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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast. A

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Speaker 1: little bit of a laugh at the party that took

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Speaker 1: place yesterday EVN Cinema.

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Speaker 2: What is Dave Joy? Oh?

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Speaker 1: It was so much fun. Ted was so excited. Had

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Speaker 1: twenty four mates for his ninth birthday. Yeah, twenty four mates,

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Speaker 1: That's what I thought. And I when the kids got

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Speaker 1: dropped off, because you know that their age now where

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Speaker 1: the parents don't have to hang around. They're dropping the

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Speaker 1: kids off. All the parents are going cheers, your brave, jeez,

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Speaker 1: your brave like one after that, and I thought, what's

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Speaker 1: the big deal here? Before the movie had started, there

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Speaker 1: was just rumbles. It's going on everywhere, headlocks, choke holds,

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Speaker 1: all boys, Yeah, all boys.

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Speaker 3: It's it's like the first day of a music festival,

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Speaker 4: Like everyone it's so excited. It's I you don't even

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Speaker 4: want to sit down and watch the movie. You just

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Speaker 4: want to run them up with your mates.

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Speaker 1: That's first night fever, That's what it is. Fits. You've

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Speaker 1: flown into Vegas and you're ready to go, and then

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Speaker 1: your tepong near beer pong was happening. No, they had

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Speaker 1: a great candy bar set up, so he was the issue.

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Speaker 1: They had sort of cocon one side, fanter on the other,

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Speaker 1: and then all these lollies, so you could go and

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Speaker 1: grab a cup, fill a full of lollies, grab yourself

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Speaker 1: and sit in your seat with you in heaven. The

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Speaker 1: kids didn't get a lolly.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of mean to the children. So you feed

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Speaker 2: them all these things and then expect them to be

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Speaker 2: well behaved.

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Speaker 1: Followed by a slider and a choc top.

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Speaker 3: And did they like basic k instick.

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Speaker 1: No, we didn't go with that. That was my choice.

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Speaker 1: But the tape had been broken at that Sharon Stone part.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately they tried to stick it back together. But so

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Speaker 1: we went with Next Goal Wins, which is a Tigaway

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Speaker 1: TV film.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't don't google that if you what's that?

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Speaker 1: Next Goal Wins? Next Goal Wins. So it was a

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Speaker 1: soccer themed party and instead of doing party bags and lollies,

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Speaker 1: we just handed out little footies at the end and

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Speaker 1: things like that. Anyway, it was going well. The kids

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Speaker 1: loved the movie, which was great. It was a bit

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Speaker 1: of a rumble halfway through, which was disappointing.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean fight?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, spilled popcorn and one kid get up and tipped

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Speaker 1: a coke over the other one's filed in his face,

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Speaker 1: A large coke in his face. Yeah, drenched the poor kid.

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Speaker 1: I was there dabbing his T shirt down, trying to

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Speaker 1: make it put a smile back on the poor kid's face.

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Speaker 1: Were dabbing the T shirt with ro just a tie

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Speaker 1: that I've got from Reese, one of the guys there,

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Speaker 1: and Caro, who was helping out emergency towel plays down

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Speaker 1: the front.

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Speaker 3: Did you have to put your foot down a little bit?

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Speaker 1: Sit down? Did you really a little bit?

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Speaker 3: And I would not be happy with that.

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Speaker 1: Lisa loud?

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Speaker 2: Was it that loud?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: Don't talk yourself up? Now? Is he going to talk

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Speaker 2: about how you reprimanded other children?

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Speaker 1: I want to know the letter to the point where

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Speaker 1: Lisa said, can you not do that? Because you're actually

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Speaker 1: embarrassing Ted. That's Ted's party and he's got to go

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Speaker 1: to school with these kids.

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Speaker 4: It's a tough one because this happens in the playground

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Speaker 4: quite a bit as well. When you see another kid

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Speaker 4: go over and maybe have a go at your child,

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Speaker 4: where do you draw the line? And for me, it's headlocks.

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Speaker 4: I've choke a learned very quickly.

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Speaker 3: No more choke holds, number of armholds.

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Speaker 1: Just headlocks.

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Speaker 4: No, but it is, it's it's it's it's other children.

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Speaker 3: But if you see something really wrong, it wasn't fair.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is you might embarrass ted in the moment,

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Speaker 2: but as a parent, like down the track, and I

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Speaker 2: know they're not thinking about this, they will remember the

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Speaker 2: dad's got my back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you know? And I hope I hope they

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Speaker 1: realized too that I'm You're right, Kate, I'm the parent.

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Speaker 1: I'm there to parent.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I've got twenty four of these kids and now

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Speaker 1: my responsibility. So I'm going to make sure everyone's happy

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Speaker 1: at the party. And that's coming off the back of

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Speaker 1: me calling a kid over at soccer at four thirty

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Speaker 1: the previous day to say, watch your language around the kids.

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Speaker 1: You might know those bad words, but my kids don't

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Speaker 1: need to hear it, So put your head in son.

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Speaker 3: Oh he's going to be hard here.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it hurts.

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Speaker 1: No, I need that, Do I you need a bit

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Speaker 1: of And look me in the eyes when you shake

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Speaker 1: my hand.

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Speaker 2: Do you say that to other people's children?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know if you need anyway.

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Speaker 2: If you do that to your own.

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Speaker 1: Well, if they're not doing it already, then they're not

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Speaker 1: being taught that. So let me parent from here on in.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, I don't thank God for you.

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Speaker 1: Hey, but you're right cake, But in turn, I don't

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Speaker 1: get everything right now. I had one big job on

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Speaker 1: the day I was in charge of the ice cream cake.

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Speaker 1: I said, honey, don't you worry about a thing. I'll

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Speaker 1: organize the ice cream cake.

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Speaker 3: What what can I ask? Which one Vanetta?

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Speaker 1: Or did you have?

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Speaker 3: Fred Freda is always.

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Speaker 1: A Tommy k You might know Bidella? Is it you know?

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Speaker 1: The Oh yeah, yeah, they they do the ice cream cakes.

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Speaker 2: And is it ice cream?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 2: Because I know I didn't bang on about this, but

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Speaker 2: most ice cream cakes are ice infection. There is nothing

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Speaker 2: dairy own the.

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Speaker 1: Dairy farm and they have an outlet where they make

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Speaker 1: the ice cream at the shops and the milk comes

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Speaker 1: from their farm to the shop to make the ice cream.

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Speaker 2: But not everyone has one thousand dollars to spend.

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Speaker 1: It was it was sixty five dollars anyway.

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Speaker 3: An ice cream coke.

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Speaker 1: That's all wrong. Man had all the fancy stuff you had.

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Speaker 2: To feed all the it did it every potty big cake.

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Speaker 1: Here's the problem. I said to Lisa, I'll go and

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Speaker 1: pick it up, and I'll go and put it in

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Speaker 1: the back fridge. Now, I keep her away from the

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Speaker 1: fridge and the freezer at the back because one fridge

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Speaker 1: is full of beer. The other fridge, which is the freezer,

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Speaker 1: it's full of bait for fishing. Oh And I thought,

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Speaker 1: if we're only going to put it in there.

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Speaker 2: Over bait, how often do you fish?

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Speaker 1: Quite So, I said, if we're only going to be

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Speaker 1: the cake's going to be in there for maybe sixteen hours,

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Speaker 1: twenty hours, how bad can it be with bait? It

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Speaker 1: would anybody notice?

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Speaker 2: And would it?

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Speaker 1: Does it stink?

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Speaker 2: Isn't it frozen? It's it's odorless.

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Speaker 1: We were getting we're getting in the car. Ted started

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Speaker 1: to turn his head a little bit towards the cake,

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Speaker 1: so I hit record to get some feedback. It's more

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Speaker 1: just no, it would be part of it, maybe a

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Speaker 1: bit of the box where the box was sitting, possibly,

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Speaker 1: and certainly once you take it out of the box,

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Speaker 1: what we'll do. Well, Yeah, it smells terrible. Do you

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Speaker 1: like the look of it too, Yeah, I like the

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Speaker 1: look of it. Just it smells terrible. Smell.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go, guys, Can I start getting in the

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Speaker 3: car place?

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Speaker 1: Francesca, have you still got the candles? Why does it

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Speaker 1: smell like fish just because it was in the in

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Speaker 1: the freezer where the bait goes, Mike, Seriously, people like fish.

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Speaker 1: People like ice cream. It's an Oreo ice cream cake

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Speaker 1: that smells like fish.

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Speaker 2: It's not funny, bad.

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Speaker 1: Start, I got it not funny before the party had started.

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Speaker 1: You can hear the intensity of Lisa's voice lowered candle Francisca, Okay,

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Speaker 1: you would.

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Speaker 3: Have felt so barren in that car.

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Speaker 5: Oh man, I didn't know what to do. I just

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Speaker 5: wanted to get to the cinema hope that the fish

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Speaker 5: would start on the box and not into the old

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Speaker 5: rainbow ice cream. Anyway, Happy birthday, son. I think we

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Speaker 5: did a job.

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Speaker 1: A couple of rumbles and a smish, fish smelling cake.

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Speaker 2: I'll do all the parties for great Dad, great great

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Speaker 2: dad to everyone, it seems to everybody.

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