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Speaker 1: Busy and with that with Kate Ritchie, this will be interesting.

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Speaker 2: In your Netflix documentary about Lewis Capaldi, How I'm Feeling

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Speaker 2: Now is the name of the docco twenty six year

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Speaker 2: old opens up about struggles with anxiety and his career

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Speaker 2: and mental well being. There's a bit of a trailer here.

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Speaker 1: Have a listen. Anxiety over control.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm going a race against the clock

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Speaker 3: to get my name on else and order.

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Speaker 1: Still got a lot of crown not to do. You

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Speaker 1: need to form your mother to come and pack you

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Speaker 1: up from the one Nat Sponge. That's not because you

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Speaker 1: have an aphonic at dam glad you brought out before

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Speaker 1: you girl.

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Speaker 2: What a great, great accent on the mum.

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Speaker 4: Both of them really so appealing. This guy, I have

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Speaker 4: to say because over the years, you know, when you

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Speaker 4: hear him, you hear him chat and then you look

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Speaker 4: at him and you hear the voice like it's almost

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Speaker 4: as if traditionally none of it all matter, none of

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Speaker 4: it matches. But then that's then at the end of it,

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Speaker 4: that's the relief.

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Speaker 3: But see the you know he talks about his weight.

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Speaker 3: He's a funny guy, he's got Turette's but do you

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Speaker 3: know what people you know, he thinks that that's a negative.

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Speaker 3: I think people see that as an endearment, you know.

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Speaker 1: What I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like you look at him, he's relatable, he's funny, but

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Speaker 3: you don't know what's going on in the background. I

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Speaker 3: wonder how long he's going to last in this industry

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Speaker 3: if he's having anxiety and panic attacks all the time.

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Speaker 3: For his mental health, you would think a doctor would

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Speaker 3: have to say, you've got to stop doing this.

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Speaker 4: All the opposite. Yes, maybe it's like it's helping him

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Speaker 4: through exposure therapy or something. And actually, yeah, and what

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Speaker 4: what he offers and what he does is more than

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Speaker 4: his own pain or struggle or it's very heavy for

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Speaker 4: this time of life, it's a good do.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: It's like, Hey, the thing you don't want to do,

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Speaker 4: will I think this in life keep doing and you

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Speaker 4: don't want to do is the thing you should be

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Speaker 4: doing exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 2: When you challenge yourself, you grow.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, music is an outlet for him and that's where

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Speaker 3: he feels satans.

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Speaker 1: But you know, when you have to do it.

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Speaker 3: And this is like what Daniel John said, I love

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Speaker 3: music so much, but I just don't want to get

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Speaker 3: up in front of a crowd and do it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's where the anxiety is.

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Speaker 2: That's the perfect segue back to the night he had

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Speaker 2: to bank a phone call to his mum.

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Speaker 4: Now, but I do love this story and I want

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Speaker 4: to hear about it because when I read the story

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Speaker 4: last night, I was thinking, Oh, my goodness, imagine having

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Speaker 4: to have your mom bailed you out of something like that.

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Speaker 2: So it was sort of a one night situation in

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Speaker 2: metagirl after a show and all of a sudden, they're

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Speaker 2: back at her place. Then he had a moment where

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Speaker 2: he went, oh my god, I'm getting dizzy. I'm starting

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Speaker 2: to panic here. He put in a phone call to

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Speaker 2: his mum and said, I think I've got a brain tumor.

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Speaker 2: I think something's going on. She said, where are you?

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Speaker 2: He said, back at some girl's house. We've just done it,

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Speaker 2: and now I'm dizzy. She said, shut the up and

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Speaker 2: get a car and come home, which was just beautiful.

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Speaker 2: He got home, had some paracetamo, went to bed, and

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Speaker 2: he was fine and regrets calling his mum.

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Speaker 1: Just post act, isn't that amazing.

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Speaker 2: I mean, when you're putting it, you've got a good

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Speaker 2: relationship when you're putting in a phone call to your

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Speaker 2: mum based on that level of information you.

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Speaker 4: Need to share, they're a pretty good team.

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Speaker 2: They're always My family was never like that. That topic

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Speaker 2: was always under the car, but no one ever talks

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Speaker 2: about that sort of stuff. Was very secretive. But then

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Speaker 2: I had a friend whose mum was a doctor, and

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Speaker 2: in the doctor family it seemed to be that things

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Speaker 2: were a lot more open. So he even had a

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Speaker 2: nime when he was still living. I'm not going to

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Speaker 2: mention his name. He was still living with his mum

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Speaker 2: and dad at the time, and he found a girl

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Speaker 2: that he obviously had a lot in common with, and

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Speaker 2: she joined him back at his house. And it wasn't

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Speaker 2: until they got to a moment in the night where

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Speaker 2: he thought, well, we might need to get something else

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Speaker 2: just to be safe here. And he knew that he's

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Speaker 2: like a hammock. A hammock. The mattress was fine, but.

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Speaker 1: You know, a security guard.

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't need a guard. Like if you go

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Speaker 2: to the beach, you put the umbrella, you put sunscreen

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Speaker 2: on for protection, you wear sunglasses, you know, so safe.

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Speaker 2: So so he's cryptic this time of the morning.

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Speaker 1: You're talking about a condoms.

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Speaker 2: Thank you MVP. Yes, I didn't know how to say it.

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Speaker 1: I'd lost the words.

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Speaker 2: So he knew that his dad had some in the

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Speaker 2: bedside draw Oh, so sad. He sneaks over into his

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Speaker 2: mum and dad's room, pulls out the drawer, which then

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Speaker 2: falls onto the floor. He's pulled it out too far

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Speaker 2: and then says Dad, I'm looking for the matt to

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Speaker 2: grout word and then he says no, they're in mum's

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Speaker 2: draw So he then wakes his mum up. So both

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Speaker 2: his mum and dad no, why did we can?

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Speaker 4: Okay, sure, I know you hate my question.

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Speaker 2: I love your question.

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Speaker 1: Why did mum and dad have them?

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Speaker 2: Because they are obviously still using protection?

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Speaker 4: How old?

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Speaker 1: God?

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Speaker 4: Now I'm getting bogged down in the defense.

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Speaker 2: Five to sixty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I find that have you got some in your

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Speaker 1: bedside draw?

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Speaker 2: Do? I?

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Speaker 1: No? No?

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Speaker 4: Do you have them in the glove box?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: In the glove box and in draw a dirt at work?

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Speaker 1: God, mum and dad would have them in the drawer.

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Speaker 1: Some people, there's your questions, especially if you've got a

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Speaker 1: fully grown boy.

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Speaker 2: That's it's a complete you're making this?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Do we want to give him a call.

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Speaker 1: No, no, we don't o Kate.

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Speaker 2: That's true. Some people are Do you want to change

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Speaker 2: the phone topic? Are you over sixties?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Just no. Quickly I had to ring Mum. One night

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Speaker 1: we had an underage.

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Speaker 3: Disco called Superstitions, and I had a little bit too

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Speaker 3: many Eagle Blue. Don't mind if I do be his

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Speaker 3: beforehand Eagle and I. There was a kissing competition between

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Speaker 3: us mates to see how many kisses we could.

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Speaker 1: Get on the night.

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Speaker 3: Okayually I had a few too many Eagle Blues and

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Speaker 3: I came back with a total of zero.

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Speaker 1: I was the laughing stock. It was forty degrees that night.

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Speaker 3: Mom and Dad bought me a cooter lines jumper and

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Speaker 3: I thought I have to wear the jumper to the

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Speaker 3: forty degree underage disco.

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Speaker 1: It was new and cool, and I went there.

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Speaker 3: No girl wanted to go near me, and then the

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Speaker 3: boys laughed at me so much that they left me behind.

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Speaker 3: Kate and I was stuck at the McClaren Vale gazebo

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Speaker 3: by myself, crying, and I found a public phone and

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Speaker 3: rang Mum and said, can you come and pick me up?

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Speaker 2: There's only one more girl I can try here sweating

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Speaker 2: in a cood Lines jumper with a tally of zero.

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Speaker 2: How was your night son, Don't Ask, Don't Ask

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Speaker 4: And with Kate Richie Nova