1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome back to Bounce Board with me Ti Paul. 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: I'd like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 3 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: on which I'm recording this podcast, the Wurundri people of 4 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: the Cooler Nation. I pay my respects to elders past 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: and present. Today on the show, I am so excited. 6 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: I have Aida Nicodemu, who is one of Australia's favorite 7 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: media personalities and has starred as Leah Patterson on Home 8 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: and Away since the early two thousands when I was 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: sitting there as a kid watching and just loving her sick. 10 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:38,319 Speaker 1: AIDA's been nominated for seven Logi Awards, and in two 11 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: thousand and five she started on Dancing with the Stars 12 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: and one at the competition, so she knows a thing 13 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: or two about fitness. Aida is also an author and 14 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: has a son, Jonas, who will talk about in the podcast. 15 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to welcome her to Bounce Forward. Ada, 16 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on. So Aida, I want to 17 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: start by talking about your fitness routine and your usual schedule. 18 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: What does your normal fitness routine look like because. 19 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: You are so fit? 20 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you, It's changed so much. Actually, in the 21 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:17,639 Speaker 3: last year I had an injury. Now, don't laugh about 22 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 3: a year ago, a year and a half, girshlely, I sneezed. 23 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 4: I woke up in the morning to go to the 24 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 4: gym at like five a m. 25 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, as I did, and I was in my dress 26 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 3: room getting changed, and I sneezed and I perforated a disc. 27 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 4: It was like I was in so much, so much pain. 28 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 3: But I'm like, I'll be fine, I'll just got a 29 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: physio and I was sort out anyway, cut to how 30 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 3: to have an operation. I still have a numb No, 31 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 3: I'm not. I still have a numb foot on one side. 32 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 3: And it just meant and it probably will never heal properly. 33 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 3: Like I think I've actually just damaged a nerve. I know, 34 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 3: but it really made me rethink a lot of things 35 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 3: that I doing because I've always been fear like I 36 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 3: love to exercise for my mental health. I guess now 37 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 3: I've realized. But it's just something that I just love 38 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 3: to do. But I was like a machine, like I 39 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: would do like a spin the box and you know, 40 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 3: all that sort of stuff. And then I got into 41 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 3: like heavy weightlifting as well. And now I'm never doing 42 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 3: a deadlift again. 43 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 4: In my life. 44 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 3: Yes, it's freaked me out now because I've got two 45 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 3: discs that were damaged, and like I'm talking, I was 46 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 3: doing them with trainers and everything. But I just think, 47 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 3: I just think that me at my age, you know, 48 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 3: I'm just not I'm just too scared. So now what 49 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 3: I do is I do pilates. I'm very lucky to 50 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 3: have a reformer in my room. I knows the purse 51 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 3: right yeah, yeah, yeah, so I don't take that for granted. 52 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 4: So I've got an app that I use through your reformer, 53 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 4: and I do plarties at home. 54 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 3: I also go to a studio. I do, like still 55 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 3: do lightweight and walking. I can't run because I'll break 56 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 3: my ankle because one book. 57 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: Yes yeah, well yeah, so You've been on TV like 58 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: for longer than most celebrities and personalities out there. 59 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 2: So I have to ask you, do you ever feel 60 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 2: pressure to look. 61 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: A certain way to be fit, to to you know, 62 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: flog a fit lifestyle? 63 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 2: Like do you feel that pressure? 64 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: Do you know? 65 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 4: I mean I'd be lying if I said I didn't. 66 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 3: I think I never used to actually when I was younger, 67 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 3: and I'm wondering whether that has a lot to do 68 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: with social media. 69 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 4: And just everything. 70 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 3: Now we just photograph everything with video everything and our 71 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 3: whole lives of just you know, on social media and 72 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 3: for everyone to see and critique. Because I've always been fit, 73 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 3: but I think when I was younger, I probably didn't 74 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 3: worry about my body as much as I do now. 75 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 3: And I'm in saying that, Jeez, I'm a size six, so. 76 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: Yes, like I'm little fit. Yeah, but you. 77 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 4: Know, there's always something about. 78 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 3: Our bodies that we could change or or like the 79 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 3: voice in your head that goes, you know, I don't 80 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 3: like this part or that part. So I think there's 81 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 3: always a little bit. 82 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:28,159 Speaker 4: Of a battle. Now. 83 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 3: I don't know whether it's because I'm on screen or 84 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 3: whether it's my age. 85 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 4: I don't know. 86 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: How often are you filming for home? In a way, 87 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: what what's a normal week look like for you? And 88 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: how do you be in like doing pilates and everything 89 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 1: around a grueling schedule? 90 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it is pretty grueling, and it's usually five 91 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 3: days a week, and. 92 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 4: It's pretty like it's usually early morning. 93 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 3: So I guess if I was to be in studio, 94 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 3: the might call time would be six in the morning, 95 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 3: so I'd have to leave home at five twenty five. 96 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 3: I'm one of those like maniacs that gets up at 97 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 3: the cracker dawn to exercise. But I find that well, firstly, 98 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 3: I mup anyway because I don't sleep very well. But 99 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,559 Speaker 3: I just think it just sets my day really well. 100 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 3: So even if I just do like twenty minutes yep 101 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: on the reformer, at least it's something, you know, and 102 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 3: I think then it's just I've done something for myself. 103 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 4: So I like to do that. Or I'll go for 104 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 4: a walk like at lunchtime. You know, we make it work. 105 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 3: My schedule just changes so much, so I'll have days 106 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 3: off or I'll finish it early. 107 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 4: You know, I just make it work. 108 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 1: You're amazing. I just to find that motivation, it's just amazing. 109 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: I have this podcast called Bounce Forward and it's all 110 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: about bouncing forward and sort of women's postpartum journeys a 111 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: little bit and you know, not bouncing back. 112 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: So yes, tell me. 113 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: A little bit about your postpartum journey. How was it 114 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: after you had your son Jonas? Like what did you 115 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: feel that pressure to bounce back snap back quickly? 116 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 4: Like? 117 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 3: Yes, well I remember so. So when I was pregnant 118 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 3: with Jonas, I loved my body. I was looking at 119 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 3: my belly and going, I look amazing. I just I 120 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 3: couldn't stop staring at myself in amazement, like how just like. 121 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 2: What the body does? 122 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 4: Yea? 123 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,799 Speaker 3: And like all the light, like all the lines, everything 124 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:31,839 Speaker 3: was like sex was amazing. 125 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. 126 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 3: Then I had emergency casarally it was all fine, and 127 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 3: then I remember sort of the next morning, like looking 128 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:40,919 Speaker 3: down and going. 129 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 4: Look there's a belly steward. Yeah, no one told me 130 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 4: about this. 131 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden I hated my belly, 132 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 3: like it just went from loving it to this instant hating. 133 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 4: And I didn't know what that was about. And then 134 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 4: I remember even. 135 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 3: My father and at the time, who's you know, not 136 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:59,359 Speaker 3: the fittest looking guy. 137 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 4: Said oh, we are you going to get rid of that? 138 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 4: Like I was still in hospital, When are you get 139 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 4: rid of that belly? 140 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 3: And I think that sort of set me on this 141 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 3: path of like I had to get rid of this 142 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 3: belly because everyone tells you that you have to do it. 143 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 3: And then I was stupidly decided to do a photo 144 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 3: shoot for one. 145 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 4: Of those mags where I was meant to have. 146 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 3: Like the bikini body, like at like five months or something. 147 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 3: And I remember, like I was, you know, doing this 148 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 3: photo shoot with Jonas as well, and the photographer at 149 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 3: the time was just so awful and it was anyway, 150 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 3: it just it really made me feel like crap about 151 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 3: my body and just the pressure that I'd put on 152 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 3: myself in the society put. 153 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 4: On us that we have to bounce back. 154 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 3: So I remember when you when you were documenting all this, 155 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 3: I thought, you go, girl. 156 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 4: Like, thank you, because no one talks about this stuff. 157 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 3: No one talks about the fact and we shoot, we're 158 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 3: caring for a child, we're just getting. 159 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 4: Worse, We're healing amazing. 160 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, our bodies are amazing. Shouldn't be putting that 161 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: pressure on yourself. But I can't believe I did a 162 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: photo shoot. 163 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, like so stupid. 164 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 4: I would never do that again. 165 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 2: So much pressure. 166 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and you just feel then all of a sudden, 167 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 3: just really unattractive. And yeah, so it was a year 168 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 3: of like not feeling really great about myself. I had 169 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 3: postnatal depression as well. I went back to work too early, 170 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 3: you know, all the stuff. You know, he wasn't sleeping, 171 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 3: I wasn't sleeping. But yeah, and look, I think it 172 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 3: took me about a year to feel good as a mum, 173 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 3: feel good, feel good in my new body, because our 174 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 3: bodies are never the same. 175 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 2: No postpartum, all life. 176 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 3: And I don't want it to be either, because I've 177 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 3: had a beautiful child, and I, if I'm being honest, 178 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 3: I actually probably feel better in my body now than 179 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 3: I did back, you know, prior to having Jonus. 180 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 4: It's just a different shapes. 181 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: Yes, it's a different shape. But you feel more sort 182 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 1: of empowered, don't you as a mum? 183 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think so now. 184 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 1: Ada, you've been so open and such a shining light 185 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: for women everywhere, you know, with mental health. And I 186 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: like to focus on the physical and the fitness and stuff, 187 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: but also the mental is really important. And you've been 188 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: really open about your experience with a still birth and 189 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: just how hard that was for you. If you're comfortable, 190 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: would you talk me through what your mental health was 191 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 1: like at that period. 192 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that was definitely the lowest time in my life. 193 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 4: That was a really scary time when you just don't. 194 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 3: Like you're out of body, like you don't there's like 195 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 3: people are saying stuff and like I don't really actually 196 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 3: remember it that well. I just remember being very attached, 197 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 3: couldn't believe that it was happening to me. 198 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 4: It's like this weird movie that you just can't get 199 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 4: out of. 200 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 2: Horror. 201 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:13,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is a horror film and it took me 202 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 3: a long time. It took me a long time. I 203 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 3: don't think you ever get over it. Harrison's anniversaries coming 204 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 3: up soon, and it's always I think the lead up 205 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 3: is always a little bit difficult, and then on the. 206 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 4: Day, I don't know, it changes every year, but yeah, 207 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 4: it's just a it's I don't look. I think. 208 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 3: I think what got me through is actually Jonas. To 209 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 3: be honest, I had a two year old that I 210 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 3: had to look after and I never said anything to him. 211 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 3: But then I remember I remember my Aunie at the 212 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 3: time going, well, have you said anything to Jonas. I'm like, well, 213 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 3: there's too would I say something? And she goes, well, 214 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 3: hand on a second, you've been pregnant all this time, 215 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 3: You've been talking about this baby, and then all of 216 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 3: a sudden you're really really sad there's no baby, like 217 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 3: he would know. 218 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 4: So I did. 219 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:10,199 Speaker 3: I did start sort of talking to him, and he 220 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 3: was too, like, it's not really going to add me 221 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 3: in fact. But yeah, I did sort of talk to 222 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 3: him about it, and I do still to this day. 223 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 3: But I think that that's just he gave me the 224 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 3: courage just to to wake up every day and to 225 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,319 Speaker 3: keep moving forward. 226 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 2: Going forward. 227 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: Wow, it's yes, Yeah, that just helps women everywhere because 228 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: they women going through that themselves, just knowing that they 229 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: can identify with you, and it's just such a gift. 230 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 2: So what does healthy look like to you? 231 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: Oh? 232 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 4: Healthy looks like. 233 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 3: You know, been able to run around with Jonas, trying 234 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 3: to you know, feeling good within myself that. 235 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 4: You know, I'm making right decisions. 236 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 3: I tend to try, like I try and eat well, 237 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 3: so I have like, you know, an eighty twenty rule. Yeah, 238 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 3: I think even with exercise, I think, you know, if 239 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 3: I can exercise three to four times a week, that's great. 240 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 3: I'm trying not to put too much pressure on myself. 241 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 3: I'm trying to listen to my body, and I try 242 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 3: and do things that now make me feel good, like 243 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 3: I find it like I'm forty seven, so I find 244 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 3: that like a lot of cardio now like heavy, like 245 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 3: too much filk, and feel good. 246 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 1: And it's and it's proven physiologically not to be good 247 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: for hormones, you know. Yeah, lifting weights, doing pilates, you're 248 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: doing the right thing for where you're at you Yeah. 249 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I feel like when I do pilates, let 250 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 3: the class finishes like forty five minutes later, I'm like, oh, 251 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 3: I could keep on going. 252 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, so that you must mean that it's good, 253 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: good for your nervous system. You're not smashing a nervous system, 254 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: because we don't want to be smashing ourselves, you know. 255 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: It's so, yeah, you're doing the right thing. Thanks so 256 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 1: much for listening to Bounce Forward. 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