1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,801 Speaker 1: Apod shake production. 2 00:00:23,841 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 2: Cooking back to another episode of Am I A Bad Mom? 3 00:00:26,521 --> 00:00:26,961 Speaker 1: Podcast? 4 00:00:27,001 --> 00:00:29,881 Speaker 2: We're on Instagram too. At am I A Bad Mum? 5 00:00:29,921 --> 00:00:31,001 Speaker 2: We will have a Facebook. 6 00:00:31,041 --> 00:00:36,001 Speaker 1: We're just locating the log in at the moment. Oh gosh, 7 00:00:36,001 --> 00:00:38,641 Speaker 1: it shouldn't be this hard. It's all that hard. 8 00:00:38,681 --> 00:00:40,641 Speaker 3: But it shouldn't be because how easy is it for 9 00:00:40,681 --> 00:00:42,641 Speaker 3: people to hack you on Facebook these days? 10 00:00:42,921 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: I know it's easy to hack. Can't get your own 11 00:00:44,921 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: password back? 12 00:00:45,601 --> 00:00:50,801 Speaker 2: That's yeah, right now, right my email, I'm getting notifications 13 00:00:50,801 --> 00:00:53,601 Speaker 2: saying my email password. You know how when you bring 14 00:00:53,641 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: it up on your phone and it says you need 15 00:00:55,641 --> 00:01:00,481 Speaker 2: to put the password that email. Someone's hacked. I can't 16 00:01:00,481 --> 00:01:02,801 Speaker 2: even work out how to change the password. 17 00:01:03,001 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Once it's hacked. Apparently it's easy 18 00:01:05,881 --> 00:01:08,401 Speaker 1: to hack, but you can't get your own passway back. 19 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,601 Speaker 2: What why get me started on that? 20 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:18,041 Speaker 1: Get me started technology? We never know what the password is. 21 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. 22 00:01:19,041 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 3: I went into Apple I got Gracie's laptop fixed because 23 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:24,321 Speaker 3: we had water damage. 24 00:01:24,681 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: It's a real source spot for me. Ah. How much 25 00:01:27,321 --> 00:01:29,801 Speaker 1: was it five hundred to repair just the excess? 26 00:01:30,161 --> 00:01:30,361 Speaker 3: Oh? 27 00:01:31,041 --> 00:01:33,761 Speaker 1: Because you had Apple Care? Yeah, that's with the upper 28 00:01:33,801 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: care five hundred dollars excess. Isn't that like half of 29 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: the cost third? 30 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,041 Speaker 3: Anyway, I took it back, did that, sat down with 31 00:01:43,081 --> 00:01:47,041 Speaker 3: the lady. We tried to diagnose what was wrong with it, 32 00:01:47,121 --> 00:01:48,401 Speaker 3: you know, before they send it off. 33 00:01:48,401 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: And she was just like, so. 34 00:01:50,281 --> 00:01:52,281 Speaker 3: Have you done a backup on this lately? I was like, 35 00:01:52,481 --> 00:01:55,161 Speaker 3: I don't know, it's clear it. She was really nervous 36 00:01:55,201 --> 00:01:57,161 Speaker 3: and I said, well, it doesn't matter. It's my daughter's 37 00:01:57,361 --> 00:01:59,401 Speaker 3: I was like, I shouldn't even be here doing this, 38 00:01:59,521 --> 00:02:02,561 Speaker 3: paying you another five hundred dollars to get water fixed 39 00:02:02,721 --> 00:02:04,161 Speaker 3: in something that's brand new. 40 00:02:04,401 --> 00:02:07,081 Speaker 1: We're only half half way through. I'm telling you, Katie. 41 00:02:07,121 --> 00:02:10,401 Speaker 3: The amount of waivers that I had to sign in 42 00:02:10,561 --> 00:02:13,761 Speaker 3: order for her to send my daughter's laptop away. 43 00:02:13,481 --> 00:02:15,121 Speaker 1: And just get it fixed because it was going to 44 00:02:15,161 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: clear it. 45 00:02:16,321 --> 00:02:18,761 Speaker 3: I was like, well, whatever she loses, that'll teach her 46 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,401 Speaker 3: not to do this again. And then the amount of 47 00:02:21,481 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 3: times we had to enter certain passwords Apple password, I 48 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 3: Cloud password, this password. 49 00:02:26,441 --> 00:02:29,521 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't even remember them all. 50 00:02:30,001 --> 00:02:32,801 Speaker 3: So now I have to lock a note and she 51 00:02:32,881 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 3: showed me how to lock a note so I can 52 00:02:34,921 --> 00:02:37,921 Speaker 3: have my details in there. Oh, so you know, like 53 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:41,281 Speaker 3: the notes section in there, you can put a lock 54 00:02:41,441 --> 00:02:44,081 Speaker 3: on certain notes so no one else can get into 55 00:02:44,121 --> 00:02:45,801 Speaker 3: that without the password. 56 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,361 Speaker 1: So you need a password for the lock. I was like, yes, 57 00:02:48,641 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: let's do this. 58 00:02:49,281 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 3: Look at me being new age, just don't ever forget 59 00:02:52,841 --> 00:02:56,681 Speaker 3: the password. Don't change your face to the point that 60 00:02:56,761 --> 00:02:58,681 Speaker 3: your face idea does not work. 61 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: Am I bard mom for wanting to step in. 62 00:03:12,561 --> 00:03:18,641 Speaker 3: Over the weekend, Katie Gracie had her first Touch tournament. Now, 63 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:23,361 Speaker 3: Gracie being my eldest, this is her first team sport 64 00:03:23,601 --> 00:03:26,841 Speaker 3: event that went over three days. 65 00:03:27,281 --> 00:03:30,881 Speaker 1: This carnival was j ginormous, actually going like what are 66 00:03:30,921 --> 00:03:31,481 Speaker 1: we doing here? 67 00:03:32,001 --> 00:03:36,361 Speaker 3: Friday, Saturday, Sunday? Two or three games on Friday. Three 68 00:03:36,401 --> 00:03:39,241 Speaker 3: games on Saturday didn't make the finals, so only one 69 00:03:39,321 --> 00:03:40,241 Speaker 3: game on Sunday. 70 00:03:41,041 --> 00:03:41,681 Speaker 1: Katie. 71 00:03:41,681 --> 00:03:46,441 Speaker 3: Honestly, on the Friday, I get there and I was 72 00:03:47,121 --> 00:03:50,521 Speaker 3: taken back by the size of these women. 73 00:03:51,041 --> 00:03:53,921 Speaker 1: And I have to say women, little women. They were 74 00:03:53,961 --> 00:03:54,601 Speaker 1: playing in a. 75 00:03:54,601 --> 00:03:59,201 Speaker 3: Category that allowed their team of majority of them were 76 00:03:59,201 --> 00:04:00,801 Speaker 3: in grade seven, seven and eight. 77 00:04:01,561 --> 00:04:04,521 Speaker 1: We're playing against these fifteens. I'm not joking. 78 00:04:04,681 --> 00:04:08,961 Speaker 3: The girl that Gracie was playing against were my sights. 79 00:04:09,361 --> 00:04:13,841 Speaker 1: And I was like, holy duly looking around going, oh, 80 00:04:13,841 --> 00:04:16,081 Speaker 1: we had the right, can't of all? Like have they 81 00:04:16,081 --> 00:04:18,801 Speaker 1: got them in opens? Like this girl's no word of 82 00:04:18,801 --> 00:04:19,041 Speaker 1: a light? 83 00:04:19,121 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 3: Were my height, my build, Most of them had bigger 84 00:04:22,921 --> 00:04:26,561 Speaker 3: boobs than me by far. Grazy looked like a baby 85 00:04:26,761 --> 00:04:30,921 Speaker 3: against these I was like, so they were playing against yes, yeah, 86 00:04:31,001 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 3: that's who she was playing against. 87 00:04:32,481 --> 00:04:34,121 Speaker 1: That's who her team was versing. 88 00:04:34,201 --> 00:04:35,801 Speaker 3: I didn't want to be one of those parents, like 89 00:04:35,841 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 3: obviously just learning the ropes touch football was not my 90 00:04:38,361 --> 00:04:39,001 Speaker 3: thing at school. 91 00:04:39,521 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: The teacher comes. 92 00:04:40,201 --> 00:04:43,281 Speaker 3: Over to me to say, oh, hi, you know high Rah, 93 00:04:43,481 --> 00:04:45,561 Speaker 3: you know Gracie played really well in the first game, 94 00:04:45,681 --> 00:04:48,161 Speaker 3: and you know, thanks for coming along. And I just 95 00:04:48,161 --> 00:04:50,201 Speaker 3: looked at him and I was like, what age group 96 00:04:50,241 --> 00:04:50,681 Speaker 3: are the in? 97 00:04:50,921 --> 00:04:52,761 Speaker 1: And he goes, oh, yeah, about that. 98 00:04:52,801 --> 00:04:55,081 Speaker 3: I brought them in the wrong age group, so there 99 00:04:55,121 --> 00:04:57,281 Speaker 3: was a lower grade age group. 100 00:04:57,361 --> 00:04:58,801 Speaker 1: That their team should have been in. 101 00:04:59,201 --> 00:05:01,281 Speaker 3: But he was like, I missed that group, so I 102 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 3: got them into the fifteenth. I looked at him and 103 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 3: I was like, look around. I was like, these girls 104 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 3: my size, Like this is crazy. Anyway, carry forward, next 105 00:05:11,921 --> 00:05:14,921 Speaker 3: game comes on. Elsie was happened to be with me 106 00:05:15,001 --> 00:05:19,561 Speaker 3: because our mate was off sick from school. Standard anyway, 107 00:05:19,601 --> 00:05:20,361 Speaker 3: so she's with me. 108 00:05:20,521 --> 00:05:23,761 Speaker 1: That's fine. Honestly, Katie. At one stage, I was like, 109 00:05:23,841 --> 00:05:25,681 Speaker 1: just let me step in. I just need to get 110 00:05:25,721 --> 00:05:27,521 Speaker 1: out there. I have to have a go. They were 111 00:05:27,561 --> 00:05:29,801 Speaker 1: getting their asses handed to them. 112 00:05:29,641 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 2: Because they're completely different age group, devastating. 113 00:05:33,921 --> 00:05:35,601 Speaker 1: I know. I was looking. 114 00:05:35,721 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 3: I mean I was in active with surprised, and I 115 00:05:37,921 --> 00:05:39,681 Speaker 3: was like, fuck, I just want to get you know, 116 00:05:39,721 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 3: I just want to help them. And then again, knowing 117 00:05:42,001 --> 00:05:45,121 Speaker 3: me and my background, I sort of started to get like, 118 00:05:45,241 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 3: not vocal, but I was like, good job, I'll go Grace. 119 00:05:47,801 --> 00:05:50,361 Speaker 3: Like you could see Gracie was busting her ass right, 120 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,561 Speaker 3: as was her whole team. 121 00:05:53,601 --> 00:05:55,121 Speaker 1: But they were just getting handed. Oh. 122 00:05:55,241 --> 00:05:57,601 Speaker 3: It was horror anyway, not horrible to watch. It was 123 00:05:57,641 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 3: a great learning lesson Katie. But I just was like, hey, coach, 124 00:06:01,561 --> 00:06:03,521 Speaker 3: put me in I have a goat. Put me in 125 00:06:03,561 --> 00:06:04,001 Speaker 3: a jersey. 126 00:06:04,041 --> 00:06:06,041 Speaker 1: I'll have Honestly, it would have been the same size 127 00:06:06,041 --> 00:06:06,681 Speaker 1: as all of them. 128 00:06:06,921 --> 00:06:09,401 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I would have looked like I fit in 129 00:06:09,641 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 3: out there, not Gracey's. And then this one girl she 130 00:06:13,241 --> 00:06:15,561 Speaker 3: was after Gracie. Right, Gracie was having a good old go. 131 00:06:15,721 --> 00:06:17,481 Speaker 3: She was having a red hot crack. Now this is 132 00:06:17,521 --> 00:06:20,561 Speaker 3: also Gracey's first year of ever playing touch football, so 133 00:06:20,601 --> 00:06:24,521 Speaker 3: it's not the strongest of you know, like skills, but 134 00:06:24,561 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 3: she's getting the hang of it and she's really enjoying it. 135 00:06:26,801 --> 00:06:28,481 Speaker 3: So she's out there, she's having a go, she's having 136 00:06:28,481 --> 00:06:31,921 Speaker 3: her this one girl she was just at her anyway. 137 00:06:31,961 --> 00:06:35,041 Speaker 3: Then she goes up for the touch three times and 138 00:06:35,521 --> 00:06:38,001 Speaker 3: slams her like slams Gracie. 139 00:06:38,201 --> 00:06:40,641 Speaker 1: And then as a parent you're like watching, going, oh 140 00:06:40,761 --> 00:06:42,841 Speaker 1: my god, or if you do that again. 141 00:06:43,201 --> 00:06:45,681 Speaker 3: I was like starting to like gurl up inside, going, 142 00:06:45,681 --> 00:06:48,401 Speaker 3: oh my god, don't push her, don't push her. 143 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,321 Speaker 1: Why are you pushing her? Anyway? 144 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,521 Speaker 3: She comes off less a little cotton socks. So the 145 00:06:52,561 --> 00:06:55,001 Speaker 3: games went for twenty five minutes straight. 146 00:06:55,121 --> 00:06:57,281 Speaker 1: That was just the whole duration. There was no half 147 00:06:57,521 --> 00:07:00,161 Speaker 1: time or anything like that. She come over to me 148 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:01,481 Speaker 1: at the end of the game. 149 00:07:02,001 --> 00:07:04,281 Speaker 3: She's like, didn't want to do anything in front of 150 00:07:04,281 --> 00:07:06,601 Speaker 3: her coach, and she literally put her head in my 151 00:07:06,721 --> 00:07:09,521 Speaker 3: chest and just do it like start. 152 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,961 Speaker 1: Of ball, and she goes by we're losing by so much, 153 00:07:12,001 --> 00:07:15,081 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh no, and you can't do anything. 154 00:07:15,281 --> 00:07:17,521 Speaker 2: You would have explained to her, there's so much older 155 00:07:17,561 --> 00:07:19,441 Speaker 2: than Yeah, it's not a fair. 156 00:07:19,521 --> 00:07:21,401 Speaker 1: That's not a fair. Yeah, that's what I was saying 157 00:07:21,441 --> 00:07:23,281 Speaker 1: to it. I was like, it's not anyone's fault. 158 00:07:23,441 --> 00:07:25,961 Speaker 3: But it's like you're playing in a category that is 159 00:07:26,001 --> 00:07:27,321 Speaker 3: like not your age group. 160 00:07:27,441 --> 00:07:29,401 Speaker 1: Look at the size of them and she gets me 161 00:07:29,641 --> 00:07:31,201 Speaker 1: up here and then look what she did and she 162 00:07:31,521 --> 00:07:35,481 Speaker 1: scratched her arm, Like shit, it's a big scratch marks. 163 00:07:35,521 --> 00:07:38,241 Speaker 2: I don't know anything about touch football. So it's a 164 00:07:38,681 --> 00:07:41,921 Speaker 2: contact sport. Is it like they're allowed to grab each other. 165 00:07:42,481 --> 00:07:46,081 Speaker 3: Look, hopefully someone chimes in and messages me and says, 166 00:07:46,161 --> 00:07:48,161 Speaker 3: this is actually how you play touch for But I 167 00:07:48,241 --> 00:07:51,161 Speaker 3: think with touch footy is like you're like coming up 168 00:07:51,321 --> 00:07:53,001 Speaker 3: and I want to sort of like put my arm 169 00:07:53,081 --> 00:07:55,921 Speaker 3: out to sort of touch you, like if I'm running 170 00:07:55,961 --> 00:07:57,681 Speaker 3: the ball, I want to sort of touch you before 171 00:07:57,761 --> 00:07:59,601 Speaker 3: you touch me kind of thing. So I'm running up, 172 00:07:59,641 --> 00:08:02,441 Speaker 3: you're trying to move the ball really quickly in play 173 00:08:03,121 --> 00:08:05,201 Speaker 3: up the field and then whoever's got it and the 174 00:08:05,281 --> 00:08:06,681 Speaker 3: last sort of thing you sort of take off and 175 00:08:06,721 --> 00:08:09,041 Speaker 3: try and do that. But as they're sort of touching 176 00:08:09,121 --> 00:08:12,361 Speaker 3: you or you're touching them, there's a lot of like contact, 177 00:08:12,481 --> 00:08:14,801 Speaker 3: Like these girls were not just touching they were like 178 00:08:15,681 --> 00:08:20,001 Speaker 3: like literally palming them. Obviously they've gone to like touch 179 00:08:20,081 --> 00:08:22,561 Speaker 3: her or catcher and they've just dug the nails in 180 00:08:22,681 --> 00:08:25,201 Speaker 3: all the way that. I was like, my poor little 181 00:08:25,281 --> 00:08:28,721 Speaker 3: tiny dancer, like, oh, I think we should stick to dance, 182 00:08:28,961 --> 00:08:31,961 Speaker 3: Like you should stick to dance because you're so upset. 183 00:08:32,161 --> 00:08:34,361 Speaker 3: I should stick to dance because I don't like seeing 184 00:08:34,401 --> 00:08:35,761 Speaker 3: you get belted up out here. 185 00:08:36,241 --> 00:08:37,921 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh. But at the same time, 186 00:08:37,961 --> 00:08:39,841 Speaker 1: I was like, give me a go, just one go, 187 00:08:40,121 --> 00:08:42,681 Speaker 1: give me half game. Did you give the girl that 188 00:08:42,801 --> 00:08:45,601 Speaker 1: dug her nails in like a little like? Yeah, she 189 00:08:45,761 --> 00:08:46,521 Speaker 1: was even clappy. 190 00:08:46,561 --> 00:08:49,441 Speaker 3: She was like she clapped herself when she'd got Gracie. 191 00:08:49,481 --> 00:08:54,761 Speaker 3: I was like, what that is unfair? She genuinely also 192 00:08:55,121 --> 00:08:56,441 Speaker 3: was my size. 193 00:08:56,521 --> 00:09:00,241 Speaker 1: What are we feeding our children? These kids are huge. Yeah, 194 00:09:00,441 --> 00:09:02,761 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to get into the team again after that. 195 00:09:03,841 --> 00:09:05,921 Speaker 1: So you're going to trial out, I'm going to try 196 00:09:06,841 --> 00:09:09,881 Speaker 1: I'm going back to school. I'm gonna just try out 197 00:09:09,921 --> 00:09:10,601 Speaker 1: for the touch team. 198 00:09:10,761 --> 00:09:13,521 Speaker 3: I would love to see, wouldn't see that? 199 00:09:13,841 --> 00:09:16,441 Speaker 1: Everyone be like, why is here a parent playing? Why 200 00:09:16,481 --> 00:09:17,961 Speaker 1: is she grabbing them by the hair.