WEBVTT - The Sneaky Tests Employers Are Doing During Job Interviews

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<v Speaker 1>We got get you the morning every day, Adelaides.

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<v Speaker 2>Job interviews can be tough, really tough, extremely confronting, like

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<v Speaker 2>where do you put your hands? Do you make too

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<v Speaker 2>much eye contact? What am I doing? I kiss you

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<v Speaker 2>on the check or kiss you on the lips? Or

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<v Speaker 2>kis you on the forehead? When we great? Where we do?

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<v Speaker 2>No one's what do we do here?

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<v Speaker 3>No one's kissing anyone?

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<v Speaker 2>Whats your hand? No art? Nice to meet you? Can

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<v Speaker 2>I kiss your hand?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And then do you tip your hat?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you do? I?

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<v Speaker 4>Curtsey, you'd be so disgustingly awkward job because you're awkward

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<v Speaker 4>in real life. Can you imagine even a job interview?

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<v Speaker 4>How have you ever been gainfully employed by anyone?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I've had some stuff ups. Yeah, and I went

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<v Speaker 2>it was it must have been like twenty twenty eleven

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<v Speaker 2>at a rival radio station. Maybe I won't say it is,

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<v Speaker 2>but rhymes with six.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm familiar with their work.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, oh yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>Spent a bit of time only thirteen years mates.

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<v Speaker 2>I did a job interview for a position on the

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<v Speaker 2>street team. Oh yeh. I didn't get a call back,

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<v Speaker 2>and I spoke to someone about it after and they said,

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't like what you were wearing. They didn't like

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<v Speaker 2>the vibe of you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, you wear crocs and.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure crocs. Want to think back then, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a long time ago your.

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<v Speaker 4>Other staple, which is just a T shirt and a

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<v Speaker 4>pair of flannel shorts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. God, anyway, not long after I had pretty much

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<v Speaker 2>the same in of you at Nover for to become

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<v Speaker 2>a castnov and now the super and overs and got

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<v Speaker 2>the job. So we do like your vibe. Yeah, mister

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<v Speaker 2>needs a shave and smells terrible.

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<v Speaker 4>They're a little more conservative rout at the other place.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't known that you were going for a job there.

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<v Speaker 4>I might have thrown your boat.

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<v Speaker 2>You were working at the time, but I didn't know you.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah metic couple of times, but you didn't remember me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, god, are you hardly very memorable?

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<v Speaker 4>Let's be honest, and if you are memorable, it's for

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<v Speaker 4>all the wrong reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Hey, if you are lining up to do a

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<v Speaker 2>job interview at some stage this week, and perhaps you're

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit nervous, here's a few things to look

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<v Speaker 2>out for. This is the latest the secret water test

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<v Speaker 2>in job interviews, and how can or break you're hiring

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<v Speaker 2>chances go on. So it's when they pulled a jug

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<v Speaker 2>of water with a cup out to see if anyone

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<v Speaker 2>would drink it while being interviewed. It seems very trivial,

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, what's the litmus test behind that?

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<v Speaker 2>So the thing is if you don't drink it and

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<v Speaker 2>you don't use it, it's a sign of I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>confident enough to go down that spot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. See that's what If I was nervous and my hand.

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<v Speaker 2>Was shaved, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't touch it.

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<v Speaker 2>But the other thing is if you do take a

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<v Speaker 2>drink and obviously you guzzle it, it means you're super

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<v Speaker 2>nervous and you're a little bit ratchety.

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<v Speaker 4>Or maybe you're dehydrated because you were hammered the night before.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the test a bit of a dead giveaway, and

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people when this came out online were

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<v Speaker 2>saying things like, well, would i'd be nervous about if

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<v Speaker 2>I was a lady, if I had lipstick on. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to put lipstick on the cup, true, because

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<v Speaker 2>that's embarrassing. And then this is probably linked as well

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<v Speaker 2>to the coffee cup tests, which we've spoken about before,

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<v Speaker 2>and that is used by managers. They would offer applicants

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<v Speaker 2>a cup of coffee in the office kitchen before sitting

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<v Speaker 2>down with the interview, so after they were if the

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<v Speaker 2>prospective eployee did not offer to return their used cup

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<v Speaker 2>to the kitchen, they were unlikely to be high. Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>that did you just get up and walk off? It

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<v Speaker 2>makes It's a good point.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a real test.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like you do you have personal hygiene firstly and

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<v Speaker 4>secondly do you care about other people? Then have to

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<v Speaker 4>come and clean up your mess.

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<v Speaker 2>There's another example of at a particular restaurant where they

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<v Speaker 2>would take someone through the kitchen before getting to the

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<v Speaker 2>interview room, and they would place a broom in the

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<v Speaker 2>way through the kitchen, and if the person just walked

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<v Speaker 2>around it or stepped over it without actually picking it

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<v Speaker 2>up and putting it where it's supposed to be where

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<v Speaker 2>it's safe, that was a test. Yeah, little tests, stress.

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<v Speaker 3>Stop messing with our minds. Thirteen twenty four ten.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's do this. Did you ever did you ever butcher

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<v Speaker 4>a job interview? Did you absolutely make a mess of it?

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<v Speaker 4>What cost you the job? What did you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, here's one produce, Molly, you've been in the situation

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<v Speaker 2>to your job interview.

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<v Speaker 5>I was interviewing to be part of a show and

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<v Speaker 5>it was a kid's theater company and they travel around

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<v Speaker 5>to primary schools doing this little educational skin fund so good.

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<v Speaker 6>I slipped fell and said the.

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<v Speaker 3>Effort in front of children, or just in front of

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<v Speaker 3>the people.

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<v Speaker 5>Just in front of the panel. But I'm imagining they're thinking,

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<v Speaker 5>we can't really hid.

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<v Speaker 2>Her kids, adults and f bombs.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't what a filthy mouth little acrobat she is. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>no way we're hiring her.

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<v Speaker 2>Thirteen twenty four ten, let's do this. What cost you

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<v Speaker 2>the job? Maybe it was during the actual job interview.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it was your first day as well. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>you exposed yourself in some sort of way. I'll physically

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<v Speaker 2>exposed yourself, maybe just exposed. How week you were at

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<v Speaker 2>that job? Yep, there's a lot out there. First couple

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<v Speaker 2>of days as well. Can be very very confronting us

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<v Speaker 2>producing Molly about that as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh yeah, we need at prime minister on hold.

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<v Speaker 5>No, my first actual day here at Nova, I got

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<v Speaker 5>taken around to meet everyone, everyone upstairs, all the big bosses,

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<v Speaker 5>and I didn't realize I had tomato sauce.

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<v Speaker 6>All the way down my linen shirt.

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<v Speaker 3>We noticed, We just didn't tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>We thought it was part of the print. Very funky

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<v Speaker 2>shirt and good.

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<v Speaker 3>Morning, good morning, how are you today? We're so good?

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<v Speaker 3>But what did happen? What happened to you?

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<v Speaker 7>I declared I was a communist interview.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting approach, And how did that go down with your perspective? Boss?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, you know, I kind of wondered why afterwards I

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<v Speaker 7>didn't get the job.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, can you give me context this for us? Like

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<v Speaker 4>how did it even come up? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>So I was working for a multinational company at the time,

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<v Speaker 7>and I was going for an internal promotion. So I

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<v Speaker 7>had like a standard set of questions at the end

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<v Speaker 7>of the interview, you know, to make sure that you

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<v Speaker 7>couldn't be affiliated or involved with any political party that

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<v Speaker 7>could impact on the legalities of your business. So, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>the interview was going well. I was feeling confident, and

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<v Speaker 7>so when they asked that question, I thought I'd be

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<v Speaker 7>and it's Clara the Communist.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've got to sing you here, I've They're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>love this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly right, and not surprisingly you got overlooked in Yes, yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>And I said, do you want any feedback? And I went, no,

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<v Speaker 7>you kind of I think I might have known where

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<v Speaker 7>I went wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>We are talking about basically all tests at job interviews

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<v Speaker 4>this morning. So employers or potential employers are doing little

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<v Speaker 4>things just to test your aptitude or your moral compass.

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<v Speaker 4>So they'll do things like water in front of you.

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<v Speaker 4>If you guzzle, it means you're anxious and you're skittish.

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<v Speaker 4>If you don't drink it, then they're suggesting that what

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<v Speaker 4>are they saying?

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<v Speaker 2>Perhaps there's a lack of confidence and you're not owning

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<v Speaker 2>the room as much as you Sure, it's like it's hard, though,

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<v Speaker 2>is it? Oh you're too under confident, You're too overconfident?

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<v Speaker 2>Like can I just be confident? Do you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I don't want to be overwhelmed or underwhelmed? Can

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<v Speaker 2>I just be whelmed? Does that mean girls?

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<v Speaker 4>By the way, I think so. So we're taking you

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<v Speaker 4>calls this morning, thirteen twenty four ten. What cost you

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<v Speaker 4>the job? At an interview? Step from Newton? Good morning,

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning, Step.

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<v Speaker 3>What happened?

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<v Speaker 8>So a few years ago, I was trying to move

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<v Speaker 8>to Adelaide from my hometown and I put so much

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<v Speaker 8>pressure on myself for this interview because I'd been trying

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<v Speaker 8>for a little while, and during the interview, I was

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<v Speaker 8>obviously nervous and sweating quite a lot. I kept wiping

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<v Speaker 8>it from my upper lip. And then at the end

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<v Speaker 8>they asked me if I had any questions for them,

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<v Speaker 8>and it just kind of came out and I said

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<v Speaker 8>I was told I should prepare some questions, but I didn't,

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<v Speaker 8>and then we all just kind of sat there awkwardly

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<v Speaker 8>in silence and wrapped it up. But thankfully my references

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<v Speaker 8>actually came through and I did get the job in

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<v Speaker 8>the end.

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<v Speaker 2>So happy ending. That's a funny one because they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a little bit funny, but also concerning yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I was so hoping when they said you do you

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<v Speaker 4>have any questions that you were going to say yes,

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<v Speaker 4>can you see the sweat on my top.

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<v Speaker 8>Leader, I was too nervous to say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, congratulations she got the job, So all swell that

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<v Speaker 4>ends well on that one. Travis from the City, Good

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<v Speaker 4>morning morning. Okay, what happened?

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<v Speaker 9>So it's not actually myself, it's actually my partner, my wife. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 9>she went in for an interview for a HR position

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<v Speaker 9>because she's got to be a HR and account so

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<v Speaker 9>she wanted to move from accounts to HR. And in

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<v Speaker 9>the conversations they were having, they sort of said, oh,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, it can be a bit upfront and confrontation

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<v Speaker 9>and that kind of stuff in some cases with the

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<v Speaker 9>employees and that. And at the end of the like

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<v Speaker 9>wrapping up the conversation that you know, what's your weaknesses,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, those kind of questions and that, and and

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<v Speaker 9>she said, I don't like confrontation.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is the most confrontational job available. What are

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<v Speaker 2>your weaknesses are confronts?

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm presuming she didn't get it.

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<v Speaker 9>No, yeah, hell no, you can't get a callback.

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<v Speaker 2>No surprise, that's good. How confronting.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, do you want to be a pilot? No,

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<v Speaker 3>I've got a fear of height.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I hate flying the worse than ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I have the job still?

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<v Speaker 4>Morning?

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<v Speaker 5>The following segment is the mature audiences only and may

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<v Speaker 5>contain how all content, graphic language and nudity, not that

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<v Speaker 5>you'll see it is easily offended.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you're about to find out just how easily.

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<v Speaker 2>Your father he's on your money.

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<v Speaker 5>Jody and hazy, it's sixty nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is a phase where we can probably be

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit looser, a little bit more blue, a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit more risque. Is before we straighten up up

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<v Speaker 2>at seven o'clock. We've got a brand new producer. Her

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<v Speaker 2>name is Molly spot On, and right from the start

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<v Speaker 2>she's been like, hey, naughty, six point forty, give me

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<v Speaker 2>a crack yep, I can beat myself. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>I can really shine in this spot.

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<v Speaker 4>I have got some things to say, And so here

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<v Speaker 4>we go, six forty Wednesday, twenty sixth of February.

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<v Speaker 3>What she got about your name?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, if I ever looked tired, it's because of my neighbor,

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<v Speaker 5>who has to be maybe the most sexually active man

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<v Speaker 5>in South Australia.

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<v Speaker 2>Well good on him, I guess, Okay, as long as

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<v Speaker 2>he's doing it safely.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well, we hope.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't know a lot about the guy, right, but

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<v Speaker 5>we also know way too much about him. Okay, don't

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<v Speaker 5>know his name, don't know his story, have maybe said

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<v Speaker 5>hello once in a year.

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<v Speaker 3>What does he look like? Does he look sort of normal?

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<v Speaker 3>Good looking?

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<v Speaker 10>Normal?

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<v Speaker 3>He's a dad?

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<v Speaker 10>Oh oh oh oh, okay, he notoriously keeps us up

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<v Speaker 10>with his antics.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, so you can hear what's going on every

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<v Speaker 2>are you guys? So are you part of an apartment

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<v Speaker 2>complex or something?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>So we live in a block of units and the

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<v Speaker 6>walls they're thin.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>You know he first moved in and we thought, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>cool new neighbor.

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<v Speaker 3>That should be a single dad. Yeah, just living the

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<v Speaker 3>quiet life.

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<v Speaker 6>Yep, okay, I reckon.

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<v Speaker 5>It was the first day he woke us up. I

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<v Speaker 5>think one am with the loudest you can say.

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<v Speaker 2>Sex. Ever, Well, first of all, it's too late, by

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<v Speaker 2>the way, it's far too late.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, god, don't you have to get up in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning. Okay, I don't want to drill down too much.

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<v Speaker 3>But do you hear more so him or her?

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<v Speaker 6>It's it's her.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, it happens.

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<v Speaker 6>More than once.

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<v Speaker 10>So will happen at one, then it will happen again

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<v Speaker 10>at three, Then it will happen again at five.

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<v Speaker 2>You talk in one night you want to sit yes, mate,

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<v Speaker 2>are you kidding?

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<v Speaker 5>And it goes forever, and it's not loud for you know,

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<v Speaker 5>a certain part of the activity. The whole time, it's

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<v Speaker 5>it's he has to have the most impressive nudes.

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<v Speaker 6>Also, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>This is crazy because you know enough about us, Molly

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<v Speaker 2>to that JODI's only had sex four times, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>had sex three times, three kid, and he's not three

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<v Speaker 2>or four times in one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's sure as hell.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't go one, at three, at five and at seven again,

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<v Speaker 4>for goodness.

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<v Speaker 6>He's not like twenty three. Oh, I don't know, maybe

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<v Speaker 6>late thirties.

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<v Speaker 2>When was the last time it happened?

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<v Speaker 6>Yesterday?

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<v Speaker 3>It's very busy.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you know it's the same partner every time?

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<v Speaker 6>Or it's definitely a different partner.

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<v Speaker 3>How can you tell from the vocal range?

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<v Speaker 5>So the first the first partner was particularly shrill.

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<v Speaker 6>She had a good time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, lately it's dropped off a little. If you want

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<v Speaker 5>to know anything about it, we can tell you. We

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<v Speaker 5>almost feel like we need to leave our own bed

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<v Speaker 5>because it feels like we're a part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is a bit awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe that's a solution.

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<v Speaker 2>Mall. So you can't enjoy them, it's good to get

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<v Speaker 2>some feedback, particularly if it's for new listeners, maybe even

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<v Speaker 2>if it's family members. And in an interesting space right

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<v Speaker 2>now with a new producer. Her name is Molly.

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<v Speaker 4>Producing Molly when we just heard from her in The

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<v Speaker 4>Naughty at six forty, just discussing at length.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm oh my god. She wouldn't shut up about it.

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<v Speaker 2>To summarize it in two words, you'd probably say something like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh boy, oh boy.

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<v Speaker 4>So her neighbors are very active, let's put it that way,

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<v Speaker 4>and are very loud in those activities. And you did

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<v Speaker 4>say to us before we went to edge, can you

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<v Speaker 4>guys just be careful because my nana listens now, and

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<v Speaker 4>your nana Margaret has just text you and said what she.

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<v Speaker 6>Said, Molly. You know I'm listening, Nana. Nana. My brother

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<v Speaker 6>texts as well. I didn't know he listened. Oh he

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<v Speaker 6>said that was funny.

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<v Speaker 7>That was it?

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<v Speaker 3>Not even like a laughing emoji nothing.

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<v Speaker 6>He said, my least favorite story of yours, but fun live.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh there you go, Nana Margaret. Look, I think we're

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<v Speaker 2>peeling back the layers for producing Molly, and yeah, boy

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<v Speaker 2>oh boy, we're finding some stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you do a bit of gear before the show

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<v Speaker 4>starts at six o'clock, at five point thirty, and you.

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<v Speaker 3>Said that your nana Margaret gets up but five thirty

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<v Speaker 3>and listens to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Years if I was taking the bins out. My parents

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<v Speaker 5>would stand on the curb and watch and you're just supporting.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at her bin technique.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to know.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to know now, I need to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to know.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to know what news today to know this

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<v Speaker 2>is what you need to know. What you need to

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<v Speaker 2>know With Jody and had politicians and accountability when it

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<v Speaker 2>comes to expenses.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, thank goodness for the Freedom of Information Act. Because

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<v Speaker 4>a group of top SA government executives have taken an

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<v Speaker 4>afternoon off to do.

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<v Speaker 2>What protel no go on a helicopter ride over the Brasser,

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<v Speaker 2>She's go to the cube. We're also do in South Astrala.

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<v Speaker 2>That's really cool and iconic.

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<v Speaker 3>Will you go on to to our cuddlefish swim in

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<v Speaker 3>a boat trip?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Of course that was going to be my next guest,

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<v Speaker 2>of course.

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<v Speaker 4>So eleven government executives along with three senior staff members

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<v Speaker 4>were sent on the two night trip that has been

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<v Speaker 4>labeled as an example of taxpayer dollars being squandered.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what the cuttlefish they need attention, They

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<v Speaker 2>need attention. They're not going to see themselves, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>And if we don't keep on paying attention to these

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful little cuttlefish. Then what happens? They might go somewhere else?

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<v Speaker 4>May I ask a question? You're a custle fish swimmer

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<v Speaker 4>from way back when. Actually, okay, so you've been talk

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<v Speaker 4>us through the attraction.

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<v Speaker 11>Do you know what?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what? I want to smash the politicians

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<v Speaker 2>for this. I've done it. We did it as part

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<v Speaker 2>of SA weekend and it's a little spot in whale,

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<v Speaker 2>which is it's actually quite interesting. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>bore you Joe's but it's like the perfect environment of cuddlefish.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why they're there, very very iconic. They're amazing cret.

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<v Speaker 3>What makes them the cuttlefish amazing?

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<v Speaker 2>If they're not aliens, then I don't know what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>They're freaky little things and they go all different colors

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<v Speaker 2>and they're aggressively tame. It doesn't make sense that they're

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<v Speaker 2>aggressive in tame anyway, let's move past that. But you

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<v Speaker 2>can swim like literally right up next to them because

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<v Speaker 2>we're filming them and they get up right in their

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<v Speaker 2>face and they were like, hey, hey, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>You've seen it?

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<v Speaker 6>I haven't. But do they light up?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>He just said that they go different colors.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, luminous. Yeah, so I think they can actually glow

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<v Speaker 2>in the dark and all sorts of things. I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 2>they're aliens. And the only time that they will sort

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<v Speaker 2>of veer off is when you try and touch them.

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<v Speaker 2>Tried to touch them?

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<v Speaker 11>You did?

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<v Speaker 6>You did?

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<v Speaker 2>What about as well? They're so they're so tame, they're

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<v Speaker 2>actually they're idiots. Let's be honest, because creatures shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 2>this tame. And just before we started filming and they said,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gotta be careful. Get timing is everything. The cudfish

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<v Speaker 2>were there being like, hey, what's going on. We're just relaxing.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just relaxing, and then a pot of dolphins came through,

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<v Speaker 2>like three of them and just went jump jump jump

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<v Speaker 2>jomp and deleted it about five of them, and the

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<v Speaker 2>other guys are like, whoa bro, what does that happen?

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<v Speaker 2>There's billy I said, you've got to be careful because

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<v Speaker 2>the dolphins will just when they feel a little bit hungry,

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<v Speaker 2>it comes through and clean them up.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So what started out as a really beautiful story

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<v Speaker 4>about illuminating cuddlefish just ended in absolute carnage.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for that, Hazy thirteen twenty fourteen. Are you a cutterfish?

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<v Speaker 2>And have you been have you lost the mate to adolphins?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey?

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<v Speaker 3>So not so long ago.

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<v Speaker 4>You were pretty vulnerable with all of us, and you

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<v Speaker 4>just spoke about how you're a bit concerned with your

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<v Speaker 4>relationship with alcohol. Not so much during the week, but

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<v Speaker 4>Friday nights, maybe Saturday nights, you were hitting it a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit too hard. And well done to you, because

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<v Speaker 4>there was a really big reaction from everyone who was listening.

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<v Speaker 4>We had lots of calls, lots of text as well

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<v Speaker 4>of people who can basically understand exactly what you're going through.

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<v Speaker 4>And we have one call from anonymous who really touched us.

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<v Speaker 3>All have a listen.

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<v Speaker 11>So he's been over for over a year now. He

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<v Speaker 11>was a heavy drinker and I always did think that

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<v Speaker 11>it was an issue and my.

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<v Speaker 12>History always had drinking in the family.

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<v Speaker 13>Fell out the tree and kind of realized that needed

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<v Speaker 13>to make cake.

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<v Speaker 11>And not only has it been.

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<v Speaker 12>Great for his health, but obviously relationship ships.

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<v Speaker 11>Around him and just through to me. I'm so proud

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<v Speaker 11>of him and it's changed our relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I ask you what it's felt like to have

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<v Speaker 3>your husband back?

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<v Speaker 6>Amazing?

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<v Speaker 1>I've got my best friends back.

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<v Speaker 11>I didn't realize how much it was impacts me, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 11>it's so good to see the best.

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<v Speaker 7>Version of him.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had some great calls, and that call from an

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<v Speaker 2>anonymous listener it hit me. And I've spoken to some

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<v Speaker 2>mates since then who have said, yeah, but I felt

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<v Speaker 2>like I was in the same situation. So it's definitely

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<v Speaker 2>an adjustable lifestyle piece that we can do. And also

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<v Speaker 2>I've spoken to this I want to say her name,

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<v Speaker 2>but I can't. Yeah, she's anonymous, but yeah, we shared

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<v Speaker 2>a phone call. We've shared some text as well, and

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<v Speaker 2>you see, this is absolutely faast.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't mean to blow smoke up with you, but

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<v Speaker 4>this is you are such a nice person. You were like,

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<v Speaker 4>I really want to speak to that lady, and so

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<v Speaker 4>you went out of your way during the day to

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<v Speaker 4>give her a phone call and you guys chatter forrages you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so she feels right now and we've got to

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<v Speaker 2>text out. She feels like a bit of a life coach.

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<v Speaker 2>It's absolutely fantastic and Lord knows you need it. But

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<v Speaker 2>quite seriously, so I called it a lifestyle adjustment. And

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<v Speaker 2>that was on a bad Friday night for no particular reason.

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<v Speaker 2>I could sort of pour seven to ten beers on

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<v Speaker 2>the couch and at Saturday night maybe six beers, and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe five or six beers on a Sunday night as well,

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<v Speaker 2>for no real reason, not getting drunk, but just I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, because it's so disciplined during the week. So

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<v Speaker 2>I started the week before and then so it's been

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<v Speaker 2>officially probably two weeks. And I had two beers on

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<v Speaker 2>Friday night, I had two beers on Sunday night, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think I had a beer on Sunday night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And I've got it to just changed everything. What about

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<v Speaker 2>heading into a Monday full of energy? What's that like?

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<v Speaker 2>What about getting up on Saturday morning at five o'clock

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<v Speaker 2>and going for a run in the morning instead of

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<v Speaker 2>sluggishly getting out of bed at seven o'clock and not

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<v Speaker 2>wanting to do anything. And the big one for me

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<v Speaker 2>right now. And I had this chat with my wife

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<v Speaker 2>last night, and I'm not sure if she'd be comfortable

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<v Speaker 2>saying this, I say it anyway. We started speaking about

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<v Speaker 2>it and she said, she said, how good hand relationship

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<v Speaker 2>been in the last couple of weeks, which is really

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<v Speaker 2>really important. I said, do you want to come on

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<v Speaker 2>radio tomorrow? And talk about it. She said, Nope. If

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<v Speaker 2>you hear my wife on radio, it means I've really

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<v Speaker 2>pushed and prodator. Yea, but yeah, it's good. It's we're

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<v Speaker 2>two weeks in, but it's certainly not missing no what

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing on a Friday night, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And just I'd call it aimlessly drinking.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And do you feel like it's sustainable for you

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<v Speaker 4>now that you've had a taste of what sort of

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<v Speaker 4>we's not sobriety, but it's like a much cleaner.

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<v Speaker 3>Version of yourself. Do you think you'd be able to

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<v Speaker 3>continue it on?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I think for me it was one beer always leads

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<v Speaker 2>the m do you know what else it leads to?

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's after four or five beers. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>will get that pack of chips. I'll do this and

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<v Speaker 2>then for a lot of people, I'm not, but I

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<v Speaker 2>know a lot of people go, well, I will have

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<v Speaker 2>a cigarette. Yeah, I will do this, and then maybe

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<v Speaker 2>after I might have a have a glass of wine.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll open that bottle half class of wine, two or

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<v Speaker 2>three classes. Lady, You're like, a what is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>And I've got that personality where in a bit of

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<v Speaker 2>a bit of a yolo personality you might call it.

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<v Speaker 2>So if I can do this, then I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 2>right now, if you're thinking about trying to adjust your

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<v Speaker 2>lifestyle on this space, you can do it. It's very,

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<v Speaker 2>very doable. And yeah, right now two weeks in, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think I haven't felt this good for a long

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<v Speaker 2>long time. I mean, if I can do it, then

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<v Speaker 2>you can do it. You never know.

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<v Speaker 10>And czys favorite way to wake up, you know's birthday,

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<v Speaker 10>bad day?

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<v Speaker 2>Just round the corner, Jakes, the thousand bucks, the second

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<v Speaker 2>and storm of this morning, the nine o'clog version up

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<v Speaker 2>for grabs just for having a birthday. Probably a bit

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<v Speaker 2>of a concerning time for the audience at the moments

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<v Speaker 2>with the daughter's coming through.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they are a lot of them, Like we've got

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of girls everywhere in our family.

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<v Speaker 2>But wow, daughter factory.

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<v Speaker 4>I would quite like to talk about this on thirteen,

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<v Speaker 4>twenty fourteen. What happened when you kid's got their hands

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<v Speaker 4>on your phone? And I will explain this because you know,

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<v Speaker 4>there's a long esteemed history of my.

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<v Speaker 3>Girls getting their.

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<v Speaker 4>Hands in particular on their dad's phone because they're not

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<v Speaker 4>allowed to have Instagram. So the eleven year old who's

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<v Speaker 4>big dance are heavy heavy, heavy into dance, so she

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<v Speaker 4>follows all these different other little dances of her same age.

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<v Speaker 4>And then there was a period where she was commenting

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<v Speaker 4>on all their photos. But of course it comes up Gregotty, right,

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<v Speaker 4>so she's just downright weird. So it's just like things

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<v Speaker 4>like looking beautiful with a big love heart, nice moves,

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<v Speaker 4>so it looks creepy as hell.

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<v Speaker 2>It's come from the heart. Just come from a good place,

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<v Speaker 2>come from her.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's come from the eleven year old obviously commenting on her.

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<v Speaker 2>Friends, but visually when it's coming from a man who's

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<v Speaker 2>the dad in his forties, yes, not a good.

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<v Speaker 3>L exactly right. So we've had a new incident in

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<v Speaker 3>the Addy household.

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<v Speaker 4>And I picked up my phone yesterday morning and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, fat so it had been posted on Greg's

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<v Speaker 4>Instagram and it was just it was a selfie of

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<v Speaker 4>the five year old and she's got her tongue out,

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<v Speaker 4>so she's doing this and then she's doing that. She's

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<v Speaker 4>doing like the peace sign in front of her eyes,

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<v Speaker 4>and I just thought there was no caption, there was

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<v Speaker 4>no context, there was nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, what is he doing? Unbeknownst to me,

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<v Speaker 3>he's sitting there.

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<v Speaker 4>He picks up his phone and he's getting like all

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<v Speaker 4>these likes and all these messages about said photo, and

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<v Speaker 4>he's like, what the hell's gone on?

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<v Speaker 3>She has posted her first selfie at five on your

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<v Speaker 3>dad's Instagram.

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<v Speaker 4>And it begins, and so it begins thirteen to twenty

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<v Speaker 4>four ten, let's do this please, What happened when your

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<v Speaker 4>kids got their hands on your phone?

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<v Speaker 2>One hundred percent? They would people who saw that post

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<v Speaker 2>come up and be like, what.

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<v Speaker 3>His Instagram is a disgrace at this point? What is

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<v Speaker 3>he doing? Is someone controlling it?

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<v Speaker 2>Thirteen and twenty fourteen? What happened when your kid got

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<v Speaker 2>their hands on your phone? Joe's your five year old? Boy?

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<v Speaker 2>Heh boy, she's been busy. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>We've had a long, proud history of our kids accessing

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<v Speaker 4>our Instagram and our social media. And on this occasion,

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<v Speaker 4>my five year old has somehow worked out how to

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<v Speaker 4>post a story on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>She's just wiped up her first selfie, you know, dung

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<v Speaker 3>out things like that in a peaceaign, like, hey.

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<v Speaker 2>Have radical what a rebel?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey guys, Hey guys, what's happening? Subscribe?

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<v Speaker 2>Like and subscribe. Yeah, don't get me started with the

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<v Speaker 2>like and subscribe. It's a thing.

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<v Speaker 4>It's such a thing, isn't it too much YouTube for

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<v Speaker 4>our kids? So we're asking the question on thirteen twenty

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<v Speaker 4>four to ten, what happened when your kids got their

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<v Speaker 4>hand on your phone?

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<v Speaker 3>Tana from Ronella good morning, Good morning guys.

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<v Speaker 12>I'm happy to share with you my most embarrassing actually

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<v Speaker 12>probably my.

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<v Speaker 13>Most sot right up there.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, so my daughter took a photo while I was breastfeeding.

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<v Speaker 12>You know, she thought it was beautiful. I was trying

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<v Speaker 12>to encourage a natural you know, living my best life.

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<v Speaker 12>She took a photo of my breath and then accidentally

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<v Speaker 12>uploaded it to my face.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh sorry, perfect. All that's good. And your friends are like, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>Tanna's very open in this situation. Good on her.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, they assumed I was progressive and I got some

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<v Speaker 12>love for that, which is nice. And they're like, I'm

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<v Speaker 12>your nipples out, but you know, whatever for you, and

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<v Speaker 12>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 8>I didn't mean that.

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<v Speaker 12>And then you know, some of my in laws are like, hey,

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<v Speaker 12>what's that?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, whoa.

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<v Speaker 2>Three then all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>No one said that, No particularly not her in laws.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they didn't, but they thought that she was going

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<v Speaker 2>down that path.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thanks so much, Tanna.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's go to Vanessa from Elizabeth eas Good morning, Vanessa.

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<v Speaker 3>You're there, Vanessa Yellow Vanessa. Yeah, all right, let's come

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<v Speaker 3>back to Vanessa.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's okay, we're wearing Oh, that's right, free the nipple.

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<v Speaker 2>Give us a goal, Fur twenty four ten. Like your child,

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<v Speaker 2>it's gone through a very interesting stage of her life.

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<v Speaker 2>It's different from when we were fifty five year olds.

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<v Speaker 3>Now chokes certainly.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you've got cameras to deal with, you've got

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<v Speaker 2>social media, I've got all sorts of things. And now

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<v Speaker 2>she's just experienced her first taste of uploading something in

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<v Speaker 2>social media and getting likes and clout, as they say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and the.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool thing is the Skuy's the limit now right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Who knows?

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<v Speaker 4>Now that she knows how to do it, who knows

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<v Speaker 4>what else she might post on our Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe Dad enjoyed the clout as well, perhaps notifications all

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<v Speaker 2>the likes.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I know, missus Adelaide's favorite Wait to awaken one.

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<v Speaker 2>Night thirteen twenty four to ten. We're doing this. What

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<v Speaker 2>happened when your kid got their hands on your phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, can be brought with danger.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just saying that to my five year old

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<v Speaker 4>learn how to upload photos to Instagram. So on her

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<v Speaker 4>dad's Instagram page uploaded her first selfie.

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<v Speaker 3>Well done, but it's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>So extremely dangerous, but well done.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well done. At least it wasn't a part of

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<v Speaker 3>me doing something inappropriate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what we found out before when Tanna called

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<v Speaker 2>through and her youngster stupload a little photo of her breastfeeding.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, why not, let's got to leave from Ronelle Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Late, good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>What happened?

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<v Speaker 1>My daughter changed setting in my phone somehow, so every

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<v Speaker 1>time I typed Lowell in text messages, it changed it

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<v Speaker 1>to Willie Bump. And then I had texted my buff

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to ask a friend. Then she said,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think maybe your daughter's done something? And I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't because she was only about eleven.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right, so I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was doing my head and I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you even do that?

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<v Speaker 10>Lee?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know how do you change it?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't remember. It's something to do with some pre

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<v Speaker 1>editive whatever it is, text or something, And you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know until after you'd sent it.

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<v Speaker 3>In front of you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that's amazing, that's incredible.

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<v Speaker 3>Thankfully, let's go.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's try Vanessa from Elizabeth Ease who accidentally muted herself

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<v Speaker 4>before you unmuted yourself, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 11>Going to go, hello, how are you?

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<v Speaker 3>God hasn't done it again?

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<v Speaker 2>Vanessa?

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<v Speaker 3>There, I am here, How are you all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, hey, what happened when your kids got their hand

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<v Speaker 4>on the phone, because right now I feel like you

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<v Speaker 4>should hand your phone.

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<v Speaker 7>I know I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 13>School run and everything. But anyway, my grandson was four

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<v Speaker 13>or five years old. His name is Nate.

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<v Speaker 1>He is about eight now.

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<v Speaker 13>But then he got my phone. It took her photo

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<v Speaker 13>of his you know what. And then so most of

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<v Speaker 13>my friends on snapchat.

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<v Speaker 8>He did that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's as bad as he gets.

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<v Speaker 13>I can't wait for him to hear this, and he's

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<v Speaker 13>going to be so embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so many questions, yes, like jeez, what was what

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<v Speaker 2>was that? How alarming was the response?

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<v Speaker 13>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, people straight away call and going you need to

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<v Speaker 2>saw something out here.

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<v Speaker 7>I know because he sort of did it just over

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<v Speaker 7>his pants.

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<v Speaker 13>So it's like all by start. So I had a

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<v Speaker 13>few friends just like they know what he's like. How

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<v Speaker 13>my grandsons walk around with their pants up all the time,

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<v Speaker 13>so they weren't actually that surprised, to be honest, Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, thank you so much. I don't think we can

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<v Speaker 3>out shock with ash, can we.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't have thought that.

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<v Speaker 3>Unless we want to go to Monique from haleck Cove. Hey, Monique, Hey, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>go on, good good. What happened?

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<v Speaker 11>Well, my three year old at the time, I had

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<v Speaker 11>just given birth to my daughter and we were in

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<v Speaker 11>the hospital having a nice you know, meet the new

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<v Speaker 11>family member. The moment, I had my legs and the

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<v Speaker 11>stirrups and my daughter took a photo of my husband

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<v Speaker 11>holding his newborn and I was in the background with

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<v Speaker 11>my legs and stirrups and the doctor's arm in the

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<v Speaker 11>air with just pitch in his hands.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, obviously I don't know what that's like, but I

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<v Speaker 2>would feel like that could be possibly the most vulnerable

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<v Speaker 2>that a female could be in their life.

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<v Speaker 4>In their whole entire existence, because I've witnessed it three times,

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<v Speaker 4>and yes, quite the I mean, I'm not sure about humanique,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't want that image on the internet.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 11>No, I got a few responses that weren't congratulations. They

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<v Speaker 11>were more like, oh, did you need s pictures?

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<v Speaker 2>Feedback?

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<v Speaker 1>There you go.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a different time. Chacked twenty twenty five. Everyone's very

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<v Speaker 2>open about what they're doing.

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<v Speaker 3>Commiserations one of the other

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<v Speaker 2>Uploaded to social media.