Speaker 1: That's why in breakups, guys go like downhill and girls
Speaker 1: go uphill seriously seriously because the guys I was having
Speaker 1: like their girlfriend to like help them choose outfits, so
Speaker 1: they just like put anything on their like whatever, and
Speaker 1: then the girls are just like slaying anyway. Where's Your
Speaker 1: Head At is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups,
Speaker 1: reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between.
Speaker 2: This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,
Speaker 2: intimate details, advice, and much more. Could morning that Welcome Anna.
Speaker 2: We're in the Nova studios once again.
Speaker 1: This is not a new home. I love it here.
Speaker 2: It is very nice. We can see my face everywhere.
Speaker 2: I was actually looking at the photo before. Yeah, there's
Speaker 2: a little bit about it. I don't like what o'll
Speaker 2: cover art about. I don't know if I should call
Speaker 2: it out because then no one will be able to
Speaker 2: unsee it.
Speaker 1: Okay, tell me I'm ready?
Speaker 2: You ready?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Look at where the phone's sitting on my ear?
Speaker 1: What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2: Can you see it?
Speaker 1: Like your hair?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's quishing my hair. I wish I had
Speaker 2: it on that side of my hair, so it's compressing
Speaker 2: my hair down.
Speaker 1: Actually, I've actually never seen this before, and it's actually hilarious.
Speaker 1: If you're looking at this photo right now, guys.
Speaker 2: Doesn't it look funny?
Speaker 1: It actually looks like hairy, Like, yeah.
Speaker 2: Harry or Strand. Well, how are you feeling, Anna, I'm
Speaker 2: feeling good.
Speaker 1: I had a really fun weekend. It was very action packed.
Speaker 1: I had a friend's birthday and then I went to
Speaker 1: the NBL. Yeah, MBLA is my turn on of this week.
Speaker 1: I know that you went last year with Tammy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably around about a year ago now, yeah
Speaker 2: yesterday though.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you had rave reviews about that, and honestly,
Speaker 1: I just loved it. Like by the end of this experience,
Speaker 1: Michael was like we need to be seasoned ticket pass
Speaker 1: holders or whatever it is. He was like, let's go
Speaker 1: every week. I was like, I actually want to go
Speaker 1: every week.
Speaker 2: Did you watch the actual game? Did you stand basketball?
Speaker 1: I understand basketball firstly, so that's a start, because I
Speaker 1: don't really obviously I was born in the UK, I
Speaker 1: don't really follow AFL, and I don't really kind of
Speaker 1: understand parts of the game, Like obviously I always watched
Speaker 1: the Grand Final because we get around the Grand Final.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just loved the basketball. There was also
Speaker 1: really fun things happening during the game in the quarters,
Speaker 1: in the halftimes, there was cheerleaders which were amazing. One guy,
Speaker 1: he like, got chosen and he had to throw the
Speaker 1: basketball from half court and if he got it into
Speaker 1: the hoop, he was going to win a car.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, this is exciting.
Speaker 2: Did all the audience get around in Yeah.
Speaker 1: We were fully around him, and then they I think
Speaker 1: they let him go a little bit forward and they
Speaker 1: basically said he would win five hundred dollars if he
Speaker 1: got in from there, Like imagine if someone won a car.
Speaker 2: Massive. I remember when they said if the team scores
Speaker 2: a goal in the next like five minutes or something,
Speaker 2: everyone gets free cheeseburger vouchers shut for every goal they
Speaker 2: get one or something. And they scored, they scored.
Speaker 1: So that's just like unbeatable vibes. And then also the
Speaker 1: music is just so good. There's constant music playing, just like.
Speaker 2: I went to a Lakers game and it was like
Speaker 2: full on. It was more full on there in Los Angeles.
Speaker 2: But I love going to sporting events like the football.
Speaker 1: I've got sporting events. It was so good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've got them on Twitter now as well.
Speaker 1: I love it, but I would have to say NBL
Speaker 1: is definitely like I love the rugby, but the NBL
Speaker 1: just is that little league on its own. Yeah. And
Speaker 1: I was also courtside, so I definitely that was definitely.
Speaker 2: We're so close you could taste their sweat.
Speaker 1: I could smell there, so actually I was like a
Speaker 1: little bit too close for comfort. They were also like
Speaker 1: sliding like they because obviously the basketball hoop was right
Speaker 1: beside us, so the players were like sliding onto us
Speaker 1: and I was like pushing my feet out, like, don't
Speaker 1: get me.
Speaker 2: That's fun.
Speaker 1: But no, it was amazing. What's your turn on of
Speaker 1: the week.
Speaker 2: I went on a private jet last week, so that's
Speaker 2: my turn on. That's my I've always wanted to go
Speaker 2: on one of them. It was pretty fun. Bucket list Yeah,
Speaker 2: Buckelett thing, isn't it so good? The brand Flight Club
Speaker 2: flew up me and a couple of other influences up
Speaker 2: to Sydney to play a game of darts and then
Speaker 2: flew us back home.
Speaker 1: How fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 1: Darts is so good. Yeah, it's so underrated, I feel.
Speaker 2: I mean, I played darts in the past with a
Speaker 2: couple of like mates in that and you can while drinking.
Speaker 2: It's a bit of fun. You can have a bit
Speaker 2: of fun. But this here was like way more fun
Speaker 2: because there was like, you know, games you would play
Speaker 2: with it, and like there was like you know, you'd
Speaker 2: have different sort of games and then the darts if
Speaker 2: you hit a score, and then there was like an
Speaker 2: electric board that was like tell you different scores. And
Speaker 2: that's hard to explain because I didn't really fully understand
Speaker 2: the concept of the game unless it's finding me and
Speaker 2: the rules are in front of me, because they were
Speaker 2: all like different ones.
Speaker 1: It was fun though, So it's flight club like a
Speaker 1: venue that you go to where you play darts and
Speaker 1: you can have fun.
Speaker 2: It's almost like a bowling sort of alley, but like
Speaker 2: darts fun. Yeah, it was fun and you.
Speaker 1: Met some cool people there. You told me you're hanging
Speaker 1: out with what swag on the beat? Swag on the
Speaker 1: bea funny lads. I'm not so it's not one person,
Speaker 1: is it?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: I've heard of how many?
Speaker 3: Is it?
Speaker 2: There was three? But now there's two? Okay?
Speaker 1: Got you? And you were telling me that, like you
Speaker 1: became like buddy buddies with them. BFFs and you were
Speaker 1: telling them how you wanted to what was your other
Speaker 1: bucket lest Yeah.
Speaker 2: A stand up comedian as well. And he was just
Speaker 2: talking about his stand up and he said, well, mate,
Speaker 2: you said open for me, and I was like, he
Speaker 2: was like, go on, like come on, I'll give you
Speaker 2: a shot open And I was like, dude, I have
Speaker 2: no material, Like, whoa, I have no material whatsoever.
Speaker 1: I love that that they said that to you though.
Speaker 1: That's pretty cool.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I might take him up on it and
Speaker 2: I might write a script or something.
Speaker 1: Dude, you have to do this. You realize that you
Speaker 1: have to do this.
Speaker 2: Well, we're in Melbourne. Wasn't there like the Rubber Chicken
Speaker 2: or something? Rubber Chicken? And I think it's just around
Speaker 2: the corner from where we are. I wanted to do
Speaker 2: my one of my acts there. They have like open mic.
Speaker 1: You were trying to convince like me and Michael to
Speaker 1: come down with you, and you and Michael would get
Speaker 1: up and do it. But now you've been given this
Speaker 1: perfect opportunity on a platter.
Speaker 2: I'll hit him up and see what he says. My
Speaker 2: So you know how to play NFL Fantasy. Yeah, one
Speaker 2: of the punishments for whoever comes last. They were saying,
Speaker 2: would be to do a stand up act at the
Speaker 2: Rubber Chicken. You're like, just tank the whole season. But no,
Speaker 2: I'm doing quite well at the moment at it.
Speaker 1: Oh God, when you talk about the fantasy, you just
Speaker 1: lose me. Yeah, fully lose me.
Speaker 2: I could explain it to you if you want me to.
Speaker 1: I don't want you to, but thank you, really appreciate
Speaker 1: it's thanks for your time.
Speaker 2: What is your this week?
Speaker 1: So this is very controversial, I will say, but you
Speaker 1: know how everyone is obsessed with Lovers Blind, and in
Speaker 1: some ways I am also obsessed with lovers blind.
Speaker 2: Mind is fun.
Speaker 1: I watched the baby Is It Her Baby version?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: I saw this on Netflix.
Speaker 1: It's really good?
Speaker 2: Is it really?
Speaker 1: And then I've watched I've watched a lot of them,
Speaker 1: but I just feel like Lovers Blind is so anticlimactic.
Speaker 1: Like I feel like when they're dating in the Pods,
Speaker 1: it's so like you have to I have to really
Speaker 1: put in the time to watch it because I get
Speaker 1: so bored watching them in the Pods.
Speaker 2: I've watched the first episode three times of this season, right.
Speaker 1: Like it's so hard to like remain focused and maybe
Speaker 1: this is like an attention thing from both of uss.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I've watched it three times. I still can tell you
Speaker 2: one of their names.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's a it's a really hard watch at
Speaker 1: the start, then in the middle of it, I'm loving it,
Speaker 1: and then when they're meeting, I'm starting to really get
Speaker 1: into it.
Speaker 2: But you need the front story first of them.
Speaker 1: You do need the front story, which is why you
Speaker 1: have to force yourself into watching it. Then the end
Speaker 1: is so anti climactic, like the marriage thing. I'm just like,
Speaker 1: is that it?
Speaker 2: I don't know. Is there any drama in the marriages
Speaker 2: this year?
Speaker 1: In the marriages?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want to give a spoiler.
Speaker 1: What do you mean in what one? The Habibie one, well, in.
Speaker 2: Any in the actual American one. Because I haven't got
Speaker 2: up to the marriages yet yet.
Speaker 1: I've just I've watched the marriages. Yeah, because I remember
Speaker 1: I felt I found it a bit anti climactic. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm going to say.
Speaker 2: Because I remember this is my I skipped one marriage
Speaker 2: in the last season of the American one, and then
Speaker 2: because I was boring, and then the other one the
Speaker 2: guiding comes to know he did his vows and said
Speaker 2: I do not want to marry you or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the Herbibie one was the same, Like it
Speaker 1: was just very anti climactic. And I was also just
Speaker 1: like these couples have pre discussed this, Like no one's shocked.
Speaker 1: This is a pre this is a conversation they've already had.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm kind of a bit off Lovers Blind,
Speaker 1: Like I think I've I've done my.
Speaker 2: Time on popular opinion.
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, because now there's like lover is Blind, Japan,
Speaker 1: Love is Blind, Sweeted. They're all popping up on my thing,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, nah, I think I'm going to skip
Speaker 1: these skip them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, my I is. I just had one of
Speaker 2: those nights. I haven't had them for a while, you know,
Speaker 2: like a Sunday night where you just can't fall asleep
Speaker 2: and you're like tossing and turning for ages.
Speaker 1: I've had a couple of those nights.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I wrestled Actually Saturday night, I did a little
Speaker 2: spot in the Royal Rumble. So I came out and
Speaker 2: did a couple of moves.
Speaker 1: Why did you post the video of that on our
Speaker 1: Facebook page for everyone to see? Because it's pretty cool.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I came out as Michael Myers, but Charlie Matthews,
Speaker 2: Michael Myers and I did a couple of spots and
Speaker 2: I just saw and last night I was laying there,
Speaker 2: I saw not as young as you used to be.
Speaker 2: I should have probably warmed up. I think someone asked
Speaker 2: me back stage, you get a warm up, and I
Speaker 2: was like, never warm off. No, you got a warm up.
Speaker 1: You got a really warm up. Yeah. You can't grow.
Speaker 2: Out there and just go r dog because it makes
Speaker 2: you sore.
Speaker 1: Did you do some body slams on people?
Speaker 2: I did my fall away slam, which I call the
Speaker 2: follow away Slam because I tell people to follow me
Speaker 2: on Instagram.
Speaker 1: It's the character really could have made me.
Speaker 2: My character was actually so good back in the day.
Speaker 2: I had it all down. Pat so well. The man
Speaker 2: that won the Genetic.
Speaker 1: Lottery, It never gets old every time he says it.
Speaker 1: It just is just as amusing as that.
Speaker 2: Actually the man that won the Jenny Lottery.
Speaker 1: Maybe shit, Okay, Matt can you believe it is November already?
Speaker 1: You are officially in wedding month?
Speaker 2: First? Very close?
Speaker 1: Is it like two weeks? Three weeks?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I think so? Actually, yeah, that makes Yeah, it would be,
Speaker 2: wouldn't it.
Speaker 1: It's coming up so quick. I literally can't believe it
Speaker 1: this whole end of year. I know that we always
Speaker 1: say this blah blah blah, but I'm so.
Speaker 2: Busy this end of year. It's so much going on.
Speaker 1: And you have your honeymoon. Yes, I do too, very exciting,
Speaker 1: exciting which you've given no clues away.
Speaker 2: For nothing about that. Even December, I feel like it's
Speaker 2: just going to be packed full of stuff.
Speaker 1: Well, I was having talks with my family on like
Speaker 1: where we were doing Christmas. Obviously, family planning over Christmas
Speaker 1: is always hard when you're in a couple, because you're like, who,
Speaker 1: when are we're seeing your parents? My parents?
Speaker 2: This state as well makes it even.
Speaker 1: Hard, totally totally and like you want to make sure
Speaker 1: everyone's happy. So that's where I'm kind of out. I'm
Speaker 1: at Christmas planning, which is in November flowing. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 2: Christmas decorations go up probably what mid October in shopping
Speaker 2: centers and decorations.
Speaker 1: Come out, but surely they wait for Halloween to be open.
Speaker 2: The Christmas tree was up at like the start of October.
Speaker 1: Stuff it, Yeah, your December December first, aren't you No?
Speaker 2: November the fourteenth.
Speaker 1: Really isn't that unlucky, is it?
Speaker 2: I don't think so.
Speaker 1: I thought December one.
Speaker 3: Was the day.
Speaker 2: No, we do it early. I do it because we
Speaker 2: I go obviously hard on Halloween spooky season up October
Speaker 2: the thirty first. Then I have a two week cooling
Speaker 2: off period and then remember.
Speaker 1: The fourteenth, he's back at it.
Speaker 2: So that's like around Thanksgiving, I think so, Like then
Speaker 2: you got that two weeks and then Christmas. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: don't celebrate Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1: But just honestly, if you told me you celebrated Thanksgiving,
Speaker 1: it would not surprise me, because you love a holiday.
Speaker 2: I love a holiday. Don't know. Easter sucks. A fan
Speaker 2: of Easter.
Speaker 1: I love Easter.
Speaker 2: It brings nothing to the table.
Speaker 1: It's my birthday in April, so it's like birthday month,
Speaker 1: chocolate month.
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of that great seguey Ana, I came across
Speaker 2: this TikTok and it was the top five most attractive
Speaker 2: birth months, as.
Speaker 1: In the person is attractive.
Speaker 2: I don't know what this is exactly based off, Anna,
Speaker 2: but I saw a couple of tiktoks and it was
Speaker 2: the top the still the same top five birth months
Speaker 2: that have the most attractive people born in that month.
Speaker 1: So obviously April's first.
Speaker 2: Well do you want to go do you want me
Speaker 2: to do you want to get? Do you want to
Speaker 2: guess what they are?
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to say April because I was born
Speaker 1: in April, because I'm going to back myself.
Speaker 2: Well, funnily enough, April is number one. No, it's not,
Speaker 2: it is, I've got it right here. Okay, I'm going
Speaker 2: to show you the rest.
Speaker 1: I actually didn't see it.
Speaker 2: April's number one.
Speaker 1: And then I'm going to say August because Michael was
Speaker 1: born in August.
Speaker 2: You're fucking kidding me. August is number two. Shut me
Speaker 2: and Michael, and I'll put this on the Facebook page
Speaker 2: as well so people can see to prove this. August
Speaker 2: is number two.
Speaker 1: Okay. So then I'm going to say December is number three.
Speaker 2: December is on there, but it's not my brother, it's
Speaker 2: number four.
Speaker 1: Four. I've done pretty well.
Speaker 2: You've done very well. So you've got three and five
Speaker 2: and you have I'm going to say June. No, but bom,
Speaker 2: June's not on the top five.
Speaker 1: Ah, It's okay.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of I know I'm in Well, what
Speaker 2: about my month?
Speaker 1: When are you want again? July? Yes, okay, July.
Speaker 2: No, you're not on it. I've heard about that shit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, do I have one more guess?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, if you want to Okay.
Speaker 1: I'm going to say, let me think about this. I'm
Speaker 1: going to say May, and I may say you're wrong.
Speaker 2: So the top five most attractive birth months according to
Speaker 2: TikTok is number one, April, number two, August number three,
Speaker 2: which you didn't guess, February.
Speaker 1: February, the month of love.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of anyone in February. February, Oh,
Speaker 2: my mom and my sister are December was number four, yep.
Speaker 2: And number five is September. Do you know anyone in September?
Speaker 3: My mom?
Speaker 1: There you go, I should have picked her.
Speaker 2: So that is the top five most attractive first month.
Speaker 1: And if you're not in there, guys, this is probably
Speaker 1: not real.
Speaker 2: This is just a TikTok.
Speaker 1: I'm going to take it for what it is because
Speaker 1: obviously my birth month is first. But if you're not
Speaker 1: in there, like Matt, don't worry.
Speaker 2: I'm at it.
Speaker 1: I'm surprised you've brought it to the table. If you're
Speaker 1: not well.
Speaker 2: I honestly just thought people are getting around this, so
Speaker 2: we may sure I read it out to our audience.
Speaker 1: Okay, Matt, I have noticed that you have started wearing
Speaker 1: a lot of baggy pants recently, quite baggy. Your fashions
Speaker 1: kind of changed. And I saw something online that I
Speaker 1: truly believe in, and it is called the girlfriend effect.
Speaker 1: And I think that you've got a bit of the
Speaker 1: girlfriend effect. I think Michael definitely has the girlfriend effects,
Speaker 1: like what he was wearing at the start of our
Speaker 1: relationship versus now very different. Like one of my friends
Speaker 1: she was saying to me, like, Michael dress is so good.
Speaker 1: I love his outfits. I want to find a guy
Speaker 1: like that. And I was like, whoa, whoa. Firstly, when
Speaker 1: I'm met Michael, he wasn't wearing any of this stuff.
Speaker 1: He was like very corporate like he was. He was
Speaker 1: an office guy, working you know, Monday through Friday. So
Speaker 1: the girlfriend effect, actually, there's a TikTok. We're going to
Speaker 1: play it now.
Speaker 4: Have you ever seen a man significantly improve his look
Speaker 4: or style after acquiring a girlfriend, like a man who
Speaker 4: has you know, cut off all of his hair, gotten
Speaker 4: a new hairdoop, shaved off his neck beard, started wearing
Speaker 4: you know, clothesert.
Speaker 5: A little more tailored, more fitted. All of those were options.
Speaker 4: And if you have seen that, you might have watched
Speaker 4: a man experience what people are calling the girlfriend effect
Speaker 4: that I have seen circulating around.
Speaker 5: TikTok for the pack.
Speaker 1: Okay, that is the girlfriend effect. And anyway, what I
Speaker 1: was saying was my friend was like, I need to
Speaker 1: find a guy with like this really good style, and
Speaker 1: I was like, no, that's the girlfriend effect. You can
Speaker 1: change that. You can help them improve. You can buy
Speaker 1: them cool items of clothing to add to their wardrobe.
Speaker 1: Do you think that you are suffering from the girls
Speaker 1: or the fan because you've never wore baggy pants like that?
Speaker 2: Baggy pants are in fashion now, isn't that?
Speaker 1: Did Tammy buy you those? No?
Speaker 2: I bought these, but she definitely encouraged me down the
Speaker 2: route of baggy pants before.
Speaker 1: So she's helping you be cool. Basically, like the house,
Speaker 1: I run what I'm wearing past her, Yeah, so is Michael.
Speaker 2: Yeah I run it past Yeah. I think that every
Speaker 2: partner does that, don't they a lot?
Speaker 5: Do?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Just go, hey, what do you think?
Speaker 5: I think?
Speaker 1: So, if you're like trying to help people with their fashion,
Speaker 1: or if you're into your fashion, like Tammy's very into
Speaker 1: her fashion. I'm into my fashion, so obviously I.
Speaker 2: Would claim I'm not that fashionable by myself. I need
Speaker 2: a little bit of guidance sometimes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty fashion, but I mean I definitely think you've elevated.
Speaker 2: Thank you? Do you think that on that? On the
Speaker 2: baggy jeans, I went and sorted out all my stuff
Speaker 2: that I was left at my mum's on my clothes,
Speaker 2: took a big garbage bag to the salbos full of
Speaker 2: like skinny jeans, skinny tops, like I have all these,
Speaker 2: like all these skinny jeans, so if anyone wants to
Speaker 2: get some of their hands on some skinny so they
Speaker 2: still haven't gotten to the baggies yet, they weren't even
Speaker 2: skinny because I did. There's a little period there where
Speaker 2: I wasn't accepting that skinny jeans were out, but I
Speaker 2: was like, no, they're not gone yet. And I got
Speaker 2: some baggy but skinny still and they're in there as well,
Speaker 2: So I just gave them all to the charity.
Speaker 1: Do you know what the annoying thing is? Skinny jeans
Speaker 1: are out and I am so close to throwing all
Speaker 1: of my skinny jeans out. In two years, we'll be
Speaker 1: buying some more skinny jeans. We'll be like, God, damn it,
Speaker 1: we should.
Speaker 2: Have kept them.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, fashion does recycle, doesn't it.
Speaker 1: It so does. Like I remember looking at when I
Speaker 1: was a bit younger. I think, maybe like when I
Speaker 1: was like sixteen seventeen, still in school, looking at like
Speaker 1: my mum in the nineties, being like, what is she wearing?
Speaker 1: And now all wearing like basically what they were wearing
Speaker 1: in the nineties, which is hilarious because yeah, it just recycles.
Speaker 2: Excuse my ignorance. Haven't shoulder pads come back in once
Speaker 2: or twice? Or am I just imagining things?
Speaker 1: Not to my knowledge? But I mean, you're wearing shoulder pads.
Speaker 2: I thought I saw a girl of one time ages
Speaker 2: and wear shoulder pads, and I was like, isn't that
Speaker 2: very like eighties? Isn't it seventies? Eighties? I know where
Speaker 2: I saw that one time. I don't know, maybe, and
Speaker 2: then I was like, oh, fashion recycles. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I do see that this theory has legs. I mean,
Speaker 2: I think for the fact that like, if you have
Speaker 2: a fashionable partner. Foncea girl friend, you go to them
Speaker 2: for advice, and at the end of the day, I'm
Speaker 2: dressing to impress her. So it's if it's not you know,
Speaker 2: if it's not fashionable to her, then it's not fashionable
Speaker 2: to me. So I want her to be like impressed
Speaker 2: with what I wear.
Speaker 1: Guys are lucky. They get a bit of a glower,
Speaker 1: don't they. They find a girlfriend, get a bit of
Speaker 1: a glow off, start looking fresh. Yeah, that's why in breakups,
Speaker 1: guys go like downhill and girls go uphill seriously seriously
Speaker 1: because the guy starts having like their girlfriend to like
Speaker 1: help them choose outfits, so they just like put anything
Speaker 1: on there, like whatever, and then the girls are just
Speaker 1: like slaying anyway. A snipy rae.
Speaker 2: All right, this hotline is anonymous. Let's listen to it.
Speaker 5: I met this guy a few years ago. We met
Speaker 5: on Tinder.
Speaker 3: I didn't think it was much at first, but after
Speaker 3: weeks and months of talking, I started to develop feelings
Speaker 3: for him. We had met each other's family and we
Speaker 3: got on really well, and there was a time I
Speaker 3: had dinner at his place. I met his extended family
Speaker 3: and they were all so great. Fast forward a few
Speaker 3: weeks later, and it was time for him to meet
Speaker 3: my extended family. This was the first boy I had
Speaker 3: seen since I broke up with my ex, so it
Speaker 3: was a big deal for me. And I had told
Speaker 3: him all week if he wasn't ready, like, you don't
Speaker 3: have to come and meet them, I understand, just let
Speaker 3: me know, and he insisted he.
Speaker 5: Was coming so fast.
Speaker 3: Forward to an hour before the dinner, he messages me
Speaker 3: and says that his dad ran away.
Speaker 5: I didn't know how to react. He's a twenty four
Speaker 5: man at the time, so I thought there's no way
Speaker 5: he ran away, bullshit to me.
Speaker 3: He then explained to me that his parents had an
Speaker 3: argument and his dad left the house on foot. So
Speaker 3: then he said that him and all his siblings they
Speaker 3: were all aged twenty and older, needed to go look
Speaker 3: for him.
Speaker 5: What So then basically what happened.
Speaker 3: I just let it go because I just thought there
Speaker 3: was no way he could make this up.
Speaker 5: And the next night, I was out clubbing with a
Speaker 5: few friends.
Speaker 3: I hadn't heard from him all day and I'm dancing
Speaker 3: with this guy. All of a sudden, his stepsister comes
Speaker 3: over to me and turns out the guy I.
Speaker 5: Was dancing with was his cousin.
Speaker 1: Oh god, it was nothing, and I told her it
Speaker 1: was nothing.
Speaker 5: I then asked her how her dad.
Speaker 3: Was and she starts laughing and she's like, what do
Speaker 3: you mean? And I told her what Max had told me,
Speaker 3: and she just starts laughing and said.
Speaker 5: What the fuck?
Speaker 3: Max was home all night in his bedroom, had bacon
Speaker 3: and eggs for dinner, playing video games.
Speaker 2: His dad.
Speaker 5: The far fucking ran away. I didn't end it there.
Speaker 5: I kept talking to this.
Speaker 2: Boy, probably where you should end it.
Speaker 3: We were in bed and he got this snapchat notification
Speaker 3: from some girl and he quickly flicked it away so
Speaker 3: I couldn't see it, and the vibes were just off.
Speaker 5: Something was just off this day.
Speaker 3: So later I searched the girl on Instagram who was
Speaker 3: on public and she had a photo of her new
Speaker 3: car that she just bought, a red MG. I immediately
Speaker 3: sent it to my best friend. I said, we're going
Speaker 3: to need this one day. And so a week or
Speaker 3: so later, he said good night to me at seven o'clock.
Speaker 5: He has never want to bed early, so that was
Speaker 5: so out of character for him.
Speaker 3: Play that night, my best friend and I do what
Speaker 3: we do best, and we drove past his house.
Speaker 5: And went for a little store. Was there the red
Speaker 5: fucking MG car was outside his house.
Speaker 1: Dog.
Speaker 5: I couldn't believe it.
Speaker 3: Days went by, and I never said anything to him
Speaker 3: because I just didn't want to sound crazy, even though
Speaker 3: I know I was not crazy. I just needed to
Speaker 3: find a way to tell him. The weekend came around,
Speaker 3: I go out with one of my girlfriends and then
Speaker 3: I call my mate and asked him to take me home.
Speaker 3: He eventually arrives and we're waiting in the car. He
Speaker 3: told me that we're waiting for his mate who's bringing
Speaker 3: home a girl who.
Speaker 5: We're also taking home. Eventually, I see Callum coming to
Speaker 5: the car with this girl. Who was the girl. It
Speaker 5: was the girl that drove the red MG.
Speaker 3: I would believe it, Just when I thought my life
Speaker 3: got to get any worse. I spend the whole car
Speaker 3: ride home just biting my tongue until eventually I just
Speaker 3: said everything to her.
Speaker 5: I ended things with him and I have never spoken
Speaker 5: to him since.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's awkward.
Speaker 1: While there's so much to una, like the fact that
Speaker 1: the dad ran away from home, like it's not a dog,
Speaker 1: she's like, it's not an animal. Or the cat ran
Speaker 1: away from home, the dog. It's a dad right away
Speaker 1: from home, he leaves the home.
Speaker 2: I mean, he could have like Alzheimer's or something.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even go there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know that's where my mind went. When she
Speaker 2: first said that, I was like, oh, but he was
Speaker 2: lying about that. Well, he was clearly lying. Yeah, the
Speaker 2: sister said that he was lying. Fucking piss Why would
Speaker 2: you lie?
Speaker 1: Like, what's like, I just after seeing the red mg
Speaker 1: out of the house, surely that had to be the
Speaker 1: moment where you just cut it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. As I say, I wouldn't even message him again.
Speaker 2: You don't have to tell him why I just cut
Speaker 2: it off.
Speaker 1: I think even after the dad ran away incident, I
Speaker 1: think that would be me out. I'd be like, that's
Speaker 1: that's a no from me.
Speaker 2: That's a huge red flag.
Speaker 1: And he's eating eggs and bacon or whatever the fuck
Speaker 1: he was eating, you know what I mean, Like very specific, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Very very specific. I mean I just think that like
Speaker 2: she should have cut him off there, definitely when she
Speaker 2: saw the red car, not so much the dad running away,
Speaker 2: Like maybe.
Speaker 1: He just he just freaked out about freaking.
Speaker 2: About family and he's a coward. And he didn't know
Speaker 2: how to say it properly.
Speaker 1: Yeah but coward, Yeah but cow Yeah, you don't.
Speaker 2: Want to date a coward? Maybe, But how would he
Speaker 2: say twenty two twenty four?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean maybe at that age you would probably maybe
Speaker 2: better than that, be a bit better. I'd feel like
Speaker 2: four an adult.
Speaker 1: About it, that serious about it. I don't know. Maybe,
Speaker 1: But then we're not making excuses for him. He is
Speaker 1: five thousand percent in the right.
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to talk through her head. And then
Speaker 2: definitely when I saw the red M. If I saw
Speaker 2: the red MG, I would not talk to him again.
Speaker 2: I wouldnt even give him the door. I'd be like,
Speaker 2: knock on the door. Yeah, I'd be like, you're super
Speaker 2: confront that.
Speaker 1: I would be confrontational about that. I'd be like, let's
Speaker 1: get it out here, let's have it out. But then
Speaker 1: definitely in the car with her though, So I imagine
Speaker 1: that car ride.
Speaker 2: But what's the girl doing though with the other guy,
Speaker 2: because are they pretending that they were together?
Speaker 1: Like house, what does he think is gonna happen? Is
Speaker 1: he having for like a three? Yeah?
Speaker 2: What's his end goal there? Like it's just like, yeah,
Speaker 2: he seems like a nuffie.
Speaker 1: What about if she was seeing the friend the whole time? Nah,
Speaker 1: we can't give him that much.
Speaker 2: Of the benefit. No, I think he's a fucking.
Speaker 1: Nuffie and he just yeah, what's the game plan with
Speaker 1: having them all in the car? Like that's pretty brazen,
Speaker 1: that's pretty ballsy.
Speaker 2: I think that he just never thought that, like it
Speaker 2: was LINKR. I don't know, honestly, he thought she wasn't.
Speaker 1: As clue on. Yeah, maybe, but what about the girl
Speaker 1: in the MG? How would she feel about him being
Speaker 1: with the anonymous caller? You know, surely you know so
Speaker 1: many questions.
Speaker 2: So many questions that are unanswered, manswer questions.
Speaker 1: Okay, that that's all we have time for lovely, to.
Speaker 2: See you, lovely, to see you as well in this studio,
Speaker 2: just looking at myself, No, I don't. I'm kidding that.
Speaker 2: I can't actually look at the photo anymore. That hair
Speaker 2: is shipp Okay.
Speaker 1: Guys, until next time. Bye,