.

946
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

947
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 2: Like so we don't actually know the answer to that,

948
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 2: but there's certain people that can ask the correct questions

949
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 2: and get that out of you because you know the answer.

950
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 2: It's a hard one because you say you're confident, you

951
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 2: say you're confident in the relationship, you say your boyfriend's

952
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 2: the best, and yeah, it always Insti're doing it, checking

953
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,840
Speaker 2: people that he has seen, blah blah blah, blah blah.

954
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 2: One thing that's obviously caused this is the fact that

955
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 2: you've had hunches in the past, checked in the past,

956
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,479
Speaker 2: been right in the past. So it's like a dog.

957
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 2: It's like when you're training a dog. So Tilly, for instance,

958
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 2: she growls and gets protective of Beth. That's worked for

959
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 2: her because she's insecure. So someone comes over to her me,

960
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 2: She'll growl at me and I'll.

961
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 1: Go, okay, I'll leave you alone. So it works.

962
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 2: So every time someone does it, she's gonna growl. I

963
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 2: guess my question is is if you just think of

964
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 2: it in like a black and white sense where something

965
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 2: you've done worked and now it's just it's almost like

966
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 2: you're maybe looking for something to be wrong. Well, you're

967
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 2: you used to it being wrong.

968
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But I also think so she had

969
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: that solution, but it now no longer works because there

970
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 1: is no problem. There's no problem, there's no Yeah, you

971
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 1: don't need a solution for anything, so she now needs

972
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: the heel in another way. And you bring up a

973
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: good point is we can never know the individual who

974
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: sent it in, but if this was me, what do

975
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 1: you have to do is practice discipline and in my life,

976
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: setting little bit of little goals here and there is

977
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: how you do do that. And limiting screen time, like

978
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: Jake said, I think is the best option, and having

979
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,439
Speaker 1: intent when you go on there. Set a little time.

980
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 1: You're allowed to go on Instagram at scroll and be

981
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:22,760
Speaker 1: like fifteen minutes. And when you're on there, you scroll

982
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 1: and stuff, and you have intent to what you're doing,

983
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: and you can't don't just pick up your phone back

984
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 1: on what's you're doing what you're doing, because then you

985
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: break that sort of like discipline cycle and you feel

986
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 1: like you're cheating on yourself when you do it. Just

987
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: these little your goals can be whatever you want. It

988
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: could be five minutes, fifteen minutes, or it could be

989
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: like I don't know, you go on there and research

990
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: famous people, so that's what you like doing. Just look

991
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 1: up Kimkaine. Shit, that's what you're doing. But you have

992
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: intent to what you're doing. Yeah, I agree, it's interesting.

993
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 2: I wonder if you could just try one time. Right,

994
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 2: Let's just say the next time you have the urge

995
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 2: to go look someone up that he used to see.

996
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 2: Just obviously you get this urge, you go look them

997
00:47:56,239 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 2: up and that like curbs are craving, know, Yeah, I

998
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 2: would be interested to know what you feel when you,

999
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 2: let's say you feel the urge and then you go, Okay,

1000
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 2: fuck it, you know what, I'm going to fight it

1001
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 2: and I'm just going to refuse to go look them up.

1002
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it self control.

1003
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: I would be interested to be like, are you then

1004
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 2: getting anxious because now it's like, oh I thought about it,

1005
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 2: I want to do it, I'm going to do it.

1006
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 2: I'm not letting myself do it. And then are you

1007
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:24,280
Speaker 2: getting anxious over like nothing or will you just forget

1008
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 2: about it? We bring up a good point there.

1009
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 1: Actually it's a type of addiction, and although it doesn't

1010
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: seem like it, it is. And there's definitely lots of

1011
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: resources to help with addiction. Yeah, And because I was

1012
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: thinking when you were saying that it's like alcohol addiction

1013
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 1: or anything like that, it's the hardest thing to do

1014
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 1: is resist that urge when you're used to it.

1015
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 2: So maybe a therapist is a good option.

1016
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, like you're craving something. What was that

1017
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: documentary on Netflix about phones and what was that called?

1018
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: It was a great documentary.

1019
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 2: I would recommend it Netflix documentary Phone. Yeah, there was

1020
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 2: one called like the social Dilemma. There's something I think

1021
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 2: that was it.

1022
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, just look that up. Look, there was like three

1023
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 1: of them, and it might have been the three part series,

1024
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: and it was really good at breaking those habits of

1025
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 1: the addiction to your phone, yeah, which is a lot

1026
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: of overlapping symptoms to the addiction of looking someone up.

1027
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, it's fuck. This is honestly a tough one't oh,

1028
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 2: very hard eh yeah.

1029
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:20,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's great that you recognize it as a problem,

1030
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 1: because that is the hardest thing, the first step. Yeah.

1031
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

1032
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

1033
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 2: Do you bring that up with his boyfriend? Do you

1034
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 2: just kind of wait if you figure it out?

1035
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: Bliss, I would hope he If you it's phrased it

1036
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: like that dilemma, I would say yes to be actually

1037
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 1: thinking about I would want birth to bring it up

1038
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 1: with me. Yeah, if phrased it like that, But if

1039
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: you it'd be tricky because you'd have to phrase it right,

1040
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: because he could take that terribly true. He could very

1041
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:47,839
Speaker 1: take that very bad. Yeah, but I think if he's

1042
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 1: a supportive, nice guy, she'd be like, Oh, let's get

1043
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: through this, because I can recognize.

1044
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 2: You're wanting to heal.

1045
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, my dilemma title. I love my best

1046
00:49:54,920 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: friend's boyfriend and she found out that. You see and

1047
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:05,360
Speaker 1: when I say this was well written, it's well written,

1048
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: and you can tell chatshib t help high relatables. I

1049
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: need to get this off my chest. I met this guy,

1050
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: let's call him Chris. From the moment we met, I

1051
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: felt this strong connection, instant chemistry, but being shy and scared,

1052
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. Months later, I ran into him,

1053
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: only this time, my best friend introduced him as her boyfriend.

1054
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,760
Speaker 1: You can imagine how that felt. She was so excited.

1055
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 1: We already knew each other, and because I love her dearly,

1056
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: I decided to kill the feelings. But you just can't

1057
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: kill off feelings like that, right, Some feelings just linger,

1058
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:47,479
Speaker 1: sometimes even forever. Months into their relationship, my car broke

1059
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: down one evening before I could even call a mechanic Tracy.

1060
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 1: My best friend called me and insisted I reach out

1061
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 1: to Chris, since he'd been nearby. I resisted, but she pushed. Pussed,

1062
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 1: but she pushed, and eventually I gave in. Chris showed up,

1063
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 1: helped me out, and ironically, his car broke down too.

1064
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: We joked about how ridiculous this situation was, and then

1065
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 1: of course it started raining. We ran through the rain, laughing,

1066
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 1: and for the moment it felt cinematic. He asked why

1067
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 1: he hadn't seen me much around lately, and I just

1068
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: mumbled something vague. Truth was, every time I saw him,

1069
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 1: I felt this mix of guilt and jealousy I didn't

1070
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,399
Speaker 1: know how to carry. I thought I was over it,

1071
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: but that night reignited everything. I didn't just like him anymore.

1072
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 1: I realized I was in love with him, and it

1073
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: tore me apart. I never crossed any lines. I never confessed.

1074
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 1: I kept my distance. I chose Chasey because I love

1075
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: her more than I love the idea of being with him.

1076
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,799
Speaker 1: I know feelings can't be controlled, but silence can't, so

1077
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 1: I said nothing to anyone except my diary. Then one

1078
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: night I came home to find Tracy sitting on my

1079
00:51:56,320 --> 00:52:00,280
Speaker 1: bed holding my diary. Her eyes were filled with tears

1080
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: and betrayal, and that look it turned my defenses up.

1081
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: She confronted me, called me disloyal, and I snapped Suddenly.

1082
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 1: I wasn't just afraid of what was coming next. I

1083
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: was angry because how was either one being branded as

1084
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:20,360
Speaker 1: the trader here? I buried my feelings from Chris silently

1085
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: because I cared about her more. I didn't flirt, I

1086
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: didn't confess. I just wrote it down in private, and

1087
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 1: that privacy the only safe place I had to process

1088
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 1: the pain. And she violated it. She found what I

1089
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: had spent months trying to contain and somehow made me

1090
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 1: the bad friend. I told her I should be the

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00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: one who's angry my one private space, and honestly, what

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00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 1: did she expect to find when you open Pandora's When

1093
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: you open Pandora's box fairy dust? I could tell she

1094
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 1: had a lot to say, maybe she deserved to say it,

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00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: but I didn't let her. I shut it down and

1096
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 1: just walked out, just like that. It's been a week

1097
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: now and we haven't spoken since. Fuck me.

1098
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 2: Another tough one. I mean, hey, I guess love is

1099
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 2: love is love.

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Speaker 1: But she did everything right. What do you do in

1101
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:12,799
Speaker 1: the scenario.

1102
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 2: You did everything that I would have said is what

1103
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 2: you should do in this situation.

1104
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 1: And so now.

1105
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 2: I just is there any coming back from this? Her

1106
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 2: best friend's lost her trust. I actually think that girl,

1107
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 2: this is just like one of those moments where this

1108
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,800
Speaker 2: was out of your control. Like you you did everything

1109
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: to control it. You did everything you possibly could control it, right,

1110
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 2: but you have to just take a step back and

1111
00:53:55,560 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 2: be like, I know I did everything I could. Right now,

1112
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 2: you just have to accept the fact that you're in

1113
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 2: love with your best friend's boyfriend. The only thing, the

1114
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 2: only outlet you had because you didn't tell a soul

1115
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 2: was your diary. She read your diary, which she shouldn't have,

1116
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 2: right she definite shouldn't have ignorance is bliss.

1117
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: Ah And then.

1118
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:28,440
Speaker 2: Yeah that's like and she she was upset about it, right, Yeah.

1119
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 2: I just think that if it was me, it would

1120
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 2: just be like a like literally what do you want

1121
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:38,799
Speaker 2: to do?

1122
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:39,399
Speaker 1: Type of thing?

1123
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 2: Like if it was me and you, I would literally

1124
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 2: just be like okay, Like I get you're mad. I

1125
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 2: fully get it. You think I want to feel this,

1126
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 2: you don't think it fucking hurts me as well? Like

1127
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 2: genuinely tell me what you want and I will do that.

1128
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 2: I don't I don't give a fuck. Okay, I would

1129
00:54:55,840 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 2: just be like, literally, it is now happened. None of

1130
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 2: this situation is good. Just you tell me what you.

1131
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: Think should happen. I don't mind that.

1132
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 2: And if it was like you don't want to be

1133
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 2: friends somewhere, I'd be like, fair, yeah, I'm maybe I

1134
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 2: probably wouldn't want to either, And you have to be

1135
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 2: ready to accept that. Yeah, Like there is nothing else

1136
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,360
Speaker 2: I can think that would that would make this situation

1137
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 2: because like, no apology, nothing like I.

1138
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: Don't think you should apologize for anything. I just you

1139
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 1: can't help her, you feel.

1140
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 2: If you were in love with Beth, I just feel

1141
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 2: bad for you. Yeah, I would feel bad. I'd be like, yeah,

1142
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 2: I would just feel bad because it's also.

1143
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 1: I found it when I was reading it slightly weird.

1144
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:39,879
Speaker 1: So she met this man and then weeks months later

1145
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 1: ran into him again, and the friend introduced her as

1146
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. So she said, no, my best friend. So

1147
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: but if you started talking to a girl, say Beth

1148
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 1: back in the day, and like you went on one day,

1149
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 1: I would have known about the first day just to

1150
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 1: begin with.

1151
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 2: I wish we knew that. Yeah, but also.

1152
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have been like, oh, I've been crushing

1153
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 1: on before you went on it, like fucking I've been

1154
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 1: crushing on her for like six months, dude.

1155
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you would have been like, I'm not going

1156
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 2: on it, but we have this thing. I did see

1157
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 2: a dilemma that I might choose.

1158
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: I'll choose.

1159
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: One week someone did say something about there. It's also

1160
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 2: I believe it's in the Facebook group. Someone was just like, oh,

1161
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 2: you know you guys, like someone said that having they

1162
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 2: have they have, we have a friendship that they want

1163
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 2: like you and I. Yeah, because it's like we are

1164
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 2: like loyal to a fault in the sense where let's

1165
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 2: just say I did date a girl and then six

1166
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 2: months later and like you knew I dated the girl

1167
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 2: right when I one day with the girl, you knew

1168
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 2: I liked her, but then it just didn't happen. So

1169
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,919
Speaker 2: then it's like, then six months later you bump into

1170
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 2: her and just so happen you really like her as well,

1171
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 2: and you'd be like, even if you had like the

1172
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 2: sixth connection with her, you're loyal to a fault where

1173
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 2: you wouldn't let anything happen even though it could be

1174
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:58,720
Speaker 2: something really really good off limits. Yeah, Like we picture

1175
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 2: it as off limits from the start, like we wouldn't

1176
00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 2: let it get that far, but people.

1177
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 1: Do and it's weird.

1178
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 2: I guess it's how you taking away from this dilemma

1179
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 2: view like your friend's relationships, Like Beth is, I would

1180
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 2: consider it a sister to me.

1181
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like that's how you see it. That's how

1182
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: I see her, like, whereas some people don't think that

1183
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 1: at all. They might think they have a breakup. That's

1184
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: my chance, like shit like that bro.

1185
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 2: Around here, Yeah, the central fucking Coast bro of Australia.

1186
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 1: Bro, I dare say, it's not within our own friend group.

1187
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: It's insane. Oh the overlaps, I'm glad I had one

1188
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 1: see it happened.

1189
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 2: Not even the overlaps, it's more of even just.

1190
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: The the fucking throw someone under a bus, like to

1191
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 1: throw someone on the bus, the the.

1192
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 2: You know, someone breaks up with their girlfriend and one

1193
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:05,920
Speaker 2: of their friends messages them two weeks later like yeah,

1194
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 2: that type of shit. The amount of stories I've heard

1195
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 2: about that with from outside our friend group, but also

1196
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 2: within our friend group, and you just think the amount

1197
00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 2: of times I just thought, what the fuck are they doing.

1198
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, it's yeah.

1199
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 2: When you grew up in a small town too.

1200
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 1: I guess it's not healthy at all. But you're mentally

1201
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 1: capped with relationships. You think that the people you went

1202
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 1: to school with or that group of friends you hang

1203
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: out friends you hang out with, is the only people

1204
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: you can get with. Even though my best friends dated

1205
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: are six months ago.

1206
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 2: It's fucking ridiculous, dude, Beth said to me, well talking

1207
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 2: about this, Yeah, she said, of all the boyfriends she's

1208
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,439
Speaker 2: had in the past, not a single one of them

1209
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 2: knew any of her friends before they started dating. Right,

1210
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 2: just because Sydney just has so many people.

1211
00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: She grew up in THEAE. Everyone knows everyone. It's different

1212
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 1: a and it is interesting. That's an interesting dynamic, Like

1213
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 1: it's fucking insane. Another word. We talked about a lot

1214
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: of problems today. Well, I want to finish on. I

1215
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 1: want to reiterate to the Baddy who sent this in.

1216
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 1: You did absolutely nothing wrong. Yeah, easier said than done,

1217
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 1: but you did nothing wrong. So I know it's hard

1218
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 1: to deal with the love you have towards your friend's

1219
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: boyfriend and now she's betrayed your trust. But if you

1220
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: can just go about your life. I can say to that, Look,

1221
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: I did everything right. I'm sorry for how I feel

1222
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: you betrayed my trust.

1223
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 2: What do you want me to do in this scenario?

1224
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 2: Is the best option here?

1225
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it is way easier said than done, because

1226
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 1: you did everything right. If you can just move on

1227
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 1: and go about your day and be like you just

1228
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 1: have to accept it, like your friendship is going.

1229
00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 2: To be over for a little bit or forever, well,

1230
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:51,200
Speaker 2: she fucking ruined. She trust is the hardest thing to

1231
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,960
Speaker 2: regain it, she fucking said. It probably says diary on it.

1232
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 2: It's so I honestly, I've got to say I'm fully

1233
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 2: on your side in this situation, Like I do see

1234
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,479
Speaker 2: why your friend is mad, but at the same time

1235
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 2: she would But I think I do think that the

1236
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 2: fact she went through your private shit, it's worse than

1237
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 2: the fact that you've been hiding love for her boys

1238
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 2: And it's not like you've kissed him or anything. You've

1239
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 2: had thoughts you've had and also you distance yourself.

1240
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 1: You kept it quiet like it's hard, and you didn't.

1241
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 1: You tried to get rid of it, you tried not

1242
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:22,480
Speaker 1: to do it.

1243
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 2: She she is, your friend has done a terrible. Yeah,

1244
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 2: fucked that best Friend is bad is before I read

1245
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 2: the comments, I want you to go and I want

1246
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 2: you to put five stars as a rating on this

1247
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 2: episode from whatever platform you're listening on.

1248
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: And because if you don't.

1249
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 2: Have the cash to cough up for Patreon, if we

1250
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 2: get to ten thousand and five star reviews before one

1251
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 2: thousand Patreon members one thousand paid Patreon members, I should

1252
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,920
Speaker 2: say we would do a live show for that as well.

1253
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 2: We are at six thousand.

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Speaker 1: It also goes a long way more and you know,

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Speaker 1: so far everyone listening right now five start it would

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01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: hit ten k okay, which would really appreciate because it

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Speaker 1: does go so far. Analytically, everyone listening right now five

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Speaker 1: started with more than quick it would be insane. So

1259
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: if you just press it, it's free to do and

1260
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,919
Speaker 1: it helps, like our business side of things out so much.

1261
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: And also, okay, say, if you listen and you think

1262
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 2: it wasn't five stars, you would be doing us a

1263
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:29,120
Speaker 2: favor genuinely by giving it whatever stars you think it deserves,

1264
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 2: but then writing why you think it deserves that genuinely, like,

1265
01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 2: because then we can read it and we could be like, okay,

1266
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:34,800
Speaker 2: so there's something we can grow on.

1267
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: You could have gone two ways there, being Jake, I

1268
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: thought you were going to say, if you don't think

1269
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: it's five stars, don't listen, no one. Growth. Yeah, that's good,

1270
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Speaker 1: healthier growth. Yeah, okay, I got I got YouTube comments.

1271
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 2: Pink Cheetah sixty three said, cassieing in the sheets just

1272
01:01:56,840 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 2: you boys weight Oh shit, because we were talking about

1273
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,080
Speaker 2: restand in the streets casting in the sheets, and then

1274
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 2: we were like, we don't know what he's.

1275
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: Like in the sheets yet we just found out how

1276
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 1: he's like in battle. I can only imagine him in

1277
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 1: the sheets.

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01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 2: Man. If he's as good in the sheets as he

1279
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 2: is at fighting.

1280
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: Yes, fuck, that's crazy all right? I got Juju on

1281
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: the beat. Love the podcast the only thing getting me

1282
01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: through my ship Internship in Brackets, which I'm quitting this week. Xoxo.

1283
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 2: Yes, we're all about quitting jobs, be blessed. I'm all

1284
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 2: about leaving something.

1285
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 1: I think, why the it's about doing enjoy.

1286
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 2: Dobby smiles, one of these names said, I guess I

1287
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 2: have been living a lie because I've always thought it's

1288
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 2: Jake and are the relatables party not potty? People have

1289
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 2: said that to me before to be fair, imagine that

1290
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 2: we're fucking nick. This is a party egoistical, are we?

1291
01:02:58,000 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: I suppose potty in the way we say it.

1292
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 2: Party body is very Australia and we would say party

1293
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 2: like yeah, party.

1294
01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 1: I understand, lazy. Yeah, all right, Samantha Pearl said, shameless plug.

1295
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: I'm a seamstress and just started a service called it

1296
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:16,439
Speaker 1: has Pockets. Where are sewing pockets in garments that don't

1297
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: have them at stitched Co dot sewing? Fucking hey, there's

1298
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: a gap in the market. I appreciate the out. All right,

1299
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 1: it's time to call a baddie. And we tried calling

1300
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: this one last week and she didn't pick up. But

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Speaker 1: we've texted her and she's ready. The problem with this

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Speaker 1: is we called a few batties last week. I can't

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't save their numbers. So I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: her name Sam, So we're going to go over it

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Speaker 1: for real. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it's Sam. I'mbout ninety

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Speaker 1: percent short sands. We've got the shp right here. But

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Speaker 1: can we wing it? That's ridiculous. No, what we need

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Speaker 1: to know our name. I'm pretty sure it's Sam.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I want you we don't. When she answers, I

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Speaker 2: want you to say, is this.

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Speaker 1: Who we think it is? Because I thought it was Zoe?

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Speaker 2: Oh ship?

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Speaker 1: Where did Sam come? I'm pretty sure Sam a Zoey?

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Speaker 1: You reckon? Zoe? Do you want to check the sheet?

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Speaker 1: Or do you want to say?

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Speaker 2: But I also didn't tick him off? Right?

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01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:15,600
Speaker 1: Well, what's the number?

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Speaker 2: No? I wasn't that set.

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Speaker 1: It was a little one.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, that little one's gone.

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01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: You threw it out. I think that's something I would

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Speaker 1: have done. Okay, I just we've got the fingers crossed.

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Speaker 2: She goes, hello, this is speaking, and if she doesn't,

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Speaker 2: I want you to say, is this.

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Speaker 1: We think it is? Please? I'll do it. Okay, And

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Speaker 1: if you want to get called by us, please please

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Speaker 1: submit it slenked in the description. I promise we'll remember

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Speaker 1: your name.

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Speaker 2: Just answer this is Keeople don't answer, and that's where

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Speaker 2: I get this problem.

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Speaker 1: Should we mumble something? So? So you think it's Zoe

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Speaker 1: and I think it's Sam? How can you zoey Sam?

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Speaker 2: Let's just let's when they answer. If they don't say

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Speaker 2: her name, we're going to say, okay, we're having a debate,

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01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 2: all right. Jake thinks it's Zoey or do he thinks

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01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:04,960
Speaker 2: it's Sam. We just want to know which one's right. Man.

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Speaker 1: She goes it's neither. Okay, let's do that. Hello Zoe

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Speaker 1: speaking Zoe, how are you?

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Speaker 2: It's Jake and Audi from the Relatas podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Good, Hell are you guys doing.

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Speaker 1: Really really good?

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01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 2: I would like to tell you something. Actually, right before

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01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 2: we called you, Audie said, Audi was going, Okay, we're

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01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 2: going to call Sam, and I was like, it's not Sam.

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Speaker 1: If you don't know who it is, we've got to

1347
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 1: check our sheet.

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01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure it's Zoe and I got it right.

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Speaker 1: Sorry. Sorry, I could admit when I'm wrong, you can, Zoe.

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Speaker 2: We wanted you to sign off the episode for us

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Speaker 2: with some advice or a quote or sometimes hey, I

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01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:48,400
Speaker 2: would be I'd be fine with a joke, anything, anything

1353
01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:51,439
Speaker 2: you feel like doing, or you can say something about

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Speaker 2: you want. Oh god, I actually dropped it down off

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01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 2: a power pole. So I'm just like, you're luckyswer the

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Speaker 2: phone a bit of a don't.

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Speaker 1: Know are you s?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Cool? Cool?

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01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: What about how actually here we go?

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Speaker 2: What's like a do you have like a crazy fact

1361
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 2: about like electricians or powerpoles or something that could blow

1362
01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 2: my mind.

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01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 1: Ah, probably not. That's all right, you're gonna some good

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Speaker 1: advice Zoey.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very very much, and have a good rest

1366
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Speaker 2: of your day work.

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01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:40,280
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah good. Thanks. Packing up by Zoey huh him

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01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 1: from Where's that set? He didn't seem impressed either.

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01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 2: Thank you very much for listening and stay bad.

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Speaker 1: We love you.