1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:25,081 Speaker 1: Apod Shape Production. Okay, Mack to another episode about my 2 00:00:25,241 --> 00:00:28,241 Speaker 1: bad podcast. 3 00:00:28,361 --> 00:00:32,081 Speaker 2: We touch base the other week on a podcast in 4 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:36,761 Speaker 2: regards to music. So obviously we have quite a few 5 00:00:37,001 --> 00:00:40,241 Speaker 2: followers on this podcast, and one of them is Nanade, 6 00:00:40,601 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: and Nanade loves to give me feedback on what her 7 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:48,081 Speaker 2: thoughts are about our podcast. Okay, good, Okay. She was like, oh, yeah, 8 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,041 Speaker 2: well I heard the podcast and yeah, I heard you 9 00:00:51,161 --> 00:00:54,481 Speaker 2: bagging out my music choices. So the other day we 10 00:00:54,521 --> 00:00:57,121 Speaker 2: were talking about K pop and how I was sort 11 00:00:57,161 --> 00:00:59,521 Speaker 2: of like, I'm on the fence of K pop. It's 12 00:00:59,601 --> 00:01:03,121 Speaker 2: very repetitive, it doesn't bring me vibes, but I've got 13 00:01:03,121 --> 00:01:06,081 Speaker 2: different music, you know, sort of choice. Anyway, Mom goes, well, 14 00:01:06,281 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 2: you failed to say that you love listening to Jimmy 15 00:01:08,921 --> 00:01:10,481 Speaker 2: Barnes and that was because of me. 16 00:01:10,961 --> 00:01:12,321 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, I was too. 17 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:15,321 Speaker 2: Focused on John Denver and the torture Chambers used to 18 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: put us through when we had to listen to that 19 00:01:17,121 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 2: on a car ride from like Adelaide to Peterborough. Three 20 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,161 Speaker 2: hours of John Denver would make anyone want to go 21 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 2: to sleep. 22 00:01:23,681 --> 00:01:26,281 Speaker 3: That was how you made us go to sleep. But yeah, 23 00:01:26,321 --> 00:01:29,201 Speaker 3: so I have to give her accolades. Because yes, I love. 24 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:32,041 Speaker 2: Jimmy Barnes, but it was because of Mum playing it 25 00:01:32,041 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 2: in the car that I think that I enjoyed that. 26 00:01:34,241 --> 00:01:35,321 Speaker 1: Where the love came from. 27 00:01:35,481 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, the love for Jimmy Barnes came from Nanadee's music 28 00:01:39,041 --> 00:01:42,201 Speaker 2: choice just one of them, the John Farnham sort of 29 00:01:42,241 --> 00:01:44,961 Speaker 2: era and things like that, like that's really showing Mage, 30 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,161 Speaker 2: But good on your Nanady. 31 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,321 Speaker 3: She wanted to be known that you did like some 32 00:01:48,401 --> 00:01:49,041 Speaker 3: of my music. 33 00:01:50,521 --> 00:02:07,801 Speaker 1: For fuck's sake, My bad mum for not doing teacher interviews. 34 00:02:08,201 --> 00:02:10,961 Speaker 3: You do yours online or do you do yours in person? 35 00:02:11,201 --> 00:02:14,561 Speaker 1: They're online, which there's no real need for them to 36 00:02:14,601 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: be online anymore. They feel like they have been online 37 00:02:18,721 --> 00:02:21,081 Speaker 1: COVID and never gone back. 38 00:02:21,161 --> 00:02:24,001 Speaker 2: I feel like they found a new way of doing 39 00:02:24,041 --> 00:02:27,761 Speaker 2: them that works, and now they're like, we can't see 40 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:28,761 Speaker 2: you any longer. 41 00:02:28,881 --> 00:02:32,561 Speaker 1: What but you get like six minutes with the teacher, 42 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:37,201 Speaker 1: like it's not enough. And if you're a couple of 43 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: minutes late, or your technology is playing up, which I've had, 44 00:02:40,921 --> 00:02:43,041 Speaker 1: Oh you got to download the app and then it 45 00:02:43,081 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: needs to update and all the rest of it, and 46 00:02:45,881 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: you're like, oh shit, I've got two minutes left. 47 00:02:48,641 --> 00:02:50,001 Speaker 3: There it goes my four minutes. 48 00:02:50,361 --> 00:02:53,721 Speaker 1: Hey, yeah, she's good to teach, great, move on, sorry 49 00:02:53,761 --> 00:02:57,561 Speaker 1: for the next one. How what I realized is that 50 00:02:57,601 --> 00:03:00,281 Speaker 1: my girls are in grade twelve next year, which is 51 00:03:00,361 --> 00:03:01,641 Speaker 1: the final year of school. 52 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 3: It's a final countdown. 53 00:03:04,281 --> 00:03:06,841 Speaker 1: Yeah, so they've got a year and a half left 54 00:03:06,841 --> 00:03:07,401 Speaker 1: of school. 55 00:03:07,561 --> 00:03:11,601 Speaker 2: Ever, yep, we were counting down the terms. They've technically 56 00:03:11,601 --> 00:03:14,041 Speaker 2: got six terms to go. Yeah, five and a half 57 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,161 Speaker 2: with your girls, because they don't really go the duration. 58 00:03:18,161 --> 00:03:20,001 Speaker 1: Of normal plan twelve. 59 00:03:20,041 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 2: I don't think grade twelve and the last turn gets Yeah, 60 00:03:23,481 --> 00:03:24,641 Speaker 2: so you haven't got many to go. 61 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,441 Speaker 1: No, Oh, your fees. 62 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,681 Speaker 2: Sorry, you're paying the fees up until the very last day. 63 00:03:30,041 --> 00:03:33,361 Speaker 1: I'm sure what I've realized about the fact that they're 64 00:03:33,361 --> 00:03:36,641 Speaker 1: in grade twelve next year is all of a sudden, 65 00:03:36,641 --> 00:03:39,321 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about the things that I haven't done over 66 00:03:39,361 --> 00:03:42,761 Speaker 1: the years. So rach I did tuck shop once. 67 00:03:43,201 --> 00:03:44,001 Speaker 3: Yep, nailed it. 68 00:03:44,041 --> 00:03:45,561 Speaker 1: At least I've ticked off once. 69 00:03:45,801 --> 00:03:46,121 Speaker 2: Yeah. 70 00:03:46,241 --> 00:03:49,761 Speaker 1: I then got asked to keep doing the same time 71 00:03:49,881 --> 00:03:53,081 Speaker 1: each week, and I was like, guys, I've can't do 72 00:03:53,161 --> 00:03:56,961 Speaker 1: it every week. It's like five six hours long. Yeah, 73 00:03:56,961 --> 00:03:58,041 Speaker 1: I can't do that every week. 74 00:03:58,121 --> 00:03:58,441 Speaker 3: Yeah. 75 00:03:58,481 --> 00:04:00,681 Speaker 1: And also you pay your other stuff to do. Why 76 00:04:00,681 --> 00:04:05,241 Speaker 1: do you want me to keep coming for free? So 77 00:04:05,281 --> 00:04:08,921 Speaker 1: I did tuk shop duty once. Yep, I helped out 78 00:04:08,961 --> 00:04:12,041 Speaker 1: once in primary school with sewing, they did sewing. One 79 00:04:12,121 --> 00:04:15,321 Speaker 1: day they were sewing bags and I helped out and 80 00:04:15,321 --> 00:04:17,881 Speaker 1: went in to help with that one day. Ticked off 81 00:04:17,921 --> 00:04:19,641 Speaker 1: that and I was trying to think of the other 82 00:04:19,721 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: things that I hadn't done, and parent teacher interviews has 83 00:04:23,281 --> 00:04:26,001 Speaker 1: come up. And what I've realized, Rach is I haven't 84 00:04:26,001 --> 00:04:29,361 Speaker 1: done a single parent teacher interview for the entire high 85 00:04:29,401 --> 00:04:35,201 Speaker 1: school journey because I always missed the cutoff. Don't even 86 00:04:35,281 --> 00:04:36,121 Speaker 1: get me started. 87 00:04:36,241 --> 00:04:39,121 Speaker 2: I'm so glad that you're saying this because your girls 88 00:04:39,121 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: are nearly finished, so Gracie is only at the start. 89 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:47,241 Speaker 2: And genuinely, Katie, I haven't got one in yet. 90 00:04:47,361 --> 00:04:50,121 Speaker 1: Every time you go to do it, are you late? 91 00:04:50,281 --> 00:04:52,241 Speaker 3: Oh? Like they give you the reminder email. 92 00:04:52,361 --> 00:04:55,161 Speaker 2: And I've done it twice now because obviously we're in 93 00:04:55,201 --> 00:04:57,801 Speaker 2: to term three. I've done it twice now where I've 94 00:04:57,801 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 2: gone like, oh, yes, I want to like register your interests. 95 00:05:00,841 --> 00:05:03,361 Speaker 2: So yeah, I registered the interest Oh yeah, but now 96 00:05:03,401 --> 00:05:04,881 Speaker 2: you have to come back on this date to book 97 00:05:04,921 --> 00:05:07,041 Speaker 2: your yeah, and then. 98 00:05:06,921 --> 00:05:08,121 Speaker 3: I always missed this date. 99 00:05:08,281 --> 00:05:09,601 Speaker 1: I did it again last week. 100 00:05:09,601 --> 00:05:10,521 Speaker 3: I missed the date. 101 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,921 Speaker 1: Yeah. And by the time you go in, and if 102 00:05:13,961 --> 00:05:17,401 Speaker 1: you do get in to the system, everyone's taken all 103 00:05:17,401 --> 00:05:20,201 Speaker 1: the slots. Yeah, because you're too late on it and 104 00:05:20,281 --> 00:05:22,281 Speaker 1: all the good slots are gone. It's not even I 105 00:05:22,281 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: don't missed out altogether. 106 00:05:23,681 --> 00:05:25,601 Speaker 2: Too many kids out of school that she goes to, 107 00:05:25,761 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: so I don't even get a look in. Her teacher 108 00:05:28,481 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 2: called me last term because he felt sorry for me 109 00:05:31,521 --> 00:05:34,721 Speaker 2: because Gracie went to school, saying, I'm really sorry, but 110 00:05:34,841 --> 00:05:37,761 Speaker 2: mum didn't quite work out how to do the appointment 111 00:05:37,961 --> 00:05:39,721 Speaker 2: on the interviews, but she really wants to. 112 00:05:39,801 --> 00:05:41,801 Speaker 3: So if anyone doesn't ring up, can you ring her? 113 00:05:43,481 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 2: So I get this weird like number. I'm like hello, 114 00:05:46,121 --> 00:05:49,041 Speaker 2: and he's like, oh hi, it's mister Nelson. Gracie said, 115 00:05:49,081 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: you want to miss You wanted me to call you 116 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,361 Speaker 2: because you couldn't work it out, get and do it. 117 00:05:55,081 --> 00:05:55,921 Speaker 3: Oh okay. 118 00:05:56,001 --> 00:06:00,001 Speaker 1: And so I also was guilted last year because the 119 00:06:00,081 --> 00:06:03,881 Speaker 1: girl's math teacher said, oh, I was really hoping to 120 00:06:04,041 --> 00:06:08,001 Speaker 1: see your parents for the parent teacher interviews and the 121 00:06:08,041 --> 00:06:10,401 Speaker 1: girls are like, oh, yeah, I don't think mum did 122 00:06:10,481 --> 00:06:13,961 Speaker 1: it on time, and he said, oh, it's a real 123 00:06:14,041 --> 00:06:16,361 Speaker 1: shame because you did so well this year, and I 124 00:06:16,401 --> 00:06:18,441 Speaker 1: was like, oh, damn it. He made me feel bad. 125 00:06:18,561 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 2: Oh, it made me feel bad because when my kid 126 00:06:20,561 --> 00:06:23,121 Speaker 2: is actually doing well, you want to tell me, And 127 00:06:23,161 --> 00:06:25,281 Speaker 2: then if my kid is actually not doing well, you 128 00:06:25,361 --> 00:06:26,921 Speaker 2: probably want to tell me anyway as well. 129 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:32,081 Speaker 1: So I have done it for this term. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 130 00:06:32,161 --> 00:06:34,961 Speaker 1: I had a little bit of help from Jay, my husband. 131 00:06:35,041 --> 00:06:35,241 Speaker 4: Jay. 132 00:06:35,481 --> 00:06:38,561 Speaker 1: He helped because he was getting the reminders too. He said, 133 00:06:38,561 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: we really should do this. I won't. Yeah, we really should. 134 00:06:41,041 --> 00:06:43,961 Speaker 1: And what I do rate is I when there's an 135 00:06:43,961 --> 00:06:47,161 Speaker 1: email that I need to do something about but it 136 00:06:47,241 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: isn't immediate, so like it was all work. It's the media. 137 00:06:50,721 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: I'll go back if it's something I know I want 138 00:06:53,481 --> 00:06:57,081 Speaker 1: to get to and not forget about, but I'm not 139 00:06:57,121 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: going to do it today or probably tomorrow or probably 140 00:06:59,681 --> 00:07:02,241 Speaker 1: even the next day. Then I leave it like unread, 141 00:07:02,961 --> 00:07:05,241 Speaker 1: so it flags it. Yeah, yeah, I can go back, 142 00:07:05,681 --> 00:07:08,841 Speaker 1: and so I'd left it unread. But sometimes Rachel'll leave 143 00:07:08,841 --> 00:07:13,561 Speaker 1: them unread forever, and the intent is there that I 144 00:07:13,641 --> 00:07:15,601 Speaker 1: want to go back to it and do something about it, 145 00:07:15,641 --> 00:07:20,561 Speaker 1: and I just don't feel there's a lot box like that. Yeah, 146 00:07:20,601 --> 00:07:22,441 Speaker 1: and so anyway, he was like we should do this. 147 00:07:22,521 --> 00:07:24,361 Speaker 1: I was like, yes, we should do this, let's do 148 00:07:24,481 --> 00:07:24,841 Speaker 1: it now. 149 00:07:25,041 --> 00:07:25,321 Speaker 3: Yes. 150 00:07:25,601 --> 00:07:28,001 Speaker 1: The other thing Rachel that I don't know my login 151 00:07:28,361 --> 00:07:29,321 Speaker 1: to get into. 152 00:07:29,681 --> 00:07:34,001 Speaker 3: System for school. Yeah, we've got so many time stuff. 153 00:07:34,081 --> 00:07:36,361 Speaker 1: And I got an email from the teacher this is 154 00:07:36,401 --> 00:07:38,841 Speaker 1: about a trip and she said, oh, you know it's 155 00:07:38,961 --> 00:07:41,481 Speaker 1: you'll find it in this. I was like, I don't 156 00:07:41,521 --> 00:07:43,041 Speaker 1: have a log in for that. She's like, what do 157 00:07:43,081 --> 00:07:44,921 Speaker 1: you mean don't have a log in? Like everything goes 158 00:07:45,001 --> 00:07:46,641 Speaker 1: up on this and like, I know I haven't had 159 00:07:46,681 --> 00:07:48,241 Speaker 1: a log in for about three years. 160 00:07:48,321 --> 00:07:50,241 Speaker 3: Well I think I'm up to four years because the 161 00:07:50,281 --> 00:07:50,721 Speaker 3: kids drunk. 162 00:07:51,801 --> 00:07:54,281 Speaker 1: I don't know. Well, my passwords don't even get me 163 00:07:54,321 --> 00:07:57,121 Speaker 1: started on passwords. Every time I go to something, the 164 00:07:57,161 --> 00:08:00,001 Speaker 1: passwords wrong. And then I think I'm on top of 165 00:08:00,041 --> 00:08:01,921 Speaker 1: it by putting passwords in my notes, and then I 166 00:08:02,001 --> 00:08:04,841 Speaker 1: have to update passwords, and then I don't update it 167 00:08:04,841 --> 00:08:06,441 Speaker 1: in my notes, and so it's still wrong. 168 00:08:07,041 --> 00:08:10,201 Speaker 2: We don't have the automatic save now where at automatically saves. 169 00:08:10,481 --> 00:08:14,881 Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't always do it anyway, But I can't 170 00:08:14,881 --> 00:08:17,801 Speaker 4: even give you any like usually that's where we step 171 00:08:17,881 --> 00:08:20,001 Speaker 4: in and like give each other like hints, and I 172 00:08:20,081 --> 00:08:24,081 Speaker 4: got nothing, no technologies, like no, So yeah, I've missed 173 00:08:24,121 --> 00:08:25,881 Speaker 4: Gracie's again for another term. 174 00:08:26,281 --> 00:08:30,681 Speaker 1: Well, I've got three teachers booked in or tonight, right, 175 00:08:31,401 --> 00:08:35,241 Speaker 1: So I was selected enough with the subjects you want 176 00:08:35,241 --> 00:08:36,881 Speaker 1: to take I want to speak about, so. 177 00:08:36,881 --> 00:08:42,521 Speaker 3: Religion is definitely on there, so I didn't bother. 178 00:08:42,481 --> 00:08:47,481 Speaker 1: With that one this time around. I did do drama 179 00:08:47,641 --> 00:08:50,881 Speaker 1: because they're very into drama and acting and that is 180 00:08:50,961 --> 00:08:54,921 Speaker 1: what they want to do. I did math, that's strategic. 181 00:08:55,041 --> 00:08:57,441 Speaker 1: I did math because I know they've been doing really well, 182 00:08:57,521 --> 00:08:59,321 Speaker 1: so I thought, wouldn't it be nice to book in 183 00:08:59,361 --> 00:09:01,881 Speaker 1: a parent teacher with a teacher that's going to talk 184 00:09:01,921 --> 00:09:06,321 Speaker 1: about how far they've come and improved. Yep, And then 185 00:09:06,321 --> 00:09:07,361 Speaker 1: I did English. 186 00:09:07,521 --> 00:09:09,361 Speaker 3: That's great. I think it's a great mix. 187 00:09:09,641 --> 00:09:14,161 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would probably be doing the same. She has 188 00:09:14,241 --> 00:09:17,441 Speaker 2: clearly stated to me that she does not enjoy science, 189 00:09:18,281 --> 00:09:21,841 Speaker 2: so I don't imagine that the result of chatting to 190 00:09:22,001 --> 00:09:25,121 Speaker 2: the science teacher will give me any insight to my child. 191 00:09:26,041 --> 00:09:29,641 Speaker 1: Guess what they watched in religion the other day? What 192 00:09:30,081 --> 00:09:35,481 Speaker 1: a p Diddy document? What in religion? Why? 193 00:09:36,081 --> 00:09:39,641 Speaker 3: How is that for the religion based they're learning about. 194 00:09:39,681 --> 00:09:41,001 Speaker 1: I think it's about morals. 195 00:09:41,361 --> 00:09:43,921 Speaker 2: Fuck you don't want to start where P Diddy is 196 00:09:43,961 --> 00:09:45,121 Speaker 2: for morals. 197 00:09:45,441 --> 00:09:47,921 Speaker 1: I think they've mucked up that one. This is bad. 198 00:09:48,041 --> 00:09:50,721 Speaker 3: Morals don't grow up like this when. 199 00:09:50,561 --> 00:09:53,521 Speaker 1: The ex girlfriend's on the floor and he's dragging her 200 00:09:53,561 --> 00:09:55,801 Speaker 1: by her hair to do? 201 00:09:56,001 --> 00:09:59,241 Speaker 3: Ask yourself, is this what God wanted us to do?