1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: It's the Fitting In with Kate podcasts. 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 2: We tracked down the main man. 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 3: Yet oh mate, we've been lucky enough to see this documentary, 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 3: but it's out on Prime Videos called Kids Are Growing Up. 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:17,319 Speaker 3: It's the story of the kid LaRoy and he's well, 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 3: he's huge rise from a young kid in Redfern. It's 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 3: an unbelievable story and we're just getting him up right now. 8 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 4: There is kid l ROI where are you, bro? 9 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 5: I just stepped away. I was just grabbing some food. 10 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 5: I was just doing a bunch of interviews and stuff earlier. 11 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 5: Is it just kind of snags some food really quickly. 12 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 2: This is a really exciting project that you've been working on. 13 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 2: Kids Are Growing Up Now? This is basically your story, 14 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 2: isn't it. I mean, from Redfern to where you are now. 15 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a story of the past like three years, 16 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 5: maybe four years. It's not the it's not like a 17 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 5: full you know, like come up story situation or like 18 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 5: the triumphant like this is it documentary at the end. 19 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 5: It's just it's a little bit of just like a recap, 20 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 5: a little bit of insight to the past couple of 21 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 5: years and just hopefully Yeah, I mean the goal of 22 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 5: the film is basically, I guess, just to hopefully maybe 23 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 5: inspire people a little bit and just, I don't know, 24 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 5: show a bit more of myself. That's what everyone loves 25 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 5: to tell me to do, is show a bit more 26 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 5: of myself. 27 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 3: Well, watching this documentary and the amount of anxiety and 28 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 3: depression that you suffered as a young child, and you 29 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 3: know what, it's amazing to think because I mean, you 30 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 3: know that there's a lot of young artists and rappers 31 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: out there, kid that are trying to make it these days. 32 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 4: But just to get that tiny foot in the door 33 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 4: and for. 34 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 3: Juice World to do that for you and say come 35 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 3: and support me on the Australian tour. Like it's just 36 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:47,119 Speaker 3: tiny moments, sliding doors, moments in people's careers that would 37 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 3: you be here now if that didn't happen, kid. 38 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: I don't think so at all. I don't know. 39 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 5: I think everything you know comes together the way it's 40 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 5: supposed to, and you know, you can't predict anything. You know, 41 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 5: everything comes you know, different timing and it's it's all 42 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 5: just a combination of yeah, all that stuff. But I 43 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 5: definitely there's no there's no chance I would be here 44 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 5: without juice at all. 45 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 3: Is there anything from the Red Ferndage that you couldn't 46 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: put in the documentary? 47 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 4: There would have to be some videos. 48 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 5: I want to do something later on down the line 49 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 5: where we do a proper you know, like everything about 50 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 5: my life and stuff. This was I really wanted to 51 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 5: just focus on the past couple of years of doing 52 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 5: the whole music thing and just like that was you know, 53 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 5: more so the space of keeping it about like that 54 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 5: and just like you know, showing people like just the 55 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:40,119 Speaker 5: different moving parts of like being you know, going through 56 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 5: whatever has happened the past three years for you have been. 57 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 6: So you're saying that you're not ready to be canceled 58 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 6: just yet. 59 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 7: You're going to keep some of You're going to keep 60 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 7: some of those things in your back pocket. 61 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 4: That's is that. 62 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 2: Type of Chris she jumping in the car now with you? 63 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 2: Or is she She's not there today? 64 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 4: You guys? Are you guys are crazy? 65 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 6: Right? 66 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 4: You guys agreed? 67 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: Agree? 68 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 4: Can we just ask are you happy at the moment? 69 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 4: We're just we're worried about you? 70 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 6: My question? 71 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 5: I am very I'm very happy. I most definitely am very, 72 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 5: very very happy. So I'm actually the happiest I've been 73 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 5: maybe ever so thank you guys so much. I appreciate 74 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 5: you guys for porting always brother than you likewise. 75 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 4: Guys. This is the Fit and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast. 76 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 4: You guys aware of an artist by the name. 77 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 2: Of pink Oh, the one that tossed the flying back flips. 78 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 7: She had the upside down exclamation mark. 79 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: That's her. 80 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 4: That's the one. 81 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: She's just performed in Sydney and amazing, so good, she said, 82 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: such a good time. 83 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 4: Down in Australia. 84 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 3: We spoke to her as as well before she started 85 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 3: her tour and she brought the family with her. Carrie 86 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 3: came down and also the kids. You've got Willow and 87 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 3: Jamison as well. 88 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: Shommy, what's the song that you love? 89 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 4: What your daughter? Didn't you? Tom Yeah? 90 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 2: I guess so that just lost my boyfriend. I don't 91 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 2: know where he's gone. When Tommy goes to a karaoke 92 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 2: bar in his leathers and all of a sudden, you 93 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 2: hear no, no, no, no, no no. 94 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 3: You know that you're in very good there's a great 95 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 3: do you do it like this? 96 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 6: You were bringing up? 97 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 4: It is okay. 98 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 3: So she's posted a video to and ten point seven 99 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 3: million Instagram followers. This was at a Core Stadium in 100 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 3: Sydney and it shows it's it's side of stage. So 101 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 3: I think Carrie the husband is filming this, but Willow 102 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 3: got up for what the sunshine? 103 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 6: Beautiful song, beautiful song. 104 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: And you can see there's a moment where Pink's like 105 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,559 Speaker 3: looking at Willow going home. So proud of you, my daughter, 106 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: my first born, have a look how proud I am 107 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,799 Speaker 3: of you? And then Carrie pans around with a video 108 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 3: camera and there's Jamison on a seat just with his 109 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 3: head back and a bottle of water just in his. 110 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: Isn't that second the second kid is always a bit skimmity. 111 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 2: The second kit behavior. 112 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 7: Is just so there's not the pressure on the second child, 113 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 7: do you think, well, I don't. 114 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 6: You can't call them spare all right? 115 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 4: I love it. 116 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 3: So this is what we're taking this morning, firstborn versus 117 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 3: second born, and I want you to give me examples. 118 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 3: I'll give you an example. Quite a few years ago 119 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 3: I spoke about this on air. So my firstborn, Houston, 120 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 3: decided to ask his brother to play Yatzi with him, 121 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 3: and the second born stabbed him in the leg with 122 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 3: a pencil because he was losing it, yap classic. 123 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 2: Second born just gets worse and worse. 124 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 7: And the second child's always the one who flips the 125 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 7: monopoly born. 126 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, firstborn Hueye got emotional years ago with a haircut 127 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 3: when it was cut too short on the side. 128 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 4: It's Lenny got angry that his. 129 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 3: Ratstarle wasn't long enough at the salon von in Spring Farmer, 130 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 3: Your kids different, Vaughon. 131 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 4: Give us an example. 132 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 8: So I get a phone call from school. 133 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: One gets straight a's one is amazing. 134 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 8: Winning all end of your awards. 135 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 1: Second one hunters and gets suspended. 136 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 2: Because they feel they have to fight. They're born into 137 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 2: the world as a fighter, fighting for attention, fighting for acceptance. 138 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 2: The second kid is loose for a reason. 139 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: She takes no nonsense, so she warns this child and then. 140 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 3: But it's been proven as well that most champions in 141 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 3: certain fields sports are usually younger siblings. 142 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 2: Are they really that get brought up? 143 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 4: Tough? 144 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 7: So tough, But what about the eldest child. I think 145 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 7: it's very tough to be the elderly, very tough. There's 146 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 7: a lot of responsibility. 147 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: Little is a legend. 148 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 4: Louise in Camden. How different are your kids? 149 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 9: Well, my our eldest has just started kindergarten this year, 150 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 9: and she's a staunch Raw follower, and she got an 151 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 9: award for diligence just last week, of course, And that 152 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 9: same afternoon I went to preschool to kick up our 153 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 9: three year old, and the daycare teacher said to me, 154 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 9: we just want to talk to you. Yeah, your son 155 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 9: said like f and hell to us today. 156 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 2: A three year old? 157 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 6: Where is he getting that from? 158 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 9: Well, when I'm happy, Sorry, I'm going to put my 159 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 9: husband in. 160 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 7: Now you've just worn again, Louis, Oh my god, it's 161 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 7: it's the hobby with the potty mountains. 162 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 9: It's actually fiery because he actually has his text messages 163 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 9: go through his car and then Kerry read it out 164 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 9: one of the tech as he says, and so then 165 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 9: he just says to everybody if he hears siri, oh 166 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 9: Siri says hell. Look and our daughter would actually never 167 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 9: ever do that. 168 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 2: Let's look to Chavonne and Marubra quickly, Cheven, what's the 169 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: difference between your kids? 170 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: These are my second born sister's kids. Firstborn academic excellence. 171 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 1: Second born started school, put a set of craft eyes 172 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: inside his ears and told his mom he was trying 173 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: to work out what was going on inside his head? 174 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 2: He wins, he wins, doesn't he? How good is that? 175 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 2: This is the fitting in with her with Kate Richie podcast. 176 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 3: We have a beautiful person in here, not just physically 177 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 3: but also spiritually as well and being. 178 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 4: Perfect podcasts sixth season. Wow, this is it's back again. 179 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 4: You can get it wherever you get your good podcast from. 180 00:08:58,200 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 4: We love this Manu even. 181 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 6: It's so nice to see you. 182 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 7: Can I just clear up something quickly with you? I 183 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 7: heard on one of the podcasts somebody calling you, Hugh 184 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 7: Van silent bird? 185 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 6: Is that correct? 186 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 10: I have been called so many things. Cycling bird one day, 187 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 10: that's not bad. Yeah, cycling a bird? I like that 188 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 10: as an indiview on the ABC. And then I a 189 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 10: friend of mine said, you found a picture on Google 190 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 10: which was of a bird riding a bike. 191 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 2: And anyway, mate, let's talk about Resilience project because one 192 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 2: of the key topics which came up and we were 193 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 2: discussing this off air, was addiction to mobile phones. 194 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 10: So in the hotel this morning where I was, I 195 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 10: went down for breakfast and there was a family of four. Yea, 196 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 10: so it was a mum and dad, it was a boy, 197 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 10: would have been thirteen. Girl looked about fifteen sixteen. And 198 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 10: I was chatting to the dad at the buffet area, 199 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 10: and he was saying that had come down from cansall 200 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 10: that stayed for two nights, and he was sitting near me, 201 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 10: and I went he went back to his table and 202 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 10: he sat there and his two kids were slumped in 203 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 10: their chair on their phones. Mum was on the phone 204 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 10: and instead of I was watching gang. That's so sad, 205 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 10: Like if that was us back in the day, you 206 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 10: would be just so. You're so excited with your family 207 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 10: trip to the city chatting and the guy after about 208 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 10: two minutes, he said, is there any Dan drugging have 209 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 10: some conversation with some in my own family? And he 210 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 10: looked so upset about it, and no one answered, like 211 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 10: no one looked up from their phone, like it was 212 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 10: just met with complete silence. And he was sitting there 213 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 10: eating his music, looking so shattered, And I was like, oh, 214 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 10: that'ctually depressing. And then ten minutes later I realized all 215 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 10: I've been doing myself for the last ten minutes of 216 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 10: being on my phone as well, and so I have 217 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 10: talked about this so much of the last five to 218 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 10: ten years addiction to devices. And I've realized that. 219 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 4: So in my. 220 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,719 Speaker 10: Book that I wrote, which is called The Far Too 221 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 10: Personal Trainery, that's the book which I wrote. 222 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 2: That's sorry, that's still a couple of copies available dot com. 223 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 10: How do you know jo Loo has heard about it? 224 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 4: She? 225 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 10: Yeah, she has. 226 00:10:54,920 --> 00:11:01,719 Speaker 2: Oh my god, she hasn't read it yet, which you 227 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 2: heard about it. 228 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 10: So in my book, I did a whole section. I 229 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 10: wrote it in twenty nineteen and it was all and 230 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 10: I did this whole thing on addiction to devices, and 231 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 10: I was all, I had four strategies in there, and 232 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,719 Speaker 10: I won't listen all now, but because I've realized that 233 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 10: they worked back then, but they don't now. I feel 234 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 10: like big tech and the algorithms have got smarter and 235 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 10: smarter and smarter. 236 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 4: And they've got better at making this addicted yep. 237 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 10: And we just so that don't really and there's only 238 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 10: one out of the like there was stuff like I 239 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 10: was saying back in twenty nineteen, Oh, put your put 240 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 10: all your social media apps in a folder and put 241 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 10: it five screens across and label that like folder regret 242 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 10: or some of that, because you know you're going to 243 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 10: regret and aprobably The most common emotion anyone experiences after 244 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 10: ten minutes or more on social media is regret. So 245 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 10: I was like, you could name that folder regret, and 246 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:50,599 Speaker 10: you could put it five screens across. I've realized for 247 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 10: the last three years, I just swiped five screens, click 248 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 10: on regret, don't even read it, and I just go 249 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 10: straight into Instagram and I'm stuck. And so I've sort 250 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,719 Speaker 10: of realized that it's the straight I write about the 251 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 10: book because of the way technology has It's just got 252 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 10: smarter and smarter. The algorithms too good. It just keeps 253 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 10: sending me videos of Brettley bowling Yorkers and Snake's being 254 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 10: taken out of people's houses. I cannot I cannot say 255 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 10: no to that. 256 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:17,679 Speaker 4: I cannot not look at that. 257 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 10: And so I've I've in the last literally in the 258 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 10: last three weeks, I've taken a new step and it's 259 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 10: the only thing that really works for me, and I'd 260 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 10: love people to try this. It's a technique and it 261 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 10: involves literally putting your phone in a really inconvenient place 262 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 10: where you actually can't physically get to it. So when 263 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 10: I get home from work at five o'clock five ish, 264 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 10: I leave it in the car and I park about 265 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 10: fifty meters down the road. 266 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 4: Wow, and then I'm going But otherwise, do you really 267 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 4: do this? 268 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 11: Well? 269 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, like in the last three weeks, and it's been 270 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 10: to you because I've noticed, I reckon, if you think 271 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 10: about it, the reason we go to our phone so often, 272 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 10: the reason we go to our phone is actually just 273 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 10: to numb emotion. Well convenience, and also we try to 274 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 10: number negative emotion. And so the second we feel sad, lonely, disconnected, you, 275 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 10: whatever it is, we just grab our phone and we 276 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 10: try to numb the negtive emotion. It works and numbs 277 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 10: the negative emotion, but it doesn't it doesn't fix the problem, 278 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 10: so we put the phone down. We're still where we 279 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 10: were before. So the example I'll give is my daughter 280 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 10: who's four has the last six months is having a 281 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 10: lot of problems around bedtime. Her meltdowns honestly will last 282 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 10: about an hour. I reckon, yeah, and so, and it's 283 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 10: my job to put her to bed pennies with the boys, 284 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,319 Speaker 10: and I have had my phone on me whenever she's 285 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 10: melting down, I just get my phone out and sort 286 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 10: of look at snakes being taken out of people's houses 287 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 10: or breads in Swinging Yorkers and it's just like, I 288 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 10: just I've been doing that just because it's a negative emotion. 289 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 10: I'm so upset with how she's going that I'm just 290 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 10: grabbing my phone. And then I was like, now what 291 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 10: am I doing? Like she's just watching me be on 292 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 10: my phone this whole hour when she's in distress. So 293 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 10: I put it downstairs. But then after ten minutes, I 294 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 10: was like, I'll just go and get it, and i'd go. 295 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 10: I would almost like I'd sleepwalking. I don't even know 296 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,719 Speaker 10: I was going downstairs getting my phone. Now I've left 297 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 10: it in the car as too far. I was like, 298 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 10: I can't be bothered. And I've actually notice that we 299 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 10: get through the hour together, Like we both get upset together, 300 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 10: then we both cheer up together, and we go through 301 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 10: all the emotions together. We go through the stress cycle. 302 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 10: This we sort of complete the stress cycle together. And 303 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 10: it's been really beautiful to really totally be present with 304 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 10: her as she struggles and then works her way through it. 305 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think she's going to sleep. Is it 306 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 4: has a help in that sense? 307 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 10: I know it still takes about an hour and a 308 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 10: half way to fall asleep. But I'm lying there with 309 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 10: it and I'm present for it, and when she's struggling, 310 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 10: the message she's getting is, Hey, I'm here with you. 311 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 10: You know, we're in this together, as opposed to, oh 312 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 10: look at that delivery from Brettley. 313 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 4: There's no right delivery. 314 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 3: My youngest son at the moment has a real passion 315 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 3: for gaming. So he loves sitting there and talking to 316 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 3: mates while playing a game and loves it. 317 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 4: And I understand that, but we give him time limits. 318 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 3: And this is the thing he asked that the hardest 319 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 3: thing is for him to say goodbye to his mates 320 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 3: and stop it all together. But I think the most 321 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 3: the most important question you out of all of. 322 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 4: This is how does Brettlee hold the ball. 323 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 10: To I just knew that was related. 324 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 4: I just you just knew the whole time. I don't 325 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 4: know how he does it here, beautiful. 326 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 10: If you want to have a good time on YouTube 327 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 10: just typing Brettley and swinging your cat's that's a device. 328 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 4: Don't they and with a cake? 329 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 2: Whichie podcast the. 330 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 4: Absolute worst stories of cheating. 331 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 6: Okay, I'm really keen to hear. 332 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 3: I've got I've got permission off a mate to talk 333 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 3: about this, but I've had to change names. So let's 334 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 3: say his name is Garrett from Easton, Garrett from Eastern Creeka. 335 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 6: Is his name Garrett? 336 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 4: No, it's not. But he's given me permission to talk 337 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 4: about this. 338 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 3: Married, two kids, garretyes garrettys rings. 339 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 4: Me the other night emotional. I've split with my wife. 340 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 3: Okay when on a family holiday to the Maldives together? 341 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 4: Not cheap? 342 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 2: Congratulations, very expensive? 343 00:15:59,080 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 6: When did that go? 344 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 4: This was at the end of last year. 345 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 6: You want me to stop asking questions? 346 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I do, Okay, I can't believe this. His wife 347 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 4: is a scuba diver, all right, love scuba diving. That's 348 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 4: one of the main reasons they went to the Man Dives. 349 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 3: On the first day, she said, she's booked herself into 350 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 3: scuba dive. She goes out for the whole day. He 351 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 3: looks after the kids, and she comes home and she goes, Oh, 352 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 3: my god, an amazing experience. The water is so clear. 353 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 3: I saw so many, so much sea life down there. 354 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 3: It's unbelievable. Convinces her husband. Can I then book in 355 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 3: another two sessions on this week one week holiday because 356 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 3: I loved it so much? 357 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 4: And he said, you know, what, honey, you love this, 358 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 4: I'll look after the kids. You go for another two days. 359 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 2: It's a lot of school there on one week. 360 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 3: On the final this was the final day before they left, 361 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 3: she's out scuba diving and he decides to go to 362 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 3: the diving off office at the resort to see what 363 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 3: time she's coming back. 364 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 4: So he gets there early, will into. 365 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 3: The office and he walks in on her with the 366 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 3: diving instructor. 367 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 2: What movie is that? There's a movie where that happens. 368 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 4: While he's looking after He's two. 369 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 7: Kids, and he's been considerate to go and find out 370 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 7: what time she's back because possibly he's booking their final 371 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 7: night dinner by the pool. 372 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 3: She breaks down, cries her eyes out, runs back, runs 373 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 3: after him back to the room. He said, I'm going 374 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,360 Speaker 3: on whether they're going home the next day, he said, 375 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:32,160 Speaker 3: I'm going home. 376 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 4: Don't talk to me. I can't do this. 377 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 3: She then breaks down and says to him, after knowing 378 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 3: this guy for three days, I think I love this guy? 379 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 4: What after three days? 380 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 6: Is this a real life story? This happened at the 381 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 6: end of last year. 382 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 4: This is a real life story? Did she he mean? 383 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 4: Has to? He said, Fitz. 384 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,919 Speaker 3: I then had to on the plane. I had to 385 00:17:57,000 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 3: sit with her with the kids, knowing that I'm going 386 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 3: to be packing up and I'm going to stay somewhere 387 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 3: else when I get home. 388 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 4: It's all did god there They'd be like six and four. 389 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 7: Okay, so they're little, they're unaware relatively, and I just. 390 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 4: Thought, is that not what is going through your mind? 391 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,119 Speaker 2: You know, it would have been hard to understand too, 392 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: because I assume it went something like I'm leaving you, 393 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 2: I'm in love with another guys snorkel. Her tears would 394 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 2: have been filling up the mask at the time. 395 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 3: And so she's gone diving on the first day, maybe 396 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 3: the second day, but the third day they didn't even 397 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 3: go diving. He's walked into the diving office early to 398 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 3: find out when they're coming back, and she was in 399 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 3: there with him all day. 400 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 7: Okay, So this, okay, How how does it happen? 401 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 6: How does that happen? 402 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 7: How do you fall head over heels in love with 403 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 7: someone within a very short period of time on a 404 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 7: family holiday, a holiday that everybody's been looking forward to, 405 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 7: when you know that your partner and your two children 406 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 7: are just up the walkway. 407 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 2: These moments scare me. These moments scare me because they 408 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 2: threaten what you know as a normal relationship. Because Kate Richie, 409 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 2: the question is go on. It's hard to say she 410 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 2: doesn't like diving, but she may take up scubat. I'm 411 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,640 Speaker 2: not sure at this stage. 412 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 7: That Kate she can learn to love anything he loves. 413 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 2: Well, that's true, depending on how they want. Kate, here's 414 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 2: the thing. Do you suggest that this relationship is in 415 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: trouble already? Of course it is, so there's a breakdown 416 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:48,120 Speaker 2: in the relationship, and then you just needed that trigger 417 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:51,959 Speaker 2: to drag her away from it, which became the scuba instructor. 418 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,119 Speaker 2: Do you think this is a happy marriage but the 419 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 2: power that this guy had over her is something that 420 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 2: could happen to anybody. 421 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 7: No, I don't think anything about it is And I mean, 422 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 7: this is very hard for me to comment on if 423 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 7: it's because this is a friend of yours, so and 424 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 7: I don't know this bloke, and I'm sure his heart broken. 425 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 7: But I would imagine if you go on holidays and 426 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 7: within three days you're saying you're completely in love with 427 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 7: someone else, and you've spent a day in the office 428 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 7: with him while your family's up the road. There it's 429 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 7: not all is well. No, you're already out of the 430 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 7: relationship in your head and you're really looking for something. 431 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,120 Speaker 3: Surely we've got a call from Annie in Hirshfield. We're 432 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 3: talking about the worst stories of cheating. What do you 433 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 3: got for us? 434 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 4: Annie? 435 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 12: Hey, good morning. Yeah. So, while I was married, we 436 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 12: were living in bank Kam. I now his husband. He 437 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 12: used to go to the Philippines on business and use 438 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 12: your thing or few wents on a business trip. And 439 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 12: then I get a pocket doll and I'm thinking, oh, 440 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,959 Speaker 12: it's sixture him in the morning, you know what's going on. 441 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 12: And he's in a taxi with one of his mates 442 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 12: and he says, hey, mates, shall we get more viagra? 443 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 6: Oh? 444 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 8: I said. 445 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 12: Hello anyway, oh oh oh, and then the phone went dead. 446 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 12: So that's pretty much confirmed what I always knew. But 447 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 12: it was there, you know. And then you try to 448 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 12: deny it emphatically denied that the central schedule number. 449 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 2: What was the excuse though, when I mean, you must 450 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 2: have said I heard you talking about viagra? 451 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 12: Yeah no, no, he says, no, that wasn't me. I said, 452 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 12: but how can they not be you? 453 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 4: It's your number, it's your number. You're ringing me. 454 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,919 Speaker 12: Did he you've pockets ouled me? So it's almost like 455 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 12: the universe saying, all right, goody girl, time to get 456 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 12: a move on. 457 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, you need this information. 458 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,399 Speaker 7: Did he resort to telling you that he was, in 459 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 7: fact having a hot love affair with his friend, that 460 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 7: he was in the. 461 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:51,640 Speaker 12: Back of the uber with no there was a guy fringd. 462 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 4: So did you find out any Did you find out? 463 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 7: Yes? 464 00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 12: I do eventually admitted it because then everything else started 465 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 12: coming at us. Well, you know when you're standing up 466 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 12: against a picture and you start stepping back, you certainly 467 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 12: see the picture for what it is. Yeah, So yeah, 468 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:11,719 Speaker 12: that was just one of multiple multiple discretions. And like 469 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 12: I said, universe said, Harry, I'm going to put this 470 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,399 Speaker 12: right up against your nose so that you can now 471 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 12: wake up. 472 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 3: All right, worst cases of cheating? Can you beat? That story? 473 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 3: Still blows my mind. 474 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 7: Well, that that at that flight home would have been 475 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 7: the one. 476 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 4: Of the longest fatteen He's given us a call from Banks 477 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 4: down what happened to you? Forturny? 478 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 13: Basically I was seven months pregnant on my second child 479 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 13: and he's used to work overseas holiday Pacific Islands. The 480 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 13: project manager and came back and I was cleaning, getting 481 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 13: ready to wash his clothes. Found a long piece of 482 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 13: hair which wasn't mine. Did some digging, opened up his wallet, 483 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 13: photo of another girl. 484 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 4: In his. 485 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 2: In his wallet, took the photo did you and said 486 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 2: what's all this about? Or how did it play? 487 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 7: Yep? 488 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah. 489 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 13: I was living at my parents' house waiting for a 490 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 13: property to be built, and basically said what's this? He 491 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 13: was having an affair? I said, do you love He 492 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 13: goes no. I said, well do you love me? And 493 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 13: he goes, I love you, but I'm not in. 494 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 6: Love with you. 495 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: I love that's cop out ye. 496 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 13: And then basically he said, oh, I don't know what 497 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 13: to do. Whether I should stay with you with the 498 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 13: kids are like sixteen and eighteen and then leave you 499 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 13: or you know, oh. 500 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, fronts so cold. 501 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 4: So what you just booted him straight away? Fateen. 502 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 13: Well yeah, well, basically I said, well can you leave 503 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:44,360 Speaker 13: because we're live in my parents He would have leave 504 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 13: the house. He basically made me move into and your 505 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 13: apartment and he left. I had my son was two 506 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 13: and my daughter was. 507 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god, i'ld oh man. I hate to say it. 508 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 2: He's a shocker. 509 00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 13: He yeah, ended up marrying the other the other thirteen 510 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:04,199 Speaker 13: year younger than him, younger than him. 511 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:05,159 Speaker 4: Are they still together? 512 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 13: No, they had three kids. She did the dirty on 513 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 13: him and he ended up raising the other three kids. 514 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 13: Never saw his first kids made. 515 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 2: That stuff. What about your love life? Have you got 516 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 2: someone special now on? 517 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 13: And I've been been a bit hard I had raised 518 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 13: the kids. 519 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, of course, yeah, he said a different traffic dating Tommy, 520 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,160 Speaker 7: you're a very strong woman, Fateena. 521 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 3: Let's go to Caroline now from seven Hills. Tell us 522 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:33,360 Speaker 3: about your boyfriend. 523 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 11: Oh, hi, how are you? Yeah? I was with my 524 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,159 Speaker 11: last boyfriend for about seven months, which I thought was 525 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:44,879 Speaker 11: my boyfriend. We spent the Saturday night together. The Monday morning, 526 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 11: he ghosted me. I got I got him his Facebook 527 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 11: and there he was introducing him the love of his 528 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 11: life and his new family to the world. And I 529 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 11: commented saying, but you're with me on Saturday night, And 530 00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 11: the next minute another seven fils popped up saying that, yeah, 531 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 11: he's been sleeping with them for the last seven months 532 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 11: as well. 533 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 14: He's a busy boy, very busy boy he was, And 534 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 14: I was like, yeah, the more we get talk him, 535 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 14: the more we found out and he him. 536 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 11: Just on a dating site. 537 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 3: So how many did you find out altogether did he 538 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 3: have on the side? 539 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: Eighth? 540 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 2: What a stinker. 541 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 6: It's the whole thing about the meaning. They're just so 542 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 6: and like blase about thing. 543 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,239 Speaker 7: It's like if you are out there and you've got 544 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 7: all these people that you're hooking up with who actually 545 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 7: think you're in a relationship, and then you're just willing 546 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:39,879 Speaker 7: nelly posting. 547 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 6: About your family that you're in love with as well. 548 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:43,400 Speaker 6: It's so entitled. 549 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 2: And what did he say when you confronted him? 550 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 11: Curly, Well, when I finally got to confront him, and 551 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 11: he told me that, yeah, I deserve someone who actually 552 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 11: loves me. And that's what he said to everybody else. 553 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 4: And such a good guy. 554 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 3: It's really thoughtful man like that sounds like it was 555 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,199 Speaker 3: just physical alas in PARAMOUNTA, tell about your tell us 556 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 3: about your mum's friend. 557 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, Hey, so mom has this friend. Let's call her Annie. Right, 558 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 8: So Annie is happily married or was has three pretty 559 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 8: much adult kids. Right, Annie walked home one day to 560 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 8: find her husband with her mother. 561 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 6: What what the. 562 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 4: Mom has been going on? 563 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 8: So close to three years? Annie's mom with Annie's. 564 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 4: Husband what was mum's excuse a Lise? What did mom 565 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 4: say about. 566 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 8: They were in love? They loved each other? Annie had 567 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,199 Speaker 8: to file for bankruptcy. Like the whole thing kind of 568 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 8: everything just started to unravel. 569 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 2: That will never happen with Lisa and her mum. That 570 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 2: that would never. 571 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 6: Happen would be Lisa and your mom or your dad. 572 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 4: That's you hooking up with deb That's right. 573 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 2: I'm just saying now for the record, that would never happen. 574 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,400 Speaker 2: Lisa will never come home and find Debrah and I 575 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,160 Speaker 2: involved in some sort of hot mood rumble. 576 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 4: About the other way. Could could there be a chance 577 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:03,879 Speaker 4: that John and Lisa. 578 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 2: Highly unlikely the age of seventy five? 579 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 4: I'm what sure is up for it? 580 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,719 Speaker 6: Could you would you have a little vomit? 581 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 7: Like what the reaction do you have when you walk 582 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 7: You put the key in the door, and you walk 583 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 7: down the hallway and then you're in the lound room 584 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 7: and on the couch is your parent and your partner? 585 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 3: Are you who are you more disappointed with mum? 586 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 6: Your parent? 587 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,160 Speaker 2: What would you would you say to Heather? 588 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 3: Heather, you walk in and there in the kitchen, Okay, 589 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 3: can you stop? 590 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 7: Because I know mom's Mum's in the car right now 591 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 7: and most likely with my daughter. 592 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:45,919 Speaker 2: Not what it looks like. 593 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 4: That's the first thing you would say to Heather, I'd say. 594 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 6: Should I put the kettle on? 595 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 4: You know? 596 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 2: Can I tell you something? A maid of mine, a 597 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:59,159 Speaker 2: maide of mine. Not long ago, he was at home 598 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 2: and the clean and it was there and they started 599 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 2: talking about intimacy. The cleaner says, it's been a while 600 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 2: for me. I really miss it. He says, it's been 601 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 2: a while for me as well. The next thing, you know, 602 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 2: right there in the kitchen it is on for young 603 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 2: and old. 604 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 4: Is this was he in a relationship? 605 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 2: No, he is in a relationship. He's got about four 606 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 2: girls on the go. He's a bit of a shocker. 607 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 4: This is friend yours. 608 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, And I just I'm always fascinated how these 609 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 15: moments which seem random, like a mother involved or a 610 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 15: cleaning lady, how. 611 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 2: It actually gets to that point of going. I woke 612 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 2: up this morning and this was a regular day, my 613 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 2: wheetbeaks for breakfast, I read the paper, I checked my email, 614 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 2: and the next thing you know, I'm on the lino 615 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 2: in the kitchen getting it on with the clean. 616 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:05,720 Speaker 7: Like think you live an interesting life, but that stuff 617 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 7: isn't happening. 618 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 4: There's some man, there's stuff. 619 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 6: Going on out there, wold and crazy. 620 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 2: Put down the mister sheets and out there isn't. 621 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 6: There even that. I think it's people looking for connection. 622 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 2: I don't think it is they're just bored. 623 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 7: No, I think people are desperate for connection and deeply, deeply, deeply. 624 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 6: Unhappy in their own lives. 625 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 7: And before you know it, you can't fake chemistry if 626 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 7: you're standing. How many people have got cleaners and they 627 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 7: never fancy them at all? 628 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, they're city and with a with Kate Whichie podcast. 629 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,440 Speaker 2: It's a bit of an anniversary happening today fits and 630 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 2: I don't think many people realize, but it's actually an 631 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 2: eighteen year anniversary today for somebody in the studio, one 632 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 2: of our team members who we love so much. It's 633 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 2: been eighteen years to the day since Kate Ritchie took 634 00:29:58,720 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 2: to the stage on it. 635 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 4: Oh, what a moment in Australia. 636 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 2: His I mean, would you ever ever forget the wonderful 637 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 2: work of Kate Richie Troy Cassa Daily on this song. 638 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 4: This is not my best one was missed so bad Jackson. 639 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 6: When I did Jason, at least you're not playing. 640 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 4: The A C D C. 641 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 7: Because they made me dress up like I was some 642 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 7: kind of rock goddess and it was just it wasn't me. 643 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 7: I look back on this time because I still remember 644 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 7: where I was when I got when Princess Diana died, 645 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 7: and when I got the phone call from my agent 646 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 7: asking me to do a singing show, and I don't 647 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 7: know what happened. 648 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 6: I was having a weak moment. 649 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 2: You thought, let me die on stage. Troy is here 650 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 2: to celebrate starting, Is it right now? 651 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 4: Hand? 652 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 11: Kay? 653 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 2: Richie the morcrophon, you're right, Issutroy. 654 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 16: We got married in a fever what a song out 655 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 16: of then a pepper sprout us. We've been talking about 656 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 16: Jackson ever since the fire went out. 657 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:34,600 Speaker 4: I'm going to Jackson. I'm going to mess around. We're 658 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 4: going to Jackson. Look out, Jackson Town. 659 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 6: Welcome back to Jackson. 660 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 4: Go ahead, Wreckuel. 661 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 17: Okay, you've been talking man making beeg food, your. 662 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 4: Sing here going to Jackson. 663 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 16: Oh here, yeah, honey, I'm going to snowball Jackson. 664 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 4: See, okay, of course you'll night, are ready to go? 665 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 16: Well, we are married in a feverers Brown. We've been 666 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 16: talking about Jackson ever since. 667 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 4: The fire wind out. I'm going to Jackson, and that's 668 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 4: so fat that's a fact. We're going to Jackson. He 669 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 4: never coming back. 670 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 16: As a loss. 671 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,719 Speaker 18: If there's one thing that she always had in her 672 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 18: with some country music. 673 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 6: I'm not want Troy took read the Tamworth. 674 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 7: In fact, one of the for one of the episodes, 675 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 7: I don't know which song it was, perhaps it was 676 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 7: the Jacker Bar. 677 00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 4: And so we went. 678 00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 6: So we went to Tamworth. 679 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 7: I mean Tamworth, like troysonifies, it made me go on 680 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 7: to the stage and try and get a little bit 681 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 7: of experience singing in front of people, because it's not 682 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 7: it's not what I like to do, but it's so 683 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 7: full of joy and it's so great. And I just 684 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 7: love Troy and I love Laurel and I love his 685 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 7: whole family. And they were so warm and like made 686 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 7: me feel great. 687 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 4: What it's all about, as. 688 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 3: I wanted to ask about, because Troy anxiety levels, you know, 689 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 3: like in any like you know, Kate going on stage 690 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 3: or behind a camera but doing something that she's never 691 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 3: done before. 692 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,240 Speaker 4: Were there moments where you thought, oh, she she might 693 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 4: not go on stage here. Look, honestly, it was like 694 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 4: me walking on a set going to be an actor. 695 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 13: I would not do that. 696 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 4: I can't remember lines. 697 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 18: That's just not my bag, and I reckon it would 698 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 18: be just the same for Kate when she walked on stage. 699 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 18: She can remember lines, but do you have to be 700 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 18: a singer? And I think she just, you know, we 701 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,240 Speaker 18: all learned something about ourselves, but Kate just sort of 702 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,720 Speaker 18: learned that if she's going to be she's an actor, 703 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 18: so she can act her way through the show and sing. 704 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 4: And my wife Laurel said, Kate, just act, just do 705 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:16,400 Speaker 4: your thing. 706 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 6: And when I opened my mouth, it just like, do 707 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 6: you know what I did? 708 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,320 Speaker 2: You go on, But we're definitely going to take it 709 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 2: out with one more song. 710 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 4: We got. 711 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:29,839 Speaker 6: Yesterday. 712 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:35,879 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, we can't sing this. I'm so flat. 713 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 4: Do you know what I thought? Do you know what 714 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 4: I thought? 715 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 6: You were handing me? 716 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 8: Oh? 717 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,680 Speaker 6: Yes, the other one, because what I was texting Troy 718 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 6: about the other day. 719 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:45,400 Speaker 11: Is that. 720 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 7: Oh god, what what I was texting Troy about the 721 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 7: other day is that Troy? When I got married in 722 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:58,240 Speaker 7: twenty ten, oh yes, yes, Troy couldn't make the wedding 723 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:06,400 Speaker 7: and so Stuart and I wanted Troy and Laurel to 724 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 7: be at the wedding, but they couldn't make it, and 725 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,800 Speaker 7: so and we wanted him to play. 726 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 6: And instead of. 727 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 4: Playing, you know what happened. 728 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 18: We were living in Nashville and Kate got in touch 729 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 18: with me, and I was living in Nashville. My studio 730 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 18: was in the cupboard in this little rental house and 731 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 18: I just do a little course and all it is 732 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 18: is just I'm going to make the most stupid every 733 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 18: day with. 734 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 4: You, Scot. Things don't last long. This work can do 735 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:48,439 Speaker 4: you wrong. It's while I'm searching for the clues. I'm 736 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 4: going to make the most fail every day with you. 737 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 4: And then the chorus went. 738 00:35:53,000 --> 00:36:02,879 Speaker 17: Dumb while sun still shines only of peace? Who will 739 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:10,640 Speaker 17: be a wholy please as the years ago? By a 740 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 17: promist to make the most every day with you. I'm 741 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 17: going to make the most every. 742 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,120 Speaker 7: Day with you. 743 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:32,280 Speaker 2: You're a good mate, Try cassa day that was amazing. 744 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:34,760 Speaker 2: That was amazing. 745 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 4: So we're not and I'm only crying so we don't 746 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 4: have to do you. I played that so I got 747 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 4: ASoP the hole. 748 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,399 Speaker 2: Thank you for coming in, mate. Szen Whipper with Kate 749 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 2: Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk Great shows like this, 750 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 2: download the Nova player, fire the app store or Google 751 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:55,440 Speaker 2: Playing